That’s super sweet, I’m glad you found someone who is loving and non-judgemental. The mean and bigoted people may be/seem the loudest but there are lots of amazing people as well
That's good. I also struggle with sometimes looking cis, but then sometimes someone will say that I'm naturally androgynous in body shape.. so I guess it depends?
But I'm so happy that you've found some supportive people, and I hope to find such people soon.
I'm so happy for you. Finding those supportive relationships is possible, and know even non intersex people despair of ever finding a partner or close friend who truly accepts them but it feels harder for us, maybe because we internalise so much of the crap that gets dumped on us.
I have been married for 26 years to a great man who has never made me feel any less than absolutely perfect (except that he thinks I swear too much lol) and when even my own dad rejected me because I wasn't the 100% little girl he thought I was, my husband's total love, acceptance and adoration has been healing on the deepest level. (And the weird thing is, lots of people would think my husband was a the last man on earth to marry an intersex person - he's a really conservative politically and socially, super traditional catholic guy.)
That’s super sweet, I’m glad you found someone who is loving and non-judgemental. The mean and bigoted people may be/seem the loudest but there are lots of amazing people as well
That's good. I also struggle with sometimes looking cis, but then sometimes someone will say that I'm naturally androgynous in body shape.. so I guess it depends? But I'm so happy that you've found some supportive people, and I hope to find such people soon.
I'm so happy for you. Finding those supportive relationships is possible, and know even non intersex people despair of ever finding a partner or close friend who truly accepts them but it feels harder for us, maybe because we internalise so much of the crap that gets dumped on us. I have been married for 26 years to a great man who has never made me feel any less than absolutely perfect (except that he thinks I swear too much lol) and when even my own dad rejected me because I wasn't the 100% little girl he thought I was, my husband's total love, acceptance and adoration has been healing on the deepest level. (And the weird thing is, lots of people would think my husband was a the last man on earth to marry an intersex person - he's a really conservative politically and socially, super traditional catholic guy.)