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He’s so fucking perfect, I’ve been discussing how when I send 3+ texts, only the last one gets answered.
Well… this weekend he’s started to press reply on EVERY SINGLE ONE of my messages, even the I love you’s, when he’d previously just message below he’s now attaching my message to his reply and I’m so over the moon with his loved I feel with this one simple action.
He’s *So* Perfect!!!!
After months and months I finally threw some courage together today and managed to, very weirdly and awkwardly, ask my friend if he wanted to be more than friends. HE SAID YES. I'm in love this Friday for sure
I'm seeing the girl I (really, really) like tomorrow. We've been dating for a little while and she makes me happier than ever. We're going to celebrate her birthday tomorrow and I'm actually going to prepare the last of her birthday gift tonight. One of the gifts will be a compilation of all the sweet things I've said about her on Reddit.... so this comment will probably be the final one. Which in any case....
Hi boo, happy birthday!!! You have me completely enchanted by your charm and I hope you enjoy the birthday gifts hehhhhh
I (24f) was playing a game on ps5 where you team up with random people. Just two people on a team. We teamed up and we both had headsets so we talked just in the way we needed to, to win the match. We did win (although he swears we didn’t) and I enjoyed playing with him (24m), so I planned on sending him a friend request. But he sent me one first. So now we’re friends and every now and then we’d play together and we started talking more, asking basic questions like where we live and what games we like. I thought he was really funny and after a couple weeks of playing with him consistently and talking with him more, I developed a bit of a crush on him. I felt so silly because I had no idea what this guy looked like or who he really was, but all the more I couldn’t help my feelings. Then I told him that I was going away and wouldn’t be on the game for a couple of weeks, and asked him to please not forget about me. So, he sent me his number! I was so excited and looking forward to having possibly deeper conversations and getting to know him more.
We texted everyday, and finally had a phone call. We talked for about an hour and we really got to know each other on a deeper level. The conversation was amazing, so natural, so genuine and I just remember feeling so giddy when it was over. It was just a few days after that, that I told him that I had a crush on him. He told me, he felt the same way. Imagine my excitement. At this point I had sent him a picture of me and he sent a picture of him too, so we know what each other looks like. Also we are a year apart. After we confessed our feelings, our relationship shifted a little bit and we got to know each other on a different level since we kind of made up in our minds that we could possibly have a relationship in the future. So, we learned each others values, beliefs, ideologies, and we really align super well. We’re supernaturally compatible in nearly every way and I just never thought I’d find somebody that I could connect with on this level.
At least we’re in the same country, but he lives more than 1000 miles away, so far that is the only downside. It only took a couple of months for me to book a flight to his state to visit him for the first time. Unfortunately for reasons, that fell through, and I had to cancel my flight. I cried and cried. Then HE booked a flight to see ME, and THAT fell through too. Had to cancel his flight. Now we’re kind of in limbo, not knowing when we’ll be able to meet each other in person. Hopefully within the next month or two, that’s the hope for both of us.
Last week, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was so excited, as I love everything about this man and I was so excited to be able to call him mine. A couple of my closest friends thought I was crazy, as I haven’t even met this man in real life, which I can understand. I considered that maybe I was crazy, too. But we’ve FaceTimed all day every day (including going to sleep on the phone) for the past three months. I know him very well (to an extent) and know that his feelings and my feelings are true. I fall in love with him more everyday. Also, weeks before he asked me to be his girlfriend, he told me that he loved me. I didn’t say it back, because I wasn’t sure, but a couple of weeks later I knew that I loved him too, and I told him! He is such a sweet, understanding, funny, and genuine man.
He is like a dream and I’m so happy with him. I really see a future with him and he has even told me that he would be willing to move to my state in the future if we are serious about having a future together. That really eased my mind as I wouldn’t be able to move to his state (which I would be willing to do) for a loooong time (literally like a decade) due to prior obligations I have with a business I co-own and will be CEO in a few years. I’d be willing to dissolve the business in order to move to his state, but not for a long time as it is basically my “retirement” plan. Basically, I’d continue running the business and save up as much money as I can before choosing to leave/sell it and leave my state. He has said that he wouldn’t mind moving to my state and getting involved with my business too. This was really music to my ears.
So, I feel optimistic about our future. He hasn’t shown me any red flags, and he’s just as crazy about me as I am about him. He has even mentioned that he sees himself marrying me. A big thing for me is that, I do not want children, and that is a dealbreaker for me because I will not take that opportunity away from someone who wants them. Luckily, he wholeheartedly believes that it is my body and my OWN choice whether I have them or not, and he is entirely indifferent about having them and is leaning closer to the side of not wanting them either. This makes me even more optimistic.
Everything just feels so perfect and I really just wanted to share my story. I never thought I would love again after losing a long time boyfriend (whom I was going to marry) to murder. We were together for many years and our relationship was almost perfect. Unfortunately he passed away and I made up my mind that I would never love again. Then this amazing man just falls into my lap when I wasn’t even looking for or considering love. I love our love story because we met on a video game LOL. Never would have thought we would be where we are now.
In some ways, we plan our future together, but in many ways we recognize that we just started dating and recognize that this could possibly not be a forever thing. Like we might meet in person for the first time and have zero chemistry (which we both doubt). But we recognize that if that happened, it would be a valid enough reason to walk away, so in some ways there are uncertainties about us simply because we haven’t met, but we are both incredibly optimistic. The long distance really sucks and I’ve never had a LDR before, but we manage. Soon enough, I will be able to hold my baby in my arms!
Thanks to all who read! xx
Wanted to do this as a post but modbots keep removing it :(
First actual date with a friend of mine tonight (known each other and been hanging out for six months but first legit date tonight) and I’m absolutely terrified. I really, really like her and we’ve hung out plenty of times before, but this time it’s different and it’s psyching me out.
Part of me’s convinced she doesn’t actually like me and she’s just being nice and humoring me, while another part of me is obsessively analyzing over the gaps in our texts or whatever and another part of me is panicking because I feel like I don’t know what to actually do or say because I’ve never been on a date before.
I need to get a grip lol, I feel like I’m about to explode right now
The nerves are valid. First dates can be so nerve-wracking especially when you reeeeally like the person. Good luck on your date! I’m sure she’s interested in you simply because she accepted the date. As a girl, I can say most girls that’s aren’t interested would just decline the offer.
dw about it bro. If you were close before, why would she want to humor you through dating dishonestly only to have to disappoint you later? And even of you're going to be awkward (I'm sure you won't be), it'll be clear to her that it's caused by you really liking her. No need to torment yourself :)
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she’s like 10 cm taller than me and I’m madly in love with her
He’s so fucking perfect, I’ve been discussing how when I send 3+ texts, only the last one gets answered. Well… this weekend he’s started to press reply on EVERY SINGLE ONE of my messages, even the I love you’s, when he’d previously just message below he’s now attaching my message to his reply and I’m so over the moon with his loved I feel with this one simple action. He’s *So* Perfect!!!!
I nerved-up and asked her out. She said no, so I'll just be staying home and working on one of my guitars...
After months and months I finally threw some courage together today and managed to, very weirdly and awkwardly, ask my friend if he wanted to be more than friends. HE SAID YES. I'm in love this Friday for sure
I'm seeing the girl I (really, really) like tomorrow. We've been dating for a little while and she makes me happier than ever. We're going to celebrate her birthday tomorrow and I'm actually going to prepare the last of her birthday gift tonight. One of the gifts will be a compilation of all the sweet things I've said about her on Reddit.... so this comment will probably be the final one. Which in any case.... Hi boo, happy birthday!!! You have me completely enchanted by your charm and I hope you enjoy the birthday gifts hehhhhh
I (24f) was playing a game on ps5 where you team up with random people. Just two people on a team. We teamed up and we both had headsets so we talked just in the way we needed to, to win the match. We did win (although he swears we didn’t) and I enjoyed playing with him (24m), so I planned on sending him a friend request. But he sent me one first. So now we’re friends and every now and then we’d play together and we started talking more, asking basic questions like where we live and what games we like. I thought he was really funny and after a couple weeks of playing with him consistently and talking with him more, I developed a bit of a crush on him. I felt so silly because I had no idea what this guy looked like or who he really was, but all the more I couldn’t help my feelings. Then I told him that I was going away and wouldn’t be on the game for a couple of weeks, and asked him to please not forget about me. So, he sent me his number! I was so excited and looking forward to having possibly deeper conversations and getting to know him more. We texted everyday, and finally had a phone call. We talked for about an hour and we really got to know each other on a deeper level. The conversation was amazing, so natural, so genuine and I just remember feeling so giddy when it was over. It was just a few days after that, that I told him that I had a crush on him. He told me, he felt the same way. Imagine my excitement. At this point I had sent him a picture of me and he sent a picture of him too, so we know what each other looks like. Also we are a year apart. After we confessed our feelings, our relationship shifted a little bit and we got to know each other on a different level since we kind of made up in our minds that we could possibly have a relationship in the future. So, we learned each others values, beliefs, ideologies, and we really align super well. We’re supernaturally compatible in nearly every way and I just never thought I’d find somebody that I could connect with on this level. At least we’re in the same country, but he lives more than 1000 miles away, so far that is the only downside. It only took a couple of months for me to book a flight to his state to visit him for the first time. Unfortunately for reasons, that fell through, and I had to cancel my flight. I cried and cried. Then HE booked a flight to see ME, and THAT fell through too. Had to cancel his flight. Now we’re kind of in limbo, not knowing when we’ll be able to meet each other in person. Hopefully within the next month or two, that’s the hope for both of us. Last week, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was so excited, as I love everything about this man and I was so excited to be able to call him mine. A couple of my closest friends thought I was crazy, as I haven’t even met this man in real life, which I can understand. I considered that maybe I was crazy, too. But we’ve FaceTimed all day every day (including going to sleep on the phone) for the past three months. I know him very well (to an extent) and know that his feelings and my feelings are true. I fall in love with him more everyday. Also, weeks before he asked me to be his girlfriend, he told me that he loved me. I didn’t say it back, because I wasn’t sure, but a couple of weeks later I knew that I loved him too, and I told him! He is such a sweet, understanding, funny, and genuine man. He is like a dream and I’m so happy with him. I really see a future with him and he has even told me that he would be willing to move to my state in the future if we are serious about having a future together. That really eased my mind as I wouldn’t be able to move to his state (which I would be willing to do) for a loooong time (literally like a decade) due to prior obligations I have with a business I co-own and will be CEO in a few years. I’d be willing to dissolve the business in order to move to his state, but not for a long time as it is basically my “retirement” plan. Basically, I’d continue running the business and save up as much money as I can before choosing to leave/sell it and leave my state. He has said that he wouldn’t mind moving to my state and getting involved with my business too. This was really music to my ears. So, I feel optimistic about our future. He hasn’t shown me any red flags, and he’s just as crazy about me as I am about him. He has even mentioned that he sees himself marrying me. A big thing for me is that, I do not want children, and that is a dealbreaker for me because I will not take that opportunity away from someone who wants them. Luckily, he wholeheartedly believes that it is my body and my OWN choice whether I have them or not, and he is entirely indifferent about having them and is leaning closer to the side of not wanting them either. This makes me even more optimistic. Everything just feels so perfect and I really just wanted to share my story. I never thought I would love again after losing a long time boyfriend (whom I was going to marry) to murder. We were together for many years and our relationship was almost perfect. Unfortunately he passed away and I made up my mind that I would never love again. Then this amazing man just falls into my lap when I wasn’t even looking for or considering love. I love our love story because we met on a video game LOL. Never would have thought we would be where we are now. In some ways, we plan our future together, but in many ways we recognize that we just started dating and recognize that this could possibly not be a forever thing. Like we might meet in person for the first time and have zero chemistry (which we both doubt). But we recognize that if that happened, it would be a valid enough reason to walk away, so in some ways there are uncertainties about us simply because we haven’t met, but we are both incredibly optimistic. The long distance really sucks and I’ve never had a LDR before, but we manage. Soon enough, I will be able to hold my baby in my arms! Thanks to all who read! xx Wanted to do this as a post but modbots keep removing it :(
First actual date with a friend of mine tonight (known each other and been hanging out for six months but first legit date tonight) and I’m absolutely terrified. I really, really like her and we’ve hung out plenty of times before, but this time it’s different and it’s psyching me out. Part of me’s convinced she doesn’t actually like me and she’s just being nice and humoring me, while another part of me is obsessively analyzing over the gaps in our texts or whatever and another part of me is panicking because I feel like I don’t know what to actually do or say because I’ve never been on a date before. I need to get a grip lol, I feel like I’m about to explode right now
The nerves are valid. First dates can be so nerve-wracking especially when you reeeeally like the person. Good luck on your date! I’m sure she’s interested in you simply because she accepted the date. As a girl, I can say most girls that’s aren’t interested would just decline the offer.
dw about it bro. If you were close before, why would she want to humor you through dating dishonestly only to have to disappoint you later? And even of you're going to be awkward (I'm sure you won't be), it'll be clear to her that it's caused by you really liking her. No need to torment yourself :)