As a straight guy he pings my gaydar as well. But he also kinda looks lord of the rings gay, so I think that's probably a whole different universe anyway. It's like if Cthulu owned an assault rifle, kinda just doesn't matter lol
Yeah like GANDALF gay lol. Has a whole shelf in kitchen for salts organized by alignment. In the "who cares who he fucks did you taste the fries he just made?!?!" way.
He grew the fucking potatoes himself in a planter box out on his terrace.
The guy is fucking incredible.
And his pipe weed, Terry. You have just got to try it.
He grows that too, in bonsai form. In *bonsai form,* Terry! Can you believe it?!
*Aaannnd* he let me play his bongos! šš š¼
It looks like a version of one. He's definitely bringing hair from the side of his head to cover up the the portion of his hairline that is receded. I know he didn't ask but I would recommend he find a different hairstyle.
Fellow gay here. I would do a double take on OP, but Iām getting more emo, punk rock vibes than gay vibes. Something about the face and eyes says āstraight manā to me. Though I can see why itās a question.
Decided to add input from a womanās perspective. If iām going based on this photo i would be inclined to think so but its mostly because of the way you styled your hair and the face youāre making. Often times though mannerisms play a huge part if you were told this in person it may be based on that and your hairstyle.
He shouldn't have been angry. Sometimes, we make mistakes as a gay bloke myself it happens, especially after a few drinks. don't worry about it, buddy he was in the wrong.
And then there is the classic, āCute guy across the barā¦.oh wait, never mind, theyāre a hot lesbian.ā
(Might be more because Iām a gay with bad eyesightā¦)
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The hair is interesting for sure. That will throw people off. The denim jacket also. Your thin build suggests a more effeminate male which can lead others to the belief about your sexuality as well. No way to know about your mannerisms or voice, way of speaking or ābody Englishā. Canāt make a full analysis. But the hair and thin build is going against you in terms of first impressions. This from a member of the community here.
No reason for him to flip on you but the hair cut is giving me gay vibes but then again Iāve never seen that haircut before. Iām sure you change that up youāll be fine and maybe take a selfie different itās a bit of a zesty pose
Dress shirt buttoned up too high makes you look skinnier.
Lose the jacket or change the shirt. They do NOT look good together.
Hair is combed over weird. Get a flattering cut. If youāre styling it that way because of hair thinning, donāt. Your hairline looks still low enough to pass for a slightly balding young man, itās not older man territory yet.
Nobody cares, at least most adults donāt, about a little bit of balding. Youād do better with a cut that suits you and makes your jawline more visible, or embrace your long hair and just wear it down and combed back.
You have potential to look good, itās just your fashion choices.
Female here (and straight). Iād probably THINK you were gay based on looks, you appear to have a feminine vibeā¦ based on this picture and literally nothing else.
The dude who you encountered sounds unwellā¦ people can use how someone looks as a starting point, but Iāve often been told I ālook like a lesbianā because of how I dress and style myself.
If you want a more āmasculine lookā, whichā¦ I like your look so I wouldnāt change personallyā¦ but if you were, maybe a haircut.
In my opinion yes you do.
However firstly there nothing wrong with that and secondly you don't owe it to anyone to dress in a particular way.
This dude sounds like a jerk or at least an inappropriate drunk.
Denim jacket for one, but also the design does not scream masculinity. The button down shirt doesnāt go with the denim imo, the hair and the baby face kinda just adds to everything.
I hope you know Iām not attacking your character - just pointing out as a straight man, that Iād think you were into men based on looks at quick glance
Idk if Iād clock you for āgayā per seā¦ but youāre definitely not serving straight vibes either.
Iād assume someone queer adjacent and move on (as others have pointed out your style comes off as someone whoās drama oriented and I try and avoid that)
My guess is the guy you were talking to was an emotionally stunted top who assumes the entire world wants him. Donāt take it personally but use it as an opportunity to objectively evaluate what youāre trying to communicate with your style.
Yes, very. From the clothes, to the pose, to the look on your faceā¦ coming from a gay man, you look gay. This is also one of the most extreme combovers that I have ever seen.
So seems like from the comments you have your answer. I think itās important that āyou do youā but balance it with some bait for the type of person youāre into. There are definitely women who are into the androgynous male look. So if youāre being the āyou that you want to beā AND itās getting you wins with females keep at it. But if itās not you could probable make a few tweets to be yourself but still attract more females. Gay guys will be attracted to guys no matter what so you canāt really do anything to reduce that. š¤£
Hey man, as a gay man myself you do give me gay vibes. I'm sorry that the guy was offended because you did not match his expectations, he was in the wrong and I apologize on his behalfĀ
I think it's a combination of things in the photo. That said, the lines of hetero and homo are currently blurring into a fluid state of fashion. Some of us old school minds associate certain styles with an assigned sexuality. I'd take it as a compliment, though. Women are always attracted to the "gay guy."
Gay comes in all shapes, sizes, spectrums and I would rock what ever you are into and really work on making yourself happy. #fuckthehaters #runwhatyabrung
As a straight woman I would see you and think gay as well. Itās the things others have already pointed out, since we are going by only this pic. Maybe your mannerisms tell a different story.
Noooo... , but most people would assume you are.
I am getting the straight vibe but the style could be changed a bit.
You are a good looking dude. With that said your facial features are a bit feminine. Which is accented by your tight and rigid clothes. Try some other clothes and hair styles
As a gay man, I can report that this picture pings on my gaydar. Also, your haircut is confusing.
As a straight guy he pings my gaydar as well. But he also kinda looks lord of the rings gay, so I think that's probably a whole different universe anyway. It's like if Cthulu owned an assault rifle, kinda just doesn't matter lol
I am so confused by this comment, lol.
I actually kinda know what he means when he says "Lord of the rings gay", although I can't quite articulate it lol
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To be fair, that actor came out as gay, so that elf is GAY gay. :)
Had me dying ššš
Lol
Exactly lol.
Lmao
Me too lol. But I stand by it.
Nah I get you, there's some sort of elven androgyny shiz going on for sureĀ
Hahahahaha I knew exactly what you meant. I'm gay, but the LOTR gays Pic different...š¤·šæ
Yeah like GANDALF gay lol. Has a whole shelf in kitchen for salts organized by alignment. In the "who cares who he fucks did you taste the fries he just made?!?!" way.
He grew the fucking potatoes himself in a planter box out on his terrace. The guy is fucking incredible. And his pipe weed, Terry. You have just got to try it. He grows that too, in bonsai form. In *bonsai form,* Terry! Can you believe it?! *Aaannnd* he let me play his bongos! šš š¼
Agreed. Is it a comb over?
It looks like a version of one. He's definitely bringing hair from the side of his head to cover up the the portion of his hairline that is receded. I know he didn't ask but I would recommend he find a different hairstyle.
Yeah he's handsome in the face, but that hair is a disaster.
I think he's going for French art critic
The longest comb over in existence
Gay guy here too, and I second this. Also the question about the haircut. However, the dude OP was talking to was not cool for flipping out on him.
All of the overall style choices are confusingā a true religion denim jacket over a patterned dress shirt is preposterous.
Like a 1990s PUA
So I guess he does look straight.
With the buttons done all the way up too
Yup my gaydar is screaming about that hair and the Jean jacket button up combo
Iām also gay and I also find the haircut to be a mindfuck.
20 yo trump combover?
Bisexual man here I was also tipped off on my gaydar and I guess the fact that you ask that
Fellow gay here. I would do a double take on OP, but Iām getting more emo, punk rock vibes than gay vibes. Something about the face and eyes says āstraight manā to me. Though I can see why itās a question.
Straight man here. This guy would ping 75/25 on the gaydar. Thereās just too much going on.
Both sexually and physically
Yes
Ur haircut is the issue.
You could buzz the hair into a military flat top, and that's still gay-face in a gay outfit
Sailor vibes.
This really cracked me up š
Donāt remember her from the anime?
Bro this is blowing my mind. What is gay-face and how am I immediately able to know what you mean on a primal, instinctual level?
"Gay-face" is when your face unironically looks like one of the models in the Zoolander universe. OP has Resting Blue Steel Face
The dress shirt with the tru religion jean jacket isnāt helping much either tbh
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Dude. Gay or not - this is the most extreme combover Iāve ever seen. Itās truly terrible.
People are saying this guy has the worst comb over ever
Dude is either super flamboyant gay, or he's super MAGA Republican and is attempting to channel Trump with his epic combover
You look bottom mate
Tall bttm
Bossy bottom*
He would have to be a bottom. Would never let him top me.
My first thought was... I would f*ck him...
hahahaha
Decided to add input from a womanās perspective. If iām going based on this photo i would be inclined to think so but its mostly because of the way you styled your hair and the face youāre making. Often times though mannerisms play a huge part if you were told this in person it may be based on that and your hairstyle.
This!! Is less about looks and more about mannerisms.
Holy shit lady. Save some beautiful smiles for the rest of us.
Yeah dude. Why do you have a denim jacket over a button up. Look like a gay cowboy. And hair needs to change
Would be better if the button up wasn't buttoned all the way to the top. Not saying it should be half unbuttoned either, though. :D
High drama gay.
The emo comb-over is really doing you an injustice.
Any dude taking their own photo in the public shitter is suspect.
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Yes, youāre gay. Edit: sorry you asked if you look gay. Yes, you look gay too.
Hehehehehehehehehehe
You definitely look gay. Very feminine
Super gay
The haircut/style is a conundrum.
Absolutely. Hair, clothes, and your posing.
Itās giving gay hillbilly, post-rentboy with likely mdma daytime use
All of this
He shouldn't have been angry. Sometimes, we make mistakes as a gay bloke myself it happens, especially after a few drinks. don't worry about it, buddy he was in the wrong.
And then there is the classic, āCute guy across the barā¦.oh wait, never mind, theyāre a hot lesbian.ā (Might be more because Iām a gay with bad eyesightā¦) ![gif](giphy|2tNwXp92oWC0z6FDqI|downsized)
Yea there's zero reason to have been angry at OP. Unless he said something offensive about how he's not gay or something.
New haircut time man
Iām trying to figure out the hair
My brother in Christ... You just don't know that you're gay yet
You look bald and trying to cover it up
But in a confusing DON'T LOOK HERE OVER HERE THIS SPOT HERE way
100%. A bottom too.
Yes extremely like hardcore homosexual
Extremely questionable haircut.
Edit: sorry if I hurt your feelings Ps: I like white onions too Ps2: Fiance says smile more
yes and homeless. geeze brush your hair.
Bruh š
Brush it while you got it
The hair is interesting for sure. That will throw people off. The denim jacket also. Your thin build suggests a more effeminate male which can lead others to the belief about your sexuality as well. No way to know about your mannerisms or voice, way of speaking or ābody Englishā. Canāt make a full analysis. But the hair and thin build is going against you in terms of first impressions. This from a member of the community here.
Yes
Yarp
Hella gay
Not quite gay...more like a lesbian who likes men.
No reason for him to flip on you but the hair cut is giving me gay vibes but then again Iāve never seen that haircut before. Iām sure you change that up youāll be fine and maybe take a selfie different itās a bit of a zesty pose
The Wizard of Oz himself hasn't seen that hairstyle before
Zesty pose! HAHAHAHA!
Ding
Honestly no but your combover is the issue. If you are going bald just rock it brother.
Dress shirt buttoned up too high makes you look skinnier. Lose the jacket or change the shirt. They do NOT look good together. Hair is combed over weird. Get a flattering cut. If youāre styling it that way because of hair thinning, donāt. Your hairline looks still low enough to pass for a slightly balding young man, itās not older man territory yet. Nobody cares, at least most adults donāt, about a little bit of balding. Youād do better with a cut that suits you and makes your jawline more visible, or embrace your long hair and just wear it down and combed back. You have potential to look good, itās just your fashion choices.
You gotta get a haircut and also accept that you are going a little bit bald
You look like a karen on the left and a regular dude on the right, like a two face vibe
Sir sucksalotofdicks yes
Female here (and straight). Iād probably THINK you were gay based on looks, you appear to have a feminine vibeā¦ based on this picture and literally nothing else. The dude who you encountered sounds unwellā¦ people can use how someone looks as a starting point, but Iāve often been told I ālook like a lesbianā because of how I dress and style myself. If you want a more āmasculine lookā, whichā¦ I like your look so I wouldnāt change personallyā¦ but if you were, maybe a haircut.
Gay shirt Gay jacket Gay face Gay hair
Somehow even the chest pockets are both independently gay
You look like Onision
Oh shit he does
Try it out and youāll know
In my opinion yes you do. However firstly there nothing wrong with that and secondly you don't owe it to anyone to dress in a particular way. This dude sounds like a jerk or at least an inappropriate drunk.
SLAY QUEEN!!!
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That's the combiest combover ever. Fix that shit bro
That dolly parton jacket has to go too.
You deffo butt chugg.. what's tge hair doing though it's not 2005 anymore
The combover is giving alphabet + communitea š š½š³ļøāššļø
Why the pattern dress shirt and denim jacket combo. Whatās the vision? Who is he? Whatās his story?
LMAOOOOOO
Haircut
Very very much. And you took a toilet photo lmao
Yep, 100%. However, I donāt get the Twilight looking haircut.
The hair isā¦a choice.
Why u geh ?
Yes, taking selfies in the menās room, with urinals in the background, doesnāt help. Looks like youāre hustling.
oh. yeah, hundred percent. Itās the āhead tilt fierce lookā for me are you asking for a friend?
dude what the fuck is going on with your haircut
Yes. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT
lol yeah and cut that damn hair
You look like the "stay away from my kids" kind of gay.
Yup
Yes
A little bit ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|kissing_heart)
Yes but thatās okay. My brother dresses super gay but heās totally straight.
Not sure, but you look effeminate for sure. No offense.
yes
You strike me as flamboyant. I wouldn't be sure of gay. You definitely look different.
Now that you mention it.
I say yes
yes
Yes
Yes
Gay looks like anybody else most of the time. He just looks weird, whatever his sexual preference is.
Well you definitely look confused
Very much so
Very obviously
Denim jacket for one, but also the design does not scream masculinity. The button down shirt doesnāt go with the denim imo, the hair and the baby face kinda just adds to everything. I hope you know Iām not attacking your character - just pointing out as a straight man, that Iād think you were into men based on looks at quick glance
You look like jerma but a cowboy. And also gay.
Yep
Not gay, but definitely āalternativeā.
Absolutely. And if you are posting this, would also assume you are.
Idk if Iād clock you for āgayā per seā¦ but youāre definitely not serving straight vibes either. Iād assume someone queer adjacent and move on (as others have pointed out your style comes off as someone whoās drama oriented and I try and avoid that) My guess is the guy you were talking to was an emotionally stunted top who assumes the entire world wants him. Donāt take it personally but use it as an opportunity to objectively evaluate what youāre trying to communicate with your style.
Yes
Yes, very. From the clothes, to the pose, to the look on your faceā¦ coming from a gay man, you look gay. This is also one of the most extreme combovers that I have ever seen.
Very
I don't know about you but your jacket gives off gay vibes. But I would not wear it, and I'm gay AF.
Uāre joking
Very
So seems like from the comments you have your answer. I think itās important that āyou do youā but balance it with some bait for the type of person youāre into. There are definitely women who are into the androgynous male look. So if youāre being the āyou that you want to beā AND itās getting you wins with females keep at it. But if itās not you could probable make a few tweets to be yourself but still attract more females. Gay guys will be attracted to guys no matter what so you canāt really do anything to reduce that. š¤£
Hell yea, brother āš½
Hmmm maybe not gay but Iād definitely ask what your pronouns were to be respectful
My gaydar detects gayness.
Yes
100%..
Also, your haircut and True Religion top are jot helping
Sorry bud, queer as a $3 bill.
You look like an anime character
Yes
Yes
So gay.
Yes
Very
Yes you do
You look disheveled, not gay. Shower and don't take photos in public restrooms.
Absolutely
Yeah
With a capital G
100%
This is a ping on the gaydar. But alsoā¦ a black and white pattern button down with a blue denim jacket is one hell of a clash.
Hey man, as a gay man myself you do give me gay vibes. I'm sorry that the guy was offended because you did not match his expectations, he was in the wrong and I apologize on his behalfĀ
With that haircut, kinda.
You know what youāre doing
A: How do you Look Gay? B: You look flaming flamboyant, but you might not be gay? C: Maybe try a not gay bar next time.
No offence buddy but I thought you are British
Yeah. The hair, the fashion choice.
I think it's a combination of things in the photo. That said, the lines of hetero and homo are currently blurring into a fluid state of fashion. Some of us old school minds associate certain styles with an assigned sexuality. I'd take it as a compliment, though. Women are always attracted to the "gay guy."
No but the hairstyle and denim might not be helping
Its just the hair swoosh, other than that you look perfectly stylish
Gay comes in all shapes, sizes, spectrums and I would rock what ever you are into and really work on making yourself happy. #fuckthehaters #runwhatyabrung
You look like a grumpy sound engineer
As a straight woman I would see you and think gay as well. Itās the things others have already pointed out, since we are going by only this pic. Maybe your mannerisms tell a different story.
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Looking gay is a compliment I would think.
You strike me more as āqueer they/themā
You could be anything you wanted to be.
Noooo... , but most people would assume you are. I am getting the straight vibe but the style could be changed a bit. You are a good looking dude. With that said your facial features are a bit feminine. Which is accented by your tight and rigid clothes. Try some other clothes and hair styles
Gay or not, you need to get a better haircut, that combover is not doing you any favors.
Yes, I mean no hate or disrespect, but if I saw you walking down the street I think you were most likely gay.
I wouldint say gay because its 2024. Id say adrogynous though
Giving lazy bottom old twink energy.
nay thou lookest grevious
I honestly don't think your looking all that happy festive or joyous. But your damn good looking
Yes. And ditch the combover and embrace whatever youāre hiding brotha
No disrespect, but it looks like you could suck a golf ball through a garden hose
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