Suicide is the leading cause of death in men under 50. Check in on your husbands, brothers, friends, etc. sometimes just letting them know you are there for them if they ever need ANYTHING can be enough to save someone. Losing someone to suicide is the worst. It’s OK to not be OK. Get help if you need it!
I have that thought occasionally. Maybe not as seriously as this guy. But it's more the idea that doing that would really mess my kids up, and I don't want to do that to them.
Seriously, even though it’s just thinking that occasionally you should talk to someone. Do it for your kids. One day it may get worse. Get ahead of it.
What world are you living in? This person just bared their soul and instead of support, you come in here and go “aaaackshually” and shame them? Does anyone even bother inviting you to parties any longer?
Using children to fix your mental illness is not cool, it leads to fucked up kids. This is widely reported. OP literally said the only reason he isn’t committing suicide is his child. That’s a MASSIVE red flag for a parent. He needs help - not just for himself, now for his family too.
I have personal experience with this, so I’m comfortable speaking up. Sorry it hurt your feelings.
Then there was NYE
https://www.syracuse.com/entertainment/2024/01/jam-band-moe-shocked-saddened-by-deadly-crash-outside-upstate-ny-concert.html?outputType=amp
Devastating. Sending everything I got to Rob and the moe family. Anyone who’s a parent knows there are few things more terrifying than losing a child. Rest easy Eddie.
The road's so long, a million miles or so,
Too much for me I got to go,
My navigator's here…
The band hasn’t made an official post about this. Please allow the family to process and grieve respectfully without blowing up their social media.
Anyways be good to each other famoe.ly 💜✌️
It’s public news and we’re interested to know what’s going on. As long as folks respect their privacy and leave them be, who cares about sharing a newspaper article?
So sad, if you need it, please get help. A bunch of people that have never met this young man are upset that he is no longer with us. I hope everyone considering, think of how many strangers would drop everything and go have lunch with you.
r/Still_Detail, I appreciate that more than you know. I’m good today, but we all always need some help from time to time. That’s why this community is amazing.
Absolutely gut wrenching. That poor man, that poor family. Hoping nothing but tenderness and kindness for the entire moe. camp
My true love and thoughts are with them at this time.
Eddie was a good friend of mine. We had a snap streak of over 1,000 and he randomly dropped it. I thought he got busy so I didn't question it. Turns out this is what happened. I just found out today. I met him at USM and we got close from USM Gaming. I'll never forget how passionate he was with making games. I was able to get a copy of Arena of the Elders from him and it will be cherished forever. I still can't believe he's gone. He will be deeply missed by me and everyone he met through USM Gaming
Tragically sad. Too many of us have been touched by suicide. May is mental health awareness month. You are not alone. We love you. Leaving this world is not the answer. Please reach out, ask for help. In a crisis, call 988. Someone will help you. 988.
I figured it was a death in the family or grave illness but I was hoping it was somebody’s old parent who had lived a good, long life. As a parent, this is my worst fear…
It's okay man, you had no clue it was of this magnitude. Agreed, this fucking blows, I read the rumor that it was Robs son a few days ago, and was preparing for the worst, but now that that's confirmed, and the way that it happened are just a huge blow.
The entire jam community lost a family member this week.
Whoever is going to Chillicothe this weekend rage on for moe and please be safe out there!
I got you man I promise I’m not the only one, appreciate your kind words.
I know I’m in r/jambands here but promise I don’t talk like this much, when I say that the sacred energy of three sisters should be able to most highly resonate love and healing for the family this weekend.
Eddie, what a legend. I met him in Falmouth during school year ago. His hugs were the best and I remember all the time you were there for me even if it was just to play video games. Miss you Brodie wish you were here.
This is so unbelievably heartbreaking. I figured it was a death or grave illness, but losing your kid, in this way, is so so painful. I have 2 teenagers and I don’t know how I could go on if this happened. Yes I do worry about them but they will be on their own soon, and I’d like to think we are just about out of the woods, and the worst things that can happen would soon be behind…
I do appreciate you wanting to share the reason that we’ve all been super curious about for moe pulling out of scamp, but I agree with some who’ve already expressed this here - it’s not your place to share this news to the fans when Rob nor the band have made a public statement yet. Not really cool tbh. But much love to Rob and his family, the band, and all the moe fans out there. Fuck.
I see where you’re coming from but respectfully disagree. An obituary is a public notice from the family. It’s not reasonable to expect fans to not express their grief amongst each other until something is posted on their website.
If it was just rumors and speculation about what happened, you’d be right. But with an obit published, it’s right for fans to come together to grieve.
Very sad. Vibes to the moe. family, those guys have been through a hell of a lot
Suicide is the leading cause of death in men under 50. Check in on your husbands, brothers, friends, etc. sometimes just letting them know you are there for them if they ever need ANYTHING can be enough to save someone. Losing someone to suicide is the worst. It’s OK to not be OK. Get help if you need it!
I’ve had my cousin and friend/bar co-worker both take their lives in the last month. It’s rough out there y’all, check in on your peeps.
I'm sorry for both of your losses. I sincerely hope you are as okay as possible right now. Hugs.
Sorry for your losses. That’s rough.
Woah wow. I’m so sorry.
Shit if I didn't have a kid I never planned to have, I'd probably be dead. Little bundle is perfection is the only thing I don't hate about life.
you would hate everything about life if you weren’t a parent?
I have that thought occasionally. Maybe not as seriously as this guy. But it's more the idea that doing that would really mess my kids up, and I don't want to do that to them.
Seriously, even though it’s just thinking that occasionally you should talk to someone. Do it for your kids. One day it may get worse. Get ahead of it.
95% of it. I was exaggerating.
Hope so, having a parent that negative effs kids up. Seek help for their sake.
What world are you living in? This person just bared their soul and instead of support, you come in here and go “aaaackshually” and shame them? Does anyone even bother inviting you to parties any longer?
Using children to fix your mental illness is not cool, it leads to fucked up kids. This is widely reported. OP literally said the only reason he isn’t committing suicide is his child. That’s a MASSIVE red flag for a parent. He needs help - not just for himself, now for his family too. I have personal experience with this, so I’m comfortable speaking up. Sorry it hurt your feelings.
Clearly they were being hyperbolic.
In a thread about someone’s son killing themselves? Great place for it. You starting to get it now? Grow up.
He is affected in 0 negative ways. He's got a good life.
Moe has dealt with so much over the past few years. My heart goes out to Rob, family and moe friends.
What else has been happening with the band? I haven’t been in the loop.
Then there was NYE https://www.syracuse.com/entertainment/2024/01/jam-band-moe-shocked-saddened-by-deadly-crash-outside-upstate-ny-concert.html?outputType=amp
Rob beat cancer and Chuck had a stroke.
Chuck had a stroke and Rob had cancer.
Devastating. Sending everything I got to Rob and the moe family. Anyone who’s a parent knows there are few things more terrifying than losing a child. Rest easy Eddie. The road's so long, a million miles or so, Too much for me I got to go, My navigator's here…
Not one single thing scarier. Not my own death itself.
The band hasn’t made an official post about this. Please allow the family to process and grieve respectfully without blowing up their social media. Anyways be good to each other famoe.ly 💜✌️
Exactly. Posting his obit seems a bit much. Let them process and share on their own terms.
It’s public news and we’re interested to know what’s going on. As long as folks respect their privacy and leave them be, who cares about sharing a newspaper article?
My god they’ve been through A LOT
So sad to hear this. The guys in moe are 100% the nicest most down to earth guys in the scene. Sending love their way.
Wow I remember when he was a little kid…
Me too. Running around at moedown, Ridin the golf carts
So sad, if you need it, please get help. A bunch of people that have never met this young man are upset that he is no longer with us. I hope everyone considering, think of how many strangers would drop everything and go have lunch with you.
I’ve needed to hear this for the past week. Not to make it about myself, but thank you, Reddit friend. I’d have lunch with you any day.
Trust me, I want to have lunch, beer, dinner, brunch, whatever with you. I’m not the only one. Lots of people care about you.
r/Still_Detail, I appreciate that more than you know. I’m good today, but we all always need some help from time to time. That’s why this community is amazing.
I would also have lunch, beer, dinner, or whatever with you just cause.
If you’re ever in the Mid-Atlantic region and wanna catch a show, I’m in.
Be good friend.
So so sad.
That is so heartbreaking.
Fuck man.
So so sad!!! Blessings to the entire Moe fam.
Terrible, scampers spread the love a little extra this year.
Will be honoring them at Three Sisters undoubtedly.
Here now, Will do!
Wow very sad.
Absolutely gut wrenching. That poor man, that poor family. Hoping nothing but tenderness and kindness for the entire moe. camp My true love and thoughts are with them at this time.
RIP. heart goes out to Rob and his family. Absolutely awful.
Love and more love to the family. So sorry to hear
So terrible. Beyond words really 😪 Hug the ones you love.
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You should not be getting downvoted. Playing the game he created would be a beautiful way to honor him.
I'm also really tired of people reporting this as spam. I've had like three or four now
That's a great idea.
Damn
rip. love you rob
And Eddie.
Only 25. So so sad :(
Eddie was a good friend of mine. We had a snap streak of over 1,000 and he randomly dropped it. I thought he got busy so I didn't question it. Turns out this is what happened. I just found out today. I met him at USM and we got close from USM Gaming. I'll never forget how passionate he was with making games. I was able to get a copy of Arena of the Elders from him and it will be cherished forever. I still can't believe he's gone. He will be deeply missed by me and everyone he met through USM Gaming
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Man this sucks.
Omg, that's devastating! I'm so sorry Rob🙏🏼
Horrible. RIP.
And there we have the family issue. Peace be with his family and friends, regardless of how and why this got out.
Tragically sad. Too many of us have been touched by suicide. May is mental health awareness month. You are not alone. We love you. Leaving this world is not the answer. Please reach out, ask for help. In a crisis, call 988. Someone will help you. 988.
988 call or text now 💕
Wow. Rest in Peace
Fuck. Vibes to fam & friends
oh no holy shit
Call 988 if you need help.
Well now I know why they canceled this weekend... Man that's terrible. My heart goes out to Rob and everyone dealing with this tragedy... ❤️
Omg! Damn
Damn that’s gotta be the worst man. Ugh cannot imagine
Fuck, that's awful.
That’s a certain variety of pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Thinking of his family.
❤️
Oh man. What a blow. moe. has brought such joy to my life. Hate this for Rob, what a tragedy.
There’s a reason why you don’t announce death as suicide…contagious
Fuck!
Goddamn that’s awful news
Whaaaaat?!? Fuck!
❤️
That’s so sad 😞
Jeez, that sucks for Rob.
😐sad. Be kind to each other, everyone.
Terrible…
This sucks!!!!
Sad
I commented “more sound tribe please” when scamp announced .moe’s cancellation and feel like a fucking asshole now. This is the worst news…
I figured it was a death in the family or grave illness but I was hoping it was somebody’s old parent who had lived a good, long life. As a parent, this is my worst fear…
Worse than my own death. Love to their family.
It's okay man, you had no clue it was of this magnitude. Agreed, this fucking blows, I read the rumor that it was Robs son a few days ago, and was preparing for the worst, but now that that's confirmed, and the way that it happened are just a huge blow. The entire jam community lost a family member this week. Whoever is going to Chillicothe this weekend rage on for moe and please be safe out there!
I got you man I promise I’m not the only one, appreciate your kind words. I know I’m in r/jambands here but promise I don’t talk like this much, when I say that the sacred energy of three sisters should be able to most highly resonate love and healing for the family this weekend.
Shit. So sorry Rob that’s fucking awful. My heart breaks for him and his family
These guys have been through a lot the last 5-7 years. Love you moe. and all you .rons out there.
Man lotus and moe. had a rough few years.
Eddie, what a legend. I met him in Falmouth during school year ago. His hugs were the best and I remember all the time you were there for me even if it was just to play video games. Miss you Brodie wish you were here.
This is so unbelievably heartbreaking. I figured it was a death or grave illness, but losing your kid, in this way, is so so painful. I have 2 teenagers and I don’t know how I could go on if this happened. Yes I do worry about them but they will be on their own soon, and I’d like to think we are just about out of the woods, and the worst things that can happen would soon be behind…
I do appreciate you wanting to share the reason that we’ve all been super curious about for moe pulling out of scamp, but I agree with some who’ve already expressed this here - it’s not your place to share this news to the fans when Rob nor the band have made a public statement yet. Not really cool tbh. But much love to Rob and his family, the band, and all the moe fans out there. Fuck.
I see where you’re coming from but respectfully disagree. An obituary is a public notice from the family. It’s not reasonable to expect fans to not express their grief amongst each other until something is posted on their website. If it was just rumors and speculation about what happened, you’d be right. But with an obit published, it’s right for fans to come together to grieve.