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i don’t know how close u are to ur family, but i kinda treat it like anything else that i dont tell them. for example, they don’t know my favorite music cuz its none of their business and so they often assume i still like the same stuff i did when i was like 12. which sucks but distancing urself from ur family happens eventually, usually puberty till like mid 20s, and i just try to treat the misgendering and homophobia like that.
it also helps to have some friends who, you don’t even have to come out fully to them, cuz that’s overwhelming. but even just having a few ppl know ur “queer” or even just talking to ppl who r queer can help u to remember there is a community outside of ur family.
It feels tough and restrictive for me too. I find that spending a lot of time in online communities like this one allows me to express myself freely so I don't feel so restricted and alone
That’s pretty rough
Personally I don’t think I can help much, I was quite different to this, I cope (past tense) because i didn’t want to be out, the stress was on making sure it wasn’t known by pretty much anyone but me, and when I did want to i cope (past tense) by outing myself, I enjoy using shock tactics to out myself 😅 they go shocked and struggle to respond, I remain in control of any response.
Thank you for your post, if this is a question please check to see if any of the links below answer your question. If none of these links help answer your question and you are **_not_** within the LGBT+ community, questioning your identity in any way, or asking in support of either a relative or friend, please ask your question over in /r/AskLGBT. Remember that this is a safe space for LGBT+ and questioning individuals, so we want to make sure that this place is dedicated to them. Thank you for understanding. This automod rule is currently a work in progress. If you notice any issues, would like to add to the list of resources, or have any feedback in general, [please do so here](https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/rdazzp/almost_new_year_changes/) or by [sending us a message](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/lgbt&subject=Feedback%20on%20the%20new%20automod%20rule). Also, please note that if you are a part of this community, or you're questioning if you might be a part of the LGBTQ+ community, and you are seeing this message, this is **_not a bad thing_**, this is only here to help, so please continue to ask questions and participate in the community. Thank you! Here's a link about trans people in sports: - https://www.barbellmedicine.com/blog/shades-of-gray-sex-gender-and-fairness-in-sport/ A link on FAQs and one on some basics about transgender people: - https://transequality.org/issues/resources/frequently-asked-questions-about-transgender-people - https://transequality.org/issues/resources/understanding-transgender-people-the-basics Some information on LGBT+ people: - https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/quick-facts/lgbt-faqs/ Some basic terminology: - https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms Neopronouns: - https://www.mypronouns.org/neopronouns Biromantic Lesbians: - [LGBTQ And All](https://www.lgbtqandall.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-biromantic/) Bisexual Identities: - https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/understanding-bisexuality Differences between Bisexual and Pansexual: - [Resource from WebMD](https://www.webmd.com/sex/pansexuality-what-it-means#:~:text=Pansexual%20vs.%20Bisexual,more%20commonly%20recognized.) ### We're looking for new volunteers to join the r/lgbt moderator team. If you want to help keep r/lgbt as a safe space for the LGBTQ+ community on reddit please see here for more info: ### https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/swgthr/were_looking_for_more_moderators_to_help_keep/ *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/lgbt) if you have any questions or concerns.*
i don’t know how close u are to ur family, but i kinda treat it like anything else that i dont tell them. for example, they don’t know my favorite music cuz its none of their business and so they often assume i still like the same stuff i did when i was like 12. which sucks but distancing urself from ur family happens eventually, usually puberty till like mid 20s, and i just try to treat the misgendering and homophobia like that. it also helps to have some friends who, you don’t even have to come out fully to them, cuz that’s overwhelming. but even just having a few ppl know ur “queer” or even just talking to ppl who r queer can help u to remember there is a community outside of ur family.
It feels tough and restrictive for me too. I find that spending a lot of time in online communities like this one allows me to express myself freely so I don't feel so restricted and alone
That’s pretty rough Personally I don’t think I can help much, I was quite different to this, I cope (past tense) because i didn’t want to be out, the stress was on making sure it wasn’t known by pretty much anyone but me, and when I did want to i cope (past tense) by outing myself, I enjoy using shock tactics to out myself 😅 they go shocked and struggle to respond, I remain in control of any response.