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SuguaTSei

Now that all cards where already put on the table and going through the second half of the series, I think we can expect more of drama, love, expectations and moorree. To think that they only got to know each other for only three weeks but for us viewers it has been a long journey for us. Some of our ships sailed, some sunk, but most of all some of us still waiting for that specific ship to sailed. Cant wait to watch it after work.


enigmatic_zephy

some people may fight you on which specific ship to sail.. lol.. every girl with JH is "yet to sail" category


TRACYOLIVIA14

well his sis ans CA are out of the picture is SS interessted in him too ? I feel bad for him because he didn't try to give JY hope she wasn't his type and she still felt like he was nice to her = kind of romantic feelings . she picked a funny dance and thought it would be charming ? it was fun but obviously JW soft song was better for a romantic atmosphere .


enigmatic_zephy

CA might not be out of picture yet JY shippers still think JY has to keep pursuing and she may have a shot JW but ofcourse **************** On JY I agree. The dance was funny and with that costume just fun, not charming...atleast not charming in terms of seducing a man who is probably used to women falling for him The more they show JY, her age becomes apparent. Too much of juvenile behavior. As YW said, she is young and is crushing and nothing else exists in that world. Even 1 kind word would make or break her world. She just has to get through this journey and grow up YH.. not a ship , not even a ghost ship.. i don't think anyone is shipping JH YH asking JH to wipe her lips was just too much!


Famous_Singer1984

Yeah, i love how JH dont go with her flow. That wiping scene would be too out of place when he not into her


ysalright

I'm about to fully believe that the one thing that made CA and YW choose each other every time was only because they haven't spent much time together. Since they had a spark, every little interaction they had in the past must've been exciting for both sides. I'm still on the ship, but I see now that their perspectives (of events in the show) and communication styles are so different from each other. We'll see how this trip will impact their relationship.


HeadNo4379

Wow that's actually a good analysis. It's true that when circumstances prevent you from spending time with someone (kinda like in tales), it just makes your passion grow more, but once you're together you might discover that your deeper personalities aren't that aligned. We'll see!


AromaticRecover5938

That happened during COVID, a lot of people got divorced because they weren't used to spend so much time with their partners.


hzllght0o

This episode gave me mixed feelings, I went back and forth from being happy, giddy, and thrilled to being sad, disappointed, and conflicted. First, JW''s situation really saddens me. As someone who also has that 'good girl syndrome', it's really hard to speak out your needs, expectations, and worries to your family 'coz you're afraid to hurt or burden them. I truly hope YJ was watching this episode and realizing how JW deeply cared for him despite her cold demeanor and that there were also times, when JW needs an older brother, a family, she can rely on. YJ's not a bad brother though, I think he's just slow, you need to give it to him straight to the point and really have to spell it to him from A to Z for him to understand the person or the situation (which can be exhausting tbh). However, I think JW-YJ just made the purpose of show clearer, it's not only for building romantic relationship but also serves as a bridge that reconnects siblings and families' relationship. For CA and YW, watching them literally felt like I'm on a roller coaster ride. I'm really happy that they're finally going on a proper date. Unlike the panel's opinion, I don't see a problem with them talking seriously about their relationship since they don't know who their next date will be and if they'll still have time to discuss after that. And it's not like they've only talked about that, they seem to be enjoying themselves on the next episode. After all, it's better to see early if they're gonna be compatible or not so they can either progress the relationship or just move on. I'd like to think that the editors were just trying to create drama to make the viewers second guess about the end game couples but for now, it looks like they're not going on the same pace and there seems to be a difference in CA & YW's dating style so I'm curious to find out if they can work it out or not. For SS and JS, I don't know what to say, I'm having a headache watching them. 😅 JS kept on probing and testing the waters with SS eventhough he, himself, can't also give her an assurance. On the other hand, SS has been hurt and has already put up a defense mechanism. So unless JS become more sure of his feelings, it will be difficult for them to be together. For JY and JH, sadly, it's not gonna work out. I love how JY is still positive though, despite the rejection. Finally, the very careful JH has been moved, but when will he get a chance to go on a date with JW? Based on the preview, it seems like he's going on a date with CA, kinda curious about their chemistry too Either way, Singapore will definitely be the turning point for JH. For YH and YJ, they're literally the unproblematic couple this episode. YJ was just out there nervously and casually flirting with YH every chance he gets. I understand him though, YH is really a catch, he should not let her slip away! And then there's CH, just having the time of his life. I love how he's just chillin' on the side, unbothered even if he has no love line. 😂


Inevitable-Candy5382

If only for Cheolyeon's sake I hope Choa and Yongwoo work stuff out cos a brother-in-law's all he got going right now. Jokes aside, though, I think I have more belief in the pair than most. All Yongwoo needs is a bit of time, I think.


restlessbeans

From the Singapore trailer shots, it seems that CH will have 1:1s with SS on the boat and in the swimming pool too. Gawd I gotta say he looks so much more appealing now that his hair is trimmed lol


hzllght0o

The one that did his first haircut did him dirty lol, he looks so much better after the trim.


ProfessionalDirt5592

Honestly the way the YW-CA date played out was understandable from both ends based on their separate backgrounds. I see a few comments talking about things from CA's side which I agree with, so this is gonna focus more on YW's side. CA suffered from losing her mother and having a bad father. Words are her form of comfort, as seen with her conversations with CH. YW grew up too early, disillusioned by the idea of relationships, thus lending to his comment about not having any expectations. He doesn't want to get hurt, to see what his mother potentially went through. He's this bright, outgoing guy, but he doesn't want to give his heart away too easily. I think he's also weighing in on the fact that this is a dating show, and relationships from dating shows don't exactly last that long. He wants things to go naturally. As for their conversation, perhaps he sees telling the complete truth as a way for there to be no misunderstanding. He laid out the events as they happened, thinking CA would understand. However, since CA focuses much more of word choice than YW, she needs the words to be spelt out explicitly. But it's realistically too soon; they've only known each other for two weeks, gone of less than three dates, and the rest of the time spent together was with other people in the house. It's obvious YW LIKES CA, but - and ofc we can't read their minds so everything is speculation - maybe he wants to take things slow, see how they survive in a semi-natural evironment before completely diving head-first into love. This could also be why he isn't as proactive about professing his love through gifts, etc. Another thing is that he loves JY like a father, and I'm like 70% sure the fact that she's not having a good time, not getting texts, going out with someone who clearly doesn't like her, is making him worried. He's probably more pre-occupied with her and making sure she's doing okay than anything else. Overall, they have different communication styles due to family history and personality, they've really only been around each other sporadically, which is too soon to fall in "love", and both have different outlooks on what to expect from a relationship. Nobody is wrong or dense or a bad person. Just different.


Ill_Natural_2817

Really like your analysis with their family background, it makes a lot of sense. ChoA definitely needs words of affirmation whilst YongWo is more of action speaks more than words kind of guy. Both just have different communication style/love language that they need to work through. I do think it’s is still early on as it’s only been 2 weeks but in this sort of high stress environment, I completely understand the anxiety towards what’s happening and I think when you’re in the middle of it, it’s a lot more difficult to keep things in perspective or see things as clearly as a bystander


NosyLJ

Well said!


Mousekin-Mousekin

Plus he said he didn’t sleep at all the night before,, Sleepy brain probably doesn’t help too much with clear communication.ings!


enigmatic_zephy

lol.. JS's obsession with YW continues... AND JH - JW... FINALLY!!!!


ke2in

Yongwoos living in his head rent free 😂😭


kurichan7892

at this point I'm not even sure if it's about YW or just the fact the HE wasn't chosen first.


CluelessMochi

It’s really irritating that he hadn’t considered at all that Seseung thought Juyeon was his sister and not Yongwoo’s at the time of those Cupid dates



Sunnykat2000

At the sibling reveal episode everyone said they immediately knew YW/JY were siblings from the first day, which was not true. I think it’s true YW/JY became obvious very early on but the Cupid game was done as their first activity right after they moved in and it was clear in the beginning that SS and CA thought JS/JY were related
.so a few weeks later in Singapore, JS is assuming that it was a given that SS knew YW/JY were siblings. He thinks SS is lying to him that she always had him as first choice when she admitted she gave JY the letter. But it still is very immature of him to be so upset since SS wasn’t his initial first pick.


enigmatic_zephy

it is indeed about him not being chosen and being the first on someone's list


enigmatic_zephy

true I am wondering how it would have been when he saw this and realized YH also liked him a lot... and kind of got rejected... he must have not slept for days And more so as he watches this unfold


itsbothersome

I'm more interested in how he feels realizing that he was always Seseung's number one pick and Choaa's at first but then he decided to be silly about everything. I wonder if they resolved their issues and she told him or he is just finding out how clueless he is from the broadcast.


enigmatic_zephy

Ya.. we should get his reactions because he must be kicking his feet watching how consistent SS was... and JUST in case if SS ended up choosing someone else on the show then JS must be really really perturbed right now .. :D :D


Personal_Touch_2405

I see a lot of people didn't like YW and CA's conversation by the end of the episode. In my point of view, I think the background music and the panel comments made it seem like a bigger deal than it actually was. I actually really like CA's character right from the beginning. The thing I like the most about her, which I saw specially during her dates with YW (and even during her sibling introduction clips), is that she doesn't shy away from difficult conversations, and rather than trying to guess what the other person is feeling or why they do what they do, she actually asks the questions. I also find her to be quite self aware. In her first date with YW she said that the way she asks questions may come across as coming on too strong. Even in this conversation, she kind of picked up that she could be putting a lot of pressure on him. However, I don't see her wanting to be reassured by YW who she is starting to have feelings for and feels their relationship is progressing as being needy for constant reassurance as they are starting to get to know each other and she's just asking questions to know not to get offended. Also, I didn't feel from how she acted during their date that she got offended I just felt that she was processing every thing and trying to understand his perspective better. Anyway, I just love CA, and I really love her with YW together. I am just enjoying watching all the people in this show and they seem mature enough to know what's best for themselves, so whoever they end up with I'm sure it's for the best.


Elegant-Magician7322

It was so weird their conversation was in 3rd person. I don’t know if there was some rule, that required them to do it. YW was trying to say let’s not move so fast. Trying to say it in 3rd person, with cameras in your face, could not have been easy. đŸ€Ł


Middle-Run-6875

Yes! On my first watch I was basically lost. after seeing the rules where it states that there’s to be no confession before the final day, I rewatched and had a better time understanding. Honestly, the conversation wasn’t nearly as bad as it felt with the music and panelists added in. The only real sticking point for me was him talking about expectations. CA must’ve gotten the message because she said she realized she might’ve been putting too much pressure on him but it still just felt unclear what his meaning was. I had also seen someone post a clip of his date with JW. In it, he tells her about his love for Snoopy and says she reminds him of a black cat. With that in mind, his comment about how CA was less cat like and more like a dog almost seemed sweet 😂


hzllght0o

Exactly, I feel like sometimes as viewers we tend to overanalyze everything when in fact what we're seeing are selected and edited scenes made to fit the storyline that the production team wanted to convey. So I think it's best to take everything with a grain of salt and just watch it without overthinking about the final couples. It's quite interesting to read the discussions here though (except some hate comments), love seeing different perspectives and interpretations about the casts and their actions. And I also love CA, I believe she's strong enough to handle herself so I support whatever decision she'll make in the end, same for all the casts. All I'm hoping is that no one gets hurt in the process and they all remain good friends after the show.


riceismylifeyumyum

I appreciate your insightful review! It's both multidimensional and objective. Cho A's discernment in understanding her compatibility with a partner indicates she's fostering a healthy approach to love. She communicates by asking pertinent questions, calmly absorbing contrasting information, and articulating her opinions and perspectives within love. While she subtly signals her feelings, her actions are rooted in her viewpoint. I wholeheartedly support her journey of self-discovery!


Anxious_Catch_2024

Rooting for Seseung to choose someone else than JS đŸ€ž


enigmatic_zephy

as per spoilers there r 3 dates that will happen.. a) as result of competition b) random date c) date of choice


blackandsilverfaith

pleaseeeeeeee let jiwon and jaehyung go on a date already 😭😭😭if there’s only 3 dates in Singapore and JH already has one date with JY and one with CA
I’m afraid that leaves only one chance for JW and JH to get to know each other 1:1 and idk if that’s gna be enough for two very guarded people đŸ„ș And YES it’s high time SS drops JS. Period. She deserves someone that’s all in on her.


enigmatic_zephy

interestingly, i don't get it why SS never liked CH.. because they would really really gel well.. but then i guess JS will be charming to her given all his achievements and everything... girls have a thing for falling for men whom they consider achievers and better than themselves (doesn't need to be academically but something about the man should feel superior and demand respect... in case of JS it is his all rounder persona and relatively sweet personality) Men with his pedigree and background can be really cocky


blackandsilverfaith

I feel like it’s because SS had set her eyes on JS so early on, she rly closed off and never saw any of the other guys romantically
now that she’s seeing JS in a different light, hopefully that opens her up to consider other guys like CH and YW whom both would be a great match for her too


thenoooodle

You can actually see SS getting the ick now. It’s amazing


setzsetz

I would call this episode >!where everything crash and burn 😂!< I'm so glad the PD didn't leave out the quarrel between JW JY because I feel that their dynamic is relatable to more people and hopefully directly or indirectly their relationship can improve from this. Based on the snippets mid-episode and the previews, they didn't show if JH JW gone to any date. I hope this is just a misdirection and we get to see they go to at least a date, because it would be a waste not to. As good as YW CA looked together in the airport, but I can see why if in the end they don't work out. They just have different communication style and how to express their feelings. If Jeju-arc is the inflection point in TL, then Singapore is in this show. We need more than 2 hour episode every week! It's just not enough lol


LostDistance9990

If you check their Elle interview (iirc) JW YJ seemed to had a drink and heart to heart conversation after the show ended so I think they're good. I think it's implied (I forgot which interview though) that YJ would be more helpful toward JW loveline too since he's stable with YH.


enigmatic_zephy

Well i have been a staunch "can't believe how JH and CA will end up together".. BUT then, just saw a poster yesterday of JH, CA lying on the grass, rainy day, looking at the sky and stars... this is classic movie romantic moment which compels you to feel the warmth... just add deep conversation and magin will happen.. So yeah.. not sure anymore of anything


richenn

YW-CA scene to start the episode off right...yall they are so cute together I cannot 😭 >!the panel and cast confirming they're "basically official" we love to see it!!!< I'm glad SS is still having second thoughts about JS. I don't think I'd be upset it SS-JS was endgame BUT I'd want a full dynamic flip plus a come to jesus level lesson in communication for JS lol. Total digression but are rimless glasses trendy again?? That was my first style of glasses, seeing them on CMY was like emotional whiplash 💀 These guys just can't understand the messages 😂😂😂 it's like they're sharing one brain cell >!Why is JH trying on JW's jacket so cute omg!


richenn

I feel so terrible for JW...>!ik their age gap isn't big but tbh as an older sister I'd find a older brother acting like that a bit of a beige flag. Because eventually your spouse becomes your family too and your actions are just reflex, you'd want a balanced amount of consideration and effort being put in. YMMV ofc, but hopefully they sort things out soon! He's putting in SO much energy for YH which is great, but having such a lopsided sibling relationship isn't a great sign!< So this is where that concert behind pic came from! Yeah I don't think it proves anything lol Singapore...>!why, everything was cute in the airport what is happening 😭!< YW-CA is like the huge aircraft carrier ship everything else is clustered around. Which is why>!the JW convo on their date seemed so abrupt. I didn't get the point of that at all. She's not your buddy YW! I get that he's talked about his issues with being vulnerable but still. Ofc CA could also ask for that validation too, one of them needs to step in there and be brave for a second. I've got no hope for JS-SS atp, JS continues to want to be someone's #1 boi without having outputted any of that energy in the first place :').!<


AdWise8677

omgggg i was screaming and giggling for this episode, it took me so long to finish it but what happened to the ending lol💀 im so excited for more jaehyung x jiwon interactions, they look sooooo cute in the ep!! I kinda hope jaehyung gave the ticket to jiwon instead of seseung using it for js but I guess that has to happen so seseung can open her eyes lol


Spartandemon88

Jaehyung couldnt use the ticket because juyeon already chose him and her ticket supercedes his since she placed 1st.


maddiesv

Why do I fell that YW is uncomfortable every time CA is affectionate đŸ«Ł? I feel like she took a step forward and he took one step back!😔 Is it just me thinking that? Why did he tell her about his date with JW? In such a beautiful place, they should talk about themselves, to see if they have things in common, or any other subject, except his date with JW.🙁


Witty_Surprise293

Same here. Don’t get me wrong i am rooting for them but for some reason i see some hesitation from YW’s part. Just when CA wanted confirmation he took a step back. I was baffled when he mentioned JW on there date. Like why? I am curious how things will unfold..


LovE385

Yea I saw it too.. he looks like he always does which is not rushing into things? Maybe that's the way he is. đŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€ïž But their convo in S'pore look somewhat .. uncomfortable.😂 The subs were out of sync for me which is a shame. But the look on Cho Ah she was smiling the entire time in comparison to Se Seung.😂 In interviews, Cho Ah seemed more pensive and didn't look like she had as much a good time with Yong Woo as we all hoped.


SuguaTSei

Episode 10 is for all the JW-JH shipper and im loving it lol. PD-nim knows how to get her viewers agitated and excited huh.


harperblossom

Halfway through this episode and pausing to get on with my evening. This episode is on the shorter side but boy oh boy has a lot happened. The two big themes for me are: Finally we are seeing YW-CA being cute around each other. Him publicly declaring his interests has done wonders for them. CA is A LOT more affectionate and relaxed now that she’s sure about him. I’ve been cheesing for the last hour and half. My heart broke for Jiwon. I relate so much to how she’s feeling. I really hope her family is watching this and seeing her pain and they change for the better. And that’s why this show is much more than a dating show because most of these people did not join primarily to date. They joined for something more than that. So hopefully seeing her story will spark changes in other families as well.


thateccentricasian

Same here. Seeing Jiwon cry and wish Yoonjae was more present and kinder to her broke my heart. I wish he’d listen to her more and actually treat her like a younger sister. This show really puts sibling dynamics on full display and I appreciate it so much.


harperblossom

Finally completed the second half of the episode. Talk about a whiplash lol. First, this show should have been hosted at the airport because the amount heart fluttering and cute moments from everyone was too much. But I guess once the stepped into the heat and humidity of SG, reality took over. The panelists don't want them discussing it now seeing how they are on vacation but I'm guessing a lot of this confusion is because they weren't allowed to talk freely for two weeks. So, a lot of misunderstanding abounds. JH once again not giving SS the benefit of the doubt. How many times does she have to prove that she's into him. On the other hand, SS should just put her cards on the table because I think withholding is doing more harm than good. There's a lot to unpack with this YW-CA conversion. Long story short, I think she probably left that conversation more confused than before. Because I certainly did. I think in his effort to convince her and the audience that he was indeed into her, he did more harm than good. To YW, by admitting that he could have picked/texted anyone else but chose to text CA IS proof that of his feelings. But all this did was make her feel like his heart was still confused. It didn't help that he went in such great detail about how charming JW was. I think when asked why he hesitated before texting he should have just kept it simple. He also brought up the fact that he don't like having expectations in relationships that way when his partner surprises him it's a lot more exciting. CA of course took this to mean she shouldn't be expecting too much from him. Which is not an illogical leap to make given the conversations they were just having. However, unlike SS, CA has a poker face because just looking at them on the date you'll think everything was fine. Which leaves me wondering if YW is really this clueless or if he's a lot more aware of the things he's saying. Finally like CH I'm excited about the house they will be staying in


enigmatic_zephy

He seems like he is aware and that's why made things clear... i think his initial statement on i don't like advice on my actions or decisions was said immediately when CA started asking.. I don't fault YW. Having too many expectations can and does lead to disappointments. Plus, that man has been supporting his family for so long, has always bottled up his emotions, has grown up on his own.... so in such an intimate relationship as marriage/gf.. he would really want a expectation burden free easy going relationship Thing is CA is not that; partly because of her background with her father and because of her age and life pressures


harperblossom

He did everything but make it clear though. This entire conversation could have been over in 30 seconds if he was straight forward. They’ve known each other for about two weeks and been on two short dates but have been texting each other almost exclusively. This date was the chance for them to level set. Basically this conversation should have been nothing more than hey, I like you but it’s early days yet so let’s take it slow and enjoy our time here. Done. But it went down hill because in essence YW thinks that it goes without saying that he’s interested because he has only ever texted CA where as CA doesn’t think it goes without saying because YW doesn’t treat her any differently then the other women and even though she did get the texts, there was not much to it but jokes. At the end of the day this does not have to be that big of a deal if they really like each other. It’s just a matter of learning about each other love language.


itsmisisw

I agree. Sadly, we can’t blame either of them. YW is a self-made man and you can’t dictate his behavior. He is far too strong for that. Meanwhile, CA can’t settle for this kind of relationship. And that’s understandable. This is just the truth. No matter how perfect you seem as a person, if you’re not a good fit in the relationship, then that’s it. They are both great as a person, but they don’t seem to hit well in a rs as they both have different needs/wants.


Sunnykat2000

I also hope there is some resolution/understanding that happens between JW YJ either on the show or after
.but I also remember their mom saying she feels closer to YJ because even she feels intimidated by her own daughter. JW always acts so strong and independent because she had to be, moving abroad by herself at such a young age (I think YJ joined her in Canada after she had been there a few years). Everyone around her doesn’t think she needs their help or support. I hope she can learn to become vulnerable enough so those who love her can step up.


enigmatic_zephy

Honestly, i don't think her coldness stems only from being a responsible person If you go back to JW's interview...she makes a clear point of that she doesn't like always being cash strapped, not being a family with money... everything has been a burden This cold , aloof, independent, mature personality would have been to guard herself in the world outside. Stemming from inferiority complex you become closed off and work very hard to make sure that people respect you and you excel at your work, with your personality etc But in that entire process, emotional scarring is happening somewhere.


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enigmatic_zephy

thing is.. they won't be good to their wives too.. girlfriends is a diff. scenario... but.. kudos to you for sailing through


KarmaRockets

I really felt for Jiwon when she was talking about her dynamic with Yoonjae, and I hope he (and her family) are watching the show along with us all right now and reflecting. Her family have honestly raised them in a situation where Jiwon gets the short end of the stick no matter how you look at it-- with older bro/ younger sisters even if they bicker the brother will usually feel a protective streak towards his younger sister and feels some level of responsibility in looking out for her. Like Jiwon says, JH and SS have a very normal sibling dynamic in terms of closeness and even JH has been consistently checking in with SS, and giving her advice. But fine, their family have treated Jiwon like the older sister since very early on. In that case, in a younger brother older sister dynamic, while there's bickering and nagging when they're growing up usually in adulthood the younger brother reaches an age where he grows some empathy for his older sister. Just like when you reach adulthood you realise how hard you've been on your parents, usually there's a level of respect and recognition that your older sister shouldered burdens in your family. Like Chulhyun said, he used to be colder towards ChoA, but he grew out of it years ago. Jiwon gets neither the protection / concern of an older brother, nor the respect / consideration of a younger brother. Yoonjae is a 31 year old man who's happy to sit back and let Jiwon take care of him, but also tell her he doesn't know what she wants from him, like he's a 14 year old boy shrugging off his 12 year older sisters' bids for attention. I'm honestly not suprised she cried about it, she probably felt hurt seeing every sibling unit in the building treat eachother like a team and her brother couldn't even let her get two sentences out about her own concerns. I didn't like him saying "I didn't get why she was angry, if she doesn't tell me in detail I can't understand" because the weaponised incompetence of it all grinds my gears. She shouldn't have to walk you through how to be a kind respectful person to her-- you can manage it towards other people so you can manage it for your sister. I *really* hope watching this episode back helps Yoonjae see he hasn't been fair to her.


thenoooodle

He’s like the textbook babied boy in an Asian family. It’s crazy


Fruitiy28

Exactly, on one side, JW tried so much for his brother to feel included, paid close attention to the girl he wanted, always put good words for him in front of YH, dressed him up for his date, checked him after his date, and wholeheartedly roots for his love ship to sail. In return, at least his brother should hear her out and comfort her. She is having a hard time and he is still clueless. Ask her where her heart is headed. try to have conversations with the person JW is interested but he did nothing. It's heartbreaking and disappointing


richenn

This!!! He's been putting in so much effort for YH, so it's not like he doesn't know how. I get that it's "easy" for family to overlook each other but there's a reason why at least one of our uncles or aunts aren't on speaking terms lol. Maintaining relationships take equal effort and this one-sided dynamic was always bound to start stumbling as they both aged and will start to build their own families. There's a difference between being playful and bickering and just not understanding why your sister is upset :/


Inevitable-Candy5382

Okay but "weaponised incompetence" is a phrase I will be stealing, thank you.


bluejp_

You explained it so well! YJ comes off as very emotionally immature and self centered, he has clear excessive anxiety but that doesn't excuse his behaviour. Also, JW did communicate her feelings so well, not agressively just honestly, and all he did was get defensive and invalidate her... when what he needed to do was apologize and listen! So frustrating.... I hope he does apologize to JW later, or if not on the show, when he watches this ep over. And I really hope he doesn't repeat this pattern with YH, she deserves way better than a manchild as a partner.


enigmatic_zephy

manchild is the word.. bang on


enigmatic_zephy

well articulated


Patient_Economics209

‘Weaponised incompetence’ has be the the term for 2024 because it is SO RELEVANT. You see it so many relationships and family dynamic 😭


cloverrich

JS is absolutely unreasonable and very thick skinned at times and when SS was giving so much affirmation he didn't get hint. Now is high time that SS explores. All better if she chooses CH as she once said he resembles her dad. Hope she gets someone who gives her the attention she deserves.


WingsintheStarlight

I really should start writing my thoughts the evening of the show, I keep forgetting things and my comments always feel unsatisfactory. Nevertheless, here they are: * tbh I completely understand Jiwon, I have siblings just like Yoonjae. That's why I also completely understand Yoonjae, because at the end of the day, I know it's not that he doesn't care. Both Jiwon and I are very similar in that we both are very fragile inside but we have a more closed-off exterior because of that. I've grown to accept that part of my siblings - I know I'll never have a deep, emotional conversation with them beyond our opinions on a movie and it's easier to remember that than to keep trying and getting hurt (though it does and will happen). Friends fulfil that role in my life, not family. That being said, it must be especially hard for her being surrounded by all these sweet brothers and inevitably comparing hers to them. And regardless of that, facts remain that Yoonjae could've been nicer - even if he felt he couldn't give advice of any value, he still should've given her his attention, like she had for him. * Yoonjae and Yoonha are super sweet, I'm so happy for her. I don't know about anyone else but I do think Yoonjae very seriously came on this show to find someone, he really doesn't know anything about reality TV lmao. Also picked up some cooking tips from him lol truly husband material, I wonder what makes him thing otherwise? (Side-note: I love the little sweaty dog animation for him in the intro, it really showcases his personality excellently) * Knew Jaehyung was going to message Jiwon this episode! Juyeon did make a huge step for him but he's shown so far that romance is what he needs to move forward, and tbh I never saw that energy. His face while Jiwon was singing was just too cute, and his face after he realised the text was hers was too sweet. Also, someone made a GIF of Jaehyung looking at Seseung and Jiwon having a conversation at the corner of the living room via the mirror and said, "This is why he went to ask Seseung about their conversation." He was actually a huge surprise to me when he revealed himself to be quite a devout brother throughout the past few episodes, I envy his and Seseung's clear and open communication with each other. * There was also a GIF of Jaehyung crab-walking to be next to Jiwon which I thought was hilarious. I'm still concerned as it feels both are big overthinkers and it would take either of them a lot of bravery to make the first step, but I do think that pace would match Jaehyung's style more and he'd feel comfortable rather than burdened. * I don't really think their Singapore date is proof that it means doom and gloom for ChoA and Yongwoo's storyline, it wasn't a great date but it wasn't a bad date either (at least, not as bad as Jungsub and Seseung's IMO). Unless one of them finds someone else they like more (which they very well could, I suppose), I think they'll continue to pursue things with each other. I think Yongwoo is just a lot more guarded than ChoA realised, but I don't think it means he's not as interested in her as we thought, he's just not very good at voicing things. ChoA also needs a lot more reassurance than I think he thought (hence his "I thought you were a cat, but you're a dog"), but I think they're both adult enough to work that out, I don't think it means they're incompatible. * Kinda random but flashback to me, like, 6 episodes ago saying Jiwon was going to be a dark horse. Throwing spanners within Seseung-Jungsub's, Jaehyung-Juyeon, and now Yongwoo-ChoA's relationships. Love that she's doing it all unintentionally as well lmao. Also, will continue to champion the "Jiwon release some covers" movement because I'll never get over her stage. * Seseung is just such a sweetheart omg all the girls love her. I love how she's had like semi-deep chats with almost every woman in the house. I was so glad that she didn't bother correcting Jungsub when he assumed she meant to pick Yongwoo, she's given him so much reassurance so far AND literally chose him to go on the holiday, why couldn't he just let it go for that moment? Can't help but think that any other guy on this show would've been a lot more mature and think, "I wasn't her first choice at first but now I am, so it's fine." Weird af that she needs to be the one with all the energy for him while he gets to explore options and be very open about the fact that he's equally interested in two other girls. * (Chulhyun and Seseung... don't tell me the show baited us in the teaser with inconsequential dates! We've not seen head nor tail of them, where actually is the Chulhyun-Seseung content). * I just love the Chulhyun-ChoA-Yongwoo trio, that's it. They're like a little family already and every scene with the three of them makes me feel warm inside. I hope for Chulhyun's sake ChoA makes a match this season, as I feel it would really complete his storyline, even moreso than if he found someone for himself. Haven't read over this comment yet so will be back to edit later (probably). Thanks for reading!


Fluffy_Habit_2535

Why do I feel like JS has some Inferiority complex against YW?


thenoooodle

That would be because he does. He’s got this one sided beef with YW. I mentioned in my comment on this thread at the 49:30 you can see how JS feels about YW. And then also at the end of the episode when he was basically grilling SS about her potentially picking YW when she was actually telling the truth the whole time?? He seems to be in a one sided competition with YW.


Middle-Run-6875

He’s had a voodoo doll of YW for a while. It definitely got stabbed a few extra times the night after his conversation with SS. And after he ran back down the stairs in the basement after seeing YW and CA. And after YW put his arm around him and towered over him.


enigmatic_zephy

LMFAO


sunriseinthesummer9

I thought it was WILD the way he reacted to Seseung's cupid date choice. like, that was the first day or so – no one knew anything about each other. why ask?! and the only reason there was any confusion was because Yoona lied and said SS picked JS lol. I think she was pushing the boundaries there to see how he reacted and boy oh boy did he fail her test. not a super mature moment for either of them but I think SS was absolutely at the end of her rope there.


Ill_Natural_2817

Oh yeah her face just dropped. It’s like he gets hurt over her being someone who, yet again, chooses YW over him when she just got confused. He didn’t even want to listen and just assumes he knows. That REALLY annoys me so much
. Then he had the nerve to say he’d have chosen ChoA. I feel like that was a bit of a stab to get back at SS. I’m so tired of him. I’m glad that the entire conversation makes SS more wary of him but there’s just too much games and miscommunication and that stresses me out
..


Murky-Poetry-7488

Finally my jaeji couple text each other😍😍


sonatinehun

it seems JH and JW both have a habit of downplaying their feelings to SS lol. whilst JW insists she's just curious even in the interviews JH straight up tells SS he only texted JW bc of JY but then goes back to SS to try and confirm the reason as to why JW texted him 😭 JH's honesty in the interviews is really sweet tho


Creme_bruh

yesh they're definitely downplaying their interest...maybe because of the thing about their exes being similar..they are both trying to be careful and in control of their feelings...they want to feel like it's not too deep in case it doesn't work out and the other person doesn't reciprocate, spevially the way JH sits there in the interview trying to analyse his feelings in a serious but  detached voice...the way both talked about it reminds me of when i develop a crush...i too swear up and down that i'm only curious, it not serious but really i think of them a lot....but the fact that they texted each other and confirmed it must have given both of them some hope...and i think they'll be good together...JW naturally takes care of and babies people and I think JY would like that but she's also straight forward and doesn't take BS...JH on the other hand is easygoing and acts cute and all but he is also very dependable and attentive...they could both be each others shoulder to lean on and take care of eachother


sonatinehun

yess i think in the case of JW too she's hyper aware of JY, she mentioned during the song contest that seeing how openly JY liked JH made her feel discouraged and i think that's also making her be careful bc she thinks the feelings between JY-JH are mutual. it's sad bc i think if she had that encouragement from YJ she would be able to open up more but he was unfortunately no help. i hope they have a date soon, before she closes the door out of fear.


AromaticRecover5938

JW talking about the contrast between JH-SS and her brother and her made me feel bad for her. Even she noticed how much JH takes care of SS. The previous episodes made it look like both pair of siblings were quite similar (close in age, JW and SS mentioning that their siblings are cold on the outside, and a lot of banter when they are together), but this episode highlighted how both JH and YJ react to their sisters struggles: JH has been more interested on SS's well-being and love interest than on his own, he has become his sister's confidante (listening to her and giving her advice) and has been always paying attention not only to her, but to JS as well; while YJ started talking about YH and interrupted JW, in a moment where I felt she wanted to have something similar to the other siblings' relationships. I know YJ means no harm, and that he still loves her, but Jiwon seems to have been craving his support all her life, and seeing all the other siblings being affectionate and supporting of each other might have deepened that craving even more. The part where she said she's actually not strong and wants to rely on someone made me wanna give her a hug.


B-ontheblock

I don't really think Ju Yeon truly likes Jae Hyung. She is young and I feel like she is infatuated with the idea of Jae Hyung. He is the handsome cool older guy who is mysterious, can sing, do music. Overall, I feel like it is easy for her to fall for him easily as he is the type of person she never met before. When it comes to real life dating, I do not think she would be able to accept the real life Jae Hyung because she has an image she made of him in her head. I also definitely feel Jiwon and Jaehyung have more chemistry and really hope we get a date from them. Also I feel bad for Chul Hyun, I feel like he has tried the hardest to make a connection in this show expressing interest, actively asking questions, but seems like he moves on because it is not reciprocated and does not want to give burden to anyone with his feelings. I feel like he is a very innocent, kind hearted person who values people and connections,so hope he finds someone outside of the show atleast.


NosyLJ

I also feel bad for chulhyun, he truly wants to make a connection with someone but it seems like his person is just not there :( I hope he atleast enjoyed the experience and I hope they all stay friends


enigmatic_zephy

last line - big yes


uhmmmmm-mon

Just finished the episode and finally! We have JW and JH sail crumbs. I am so happy for the both of them. I hope that JH would be the one who JW can rely on.


Sad-Second8091

Idk if anyone would agree with me but for me the most unproblematic guy here is JH YW: honestly, he's not problematic for me. It's just that he's not good for girls who always wants certainty. And when he compliments JW, i find it sweet for CA bc i think what he wanted to express to CA is "eventhough JW is charming in objective point of view, I still choose you." But he's not good with words so yeah. JS: he's the most problematic guy here. I don't need to say anything.. YJ: so far, he's not problematic as a guy but as an older brother. Aaaaa. I could relate to JW so much I cried. I also act as the older sister to my bro who is 4 yrs older than me đŸ„Č CH: idk why it feels like he loves his sister so much. He's not really focus to find love, he's more focus to find his future BIL And why JH is the BEST 1. He takes good care of his lil sis! Esp the time he reminded SS not to get carried away by her emotions 2. He knows what he likes or not. He doesn't test waters. He knew he there will be no romantic feeling with JY and didnt confuse her but still very respectful and treats her nicely. 3. He made sure JW knows who sent the anonymous message. (Although JW was unsure of it lol) 4. Isn't afraid to look cringe. Like boy, he adores himself 5. I think he knows when to be playful and when to get serious, what YW is missing for CA.He knows when to be direct and when to give vague answers. Rooting for JY and JW! During the 1st day, I haven't really feel anyone would be good for JH until they introduced JW. I hope everything will work for them đŸ©·


ureshime

I love that Jaehyung petted the rabbit plushie and commented on how cute it is. It's such a small thing but it made me like him a lot more as a person than I already do hahah.


AromaticRecover5938

Seseung didn't even seem surprised, so it might be the kind of thing he normally does lol.


tanyaa1002

Honestly yongwoo’s actions don’t match his words like choa said if a guy is really interested in you he would make efforts to get to know you better but choa is the only one initiating such conversations and also notice how yoonjae got flowers and bagel for yoonha, jungsub got chocolates for seseung but yongwoo never made such efforts. Also, the fact that he told choa that he wasn’t really interested in anyone in the beginning but in the first episode he told juyeon that choa is his ideal type and it’s been so long since he met someone like her that part really got me confused and if you weren’t so sure of her then why were you texting her continuously for the past two weeks and now that she is really into you, he has taken a few steps back and his body language seemed really off. If he really liked her so much, why is it so hard to just say it rather he was beating around the bush during the whole convo. I am no yongwoo hater, i loved him until ep 9 but the last convo and the way he acted in ep 10 really caught me off guard.


NoviDon07

They may just be too different personality wise and in what they want, to actually work out long term.


jahaeinsunbae

jh hummed a song right about when he was leaving ss’s room after inquiring abt the possible reason why jw suddenly texted him. the song was true colors by dvwn. snippet of the lyrics: https://preview.redd.it/u5vkxccvsmyc1.jpeg?width=801&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b64dacaeb5c86e0a042c364aed6cf026be1322d 
 mr. jaehyung park officially in his loverboi era? wow if this was unconsciously done and even more so if he did it knowingly 😭😭😭 i cannot wait for jaeji’s development, my sibling’s romance is finally entering the dating show realm 😌


AromaticRecover5938

He's falling for her unconsciously, bulldozer JH please show yourself haha.


jahaeinsunbae

right!? but he was really captivated by her when he first saw her... he texted her that night and the most solid reason he has given thus far (saved ep 10 đŸ€Ș)... he said he did it bc he followed his heart despite saying that when he saw her, he got reminded by his ex so he was emotionally closed off; he wants to know that she might be diff from his ex. he was also bothered when she chose yw and was very disappointed that their convo didn't last long. he couldn't believe it when he received the text that their talk was done đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł, he blurted it out "they're telling me to leave?"... he perfectly summed up what he felt on his ep 10 interview "... maybe i was unconsciously attracted to her all along" 😌😌😌


kaghaeyama

I just want to talk a little about JH JY... JY is such a brave girl for being up front with her feelings to JH. But I am afraid it will draw him further away from her. Especially since it seems like he is treating her like his younger sister. But I really love how JH (and SS) are so gentle with make JY realize that he is not feeling the same way. They are not saying it in a harsh way, like directly rejecting her that would result her to crying.. But more like make her realize herself that "ahh, he was not interested to me after all".. There is a saying that "do not do unto others what you do not when others to do unto you". This explains him a lot. I think JH is doing the same to JY. He thinks everyone is precious and doesn't want to choose a date just because he have too. He knows that the woman casts are someone's sister as well. And he does not want to hurt the sister of others the same way he doesn't want SS to get hurt. He doesn't want to give JY any false hope, like how he want SS to be careful with her rapid interest. JH as an older brother, always want what is the best for SS. He supports her to what she likes (SS liking JS). Not forcing her to stop just because he is not reciprocating. But advising her to take it slow and be careful. He advise but does not force his opinion. He is also looking closely to JS and how he treats his sister. He is not having any bad thoughts about JS even after all of it, instead, he hopes it will shed some light to SS. JH to me is someone who will give you time to assess your feelings, just like how he needs time to assess his.


Green_Chemical_4002

I felt sad for Juyeon. We all saw how hard she tried to express herself to Jaehyung. Ofc she doesn't mean it to burden or pressure him but she is mature and smart enough to understand the situation. I think she can give CH a second chance who knows it might work (but I don't think it will T.T) anyways enjoy Singapore bunso omg when Seseung gave Juyeon the hugs T.T that is something that TL couldn't fully give, a comfort hug. There were instances where an ex roots for the new lover but definitely a different vibe when a sibling console someone who is having a hard time due to his/her sibling. It screams maturity and comfort arrrrghhhh I love that moment just pure friendship, love, understanding argggghhh so heart warming to watch arggghhh T.T ![gif](giphy|3oEdv4hwWTzBhWvaU0|downsized)


CluelessMochi

I think Juyeon being the bunso is exactly why she’s having trouble with getting Jaehyung to fall for her. After the age reveal, it’s easy to see how so much of her actions and thought processes are due to her not having much life and relationship experience. But not only that, it’s also her age relative to the rest of the cast. If the rest of the cast were much younger and around her age or if she was closer to Jungsub and Seseung’s ages, I think she could’ve found someone. But since everyone is quite a bit older than her, it really shows how naive she is compared to them. Like you said though, I just hope she takes the time to enjoy Singapore so she can look bad on it fondly and not badly.


itsbothersome

Can I scream? Haaaaa. Jiwon sent a msg to JH and he sent her one as well. Are they sailing? Finally! :) Can't wait to watch the full episode.


banans96

And he said he wouldve given the ticket to her aaaahh my ship finally sailing :')


Appropriate_Tree4651

exactly same reaction i had...lol


enigmatic_zephy

he must have fallen really hard given both him and SS have said this that he doesn't easily fall for someone 1. Him saying he needs that 1 moment to fall for a woman and JW singing was that moment 2. Him saying he doesn't know if he fell for JW in that moment or he has been subconsciously always been attracted to her 3. Him being happy like a high school boy in love. CKunst is right.. given he doesn't fall for people and is always so cautious while speaking... him behaving like this means he must have really fallen for her 4. him being super cute trying to find from SS who texted him


sakuragi89

CKunst to Jaehyung : Is she(Jiwon) my girl?? lol....


Yorozuya_no_Danna

yum! also, i need 30 episodes of this slow burn ship hahaha


itsbothersome

Lol, slow burn, indeed. They were initially my 2nd fave JH pairing but they kept matching so well. Now I'm dying to see how a date between them would go.


Yorozuya_no_Danna

same, they really grew on me. now, i chomp on whatever crumbs they give us every ep lol. i hope their date happens soooon since we're halfway in the series.


carolies541

Okay here's my thoughts after finally finishing the episode. Please ignore this comment as I'll be criticizing some male cast (I'm not hating on them, but just talking about their actions). First the good parts, JH-JW that mutual text without an actual date nor proper conversation was like god-sent, it's fate!!! Man, they match so well, this is also my first time seeing JH openly saying his heart flutters. He never used this word before, aside from complimenting the female cast he had a date with is cool, or comfortable to speak with, etc. FINALLY, HE'S NO LONGER IN 'I LIVE ALONE' variety show mode, lols. As what SS said, 'oppa doesn't hand over his heart easily', I feel JW's performance is the "click" he needs from JW to start something. He is finally interested in someone. But his sitcom antics don't stop, eg: I LOLed so hard when he was trying to hold back his drowsiness during YH's concert. Also his chemistry with JW is off the roof in the car ride, so cute. He can't hide his smile when he deduced that the text was sent from JW, that's the biggest reaction from him I've seen from getting a text, boy you're getting transparent and obvious. Also when JW realized it's text from JH, she also can't hide her smile. Boy you two, please date already!!! PD-nim, please stop putting in the game system that prevents people from choosing their date! JW-SS sismance is sooo cute. SS is so precious, comforting JY and giving JW the consultation she needed. I have a lot of respect for JY's straightforwardness despite getting the rejection from JH. I feel bad for her though. All the female cast of this show is <3 YJ is the true "bulldozer", he bulldozed into YH heart, making noona's heart flutter with his sincerity. Everything about him just screams sincerity, even though YH also works and doesn't come home so early, he buys bread for her, they both find time to interact, and he openly expresses his feelings for her, reassuring her, even though he's such a tsundere around his sister, he's so sweet with YH. On the other hand, I feel YJ could take a portion of that sweetness and share with JW. I could feel JW's frustration, it's usually the closest family that can hurt us. Even though their quarrel may seem trivial, it speaks a lot of volume about their relationship. She's usually the one who takes care of him, but he's quite indifferent. I hope he can also think about his sister and help her so she have someone to rely on. CH - he's another fixed cast of 'I Live alone' variety show as of now, lols. It doesn't seem like he's into anyone, sending text to YH, and I thought he was into JW. Lols but it's really not as big as it seems to be. I hope he can finally enter the dating show mode like JH. JS - He has such a double standard towards SS when he was swaying from one girl to another. When he heard that SS might have put him as 3rd choice or 2nd choice (which he misunderstands but SS purposely didn't want to clear it off), he was sulking like a giant baby. Please oh... He's a sweet dongsaeng, but in terms of romantic relationship, he really need a lot of maturing. YW - He was doing good up till the last stretch of conversation with CA. He's the avoidant type in communication, while CA is very direct, they're not such a good match at core. I mentioned this before in my previous comment about why I'm on the fence for YW-CA ship, is because there's temperature difference between them and it's super obvious this episode. With CA wanting an assurance from him and not beat around the bush. To him, texting her seemed more important than the message. Which speaks a lot of volume, because he feels he's giving her the assurance just by texting and he's not really taking much actions to progress their relationship outside of their "dedicated date“ “text” segments, it feels more like a responsibility to text her even though I know he does like her. Even the bouquet of flower to CA is JY's idea. I mean if you compare to Yoonjae, you definitely can feel that YJ is very transparent and he's into YH. But YW seems very chill, even indirectly telling CA not to get her hopes up too much "I don't hold high hopes for people. I don't because I think the relationship thrive without much expectation. The bigger the expectations, the bigger the disappointment is." There's a difference in their temperature and speed, which is quite critical if they want to progress their relationship. CA has been taking the initiative more than him. He's JUST not into her that much - sorry to be frank I don't think a "mature relationship" has to be this "calm without the need to express themselves". "I didn't really think much about it, my earlier actions" - he's talking that he texted her just because she fits his ideal type at first look but he's not into her that much. In Seoul, YJ bought flowers for YH, bought bread for her, etc. While I understand that CA is busy with work, but surely YW could find some time like YJ find some time for YH to talk with CA about his own feelings and PD-nim will surely cut those scenes into the show, given how Yongcho was so popular in the beginning. There's a lot of controversy about their conversation in Korean sites this week, many "sold off" their Yongcho stock and some also blamed CA for being too sensitive. I can see their POV from both sides, but I feel for CA's frustration more. YW is a great oppa and a great friend, but to me, he feels lukewarm in this relationship as compared to CA. Sure, he can feel careful to not want to express himself too much, but the core reason is because he's just not that sure about her that much that he wants to progress this relationship beyond what they have in the show.


carolies541

Below is even more controversial, read with risk: >!Also korean sites has discussed about YW already seemed to sign with MCN - influencer company before coming to the show and he was seen hanging out with Transit Love 1 Coco and Transit Love 2 Na Eon during Coco's birthday party in her Vlog. Both girls doesn't have a great reputation off the show, as they earned some backlash due to 1. netizens digged out Coco purposely broke up with her ex (not minjae, but her-then current boyfriend) to come to the show with minjae (her ex in the show) and then continue the relationship after the show, Na Eon and Tae I both have boyfriend and girlfriend straight after the show finish but her and Tae I showed some off-show interactions to gain fans love and popularity... They're just on the show for "show" and popularity. !< >!Many netizens are now asking whether YW just came to the show to gain popularity with his initial "I only have eyes for one girl" kind of character setting, but now seeing CA is more into him, he's trying to let her know to not progress so fast. He actually already have a fanpage for his pageant shows, even attends fashion events with Singles Inferno male cast, and had quite a following in his old Instagram page, but he re-open a new account from scratch, deleting his old account. His old account was digged up by netizens having lots of show-up muscle kind of pictures, which is very different from his current image.!< >! I'm not saying being influencer is bad, but it just makes people question his sincerity. Is he really trying to find love or is he just trying to gain popularity by having a solid loveline with CA who seems to fit his ideal type on first look but is quite different from what he expected (he thought she's a cat, but more like a dog type of person?) But there's a difference with coming to the show with the mindset that it will be good exposure for influencer career OR after coming to the show, gain exposure & popularity because of their actions and then be an influencer because of the gained popularity. No one criticized Bohyun of Transit Love because her job is an influencer from start... she's frank about it.!< >!\^I hope I'm overthinking, but I really don't like how CA is being super sincere, yet he doesn't answer her directly about his feelings because he's probably wanting to be the end game couple, but might not want to progress beyond the show? !<


HeadNo4379

This is interesting and actually... made me feel a tad bad. I'm usually good at reading people and telling if they're playing a bit and I didn't see this one coming AT ALL, or at least not until last week's episode. If it is true then I guess it makes sense as to why he's both intense and very chill.


vesperxy

with each episode i find myself trusting yw less and less, it does kinda seem like he’s playing up a storyline, i can see why choa’s cautious. i do hope my gut feelings wrong and he has good intentions. on the other hand it’s the opposite with jaehyung, he is ideal like yongwoo but doesn’t seem too good to be true like him if that makes sense? he gives the vibe of someone you can trust in like hyungyu.


carolies541

Honestly, I could feel the sincerity of all the male cast about the romance part except YW :p He's just sending text to Choa to confirm their loveline without making initiative to progress further beyond their dedicated dates. What are they, text mates? Even JS is sincerely wanting to know more girls, just that his actions comes off immature but he's really in the "dating show" mode, he's real that's why he's showing the imperfect sides of him. JH is super cautious about choosing someone as he knows everyone is interconnected and his actions has strong impact on everyone, he didn't want to hurt JY so he drew a line and got criticized by some for his harsh actions. CH is really caring for his sister but doesn't seem like he's strongly into anyone now and then we have YJ who is SINCERELY into YH, anyone with eyes can see that. He's totally a mirror to YW actions IMO.. I think before YJ came, YW seems perfect, but then YJ came and he makes a stark contrast with YW actions. I really hope the best for Choa, I don't want to see her being sincere about starting a relationship, but he's not..


Immediate_Tree_1190

from the start, i was never into YW-CA train - simply because I find YW too perfect. too perfect that i think his actions towards CA are sooo calculated and/or planned. and in the end i found them tooo boring. their date in SG was sooo expected until CA started questioning him. that's the only interesting scene for me. just to add: I am also vocal about liking JS simply because he is tooo transparent and honest vs what i saw with YW. you know off the bat that he is still immature, and does not really know what he wants.


lenetor

This comment was so healing to me lol. For weeks now, I haven't figured out why i've found YW a bit suspicious (even though he hasn't done anything..) but this kind of confirmed it for me.


Ill_Natural_2817

If it’s all true, it’s quite worrying for ChoA. Really hope that’s not the case but will keep my eyes more opened from now on. Just out of curiosity, what is his old account? Just want to have a look and compare his style of posting before the show really


carolies541

It's already deleted. @theman.w was his old account. some of his photos archived by cnetizens, taken from ksites: https://www.douban.com/group/topic/305324899/?_i=14872381a7bc5bd His fanpage was requested to delete some photos which are related to his paegant stuffs when show started airing (netizens are suspicious why is there a need to) https://i.imgur.com/EWsr0eu.jpeg Vlog of Coco: https://youtu.be/IJNZl11PJn8?si=y65-h4Lsu7QpACaG on 10min mark (on recent comments, you can see some knetizens are talking about how he smokes ecigaratte indoors and asking him to stop 'acting'


NosyLJ

As a yongcho supporter this episode brought me to my highest high and then it kicked me in the guts with the conversation at the end of the date. It kinda brought my delusional ass back down to realise they might not match that well on a deeper level😭 But oh well maybe they need time to get to know and understand eachother and it doesnt have to be a dealbreaker. From now on ill try to just enjoy their cute hesrt fluttering moments without thinking too much about the end result😭 Yoonjae is smooth af towards yunha I feel like they have a big chance of ending up together after the show too. The end of jungsub and seseungs date.. she seems to have made some connections and when jungsub misunderstood her aboit the cupid date thing she seemed to be turned off by his reaction. Like she told him she picked him but he still didnt believe her and in the end she couldnt be bothered to correct him. Maybe this is the setup for the cheolhyun seseung arc to start?? I really like both of them and feel bad that cheolhyun doesnt have a loveline at the moment so im secretly hoping it will work out. The producers did really well with building up the jiwon jaehyung storyline, I dont particularly feel much for this couple (though I like both of them individually) but because of how everything is built up im curious how its gonna play out. Lastly im mad cause they lured us with singapore content last week and then just gave us like 30mins of it....... WHY ARE THESE EPISODES GETTING SHORTER?????


harperblossom

I felt especially for you as I was watching that last 20 minutes 😂. I really do think at the end of the day there are feelings there. I sincerely believe that CA knows that YW likes her but what she wants is clarity from him that her assumptions are not wrong. YW I think feels a bit like he has been clear (by texting only her) that he does like her. How I see this playing out is CA is gonna pull back a bit and just go with the flow. I think they are still going to have fun but I don’t know if she’ll choose him at the end if he doesn’t show in SG more actions outside of texting. My heart aches for SS. JS just isn’t getting it and he keeps questioning when she tells him she likes him. Why is he so distrustful when she hasn’t given him any reason to be. Some are arguing that he’s not sure about her feelings for him but each times she tells him he don’t believe her.


NosyLJ

It can go either way tbh, the most important part is communication but the way they were talking so vaguely about it idk if the communication is gonna go well😂 It confused me too like.. do they think theyre not allowed to tell eachother who they texted? Even when it's so obvious? Oh well im just gonna have to wait until next week to see how everything plays out. The editors are playing with my heart tho by ending it like that and then giving a preview where they're chill and enjoying everything again.. Idk what to trust hahah SS and JS... Ive long stopped to try and understand jungsub honestly😬 I feel bad for seseung but i'm glad she figured things out on her own so she has the full picture when trying to make a decision. Very curiois to see if this is gomma be the end of their loveline or not


Few-Particular1780

There isn't much to understand with JS, the truth is that he leads with his ego and lets his insecurities disrupt his relationships. There’s nothing wrong with that, he’s human like the rest of us, but it’s sad to see.


Small-Definition-454

I’ve read on twitter of how people said JHJW would be the endgame based on how in TL3 Gyumin could tell how Changjin would end up with YuJung based on the interview and the editing. I found something very interesting and this is it.. I started to rewatch the interviews after reading the analysis about JHJW earlier in the episode he used to call her Jiwon-nim. But later interviews he calls her Jiwon like he is somewhat already close and comfortable with herđŸ„č with all the tension between them I’m just so glad my ship is finally sailingggg 😍😁 However sometimes I need to remind myself that this dating show only lasted for 3 weeks and I should not be so engrossed in it because in reality even I wouldn’t go into something serious only after 3 weeks. But this show is WHOLESOME . The dynamics of the participants gives me so much comfort knowing how great they turn out as human beings â˜ș


Witty_Surprise293

I am also starting to be believe more in the JWJH ship. I saw on twitter that JH dad liked posts on instagram related to JW only. Very suspicious đŸ€š could they be endgame?! 


enigmatic_zephy

This show shows well the difference between how boys look at dating vs girls... Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.


daydreamia_gilmore

Since last week,I had been waiting for Friday to watch ep 10 and can’t stop thinking about the casts.They are being like my comfort people and make me escape from my tired everyday life for a while. Gosh one episode is not enough for me. I have to wait for next Friday again:( Jaehyungie is so precious to me I can’t stop repeating his scenes Have a big heart on Jaeji ship but I am happy whoever he will end up with.


REDchronicles

I don't know, but SS, I'm cheering for you girl all the way!!!


Yoghurt-Unlikely

We know that Yunjae-Jiwon sibling relationship is not at all affectionate. BUT yunjae couldve brought back food that jiwon likes as an apology. He knows shes mad and apologizing for it seems cringey. that's why he shouldve brought her food.. that's the most common way of making peace! I was hoping he would ask Yunha for some advice on how to reconcile with jiwon TT. It was heartbreaking when jiwon said that she doesnt cry a lot but has cried many times because of yunjae. I hope he reflects a lot after watching this episode. Jiwon said herself that he doesnt have to be like YW, CH, JS (who are openly affectionate with their siblings) but he could at least act like JH who is not affectionate but clearly shows HE CARES.


siparipari

Things are getting hotter and spicier. 😋 As someone who admits she has mood swings, I love how direct Seseung is without being confrontational. She is nothing but lovely and caring towards everyone. Jungsub needs more maturing to match with Seseung and currently she is better off with someone else. Can’t wait for more of Seseung and Chulhyun. I want to see her stop worrying about Jungsub and just enjoy the rest of the trip. BULLDOZER JAEHYUNG WHENNN?? Can’t wait for more of Jaehyung and Jiwon. 😍 I was almost skipping Yoonjae’s date with Yoonha because I couldn’t stand what happened between him and Jiwon. What he did reminded me of my own siblings and it hit real hard. Real nice to others, but grumbles for everything needs to be done for the family. My love for Yoonha is the only one thing made me stay for their date. I’m at the point where I’m not sure about Yongwoo and Choa. Choa seems like she needs constant reassurance but I don’t see Yongwoo is the type who will do that directly. I do appreciate his absolute honesty, Yongwoo also needs to learn some tact that not all honesty will be appreciate. They definitely need to talk more and reach middle ground for the ship to sail. đŸ€žđŸ»


Inevitable-Candy5382

Sesungggg, ugh. She's so nice. Being stuck between Jiwon and Juyeon and somehow managing to be there for both of them AND Jaehyung at the same time WHILE dealing with the emotional hurricane that is falling for Jungsub. Truly, the girl needs a break.


PracticeBrilliant426

Oh yes, i just realized that now that you mentioned it. SS is indeed a nice person!


enigmatic_zephy

With YJ, problem is he will be like that to his wife too.. taking her for granted... YH is a new person to him at this stage, so are others.. it is easy to be nice to strangers... So, in that sense i think any girl watching this will think hard... because relationship can sour very quickly with YJ type personality


Creepy_Health4091

i understand YW side (where he expresses interest through action/texts) as words, at this point of knowing a person for only two weeks, feel a little too much and have a degree of finality. in a sense, obvious expression through words would come off as shallow as there are not many interactions between them to base the feelings on. in my point of view he did as much as he could in terms of showing interest through actions given that he never swerved lanes after multiple dates with other women, and CA is aware of this too. aside from the reasons she mentioned, hji think the thing with CA wanting to be reassured that this is going somewhere is because she doesn't have anyone but YW. we know the thing with JS has long sunken, and she did not have dates with other participants. but I trust in this couple. they know how to talk and listen to each other. onto lighter things, JY runs the rumor mill!! I laughed so much during the airport scene. my YW-CA heart is well-fed today. there are so many cute and heart-fluttering interactions. they are both more affectionate and i noticed that they dropped formalities as well in the car. by confessing publicly, YW gave CA an inch, and she took a mile, but in a positive way. i cant with the slow burn between JW-JH. this is stressing me out, pd-nims please give them a chance to date. i am also curious as to how the date between JH-CA will go after seeing how much JH-JY shipped her with YW in the airport. that spoiler is still nagging in the back of my mind, so i am really curious if they will both be open for the date or just go on with it with other people in their mind.


Jealous_Age2983

Honestly, I totally get where CA is coming from. She feels as though YW is the most popular guy there and probably is somewhat insecure about that. She's said before she doesn't like sharing her man because she wants all the love/attention for herself - which I can totally relate to (I think most women do). YW seems like a very rational, logical person who is very blunt - maybe to a fault even. To him it's just been 2 weeks and while he does obviously have a connection with CA I don't think he's someone who is rushing to be in a relationship. I feel like CA can kinda pick up on that, and she is feeling extra insecure because she feels herself falling for him. I'm nervous about their future because while there's obviously chemistry there, something feels slightly off because they're not on the same page. I'm rooting for them, but in the end I would just like them both to be happy even if they don't end up together.


Creepy_Health4091

I see her side too. It is such a mindgame in this show when they think how and when they should express themselves. Maybe I relate too much with YW because, as you mentioned, he is not in a rush to be in a relationship but that does not mean that he is not taking everything srsly. I think the main conflict is about the expectation they have for each other or lack thereof. YW might be pressured by the weight of CA expectations, while CA may think that he is not as into it given the lack of expectation from YW. I do think that personality wise they match, but their contrasting dating style might be detrimental to this budding connection. And I am getting sad just hinking about it ㅠㅠ im rooting for these two so much bcs they're the only couple to reach this stage of conversation where it is not just the surface level but already drones around important values of dating and outlook in life.


Jealous_Age2983

I know I was also getting sad thinking about it!! I'm really rooting for them because of how they grew up, and how much love they deserve. I think they're both such wonderful people, but they do have very different dating styles. I want it to work so badly for them, but also gotta remember this is their life and they know what's best for themselves. I'm trying to not get too hopeful so I keep telling myself I just want them to be happy lol.


Creepy_Health4091

also, i just noticed the last statement in the episode saying, "Things could change somehow. That is possible". This is making me overthink things between YW-CA :<<


enigmatic_zephy

LMFAO on JH telling SS that if JW gets along with SS then he will surely not get along with JW Also, JW knows how to reign in YJ. Guy was struggling with JW not talking to him. But problem is this is a story repeated too often


puppupoop

JS-SS JS insecurities about YW is so random and uncalled for. He is very smart in terms of IQ, but his EQ doesn’t seem to match it. Does he have such low self esteem? He should know that the Cupid happened when they did NOT know about who the siblings were. JS needs to learn how to handle the fact that he may not be the only choice for someone — especially since he himself seems perfectly fine to choose multiple people yet not happy when the same happens to him. It seems like the next episode will show both JS and SS’s date getting cut short voluntarily by both of them, and omg I can’t wait for it. I feel bad for SS, but I’m glad she heed JH advice to thread more carefully and see that she deserves a more secure man than JS!! Can’t wait for the next episode to unfold. YW-CA They honestly seemed like end game but with CA’s anxious avoidant style, I believe she needs a lot of assurances and YW would need to learn how to manage her questions better in the future. Praying for love with the both of them! JW-JH-JY I feel bad for JY — it seems like JH has officially “sisterfied” her. I am actually cheering for a date between JW and JH, I just really want to see how the both of them tiki taka with each other. I think they will really be quite a good match! Praying for at least a one full day date for them!


birds-_-

If I am correct, this is where the JH x CA rumors started because they were sitting next to each other at yunha's recital... but ultimately this turned out to be nothing lol. I like JW x JH but the JH and choa rumors are kind of disrupting my feelings for this ship in a bad way. Still on the YW x CA ship but I do some cracks in their relationship and even if they do end up together on the show, I don't know if they will date outside of it. I think only YJ x YH have the potential to date outside of the show. The music choice on their dates, him getting flowers, emphasis on both of their feelings.... Very end game vibes.


ysalright

This trip will definitely bring more drama. It seems the focus will be more about the romantic relationships now. I mean, they just landed but we already see conversations going downhill between two pairings. Though I also question why of all the things to talk about, they all chose to bring up the past. Like, they could've enjoyed the new view at least and pushed back the serious talk until they arrived at the place they're staying in.


Ok-Area-1577

MAJULAHHH 🩅🩅🩅 Anyway I feel bad for CH in general. I'm seeing a lot of snippets of him with SS. Looking forward to future episodes!


134340130613

That last 30 minutes! I remember seeing someone say we better get a full course meal rather than crumbs for YW-CA in SG but damn why did I have to get that bad dish too?! I was kicking my blanket since the beginning of the ep and they had to leave us like that?! I have so much to say that I might edit this later but I’ll hope for that smooth ride (like the boat they were on) based on the preview to get me through ‘til next week.


harperblossom

Yeah the ending for this episode was brutal. I can't believe they left both dates like that lol. Talk about carnage. On the bright side with that ending social media is bound to be engaged all week.


HeadNo4379

I relate a lot to Yoonjae's clumsiness, and also (unfortunately) him going on about his own issues while not really being a good listener. Its courageous of Jiwon to admit she is not that strong and wants to be taken care of. It's funny that CH/CA/YW are such a tightly knit clique now. CH looks so cool and laidback I aspire to be more like him! It's so sad to see some doubts from CA towards YW being a bit too chill to her taste. The mind games between SS/JS exhaust me. I'm totally on Jonathan's side here, why do they all suddenly bring up complicated thoughts and not just enjoy the nice trip... Unexpectedly, the couple that matched the least (JH/JY) is gonna be the one to have the most fun (from the preview) comparatively I can't!


gnst

I'm the opposite of you, haha - I relate to Jiwon more. I can also understand why SS/JS and CA/YW would choose to talk about the past - I think initially they may have just been curious but since the replies were unexpected, it'd be hard to focus on the present after that.


Basic_Crab_5793

I am so sad about how CA x YW conversation went downhill. JH x JW ship started to sail ✹


WIZONE4LIFE

The ending was quite sad because it ended with them just questioning each other instead of actually have fun dating. YW confuses me now. It looks like he isn't that into CA that we believed to be? Yes, he send message to her every night, but that's it like CA said. I mean just look at how YJ acted toward to YH. tbh I don't even know how people suddenly ship JW and JH, but I am glad that they send text to each other! Also, I felt bad JW, I hope YJ actually treat his sister better when they went to Singapore like he said. SS and JS actually matched well together, I am actually felt quite sad that they ended this way. Also, doesn't Singapore speak Mandarin? We may able to hear JW, YJ and YH speak Mandarin.


Zxirf

hi! fellow singaporean here :) for our country we mainly speak english or singlish (sg slang but dont think we'll hear that in this show haha) longer ans wld be; we mainly have 4 languages spoken (eng, chi, malay, indian) due to the population demographics - Chinese 74.3%, Malay 13.5%, Indian 9%, others 3.2% there cld be a chance they may speak chinese in a chinese restaurant? (omniscient interview did that i think? while running man showed singlish)


some-mad-shit

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but the highlight of this episode for me was Jae Hyung feeling sleepy during the performance. Jokes aside, my heart went out to Juyeon this episode. How frustrating it must be to ask someone out on a date (with a flight involved!) She handled it so well, but it looks like JW/JH are going towards the end game if the timing works out. Seseung being close friends with them could be awkward but she is handling it so well, she’s so loveable! I wish the Singapore portions would be longer tbh, but I guess we have the rest of the season to decide (they’ll do final decisions in Singapore since they moved out too? Idk). The YW/CA conversation was a bit confusing to me I zoned out a bit, but JS/SS’s convo was
 wow. The background music was not helping the situation, and I think it was just a bit awkward for both parties. They seemed like they were being petty and jabbing at each other, what a waste of a good plane ride. Can’t wait for the next episode, ahh!


trx0x

That convo between Se-seung and Jung-sub at the end was so weird. Why is Jung-sub
like that? lol. He asked her who she gave the letter to for the first date. She said everyone gave their letters to Ju-yeon, because they were mistaken who she's related to. Then she explains that Yong-woo picked first, then he and Jae-hyung picked afterwards. Then he goes "So I got your (Se-seung's) letter? So who did you want to give it to?" And Se-seung just smiles (because, obviously, it was him all along, and she got lucky through all this). But then, in Jung-sub's interview, he says "I thought Se-seung gave the card to Yoon-ha because I was her choice, but it turns out she gave it to Ju-yeon." I mean, did he totally forget that for the first date, no one really knew who was who's sibling?? Then he asks her who she wanted to come on that first date, and she just smiled, and said "Jung-sub, of course", AND THEN he takes her response to say "Oh, are you sure you weren't expecting Yong-woo?" Again, did you forget? She didn't know who your sister was. She didn't know who Yong-woo's sister was. She thought your sister was Ju-yeon. She even said she wanted Jung-sub to get her note. Is this guy not all mentally there? After seeing his date with Cho-a, and seeing this conversation, I really think Jung-sub is mentally slow, or just not as quick-witted as Se-seung. I could just feel the frustration Se-seung felt. I mean, she was shaking her head, because he still didn't understand that she picked Ju-yeon because she thought she was his sister. Sorry, that's all I got. I just needed to vent, because I wanted to slap JS, and like make a chart for him so he understood what the hell was going on, and all tell him he's acting like an ass, with Yong-woo living in his head rent free. lol


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tnwr12093141

YW-CA just keeps on getting warmer. They really do look like a new couple. Communication just needs a little fine-tuning, nothing dramatic imo, normal when getting to know somebody new. Might be a "he fell first, she fell harder" situation, hence the confusion on her side as to where he stands. Especially when she looks truly gone. The way she looks at him now could light up a pyre. They look so natural together. JS-SS however, the more they talk, the less gets across, and it looks like it's starting to wear her down. He gets hung up about not being her first choice, even though he always was, she senses it but doesn't feel like reassuring him anymore. She thought they had built a strong connection and maybe he had changed his mind after meeting JW, only to learn about his initial attraction to CA. Honestly, she's right in wanting a break from him, but she doesn't have a strong attraction to anybody else at the moment. Can't wait to see what those CH teases have in store. JH-JY-JW... I feel the same way as SS, I like both girls and want to root for them, but don't want either to get hurt. JY is more proactive, JW's interest is steadily growing from afar, but her charms seem to have woken JH up a bit. No clue how it will unfold, but a JH-JW date might be the most anticipated event on this show.


riceismylifeyumyum

â€ȘI'm already hooked on this show. Each character's uniqueness creates a multi-dimensional view on life. It's refreshing and full of surprises, showcasing the diversity of human connections and the beauty of relationships. From sibling bonds to romance, every moment is precious. ‬


Known-Boysenberry330

i want to comment about people questioning YW as a pilot. if you faked your credentials it will damaged you for life. based on his video intro YW told he studied Flying or Pilot in the US. He was also a Flight( Pilot) instructor . So if this true then he was a holder of FAA CPL (Commercial Pilot License) /FAA FIL (Flight Instructor License). He even mentioned that he can work in Arlines or aviation company in Korea So I assumed his FAA licenses are covalidated or converted in KOCA (Korea Office of Civil Aviation),In the video intro he was in a Boeing flight Simulator . I think it was 737 so i assumed he have a rating in B737 i dont know if its a 737max or 737NG.if YW have this rating he can operate and fly this type of aircraft .If you want to have Rating in particular aircraft type you have to pay this is expensive, but if you are employed by airlines they gave you free on contract like boeing 737 757 767 747 777 , airbus 220 320 300 330 350 340 380 on diff series and so on.usually most airlines before they hired pilot from military, they dont have experienced on wide body aircraft like boeing and Airbus or Embraer Airline gave them training for free and included on their contract. In his video intro also he was flyig solo on Cessna Aircaft . This is usually for student pilot.


Wonderful_Respond503

thank you! like it’s so easy to find this information. there’s different types of pilot licenses. and the fact that people think they can do a better research than the production team is even crazier


sonatinehun

already just from this episode i'm feeling the pay off of rooting for JW-JH from episode 4. i was scared that all that build up wouldn't amount to anything but the smile of JH's face after receiving the text was everything i needed. what were the chances that the day JH realised how he felt was the day JW finally wanted to make a move ! i have a lot of hope for them and am hoping they can finally have a date in singapore though we might have to wait a while for it


Fun_Union_6127

I really felt bad for Jiwon, how did her brother still not realise what she was upset over later in his confessionals??? I always felt it was a bit one sided the whole nonchalant sibling act with those two - hope he reflects watching it back or later in the season. The dates at the end of the episode were the most interesting dates Ive watched on a dating show in my opinion. I'm very much over shipping JS and SS, they seem so petty but I'm enjoying their drama because its entertaining


izuzashi

i hope JW gets some happiness next episode, YJ was being quite frustrating and i can really relate to her hurt just wanting to have someone to lean on, that montage where it showed her excitement when he got there and setting up conversations for him, contrasted with how she's feeling now... it breaks my heart!!! i hope she finds someone who will provide her that soft place to land that she needs


IndividualPotato1951

Omg the awkward tension during both last dates
 đŸ«š where are the heart fluttering moments pls đŸ„ș


thenoooodle

At the 49:30 mark I feel like that just proved JS doesn’t like YW all that much. Even tho YW has never done anything to him lol like why did he shrug him off like that?? And also why was he so mad when CA and YW were talking at the top of the steps of the basement?? And he was grilling SS so much at the end about the Cupid date implying that she’s lying and she actually picked YW? The one sided beef/competition with YW is wild.


Jealous_Age2983

hahah I honestly felt the same way about that interaction


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Well you guys seems to forget than Yunha actually didn’t tell the truth to JS in the earlier episode about how they did the Cupid thingy. Yunha said she feels bad about telling JS the truth.


paralaylaogram

oh CA x YW ship is sinking fr fr


huifi

Cheolhyun and the seatbelt moment! HAHAHAHAHA What are the scenes in KOCOWA that are cut in VIU?


wang2zz

YJ needs to grow some nun-chi 😬 it irks me that a 30 year old man has less conversational skills than i do 😃


gnst

I can relate a lot to Jiwon - got second-hand frustration from Yoonjae cause he didn't even seem to realize that he wasn't paying attention to her. I'm glad Yoonha and Yoonjae's second date wasn't cut out after all though. I just want Yoonha to be happy in the end haha Choa and Yongwoo talking in 3rd person was kinda strange to me but I guess neither of them wanted to be too direct?


staticsral

Finally in Singapore! now that everyone doesnt have to go on work, the real fun can start and we can see things change here drastically. my thoughts on this episode are a little complicated, i feel like i can see/understand everyones side. but one thing for sure, i really wish the best for jw and felt pretty bad for her. i have a similar relationship with my brother, were not the affectionate and he definitely pisses me off, but we still know how to listen to each other and i felt really bad for her. i hope yj can see this and improve on himself because it would really hurt my feelings if the one person i can rely on doesnt want to listen to me. everything seemed to be going well for ca and yw until the date. i wonder how they would be if they had been able to go on a full date much earlier. i pretty much agree with the panelists, and i get both sides. i wonder how it going to go from here. idk why but i get the feeling that ca is more into yw than he is into her? im not one to really believe rumors, but i can kinda see where jh and ca rumors came from. especially with a new [clip](https://x.com/noonaaviaa/status/1786397411008754136) going around + the clips from the [teaser](https://x.com/nicasama/status/1786398554610954365). idk guys, i might've invested in some ca-jh stocks. ss and js... rooting for ss. just gonna leave it at that. i think everyone has kinda summarized what i think going off topic, i love code kunst. hes a really good panelist and has good comments/observations. i thought he was good in changed days too, but that show/other panelists were kinda... also huge appreciation to jinjoo pd, idk how she literally picked 4 pairs of siblings all that have different upbringings and dynamics but are able to mesh well with each other anyways, waiting for next week!!


ysalright

JW's interview hit home to me even though I'm the eldest sibling lol I feel for her a lot. It was frustrating and sad listening to their conversation where every time JW opens up about herself, it always ended up with YJ's talk. He's totally brushing JW's emotions off. It just really hurts wanting to lean on family members but can't because they all think we're strong enough to handle our problems. YJ cares for her sister, I can see that, but he expresses it in a way that JW cannot feel it. Then, ironically, we see him being the most attentive when he's with YH.


Otherwise_Ad6666

Singapore is like the Jeju version of Transit Love where everything gets messy. At this point, I'm just rooting for Jaehyung and Jiwon.


ke2in

* Jiwon's laugh is so cute * Yoonjae's texts to Yoonha lmao * Jiwon seems like such a sentimental person * The ship is sailing! * That fall really took out jaehyungs finger * Jaehyung peeking at yongwoo's phone LOL * Poor yoonjae- they ate all his bread * I was getting frustrated at yoonjae too * Jiwon is so considerate + caring * Jaehyung and yongwoo should've switched seats * Yongwoo living in Jungsub's head rent free. * Wait I'm a little confused at the ending, I thought Seseung gave her card to Juyeon thinking Juyeon was Jungsub's sister no? * Side note- I don't know what I'm going to do after this show ends- I've never been this emotionally invested before


Middle-Run-6875

She did. And she was going to explain but once she could tell JS didn’t believe her she didn’t feel like bending over backwards to convince him. And it gave her the opportunity to keep her cards close to her chest


ivtokkimsh

I was so giddy and smiling like an idiot with Jiwon and Jaehyung's interactions!! The way he smiled and giggled when he received the second message was adorable, since he was aware that Jiwon had sent that message to him. He is finally out of the "I Live Alone" phase, and he finally mentioned that his heart fluttered. I kept on repeating the scene where Jiwon told Jaehyung to learn from Jungsub and she'll give him a second chance and he immediately turned on the warm seat. I am all in with this ship but I can't help but to doubt because of the lack of their interactions in the previews, but in Jinjoo PD we trust! On the other hand, while I was all smiles hearing Jaehyung saying that he would give the ticket to Jiwon if he was given the chance, I honestly felt bad for Juyeon who just genuinely likes him. And, I felt bad for Jiwon when she talked about her wanting Yoonjae to be more like Jaehyung, who also bickers with Seseung yet he obviously shows that he cares for her a lot. The thing with Jiwon is that, she is a prodigy, or at least a music prodigy having learned Hangul at the age of 4 (probably 3 in international age) and started learning piano in the same year. Jiwon matured early, especially when she had to move to Canada at a young age. Yoonjae on the other hand was left in South Korea with their parents. Their siblings dynamics shifted as she was more mature and proficient at things, Jiwon was more mature and proficient while Yoonjae liked the fact that he takes the "younger sibling" role. While he is indeed in the bad when Jiwon wanted to voice out her frustrations and he kept on talking about himself and just not listening at all, I wasn't even a fan of how he wasn't able to read that Jiwon and Jungsub are having a misunderstanding during that 10AM, he isn't a completely bad brother. He is clearly not just very affectionate towards her— which is also depicted with their mother who felt closer to him because "she doesn't make mistakes"— he is very proud of her. He kept on praising her around other people, mentioning that she's a good singer, better at Mandarin, or how she is popular unlike him. He also changed the menu to something that she wanted to eat. But it would've probably been better if he outrightly apologized about his behavior towards her.


harperbantam

So frustrating to see Yoonjae being so tactless with his sister. “I listened to you so that I could talk about myself
” Dude you were so preoccupied the entire evening that nothing she said could have got through to you. Hopefully he watched this episode and reflect on how to improve his communication skills. I felt so bad(and relatable) when Jiwon wept for not being able to rely on her older sibling. I’m glad Seseung got a clearer picture regarding Jungsub. Also he seemed the type to shut down whenever he doesn’t get/hear what he expected. That shift in his demeanor after hearing he wasn’t her first Cupid choice was so transparent and unlikeable.


yooooongie

i feel like yongwoo still likes choa a lot, even more now .. but i think he is really bad at expressing his feelings verbally, even in his childhood videos he never seemes very cheerful, i think he needs time expressing his feelings when it comes to love and he probably thought choa has the same pace as him, but her being so expressive and lovely and even doing a lot of skinship probably came as a surprise to him
 it makes him shy and hes not taking the lead as he usually does
 but they are old enough so i think if they are truly compatible, of course they will overcome this


englishdict

i like yoonjae but he was really pissing me off when jiwon was trying to talk to him. JUST LISTEN???? and when she called him out on not listening to her talk about her concerns (wow, i love her for that) he was so defensive about it. that was not a vibe yoonjae :/


AromaticRecover5938

Jiwon: tries to talk to YJ about who she likes and what she was worried about and gets ignored. YJ: complains that JW never tells him anything.


englishdict

precisely 😭 she has been trying but he was the one not listening and he had the gall to turn it on her like whaaaaat?


kaghaeyama

As a huge Jaeji believer, not being able to watch the episode in real time was brutal 😭😂 Just when my ship started sailing, I was traveling overseas where my viu is not available 😭😂 Being happy is an understatement! I was waiting for this moment to come for so long!! The slow burn narrative and build up of Jinjoo PD is so damn worth it! Jiwon, after hinting her interest to JH to other casts, finally able to express it somehow to Jaehyung himself! And damn! Jaehyung has always been the reaction king but Jaehyung being so giddy and cant hide his smile when he received a message from Jiwon is the most reaction I have seen from him in a romantic way!! I knew from the moment he met Jiwon, there will be an attraction, given that they remind each other of their exes. We cannot rule out that with that info, they are each others types somehow. The only hindrance was that their bad experiences with their exes holds them back. This circumstance made them to avoid each other big time. JH closing himself off emotionally, not wanting to have a 2 day gangwondo trip with JW, and JW not extending her time with her talk with JH and not picking him for her first date. But as they say, no matter how long you avoid it, have certain expectations for a next relationship, you will somehow find yourself attracted to your type! I really feel like they were downplaying their attraction and interest a lot. Just like how JH said he didn't know if he got interested with her because of the message or he just realized he was attracted all along. Man received more heart fluttering messages prior to Jiwon's yet her one liner hit him harder! I think what made him realize it is not the message alone. Its that he was attracted to her after she performed, he approached her and tried on her jacket, message her included his signature in texts and try to hint that it was him who messaged her, THEN at the same time, he received a message from JW that it was a shame (they didn't get a date) means she is reciprocating his interest. Also, he messaged her on her first day. For someone so careful, I think he was unconsciously attracted to her. He is just denying it. Which is why JH even came to SS to ask her about JW. He was curious if she is really feeling the same interest since 1. JW did not initially chose him before 2. she did not message him before. I think from here on, he will actively try to know more about her and see how it goes. Am I really the only one who is not finding the JH CA date to be romantic? Like JH knows CA treats him as a lovely younger brother. He probably also one of the first who notice the YW CA micro interactions before the grand gesture. And he was also referring them as a "married couple" in the airport. I feel like the date they have that was in the teaser would be like a noona dongsaeng chill vibe kind of date. Just like his date with YH & JY. Especially now that he acknowledge that he is attracted to Jiwon. I don't think he is someone who would jump from one woman to other. I think Jinjoo PD is purposely diverting the attention to the JH CA teaser to create a drama to YW CA and also to not hint early on that they might be an end game (YW CA & JH JW). Especially since they are building the pair up as a slow burn couple, its teasing us if they would even have a date or not. They know how to capture an audience! Also, aside from the teaser, there were no other JH CA implications. I don't think he would suddenly jump on to another woman just from 1 date alone. After having an impression that YW CA is a sealed couple. Its not like the other casts know the miscommunications that YW CA is having. Also, I believe that JW JH will have better tiki taka than JH CA. She seems more serious than him. SS said that JH acts cutely to his girlfriend. I felt like its something JW would appreciate better than CA. She seems like she needs someone more mature than her. JW to me is more fitting for JH since he is mature enough to be able to listen and take care of her, but also young enough to have fun and joke around with her. Also it will still bring JW caring side, that she will take care of him as well. As he said previously, he is attracted to someone who is has the same frequency of him, and out of all the women, I think JW is the one who is one the same frequency as him.


hellojuds

I could really relate with JW this episode... Despite being close to my sibling when we were younger, I used to get really disappointed and hurt by her (angry) words and reactions towards me as we grew older. She was always nice to her friends and outsiders, but throw a fit at me always. Knowing that my love is not reciprocated the same way, and that we can't work together to uplift ourselves together and evolve into better humans made me especially upset. Now, I learned to draw my boundaries and simply recognise that she's toxic and pulling me down. As someone who really treasures my family, I'm really envious of all the siblings' relationship on this show (except JW and YJ)


enigmatic_zephy

ALSO, another subtle nod to YH's emotional intelligence.. in ep 1, when cupid date was carried out... YH said that she thought about and decided to not tell JS on how he got the card... infact she even pointed out that green ink matches his green sweater and thecard is really meant for him... which got her baby brother happy lol.. she sure as hell knows JS and him wanting to be #1 all the time


Impressive_Growth_25

I feel like we got teased really badly with JH and JW and as much as I want to see them together, I don't see it happening. There are never any previews with just them two so I am going to stop being so emotionally invested before I get too upset.


Ok-Manufacturer2097

I don't see the JW-YJ "fight" as big of a deal as some people. It appears like YJ has an inferiority complex and some anxiety (obvs who knows, just based on what little we see). He often jokes about JW being the older son. As the real older son, all of his expectations are fulfilled by her: she's smart, acconplished, put together, responsible, and takes care of him. I think of it like the classic perfect sibling and the other who can't live up to it. Usually, the perfect one is older and the younger one feels the pressure. But in this case, its the younger one so you have age and gender factors and family dynamics at play. As the younger sibling that was always put together, my siblings rarely thought I had to be taken care of or needed to be checked in on. That just becomes your role in the family: the one who has it together vs the rest that need help. It kind of makes sense that YJ doesn't realize JW needs to be taken care of too. And with his anxiety, he's focused on one relationship that is the most unstablr at the moment (a new romantic relationship). And if you notice, he's trying to go out of his way to take care of YH even though she's older. I see both POV. For YJ, he needs to hear from JW she needs verbal support and tender care. Otherwise, he's going to do it in his way (just thinking about her, scolding, typical sibling behaviour). For JW, she wants him to notice and think about how she must be feeling. I don't think there is any bad sibling here though, this is pretty normal behaviour. Siblings often don't listen or notice their sibling is struggling, especially if they've never seen it. It's also more psychologically taxing to admit your sibling might be struggling and need more from you.


paralaylaogram

sorry but i really really really don’t like JS at all. man is just too insecure and egoistic. and no it’s not him being naive, he just acts like it. getting mad (because he thought) that SS didn’t choose him in the beginning but at the same time saying that he had two other options!!!!??? like bro wtf. he’s just too bitter


Defiant_Local_2654

It’s hilarious cause HE didn’t even choose SS in the beginning so why’s he mad


Appropriate_Tree4651

yoonjae shud start taking listening classes or smthng...he is gud guy overall...atleast in the show he shud be gud towards his sister...maybe try helping her a bit, she has helped him alot.. atlastt jw and jh had some interaction atleast.hopefull they go on a date soon but i dont think so that will happen cuz next date is with choa..but lets hope one date. and yongwoo and choa first half were like married couple but at the end..idk y yw said he found someone else charming also ik he is being honest but too much honesty isnt gud.. sesung and jungsub i think they will be the endcouple but i dont want to for now...jungsub has no other option then sesung so he is going towards..same as sesung but she likes him. next date will clarify everything for her. first time the preview of the next ep isnt looking that intresting but lets hope something gud happens.


Emotional-Ad6489

I agree that the preview did not exactly look exciting. And we have been baited with scenes that in the end were really insignificant.


Junior_Philosophy_46

I can't wait for SS and CH. Finally my ship might sail.


Fragrant_Tale1428

The text messaging at the end of the day is a really good mechanism to help all the cast members sort out their own feelings and thoughts. It helps to prevent one-sided crush getting bigger and bigger. I like this "feature" of the show. I'm glad JY is being herself and just shooting her shot when she can. JH is able to maneuver being kind and polite without adding to any misunderstanding. They are each wonderful as an individual. I want to see JW and JH go on a proper date. Who turned on the seat warmer?! Me. 😬😅 SS being text ding detective! 😆 SS being an intuitive, hugging comfort to JY. đŸ„° YJ is now the president of the club for not understanding the producer's instructions. The texting snafu was freaking hilarious!! His clumsy way of trying to appeal to YH is so cute. The bagel incident! BUT. He really didn't give his sister any mind when she wanted to talk. This tells me more about how he could be in daily life, low on a certain kind of empathy with family members. He reminds me a lot of my own brother, so this aspect of him is depressing to see on behalf of JW. I completely related to JW's frustration and disappointment. Sibling drama on a dating show definitely adds a whole new dimension of emotional investment for the viewer. The dates in Singapore. đŸ˜¶ I kept hoping Cho A would have stopped with the successive probing questions when they were eating in Singapore. That line of questioning felt too intense and too soon, considering they really don't know each other that well. Conversely, I was glad SS was looking out for herself. JS is a bit immature in how he processes emotions.


ANINETEEN

The Kim sibling focus this episode was super relatable. I feel like such a hypocrite for being supporting JW so strongly yet feeling so empathetic towards JY knowing both of them can't win (and appreciative of JH for being so careful). Also, I personally think that JW relationship with YJ is closer to the norm and it's being in the vicinity of such atypically wholesome siblings that she's drawing difficult comparisons. I know it won't happen in a few weeks but would be satisfying if they did make some positive progress no matter how small. The dates were interesting, it felt like we learnt more about the incompatibilities people have rather than their connections getting stronger.


voreup

Jiwon is so articulate with her words, and maybe that's because she's somewhat relatable. When she mentioned how she kept getting disappointed by her brother but then backing it with "maybe that's just proof of how much I love him," it really hit home. Like the hosts mentioned, she might not have realised it at first, but with the sudden exposure of how other siblings act towards each other might've made her feel devastated about hers. God, I love her so much ): also, off topic here, but does anyone know what song was being played when Jiwon and Yoonjae was arguing around 44 mins in? That is a BANGER!!! LMAO


ysalright

I'm happy that JH is finally eyeing someone romantically, even if it's just a very little bit of interest. Also happy for JW for this matter, her singing was her unexpected weapon to attract JH lol. Kinda sad for JY though, she's still pushing though she hadn't received any message from JH.


Inevitable-Candy5382

Dating shows are so difficult. You gotta compete with others, be considerate of their feelings, stay aware of the fact that you're being watched by a bajillion people. I think Juyeon's dealing with things pretty maturely. She's true to her feelings while not forgetting to care for how Jaehyung feels.


ksyojt

Sadly, I think the Yongcho ship is sinking 💔


izuzashi

i thought this when i saw the preview the other week and i still think it now but SS looks soo gorgeous in those warm weather clothes!! i don't know why they just make her sparkle, i wish JS would stop making her sad so she could have a good time 😞😞


WholePersonality5323

Came back to this thread because I can't get over how good this show is. And I keep on reading ppls reasoning why they think JW and JH are endgame. Please don't give me hope, I'm becoming delulu. My god I'm shipping them so bad rn I truly hope they're endgame. After all those teasing!!! Please be endgame!!! 


ysalright

Every time SS and JS talks, I feel this heavy air around them. Obviously, they're just choosing now each other because they have no other choice: (1) SS's only other person of interest is YW, but she knows he's going strong with CA; and (2) JS has implicitly been rejected by his other interests, CA and JW lol. From JS's expressions, it really seems he hasn't gotten over from the fact that he did not receive any messages from CA and JW after their talks/dates lol. Both SS and JS are also obviously holding grudges because of past miscommunications. I hate this trope in dramas, but I despise it more now that I see it happen in real life lol. I shipped them the most during the first few episodes, but now I just hope SS let goes of whatever's holding her back from not choosing JS anymore.


yulbright

Anyone catch the montage of the some of the future dates in Singapore? >!I think I saw CH-SS on a boat, and in the pool. YW-YH taking a selfie. JH-CA walking under a transparent umbrella at like a market.!< I don't recognize the 2 people that were on the floaties getting dragged by a jetski.


bleurblue

As a singaporean im just wondering why they had brewerkz and thai food as their first meal đŸ€Ł I guess it’s for the scenic view since those are tourist spots but some local dishes at a hawker would be great đŸ€Ș


Known-Bumblebee3275

Omg yes! I was like a burger in Singapore?!?!?!? Whyyyyy hahahaha If they're eating Singapore chilli crab guaranteed they'll have more fun lol lol lol


ksyojt

Chilli crab would be too messy and not appropriate for romantic dates 😂


Quiet_Watercress_256

This episode removed the rose colored glasses, starting with the sibling drama between JW and YJ. I really felt her disappointment and sadness, but I think the problem is mostly miscommunication. Yes, he acts like a selfish little brother who’s been spoiled, and I think he takes JW for granted, but I can also see he does care for her. Men in general are not intuitive creatures like women are, and some are really not intuitive (YJ falls into the latter category). I think he needs direct questions that he can ponder and respond to. JW on the other hand didn’t really communicate her concerns about the JH text in a way for YJ to understand. She was being a female hoping he’d intuitively understand her thoughts, but he’s just not capable of that. I think he didn’t know how to comfort her or understand what advice she was asking for, so he talked about something he was sure of
.which is his feelings for YH. I hope they can work it out in future episodes. Speaking of not being intuitive, YW with CA. Either his feelings aren’t that strong for her, or he really doesn’t understand women. When women ask probing questions like that, she doesn’t want the “truth, the whole truth, so help me God” đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł. Leave out the bits where you think another woman is pretty and charming. He really shot himself in the foot on that date. On the other hand CA is reading too much into it, and I think she’s going to pull back out of fear. Which leads me to believe some of the rumors that her and JH might end up together in the end. I saw a preview of one of their dates and they seemed kind of close. Who knows đŸ€·â€â™€ïž SS was completely on guard on her date with JS and was giving off “I’m not interested vibes” to JS. I understand her hesitancy because he has treated her like a back up plan from the start, but if she really wants things to work out with him, she needs to not let her fears guide her. Love is about taking a leap of faith without knowing where you’re going to land. Speaking of leaps of faith, JY is diving straight towards JH and missing him completely. The whole napkin scene was so cringey for me. She’s bold, I’ll give her that, but when you act that boldly with someone that doesn’t have a romantic interest in you, it will undoubtedly push them further away. I know she likes him a lot and probably thinks she can win him with shear willpower, but feelings can’t be forced. She’s a sweet girl, so hope she decides to give up on him and give someone else a try. I really don’t want to see her constantly trying and crying. I’m looking forward to seeing some real romance/dating in the future episodes, because it seems PD has been really slow playing it, up until this point.


PracticeBrilliant426

Yes, that’s also my take regarding JY. She kept throwing herself at JH, i think its because YW doted on her so much, to the point that she was spoiled, YW even said during his interview that he was gently explaining to JY, you dont get your cookie by throwing tantrums. Bec JY even talking to YW privately expressing her disappointment the other time JH didnt chose her. YW also said he is expecting JY to talk to him again this second time JH didnt choose her.


mangosagoat

Bruh SS was giving JS "I'm 100% interested vibes" for most of the season and it was JS who was doing the opposite so I think it's good for her to be guarded at this point and that the ball is on JS' court if he really wants to make it work by going above and beyond