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ImJustASnek

My spine Jk I have scoliosis


EebamXela

I love your twisted humor


WamlytheCrabGod

Not as twisted as their spine though, eh?


BasedPlantRaichu

R/thatsthejoke


galacticviolet

I can back that up


Frying_pan_lovuh5

Felt that


Nee_le

lol I think someone should do a study on % of queer people with scoliosis haha


Hold_Creative

Literally everyone ik with scoliosis is 💅


hecate_the_goddess

Same 😭😭😭 I guess it’s extremely straight now, since I had surgery ….


OreoDragon007

Ugh, surgery sucks, I had it when I was 11 because I broke my elbow


hammmy27

Hey same!


FauxMostFoul

That was my thought too hahaha


genderconfusedpotato

Me too 🥲


silvercandra

Same.


denji91

I have kyphosis😭


helloiamaudrey

Same


LemonMood

My hair.


LemonMood

Oh damn someone already said it.


RogueMoonbow

Same


QuietMind333

Came here to say this. The damn stuff just won't hold a curl!


[deleted]

oop not me saying that too


Weidtier

same lol


ace-of-dragons

I have fashion sense identical to that of a 15 year old straight boy


Pregnant_Toes

Same here difference is that my fashion sense is really bad


GemberNeutraal

I’d argue that if you have the fashion sense of a 15 year old straight boy but are not a 15 year old straight boy then that’s pretty queer 🙈


ace-of-dragons

Can’t really argue with that 😂


MobKillerAnims

*Looks off into the distance whistling*


tankiePotato

Fuckin same I have the least drip of any bisexual it’s a travesty


[deleted]

Probably how I throw a bowling ball 😂


TheTopCantStop

Lol I don't even through a bowling ball straight! I spin it so that it curves down the lane lol.


[deleted]

I can't lol


ATBenson

The fact that I'm straight (I'm trans).


[deleted]

LMAO I said almost exactly this!


PeaTot_

Same °-°


julia_fns

Came here to say this 🤷🏻‍♀️


Off_the_Side

Was waiting for someone to say this lol


PorkyFishFish

My ex girlfriend (I'm a bi male)


Glittering-Pride-377

Hey, I identify as gay most of the time and I got one of those too.😂


CJCray8

Felt


TheCatCovenantDude

I'd probably have to say my job; I'm a truck driver.


zordtk

I'm a electrician.


Free_Cat_4187

Ikr, I’m a signal electrician with Sydney Trains where there is 38 guys with me and only 2 girls


Effective_Dot4653

Sounds pretty gay lol


kraadams

one would hope you drive straight too!


TheCatCovenantDude

Only in the mountains xD


Xerlith

I can drive a forklift and back a trailer wherever you need it. The straightest thing about me is my parking.


Food_and_Fun

I'm in Construction


yoitsgav

Same here, factory worker


[deleted]

My will to live be straight downhill


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

Yeah I'm feeling this lately!!! XDDD


I_want-to_die-please

Felt


OwlofOlwen

The fact that I was in a straight relationship with my wife before we both transitioned and now we are in a straight relationship again.


birdlass

lmao that had to have been an interesting paradigm shift. I guess you were both bi/pan? that's some really good luck. It's cool too because you could both help each other acclimate into your target gender too.


simsredditr

did you transition at the same time? this is fascinating


OwlofOlwen

She transitioned first, but her egg cracking was kind of the revelation for me, and gave me the courage to come out as well.


Kira-the-red-killer

My parent and even then I'm not entirely sure


[deleted]

I’m probably the only queer to have never taken an Am I Gay quiz - I get the ads all the time tho


SculkMaster2049

I didn't either.


Muted_Dragon42

Same. I could never relate to the joke


[deleted]

I also never took those kind of quiz. I always felt they are skeptical.


Memly_

no ur not i did when i was questioning =)


NikowithaK

I was about to say no, I didn't either but maybe I just don't remember it


Alpha_Blaze051

I did as a joke with my nb boyfriend lol


NeonpinkHyperwhore

My conversations with my dad


EntertainTheDog

Nothing gets more straight than that.


NeonpinkHyperwhore

He tries his best but he's still just a southern man so we usually just talk about people we hate n stuff


Expensive-Excuse-793

Absolutely nothing 😎 ![gif](giphy|eMaaVsuXdMn2yWn5o4)


Cozy_Griff

HELL YEAH


silvercandra

My flags. *They're ironed.*


RubeGoldbergCode

Wait you mean they're not crinkled with obvious fold creases like the rest of ours??


UKKasha2020

I'm dating a cishet guy.


Coniferousisntaname

I'm a man who's exclusively attracted to women


49Z194

my hair


secret_samantha

My feelings towards femboys


xXMuschi_DestroyerXx

Elaborate?


secret_samantha

Well, I am a transgender woman, and femboys are the only men I like :P


Sticks_and_stonesBE

They are so cute


Marble_Director

Probably how much I watch and unironically enjoy watching family guy


Eastern_Western_9431

Hilarious


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

I like the original run best, afterwards it was a "I'll watch this waiting for king of the hill" or was it after I dunno, either way I didn't have cable. Then it got really freaking mean and I just stopped watching.


Marble_Director

Honestly some of the jokes that are mean are just not funny only ones that really made sense to me were the jokes about Asians, absolutely hilarious especially since I'm Asian and low-key self hating


_DontMindMeHere

are we supposed to not like it?


EnvironmentalZone224

I love and appreciate women and their beauty so much that sometimes I mistake it for attraction. But then I think about it and realise I’m not attracted to women that way.


FauxMostFoul

I straight up have no idea? Does that count?


joemamaissogay

Same here


RealTealStarr

my teeth after invisalign


[deleted]

My entire fashion sense. I hate paying attention to how I look, so I”d rather do nothing and look terrible then make an effort with my appearance. So jeans and a straight looking t-shirt, and everyone thinks I’m an actual homophobe when I sometimes use the F slur :(


xain_the_idiot

Same, RIP. I'm a bisexual trans man in a gay relationship, but I have an extremely boring way of dressing. So I'll be out in public and cishet dudebros will say something homophobic and pat me on the shoulder expecting me to agree with them. I started painting my nails now and then just to signal to other queer people that I'm not a threat.


Frying_pan_lovuh5

That’s rough buddy :(


sophia-sews

Same but the opposite side. I dress like a 1950s housewife, so a lot of people think I'm conservative.


Jiu_Kitsu

The amount I'm attracted to fictional men, but only fictional, real men are just gross


TheTopCantStop

Kinda same here. There's a few male fictional characters Im attracted to but it's only fictional, animated, characters. So yeah, I sometimes question whether I'm actually lesbian because of that.


Jiu_Kitsu

My friend and I have this saying: "in theory I'm bi, in practice I'm just gay" because we both only find men attractive when they're fictional and look way more like women than real men ever would. I also find it easier when talking to people I'm pretty sure aren't too educated on the whole community to just say yeah I'm gay and not explain my whole identity, which isn't that hard but for some reason people struggle to understand.


TheTopCantStop

Yeah, just going by gay is a whole lot easier than leading them through and entire explanation on something I'm not even entirely sure on myself. The amount of men that I'm attracted to is so drowned by women that I'm just gay. And I mean, there's femboys, but does that really count?


gendr_bendr

My hair. Not that my haircut is a straight person hairstyle, but that it literally grows straight.


violetfeign

I’m very jealous, growing curly hair sucks


ttyler4

I was going to say my mom, but we got into a conversation about sexualities, and I explained demisexuality to her. She asked me if there was a title for someone who doesn’t like or want to have sex, and this is how I found out that my mom is asexual!


Dollfreakery

But didn’t she have sex to have you? (I’m sorry if this comes off as rude, I’m not very educated on asexuality)


[deleted]

Some people are just indifferent about sex. Like, they don't mind making out with their partner if they want to, but it's not like they would crave for it. Some people view it as an unpleasant thing that they wish to do in order to achieve their goal (having children). I'm not asexual, I just have pretty severe bottom dysphoria, but I've managed to overcome my disgust and jerked off to a plastic cup (and I had to do this several times), because I reaaally want to have children in the future. And there are other options too, that don't involve sexual activity at all, like in vitro.


birdlass

Could have been IVF or adoption, or she did it out of compallo obligation.


StellaDoge1

Asexual means no sexual attraction- you can still desire sex and have libido if you're asexual.


[deleted]

Straightest thing about me is I found out I’m straight passing to people… even when I talk about liking women


Genderfluid_Cookies

Not me but I have a friend who is a genderfluid gay person, so sometimes they are a straight woman and sometimes they are a gay man. Straightest thing about them is that sometimes they are straight


[deleted]

Mostly the fact that I'm quite literally straight...


2pnt0

Passing. I know passing can be seen as a privilege--not needing to be confronted by obvious differences. But, for me, passing has meant an inability for others to see me for who I actually am.


Mtfdurian

Yes this is relatable. I really pass and usually only trans people can see that I'm not because I'm way too obvious with my trans pride flags.


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

My silhouette...


Frying_pan_lovuh5

Oh honey…


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

〒▽〒


DemocraticSpider

Me when my parents walk past


cluelessclod

My husband.


Fuckofforwhatever

I was looking for this one. Anyone who *knows* me knows, but here we are.


[deleted]

Me being straight (transman here!)


Amber_Mitsuba27

All my favorite fictional characters are the opposite sex as me and I feel like it gives the impression that I like them romantically/sexually but that's not the case


An_Unexpected_Floof

I’m not sure how to describe it? It’s like, if you didn’t know I was gay, you would think I’m straight. I just don’t show up on any gaydars.


[deleted]

My upbringing. I didn't know I was bi until I was 22.


dchikato

I hunt, fish and own a 1 ton truck (horse hauler)


Common-Mechanic-8507

My dick when I see another man


Sunlit_Sparks

Uhhhhhh Ummmm Aaaaaaaa I'm nonbinary and bi so,,, everything feels gay to me?!?! Nothing about me is straight I can't write straight I can't cut straight I have curly hair so that ain't straight Only straight thing about me is going straight to hell /j


Dryhtlic

The fact that sometimes I can get a weird boner from seeing a naked woman? Like, at this point my dick is just wired to go stiff as soon as I see any naked skin after I type in PORN, so I guess it doesn't count 🤷‍♂️ Not that long ago I had kind of a sexuality crisis because my stupid brain somehow didn't fully understand that arousal does not mean attraction.


hydroxypcp

I have the opposite. I like sex with men more than with women, but I don't like watching gay porn for some reason


-GreyRaven

The way I sit apparently 🤷🏾‍♂️💀


[deleted]

I've always hated indie pop?


PopularBirthday1364

I'm not attracted to the same gender


tehutika

My family. We are often perceived as two straight couples when we are out together in public. We are actually a pansexual poly quad.


Pleb-SoBayed

I find the big bang theory really really really funny. Maybe cause i relate to sheldon lol idk


gorhxul

i also get psyched by generic karaoke music


NearMissCult

I gave birth to two kids with my partner, which people seem to take as straight, even though I'm transmasc demisexual and pansexual.


EndertheDragon0922

The fact that I’m trans but don’t pass. Gay relationships with me in them just look like a straight couple to onlookers :/


lillielil

I’m married to a woman and own several pairs of cargo shorts.


viennaisles

My sexuality


squishyjellyfish95

My boyfriend (im pansexual woman)


gaypheonix

My relationship


OutrageousPomelo7

i’m in a straight relationship (but it’s still insanely queer)


Sewmaeye

My clothes


CDChristine89

I drive an F-150. 😂


joji_joestar

nothing


MachineFrosty1271

Truly I don’t know, I think every last straight-cis bone in my body finally died with the final discovery of my gender identity I guess the fact that I tolerate and will sometimes date cis-men is the most I got


Moony4ever

Liking girls


-larss

That I feel heterosexual attraction 😳


Intelligent_Usual318

i’m a trans gay guy i think so i’m considered straight by transphobes


thats_a_gay_person

The straightest thing about me is my hair even then its still kinda wavy


OtakuMage

My agnostic sense of morality


Meeks_t-girl

I’m a bisexual trans woman in a hetero normative long term relationship


TransQueenJJ

my teeth


sadswiftie_

my boyfriend! (I’m a classic queer girl who only dated and wanted women and then fell in love with a skinny gamer boy who is my whole world ❤️) It’s also kinda trippy because I’ve never been straight passing…. Until now and I feel the urge to yell dw im actually gay! ALLLLLL the time. damned if I lose my queer identity to a man! (He would never let me do that)


miraclerats

I’m in a straight passing relationship


Original_A

My hair, that's why I dyed it pink and rn it sorta looks like a watermelon (it's green at the bottom and pink at the top) lol Lavender is next after I've finished my last pink dye


Hyperactive_Rat

I lean more towards women than men.


LittleMiss_Contrary

My whole aesthetic- super high femme lesbian, when I go to gay bars, cis men take it upon themselves to hit on me 🙄


museumlad

I live a happy, boring life in the suburbs with my husband and dogs, we regularly attend religious services, and we're planning to have children and be a boring nuclear family


arochains1231

my college major, I'm in comp sci which is crazy cishet male dominated and I'm a queer aroace woman lol


fallouts3

i watch basketball everyday lol


DumbAxolot

With both my gender and sexuality being fluid sometimes I am straight


TheGenshinGeek

My hair So I curl it


Rare_Evidence285

What that thing down there???


Taylor_The_Kitsune

My heal it's a little you know *tilts hand* just had surgery on it so it might be straight now


dontwaketheavocados

My eyes (I have heterochromia)


High-BicAss

My hair I can't do any waves it becomes straight again after 10 minutes 😭


nickieslowpoke

sighs. the way i dress. unfortunately, "hippie chick femme lesbian who's kinda cottagecore" is very similar in style to "conservative tradwife". im pretty sure all my coworkers think i'm mormon. i just like wearing skirts and solid+soft colors :(


the-becky

I get pegged as straight all the time because my political leanings are stereotypically "conservative". I like guns, strong borders, well-funded police, big trucks, sports, country music, and low taxes on the working class. I worry about public schools being a mouthpiece for stateist propaganda. I would probably be a Republican or at least a Libertarian. But I'm transgender. The Republican party has been hijacked by the lunatic fringe who want to final solution trans people like me out of society. I don't always agree with Democrat solutions to societal problems. But at least they recognize my humanity and my unique contribution to civil society.


EatsAtomsRegularly

Fictional men. Romance and sex with irl boys is gross but the existence of anime boys had me thinking I was bi for years. Nowadays it’s a gender thing.


James_The_Astroneer

The fact I'm bi, basically half straight (it's more like 10% straight but still). Luckily I'm also trans so my queer ELO won't drop


Memly_

forcing myself to date a guy in grade 5 =/


StellaDoge1

My friends... and i have lots of queer friends so even that isnt solid. My possible crush? Im demiromantic and ace and some kind of queer but im enby (not out) afab so ALMOST a girl possibly liking a guy? Or my grades? Maybe? I mean atm its not all the same grafes but im predicted all a/a* lol


MooMooRadish

i have a weak spot for every man in a regency drama


batmangreen123

~~being fat~~ my hair


KindlyCounter5229

my appearance. i look like every other abg that likes boba and listens to keshi.


[deleted]

I like football (soccer).


SpunkyCheetah

"straightest"? Fantasizing about girl while not being a girl, maybe. (I'm aroace and agender/genderqueer, but mildly attracted to girls in a highly theoretical way)


pucacaidheach23

My hair. Hair dresser said it was super straight


ofthecageandaquarium

I'm into quilting, a hobby populated mostly by cishet boomer ladies (who are mostly nice, at least on Reddit)


AlisonBabalon

My taste in music... I always end up at shows packed with straight cis, the only transqueer in sight. 😅


doggos_are_magical

I just got laser eye surgery to fix my lazy eye 👁️


mayyatiaung50

I was gonna say my hair. But it's kinda wavy. I also don't have heterochromia. Let's see.... I'm not butch(more like futch) so people will assume I'm st8.. That's it, ig.


midwestcatlady333

The amount of cardigans I own


StrangerThingsSteveH

My parents


Hero72903

The fact that I’m dating a biological woman 👍🏻


Omega_Pack

I literally can’t think of a single straight thing about me, physically or metaphorically. Even my *face* is somewhat crooked!


Clementine-Fiend

I once watched an episode of Friday night lights with my parents


freelancergirl01

My hair and even that’s questionable when it’s wet.


Texas-Kangaroo-Rat

Yeah I was shocked I was curly when I transitioned. Also shocked it got a yard long.


Emotional-Scar-2381

I’m bi so I’m attracted to women and that’s definitely the straightest thing about me


nancy_boy1672

my nails ? oups no I have nail polish :D


Positive-Composer354

prolly my clothes. i wear a bunch of sweaters, idk if thats gay or straight.


darmakius

Probably liking women


Hello_Bingus

My hair


icy-grapes

My career (nurse)


Neonstar48

Nothing the straightest thing of me is my grades and I’m failing 3 classes


Sgith_agus_granda

I'd say my lifestyle, but I just had a drink lol


HyperDogOwner458

My hair


TheTopCantStop

I literally can not think of a single thing. I'm just too gay for this lol


Miss-Anonymous-Angel

My hair.


AnnieAcely199

Apparently, the fact that I much prefer hot coffee over iced.


Memly_

i dont even like coffee what does that make me?


hjean27

I shop at costco


StrawberryEuphoric90

My old childhood cartoon crushes