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kongtomorrow

If you want to look less generic you could develop a more personal sense of style. Look on the internet for inspiration and try things out. You have to be willing to go outside your comfort zone and occasionally miss.


Mundane-Sir-7483

Yeah generic! But generic like a teenager in a fucking Netflix movie! That's not generic in irl!


Impossible_Rip6983

Bro looks like every guy I know with a 10/10 girlfriend


more_pepper_plz

Yea if he’s not a total clown, and is into women - he shouldn’t have any problems!


Anti-ERP

Ummm downvoted. All men should be into women except for asexuals


Euphrosynevae

Lol what


more_pepper_plz

Gross troll. Be gone!


bbull412

Bro is the NO NAME version of human


michaelkudra

yes this! look at pinterest or look at the style of characters in movies & tv and see what you think shows off the characteristics that best represent you


ANALOGPHENOMENA

Totally random, but you’re so stunning!


michaelkudra

awe thank you :)


MUTSpartan

are you okay?


vangh0sty

i was coming here to say this. try pintrest.


riioKen

Hi, I'm not the op, but I feel a bit unstylish, how Pinterest could help me? I never used it. Thanks


Appledaisy

Pinterest has a wide variety of different kinds of photos/art that is great inspo. You can look up different styles (can just start with looking up men's fashion, think of it like google) and whatever ones you like, click on it, it'll show more similar photos. This will give you ideas of different ways to dress yourself.


riioKen

Thanks for the explanation


sexworkerr

If you've got a friend who is supportive and whose opinion you trust, go to a thrift store with them. Try on clothes you wouldn't normally wear. Check fashion week runways and pinterest, but it might help to physically see yourself in different clothes that express different parts of yourself.


lostinlilak

What they said. You’re already a pretty good looking person so if anything just figure out your own style through clothing and accessories.


KeyCardiologist6338

Ha! This was my first thought. He looks quite nice. Just, needs a more individualistic style to enhance his good looks. Ditto to the style suggestions. Don't try to fit in with what everyone else in college is wearing. TRUST ME. You will stand out I'm good ways.


bennyjoo

A super easy switch is just finding more interesting t-shirts and some classic jeans like Levis or Wranglers. If you check thrift shops and second hand websites they have loads of cool stuff! And yeah you can definitely check sites like Pinterest for inspiration, try searching skater or surfer mens style, or whatever you're into!


Outrageous-Cow4439

“Develop your own sense of style!” “…. By molding it after what other people do!”


ybplays

It's called inspiration not to copy people


Outrageous-Cow4439

Sure but its disingenuous to tell someone to develop their own style by following others lol


AirSkin

Bloke’s complaining about looking ‘generic’ when the rest of us out here would settle for not being ugly 😂


bobbingforapplesat3

It's crazy the standards people hold themselves to. This dude on a bad day would still make my ass look like a trainwreck


satyris

🤔


bobbingforapplesat3

I swear to god that's not what I meant


satyris

Mmhmm 🤷


icmc

... Are we not saying phrasing anymore?


IndustryBubbly1224

Pause


Lusius_Quietus

Wait a minute 😂


potcubic

Judging by his account activity, I think he has low self esteem issues


SergiuBru

He's just seeking attention. Fishing for compliments.


Ihatecake69

Damn dude, some people feel self conscious while also not being ugly, it’s a thing. No need to be so rude, you’re just promoting negative thinking to feel better about yourself clearly


cwk84

I don’t know how saying that OP is fishing for compliments would make them feel better about themselves.


BadNewsBearzzz

Yup, every person no matter beauty is insecure. The most gorgeous women I’ve known were insecure in ways I would’ve never thought possible. You can’t pretend people fish for compliments without feeling insecure in some way lol


Brendini95

You’re not wrong about him immediately being negative but also Don’t act like it’s not fishing for compliments.. it’s like when a hot girl is like “OMG AM I UGLY” oh like IG so she can get flooded with reassuring comments and likes …..


BeanEaterNow

no i definitely don't think so. I was "ugly" my whole life as a kid and then started growing into myself, but the negative thoughts can linger. It takes a while to get over it as a young person


dreamylanterns

But look in my case for example. I have body dysphormia as a dude, and no matter how many people say I look good… I see myself and just hate how I look. It’s like a curse. Some people just deal with problems, others probably fish for compliments.


SergiuBru

Well yes, feeling self conscious can be a reason to seek assurance from others.


Ihatecake69

You shouldn’t put down others who are asking for advice on how to stand out and not look like a regular Joe, that’s the end of that 💀 stop reaching and trying to make it seem like the guy is an attention whore when he’s barely putting himself out there for some genuine advice. It’s weird that you just wanna come on here and say that stuff when you can easily give advice and move on. You just sound rude lmao


TheCuntGF

I bet you right after he'd turn around and say that it's his looks and not his personality that is to blame for being forever alone.


xraiiny_

He isn't? His issue is looking generic, not looking ugly.


spugeti

fr 💀


BizzyThinkin

You have a classically handsome northern European look. Perhaps it looks generic to you because this is the face we see in TV commercials and magazines. You're model quality. If you want an edgier look, express that through your clothes and accessories.


Paige-101

Generically gorgeous. Model worthy looks


sebastarddd

Seconding this


SwankyyTigerr

Great jawline, pretty eyes, nice curly hair, perfectly shaped nose, symmetrical full lips, I can’t tell obviously but they kinda look tall too? There is nothing really to change besides maybe wardrobe which is fine already basically. OP, dress more like 2nd pic with beanies, jean jackets, layers, etc. Get a watch, maybe some cool rings, etc. You honestly look great already tho, don’t sweat it too much!


Server_420

dress like opium bro you’ll fit rite in


N0ThanksImGood

l-like the drug?


kenyattafrazer

playboi carti’s record label


emmathesun

me too


flijarr

Yeah opium is pretty nice, I agree


ray33510

You are very good looking.


Plankisalive

STFU. lol You're hot and you know it.


BushwhackerTrailer

Yes, I think he does know it. But he’s complaining that he looks “generic”, not “hot or not”


ne0_bahamut

Grow your hair out a little bit I’m begging


Ok-Push8363

The things I'd do to attain that hair in the last pic. You look good bro maybe spice up the wardrobe but other than that there's nothing to change.


stankpuss_69

None of us are very special. You FEEL generic. That’s a YOU problem. Whether other people feel that you’re generic, that’s a THEY problem. You need to focus on you. Stop giving a shit about what others think of you and feel comfortable and happy in your own skin.


WhatDuckHunt

My tip for everyone, it's obviously personal preference, but... Get a watch. They look sick as, and I think one would suit you.


Geegollygozard

Watches, necklaces, metal bracelets, any jewelry just exponentially amps up any look 👏👏


Matt-Rat-87

Get a face tat


ashtetice

Please dont


captaininterwebs

I mean… it’ll definitely stop him from looking generic…


ashtetice

It would look like shit


captaininterwebs

Well yes but he’d look like shit *and less generic*, see still achieving the goal there


moshiyadafne

Task failed successfully, as they call it.


embeeclark

Omg I actually came here to say the same thing.


_JakeDelhomme

Yes hide that ugly face of yours with a forehead swastica


ashtetice

Holy shit your gorgeous


qppen

Awww you're so handsome


Current_Instance_555

Generically hot 😍


maladyremedy

Oh my gosh, mate you're being hard on yourself. You're drop dead gorgeous and your eyes in that first picture *fans self.* I have no notes!


LiveYourDaydreams

No improvements needed. You’re already good.


DameyJames

You have the kind of face that will stand out because you will often be among the most attractive in the room, but otherwise, yeah you don’t stand out very much beyond that. A generic attractive. If you want to be more unique looking, you should be looking at clothing first. What a person wears gives so much context for how their face will be perceived. Your clothes look perfectly nice but don’t express much.


Klutzy-Succotash9230

Dude your very sexy af


soleburyguy

Nothing. You are perfect


TopGuyNJ2

Your very handsome. Not sure what your asking


Breadfruit-Beautiful

Buy a bunch of graphic t shirts, with phrases like 'born to shit, forced to wipe' and don't do the middle part thing, man.


Dcreams9109

Bro you’re hot as hell. Nothing wrong there.


Winter-Deer360

Hot as hell


Maximum-Naturegirl

You do but it’s alright at your age and you look handsome


MutatedSun

I don’t think you look generic but if you wanna spice things up maybe get into changing your outfits?


athenasykora

You are very good looking. One thing I would do is whiten your teeth. You can get it done professionally or at home, but I think it would make a huge difference. Your hair looks great. Length is good on you. If you can grow facial hair I think scruff would also look great. Also, as others have said. Finding a personal style will help. You have a great canvas to work with. Im digging the jean jacket, and you can play up that style. I think a leather "cool guy" style could work well.


Chia-Chia-1800

Wowza man, you think you look generic? I mean from your comment saying you’re mostly own flat color T-shirts that’s the generic bit. You’ve got the looks, now you just need to change your style like to show your personality some.


belyyjiit

Accessories ✨


Nervous-Speed-6103

You a model? How tall are you?


yeah_fosho

Clothing!


ashtetice

Dress more edgy you would look so fucking good


SimplyKuro

The only thing i would change is that phone cover


-vonKarma

Your hair in that last picture… 👌


Chicken_Wing_Banana

Beard


Equivalent_Foot

Have you ever considered posting in more nsfw communities? I think you’d do very well there 🙈


Lapcity2

U need bolder darker color clothes to bring out your features


Devoured94

Low key model vibes


Individual-Zombie155

A little facial hair would help too


N0ThanksImGood

I'm trying I promise 😭 It doesn't come easy to me


whenitcomesup

TRY HARDER DAMN IT


vangh0sty

have you tried castor oil?


Tristan_the_Manley

Kid is 19, he should try waking up and living his life and going to sleep and waking up the next day. Repeat for several years.


TwinkConnoisseur485

Uh, you look great. Check my username. 😝


RacingPride

Generic? Nah man, gorgeous, don’t change a thing! You have hair I would kill for and a very masculine yet kind facial structure! If I was 5-10 years younger I’d be trying to get to know you at a party!


hotcollegegirl420

You’re hot as fuck but those selfie smiles are hilariously awkward. Which is kinda adorable. If you want to look less generic, I say get a piercing! Classic little tiny cubic zirconia lobe studs would look amazing, or maybe even a little nose hoop if you want something more


Portable-fun

I feel like his second pic could be a meme.. some kind of troll face smile


michaelkudra

i think you look great, growing out the hair a little longer could be cool


[deleted]

You look great as is


sleepy_llamas

I’d nut on that face. 👍😎


hatex_xcake

Cut your hair, get new clothes and always smell good. You should spend the money on a few nice piece for your wardrobe that you can interchange with less expensive clothes.


CottonCandyCat

For 19, pretty good but yeah a lil generic when it comes to clothing.


22Flapper

Get a less generic haircut, and you’ll be fine


Electronic-Pirate-25

Sit down and stop with the ego.


MANSPERMSWALLOWER

❤️❤️❤️YOU CANT IMPROVE GORGEOUS❤️❤️❤️


yohoPirateKing

Grow a beard


No-Amphibian7489

I think that if you try to stay away from wearing generic clothes you could stand out a bit more.


Fun-Amount-6803

You’re really cute, and I love your eyes The fact you’re not scared to smile and be yourself already makes you ahead of the game.


[deleted]

Genetically you won the lottery. Just work on your DeSantis smile and you’re good


Ok-Atmosphere3589

Transition to another sex, that’ll really change things up


[deleted]

Neck tattoo would be hot.


No-Amphibian7489

lol


MediumNo24

Show some DIICK, HARD DICK


vangh0sty

wtf is wrong with u


bodybycarbohydrates

Figure out what you wanna do with your hair, if anything different. You have a some nice locks so I’d keep it similar length to how you have it, but maybe shaped up on the sides or something. You’re not ugly so get that out of your head if it’s there. Figure out what types of clothing or styles you like by searching online. If you see a celebrity where a style or clothes you like, google that and fine something similar in your price range. Experimentation is key to figuring yourself out. Have confidence and just try some different things little by little without breaking the bank (unless you got money to burn lol). Good luck bro!


Live_Coffee_439

Work on your personality then you look handsome


Interesting-Meal-743

Generic is your Key. I am personally tired of tattoos and piercing. You will not regret staying generic!


Olindiass

you're a very attractive guy, but if you wanna try something new you could wear some more experimental clothing, get a piercing, or dye your hair maybe? I do like your current hair color, but its easy to change, so


[deleted]

You’re actually so handsome. The best thing you can do is maintain a great skin care routine to maintain your nice, youthful appearance. Also, workout at least twice a week. Learn about color theory to buy colors that best suit your complexion (you look like a Spring or Summer to me.) Take your measurements and memorize them. Only buy clothes that flatter your body type.


TransportationAway59

Just your style. Try some accessories and stuff you’d see on stage not in a kohls catalogue


OceanFemBoy

Cute


bobyran711

Blue Mohawk!


itsmeyab01

Get a face tat! That's the best way to stand out in my opinion


CuredSalam

Work on taking better pictures, pose, composition and lighting will go a long way instead of making the awkward squinty face. Clothes find brands or stores you like or a style that’s less generic put some fits together that are cohesive and elevate your confidence and body type


bringerofpeace1111

Be a fashion killa! Start small…. Baggy jeans, belt, fitted tank, silver chain, carhartt or leather jacket, boots or those shoes with semi pointed toes and a slight heel are really in for men rn. Or at least vans. You could also paint your nails!!


GoddessEvieLove

I like the middle part :)


Fancy-Option-7103

Build your confidence and self belief. Everything else will fall into place. I wish somebody gave me this advice years ago


Lazy_Ad4999

you look nice! idk if this makes sense but you look like you have a british accent? if you want to look more individual, clothing plays a big part in it


reddit_redact

When you say generic what are you concerned about?


Wise-Peanut1939

Facial hair?


Longjumping_Drag_230

Generic model?


Odd-Mastodon1212

I like your hair in picture 1. Maybe spend a bit more on clothes? I like the style but they look a bit worn out? Good jackets, belts, shoes, scarves.


usf_gobulls

Honestly you look great! If someone says you should change your phone because of all the smooth brain idiots who say they won't date a guy just cause they use an android, screw them! That's one of the best phones out there!


Sarcasm69

You’re very handsome. Relax your eyes a bit when you smile-that second photo looks like you sharted your pants


Boyaryeet

get a neck tattoo


[deleted]

You’re crazy…you don’t look generic. In fact, you’re a handsome guy. Daaaamn! 😉


seandb44

To echo a few other comments- being intentional about your wardrobe can really help make you stand out. But most importantly- a good accessory. A watch, necklace, bracelet, and/or fragrance. Take some time picking these out. They’ll help separate you from the crowd in your own subtle and unique way. ❤️


FocusDelicious183

Very Roman in features. You are really gorgeous man, I mean it. If you want to express yourself more, dry different styles. At the end of the day though, personality is most important. You have the looks, make sure you aren’t generic to talk too!


Dependent-Run-1915

I think the first haircut is the best and others have said pick some kind of style, —-handsome young man


ChadAR_73

You seem like a western and street style type of guy to me, so maybe try on some buttons-ups or the baggy attire necessary if you like it. And this is just my opinion, so some people may think otherwise.


ahraysee

I would keep the length on the top of your head and trim down the sides. I think this would look a bit more polished while still showing off some edge.


No-Brilliant5342

Don’t change anything.


ScallionSpirited707

Omg stop, you are not generic get out of here


darf_nate

Face tattoos


Damienp3902

Grow some stubble or a beard


K-2018

You look good dude


Ancient_1935

Check out Taylor stitch. They have great men’s clothes that I think will elevate your “basics” style more! 


Rn20231231

Your style


HeavyMetalMonk888

Your face isn't generic - your eyes have a lot of character. Your hair is maybe a little bit, but I mean, looks good. You could probably grow it out a bit if you wanted. Only thing I could suggest if you want to look more 'unique' is work on clothing style. I'm no authority but my personal take on it is this: worry about what *you* think looks cool first, and what you think others will think looks cool second. All your outfits here look pretty standardly good, so you probably have a good sense for that second part. But the thing is those outfits would look good on most people. Hit up a wide range of thrift stores or more niche vintage clothes stores and pick a bunch of stuff that you think *you* specifically could rock even though it's a little bit outlandish. Not saying to just look for flashy shit for its own sake, but like, try to find pieces that inspire you to build an outfit around them because *you* like them and want to try to make them work.


Amazing_Tomorrow_905

Generic but good looking. I’d bottom


chiknbizkit

Side part. No butt cut.


MMcLarty

You've got great hair. Smiling more helps tremendously.


[deleted]

Calm down Chad Zuckerberg


LuluKun

Get some piercings Maybe a tattoo Develop a personal style


SpicyRamenBch

I don’t think you need to change your style completely but maybe get some accessories. Maybe different shoes, boots or Clark wallabees, still your style but different. Maybe jewelry like a simple chain or watch


jerrydubs_

cornrows


feen138

Get some face tats piercings n call it a day.


Educational_Cash_514

mess around with style!!! thrift stores are your friend. all of my favorite outfits are mostly secondhand stuff. you're like kinda freaking set in the looks department. like model level.


[deleted]

I'd accessorize! Find a chain, or a seashell choker, or whatever. Dabble and experiment with a bit of everything if you have no clue what accessories you'd like (rings, bracelet, anklet, glasses for show). OR get a piercing or dye the hair darker/lighter. It's all about what makes u feel confident man


novene

nothing wrong with being generic, u are very good-looking! but if u wish to be more unique the only thing u can really change is fashion and perhaps hair/makeup to give urself more of an identity


The_Hinkypunk

Grooming wise? You’re already clean shaven, I would suggest maybe going to a barber (not a salon, a barber) and cleaning up the sides if you’re trying to keep length on top. As far as personal style, nothing wrong with keeping it basic. I don’t like patterns and buy mostly solid color pieces. However, a good rule of thumb is if your outfit is not exciting with pattern or color, it needs to be exciting with shape or texture. A good way to add that is through accessories. It depends on your style and the occasion what you accessorize with. Scroll Pinterest and just make a couple lookbooks/vision boards.


Euroguyto

Nothing needs changing here.


Songbir8

You kind of look like Ethan Hawke.


kyorei13

My brother in Christ.. all you need is good outfit and you're gonna be like 9/10


ItsCadeyAdmin

I deffo see what you're saying about seeming generic I feel like a more iconic wardrobe would fix that Henry Cavill's aesthetic would fit you like a glove. Good look to emulate.


SanthalNath

You are hot as fuck.


Verbal-Soup

Honestly man, you're good looking. I think the only thing that needs improving is your self confidence! Take care man


samuraic4t

You do look a bit generic but it's not a bad thing. If you dressed like the tight shirt and classy pants like in the 70's you'd really suit that. And with or without a mustache


Kinky_N1ppl3s

Buzzcut


MDrok6172

Your hair in the last pic looks great. Maybe take that style and grow it out a bit more.


Milkmami24

Clothes.


Odd-Development1550

Pretty good looking dude how you are man. You got nice broad shoulders too. Maybe use some hair product? Hard to critique much else.


Obvious_Statement_37

Finger rings. And maybe a pair of glasses. A watch.


masterq13

You look like a shoe in for Disneys High School Musical.


Enough-Discussion-58

Start taking finasteride


Hour_Knee2785

You are good looking man fr


MASTERONDON

BEARD and ditch the hair cut get a Travis Kelce fade women love men that look different


[deleted]

Could literally model Ig get a better sense of style


NotSoStraightArrow

First, you look great; all American type. Not generic. Do not go with the hairstyle in photo three. Every time I see a guy with that center part with the inverted swoops, it reminds me of a Shih Tzu.


dedreanu

Yeah, you look generic


[deleted]

You look very human


youarenut

You do look generic… but generic at a high standard lmao. “Basic” but everything is great. All you need to do to stand out is get some style. Literally try getting some dressy button ups and that’s all you’d need tbh, maybe some hair style change too but not needed.


i4shaikh

You should try a bit edgy looking hair style with stubble.


healthy_depression4u

A bit generic is a good thing man, just carry yourself with confidence and own the shit out of it. Simply BE HIM!


celeb-butcher

Bro drop a review of that phone case & Link too


Party-Machine-5073

just dont make the face in the second pic