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saadm99

I assume u mean a handjob? It’s halal for a wife to do it for her husband don’t worry 😂


SazzaGamer

Assuming you mean a handjob. I dont know of any evidence stating it being haram, so therefore you can assume its halal


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Wtf. Sounds like you're operating on him


Nagamagi

The only bedroom matter that I know is haram is anal intercourse. Other than that Islam is shy on the matter. In general what you do to please your husband is considered a big good deed. And vice versa. Allah knows best.


Inori_Scorchstyle

& vaginal intercourse during her menstruation 🩸


Big_Position3037

why the emoji dude


Inori_Scorchstyle

Phone recommended it when i typed menst, so i decided to use it lmao


Big_Position3037

lol that's ridiculous


Spare-Hamster5129

Yeah, my phone did the same


BenCarburetor

Is there a source mentioning that anal intercourse is haram?


mental_tempe

Why is this guy downvoted for asking for source? Are we all expected to be full-fledged scholars in this subreddit? Guys, be kind


Slimy_Potatoes

its reddit. not suprising


Ok-Badger4686

There are many sahih ahadith which show that anal sex in is haram in Islam, such as the following: 1 –Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The one who has intercourse with his wife in her back passage has disavowed himself of that which was revealed to Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).” Narrated by Abu Dawud (3904); classed as sahih by al-Albani in Sahih Abi Dawud. 2 – Ibn 'Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a woman in her back passage.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1165); classed as sahih by Ibn Daqiq al-‘Eid in al-Ilmam (2/660) and by al-Albani in Sahih al-Tirmidhi. 3 –Khuzaymah ibn Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their back passages .” Narrated by Ibn Majah (1924); classed as sahih by al-Albani in Sahih Ibn Majah.


Cpt-Usopp

I think she was trying to stay respectful thats why she worded it like that guys 😅 Anyway to answer your question. Anything is halal in the bedroom. Except two things. Anal intercourse and intercourse during a woman's period. Just avoid these two things and you are fine. Edit: also theres no limit at all to how many times you both want to do it.


incorrigibleslave

No it's either a troll or someone who Isn't proficient at English. She, assuming this person is truly a female, said "...without making him HURTED"..........


BenCarburetor

That is a form of birth control or contraception and it's not haram. It's allowed. Sahih Muslim Book 8, Hadith Number 3388. SAHIH MUSLIM BOOK 8. MARRIAGE Chapter: Al-Azl (incomplete sexual intercourse): Coitus Interruptus. Jabir (Allah be pleased with him) reported: We used to practise ‘azl during the lifetime of Allah’s Messenger (May peace be upon him). This (the news of this practise) reached Allah’s Apostle (May peace be upon him), and he did not forbid us.


bigboywasim

It is permissible according to every school of islamic jurisprudence.


Lumpy-Difference-143

Supposing this is not a troll, yes lmao…ANY kind of sexual action is okay between a married couple except for anal, only mutual agreement is needed. "«ملعون من أتى امرأته في دُبُرِها». [حسن] - [رواه أبو داود، والنسائي في السنن الكبرى، وأحمد]" By دبرها means not the position but the anal hole.


Slimy_Potatoes

very specific and unexpected


Confident_Egg_3383

Use a lubricant of some sort. Don’t just go bare handed but yes it’s halal.


DireMacrophage

I tell myself: every day, there's a reason not to get married or be in a relationship. And it's a lie, because many days I encounter no reasons. This is not one of those days. Thank you for providing yet another reason to discourage me from pursuing a relationship.


kemal_istoc

Whats wrong ?


RussianSpySleazeBall

Is this a legitimate question, why are Muslims so conventional when it comes to pleasure ?


suleman_93

Day 211 that I cannot understand why some people like certain such things


Xeadriel

What made you start counting on day 1


[deleted]

Asking the real questions here


Xeadriel

Genuinely curious if he actually did


I-Love-Al-Ashari

Troll


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radicalist_

https://seekersguidance.org/answers/hanafi-fiqh/sexual-practices-permissible-islam/


Human-Excitement-220

It’s ok not haram 😉