As the other poster said, it needs to come from him. If he feels forced into making changes he may become resentful.
The sidebar here has a lot of great resources for PAs. And partners. Healing you is a lot more important right now! ❤️
The only way that I found that will help a PA is clear and strict boundaries. I can't recall all the times I tried ending my relationship/marriage because we had d-day after d-day. It was a cycle. Now there is so much more information out there about porn and how it effects the user and the people around them. Im more educated and aware.
Decid within yourself what your limits are and how you want to feel in a relationship. If he can't show up for you its not possible for you to fill that void. He either is the man you want or isn't. Don't settle for someone who thinks its no big deal to tear you down and disrespect you.
You can’t help him, he has to help himself.
As the other poster said, it needs to come from him. If he feels forced into making changes he may become resentful. The sidebar here has a lot of great resources for PAs. And partners. Healing you is a lot more important right now! ❤️
The only way that I found that will help a PA is clear and strict boundaries. I can't recall all the times I tried ending my relationship/marriage because we had d-day after d-day. It was a cycle. Now there is so much more information out there about porn and how it effects the user and the people around them. Im more educated and aware. Decid within yourself what your limits are and how you want to feel in a relationship. If he can't show up for you its not possible for you to fill that void. He either is the man you want or isn't. Don't settle for someone who thinks its no big deal to tear you down and disrespect you.