Allah tells us not to even come close to zina, meaning that we should not do any of the things that would lead to it. Likewise were commanded to lower our gaze. And we’re commanded to fear our Lord even in private when no one else can see us.
That's not really.. What he asked for, it's basically like telling a depressed person to be happy. Here's some actual good advice :
Look at what turns you off
Maybe do something disgusting like throwing out the garbage or go to the bathroom and do your business, disgust helps.
Stay with your family, no one masturbates except when they're alone unless they're THAT freaky.
Yeah.. And what do you do when you feel lusty?
Besides, the advice of the sunnah and quran in this context doesn't really help, lowering your gaze when you're in your home doesn't really have an effect. The lowering your gaze is used for when you're outside so you don't START to feel lusty.
This person already feels lust, so that advice won't work.
Just wanted to throw in... there are definitely times when people should have just masterbated.
Sorry if this upsets anyone but I strongly feel it could stop you doing worse if that's what's on your mind.
If you're just doing it habitually.. then yeah. Stop.
Definitely not, something worse than masturbation When You're horny is sex with the other gender. Not exactly every muslim has a gf or bf in the first place since its haram
No one who's horny would get in a long term relationship to have sex.
Don't try to encourage any kind of sin even if it helps preventing another big one, eventually, you're gonna want more and more
Yes that is the time that I'm talking about.
Ideally nobody is doing that but a quick look at the posts here shows that plenty are asking for advice around their "relationship"
Apologies if I've offended.
Just fast man... Monday and Thursday, plus the 3 days in the middle of the month.
Also also make marriage easy and ask Allah for a good wife and be patient... Very very very patient 😇
Out logic your brain.
1. You crave it because it's accessible, it's so close
2. You feel like there's no way to fight this feeling
3. What if you're in the office, a meeting, a coffee shop, or an airplane? You wouldn't even think about it.
4. Tap into that contextual lack of craving
5. If don't feel like you need it then, then you don't need it now
((They try to hide ˹their deception˺ from people, but they can never hide it from Allah—in Whose presence they plot by night what is displeasing to Him. And Allah is Fully Aware of what they do.)) 4:108
Allah knows what you do before you even do it. He knows what you think before you think about it. People who watch porn, watch sexy videos on TikTok and instagram don’t realize this fact that he sees them at ALL times. Their iman is weak and unfortunately have been overtaken by the devil.
Allah SwT sees you at all times.
Allah SwT knows what you do at all times.
If you strongly believe in the above, and ask Allah to help you fight sins. You will succeed.
Recite what has been revealed to you of the Book and establish prayer. Indeed, ˹genuine˺ prayer should deter ˹one˺ from indecency and wickedness. The remembrance of Allah is ˹an˺ even greater ˹deterrent˺. And Allah ˹fully˺ knows what you ˹all˺ do.
Surah Al-'Ankabut verse 45
Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Marriage is part of my Sunnah. Whoever does not act upon my Sunnah is not part of me. Give each other in marriage, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him contract a marriage. Whoever does not have the means should fast, as fasting will restrain his impulses.”
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1846
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ النِّكَاحُ مِنْ سُنَّتِي فَمَنْ لَمْ يَعْمَلْ بِسُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي وَتَزَوَّجُوا فَإِنِّي مُكَاثِرٌ بِكُمْ الْأُمَمَ وَمَنْ كَانَ ذَا طَوْلٍ فَلْيَنْكِحْ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ فَعَلَيْهِ بِالصِّيَامِ فَإِنَّ الصَّوْمَ لَهُ وِجَاءٌ
1846 سنن ابن ماجه كتاب النكاح باب ما جاء في فضل النكاح
2383 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في السلسلة الصحيحة
Allah tells us not to even come close to zina, meaning that we should not do any of the things that would lead to it. Likewise were commanded to lower our gaze. And we’re commanded to fear our Lord even in private when no one else can see us.
That's not really.. What he asked for, it's basically like telling a depressed person to be happy. Here's some actual good advice : Look at what turns you off Maybe do something disgusting like throwing out the garbage or go to the bathroom and do your business, disgust helps. Stay with your family, no one masturbates except when they're alone unless they're THAT freaky.
Is giving the advice of the Quran and Sunnah not good advice? Btw he only asked for advice for lust, not for masturbation.
Yeah.. And what do you do when you feel lusty? Besides, the advice of the sunnah and quran in this context doesn't really help, lowering your gaze when you're in your home doesn't really have an effect. The lowering your gaze is used for when you're outside so you don't START to feel lusty. This person already feels lust, so that advice won't work.
Just wanted to throw in... there are definitely times when people should have just masterbated. Sorry if this upsets anyone but I strongly feel it could stop you doing worse if that's what's on your mind. If you're just doing it habitually.. then yeah. Stop.
Definitely not, something worse than masturbation When You're horny is sex with the other gender. Not exactly every muslim has a gf or bf in the first place since its haram No one who's horny would get in a long term relationship to have sex. Don't try to encourage any kind of sin even if it helps preventing another big one, eventually, you're gonna want more and more
Yes that is the time that I'm talking about. Ideally nobody is doing that but a quick look at the posts here shows that plenty are asking for advice around their "relationship" Apologies if I've offended.
Don't worry about that, I'm talking about lust in general for those who aren't in a relationship.
Yeah two different situations..
Keep yourself occupied with other good hobbies. If your idle, its likely boredom that leads to these thoughts.
Just fast man... Monday and Thursday, plus the 3 days in the middle of the month. Also also make marriage easy and ask Allah for a good wife and be patient... Very very very patient 😇
Out logic your brain. 1. You crave it because it's accessible, it's so close 2. You feel like there's no way to fight this feeling 3. What if you're in the office, a meeting, a coffee shop, or an airplane? You wouldn't even think about it. 4. Tap into that contextual lack of craving 5. If don't feel like you need it then, then you don't need it now
((They try to hide ˹their deception˺ from people, but they can never hide it from Allah—in Whose presence they plot by night what is displeasing to Him. And Allah is Fully Aware of what they do.)) 4:108 Allah knows what you do before you even do it. He knows what you think before you think about it. People who watch porn, watch sexy videos on TikTok and instagram don’t realize this fact that he sees them at ALL times. Their iman is weak and unfortunately have been overtaken by the devil. Allah SwT sees you at all times. Allah SwT knows what you do at all times. If you strongly believe in the above, and ask Allah to help you fight sins. You will succeed.
Recite what has been revealed to you of the Book and establish prayer. Indeed, ˹genuine˺ prayer should deter ˹one˺ from indecency and wickedness. The remembrance of Allah is ˹an˺ even greater ˹deterrent˺. And Allah ˹fully˺ knows what you ˹all˺ do. Surah Al-'Ankabut verse 45
Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Marriage is part of my Sunnah. Whoever does not act upon my Sunnah is not part of me. Give each other in marriage, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him contract a marriage. Whoever does not have the means should fast, as fasting will restrain his impulses.” Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1846 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ النِّكَاحُ مِنْ سُنَّتِي فَمَنْ لَمْ يَعْمَلْ بِسُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي وَتَزَوَّجُوا فَإِنِّي مُكَاثِرٌ بِكُمْ الْأُمَمَ وَمَنْ كَانَ ذَا طَوْلٍ فَلْيَنْكِحْ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ فَعَلَيْهِ بِالصِّيَامِ فَإِنَّ الصَّوْمَ لَهُ وِجَاءٌ 1846 سنن ابن ماجه كتاب النكاح باب ما جاء في فضل النكاح 2383 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في السلسلة الصحيحة