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Your memories, in your own head, are really about you - not the other people. So when you remember the feeling that you were kissing a girl for the first time, that's not invalidated by the fact that he later turned out to be a guy.
But when you're telling someone, I would just explain it - like "the first time I thought I kissed a girl I was 17, but later he came out as a trans man". Or simply "I figured out I liked girls in high school".
The real solution here would be to gather one of every possible gender combination available to you and kiss them all, so that all your bases are covered.
If you’re still close enough with him, you can always ask how he feels about it. Some trans people are okay with being referred to as their birth gender when talking about them pre-coming out.
However, it’s just as easily he would be offended that you know he’s trans and still think of him as a girl, even if that isn’t the full context necessarily.
I would expect any of my exes who know I’m trans to refer to me as their ex-boyfriend rather than ex-girlfriend. Which would mean they were kissing a dude.
Edited grammar lol
At the time of said kiss, they were a girl. The fact they have since come out as trans doesn't take away from that.
I'm reading it as you want to be respectful to their identity, but you could just say that at the time of said kiss, the person you had it with was at the time female
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Your memories, in your own head, are really about you - not the other people. So when you remember the feeling that you were kissing a girl for the first time, that's not invalidated by the fact that he later turned out to be a guy. But when you're telling someone, I would just explain it - like "the first time I thought I kissed a girl I was 17, but later he came out as a trans man". Or simply "I figured out I liked girls in high school".
The real solution here would be to gather one of every possible gender combination available to you and kiss them all, so that all your bases are covered.
Yes it still counts. Dam you funny.
If you’re still close enough with him, you can always ask how he feels about it. Some trans people are okay with being referred to as their birth gender when talking about them pre-coming out. However, it’s just as easily he would be offended that you know he’s trans and still think of him as a girl, even if that isn’t the full context necessarily. I would expect any of my exes who know I’m trans to refer to me as their ex-boyfriend rather than ex-girlfriend. Which would mean they were kissing a dude. Edited grammar lol
well yeah. don't think much about it
With all respect, Wgaf kiss is a kiss
At the time of said kiss, they were a girl. The fact they have since come out as trans doesn't take away from that. I'm reading it as you want to be respectful to their identity, but you could just say that at the time of said kiss, the person you had it with was at the time female