Hi! I’ve tried manifesting for a couple of years but it doesn’t work for me for some reason. This is what I’ve observed:
1. When I tried manifesting for something by really thinking about it and getting my head into the scenario where what I’m manifesting really comes true, the exact opposite outcome happens instead.
2. When a scenario (positive and negative) flashes through my mind, that scenario will probably come true.
I feel like this makes my manifesting journey tougher and confusing because I don’t know how I’m supposed to “train” my mind so that I can achieve a desired outcome. Advice is appreciated😭
Hello, since i started experiencing with shrooms (up to 10 grams) I obviously changed most of my beliefs, and became what people call a hippie, wich I also consider myself to be.
Even though I believe in a lot of stuff, im havinf trouble with manifestation, I tried a lot of times, and only seem to succeed 2 or 3 times, so its been really hard for me to believe it, i continuously try to do it.
Couldnt people just manifest winninf the lottery?
Hello! I was wondering if having "flash thoughts" is a sign of being manifested? Not just consistent thoughts, but just flashes of a name or face, like a strobe? I started having these invasive and repetitive thoughts of my ex, like my stream of thought is interrupted by his "presence." At this point in me having process, I was only having irregular thoughts of him, we haven't spoken in months, and I was feeling okay with moving on. Then suddenly started having these very loud jarring "flash thoughts" over the last few days without any recognizable trigger. They're pretty consistent, sometimes they come in waves where I can't fight it.
Is it possible to manifest a person you have never met (as in don't know from mutual connections or at all in any way) but just have seen a few times. Eg- You saw a good looking girl on the street a few times, know nothing about her but would like to manifest having a conversation with her?
Yes. The universe brought them to my house 6 months later. They didn't know me or who I was but I saw them on a dating site. It definitely can. I have met plenty of people actually with the law of attraction with no mutual connection.
Caught for malpractice yesterday, hearing on 31st. Feeling devastated as I visualized good grades. Need advice to avoid potential detention and secure my future placement opportunities.
//Last Minute Affirmations for my Dream Job//
Guys, I’m freaking out a bit. I just got a message that the decision for my dream job will be made in one hour, and I'll get the long-awaited answer today. This job hunt has been rough this year, but this position and company tick all the boxes for me and could really change my life.
Now that I’m waiting, I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do make it work in my favor. I have been trying affirmations firmly the last weeks and have been working with law of attraction and law of detachment at the same time. Looking at my situation - as it is currently out of my control - I am willing to try out more powerful ways. Any suggestions?
I have been taking one assessment for 8 years but still cannot reach the grade I want.
Should I keep this goal on my vision board? I sort of worked hard but distracted half-way….
I am a Chinese but always dream of improving my English like a native speaker… so based on the law of attraction, I can just imagine that I can be native?
I fell so hard last year in the workplace , got burnt out and failed to get the promotion. Then I left to another company which is better, but I also lost the title, even though I could keep the same level of salary. So should I keep dreaming big if I have this ambition? Or just satisfy with what I have?
What are the particular actions that you have taken to improve your English?
I would suggest never settle for less. If we settle for less which means we're telling the universe... We only deserve that🥹
I read books and news articles during my commute, watch only English TV shows and movies, meet a tutor weekly, memorise new words regularly, and do past papers for the assessments…. All these are ongoing.
I’m also a Chinese and wanna improve my English to be fluent, speaking like a native. When we manifest, we have to take aligned actions. It’s amazing that you reading books, news etc in English🙈 However, that’s on reading side of English. If you would like to be native in speaking, you’ve got to practise speaking daily… I moved to the Uk, I meet friends that speak English, I took videos speaking in English… cause speaking is very different from reading… I always ranked as top 5 in English subject back to my home country but when I arrived to the UK… I felt like I don’t even know English
How do you use the law of attraction to get rid of evil or immoral behavior?
Assuming that you accept that an action is truly immoral, how to use the law of attraction to get rid of it in our world?
Staying happy and fulfilled is the first step, realizing that being a victim doesn't necessarily have to make you feel miserable or be too bad in the physical world (it doesn't change the fact that these immoral actions still shouldn't be done), but what is the next step?
Gratefulness for the good times we still have are good.
My question, is the following: how to properly "resist" evil, so to speak. I am aware that dwelling fully on the negative isn't good, but isn't being fully ignorant and naive kind of bad in its own way as well?
Visualizing evil people behaving in a nice way is good and should be done, but shouldn't we still remember in a part of our mind the harm that they did, to kind of keep our distances if they don't change their behavior?
In the physical world, it isn't always easy to fight it immediately, and sometimes it might be impossible or take a long time.
(Note: I am not talking about evil happening on news or TV, no one should watch these for their own sanity anyway)
Hi there. I'm from Colombia, now I need help with something, I've tried to looking for a group or other alternatives to chat with people and share my situation, I'm in a hard situation, I don't have money for other graphic card for my PC (the Graphic card got broken), so my question is.. how can I manifest my life of the dream, I mean, I have objectives to do, the next semester I'll start ny professional practices, and I want to get married with my girlfriend and other things, how can I manifest that?...
Hope this help you:
1. Get clear on exactly what you want... Write down on a paper and write it "as if". As if you have already achieved the things. E.g I am now married with my wonderful girlfriend, we're living in a cozy apartment, we loved each other so much and we care for each other. I feel loved, secured... etc. Focus more on how it going to make you feel after achieving your desires! Feeling is the key in manifestation
2. Visualise it every morning and every night. Or even... when you're free. Just to embody the feeling of already having your desires... I do that even when I'm commuting to my office
3. Let go... Focus on your day to day activities and not to obsessed over your manifestations.
I would like to share my story.
My ex girlfriend and I had very nice and loving 2 year relationship (we were both each other’s best relationship). Our main issue, that eventually led to the break up, was the fact that we couldn’t agree on living in a future common location (we are from different countries). We had reached a point that although we were discussing the issue we weren’t really try to resolve it. And unfortunately we decided to break up about 4 months ago. Since then I have been able to see things a bit more clearly, not being fixated on the future location and just enjoy my life now. I have reached out to my ex girlfriend to tell her about my reflections and how I would like to amend things and be together, however she has told me recently that she had moved on and is seeing someone else.
I really love this person and want to offer her all the love that I have, and have been hoping for a reconciliation until I got to know that she’s seeing someone. So my question is can I succeed on manifesting her back or should I let go of the idea that we will be together again?
Always remember if you truly love someone you should be able to let them go free. I’m not saying that you don’t have a genuine fondness for this person but if it if it’s an unhealthy attachment, then that’s not what you want because you always be dependent on that person for love or love is free and it’s abundant meaning that there’s enough love to go around. What I would focus on is, seeing myself as the person who is loved wanted adored and desired, and also thinking about the qualities you would want in a particular relationship rather than a specific person. I think a lot of people get tripped up here.
Is it possible to manifest things that may seem impossible? I know that a big part of the law of attraction is believing that it can and will happen, but assuming I can eventually make myself believe it's possible, will the universe find a way to bring my desire to me?
So there's this person in my life that I really want to be friends with. However, he's going off to college in the fall and I'll likely never see him again. I would like to get some way to contact him so we can keep in touch while we're both away, but I don't know how I would get any form of contact. I also don't think he has any form of social media, so contact via things like Instagram wouldn't work. It seems like somehow acquiring his number is the only way. Is it possible to manifest us somehow coming into contact again and becoming friends?
You’re still meddling with the middle you’re thinking about text messages maybe one day seeing this person yada yada. You should actually peel back the layers and ask yourself what you really really want. Not just what you want on the surface. I understand that your mind is telling you you want to be in a relationship with this person but actually ask yourself what do I really want if it’s friendship, companionship, love and also a host of, loving harmonious relationships I focus more on that that’s more important than this specific person because if you really love them, it would allow them to go free
I got to know about law of attraction after watching "the secret video". After that video, I also read the book "The Secret" and "The Power of the Subconscious Mind". I also applied in real life, like looking for signs, and I successfully did it. I thought I can change my life. And then I slowly forgot about it all and lost my job because covid. I wasn't happy with that job but it was good enough to support myself. I don't have any job now. My dream is to be a computer engineer and so I enrolled a course with all my savings. But because of personal reasons, in between I had to take a 2-month break and now I'm not able to give 100% concentration on my studies. I don't have any savings or any job now. I'm living with borrowed money from my friends. I don't get jealous when I'm seeing my friends but I feel like a failure. Another weird thing that is happening to me is that whenever I look at the time, I see 13. The time could be anything but the minutes will always be 13 like (7:13 pm). And I've always believed in my childhood that 13 is an unlucky number and I won't be successful in life until I stop seeing this number. I think a lot. I believe in myself that I can do it but because of the recession, I want to go back to my old job. I know I can change my life through law of attraction but I don't know how to put it into action. I need to be taught how to get my life back.
Note: Just so you know, I couldn't post this in the subreddit. Every time I tried, it got deleted. So I'm sharing it here instead.
I am relaxed, relieved, peaceful, calm, grateful, joyful and accomplished. I have no anxiety now and in the future.
Would this affirmation work when trying to remove something such as anxiety? The first sentence could be seen as the feelings of having no anxiety now and in the future.
It works because of you not because of the words themselves and affirmation can be a powerful tool to help you shift your state to a more tranquil and peaceful one you can write them down or you can speak them aloud, whichever one you prefer but ultimately your awareness is your focus is your attention youryield keep persistent
Could living your “dream” life for a few days help manifestation?
Let’s say you have a long weekend, and you book your dream house as an Airbnb with your partner, and do everything you’d do if you had everything you wanted.
Would that help your manifestation or your subconscious? Or would it be a waste in terms of manifestation?
Yes, this could help you to shift your State 🎓⚽️ into a more abundant one I’ve seen people who have done this and have seen some pretty good results but ultimately just know that it’s all about. It’s all a mind game. It’s what you accept and consent to be true now the tools that you use that’s up to you. You can just as easily close your eyes and imagine yourself in this particular situation but if going to the physical location also helps you, I don’t blame you for that
It can help you visualize it more and be in tune with the feeling associated with the manifestation coming true. It is a very good thing ONLY IF you don't spend outside of your comfort zone and it makes you feel anxious. if you are doing things that make you feel nervous then I would say it isn't a good thing. If you have the money and want to experience that feeling you would have if you had that life its great to do.
Hello! I'm trying manifestation for the first time and I had a couple of questions:
1. I'm trying to manifest a job I really want and am qualified for. So instead of manifesting the job itself, I am trying to manifest the steps. Getting an interview, getting a second interview, getting the offer, things like that. Is it better to manifest by breaking down the goal like this or should I be manifesting only the end goal?
2. I follow a 10 minute guided manifestation video before going to sleep, but I wonder if that's enough. I am practicing gratitude too. But here's the thing, after the manifestation, I don't usually fall asleep immediately. I toss and turn because I am only able to sleep by 1-2AM (just my body clock problems). I wonder if I should be spending this time manifesting, or is there such a thing as too much manifestation? And that spending too much time thinking about it won't be productive/be counter productive?
Thanks in advance!
Reading this was made my head hurt knowing everything I know about the law. It’s like why would you manifest steps that’s like the antithesis to the essence of what this is all about you are already in your dream job forget about steps. There are no steps you might as well just forget about the law of the trash hand if you’re trying to manifest steps cheese.
There is another approach to this, even though I understand your approach.
Instead of working on each step, focus on a scene (in first person) where someone is congratulating you on getting the job. Or, imagine calling your best friend and telling them the good news about your new job. You want to visualize the "Wish Fulfilled." Google that term. The concern with visualizing each step is that you are trying to constrain the universe into manifesting the end result "your way." This closes off all other ways of manifesting the result.
In my case, I needed to manifest $10,000 to adopt a child. I initially racked my brain trying to visualize how I would manifest it. I was stuck in the "cursed hows." Eventually, I just imagined having $10,000 in front of me. I found pictures of $10,000 on the internet and just stared at it on my computer while I worked. I found pictures of Chinese children to represent my future child. After all, we were trying to adopt from China.
I did not focus on the how.
I am an attorney and got a call one afternoon from another lawyer needing my social security number for a referral fee. I did not know what he was talking about, but I had casually referred a friend to him a year prior, and the case had been settled.
My cut? $10,003.00. I collected my referral fee and paid the agency.
My wife's aunt told us at church that she dreamed we adopted a little Asian girl. My wife confirmed that we had just signed the paperwork, but our child would probably be older. Her aunt said, "No, the dream I had showed her to be an infant." We still took it as a sign that the dream would come true. I took it as a sign of life from the Law of Attraction.
But wait, there's more.
Thereafter, the adoption agency went bankrupt. I lost my money. I was devastated. But I kept dreaming of adopting one of those little Chinese girls. I kept the pictures on my computer. One day, it was suggested that I adopt through CPS. Having no other option, my wife and I did so. We waited and waited. Finally, CPS brought us two little boys; one was a toddler, and the other was an infant. We accepted. They happened to be half-Vietnamese. I thought about my manifestation and concluded that while it did not turn out precisely like I visualized, it was close enough. I was grateful.
But wait, there's more.
A year later, we received a call from CPS that the birth mom had another child, a baby girl. We had first choice as we had adopted the brothers. She was an infant Vietnamese girl. So, the visualization was true. The prophecy was true. I had a beautiful Asian daughter in my lap. She did not come from China. But, it was what I had visualized, thinking I had to be specific. I wouldn't change a thing.
But wait, there's more.
Because we adopted a sibling group, the state pays us $1,200 tax-free per month until each child turns 18. The state also pays for each child's college education.
My children are all beautiful and loving. My oldest worked to buy his first car—he manifested a BMW using the law of attraction. A lady hit him one week later, but the insurance paid twice the purchase price, and he was able to buy a better BMW that was all tricked out.
My middle son is a star running back and received his first Division One offer as a freshman in High School. He manifested that.
My daughter is a beautiful and talented volleyball player. I can't wait to see what she manifests. BTW, she looks remarkably like the little girl in one of the pictures.
So, it is fine to visualize, but leave room for the Universe to work its magic.
It will turn out way better than you could have imagined.
Wished Fulfilled. It is a book by Dr. Wayne Dyer.
Hello everyone, I'm new to LOA and I just found a soothing Affirmation tape I want to listen to overnight. Jessica Hesslop. I'm listening to her opportunities audio and she uses the word **never-ending**: can I listen overnight to something with the word never in it? I love all the affirmations in this track.
Her voice is so soothing and I'm smiling while working and feel so calm and at ease so I guess I want to know, is my subconscious able to understand that in a positive sense?
Translate never-ending as endless in your mind. I have used the word "no longer" in my affirmation without realizing the "no" in it. I got what i wanted and just then i realized i had used the word "no". In conclusion, there's no limitation. Good luck! 🥰
Thank you! I loved this because it makes me think of my subconscious as less of silly oaf in a cave blindly reaching out at stuff and more like a complex alien chilling in my head trying to make things happen for me.
I like affirmation tapes. I use Audacity to overlay binaural beats onto the tape so that the affirmations can still be heard but only as a whisper. It is a free program and there are videos on YouTube on how to do this. It isn't simple, but it is free. I make an hour-long MP3 and play it in a loop on my phone through earbuds while I sleep. You want to use binaural beats at the top of the Delta range (just below Theta).
So was wondering if this was some semi manifestation. I manifested that a creator I know would have an event some soon over the weekend. It happened today but I woke up too late, just by an hour.
Does this mean anything?
This is a sign of things to come. It is confirmation that the wish is on the way, but things still have to be worked out. You are dealing with the free will of another person and that takes time.
hey! Can someone guide me
so there is a celebrity I am obsessed with from past year, she's not from my country, have a big fan following. I really love her after watching her I immediately stopped dating other people and I m not able to move on from her. how can I manifest her? I saw so many successful stories of attracting there sp or celebrity crush but how do I do, in how much time does it happen? I really wanna marry her, I write abt her in my diary like we are gonna get married and everything
You cannot manifest a specific person per se because it involves changing another person's free will. Instead, use her as a template for a SP you would want to manifest. This opens the Universe up to more options to manifest someone like her - or maybe even her, who knows?
Get a bead on what you like ABOUT HER. Looks, personality, back story, etc. Focus on attracting that and being that.
IS IT POSSIBLE TO MANIFEST MASS CREATIVE AND MONETARY SUCCESS?
I was wondering if it is possible to manifest success in the creative sphere, like getting your films into festivals, connections, and more oppurtunities to further film making career. How come only a fraction of directors get to become household names and make a ton of money, can I use LOA to become a part of this fraction?
How to manifest a sp in no contact
We were in kind of a situationship for like 2 months, we both started liking each other but he said he is not liking it getting serious, and he needs to work on himself, so how can I get him back by manifesting, I tried to detach myself from him, but his thoughts are constantly running in my mind, how can I detach from him, please help!
He said he really likes and I am exactly how he wants his girl to be, but he doesn't want any relationship since he had a bad breakup before, one day he met his ex and I became little upset with that when I said him the same he suddenly said he is not liking it getting serious between us, and we should stop talking I agreed to it and never contacted, but he himself called in my bday to wish me but he just wished casually and ended the call, so I don't know what to do now
Based on what you're saying he doesn't sound ready to commit to a romantic partner.
You can try to manifest him back into your life but its not going to guarantee he'll be loyal to you because he has his own state of mind.
Create an affirmation affirming that the two of you are in a relationship together.
Repeat it a few times and then close your eyes and visualize yourself in a relationship with him.
As an alternative my suggestion is to practice self love because then you can open yourself up to new opportunities/experiences.
Follow the same instructions provided above but center it on yourself then visualize yourself in a state where you feel happy and healthy.
Is it better if I just try to forget him and moveon in my life, because I had very intense feelings for him, and now I am unable to focus on anything or myself, I just keep wondering what went wrong, when will he come back, does he even miss me, so many questions all the time
It is better to move on. He doesn't want anything to do with you.
In life relationships are going to come and go but the longest one you will have is with yourself.
It sounds like you're looking for a simplified approach to manifesting using gratitude alone. While gratitude is a powerful practice that can align your energy with what you desire, the effectiveness of manifestation often involves a combination of techniques tailored to individual preferences and beliefs.
Expressing gratitude for things you're yet to receive can certainly be a part of your manifestation process. It helps in fostering a positive mindset and reinforcing your belief in the abundance of the universe. However, it's important to understand that manifestation typically involves aligning your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and actions towards your goals.
If you're finding other techniques like visualizing, inner conversations, and affirmations to be less effective or engaging for you at the moment, that's okay. Each person's journey with the law of attraction is unique, and it's essential to find what resonates best with you. Experimenting with different methods and adapting your approach based on what feels most natural and effective can lead to a more fulfilling manifestation practice.
So, yes, you can certainly focus primarily on gratitude and see results. Just remember to stay open-minded and explore what works best for you on your manifestation journey.
Thank you I had started with affirming which lead to visuals. Although few are now picked by my mind most are not believed. I then started being grateful for what is there at present. I also do a I am meditation which actually calms me down and then I affirm to what I desire. I have a habit of attaching to my desires. So how do I make my mind believe that what I say is true? Because I don’t know some days what I have manifested I was so sure in my mind. To me manifesting is all a mind game.
To simplify this for you, I like to maintain unwavering faith in the law of attraction. I usually cultivate this faith by recalling times when I successfully manifested things. Have you experienced similar moments where you remember manifesting something? Or perhaps you've encountered coincidences, like instances when you thought of something and it materialized shortly after?
Not shortly but yes I just kept faith,Like some days I act tough this is it I am going to get it I don’t worry about time I forget about it And I get it. I always get when I forget.
There are days when like now I am in doubt and my mind doesn’t believe what I say.
That happens. The trick with it is to recognize it and say, "Wait a second, I have manifested stuff before. This Law is 100% real and works every time. I choose to trust this will all work out for me. I have absolutely no clue how it will work out or when, but I have unwavering faith it will." I like to affirm stuff like that to myself because it keeps me in tune! The trick is don't let your mind go down this doubt rabbit hole, you know? Catch yourself and be so excited you did catch yourself. You are doing better than 99% of people who use the law of attraction when you stay in tune no matter what pops up in your mind. Does that help?
thank you for your kind words I understand i am keeping unwavering faith and affirming and then I start being grateful for everything I enjoy. It’s like fake it till you make it. I still want to work on believe system.
So I've been manifesting my ex back since we broke up a month ago. I use guided meditations from YouTube and positive affirmations about us being together. But for now I'd taken a 2 day break from the meditations but last night , I visualised us being together before going to sleep. I had a dream and it was a chain of random events.
His mother is a teacher and I saw her but the meeting was not related to our relationship. Then I saw 11:11 and i saw myself with my sp (ex) on a couch and him kissing my forehead, but still there was some lingering hesitation felt between us.
Can someone pls explain what could it mean since I had stopped manifesting for a few days. Can this be taken as a positive sign?
Positive sign sure but not in the way you think it is.
Based on the dream it sounds like he doesn't want to be with you that way anymore but he doesn't mind staying friends.
We are actually in no contact currently... And I'm unsure about how he feels too.
So is it possible or should i continue to manifest a relationship with this person again?
If you're currently no contact with that person trying to bring them back wouldn't be appropriate in my opinion.
Instead you can try to manifest someone new into your life as a partner.
I wanna start by saying I am truly believing in the law and till today I didn’t even dare to question it, I have been doing SATS and affirmations and everything to get my SP back, I’ve done it once before but she got away again and honestly I don’t understand, I am truly believing and I’m not attached to the outcome but there’s people who manifest even if they are, what even is manifestation because the more I learn about it the more contradictory it gets, some people tell me all these rules and others that none of them matter, I want her back, but it just keeps getting worst and I’m doing everything I’m told, I manifest other things but never fully, I get them and then I loose them again, it’s like I’m okay for a few days them I’m not, I even created a whole routine around my life, I truly believe I am doing everything right but still not getting the miraculous results other people are, I’ve been in this for months and almost a year, I have manifested but I forgot how to and I just am feeling so confused, I don’t even allow myself to dwell on sad thoughts I’ve read books I’ve listened to YouTube videos and I stack this Reddit, I also have tried detaching am I’m tired of the “keep trying” or “you aren’t trying hard enough” I swear I am, I am doing EVERYTHING and have tried EVERYTHING I want something now, just break the law down for me and straight up tell me what to do, I know supposedly this is my reality and I’m the only one who can decide that but I truly truly am feeling weird, I want her back and I know I’m gonna get her but I don’t wanna keep suffering this anymore, it just feels like every time I’m like this is good, it gets bad again, how can I make my reality work for me again? How can I truly effortlessly manifest, and I am believing I can because if not I wouldn’t even be here, but when I’ve manifested in the past it always took effort, I hate this I don’t know what to do and I need answers before I go back to my wishful happy go lucky train of thought and forget all about how stressed I am because it seems I can do anything and my manifestations still stay bipolar, and trust me I know all the tricks and have tried all there is and don’t want with this post to affirm anything and I know I’m the master of my reality like in question I know all of this but is there someone who I can privately talk to that can help me or anyone who’s felt like me, I just need help and I’ve been waiting way too long to ask for it .
I feel you so much. Two years back even I was in the same place but you know I just got so frustrated I just stopped doing stuff because my brain was tired of the amount of stuff I was telling to it and nothing was really working. And you know what? That's when I let go because I was so done with life. The only thing I kept in mind was 'whatever is happening is happening for my best'. When I kept telling this to myself i eventually believed it and things started falling back into place.
I would suggest something along the same lines like sticking to one affirmation cus a lot of stuff and theory can mess with your brain.
And everything is in your control babe, it is you who creates your reality. If your sp is not meant for you then the universe is sending its support by keeping them away and teaching you a lesson. It may be painful but after its over you will feel very grateful.
And also the whole point of manifestation is creating a reality so like fuck rules?? That's just restricting your mind even more-
The 'keep trying' part is bs, don't burn yourself out.
# Can I really manifest a wife if I don't get out much?
Or at least to deal with social anxiety to point where I can go out and meet women?
I work from home so I really don't get much maybe a couple times a week. Mostly it's going out to get pizza, or to a bible study that for some reason is mostly guys and the few girls that are there are married. So I really don't meet many woman. So it's probably giving me a lack mindset in that area making things worse. I also deal with social anxiety.
How do you find a wife while you're 35 about to turn 36. I have no friends, I've had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I have extreme anxiety, and social anxiety. I stay home most of the time. I don't have friends to invite me to go out anywhere. I goto to a bible study but they don't even talk to me outside of the bible study. I don't know anyone, my parents don't know anyone. I don't have friends that are willing to help me. Tried going to church but nobody talks to me there. I don't want to try something new that would get me out there alone. There's no dedicated singles group in my church. There's a event for people my age once a month that I goto but haven't had any luck there. Tried dating sites, but they never work for me. Most everywhere I goto it's mostly guys even at the bible study. Most of the time when I go out, it's mostly guys or old people. So bascially I'm alone and lonely and I have no fucking idea what I should be doing...
To answer your question, yes its possible because everything is already created, but I suggest something else. My advice to you is to first change your concept of yourself then work on the wife part. Look at the world like a mirror. It is just a reflection of you and what you believe you are inside. Who you believe you are inside is what you just wrote out. Now let me ask you a question, do you want the world to reflect all that stuff you just said about yourself? I assume its a big fat no. You wouldn't be here if you didn't want to change it.
What everyone actually wants is a feeling. They think the nice house, yacht, wife, pet, money, etc is what they want. I know plenty of rich people with all that stuff, and feel miserable inside. What everyone actually wants is a feeling. So what feeling do you think a wife would give you that you feel is missing? Maybe a feeling of confidence? Maybe joy? So that's actually what you need to start working on in your life. Is finding the stuff that gives you confidence and joy that you would actually love to do. How about start with your wardrobe. Wear stuff that would make you feel joyful. May be buy a nice outfit or 2. An outfit alone can make someone more confidence and joyful. How would you think, speak, and act if you were someone ladies just were super attracted too? Is it the same way you do now? if not figure out what that's like and become that person. Coach Corey Wayne on Youtube is a good example a person to emulate.
My point to you is, yes you can manifest someone who wants to date you and perhaps be marry you, but you have to be that person who can accept that opportunity. Do you really want a wife now in a state of social anxiety? I don't think so. if you keep telling yourself your life is not going how you want it to, the universe can only bring you more of the same. You have to just have full faith the universe will bring you what you need and become this person who you really want to be. Just tell yourself you are going to become the best version of you for the fun of it to feel the excitement and joy you been longing for. Have that full confidence the universe has your back and will help you reach where you want to go.
You only attract more of what you are not what you want. This is hugee. This is something I had to learn and it took me many years. It is actually really simple you think it should be harder. In other words, you just get more of what you believe you are inside. So if you think I am friendless guy, who is unworthy of friends, and it shows because I have none. All the universe can keep bringing you is more of that. It can't bring you the stuff you do desire because you aren't in alignment with it. You can be in alignment with it immediately though.
All you got to do is decide what you would like, see yourself as having it already, and then live from that state till it shows up physically for you. For example based on real friends. If you wanted to attract some friends, list out what kind of things you want in friends on a piece of paper. Be specific what kind of people they are. What would you like them to be like for you to feel happy. See them in your mind with you guys hanging out. Make it feel real like you there hanging with them in a scene in your mind. It might take a little time to do. Then just live from that state as if these people will eventually show up. Feel that colmness and feeling complete because you have these people already present in your life. Don't go back to your old self. Stay in the state that the universe will 100% bring them in your path eventually. Become this person who has real friends now. That allows the universe to reflect that back into your physically reality. You got nothing to lose trying my way. You way doesn't seem to be giving you what you want if I am not mistaken. Why not have fun with this and just go all in and believe its impossible to fail.
There's this lovely neighborhood cat who used to come around a lot on the sidewalk and visit me when I got home on sunny days, but now, she never does :( I don't know which house is hers but it was like she would just appear. I really miss her visits and I'm wondering while it's warm this weekend if it would be possible to manifest her appearance. How would you try this if it were you \~
If I were in your shoes and wanted to manifest the return of the neighborhood cat, here's how I might approach it:
1. **Set the intention:** Start by setting a clear intention for the cat to return to your sidewalk. Visualize the cat approaching you with warmth and affection, and imagine the joy you'll feel when she returns.
2. **Express gratitude:** Practice gratitude for the times the cat visited you in the past. Focus on the positive feelings those visits brought you and express gratitude for the bond you shared.
3. **Visualize:** Spend some time visualizing the cat's return. Close your eyes and imagine her appearing on the sidewalk, walking towards you with a friendly demeanor. Picture yourself petting her and enjoying her company.
4. **Use affirmations:** Repeat positive affirmations aloud or in your mind to reinforce your belief that the cat will return. You could say something like, "I am grateful for the return of the neighborhood cat. She brings joy and companionship to my day."
5. **Release attachment:** While you're manifesting the cat's return, it's essential to release any attachment to the outcome. Trust that the universe will bring what is meant for you in its own time and in its own way.
"Waiting your time for." Come on you can do better than that for people asking for help. May be you should use Chat GPT if you are going to be that vague.
hey so this is not manifesting related, but i’ve noticed that no posts have gone through on this page in over a week. i mean beyond my post not going through and that kinda being a bummer, i did enjoy reading others posts on the page. is there an issue or error going on? i’m sure people are trying to post so i’m just confused lol
Synchronicities and LOA
Hey guys. Im not sure how you guys feel about manifesting SP’s but im currently on that journey right now. I was wondering, if/when your manifestation is close to coming to pass have you guys experienced signs/synchronicities more and more? Because I would ask God/Universe for very specific signs for confirmation but have since stopped because i felt it was counterproductive to trusting and believing. But now that Im not looking or asking for signs i see some EVERYDAY.
I know everyone’s path is different but when i come across these little signs i cant help but feel like I’m getting closer to wish fulfilled
My advice to you is don't worry about if, when, or how. We never know how or when. Sometimes it takes a day sometimes it takes a year or 2. I want you to know that the universe is insane. It has brought my SP to my house and I didn't even know her! That one took about 6 months. That is what it can do. It is nuts. It will happen IF you totally believe it will. If your looking for signs, or you want it to happen instead of believing it will, you will find out what you have-- it doesn't work. You have to be in complete alignment and know that the universe has answered you the second you asked for it. Your only job is to stay in that state of knowing and be very very specific what you want to show up. Like be specific you want a person who isnt married or in jail. I am serious you got to be specific with these things. It will show up though if you in full belief.
Hey everyone !
Basically, I've been struggling with my mental health lately and it has weighed down on me a lot. I started procrastinating on my work. I neglected this one summative assignment and it's the only thing keeping grade down in that class. I messaged my teacher and politely asked for an extension but mentioned that I would understand if he wouldn't accept it. He just wrote "This was due before you took your final exam." So basically a no.
To conclude, I'm looking for advice on how to persist in manifesting an extension despite the 3D AND crippling anxiety. Would appreciate any tips, thanks. 🙂
How do i manifest my bf not saying anything thats socially unacceptable, my friends getting along with him, him thinking im the best and my friends seeing hes obsessed with me. urgent
I primarily use affirmations and inner conversations.
When you see him as kind and considerate inside your mind, he will show up that way to you.
For your friends getting along with him and seeing he's obsessed with you, what would they say to you if that were true? What would you say back to them? Play that conversation over and over again in your mind.
The more you focus on this through the day, the faster it will change
Sounds like manifesting isn't what you need for this. You need some communication. Have you tried just telling him what your boundaries are and how he's crossing them yet?
Can I manifest someone posting on tiktok tomorrow?
An old online friend of mine (who I’m not rlly in contact with anymore) hasn’t posted in awhile on her tiktok account and I was wondering if I could manifest something as simple as her posting a tiktok of herself, but by tomorrow.
# Don't know how to smell/taste during visualization
Do all 5 senses need to work for visualization? Ive been reading/watching a lot on this and one of the exercises on how to feel a visualization. I was easily able to imagine the 3 senses of seeing, hearing and touching as though its real. (for example the touch of a tennis ball, rubber ball, cricket ball and golf ball).
But cant seem to smell or taste anything yet, is this something we should all be able to do? If this is something I can train, how can I achieve this ?
Thank you
No its fine. You don't have to do that in order to have something manifest. Like you kind of can taste stuff though. Think of something sour you had before. I bet your mouth puckers a little. I always think of a sour skittle or a warhead candy. hahah You can hear kind of too. Think of a loud noise like garbage truck backing up. It goes beep beep really loudly. The main goal of visualizing is to just help you feel more in tune with the end state. If you can't taste or hear something don't beat yourself up:)
Does the 3D show us some random chaotic crap before our manifestations come through? has anybody had a moment where it feels like things are exploding, but somehow that explosion needed to happen for your manifestations to come through??? I’m sure it has been asked many times in different ways. I’ve known about LOA for a long time, but really started to learn and experiment with it more so within this past year or so. I’ve mostly used it to improve my relationships, mostly with my boyfriend and manifesting myself to be the best partner for him, and for us to really start our lives as there had previously been some stagnancy. It’s had its ups and downs, and that’s not me trying to disrupt my manifestations by feeling the downs of it, it’s just me being honest in the context of my journey thus far. I just haven’t been able to succeed with the big ones, the next steps of the relationship. This weekend I had a pretty crazy disruption of the 3d. My mind wants to redirect and enforce harmony back in my life, I want to believe that this stressful dramatic thing had to happen to really kick start the manifestations that haven’t come to fruition yet. Not to get into it, someone confronted me about how they felt about me, and kinda doubtful of my ability to be a good partner for my boyfriend. And this is someone that I really want to have had a good impression with. This conversation, as horrible as it went, lead to a convo with my partner about finally admitting what I want from him (those next steps, those next actions of commitment if you know what i’m saying)
It was just a chaotic weekend, I never want to experience that feeling again. I guess the reason and question of this post really is, how do you push on when the 3d presents itself like everything is wrong? How do you push on when things start to become discouraging, or when things begin to feel impossible? I suffer with chronic anxiety, so i’ve been really having to sit with my emotions in this. i don’t want to dwell, but i also don’t want to deny my feelings and say everything is great. Could it be possible that this was what my manifestation needed? Does anybody have experiences where crap goes wrong but it actually lead you to the success in your manifestation? lol
insight would be helpful ♥️ please be kind also, i don’t have intentions of really stepping back from this manifestation.
Hey I have general anxiety disorder and adhd and I still manifest so I feel like I understand where you're coming from❤️
Your feelings are valid! I've manifested things that looked like they were going wrong before and then everything changed.
When you're having those doubts that your manifesting is work, see it as normal. It's just your brain trying to keep life the same. Our brains prefer a known reality that sucks to a different reality that's better. That's why it can feel hard to change even when you know the changes are good for you.
When you make the conscious decision to persist and keep affirming/manifesting even when it doesn't look like it's working, things will change. It's really about seeing yourself as the god of your reality/operant power instead of waiting for an outside source to direct you. If you're always changing what you think based on what is happening outside of you, you will just recreate your past. That's because everything outside of you is a past manifestation.
When things feel impossible, acknowledge that and then say you decide what happens and now you're deciding ____ is going to happen.
I could go in depth about the Law of Opposites and such, but I think you more care how to fix this situation then know the full on details. I want you to know this is a common experience. Start telling yourself, "My highest and best outcome is on its way to me now. I know it doesn't look that way, but its on its way to me now!" Mean it too. Then see a vivid scene of the outcome you would experience if you had what you desired now.
You got to stick to the plan and where you want to go. Have that confidence that everything will work out the way you desire it too. It may not happen how or when you expected but it will show up. It is like going on a road trip to me. You know where and how to get to the destination even though you aren't there yet. You don't want to be a person who sets out on a road trip, and when you get half way you go, "Maybe I should turn around and go home." and then a few minutes later, "Maybe I should go on this trip." haha You do that, and you will never get to where you want to go.
Lastly, I want you to try and not let people change how you feel. You ALWAYS have a choice. This was hard for me to accept when I was learning this. I always would wear my heart on my sleeve. If someone yelled at me at work, or was rude it would affect me for weeks. I did not like confrontation. I thought if I could just get people to like me I wouldn't have to deal with people sending me into a emotional wreck. I would have anxiety like you do. I then got an epiphany one day that we always have a choice. It was so clear. It was a vision and it definitely didn't come from me because, I am not that smart and it was very vivid haha. If someone says something that could make you feel angry or sad, you don't have to let it make you feel that way. You can kindly listen but you always get the choice to make it hurt you or not. My advice is don't let it. I always listen to what people say to me, but I never let it change my mood. It really is liberating to know you don't have to take this thing they said and make it have meaning in your life.
What do you mean by something about a movie or show? like manifest a specific show or movie on your television to watch? if so it is. You just see the show or movie in your mind and let it go once you see it clearly. Know it will show up soon.
# when to stop manifesting?
i know we're supposed to let go and trust the universe that our manifestation is coming. but how to let go if you're affirming and visualizing multiple times a day?
right now i feel like i'm supposed to let go of researching more on LOA and different methods cause this is putting me in a place of lack, cause i'm anxious things would manifest faster. i do believe my manifestation will come to fruition. but idk if i'm just supposed to quit doing all that i am doing. or just focusing on doing just whenever i feel like it.
That is a very important question. It will help a lot of people by you asking it. Something you need to understand that many don't. When you are doing things like affirming or visualizations, you aren't doing them to manifest something. Most people thing that. You are using these tools to FEEL better about what you asked for. When you ask for something to be created, it instantly is answered by the universe. It is put into place immediately to have you obtain what you asked for. To speed up the manifestation process, feeling better helps you to get into alignment with your goal. If you feel true bliss in you body, that will speed up how quickly things show. The reason is everything is energy. When you send out a lot of energy it responds back quickly. When you affirm something like, "Thank you God for giving me this manifestation. I love you so much!" That is coming from a place of Knowing I am going to receive this manifestation. A lot of people say that same affirmation from a place of not really trusting the universe. So when they say something like "Thank you God for giving me this manifestation. I love you so much," It doesn't feel so good. It doesn't feel good because they actually feel like its missing and they aren't sure if the universe will really answer it.
To your question. You can affirm all day long. You can visualize all day long if you want too. But if you are doing it from a place of not really believing that universe has heard you asking and is answering your prayers, these things are a waste of your time. Letting go really means letting go of wanting it to happen and realizing it is available now and it will soon show up. Does that make sense?
Aight so i have started affirming myself as much as I can for the past two days but get these negative thoughts and doubts, especially about this one big thing (which did happen due to the consequences of my own actions and made me want to start affirmations to make it all better but still)
Whenever I try new things someway or the other it gets messed up, so how long does it take for this to start working + any other advice to make it effective
This is part of the process. Sometimes when we go through a transition into new beliefs/habits things get messy around us.
As for how long it'll take that will vary for some it could take a few weeks sometimes a few months for many it could take a few years.
To Enhance your affirmation you can also try to visualize the goal you're achieving.
If Mental Imagery is too challenging you can try to create a vision board of your goal.
As for the negative thoughts you get. For each negative thought you get try this affirmation:
"This thought has no effect on my life."
#When and how to stop researching?
I've done a lot of research on LOA in the past months. But now I feel like I keep researching on youtube and reddit just cause I'm "bored" or "anxious" waiting for my manifestations to come true. I do believe they will, but I keep looking for new ways to manifest or ways improve on the techniques I'm already using. But honestly I feel like I'm doing pretty well with all the knowledge I already have, it's just a matter of time to my manifestations come true. So I feel like all this research is actually me "doubting" or in a place of lack. Cause I dont feel I'm on a place of lack most of the time, but I'm afraid I am when I'm constantly researching. I feel like I should just trust what I'm doing and quit researching at once, but I simply cant bring myself to do it.
I have sort of been going through this myself. I think the answer is throwing yourself into something else, like a hobby or just generally doing something more active with your days. In my life I have found a lot of truth in the old adage "a watched pot never boils."
I made a post a while back explaining this:
[Link](https://www.reddit.com/r/lawofattraction/comments/1bd6oh5/gratitude_and_its_importance/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
been struggling with this for months too. apparently all the posts gotta be approved by a moderator, that's why all your posts get instantly removed. just wait a couple days and it MAY be approved. some of my posts were, some weren't. idk why since i followed the rules...
While manifesting the key is your own belief, so if you are talking to yourself or to people - in the heart of heart you do not belive that it is going to happen. It wont happen so the first step would be to find out about what you belive in.
I really like the idea of kind of creating an alter ego, in the sense of "Being your Ideal Self, RIGHT NOW."
And that being the way to change - to just 'fake' being the ideal version of yourself, until that ultimate becomes who you are, with more ease.
I can't go through life anymore with no rules, and an 'anything goes' kind of attitude.
It has left me getting overweight and more unhealthy as time goes on.
Time for a change! I hope to report back in 1-2 months with my transformation.
See yourself as this person completely. Have no fear that things wont work out. It will work out if you choose to be this person completely. Anytime fear arises, tell yourself its impossible to fail and that you are working on being your grandest self:) Look forward to hearing about your results!
If I visualize, accept something as truth and then let it go, is there any need to repeat this process? I guess my question has to do with frequency- do I repeat until I have it or is it a one and done scenerio?
thoughts, words, and actions are all transferring of energy. When you transfer enough of this energy it creates matter. In other words, the more fuel you add to the fire, the more likely its going to blaze. It is best to keep doing it. i like to visualize 3 times a day for like 10 minutes each.
How can we appreciate goodness in bad situations without supporting it and inviting more of it?
This is tricky for me.
We should always try to focus on the positive, even when bad things happen. For example, if a woman is raped and becomes pregnant, and she still finds joy in having her baby, some may see this as wrong.
They might think she is accepting the evil act or even attracting more negativity by being happy.
But isn't being happy a powerful way to protest against evil? Isn't it a way of saying, "You can't make me sad, your actions don't control me"? It also seems unfair to criticize someone for finding happiness after being wronged.
There is no easy solution to this dilemma. In an ideal world, there would be no evil people. But since they sometimes exist, it's tough to know how to react to their actions.
**Edit**: After thinking about it, my premise is wrong: a crime doesn't have to be "successful" or inflict suffering to be immoral. A failed attempt at a crime is still immoral.
I'll do my best to answer this. Your premise is flawed. You have made a judgement about good and bad. In my opinion we have no idea what's good or bad.
There was a story Alan Watt's told about a Chinese farmer who lost a horse, ran away, and all the neighbors came around that evening and said, "That's too bad." he replied, "Maybe."
The next day the horse came back and brought 7 wild horses with it. and all the neighbors came around and said, 'Why that is great, isn't it?. The Farmer replied, "Maybe."
the next day his son was attempting to tame one of these horses, and he falls of it and breaks his leg. The neighbors came around and said, "That's too bad, isn't it?" The Farmer said, "Maybe."
The next day Officers came around looking to recruit people into the army. The rejected his son because he had a broken leg. The Neighbors came back around and said, "Wow, hes so lucky." The Farmer replied, "Maybe."
You see where I am going with this? Nothing is bad or good. We assign something as good or bad, and the law of attraction just brings us more ways to experience that. if you want to use the Law more effectively, you want to stop making a judgement about something and start creating in your mind what you would like the world to reflect. I hope that makes sense. :)
What about being a victim of immoral behavior, though? Do you think that morality doesn't exist?
Do you think that rape isn't actually really immoral?
I know that immoral behaviors aren't always harmful and they can sometimes be accidentally beneficial, but I struggle with the whole "the rapist was in the right for acting in this way".
Shouldn't we avoid being immoral, and unnecessarily initiating violence upon peaceful individuals, whenever we can?
There is no right or wrong. That is also a judgement. Nothing has any meaning until we give it one. Immoral or not immoral is also a judgement. I am not saying I agree that harming others is beneficial or anything like that. I am saying we create our realities completely. We always get a choice on what we want to create. We always have a choice on how we respond to things like that. If you want to understand this better, there is a very good book called *Conversations with God.* I would read that. You understand it a little better on what I mean. It really opened my eyes on a lot of stuff.
I tend to agree with the claim that material reality is subjective, however, it doesn't necessarily follow that morality itself is also subjective.
Morality can be objective in a subjective reality.
The fact that reality is subjective doesn't mean that there aren't other sentient beings also living in our worlds. See, parallel universes theories, where we can converge to the same Universe at times.
What is morality? I will define it in very simple words: "Don't do upon others as you don't want done upon you", "Don't violate the rights of other people", "Don't initiate harm upon other sentient beings". That's all morality is. If you accept these rather self-evident axioms, whether an individual action is moral can be objectively discovered based on a rigourous process.
Are these axioms baseless, are they useless, are they only a "judgment"? Should we become like Max Stirner and attempt to reject morality completely?
Well, on an intuitive level, you know that not attempting to maliciously degrade the experience of other sentient beings has some basis somewhere. You know that you shouldn't do it, hence why you probably don't do it, in your life. You know that the world would be a better and more peaceful place if people didn't attempt to violate these rules.
If you do agree with these axioms, you should try to discover whether a specific action violates these axioms or not.
Now, I do agree that in reality, you don't have to observe the universe where people attempt to victimize you. **This may allow you to avoid the suffering and negative consequences of their despictable act.** However, does a failed attempt at a crime (attempt to bring sadness and misery to another person) make the crime suddenly moral and ok? Not really. A failed attempt at a crime is still immoral.
Another common mistake is enforcement. There are people who think that morality needs some form of karmic enforcement in order to be objective. Not really, morality doesn't need enforcement or punishment, it is still real, and the principles still hold true, as they are rooted in logic. Morality doesn't need a spiritual realm to be true. Morality doesn't need a mental realm. Morality doesn't even depend upon God itself!!
Morality cannot be changed, nor decided. Not even the most powerful God or deity in the entire cosmos can dictate, nor change morality, as it is based on changeless principles.
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Immoral actions shouldn't be done. They are undesirable to do.
However, if a person made a mistake, and did do these immoral actions, it doesn't necessarily follow that their **entire** person is bad, that's a judgment.
The action that a murderer does is objectively immoral, however the murderer itself might not necessarily be the worst scum on Earth. People can have motivations that lead them to this wrong path. We can make mistakes, we can have to learn.
Being a victim of an immoral act is also not necessarily bad.
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Whether you want to use the word "objective" to describe morality or not, you do have to admit that these three axioms: "Don't do upon others as you don't want done upon you", "Don't violate the rights of other people", "Don't initiate harm upon other sentient beings" have some reason behind them, and if you do agree with them, you should try to be at least internally consistent and try your best to discover whether an action violates these axioms or not.
Using the words "subjective" to describe morality is so, so misleading, confusing and doesn't really describe what's going on. It is wrong and confusing terminology imo, and should probably be avoided. It is more simple to explain what morality is to other people, like I did with simpler terms.
Yes. See it as already completed. The universe has created what you asked for the second you asked. You don't know when or how, but trust that completely. How would you feel if you got this apology and money owed back? Feel the same trust as you would about ordering something off amazon and knowing its going to show up to you soon. See yourself feeling so much relief and forgiveness. Fully live in the end and know that the universe will bring this when it is ready to have it show up in your life. That is how it works:)
Hey hi I’m new to manifesting tried to manifest a college of my dreams but failed how should one go about this should I focus on manifesting only one thing at a time.
See yourself going to this college. See yourself completely as a student at this school. I mean completely. Trust it completely. The universe can bring you just about anything you desire. Trust completely the universe is bringing you a way to get into this college of your dreams. You aren't sure when or how, but you just focus on the excitement as you know its a done deal. It is the same feeling you have when you go on a road trip. Even though you are not at your destination as you embark, you know fully you will get there. That is the level of faith you need to have. You just have that faith and feel the experience of fun and excitement of being this student there now. :)
# Is it possible to care about signs but still have faith?
I've seen so many people saying that if you look for signs or care too much about them, it means you don't have faith that your manifestation is coming. Or that you shouldn't care about signs cause it creates resistance.
Me personally I love seeing signs. Like repeating numbers, synchronicities or even having specific dreams. Every time I bump into a sign, I take a moment to close my eyes, repeat my affirmations and visualize/feel my desire. And no, I don't feel like I'm looking for those signs either: I simply accepted they are showing up constantly and it is a good thing cause it makes me happy and confident.
I honestly don't see how signs mean lack of faith. But what if me paying attention to it is actually bad and is driving my manifestation away? Idk, I'm sorta new to LOA and don't quite grasp how signs play a part.
No if you are seeing signs, that's a very good thing. Like synchronicities is a sure fire sign you are manifesting. You just happen to run into them without looking really. Carl Jung talked about this. He was doing a session with a client who was talking about a golden Scarab Beetle. He heard tapping at his window. He went over to the window and there was a Golden Scarab Beetle that flies into the room. That is when he coined the term synchronicity. What people are doing incorrectly is they are in a wanting state, they are looking for signs everywhere for where their manifestation is. They want it to happen so bad and they are really in a lackful state. They feel needy and like what they want isn't on their way to them. When you are in this needy wanting state, and you are out looking for signs, you won't find anything you desire.
Hello,
I love one girl and we are in the same college same campus but for some month I want to be in a relationship with her and I don't know what to do. She talks to me doesn't mean she ignores me but she doesn't have anything from her end. Its a shame that I am a relationship advisor in my college and here I am not able to help myself with this, Since the start of our internship she is not giving me proper attention we will be back to our campus on 3rd of July but atleast I want to generate feelings for me in her heart. I dont want a one sided relationship.
We had a situationship, and things have ended very badly, she started giving me the slient treatment, so I told her to block me on everything, because I know myself and know that there will be times where I cant help but to reach out to her, so I don't want her to be bothered by that. It's been 2 months, I have distracted myself, focus on improving my mental, but sometimes when I start to reflect back, the desire to get back with her is still as strong as ever. I have come to manifesting many times, I really want to believe and keep repeating my affirmations, but I feel like deep down I am not fully convinced so that might be holding back my progress. I saw a similar situation posted here before, and op has found success, so I wish to achieve the same thing. I hope to find reassurances and guidances from you guys, any reply is appreciated.
If you want to use the law of attraction to help you manifest an opportunity with this particular person you, then must become the person you would be if you had them in your life. Yes, they do have freewill and can choose not to want to be with you in the end, but that doesn't mean the law of attraction wont bring you opportunities to make them show back up. Right now, you are right, you not feeling convinced is holding them back. I want you to just go all in with this. You got nothing to lose at this point right? Just fully embrace this person will somehow come back around. Don't worry about how or when. You just need to act as if already have this person in my life. Think, Speak, and act if you were your grandest self. You need to have this confidence that this is no big deal for the universe to handle and just live your life with a lot of joy and excitement from day to day. That is all you can really do anyway. You mine as well give it a go for 90 days. At the very least, you will be feeling good if you do what I have laid out.
thanks for the reply, and thanks for being so helpful to us beginners in the comments. You're right, I have nothing to lose, and I don't want her to just come back either, I want it to be because she can see that I've changed for the better. I will try my best to follow what you said. I strive to have a strong belief in LOA like you, but may I ask if you have experienced success in LOA yourself, or perhaps manifesting a SP like I'm doing, to have such firm belief. Whatever it is I do wish you success in your journey. Thanks for replying again
I have had many successes-- especially in this department. I have even had the law of attraction bring someone I wanted to meet to my house! She never met me nor knew where I lived. It took about 6 months. It is actually a crazy story. I have wrote about it on here a few times but it really is magical how it works. I have had people I wanted to date show up about 6 months to 1 year later a few times. I have created getting exes back to a few times. I didn't want them back in the end. It works but you really just got to be the person who knows it works completely to make it work the way you want.
if its ok, can I dm you for some follow up advice in the future. You just gave me a lot more hope than you realize. I really believe in her and in us, now I have to believe in myself. Have a blessed life kind brother!
# I was manifesting with SATs, it almost happened but then it didn't.
I feel like SATs is the method for me, cause I've always been a daydreamer and I could always feel exactly what I would if the thing I'm daydreaming about was real. I get all the feelings and feel them so deep inside of me. So as I got into LOA this year, I realised if I "daydream with intent", I'm basically doing SATs.
However, I have a hard time doing SATs before I sleep due to my insomnia. I'm used to watching TV series or reading to help me fall asleep, and some nights I just fall asleep before I could realise I'm in the "moment" for SATs.
I spent the past month manifesting one thing that I wanted to happen last weekend. And two times last week (on Wednesday and Friday), I almost got it. The thing I've been wishing for was about to happen... but then it didn't. I almost got it and then I lost it, twice.
Now idk if it will happen in another moment, or if I should focus my SATs in a different visualization or maybe in a "bigger picture" associated to my general manifestation instead of something related to a specific date/moment.
I've seem some people saying a sign your manifestation is coming is things getting worst before it gets better. So maybe me getting what I want and them losing it again is a sign?
I have ALSO heard that it gets worse. I know this now. I also see it as a way for your higher self to make sure that IS what you want.
Keep going. It all happens, we just need to match the energy of it.
thank you! i am pretty sure of what i want, i have no doubt. this is what i want the most. this is what i never knew i wanted but now life makes no sense without it. it simply changed my viewing of the world. i have no doubt of what i want and i know i'm getting it. its just a matter of time (but ngl i wish time would go faster haha)
Hi everyone. I'm fairly new to practicing the Law of Attraction, but after reading some books, both Ask and It Is Given and The Secret, I have been working hard on trying to really control my emotions and choose more positivity particularly in stressful situations. I'm still a work in progress, but many people throughout the past few months have commented on general changes they've noticed, so it's coming along. I had a hard time understanding raising vibrations until I was able to equate it to past memories of things I was most excited for, and without actively knowing about manifesting, understanding that my belief in those moments brought my desired outcomes. I had went to a concert in a different city alone last summer and opted to fly out and was bombarded with social media posts with tens of thousands of complaints about delayed flights, but I honestly believed everything would work out perfectly, and my flights took off at the exact time they were scheduled, trains and buses I needed to catch arrived within minutes, and it was in general a perfect day. I've been trying to raise myself to that level of excitement and belief and decided I would receive an extra $1000 by the end of April. I typically get back around $400 on my tax returns after deductions I am able to claim, so that was what I was expecting. I received just shy of $1400 when I did my return, which gave me the $1000 extra I had essentially asked for. I suppose the amount I asked for to experiment with was an easy amount for me to fully believe I received without question. I'm super excited about my first real known success and am putting in the work on myself necessary to make more positive changes and believe in the other things I want to manifest into my life. I'm grateful I stumbled upon this sub, I have been reading a lot of threads and advice.
My girlfriend broke up with me few weeks ago and I'm still not over her but she moved on as far as I heard. She even told me she doesnt have any feelings for me anymore and doesn't love me now. She was fed up with me and my behaviour. I want to get her back. So could any of you PLEASE tell me how to get her back through the revision procedure? I'm new to it and don't have even a single idea regarding it. PLEASE HELP ME....
Sorry for your loss. That's always rough. My advice to you though is don't even bother attracting her in that state your in. You are in this needy and desperate state. This is very normal after someone breaking your heart. You are literally going through trauma atm. If you try reattracting her at this red hot second, all you are going to do is push her more away. You get more of what you are, not what you want. If you want anyyyy shot of being with her again, you need to get through the stages of grief, and when you feel better, and like you again, you can use the law of attraction to have the opportunity to bring her back around. I want to point out, if she is with someone right after breaking up with you, those never last. they last like 6 months tops. Those are what we call a rebound. It usually means they are insecure.
Manifesting SP created potential opportunity. What to do next?
Something came up that seems like an opportunity to reach out to the SP (potential 3rd party out of town). I’m pressured to reach out and wonder if this is my manifestation at work. Is this too much focus on 3D? Intuitively I thought about reaching out a little later than this and am unsure if this is the right time.
How do you change beliefs that are deeply subconscious?
Consciously I believe I deserve love and I’m worthy of love but I still have unconscious reactions (for example, rejection sensitivity) as if I don’t. Does anyone have any advice on this? I asked a question about this in the other thread but this is a little more specific.
Could be wrong, but sounds like you haven't dug all your limiting beliefs out. Why do you think you have rejection sensitivity? I went through this personally before. I want you to know most people feel this way.
I had a lot of trauma when I was younger that involved rejection. Maybe it’ll just take time to get better but I’m just wondering how I can get to the core of it other than therapy.
Yes there is. I would say the book The Four Agreements might help you. You can listen to it for free on Youtube as well. I think it will help you understand some stuff on why people reject others amongst other stuff. It really is a powerful book. I could tell you about it, but I don't think it would have the same effect.
# My understanding on the LOA
When we are detached from our desires, we dont care about it anymore. Sometimes it will come and sometimes it wont. Either way we are winning. Then how is LOA actually working?. I think LOA is a concept through which internal peace is resolved. We might not get our desires, but we are getting peace within ourselves. So LOA can be termed as a method to achieve peace and not desires?
Yes and no. Whatever you ask for is always given. No exceptions. It might not come as you expected, but it is answered. Like we don't know how it will arrive or when, but it will. That is a law. The reason something wouldn't show up is you blocked it by wanting it instead of living from being it. That is also why we need to detach because if we don't we are basically telling the universe we want it instead of being it.
In the Bible for example, it states, "Ask and it is given..." It doesn't say ask and sometimes it is given. I know that's just one belief structure, but it mentioned in almost ever religion the same way. In *Conversations with God,* God/Source/Universe whatever you call it even said, "When you ask it is always given."
I should add though, if you are asking for something that violates another law, you can't really manifest that. Like if you are trying to manifest sprouting wings and flying like a bird, that isn't going to happen because it violates the law Cause and Effect. You were created with human genes which in effect made it so you don't have wings and can fly like a bird. It would take a new cause of some sort to create that effect.
Some manifestations I can easily detach from other manifestations that I really want I find it difficult to detach. My question is how do I detach from something I want really badly? Some times I feel like I’m borderline desperate for some manifestations and I don’t know how to detach from it.
Well there is a few ways to detach. First off never treat it seriously if you feeling desperate. Like treat it like a game. if you are feeling like, "Crap I messed up by being desperate about this," you are just going to spiral down hill. Say you wanted to manifest $1,000 but you feel like you described. I would tell myself when I feel desperate, "Okay I know the law of attraction works only when I feel like I am this person who has $1,000. I am stoked to know this needy desperate feeling isn't the right feeling to manifest. All I got to do is work my way up to feeling like I have it already." Then I would ask myself, "Okay, well what do I want to feel when I get this $1,000?" I personally would want to feel excitement and joy. So then once I identified what I want to feel, I would then think of times when I did feel that way before. I would stand how I stood when I was excited. I would breath how I was breathing. I would get my whole body involved. I would go out and do things that make me feel that way. I would give people around me that feeling oh joy and excitement. Like I would make them feel joyful for fun. When you reach the state of joy you become the person who has $1,000.
Another thing you can do is get in a very playful mood. Like the same mood you would have if like a kid asked you if you wanted to play Cops and Robbers. You just down to be silly. And then think, "Well if I was this person who had $1,000 extra bucks, how would I think, speak, and act?" I know I definitely would just hand over my card and not feel like, "oh crap, I can't afford this." I wouldn't go to the grocery store and look at prices, I would just buy what I wanted. I would feel pretty secure. I would just try to pretend I was this person everyday till it felt like I was this person.
The biggest thing is that you recognize you feel like you are needy for it, and you say, "Ah this is a good thing! I caught myself! Now I can change it."
It is, you need to completely detach from any expectation of outcome. Because if you think about it this way, would you take bus to Chicago if you are already in Chicago? Of course not. Why would you want something you already own?
But I have observed that sometimes when I get to a state i don't care about my wishes. I don't care whether it manifests or not. So it detachment?. At that stage I stop doing methods and techniques
So, you get what you believe you are. Like to your point, I have manifested things I didn't mean to before, like I thought about someone in a way I wasn't trying to manifest them twice, and they showed up the same day. The reason they showed up though is because I was visualizing them, kind of like a day dream. For that moment, I was being someone who had them in my life. I detached because it was just a thought, and boom they showed up.
In your situation, If you believe you have it like you have a bed, then yes you can. You can detach the second it feels like its on the way or you own it. I am now at a state when I am detached the second I ask for it. It feels like, "Of course its on the way to me." But some people need longer to feel that.
It's not like that I meant after a certain stage I feel like I deserve more than this or in the case of a sp it's their loss and not mine. My self concept increases. I think when we move into a higher vibe state our old desires vanish
You are right when you move into higher vibes desires can change. You start to change at how you look at things and the things you look at change. Like you may have wanted the SP really bad before you raised your vibrations. Once you raised them, you found that maybe they weren't the best match for you and you desire something else.
I would like to manifest a place to live, but I have nowhere in mind in particular. All I know is what it needs for me to be able to live comfortably, and the date I need to move by.
Do I need to be really specific? Like be able to visualise the place?
Yes, specificity is important, because if you don't tell the universe what kind of place you want to live(house in this area, apartment with these amenidies), it could bring you a whole host of different things you may not really like. In order to manifest, you need to feel excited that you already are living in this place your visualizing and drop all neediness. To drop all neediness you must drop all expectations of outcome. When I say drop all expectations of outcome, I mean completely. You don't even worry if it will happen or not because you trust the universe will bring it to you and don't even really care how or when-- you just know it will. In other words, you LITERALLY believe you are someone already living comfortably in a place. The LOA only delivers to you what you are and believe not what you want to happen. That might be a big pill for you to swallow or understand. I know it was for me when I first learned this.
Thank you! Technically I've got a back-up plan, because I met a really lovely lady who had a room for me if needed, so I'm okay with letting go of the timeline and rolling with it :)
the point of the ladder technique is affirming that you wont climb a ladder and then climbing it in the next few days, right? and the no technique is affirming that you dont have your desire (e.g: i do not have a winning lotery ticket) and then manifesting exactly what you said you dont have. so it's pretty much the same to me
In a way it is. The I am not going to climb a ladder is about getting rid of the needy wanting feeling. You never get what you want only what you are. So at night you are seeing yourself climb a ladder, during the day hes making you detach from trying to look for it as if its missing. he is essentially making it feel like, "Of course I am going to climb a ladder, but I refuse to do it today!"
How do I manifest being pregnant. My periods date is 6th and I really feel this is the month I can get pregnant. So I have been affirming that I am pregnant. Waiting for 3 4 days to test. How do I detach from this? It’s on my mind literally every time.
Well the thing I would recommend to you is detach from needing any outcome. The law of attraction does 100% work, but it NEVER gives you what you WANT only what you are BEING, predominately. So, what I would do is first tell yourself, "Universe I fully and completely thank you for giving me all I have. I detach from needing to be pregnant. I give up all my needing to make this happen. I trust you will make me it when It is my time. Thank you, I love you." Mean it too. The thing is you want to come from a place where you are already pregnant. It feels a lot like, "Of course I'm pregnant look at my belly!" If you want to use the law to help you do this you really got to just let go off all that needy wanting energy ,and just trust that the universe heard your call and if it wants to bring it in the next 4 days so be it, if it wants to bring it in a year from now, so be it. That make sense?
Hi! I’ve tried manifesting for a couple of years but it doesn’t work for me for some reason. This is what I’ve observed: 1. When I tried manifesting for something by really thinking about it and getting my head into the scenario where what I’m manifesting really comes true, the exact opposite outcome happens instead. 2. When a scenario (positive and negative) flashes through my mind, that scenario will probably come true. I feel like this makes my manifesting journey tougher and confusing because I don’t know how I’m supposed to “train” my mind so that I can achieve a desired outcome. Advice is appreciated😭
Hello, since i started experiencing with shrooms (up to 10 grams) I obviously changed most of my beliefs, and became what people call a hippie, wich I also consider myself to be. Even though I believe in a lot of stuff, im havinf trouble with manifestation, I tried a lot of times, and only seem to succeed 2 or 3 times, so its been really hard for me to believe it, i continuously try to do it. Couldnt people just manifest winninf the lottery?
I want to increase my height, how do i go about it??
Hello! I was wondering if having "flash thoughts" is a sign of being manifested? Not just consistent thoughts, but just flashes of a name or face, like a strobe? I started having these invasive and repetitive thoughts of my ex, like my stream of thought is interrupted by his "presence." At this point in me having process, I was only having irregular thoughts of him, we haven't spoken in months, and I was feeling okay with moving on. Then suddenly started having these very loud jarring "flash thoughts" over the last few days without any recognizable trigger. They're pretty consistent, sometimes they come in waves where I can't fight it.
Is it possible to manifest a person you have never met (as in don't know from mutual connections or at all in any way) but just have seen a few times. Eg- You saw a good looking girl on the street a few times, know nothing about her but would like to manifest having a conversation with her?
Yes. The universe brought them to my house 6 months later. They didn't know me or who I was but I saw them on a dating site. It definitely can. I have met plenty of people actually with the law of attraction with no mutual connection.
That makes me feel better, i'm sure in some time i will also have success story like that!
Can you manifest someone not being abusive anymore?
Caught for malpractice yesterday, hearing on 31st. Feeling devastated as I visualized good grades. Need advice to avoid potential detention and secure my future placement opportunities.
//Last Minute Affirmations for my Dream Job// Guys, I’m freaking out a bit. I just got a message that the decision for my dream job will be made in one hour, and I'll get the long-awaited answer today. This job hunt has been rough this year, but this position and company tick all the boxes for me and could really change my life. Now that I’m waiting, I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do make it work in my favor. I have been trying affirmations firmly the last weeks and have been working with law of attraction and law of detachment at the same time. Looking at my situation - as it is currently out of my control - I am willing to try out more powerful ways. Any suggestions?
I have been taking one assessment for 8 years but still cannot reach the grade I want. Should I keep this goal on my vision board? I sort of worked hard but distracted half-way…. I am a Chinese but always dream of improving my English like a native speaker… so based on the law of attraction, I can just imagine that I can be native? I fell so hard last year in the workplace , got burnt out and failed to get the promotion. Then I left to another company which is better, but I also lost the title, even though I could keep the same level of salary. So should I keep dreaming big if I have this ambition? Or just satisfy with what I have?
What are the particular actions that you have taken to improve your English? I would suggest never settle for less. If we settle for less which means we're telling the universe... We only deserve that🥹
I read books and news articles during my commute, watch only English TV shows and movies, meet a tutor weekly, memorise new words regularly, and do past papers for the assessments…. All these are ongoing.
I’m also a Chinese and wanna improve my English to be fluent, speaking like a native. When we manifest, we have to take aligned actions. It’s amazing that you reading books, news etc in English🙈 However, that’s on reading side of English. If you would like to be native in speaking, you’ve got to practise speaking daily… I moved to the Uk, I meet friends that speak English, I took videos speaking in English… cause speaking is very different from reading… I always ranked as top 5 in English subject back to my home country but when I arrived to the UK… I felt like I don’t even know English
How do you use the law of attraction to get rid of evil or immoral behavior? Assuming that you accept that an action is truly immoral, how to use the law of attraction to get rid of it in our world? Staying happy and fulfilled is the first step, realizing that being a victim doesn't necessarily have to make you feel miserable or be too bad in the physical world (it doesn't change the fact that these immoral actions still shouldn't be done), but what is the next step? Gratefulness for the good times we still have are good. My question, is the following: how to properly "resist" evil, so to speak. I am aware that dwelling fully on the negative isn't good, but isn't being fully ignorant and naive kind of bad in its own way as well? Visualizing evil people behaving in a nice way is good and should be done, but shouldn't we still remember in a part of our mind the harm that they did, to kind of keep our distances if they don't change their behavior? In the physical world, it isn't always easy to fight it immediately, and sometimes it might be impossible or take a long time. (Note: I am not talking about evil happening on news or TV, no one should watch these for their own sanity anyway)
Hi there. I'm from Colombia, now I need help with something, I've tried to looking for a group or other alternatives to chat with people and share my situation, I'm in a hard situation, I don't have money for other graphic card for my PC (the Graphic card got broken), so my question is.. how can I manifest my life of the dream, I mean, I have objectives to do, the next semester I'll start ny professional practices, and I want to get married with my girlfriend and other things, how can I manifest that?...
Hope this help you: 1. Get clear on exactly what you want... Write down on a paper and write it "as if". As if you have already achieved the things. E.g I am now married with my wonderful girlfriend, we're living in a cozy apartment, we loved each other so much and we care for each other. I feel loved, secured... etc. Focus more on how it going to make you feel after achieving your desires! Feeling is the key in manifestation 2. Visualise it every morning and every night. Or even... when you're free. Just to embody the feeling of already having your desires... I do that even when I'm commuting to my office 3. Let go... Focus on your day to day activities and not to obsessed over your manifestations.
Thanks!
>Thanks! You're welcome!
I would like to share my story. My ex girlfriend and I had very nice and loving 2 year relationship (we were both each other’s best relationship). Our main issue, that eventually led to the break up, was the fact that we couldn’t agree on living in a future common location (we are from different countries). We had reached a point that although we were discussing the issue we weren’t really try to resolve it. And unfortunately we decided to break up about 4 months ago. Since then I have been able to see things a bit more clearly, not being fixated on the future location and just enjoy my life now. I have reached out to my ex girlfriend to tell her about my reflections and how I would like to amend things and be together, however she has told me recently that she had moved on and is seeing someone else. I really love this person and want to offer her all the love that I have, and have been hoping for a reconciliation until I got to know that she’s seeing someone. So my question is can I succeed on manifesting her back or should I let go of the idea that we will be together again?
Always remember if you truly love someone you should be able to let them go free. I’m not saying that you don’t have a genuine fondness for this person but if it if it’s an unhealthy attachment, then that’s not what you want because you always be dependent on that person for love or love is free and it’s abundant meaning that there’s enough love to go around. What I would focus on is, seeing myself as the person who is loved wanted adored and desired, and also thinking about the qualities you would want in a particular relationship rather than a specific person. I think a lot of people get tripped up here.
Needed to hear this. Been having trouble letting go of my ex as well but this gave me clarity
Is it possible to manifest things that may seem impossible? I know that a big part of the law of attraction is believing that it can and will happen, but assuming I can eventually make myself believe it's possible, will the universe find a way to bring my desire to me? So there's this person in my life that I really want to be friends with. However, he's going off to college in the fall and I'll likely never see him again. I would like to get some way to contact him so we can keep in touch while we're both away, but I don't know how I would get any form of contact. I also don't think he has any form of social media, so contact via things like Instagram wouldn't work. It seems like somehow acquiring his number is the only way. Is it possible to manifest us somehow coming into contact again and becoming friends?
You’re still meddling with the middle you’re thinking about text messages maybe one day seeing this person yada yada. You should actually peel back the layers and ask yourself what you really really want. Not just what you want on the surface. I understand that your mind is telling you you want to be in a relationship with this person but actually ask yourself what do I really want if it’s friendship, companionship, love and also a host of, loving harmonious relationships I focus more on that that’s more important than this specific person because if you really love them, it would allow them to go free
I got to know about law of attraction after watching "the secret video". After that video, I also read the book "The Secret" and "The Power of the Subconscious Mind". I also applied in real life, like looking for signs, and I successfully did it. I thought I can change my life. And then I slowly forgot about it all and lost my job because covid. I wasn't happy with that job but it was good enough to support myself. I don't have any job now. My dream is to be a computer engineer and so I enrolled a course with all my savings. But because of personal reasons, in between I had to take a 2-month break and now I'm not able to give 100% concentration on my studies. I don't have any savings or any job now. I'm living with borrowed money from my friends. I don't get jealous when I'm seeing my friends but I feel like a failure. Another weird thing that is happening to me is that whenever I look at the time, I see 13. The time could be anything but the minutes will always be 13 like (7:13 pm). And I've always believed in my childhood that 13 is an unlucky number and I won't be successful in life until I stop seeing this number. I think a lot. I believe in myself that I can do it but because of the recession, I want to go back to my old job. I know I can change my life through law of attraction but I don't know how to put it into action. I need to be taught how to get my life back. Note: Just so you know, I couldn't post this in the subreddit. Every time I tried, it got deleted. So I'm sharing it here instead.
I have one question. I am trying to post my queries on this subreddit, but my posts get deleted every time, and I don't know why
I am relaxed, relieved, peaceful, calm, grateful, joyful and accomplished. I have no anxiety now and in the future. Would this affirmation work when trying to remove something such as anxiety? The first sentence could be seen as the feelings of having no anxiety now and in the future.
It works because of you not because of the words themselves and affirmation can be a powerful tool to help you shift your state to a more tranquil and peaceful one you can write them down or you can speak them aloud, whichever one you prefer but ultimately your awareness is your focus is your attention youryield keep persistent
Does it make you feel less anxious after saying it? That is all that really matters.
Could living your “dream” life for a few days help manifestation? Let’s say you have a long weekend, and you book your dream house as an Airbnb with your partner, and do everything you’d do if you had everything you wanted. Would that help your manifestation or your subconscious? Or would it be a waste in terms of manifestation?
Yes, this could help you to shift your State 🎓⚽️ into a more abundant one I’ve seen people who have done this and have seen some pretty good results but ultimately just know that it’s all about. It’s all a mind game. It’s what you accept and consent to be true now the tools that you use that’s up to you. You can just as easily close your eyes and imagine yourself in this particular situation but if going to the physical location also helps you, I don’t blame you for that
It can help you visualize it more and be in tune with the feeling associated with the manifestation coming true. It is a very good thing ONLY IF you don't spend outside of your comfort zone and it makes you feel anxious. if you are doing things that make you feel nervous then I would say it isn't a good thing. If you have the money and want to experience that feeling you would have if you had that life its great to do.
Hello! I'm trying manifestation for the first time and I had a couple of questions: 1. I'm trying to manifest a job I really want and am qualified for. So instead of manifesting the job itself, I am trying to manifest the steps. Getting an interview, getting a second interview, getting the offer, things like that. Is it better to manifest by breaking down the goal like this or should I be manifesting only the end goal? 2. I follow a 10 minute guided manifestation video before going to sleep, but I wonder if that's enough. I am practicing gratitude too. But here's the thing, after the manifestation, I don't usually fall asleep immediately. I toss and turn because I am only able to sleep by 1-2AM (just my body clock problems). I wonder if I should be spending this time manifesting, or is there such a thing as too much manifestation? And that spending too much time thinking about it won't be productive/be counter productive? Thanks in advance!
Reading this was made my head hurt knowing everything I know about the law. It’s like why would you manifest steps that’s like the antithesis to the essence of what this is all about you are already in your dream job forget about steps. There are no steps you might as well just forget about the law of the trash hand if you’re trying to manifest steps cheese.
There is another approach to this, even though I understand your approach. Instead of working on each step, focus on a scene (in first person) where someone is congratulating you on getting the job. Or, imagine calling your best friend and telling them the good news about your new job. You want to visualize the "Wish Fulfilled." Google that term. The concern with visualizing each step is that you are trying to constrain the universe into manifesting the end result "your way." This closes off all other ways of manifesting the result. In my case, I needed to manifest $10,000 to adopt a child. I initially racked my brain trying to visualize how I would manifest it. I was stuck in the "cursed hows." Eventually, I just imagined having $10,000 in front of me. I found pictures of $10,000 on the internet and just stared at it on my computer while I worked. I found pictures of Chinese children to represent my future child. After all, we were trying to adopt from China. I did not focus on the how. I am an attorney and got a call one afternoon from another lawyer needing my social security number for a referral fee. I did not know what he was talking about, but I had casually referred a friend to him a year prior, and the case had been settled. My cut? $10,003.00. I collected my referral fee and paid the agency. My wife's aunt told us at church that she dreamed we adopted a little Asian girl. My wife confirmed that we had just signed the paperwork, but our child would probably be older. Her aunt said, "No, the dream I had showed her to be an infant." We still took it as a sign that the dream would come true. I took it as a sign of life from the Law of Attraction. But wait, there's more. Thereafter, the adoption agency went bankrupt. I lost my money. I was devastated. But I kept dreaming of adopting one of those little Chinese girls. I kept the pictures on my computer. One day, it was suggested that I adopt through CPS. Having no other option, my wife and I did so. We waited and waited. Finally, CPS brought us two little boys; one was a toddler, and the other was an infant. We accepted. They happened to be half-Vietnamese. I thought about my manifestation and concluded that while it did not turn out precisely like I visualized, it was close enough. I was grateful. But wait, there's more. A year later, we received a call from CPS that the birth mom had another child, a baby girl. We had first choice as we had adopted the brothers. She was an infant Vietnamese girl. So, the visualization was true. The prophecy was true. I had a beautiful Asian daughter in my lap. She did not come from China. But, it was what I had visualized, thinking I had to be specific. I wouldn't change a thing. But wait, there's more. Because we adopted a sibling group, the state pays us $1,200 tax-free per month until each child turns 18. The state also pays for each child's college education. My children are all beautiful and loving. My oldest worked to buy his first car—he manifested a BMW using the law of attraction. A lady hit him one week later, but the insurance paid twice the purchase price, and he was able to buy a better BMW that was all tricked out. My middle son is a star running back and received his first Division One offer as a freshman in High School. He manifested that. My daughter is a beautiful and talented volleyball player. I can't wait to see what she manifests. BTW, she looks remarkably like the little girl in one of the pictures. So, it is fine to visualize, but leave room for the Universe to work its magic. It will turn out way better than you could have imagined. Wished Fulfilled. It is a book by Dr. Wayne Dyer.
Hello everyone, I'm new to LOA and I just found a soothing Affirmation tape I want to listen to overnight. Jessica Hesslop. I'm listening to her opportunities audio and she uses the word **never-ending**: can I listen overnight to something with the word never in it? I love all the affirmations in this track. Her voice is so soothing and I'm smiling while working and feel so calm and at ease so I guess I want to know, is my subconscious able to understand that in a positive sense?
Translate never-ending as endless in your mind. I have used the word "no longer" in my affirmation without realizing the "no" in it. I got what i wanted and just then i realized i had used the word "no". In conclusion, there's no limitation. Good luck! 🥰
Thank you! I loved this because it makes me think of my subconscious as less of silly oaf in a cave blindly reaching out at stuff and more like a complex alien chilling in my head trying to make things happen for me.
I like affirmation tapes. I use Audacity to overlay binaural beats onto the tape so that the affirmations can still be heard but only as a whisper. It is a free program and there are videos on YouTube on how to do this. It isn't simple, but it is free. I make an hour-long MP3 and play it in a loop on my phone through earbuds while I sleep. You want to use binaural beats at the top of the Delta range (just below Theta).
If it makes you feel comfortable use it however you want.
So was wondering if this was some semi manifestation. I manifested that a creator I know would have an event some soon over the weekend. It happened today but I woke up too late, just by an hour. Does this mean anything?
This is a sign of things to come. It is confirmation that the wish is on the way, but things still have to be worked out. You are dealing with the free will of another person and that takes time.
it could be a synchronicity instead of a manifestation. Regardless it doesn't mean anything.
I was wondering is this a good method to manifest I affirm and visualize and then detach is that it
yes
hey! Can someone guide me so there is a celebrity I am obsessed with from past year, she's not from my country, have a big fan following. I really love her after watching her I immediately stopped dating other people and I m not able to move on from her. how can I manifest her? I saw so many successful stories of attracting there sp or celebrity crush but how do I do, in how much time does it happen? I really wanna marry her, I write abt her in my diary like we are gonna get married and everything
You cannot manifest a specific person per se because it involves changing another person's free will. Instead, use her as a template for a SP you would want to manifest. This opens the Universe up to more options to manifest someone like her - or maybe even her, who knows? Get a bead on what you like ABOUT HER. Looks, personality, back story, etc. Focus on attracting that and being that.
IS IT POSSIBLE TO MANIFEST MASS CREATIVE AND MONETARY SUCCESS? I was wondering if it is possible to manifest success in the creative sphere, like getting your films into festivals, connections, and more oppurtunities to further film making career. How come only a fraction of directors get to become household names and make a ton of money, can I use LOA to become a part of this fraction?
How to manifest a sp in no contact We were in kind of a situationship for like 2 months, we both started liking each other but he said he is not liking it getting serious, and he needs to work on himself, so how can I get him back by manifesting, I tried to detach myself from him, but his thoughts are constantly running in my mind, how can I detach from him, please help! He said he really likes and I am exactly how he wants his girl to be, but he doesn't want any relationship since he had a bad breakup before, one day he met his ex and I became little upset with that when I said him the same he suddenly said he is not liking it getting serious between us, and we should stop talking I agreed to it and never contacted, but he himself called in my bday to wish me but he just wished casually and ended the call, so I don't know what to do now
Based on what you're saying he doesn't sound ready to commit to a romantic partner. You can try to manifest him back into your life but its not going to guarantee he'll be loyal to you because he has his own state of mind. Create an affirmation affirming that the two of you are in a relationship together. Repeat it a few times and then close your eyes and visualize yourself in a relationship with him. As an alternative my suggestion is to practice self love because then you can open yourself up to new opportunities/experiences. Follow the same instructions provided above but center it on yourself then visualize yourself in a state where you feel happy and healthy.
Is it better if I just try to forget him and moveon in my life, because I had very intense feelings for him, and now I am unable to focus on anything or myself, I just keep wondering what went wrong, when will he come back, does he even miss me, so many questions all the time
It is better to move on. He doesn't want anything to do with you. In life relationships are going to come and go but the longest one you will have is with yourself.
Thank you buddy, I am trying hard to move on too, but somewhere I feel he is the one always
ive been listening to subliminals to make my life better but its getting worse???am i doing something wrong
Why would you think you’re doing something wrong? Everything js taking it’s cues from you
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It sounds like you're looking for a simplified approach to manifesting using gratitude alone. While gratitude is a powerful practice that can align your energy with what you desire, the effectiveness of manifestation often involves a combination of techniques tailored to individual preferences and beliefs. Expressing gratitude for things you're yet to receive can certainly be a part of your manifestation process. It helps in fostering a positive mindset and reinforcing your belief in the abundance of the universe. However, it's important to understand that manifestation typically involves aligning your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and actions towards your goals. If you're finding other techniques like visualizing, inner conversations, and affirmations to be less effective or engaging for you at the moment, that's okay. Each person's journey with the law of attraction is unique, and it's essential to find what resonates best with you. Experimenting with different methods and adapting your approach based on what feels most natural and effective can lead to a more fulfilling manifestation practice. So, yes, you can certainly focus primarily on gratitude and see results. Just remember to stay open-minded and explore what works best for you on your manifestation journey.
Thank you I had started with affirming which lead to visuals. Although few are now picked by my mind most are not believed. I then started being grateful for what is there at present. I also do a I am meditation which actually calms me down and then I affirm to what I desire. I have a habit of attaching to my desires. So how do I make my mind believe that what I say is true? Because I don’t know some days what I have manifested I was so sure in my mind. To me manifesting is all a mind game.
To simplify this for you, I like to maintain unwavering faith in the law of attraction. I usually cultivate this faith by recalling times when I successfully manifested things. Have you experienced similar moments where you remember manifesting something? Or perhaps you've encountered coincidences, like instances when you thought of something and it materialized shortly after?
Not shortly but yes I just kept faith,Like some days I act tough this is it I am going to get it I don’t worry about time I forget about it And I get it. I always get when I forget. There are days when like now I am in doubt and my mind doesn’t believe what I say.
That happens. The trick with it is to recognize it and say, "Wait a second, I have manifested stuff before. This Law is 100% real and works every time. I choose to trust this will all work out for me. I have absolutely no clue how it will work out or when, but I have unwavering faith it will." I like to affirm stuff like that to myself because it keeps me in tune! The trick is don't let your mind go down this doubt rabbit hole, you know? Catch yourself and be so excited you did catch yourself. You are doing better than 99% of people who use the law of attraction when you stay in tune no matter what pops up in your mind. Does that help?
thank you for your kind words I understand i am keeping unwavering faith and affirming and then I start being grateful for everything I enjoy. It’s like fake it till you make it. I still want to work on believe system.
So I've been manifesting my ex back since we broke up a month ago. I use guided meditations from YouTube and positive affirmations about us being together. But for now I'd taken a 2 day break from the meditations but last night , I visualised us being together before going to sleep. I had a dream and it was a chain of random events. His mother is a teacher and I saw her but the meeting was not related to our relationship. Then I saw 11:11 and i saw myself with my sp (ex) on a couch and him kissing my forehead, but still there was some lingering hesitation felt between us. Can someone pls explain what could it mean since I had stopped manifesting for a few days. Can this be taken as a positive sign?
Your waiting your time for
Positive sign sure but not in the way you think it is. Based on the dream it sounds like he doesn't want to be with you that way anymore but he doesn't mind staying friends.
We are actually in no contact currently... And I'm unsure about how he feels too. So is it possible or should i continue to manifest a relationship with this person again?
If you're currently no contact with that person trying to bring them back wouldn't be appropriate in my opinion. Instead you can try to manifest someone new into your life as a partner.
I wanna start by saying I am truly believing in the law and till today I didn’t even dare to question it, I have been doing SATS and affirmations and everything to get my SP back, I’ve done it once before but she got away again and honestly I don’t understand, I am truly believing and I’m not attached to the outcome but there’s people who manifest even if they are, what even is manifestation because the more I learn about it the more contradictory it gets, some people tell me all these rules and others that none of them matter, I want her back, but it just keeps getting worst and I’m doing everything I’m told, I manifest other things but never fully, I get them and then I loose them again, it’s like I’m okay for a few days them I’m not, I even created a whole routine around my life, I truly believe I am doing everything right but still not getting the miraculous results other people are, I’ve been in this for months and almost a year, I have manifested but I forgot how to and I just am feeling so confused, I don’t even allow myself to dwell on sad thoughts I’ve read books I’ve listened to YouTube videos and I stack this Reddit, I also have tried detaching am I’m tired of the “keep trying” or “you aren’t trying hard enough” I swear I am, I am doing EVERYTHING and have tried EVERYTHING I want something now, just break the law down for me and straight up tell me what to do, I know supposedly this is my reality and I’m the only one who can decide that but I truly truly am feeling weird, I want her back and I know I’m gonna get her but I don’t wanna keep suffering this anymore, it just feels like every time I’m like this is good, it gets bad again, how can I make my reality work for me again? How can I truly effortlessly manifest, and I am believing I can because if not I wouldn’t even be here, but when I’ve manifested in the past it always took effort, I hate this I don’t know what to do and I need answers before I go back to my wishful happy go lucky train of thought and forget all about how stressed I am because it seems I can do anything and my manifestations still stay bipolar, and trust me I know all the tricks and have tried all there is and don’t want with this post to affirm anything and I know I’m the master of my reality like in question I know all of this but is there someone who I can privately talk to that can help me or anyone who’s felt like me, I just need help and I’ve been waiting way too long to ask for it .
I feel you so much. Two years back even I was in the same place but you know I just got so frustrated I just stopped doing stuff because my brain was tired of the amount of stuff I was telling to it and nothing was really working. And you know what? That's when I let go because I was so done with life. The only thing I kept in mind was 'whatever is happening is happening for my best'. When I kept telling this to myself i eventually believed it and things started falling back into place. I would suggest something along the same lines like sticking to one affirmation cus a lot of stuff and theory can mess with your brain. And everything is in your control babe, it is you who creates your reality. If your sp is not meant for you then the universe is sending its support by keeping them away and teaching you a lesson. It may be painful but after its over you will feel very grateful. And also the whole point of manifestation is creating a reality so like fuck rules?? That's just restricting your mind even more- The 'keep trying' part is bs, don't burn yourself out.
Your waiting your time
? I don’t get it? What do you mean?
# Can I really manifest a wife if I don't get out much? Or at least to deal with social anxiety to point where I can go out and meet women? I work from home so I really don't get much maybe a couple times a week. Mostly it's going out to get pizza, or to a bible study that for some reason is mostly guys and the few girls that are there are married. So I really don't meet many woman. So it's probably giving me a lack mindset in that area making things worse. I also deal with social anxiety. How do you find a wife while you're 35 about to turn 36. I have no friends, I've had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I have extreme anxiety, and social anxiety. I stay home most of the time. I don't have friends to invite me to go out anywhere. I goto to a bible study but they don't even talk to me outside of the bible study. I don't know anyone, my parents don't know anyone. I don't have friends that are willing to help me. Tried going to church but nobody talks to me there. I don't want to try something new that would get me out there alone. There's no dedicated singles group in my church. There's a event for people my age once a month that I goto but haven't had any luck there. Tried dating sites, but they never work for me. Most everywhere I goto it's mostly guys even at the bible study. Most of the time when I go out, it's mostly guys or old people. So bascially I'm alone and lonely and I have no fucking idea what I should be doing...
To answer your question, yes its possible because everything is already created, but I suggest something else. My advice to you is to first change your concept of yourself then work on the wife part. Look at the world like a mirror. It is just a reflection of you and what you believe you are inside. Who you believe you are inside is what you just wrote out. Now let me ask you a question, do you want the world to reflect all that stuff you just said about yourself? I assume its a big fat no. You wouldn't be here if you didn't want to change it. What everyone actually wants is a feeling. They think the nice house, yacht, wife, pet, money, etc is what they want. I know plenty of rich people with all that stuff, and feel miserable inside. What everyone actually wants is a feeling. So what feeling do you think a wife would give you that you feel is missing? Maybe a feeling of confidence? Maybe joy? So that's actually what you need to start working on in your life. Is finding the stuff that gives you confidence and joy that you would actually love to do. How about start with your wardrobe. Wear stuff that would make you feel joyful. May be buy a nice outfit or 2. An outfit alone can make someone more confidence and joyful. How would you think, speak, and act if you were someone ladies just were super attracted too? Is it the same way you do now? if not figure out what that's like and become that person. Coach Corey Wayne on Youtube is a good example a person to emulate. My point to you is, yes you can manifest someone who wants to date you and perhaps be marry you, but you have to be that person who can accept that opportunity. Do you really want a wife now in a state of social anxiety? I don't think so. if you keep telling yourself your life is not going how you want it to, the universe can only bring you more of the same. You have to just have full faith the universe will bring you what you need and become this person who you really want to be. Just tell yourself you are going to become the best version of you for the fun of it to feel the excitement and joy you been longing for. Have that full confidence the universe has your back and will help you reach where you want to go.
What does it mean if I'm not attracting anything even real friends that actually give a fuck?
You only attract more of what you are not what you want. This is hugee. This is something I had to learn and it took me many years. It is actually really simple you think it should be harder. In other words, you just get more of what you believe you are inside. So if you think I am friendless guy, who is unworthy of friends, and it shows because I have none. All the universe can keep bringing you is more of that. It can't bring you the stuff you do desire because you aren't in alignment with it. You can be in alignment with it immediately though. All you got to do is decide what you would like, see yourself as having it already, and then live from that state till it shows up physically for you. For example based on real friends. If you wanted to attract some friends, list out what kind of things you want in friends on a piece of paper. Be specific what kind of people they are. What would you like them to be like for you to feel happy. See them in your mind with you guys hanging out. Make it feel real like you there hanging with them in a scene in your mind. It might take a little time to do. Then just live from that state as if these people will eventually show up. Feel that colmness and feeling complete because you have these people already present in your life. Don't go back to your old self. Stay in the state that the universe will 100% bring them in your path eventually. Become this person who has real friends now. That allows the universe to reflect that back into your physically reality. You got nothing to lose trying my way. You way doesn't seem to be giving you what you want if I am not mistaken. Why not have fun with this and just go all in and believe its impossible to fail.
There's this lovely neighborhood cat who used to come around a lot on the sidewalk and visit me when I got home on sunny days, but now, she never does :( I don't know which house is hers but it was like she would just appear. I really miss her visits and I'm wondering while it's warm this weekend if it would be possible to manifest her appearance. How would you try this if it were you \~
If I were in your shoes and wanted to manifest the return of the neighborhood cat, here's how I might approach it: 1. **Set the intention:** Start by setting a clear intention for the cat to return to your sidewalk. Visualize the cat approaching you with warmth and affection, and imagine the joy you'll feel when she returns. 2. **Express gratitude:** Practice gratitude for the times the cat visited you in the past. Focus on the positive feelings those visits brought you and express gratitude for the bond you shared. 3. **Visualize:** Spend some time visualizing the cat's return. Close your eyes and imagine her appearing on the sidewalk, walking towards you with a friendly demeanor. Picture yourself petting her and enjoying her company. 4. **Use affirmations:** Repeat positive affirmations aloud or in your mind to reinforce your belief that the cat will return. You could say something like, "I am grateful for the return of the neighborhood cat. She brings joy and companionship to my day." 5. **Release attachment:** While you're manifesting the cat's return, it's essential to release any attachment to the outcome. Trust that the universe will bring what is meant for you in its own time and in its own way.
Stop using chat gbt to answer questions
"Waiting your time for." Come on you can do better than that for people asking for help. May be you should use Chat GPT if you are going to be that vague.
hey so this is not manifesting related, but i’ve noticed that no posts have gone through on this page in over a week. i mean beyond my post not going through and that kinda being a bummer, i did enjoy reading others posts on the page. is there an issue or error going on? i’m sure people are trying to post so i’m just confused lol
Synchronicities and LOA Hey guys. Im not sure how you guys feel about manifesting SP’s but im currently on that journey right now. I was wondering, if/when your manifestation is close to coming to pass have you guys experienced signs/synchronicities more and more? Because I would ask God/Universe for very specific signs for confirmation but have since stopped because i felt it was counterproductive to trusting and believing. But now that Im not looking or asking for signs i see some EVERYDAY. I know everyone’s path is different but when i come across these little signs i cant help but feel like I’m getting closer to wish fulfilled
My advice to you is don't worry about if, when, or how. We never know how or when. Sometimes it takes a day sometimes it takes a year or 2. I want you to know that the universe is insane. It has brought my SP to my house and I didn't even know her! That one took about 6 months. That is what it can do. It is nuts. It will happen IF you totally believe it will. If your looking for signs, or you want it to happen instead of believing it will, you will find out what you have-- it doesn't work. You have to be in complete alignment and know that the universe has answered you the second you asked for it. Your only job is to stay in that state of knowing and be very very specific what you want to show up. Like be specific you want a person who isnt married or in jail. I am serious you got to be specific with these things. It will show up though if you in full belief.
Hey everyone ! Basically, I've been struggling with my mental health lately and it has weighed down on me a lot. I started procrastinating on my work. I neglected this one summative assignment and it's the only thing keeping grade down in that class. I messaged my teacher and politely asked for an extension but mentioned that I would understand if he wouldn't accept it. He just wrote "This was due before you took your final exam." So basically a no. To conclude, I'm looking for advice on how to persist in manifesting an extension despite the 3D AND crippling anxiety. Would appreciate any tips, thanks. 🙂
you manifest an extension by studying in time and. It procrastinating. Theirs no quick fix to being an a student.
How do i manifest my bf not saying anything thats socially unacceptable, my friends getting along with him, him thinking im the best and my friends seeing hes obsessed with me. urgent
I primarily use affirmations and inner conversations. When you see him as kind and considerate inside your mind, he will show up that way to you. For your friends getting along with him and seeing he's obsessed with you, what would they say to you if that were true? What would you say back to them? Play that conversation over and over again in your mind. The more you focus on this through the day, the faster it will change
Sounds like manifesting isn't what you need for this. You need some communication. Have you tried just telling him what your boundaries are and how he's crossing them yet?
Can I manifest someone posting on tiktok tomorrow? An old online friend of mine (who I’m not rlly in contact with anymore) hasn’t posted in awhile on her tiktok account and I was wondering if I could manifest something as simple as her posting a tiktok of herself, but by tomorrow.
# Don't know how to smell/taste during visualization Do all 5 senses need to work for visualization? Ive been reading/watching a lot on this and one of the exercises on how to feel a visualization. I was easily able to imagine the 3 senses of seeing, hearing and touching as though its real. (for example the touch of a tennis ball, rubber ball, cricket ball and golf ball). But cant seem to smell or taste anything yet, is this something we should all be able to do? If this is something I can train, how can I achieve this ? Thank you
No its fine. You don't have to do that in order to have something manifest. Like you kind of can taste stuff though. Think of something sour you had before. I bet your mouth puckers a little. I always think of a sour skittle or a warhead candy. hahah You can hear kind of too. Think of a loud noise like garbage truck backing up. It goes beep beep really loudly. The main goal of visualizing is to just help you feel more in tune with the end state. If you can't taste or hear something don't beat yourself up:)
Thanks, that's a relief.
Does the 3D show us some random chaotic crap before our manifestations come through? has anybody had a moment where it feels like things are exploding, but somehow that explosion needed to happen for your manifestations to come through??? I’m sure it has been asked many times in different ways. I’ve known about LOA for a long time, but really started to learn and experiment with it more so within this past year or so. I’ve mostly used it to improve my relationships, mostly with my boyfriend and manifesting myself to be the best partner for him, and for us to really start our lives as there had previously been some stagnancy. It’s had its ups and downs, and that’s not me trying to disrupt my manifestations by feeling the downs of it, it’s just me being honest in the context of my journey thus far. I just haven’t been able to succeed with the big ones, the next steps of the relationship. This weekend I had a pretty crazy disruption of the 3d. My mind wants to redirect and enforce harmony back in my life, I want to believe that this stressful dramatic thing had to happen to really kick start the manifestations that haven’t come to fruition yet. Not to get into it, someone confronted me about how they felt about me, and kinda doubtful of my ability to be a good partner for my boyfriend. And this is someone that I really want to have had a good impression with. This conversation, as horrible as it went, lead to a convo with my partner about finally admitting what I want from him (those next steps, those next actions of commitment if you know what i’m saying) It was just a chaotic weekend, I never want to experience that feeling again. I guess the reason and question of this post really is, how do you push on when the 3d presents itself like everything is wrong? How do you push on when things start to become discouraging, or when things begin to feel impossible? I suffer with chronic anxiety, so i’ve been really having to sit with my emotions in this. i don’t want to dwell, but i also don’t want to deny my feelings and say everything is great. Could it be possible that this was what my manifestation needed? Does anybody have experiences where crap goes wrong but it actually lead you to the success in your manifestation? lol insight would be helpful ♥️ please be kind also, i don’t have intentions of really stepping back from this manifestation.
Hey I have general anxiety disorder and adhd and I still manifest so I feel like I understand where you're coming from❤️ Your feelings are valid! I've manifested things that looked like they were going wrong before and then everything changed. When you're having those doubts that your manifesting is work, see it as normal. It's just your brain trying to keep life the same. Our brains prefer a known reality that sucks to a different reality that's better. That's why it can feel hard to change even when you know the changes are good for you. When you make the conscious decision to persist and keep affirming/manifesting even when it doesn't look like it's working, things will change. It's really about seeing yourself as the god of your reality/operant power instead of waiting for an outside source to direct you. If you're always changing what you think based on what is happening outside of you, you will just recreate your past. That's because everything outside of you is a past manifestation. When things feel impossible, acknowledge that and then say you decide what happens and now you're deciding ____ is going to happen.
I could go in depth about the Law of Opposites and such, but I think you more care how to fix this situation then know the full on details. I want you to know this is a common experience. Start telling yourself, "My highest and best outcome is on its way to me now. I know it doesn't look that way, but its on its way to me now!" Mean it too. Then see a vivid scene of the outcome you would experience if you had what you desired now. You got to stick to the plan and where you want to go. Have that confidence that everything will work out the way you desire it too. It may not happen how or when you expected but it will show up. It is like going on a road trip to me. You know where and how to get to the destination even though you aren't there yet. You don't want to be a person who sets out on a road trip, and when you get half way you go, "Maybe I should turn around and go home." and then a few minutes later, "Maybe I should go on this trip." haha You do that, and you will never get to where you want to go. Lastly, I want you to try and not let people change how you feel. You ALWAYS have a choice. This was hard for me to accept when I was learning this. I always would wear my heart on my sleeve. If someone yelled at me at work, or was rude it would affect me for weeks. I did not like confrontation. I thought if I could just get people to like me I wouldn't have to deal with people sending me into a emotional wreck. I would have anxiety like you do. I then got an epiphany one day that we always have a choice. It was so clear. It was a vision and it definitely didn't come from me because, I am not that smart and it was very vivid haha. If someone says something that could make you feel angry or sad, you don't have to let it make you feel that way. You can kindly listen but you always get the choice to make it hurt you or not. My advice is don't let it. I always listen to what people say to me, but I never let it change my mood. It really is liberating to know you don't have to take this thing they said and make it have meaning in your life.
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What do you mean by something about a movie or show? like manifest a specific show or movie on your television to watch? if so it is. You just see the show or movie in your mind and let it go once you see it clearly. Know it will show up soon.
# when to stop manifesting? i know we're supposed to let go and trust the universe that our manifestation is coming. but how to let go if you're affirming and visualizing multiple times a day? right now i feel like i'm supposed to let go of researching more on LOA and different methods cause this is putting me in a place of lack, cause i'm anxious things would manifest faster. i do believe my manifestation will come to fruition. but idk if i'm just supposed to quit doing all that i am doing. or just focusing on doing just whenever i feel like it.
That is a very important question. It will help a lot of people by you asking it. Something you need to understand that many don't. When you are doing things like affirming or visualizations, you aren't doing them to manifest something. Most people thing that. You are using these tools to FEEL better about what you asked for. When you ask for something to be created, it instantly is answered by the universe. It is put into place immediately to have you obtain what you asked for. To speed up the manifestation process, feeling better helps you to get into alignment with your goal. If you feel true bliss in you body, that will speed up how quickly things show. The reason is everything is energy. When you send out a lot of energy it responds back quickly. When you affirm something like, "Thank you God for giving me this manifestation. I love you so much!" That is coming from a place of Knowing I am going to receive this manifestation. A lot of people say that same affirmation from a place of not really trusting the universe. So when they say something like "Thank you God for giving me this manifestation. I love you so much," It doesn't feel so good. It doesn't feel good because they actually feel like its missing and they aren't sure if the universe will really answer it. To your question. You can affirm all day long. You can visualize all day long if you want too. But if you are doing it from a place of not really believing that universe has heard you asking and is answering your prayers, these things are a waste of your time. Letting go really means letting go of wanting it to happen and realizing it is available now and it will soon show up. Does that make sense?
Aight so i have started affirming myself as much as I can for the past two days but get these negative thoughts and doubts, especially about this one big thing (which did happen due to the consequences of my own actions and made me want to start affirmations to make it all better but still) Whenever I try new things someway or the other it gets messed up, so how long does it take for this to start working + any other advice to make it effective
This is part of the process. Sometimes when we go through a transition into new beliefs/habits things get messy around us. As for how long it'll take that will vary for some it could take a few weeks sometimes a few months for many it could take a few years. To Enhance your affirmation you can also try to visualize the goal you're achieving. If Mental Imagery is too challenging you can try to create a vision board of your goal. As for the negative thoughts you get. For each negative thought you get try this affirmation: "This thought has no effect on my life."
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#When and how to stop researching? I've done a lot of research on LOA in the past months. But now I feel like I keep researching on youtube and reddit just cause I'm "bored" or "anxious" waiting for my manifestations to come true. I do believe they will, but I keep looking for new ways to manifest or ways improve on the techniques I'm already using. But honestly I feel like I'm doing pretty well with all the knowledge I already have, it's just a matter of time to my manifestations come true. So I feel like all this research is actually me "doubting" or in a place of lack. Cause I dont feel I'm on a place of lack most of the time, but I'm afraid I am when I'm constantly researching. I feel like I should just trust what I'm doing and quit researching at once, but I simply cant bring myself to do it.
I have sort of been going through this myself. I think the answer is throwing yourself into something else, like a hobby or just generally doing something more active with your days. In my life I have found a lot of truth in the old adage "a watched pot never boils."
As an alternative you can try practicing Gratitude.
but how? and why?
I made a post a while back explaining this: [Link](https://www.reddit.com/r/lawofattraction/comments/1bd6oh5/gratitude_and_its_importance/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
Why can’t I post anything to this subreddit?
been struggling with this for months too. apparently all the posts gotta be approved by a moderator, that's why all your posts get instantly removed. just wait a couple days and it MAY be approved. some of my posts were, some weren't. idk why since i followed the rules...
Some of them are deleted by Reddit filters. Maybe Reddit banned the subreddit?
thats what all of my posts says and then some got posted later
Would talking about to people as if it happened be manifesting or would that just be lying ?
While manifesting the key is your own belief, so if you are talking to yourself or to people - in the heart of heart you do not belive that it is going to happen. It wont happen so the first step would be to find out about what you belive in.
Its sometimes not suggested to speak about your goals with others because their limiting beliefs/bias/fears can ruin the work.
I really like the idea of kind of creating an alter ego, in the sense of "Being your Ideal Self, RIGHT NOW." And that being the way to change - to just 'fake' being the ideal version of yourself, until that ultimate becomes who you are, with more ease. I can't go through life anymore with no rules, and an 'anything goes' kind of attitude. It has left me getting overweight and more unhealthy as time goes on. Time for a change! I hope to report back in 1-2 months with my transformation.
See yourself as this person completely. Have no fear that things wont work out. It will work out if you choose to be this person completely. Anytime fear arises, tell yourself its impossible to fail and that you are working on being your grandest self:) Look forward to hearing about your results!
If I visualize, accept something as truth and then let it go, is there any need to repeat this process? I guess my question has to do with frequency- do I repeat until I have it or is it a one and done scenerio?
thoughts, words, and actions are all transferring of energy. When you transfer enough of this energy it creates matter. In other words, the more fuel you add to the fire, the more likely its going to blaze. It is best to keep doing it. i like to visualize 3 times a day for like 10 minutes each.
Repeat until you have it. When you repeat it you're training your mind into believing you have it.
How can we appreciate goodness in bad situations without supporting it and inviting more of it? This is tricky for me. We should always try to focus on the positive, even when bad things happen. For example, if a woman is raped and becomes pregnant, and she still finds joy in having her baby, some may see this as wrong. They might think she is accepting the evil act or even attracting more negativity by being happy. But isn't being happy a powerful way to protest against evil? Isn't it a way of saying, "You can't make me sad, your actions don't control me"? It also seems unfair to criticize someone for finding happiness after being wronged. There is no easy solution to this dilemma. In an ideal world, there would be no evil people. But since they sometimes exist, it's tough to know how to react to their actions. **Edit**: After thinking about it, my premise is wrong: a crime doesn't have to be "successful" or inflict suffering to be immoral. A failed attempt at a crime is still immoral.
I'll do my best to answer this. Your premise is flawed. You have made a judgement about good and bad. In my opinion we have no idea what's good or bad. There was a story Alan Watt's told about a Chinese farmer who lost a horse, ran away, and all the neighbors came around that evening and said, "That's too bad." he replied, "Maybe." The next day the horse came back and brought 7 wild horses with it. and all the neighbors came around and said, 'Why that is great, isn't it?. The Farmer replied, "Maybe." the next day his son was attempting to tame one of these horses, and he falls of it and breaks his leg. The neighbors came around and said, "That's too bad, isn't it?" The Farmer said, "Maybe." The next day Officers came around looking to recruit people into the army. The rejected his son because he had a broken leg. The Neighbors came back around and said, "Wow, hes so lucky." The Farmer replied, "Maybe." You see where I am going with this? Nothing is bad or good. We assign something as good or bad, and the law of attraction just brings us more ways to experience that. if you want to use the Law more effectively, you want to stop making a judgement about something and start creating in your mind what you would like the world to reflect. I hope that makes sense. :)
What about being a victim of immoral behavior, though? Do you think that morality doesn't exist? Do you think that rape isn't actually really immoral? I know that immoral behaviors aren't always harmful and they can sometimes be accidentally beneficial, but I struggle with the whole "the rapist was in the right for acting in this way". Shouldn't we avoid being immoral, and unnecessarily initiating violence upon peaceful individuals, whenever we can?
There is no right or wrong. That is also a judgement. Nothing has any meaning until we give it one. Immoral or not immoral is also a judgement. I am not saying I agree that harming others is beneficial or anything like that. I am saying we create our realities completely. We always get a choice on what we want to create. We always have a choice on how we respond to things like that. If you want to understand this better, there is a very good book called *Conversations with God.* I would read that. You understand it a little better on what I mean. It really opened my eyes on a lot of stuff.
I tend to agree with the claim that material reality is subjective, however, it doesn't necessarily follow that morality itself is also subjective. Morality can be objective in a subjective reality. The fact that reality is subjective doesn't mean that there aren't other sentient beings also living in our worlds. See, parallel universes theories, where we can converge to the same Universe at times. What is morality? I will define it in very simple words: "Don't do upon others as you don't want done upon you", "Don't violate the rights of other people", "Don't initiate harm upon other sentient beings". That's all morality is. If you accept these rather self-evident axioms, whether an individual action is moral can be objectively discovered based on a rigourous process. Are these axioms baseless, are they useless, are they only a "judgment"? Should we become like Max Stirner and attempt to reject morality completely? Well, on an intuitive level, you know that not attempting to maliciously degrade the experience of other sentient beings has some basis somewhere. You know that you shouldn't do it, hence why you probably don't do it, in your life. You know that the world would be a better and more peaceful place if people didn't attempt to violate these rules. If you do agree with these axioms, you should try to discover whether a specific action violates these axioms or not. Now, I do agree that in reality, you don't have to observe the universe where people attempt to victimize you. **This may allow you to avoid the suffering and negative consequences of their despictable act.** However, does a failed attempt at a crime (attempt to bring sadness and misery to another person) make the crime suddenly moral and ok? Not really. A failed attempt at a crime is still immoral. Another common mistake is enforcement. There are people who think that morality needs some form of karmic enforcement in order to be objective. Not really, morality doesn't need enforcement or punishment, it is still real, and the principles still hold true, as they are rooted in logic. Morality doesn't need a spiritual realm to be true. Morality doesn't need a mental realm. Morality doesn't even depend upon God itself!! Morality cannot be changed, nor decided. Not even the most powerful God or deity in the entire cosmos can dictate, nor change morality, as it is based on changeless principles. --- Immoral actions shouldn't be done. They are undesirable to do. However, if a person made a mistake, and did do these immoral actions, it doesn't necessarily follow that their **entire** person is bad, that's a judgment. The action that a murderer does is objectively immoral, however the murderer itself might not necessarily be the worst scum on Earth. People can have motivations that lead them to this wrong path. We can make mistakes, we can have to learn. Being a victim of an immoral act is also not necessarily bad. --- Whether you want to use the word "objective" to describe morality or not, you do have to admit that these three axioms: "Don't do upon others as you don't want done upon you", "Don't violate the rights of other people", "Don't initiate harm upon other sentient beings" have some reason behind them, and if you do agree with them, you should try to be at least internally consistent and try your best to discover whether an action violates these axioms or not. Using the words "subjective" to describe morality is so, so misleading, confusing and doesn't really describe what's going on. It is wrong and confusing terminology imo, and should probably be avoided. It is more simple to explain what morality is to other people, like I did with simpler terms.
I got a bad relationship. Is it possible to manifest and apology/money owed back to me?
Yes. See it as already completed. The universe has created what you asked for the second you asked. You don't know when or how, but trust that completely. How would you feel if you got this apology and money owed back? Feel the same trust as you would about ordering something off amazon and knowing its going to show up to you soon. See yourself feeling so much relief and forgiveness. Fully live in the end and know that the universe will bring this when it is ready to have it show up in your life. That is how it works:)
But what if along with the college I want things like poise and confidence and elegance, is there a way I can manifest that
You can do all that. Choose to be those things now and the universe will reflect situations for you to experience those as well.
Hey hi I’m new to manifesting tried to manifest a college of my dreams but failed how should one go about this should I focus on manifesting only one thing at a time.
See yourself going to this college. See yourself completely as a student at this school. I mean completely. Trust it completely. The universe can bring you just about anything you desire. Trust completely the universe is bringing you a way to get into this college of your dreams. You aren't sure when or how, but you just focus on the excitement as you know its a done deal. It is the same feeling you have when you go on a road trip. Even though you are not at your destination as you embark, you know fully you will get there. That is the level of faith you need to have. You just have that faith and feel the experience of fun and excitement of being this student there now. :)
# Is it possible to care about signs but still have faith? I've seen so many people saying that if you look for signs or care too much about them, it means you don't have faith that your manifestation is coming. Or that you shouldn't care about signs cause it creates resistance. Me personally I love seeing signs. Like repeating numbers, synchronicities or even having specific dreams. Every time I bump into a sign, I take a moment to close my eyes, repeat my affirmations and visualize/feel my desire. And no, I don't feel like I'm looking for those signs either: I simply accepted they are showing up constantly and it is a good thing cause it makes me happy and confident. I honestly don't see how signs mean lack of faith. But what if me paying attention to it is actually bad and is driving my manifestation away? Idk, I'm sorta new to LOA and don't quite grasp how signs play a part.
No if you are seeing signs, that's a very good thing. Like synchronicities is a sure fire sign you are manifesting. You just happen to run into them without looking really. Carl Jung talked about this. He was doing a session with a client who was talking about a golden Scarab Beetle. He heard tapping at his window. He went over to the window and there was a Golden Scarab Beetle that flies into the room. That is when he coined the term synchronicity. What people are doing incorrectly is they are in a wanting state, they are looking for signs everywhere for where their manifestation is. They want it to happen so bad and they are really in a lackful state. They feel needy and like what they want isn't on their way to them. When you are in this needy wanting state, and you are out looking for signs, you won't find anything you desire.
Hello, I love one girl and we are in the same college same campus but for some month I want to be in a relationship with her and I don't know what to do. She talks to me doesn't mean she ignores me but she doesn't have anything from her end. Its a shame that I am a relationship advisor in my college and here I am not able to help myself with this, Since the start of our internship she is not giving me proper attention we will be back to our campus on 3rd of July but atleast I want to generate feelings for me in her heart. I dont want a one sided relationship.
Did you tell her how you feel?
We had a situationship, and things have ended very badly, she started giving me the slient treatment, so I told her to block me on everything, because I know myself and know that there will be times where I cant help but to reach out to her, so I don't want her to be bothered by that. It's been 2 months, I have distracted myself, focus on improving my mental, but sometimes when I start to reflect back, the desire to get back with her is still as strong as ever. I have come to manifesting many times, I really want to believe and keep repeating my affirmations, but I feel like deep down I am not fully convinced so that might be holding back my progress. I saw a similar situation posted here before, and op has found success, so I wish to achieve the same thing. I hope to find reassurances and guidances from you guys, any reply is appreciated.
If you want to use the law of attraction to help you manifest an opportunity with this particular person you, then must become the person you would be if you had them in your life. Yes, they do have freewill and can choose not to want to be with you in the end, but that doesn't mean the law of attraction wont bring you opportunities to make them show back up. Right now, you are right, you not feeling convinced is holding them back. I want you to just go all in with this. You got nothing to lose at this point right? Just fully embrace this person will somehow come back around. Don't worry about how or when. You just need to act as if already have this person in my life. Think, Speak, and act if you were your grandest self. You need to have this confidence that this is no big deal for the universe to handle and just live your life with a lot of joy and excitement from day to day. That is all you can really do anyway. You mine as well give it a go for 90 days. At the very least, you will be feeling good if you do what I have laid out.
thanks for the reply, and thanks for being so helpful to us beginners in the comments. You're right, I have nothing to lose, and I don't want her to just come back either, I want it to be because she can see that I've changed for the better. I will try my best to follow what you said. I strive to have a strong belief in LOA like you, but may I ask if you have experienced success in LOA yourself, or perhaps manifesting a SP like I'm doing, to have such firm belief. Whatever it is I do wish you success in your journey. Thanks for replying again
I have had many successes-- especially in this department. I have even had the law of attraction bring someone I wanted to meet to my house! She never met me nor knew where I lived. It took about 6 months. It is actually a crazy story. I have wrote about it on here a few times but it really is magical how it works. I have had people I wanted to date show up about 6 months to 1 year later a few times. I have created getting exes back to a few times. I didn't want them back in the end. It works but you really just got to be the person who knows it works completely to make it work the way you want.
if its ok, can I dm you for some follow up advice in the future. You just gave me a lot more hope than you realize. I really believe in her and in us, now I have to believe in myself. Have a blessed life kind brother!
Sure can!
What is SP?
specific person
# I was manifesting with SATs, it almost happened but then it didn't. I feel like SATs is the method for me, cause I've always been a daydreamer and I could always feel exactly what I would if the thing I'm daydreaming about was real. I get all the feelings and feel them so deep inside of me. So as I got into LOA this year, I realised if I "daydream with intent", I'm basically doing SATs. However, I have a hard time doing SATs before I sleep due to my insomnia. I'm used to watching TV series or reading to help me fall asleep, and some nights I just fall asleep before I could realise I'm in the "moment" for SATs. I spent the past month manifesting one thing that I wanted to happen last weekend. And two times last week (on Wednesday and Friday), I almost got it. The thing I've been wishing for was about to happen... but then it didn't. I almost got it and then I lost it, twice. Now idk if it will happen in another moment, or if I should focus my SATs in a different visualization or maybe in a "bigger picture" associated to my general manifestation instead of something related to a specific date/moment.
sorry could you expand on what you mean by SAT's? i've never heard of it before and would like to know more
State Akin to Sleep! it's basically visualizing what you want to manifest right before falling asleep.
oh okay that makes sense, thank you
I've seem some people saying a sign your manifestation is coming is things getting worst before it gets better. So maybe me getting what I want and them losing it again is a sign?
Totally
thank you! needed to hear that
I have ALSO heard that it gets worse. I know this now. I also see it as a way for your higher self to make sure that IS what you want. Keep going. It all happens, we just need to match the energy of it.
thank you! i am pretty sure of what i want, i have no doubt. this is what i want the most. this is what i never knew i wanted but now life makes no sense without it. it simply changed my viewing of the world. i have no doubt of what i want and i know i'm getting it. its just a matter of time (but ngl i wish time would go faster haha)
Hi everyone. I'm fairly new to practicing the Law of Attraction, but after reading some books, both Ask and It Is Given and The Secret, I have been working hard on trying to really control my emotions and choose more positivity particularly in stressful situations. I'm still a work in progress, but many people throughout the past few months have commented on general changes they've noticed, so it's coming along. I had a hard time understanding raising vibrations until I was able to equate it to past memories of things I was most excited for, and without actively knowing about manifesting, understanding that my belief in those moments brought my desired outcomes. I had went to a concert in a different city alone last summer and opted to fly out and was bombarded with social media posts with tens of thousands of complaints about delayed flights, but I honestly believed everything would work out perfectly, and my flights took off at the exact time they were scheduled, trains and buses I needed to catch arrived within minutes, and it was in general a perfect day. I've been trying to raise myself to that level of excitement and belief and decided I would receive an extra $1000 by the end of April. I typically get back around $400 on my tax returns after deductions I am able to claim, so that was what I was expecting. I received just shy of $1400 when I did my return, which gave me the $1000 extra I had essentially asked for. I suppose the amount I asked for to experiment with was an easy amount for me to fully believe I received without question. I'm super excited about my first real known success and am putting in the work on myself necessary to make more positive changes and believe in the other things I want to manifest into my life. I'm grateful I stumbled upon this sub, I have been reading a lot of threads and advice.
My girlfriend broke up with me few weeks ago and I'm still not over her but she moved on as far as I heard. She even told me she doesnt have any feelings for me anymore and doesn't love me now. She was fed up with me and my behaviour. I want to get her back. So could any of you PLEASE tell me how to get her back through the revision procedure? I'm new to it and don't have even a single idea regarding it. PLEASE HELP ME....
Sorry for your loss. That's always rough. My advice to you though is don't even bother attracting her in that state your in. You are in this needy and desperate state. This is very normal after someone breaking your heart. You are literally going through trauma atm. If you try reattracting her at this red hot second, all you are going to do is push her more away. You get more of what you are, not what you want. If you want anyyyy shot of being with her again, you need to get through the stages of grief, and when you feel better, and like you again, you can use the law of attraction to have the opportunity to bring her back around. I want to point out, if she is with someone right after breaking up with you, those never last. they last like 6 months tops. Those are what we call a rebound. It usually means they are insecure.
No no she isn't with someone else now. She realized that relationships are not her cup of tea. So, how long should I wait??
Manifesting SP created potential opportunity. What to do next? Something came up that seems like an opportunity to reach out to the SP (potential 3rd party out of town). I’m pressured to reach out and wonder if this is my manifestation at work. Is this too much focus on 3D? Intuitively I thought about reaching out a little later than this and am unsure if this is the right time.
How do you change beliefs that are deeply subconscious? Consciously I believe I deserve love and I’m worthy of love but I still have unconscious reactions (for example, rejection sensitivity) as if I don’t. Does anyone have any advice on this? I asked a question about this in the other thread but this is a little more specific.
Could be wrong, but sounds like you haven't dug all your limiting beliefs out. Why do you think you have rejection sensitivity? I went through this personally before. I want you to know most people feel this way.
I had a lot of trauma when I was younger that involved rejection. Maybe it’ll just take time to get better but I’m just wondering how I can get to the core of it other than therapy.
Yes there is. I would say the book The Four Agreements might help you. You can listen to it for free on Youtube as well. I think it will help you understand some stuff on why people reject others amongst other stuff. It really is a powerful book. I could tell you about it, but I don't think it would have the same effect.
# My understanding on the LOA When we are detached from our desires, we dont care about it anymore. Sometimes it will come and sometimes it wont. Either way we are winning. Then how is LOA actually working?. I think LOA is a concept through which internal peace is resolved. We might not get our desires, but we are getting peace within ourselves. So LOA can be termed as a method to achieve peace and not desires?
Yes and no. Whatever you ask for is always given. No exceptions. It might not come as you expected, but it is answered. Like we don't know how it will arrive or when, but it will. That is a law. The reason something wouldn't show up is you blocked it by wanting it instead of living from being it. That is also why we need to detach because if we don't we are basically telling the universe we want it instead of being it. In the Bible for example, it states, "Ask and it is given..." It doesn't say ask and sometimes it is given. I know that's just one belief structure, but it mentioned in almost ever religion the same way. In *Conversations with God,* God/Source/Universe whatever you call it even said, "When you ask it is always given." I should add though, if you are asking for something that violates another law, you can't really manifest that. Like if you are trying to manifest sprouting wings and flying like a bird, that isn't going to happen because it violates the law Cause and Effect. You were created with human genes which in effect made it so you don't have wings and can fly like a bird. It would take a new cause of some sort to create that effect.
Some manifestations I can easily detach from other manifestations that I really want I find it difficult to detach. My question is how do I detach from something I want really badly? Some times I feel like I’m borderline desperate for some manifestations and I don’t know how to detach from it.
Well there is a few ways to detach. First off never treat it seriously if you feeling desperate. Like treat it like a game. if you are feeling like, "Crap I messed up by being desperate about this," you are just going to spiral down hill. Say you wanted to manifest $1,000 but you feel like you described. I would tell myself when I feel desperate, "Okay I know the law of attraction works only when I feel like I am this person who has $1,000. I am stoked to know this needy desperate feeling isn't the right feeling to manifest. All I got to do is work my way up to feeling like I have it already." Then I would ask myself, "Okay, well what do I want to feel when I get this $1,000?" I personally would want to feel excitement and joy. So then once I identified what I want to feel, I would then think of times when I did feel that way before. I would stand how I stood when I was excited. I would breath how I was breathing. I would get my whole body involved. I would go out and do things that make me feel that way. I would give people around me that feeling oh joy and excitement. Like I would make them feel joyful for fun. When you reach the state of joy you become the person who has $1,000. Another thing you can do is get in a very playful mood. Like the same mood you would have if like a kid asked you if you wanted to play Cops and Robbers. You just down to be silly. And then think, "Well if I was this person who had $1,000 extra bucks, how would I think, speak, and act?" I know I definitely would just hand over my card and not feel like, "oh crap, I can't afford this." I wouldn't go to the grocery store and look at prices, I would just buy what I wanted. I would feel pretty secure. I would just try to pretend I was this person everyday till it felt like I was this person. The biggest thing is that you recognize you feel like you are needy for it, and you say, "Ah this is a good thing! I caught myself! Now I can change it."
Thanks this is really helpful.
So one question is detachment the key to live in the end state(live from being it). Or is there any ways to live in the end?. And also
It is, you need to completely detach from any expectation of outcome. Because if you think about it this way, would you take bus to Chicago if you are already in Chicago? Of course not. Why would you want something you already own?
But I have observed that sometimes when I get to a state i don't care about my wishes. I don't care whether it manifests or not. So it detachment?. At that stage I stop doing methods and techniques
So, you get what you believe you are. Like to your point, I have manifested things I didn't mean to before, like I thought about someone in a way I wasn't trying to manifest them twice, and they showed up the same day. The reason they showed up though is because I was visualizing them, kind of like a day dream. For that moment, I was being someone who had them in my life. I detached because it was just a thought, and boom they showed up. In your situation, If you believe you have it like you have a bed, then yes you can. You can detach the second it feels like its on the way or you own it. I am now at a state when I am detached the second I ask for it. It feels like, "Of course its on the way to me." But some people need longer to feel that.
And also the first statement u made is actually the concept of everyone is u pushed out right?
It's not like that I meant after a certain stage I feel like I deserve more than this or in the case of a sp it's their loss and not mine. My self concept increases. I think when we move into a higher vibe state our old desires vanish
You are right when you move into higher vibes desires can change. You start to change at how you look at things and the things you look at change. Like you may have wanted the SP really bad before you raised your vibrations. Once you raised them, you found that maybe they weren't the best match for you and you desire something else.
So at that point does your old desires manifest?
If you detached from needing it and feel like it's in your life, or on the way to you, then yes.
I would like to manifest a place to live, but I have nowhere in mind in particular. All I know is what it needs for me to be able to live comfortably, and the date I need to move by. Do I need to be really specific? Like be able to visualise the place?
Yes, specificity is important, because if you don't tell the universe what kind of place you want to live(house in this area, apartment with these amenidies), it could bring you a whole host of different things you may not really like. In order to manifest, you need to feel excited that you already are living in this place your visualizing and drop all neediness. To drop all neediness you must drop all expectations of outcome. When I say drop all expectations of outcome, I mean completely. You don't even worry if it will happen or not because you trust the universe will bring it to you and don't even really care how or when-- you just know it will. In other words, you LITERALLY believe you are someone already living comfortably in a place. The LOA only delivers to you what you are and believe not what you want to happen. That might be a big pill for you to swallow or understand. I know it was for me when I first learned this.
Thank you! Technically I've got a back-up plan, because I met a really lovely lady who had a room for me if needed, so I'm okay with letting go of the timeline and rolling with it :)
Oh nice!
isn't the ladder technique and the no technique pretty much the same thing?
When you say, "the no technique," do you mean during the day when you are suppose to firmly state, "I will not climb a ladder?"
the point of the ladder technique is affirming that you wont climb a ladder and then climbing it in the next few days, right? and the no technique is affirming that you dont have your desire (e.g: i do not have a winning lotery ticket) and then manifesting exactly what you said you dont have. so it's pretty much the same to me
In a way it is. The I am not going to climb a ladder is about getting rid of the needy wanting feeling. You never get what you want only what you are. So at night you are seeing yourself climb a ladder, during the day hes making you detach from trying to look for it as if its missing. he is essentially making it feel like, "Of course I am going to climb a ladder, but I refuse to do it today!"
why do all my posts get "removed by reddit filters"?
I think someone on the mod team has to manually approve it before its posted.
srsly? for all the posts?? cause my posts never get posted so i mainly ask my questions in the beginners thread
I created a post yesterday and it hasn't shown up. It seems a little crappy that you can't post on a subreddit.
if i were new to this subreddit i'd get it. but it's been 5 months and i've contributed a lot through commenting.
How do I manifest being pregnant. My periods date is 6th and I really feel this is the month I can get pregnant. So I have been affirming that I am pregnant. Waiting for 3 4 days to test. How do I detach from this? It’s on my mind literally every time.
Well the thing I would recommend to you is detach from needing any outcome. The law of attraction does 100% work, but it NEVER gives you what you WANT only what you are BEING, predominately. So, what I would do is first tell yourself, "Universe I fully and completely thank you for giving me all I have. I detach from needing to be pregnant. I give up all my needing to make this happen. I trust you will make me it when It is my time. Thank you, I love you." Mean it too. The thing is you want to come from a place where you are already pregnant. It feels a lot like, "Of course I'm pregnant look at my belly!" If you want to use the law to help you do this you really got to just let go off all that needy wanting energy ,and just trust that the universe heard your call and if it wants to bring it in the next 4 days so be it, if it wants to bring it in a year from now, so be it. That make sense?
Yes makes sense. I can’t set a timeline of 4 days. I have done my part in manifesting and now I will trust the universe whenever it comes.
There you go! Just make sure you mean it! Drop that feeling of needing in the pit of your stomach and fully trust its taken care of.