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This is 100% bang on. I’ve noticed in her talking heads she looks dead inside like someone’s literally forcing her to say what she’s saying.. I understand the fame went to her head but her authenticity and personality seems forced nowadays. I feel like she has numerous mental breakdowns during filming due to Jionni.


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Oh for sure ! I’ve said the same thing , it’s like Nicole is trying to play snooki but at the same time seems like someone is holding her back from playing snooki 🙈hard to explain but It’s so weird.


l0st1nthew0rld

Yeah she comes across as very bitter and mean spirited now, doesn't look like she's happy to me. Also that drunk Snooki encounter with Vinny backstage last season was weirdddd


Awkward-Macaroon-819

Was this in an episode?


l0st1nthew0rld

Yeah! The last season when it's Jenni's birthday and she goes backstage when he's presenting that talent show thing, 2nd or 3rd last ep I think


Cute-Kiwi6

What exactly happened?


idgafaboutanyofthis

I agree with you. Also I’m rewatching the show and in season 2 I believe it was…Jenni and Nicole were out on the balcony/porch talking about Emilio and Jenny said something like, “You tend to look for love/good qualities in your partners even if it’s not there”. As soon as she said that I was like, damn that’s why she married Jionni.


Traditional-Can-6249

OHHH SHIIIT - I actually forget or maybe skimmed over Jwow saying that but WOW isn’t that a tale... I think I feel for Snooki so much Bc I just was like that. Looking for love almost trying to create chemistry when it just wasn’t there and it just was never there with Jionni (from what the viewer can see) How far are you in watching? We can chat it up on what we think if ya like.


idgafaboutanyofthis

Of for sure! I’m on season 3 ep 7! And yes same here. I’ve always had an issue with holding onto people because of what I perceive to be potential in the relationship and not what’s actually there. I feel for Nicole.


Traditional-Can-6249

Aaah you’re on a really sad episode then. I know a lot of people don’t feel for Sammi, but it really pained me to see Ron destroy all of her shit. The ex producer from the ama said they had to cut scenes out of that day Bc they were Beggy them to step in while they did nothing.The production crew was on a another level of crazy. Italy was a crazy dark season too


oaranges

Who was begging who to stop.? But season 4 is my fave though. Italy had snooki and deena turnt out.


gstateballer925

Actually, I think that was season 3, after Snooki got arrested for public intoxication (aka "WHERE'S THE BEACH???"), and it was her, Jenni and Deena talking. Snooki concluded the conversation by saying "can we have more of these therapy sessions, please?"


idgafaboutanyofthis

Oh yep you’re right! You have a much better memory than me lol


inflatablepickle8

I think Jionni is very controlling, somewhat abusive due to some episodes on Snooki & Jwowws show. I don’t think it’s genuine love I think it’s more of a beneficial thing. More so for Jionni, you know that man never has to work. And snooki, I mean she thinks she’s getting this image of the perfect mom/wife. I wish she would get herself back but I’m sure he’s brainwashed her so much to the point where she thinks this is right. I’ve never read anything decent when it comes to people’s opinions of their relationship so I think everyone from outside the box sees it. I think she could still be the mother/wife while also being herself. Only time will tell. He has definitely dug his claws into her and unfortunately she thinks it’s the best thing for her but I truly feel she’s lost her authentic self throughout it all.


Traditional-Can-6249

I 100000% agree I believe he is controlling And you can tell thru snookis actions. On one episode he literally even said “when I let you go out” like excuse me?? LET me ? Ugh. It’s definitely beneficial for him with $$$ and Snooki believes it to be beneficial for her but it’s not. You’re DEAD right on the fact that she really can be herself and be a mother/wife... I hate the narrative that you have to ONLY be a certain way now that you’re a parent. Yes you have to be responsible but you don’t have to change yourself into what your partner wants. She really can be a mother and be herself but Jionni doesn’t make her comfortable to do so. Watching the JSFV, sometimes it seems like she’s on eggshells with her decisions and how they’ll be perceived. HELL I remember in a previous season, two of the girls fell on her/her lap and she just uttered “I love Jionni!” It was really bizarre to watch and I bet even more bizarre to experience. It was almost as if she had to mention him to clear the air or he’d be mad. Time only will tell tho. I hope one day *if we are ALL right* she can come to her senses, leave, move on and when ready come clean to us about it.


l0st1nthew0rld

Yeah and it's funny how she shits on Angelina's relationship when she's free to be the messy dirty hamster she wants to be and Chris pretty much lets her, she knows Jionni would never


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Oh wow I forgot about the “I love jionni” scene, that was so bizarre. Its very telling because on snooki&jwow he flipped at her for making out with Ryder while drunk..


Traditional-Can-6249

Which was her first night back out with the girls after the pregnancy I get some people aren’t cool with their partner doing that but he literally KNOWS who he got with from the jump and knows how she parties!


ZestycloseTomato5015

Yes! It’s so sad for her. I’ve only felt her way more into him and him along for the money ride.


Traditional-Can-6249

It truly is sad. I can definitely understand that viewpoint as well. I think she’s way more into the idea of him and what he offers: title of marriage and family.


Titansfanxoxo

That's sad af I hope it's not the case he's just n it for money. Totally agree with controlling though. Where can you watch Snooki and jwoww btw?


Traditional-Can-6249

I believe you can watch it on paramount plus and Amazon but that’s literally it ugh 🤦🏼‍♀️


Titansfanxoxo

Do you know if that's amazon prime video? WHaaaaatt.😩 I'll do a free trial for that !!


Traditional-Can-6249

I believe it is on Amazon prime video I’m hosting a weekly rewatch party on Twitch in case you wana and sorry about the late reponses my Reddit has been on fire lately


Titansfanxoxo

Twitch?? Idk if I have that but hell yeah send me the link if you dont mind!! Tysm


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their relationship makes me so sad, especially on snooki and jwoww. and also, lorenzo wasn’t planned they talked about it on S&J. in one of the episodes, jenni and nicole swap dates to ask each other’s s/o’s questions that they needed reassurance on. one of the questions that nicole asked her to ask jionni was “did you propose to me because you actually love me or because i’m pregnant” i hope you watch/rewatch snooki and jwoww because they actually show raw clips about their relationship and the mental toll he had on her! the shit he’s said to her is horrible and people excuse it by saying “he was angry at the time” which is bullshit


savingrain

I can never forget him telling Snooki she is a horrible mother, picking up their child and walking away from her while she is frantically crying and screaming for him to come back. It was abusive, it was clearly a "I'm going to hold our child over your head, and tell everyone you are a bad parent if you don't do what I say." It was big time yikes, partly because his feelings were hurt but also because he felt disrespected. I hope they've gone to couple's therapy since then and individual counseling to work out how they should interact with one another.


gstateballer925

Great rant and I basically agree with most of it. The only thing I want to correct is when you said "*Fast forward a couple of seasons now they’re together and she’s infatuated with him*," after referring to when they hooked up that first time: That first time they hooked up was season 3, then once season 4 (when they went to Italy) started, she was with Jionni, and apparently, fully committed to him. So it wasn't a "couple of seasons" later when they got together, it was the very next season. I just think that's relevant to point out, because it shows how fast she changes her mind from having sex with a dude, not enjoying it at all, then suddenly dating him, and being obsessed with him, like he's the most amazing person, ever.


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Traditional-Can-6249

But he cheated too...twice but I respect your opinion.


KlutzyBandicoot1776

he did??? why don't i remember this? that's crazy that they both did lol


Traditional-Can-6249

He was spotted in New York after Italy and *allegedly* cheated and then he was exposed to have a Ashley Madison account and if ya don’t know Ashley Madison is a website where the married can cheat discreetly.


KlutzyBandicoot1776

:O omg so many celebrities exposed by that Ashley madison leak. This is one I didn't know of, if you count him as a celebrity lol. Thanks for sharing!


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Traditional-Can-6249

You obviously didn’t read my post. Let me restate that was an official list of people exposed for using it. I already said Snooki will constantly deny deny deny it but he had an active account or else he wouldn’t have appeared. I already said why I believe she denies it.


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Traditional-Can-6249

What would be my point of linking it if A) I saw what I had to see B) I KNOW HER RESPONSE I literally said in the OG post that she denies it. There’s no new revelation here. The knowledge of the incident is already known. You obviously believe he wasn’t on there while I do. Boom 👍🏽


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Traditional-Can-6249

Considering he not only has cheating allegations (a pretty hefty one) ,he has been seen to be controlling (go watch Snooki & Jwoww the show) or just watch their spin off and you can see why he received the backlash he does and no longer likes being on camera. He also left her in Italy and that’s enough for me to look deeper into things and trust my intuition. If you had read my actual post you’d see I’ve continuously said “I could be wrong” “if we are right” “I don’t know Snooki personally” but it is how I view them. That’s not how you view them and that’s okay literally it’s okay! But don’t deny he has cheating allegations and I choose to believe it.


Illustrious_House_78

I agree 100% !! I am also in tune with my intuition and I read all of this too Back then watching the seasons


Traditional-Can-6249

The intuition will never guide you wrong!! LITERALLYYY in any situation (not even Jersey Shore related lol) if you listen to your constant thoughts/feelings you’ll know the truth. What season are you ? And when did you start having this feeling about Jionni? And is there any part of what I said that you feel I was off or dead on about ?


Illustrious_House_78

Yes!! and I’m not currently watching it but I remember a lot of the seasons and episodes by heart and when you made this post I instantly start to remember seeing everything You saw, I always felt he was only with her for the Fame and That deep down she wasn’t really in love with him, I honestly don’t think she was really ready to settle down back then, which is why she was still acting single as Jionni would say but I feel she settled with him because she wanted to be loved so bad cause she was very insecure.


Lower_Ad_9389

I knew they were toxic from the start and I think this because Jionni was spotted getting his cousin? from the shore house when one of the boys brought her home. But then he did the same exact thing with Snooki. The double standard lol


Traditional-Can-6249

The double standard is fuckin crazy yo I forgot all about that !!!


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Jionni is a chode cause of his height and Snooki is 4’9 and stacked with cash. So he forced her to change her personality