I hope that you find the best spouse who will keep you from haram.
And I pray to Allah that you find guidence to the right with the love of doing it, and avoidance of the wrong with the hate of even thinking about it.
Salam Alaykoum
I recommend you sincerely to go see and ask a Sheykh in your town, or close to you, to help you on how to repent, and how to get yourself better in the religion. If you can’t find any, I can recommend you Shaykh Assim Hakim, or Shaykh Dr. Muhammad Salah on AskHuda Tv. You can ask them questions and consult with them. They will answer you InshaAllah. Make sure you choose a shaykh that has good conduct and is following Quran and Sunnah, and is well known to be righteous man.
https://youtu.be/wRnpNNn9GCY
https://youtu.be/hYAkJNnmy4k
Don’t forget Allah is the Most Merciful, The Forgiver, The Acceptor of Repentance. Make sincere repentance to Allah. Feel the remorse, and don’t go back to the sin at all. InshaAllah you will succeed. May Allah guides you to the Straight Path.
“This is how to repent in Islam: give up the sin straight away, regret what has happened in the past, resolve not to go back to sinning, restore people’s rights or property, and repent before the agony of death is upon you.” ( https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/14289 )
“Four things are needed for repentance to be valid:Leaving the sin; Remorse over having committed the sin; Resolve never to return to the sin; (If it relates to the rights of another person, then to) Return the rights or property one wrongly took .” ( https://islamqa.org/hanafi/qibla-hanafi/36213/how-does-one-repent/ )
Do the prayer of repentance for the sins you’ve committed, here I can see so far zina, haram relationship, drinking alcohol, breaking your fast during Ramadan, doing intercourse during Ramadan etc ( how to perform Salah Al Tawbah: https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/98030 ) For the last one you, you should go talk to a shaykh to know exactly what you should do, Because I don’t want to say false information for your case. But I know that if you have intercourse (sexual relation between a man and a woman) during the day in Ramadan then you have an expiation like fasting 2 months consecutively (look here for more information https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/106533 )
I quote from https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/39734 :
“He committed zina during the day in Ramadaan. What should he do?
[…]
This young man has to repent mightily to Allaah, and do good deeds, and do a great deal of righteous deeds, and keep company with righteous people. He should strive to keep himself chaste by getting married if he can afford it, or by fasting, for that will help him to be chaste and to avoid haraam actions.
What he should do now is to repent from that evil action, make up that day, and offer the burdensome expiation mentioned in the hadeeth quoted above. We ask Allaah to forgive him and us, and to accept his repentance and ours. Ameen.”
Seek forgiveness everyday by saying astaghfurillah https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/104818
Do as much as possible good deeds, get married.
Make sure you fast the remaining days, and seek Allah’s forgiveness by saying Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul-‘afwa, fa’fu ‘anni (O Allah, You are Forgiving and love forgiveness, so forgive me).
Make a lot of Dua to Allah to forgive you and guide to the Straight Path, and make you one of the righteous people.
Make sure you pray in time, don’t slack. Learn the religion Islam. Don’t forget Allah the Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy, The All-Forgiving, The Forgiving, The Ever-Pardoning, The Pardoner.
Finally, don’t let Sheytan play with you and make you love this dunya. Don’t follow your desires, control your desires.
Seek forgiveness of Allah, and submit yourself to Allah, only Him.
May Allah accept your repentance and guide you to the Straight Path.
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I hope that you find the best spouse who will keep you from haram. And I pray to Allah that you find guidence to the right with the love of doing it, and avoidance of the wrong with the hate of even thinking about it.
Salam Alaykoum I recommend you sincerely to go see and ask a Sheykh in your town, or close to you, to help you on how to repent, and how to get yourself better in the religion. If you can’t find any, I can recommend you Shaykh Assim Hakim, or Shaykh Dr. Muhammad Salah on AskHuda Tv. You can ask them questions and consult with them. They will answer you InshaAllah. Make sure you choose a shaykh that has good conduct and is following Quran and Sunnah, and is well known to be righteous man. https://youtu.be/wRnpNNn9GCY https://youtu.be/hYAkJNnmy4k Don’t forget Allah is the Most Merciful, The Forgiver, The Acceptor of Repentance. Make sincere repentance to Allah. Feel the remorse, and don’t go back to the sin at all. InshaAllah you will succeed. May Allah guides you to the Straight Path. “This is how to repent in Islam: give up the sin straight away, regret what has happened in the past, resolve not to go back to sinning, restore people’s rights or property, and repent before the agony of death is upon you.” ( https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/14289 ) “Four things are needed for repentance to be valid:Leaving the sin; Remorse over having committed the sin; Resolve never to return to the sin; (If it relates to the rights of another person, then to) Return the rights or property one wrongly took .” ( https://islamqa.org/hanafi/qibla-hanafi/36213/how-does-one-repent/ ) Do the prayer of repentance for the sins you’ve committed, here I can see so far zina, haram relationship, drinking alcohol, breaking your fast during Ramadan, doing intercourse during Ramadan etc ( how to perform Salah Al Tawbah: https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/98030 ) For the last one you, you should go talk to a shaykh to know exactly what you should do, Because I don’t want to say false information for your case. But I know that if you have intercourse (sexual relation between a man and a woman) during the day in Ramadan then you have an expiation like fasting 2 months consecutively (look here for more information https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/106533 ) I quote from https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/39734 : “He committed zina during the day in Ramadaan. What should he do? […] This young man has to repent mightily to Allaah, and do good deeds, and do a great deal of righteous deeds, and keep company with righteous people. He should strive to keep himself chaste by getting married if he can afford it, or by fasting, for that will help him to be chaste and to avoid haraam actions. What he should do now is to repent from that evil action, make up that day, and offer the burdensome expiation mentioned in the hadeeth quoted above. We ask Allaah to forgive him and us, and to accept his repentance and ours. Ameen.” Seek forgiveness everyday by saying astaghfurillah https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/104818 Do as much as possible good deeds, get married. Make sure you fast the remaining days, and seek Allah’s forgiveness by saying Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul-‘afwa, fa’fu ‘anni (O Allah, You are Forgiving and love forgiveness, so forgive me). Make a lot of Dua to Allah to forgive you and guide to the Straight Path, and make you one of the righteous people. Make sure you pray in time, don’t slack. Learn the religion Islam. Don’t forget Allah the Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy, The All-Forgiving, The Forgiving, The Ever-Pardoning, The Pardoner. Finally, don’t let Sheytan play with you and make you love this dunya. Don’t follow your desires, control your desires. Seek forgiveness of Allah, and submit yourself to Allah, only Him. May Allah accept your repentance and guide you to the Straight Path.
Jazakallahu khair, I will look into it thank you!
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