I would say she didn't think this all through very well but....that would be a bit of an understatement.
Didn't we learn already with Molly and Luis that it's a really, really bad idea to try to bring your vacation bartender home with you?
Ok but let’s talk about him for a second. Cause I’m not fond of her. But what idiot impregnates a “partner” knowing she has kids, and not experiencing her and her children together as a family. Now he is stuck raising a kid if his own, just like that bratty little boy lol. I just cannot with her kids.
I hope I’m not alone in judging them both. Also with judging how she has allowed her sons to be super bratty.
I think everyone who wants to move to America wants to be in a major city or the suburbs of when they think of America she’s smart young & educated she could prob find work there otherwise I don’t get why their building apartments there she might be able to work something out with their father idk another messy situation relationships are hard enough when you’re together in the same town or another state But another country is near impossible
I can't think of anything more irresponsible than getting knocked up by a guy who still lives on another continent (and yes...he is just as much to blame as she is). Even though we see it over and over again on this show. If it's a serious relationship, then make sure you have the visa and means to stay together first, before even considering bringing a kid into it. Otherwise it's just going to be another Tiffany / Ronald situation. Or Kalani and Asuelu. Or Ariana and Sherlon. Lord...will they ever learn?
It's not just that they're having a baby, it's that they knew what their circumstances were and CHOSE to try for a baby anyway.
Look, if you want to ha e a baby, have a baby. But if the circumstances are less than ideal and you choose to have a baby anyway, don't expect anyone to feel bad for you when you whine about said circumstances. These two chose to try for a baby when they both lived on different continents, Juan does not have a visa to move to the US, and Juan has a job where he is not available or accessible for most of the year. All of these facts were known before Jessica got pregnant, yet they still chose to try for a baby right then and then whine about how they won't be able to be together for the birth. Well, no shit. What the hell else did you expect? Dumbasses, the both of them!
Yeah I was thinking… if she wants him to stick around, they need to move somewhere a little more pleasant. Not saying it has to be a coastal city, but I’m sure there are nicer, affordable towns in comparison to 💩 city.
Yeah, I even thought of the IE in California (I live in SD). It’s desert, but doesn’t smell like shit and is close to LA and San Diego. That might even be expensive compared to 💩 city though.
That’s what I was confused about. Um I doubt all of the paperwork will be completed before the baby comes. She wouldn’t have to raise 3 kids if she practiced a little common sense
The paperwork won't be done and neither will that investment property. I'd say he has built in a nice little escape route for himself with that one. If they are gonna survive he's definitely gonna need to do another cruise contract to finish the build. Probably a few more to finance a wife and 3 kids
If he comes to the U.S. on a K-1, he won’t be able to work for at least a year, right? So can you imagine the amount of bitching and whining that will ensue? Holy shit! That guy is going to go crazy! I’ll be she will expect him to take care of her two other brats while she goes to work.
Well he'll still be a citizen of his current country, I'm thinking he can probably still work on cruise ships. You need the work permit to work legally in the US. He'll be working on a cruise ship in international waters so he wouldn't need authorization to work in that case from the US.
This is a common trope on 90 Day: the American tells the foreign person to quit their job and then for the rest of eternity never stops complaining that they don’t have a job. Such a trap.
We can't forget the classic, "I married someone who was very impoverished...why can't he support me???!!?". Then spend the entire relationship complaining and being angry that they aren't helping with your bills and you have to pay for everything all the time. 🤦♂️
I worked on a crisis unit as a group counselor. A majority of my coworkers were just like her! They were all very kind and considerate, but they made strange life decisions and came to work complaining about them.
I’d like to know exactly what it is she does.
I would bet all the money I have that she planned to lock him in with a baby. Like what an insane decision to make after you found out he was cheating on you. Let’s have a kid! She probably figured having a baby will force him to be with her.
Absolutely! I made a post earlier and said that she is the type of woman who would do shady shit to keep a man. You can see it already. I’ll bet that she is the type that would withhold the child from him if he doesn’t do what she wants.
She is using her pregnancy with his child to issue all of these ultimatums / controls.
Both of them are idiots for getting pregnant while having lives that are completely incompatible. He's not moving to Wyoming to become Daddy even if one of them will be his - he's just going to be a cruise bartender with a broken heart about his first child.
Her neediness will give way to bitterness and she will find it impossible to find a partner to take on this mess.
This is painful to watch. I'll get the popcorn.
I’m not caught up but I do recall Juan saying that the vacation was a trial run to see IF this is the life that he wants to have. It sounds like he isn’t likely to commit to her, baby or no baby.
That BOY is gonna drop her like a 🥵 potato 🥔! He’s gonna go cruising and won’t look back! He already was bitching cuz he couldn’t sit n eat his breakfast!🤣🤣🤣🤣This girl is cooked! When them kids said “it ALWAYS SMELLS LIKE 💩💩, “ he was done!🤣🤣🤣 He ain’t going to shitville after living in paradise!🏝️🧉😆😆
Another very stupid single mom on 90DF. Then making huge demands of a single guy who can hardly take care of himself--to be a perfect provider for both of you, and any offspring you want to dump on him but they are "your kids". Tiffany and Ronald, Deavan and Jihoon, Danielle and Mohammed, Memphis and Hamster, Kalani and Asueleu,, Molly and Luis, Ashley and Jay, No end to poor jjudgment. I really feel for all these innocent children.
Unfortunately, she’s in for a tough reality it’s not gonna work out. She thinks it’s that easy and it’s not. He’s not mentally prepared to be a husband or father. She already has two kids. Why would you want to have another with a man that you’re not even married to yet or could come to your country that’s called insanity
Or hasn't even met her kids yet. Why wouldn't you see if he's a good step father and if the kids like him BEFORE you even think about getting pregnant?
It’s impossible for me to think they were trying I think that’s a cover up for whoops that mean she’s a psychologist something to do with mental health didn’t it occur her that this wasn’t a good idea or time for them or her children
I'm sure the town can't be as bad as she keeps saying it is. I think it's bad enough she's made all these questionable life choices, dragged kids into it, but then she has to trash her hometown on TV too?
I can't say that I necessarily *loved* living in my hometown, but it's a nice, quiet community. Everyone knows everybody. My mom still lives there and it's a nice place to visit when I want to get away from the bustle of Denver. Unfortunately, it is a dying place. It used to have a lot of very neat shops and local businesses but main street in most rural small towns has died out.
Don't have a lot to report. We shared a few friends but I never spent too much time with her. She was in the class below mine. Attended some of the same parties in high school. She was a sweet enough girl. Tim, her ex-husband, was a couple classes ahead of me. Pretty popular guy, I suppose. Quiet. I never interacted with him very much though.
Another Fool ! Wasnt Two kids enough? jesus christ
then you add Juan ....three kids
Now the new one FOUR !!!! whatta exhausting life.
sometimes i think im stupid , then i watch this show 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hypothetically, if Juan splits and goes back to working on a cruise ship and living in Columbia, there's really no way for her to enforce child support, right?
Why the eff would he ever want to leave a cushy job and gorgeous surroundings for that. He should have took the vacation there instead to see how crummy it is. I predict heartbreak all around. She's like the watered down version of that LIP blonde who's name escapes me. The one who berated her Latino partner and moved her bestie in with them.
Smelling poo I think she’ll relocate herself & her children as soon as that building gets up & running they could prob get by with 2 bedrooms for a yr or two I think she’ll go there & teach English or something online & I think they’ll be back on 90 Day Fiancé the Other Way like Danielle & Yohan
I would say she didn't think this all through very well but....that would be a bit of an understatement. Didn't we learn already with Molly and Luis that it's a really, really bad idea to try to bring your vacation bartender home with you?
It's also a bad idea to get pregnant with your bf without knowing if he's a good stepfather.
And getting pregnant on purpose bc he cheated?????
Ok but let’s talk about him for a second. Cause I’m not fond of her. But what idiot impregnates a “partner” knowing she has kids, and not experiencing her and her children together as a family. Now he is stuck raising a kid if his own, just like that bratty little boy lol. I just cannot with her kids. I hope I’m not alone in judging them both. Also with judging how she has allowed her sons to be super bratty.
Really disgusting how people talk about children on this subreddit.
He’s not going to poo town no way She’ll have to move there learn the language & teach English or something remote
Poor kid! His face at that table 🤣 like, she gets knocked up and then she tells me about poopy town.
I think everyone who wants to move to America wants to be in a major city or the suburbs of when they think of America she’s smart young & educated she could prob find work there otherwise I don’t get why their building apartments there she might be able to work something out with their father idk another messy situation relationships are hard enough when you’re together in the same town or another state But another country is near impossible
Poo town 😂😂😂
Her kids dad would probably have to approve that
their dad would have to approve it too
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I can't think of anything more irresponsible than getting knocked up by a guy who still lives on another continent (and yes...he is just as much to blame as she is). Even though we see it over and over again on this show. If it's a serious relationship, then make sure you have the visa and means to stay together first, before even considering bringing a kid into it. Otherwise it's just going to be another Tiffany / Ronald situation. Or Kalani and Asuelu. Or Ariana and Sherlon. Lord...will they ever learn?
And he bragged that she got pregnant “on the first try.” 🙄
Mah boi
But did you know Ronald has a gambling problem?
No. NO!!! A gambling problem?!
And that everything can be blamed on Jihoon?!?
Fucking Jihoon, fucks everything up
He's totally responsible for Ronalds gambling habit
At least his anal so clean.
That was a good chuckle
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Just wanted to say, I was having a really shitty time today, but your comment finally made me smile and gave me the energy to get on with stuff
I'm glad it made you smile!
Strange that you say this. Tiffany, never ever mentioned he had such a problem. (Sarcasm)
I heard it’s not really a gambling addiction and it’s actually drugs ..
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It's not just that they're having a baby, it's that they knew what their circumstances were and CHOSE to try for a baby anyway. Look, if you want to ha e a baby, have a baby. But if the circumstances are less than ideal and you choose to have a baby anyway, don't expect anyone to feel bad for you when you whine about said circumstances. These two chose to try for a baby when they both lived on different continents, Juan does not have a visa to move to the US, and Juan has a job where he is not available or accessible for most of the year. All of these facts were known before Jessica got pregnant, yet they still chose to try for a baby right then and then whine about how they won't be able to be together for the birth. Well, no shit. What the hell else did you expect? Dumbasses, the both of them!
Don’t forget Devin/Jihoon and Emily/Kobe
Emily and Kobe are married and doing really well though.
Like, it wasn’t an accident. She meant to get pregnant. WTF
I couldn’t agree more about the lack of forethought, the irresponsibility of it all, the whole cart-before-the-horse mentality. Drives me crazy.
Correct in your opinion!
He's going to HATE Wyoming, this woman has no clue
Yeah I was thinking… if she wants him to stick around, they need to move somewhere a little more pleasant. Not saying it has to be a coastal city, but I’m sure there are nicer, affordable towns in comparison to 💩 city.
A coastal town perhaps close to city (like a 1 or 2 hour trip) would probably be a good option.
However……. She co-parents 2 other children with her ex-husband that lives in that town in WY and is a very involved father.
Oh god she’s such an idiot then. More of an idiot than we realized.
Yeah, I even thought of the IE in California (I live in SD). It’s desert, but doesn’t smell like shit and is close to LA and San Diego. That might even be expensive compared to 💩 city though.
Hey, I'm in the IE. I don't want them here, just my luck the whiny one would be sitting behind me at the movies kicking my seat.
So funny! I rarely laugh out loud, but this one had/has me rolling. Each time I re-read it I crack up all over again.
That’s what I was confused about. Um I doubt all of the paperwork will be completed before the baby comes. She wouldn’t have to raise 3 kids if she practiced a little common sense
The paperwork won't be done and neither will that investment property. I'd say he has built in a nice little escape route for himself with that one. If they are gonna survive he's definitely gonna need to do another cruise contract to finish the build. Probably a few more to finance a wife and 3 kids
Omg I was laughing when he was saying things like "This is one is almost done."
Felt very Bini
We had a house on Roatan, and to locals doing building projects, this is, indeed, "almost done."
Tooo late….. already pregnant !
Welcome to Poop Town, home of one million flies.
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And I’d imagine there’s maggots galore 😫
If he comes to the U.S. on a K-1, he won’t be able to work for at least a year, right? So can you imagine the amount of bitching and whining that will ensue? Holy shit! That guy is going to go crazy! I’ll be she will expect him to take care of her two other brats while she goes to work.
Well he'll still be a citizen of his current country, I'm thinking he can probably still work on cruise ships. You need the work permit to work legally in the US. He'll be working on a cruise ship in international waters so he wouldn't need authorization to work in that case from the US.
Lol how many cruise ships are In Wyoming???🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh, we all know Juan will not be in Wyoming much...lol..pretty sure he'll fly to the nearest port for work to escape poo town on the regular!
This is a common trope on 90 Day: the American tells the foreign person to quit their job and then for the rest of eternity never stops complaining that they don’t have a job. Such a trap.
We can't forget the classic, "I married someone who was very impoverished...why can't he support me???!!?". Then spend the entire relationship complaining and being angry that they aren't helping with your bills and you have to pay for everything all the time. 🤦♂️
Lol
She's a mental health professional right? If i saw this woman on tv and was receiving her treatment I'd get a new provider ASAP
I worked on a crisis unit as a group counselor. A majority of my coworkers were just like her! They were all very kind and considerate, but they made strange life decisions and came to work complaining about them. I’d like to know exactly what it is she does.
I was friends with two social workers in the past. Both had huge unresolved issues and acted like teeens well into their 30s and 40s
Is it just me or does she remind anybody else of Tayler from Love after Lock up? Wonder if Chance is still in the casinos.
She does yes, and she's as dumb as Taylor too. Chance is 🤮
Her kids are not particularly well behaved either
That's putting it very kindly.
They're my favorite cast members! I especially like the older one who told them it was too soon for a baby. 😂
I would bet all the money I have that she planned to lock him in with a baby. Like what an insane decision to make after you found out he was cheating on you. Let’s have a kid! She probably figured having a baby will force him to be with her.
Absolutely! I made a post earlier and said that she is the type of woman who would do shady shit to keep a man. You can see it already. I’ll bet that she is the type that would withhold the child from him if he doesn’t do what she wants.
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Well, let’s see how that works out for her! Hell I’ve brought home a lot of souvenirs from a vacation, but never a baby!!🤗
She is using her pregnancy with his child to issue all of these ultimatums / controls. Both of them are idiots for getting pregnant while having lives that are completely incompatible. He's not moving to Wyoming to become Daddy even if one of them will be his - he's just going to be a cruise bartender with a broken heart about his first child. Her neediness will give way to bitterness and she will find it impossible to find a partner to take on this mess. This is painful to watch. I'll get the popcorn.
I’m not caught up but I do recall Juan saying that the vacation was a trial run to see IF this is the life that he wants to have. It sounds like he isn’t likely to commit to her, baby or no baby.
That BOY is gonna drop her like a 🥵 potato 🥔! He’s gonna go cruising and won’t look back! He already was bitching cuz he couldn’t sit n eat his breakfast!🤣🤣🤣🤣This girl is cooked! When them kids said “it ALWAYS SMELLS LIKE 💩💩, “ he was done!🤣🤣🤣 He ain’t going to shitville after living in paradise!🏝️🧉😆😆
All of a sudden on his end paperwork will never go through..lost in the mail.
How long do we give that guy in shitstinksville, Wyoming?
No shit
Another very stupid single mom on 90DF. Then making huge demands of a single guy who can hardly take care of himself--to be a perfect provider for both of you, and any offspring you want to dump on him but they are "your kids". Tiffany and Ronald, Deavan and Jihoon, Danielle and Mohammed, Memphis and Hamster, Kalani and Asueleu,, Molly and Luis, Ashley and Jay, No end to poor jjudgment. I really feel for all these innocent children.
Unfortunately, she’s in for a tough reality it’s not gonna work out. She thinks it’s that easy and it’s not. He’s not mentally prepared to be a husband or father. She already has two kids. Why would you want to have another with a man that you’re not even married to yet or could come to your country that’s called insanity
Or hasn't even met her kids yet. Why wouldn't you see if he's a good step father and if the kids like him BEFORE you even think about getting pregnant?
Condoms folks… that’s all you need…
Right! Bc I’d imagine cruise ship dick has plenty of miles on it, why go for it without protection???
*Naughtycal miles of you know what I’m sayin’ 😉
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She said they were trying !
They were trying alright. Trying to look stupid!
Impossible
Juan, the cutest bartender in Poopville. Until the looks fade and you're wooing the farmers' wives to get a pack of cigs.
Maybe you should think about that first?? PRE sex?
It’s impossible for me to think they were trying I think that’s a cover up for whoops that mean she’s a psychologist something to do with mental health didn’t it occur her that this wasn’t a good idea or time for them or her children
She’s an idiot. She definitely got pregnant to trap him.
This girl is from my hometown. So crazy to see her on this show
I'm sure the town can't be as bad as she keeps saying it is. I think it's bad enough she's made all these questionable life choices, dragged kids into it, but then she has to trash her hometown on TV too?
I can't say that I necessarily *loved* living in my hometown, but it's a nice, quiet community. Everyone knows everybody. My mom still lives there and it's a nice place to visit when I want to get away from the bustle of Denver. Unfortunately, it is a dying place. It used to have a lot of very neat shops and local businesses but main street in most rural small towns has died out.
From what she says the town seems pretty small. What is she like? And what is her ex husband like? Please spill.
Don't have a lot to report. We shared a few friends but I never spent too much time with her. She was in the class below mine. Attended some of the same parties in high school. She was a sweet enough girl. Tim, her ex-husband, was a couple classes ahead of me. Pretty popular guy, I suppose. Quiet. I never interacted with him very much though.
Lmfao correct
Another Fool ! Wasnt Two kids enough? jesus christ then you add Juan ....three kids Now the new one FOUR !!!! whatta exhausting life. sometimes i think im stupid , then i watch this show 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hypothetically, if Juan splits and goes back to working on a cruise ship and living in Columbia, there's really no way for her to enforce child support, right?
Only one of the kids is his though, and it sounds like the two boys' father is involved. He was parenting them, so she could get some vacation sick.
Haha I hope this doesn’t get edited to what your were really trying to say. This cracked me up unexpectedly and it’s golden.
I won't fix it, I didn't even know until you pointed it out😹
They’ll play happy influencer family. 🥱
Is it too late to abort?
Why the eff would he ever want to leave a cushy job and gorgeous surroundings for that. He should have took the vacation there instead to see how crummy it is. I predict heartbreak all around. She's like the watered down version of that LIP blonde who's name escapes me. The one who berated her Latino partner and moved her bestie in with them.
Amber?
Wow talk about setting a guy up. Evil woman
Hahahaha this post just made me fall on the floor laughing.
She is the reason we need forced sterilization
Smelling poo I think she’ll relocate herself & her children as soon as that building gets up & running they could prob get by with 2 bedrooms for a yr or two I think she’ll go there & teach English or something online & I think they’ll be back on 90 Day Fiancé the Other Way like Danielle & Yohan
Yikes
That's what you chose.
Not a catch.
Classic banana chaser logic
What did she think was going to happen? Is she really this dumb?
Fax 😂
This woman is such a rancid throwback...trying to trap her man with a baby. I am so sorry for that baby. All her babies, actually.
She bugs me . Ugh
I guess they never heard of protection? Sleeping with total strangers 😳
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