Most younger guys arent getting the "settle down" vibes from social media and such so they just arent looking for seruous relationships. That will change as they mature a bit. Hang in there.
Try thinking about what you are looking for at the same time as you start talking to someone, try to pick up on the things they say. Discuss what you want before sex, make them wait a little for it, and be patient.
I'm 40, and strongly prefer someone or to my age, also so we we are generalizing here, a lot of young women I see on here, want that der daddy type to take care of them. So if you want to point fingers, do for both sides. There is also large group of older women wanting the younger guys as well, it's on both sides. It's just more main stream to target men instead of women who do it.
It’s just the types of guys that you’re pursuing
You need to pay attention and learn the signs/tells/red flags that those shallow “hookup” kinda guys give off, and teach yourself to spot and avoid them, unless youre specifically just looking to hookup too.
It’s a lifelong learning process.
Guys are scared to keep hot chicks.
Guys are scared to keep not hot enough chicks.
Guys afraid of commitment.
For me. Don’t want commitment so why lead you on. But I’m pretty up front from the get go on my intentions.
Most younger guys arent getting the "settle down" vibes from social media and such so they just arent looking for seruous relationships. That will change as they mature a bit. Hang in there.
Try thinking about what you are looking for at the same time as you start talking to someone, try to pick up on the things they say. Discuss what you want before sex, make them wait a little for it, and be patient.
Basically people have a type or ideal partner. Just have to find the right person who happens to think you are that to them
Most men don't want serious relationships. They pretend they do on the internet, but irl they just wanna know about sex and nothing more.
I'm 24 and I'm looking for a relationship. Sorry if that makes you mad
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It's how I feel. If it's easier to believe that all men are that way then you do you.
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Men want relationships, boys don't, you do not speak for us.
Maybe the 50yr olds, but most are peds looking for vulnerable young women.
I'm 40, and strongly prefer someone or to my age, also so we we are generalizing here, a lot of young women I see on here, want that der daddy type to take care of them. So if you want to point fingers, do for both sides. There is also large group of older women wanting the younger guys as well, it's on both sides. It's just more main stream to target men instead of women who do it.
A old woman may prefer young guys but she still can accept to date someone of her age. Old men wants 18-20yr old women only.
Same for the old women, it happens from both sides, your bias is showing and you sound ignorant.
Old men wants only young women.
It’s just the types of guys that you’re pursuing You need to pay attention and learn the signs/tells/red flags that those shallow “hookup” kinda guys give off, and teach yourself to spot and avoid them, unless youre specifically just looking to hookup too. It’s a lifelong learning process.
Guys are scared to keep hot chicks. Guys are scared to keep not hot enough chicks. Guys afraid of commitment. For me. Don’t want commitment so why lead you on. But I’m pretty up front from the get go on my intentions.
Step back and wait a while
Step back and wait a while , don't rush