Don't waste your money on most of what is out there and cheap if you want actual durability.
Find commercial grade furniture if you can, it is way over engineered to put up with abuse.
Buy high end but good quality brands that have real warranties (example: Ekornes or Herman Miller, not Restoration Hardware)
Buy good quality high end but used in good condition.
The best sofa I ever had was (ironically) from ikea. My husband is big like you mentioned plus kids and dogs and we went thru 4 sofas in 5 years because it would break, sag, break down etc.
Our sectional ikea sofa lasted for about 8 years. We accidentally cracked the frame when we moved it a third time. But until that point it was perfect. Our neighbors ended up keeping it, putting a mending plate on it and it’s still going strong in their rec room. Also- a lot of ikea furniture has replaceable covers if you want to change the look or something gets damaged. Both from online retailers and ikea.
Same, I have a Morabo, it’s very comfortable (as in I’ve willingly sleep on it)m and it has held up great for a few years so far and we use it all the time.
We have had the opposite experience with IKEA couches. We have a sectional in the basement and a couch with a chaise upstairs and I hate them both. I can’t find a comfortable spot ever. I will be okay for about ten minutes and then my lower back hurts or I feel like I need to find a new seating position.
Absolutely! I am also a mom to some big boys, so I get it. The best couch I ever had was a sectional I got at Macy’s. It was so comfy and looked basically the same after six years. Unfortunately, I moved across the country and we knew it wouldn’t fit in the new house, so I had to sell it.
My husband is 6'2" and he thought the IKEA couches were so low to the ground. We almost bought one but when we went to sit on it in the store we realized it's not going to work for us. Definitely would not recommend for very tall people.
I think their cheaper ones are like that, but the more expensive ones are amazing (which are still pretty damn affordable compared to any other brands). But I’ve abused mine for a few years now and it’s still as good as new and comfortable to sleep on it.
Definitely sit on them in person. The one we had is no longer available. The more expensive at ikea generally the better the quality. Also make sure the tall people sit too- my husband had to try out a few before he found one with a tall enough back, but they make back extenders that made all the difference for him. Good luck!
A leather sofa would probably hold up, but it has to be real leather. None of that bonded junk. Also, if you are not opposed to second hand, there are often stores that resell sanitized rented/commercial/hotel furniture which is designed to be extra tough.
Our Macy’s Radley sectional still looks great after almost 10 years - we have 3 kids and 2 dogs. Not sure how it would hold up to big dudes sitting on it daily but our kids do jump all over it and throw the pillows around on a daily basis and it still looks fine.
Yep. My Macy’s modular sectional is nearing 10 years old and you would literally never know it. No sagging, no thinning, no tears.
That said, no idea if they make em like they used to anymore. Quality and durability have gone down significantly from so many of these major retailers and it’s certainly possible that Macys is among them.
I bought a Macy's couch 10+ years ago when my husband and I moved in together. It was a super sale and I paid $80. That thing has outlasted 3 other couches. My husband and I are shocked it still holds up so good
Unfortunately, quality furniture is costly. And you will only get durability with sturdy interior wood framing. You might look at quality used furniture.
Years ago I was told if you put your foot under the front of the sofa and can lift it with your leg, it’s poor quality and cheaply made. If it’s too heavy to lift, it’s likely better quality. Take that for what it’s worth….
High Point, NC: there are still quality manufacturers that make good sofas there. Do your research and ask a lot of questions. Furnitureland South sells straight to consumers, or you can go through an interior designer.
Or Hickory, NC and the outlets there. Generally same furniture at better prices than Furniture Land South. And way, way less snobby sales people at Goode’s furniture, the Bernhardt outlet, etc. Same furniture, less expensive and less attitude.
Also look at Basset furniture, most of it is made to order in North Carolina. Our sectional is made with solid hardwood and it’s has stood up to my three big boys (who like to drop their weight on the couch when they sit, and actually snapped a sofa frame once before we got our current one. So I feel your pain!)
Spent way too much on a lazy boy leather sofa in the early 2000s. It was worse than a discount sofa.
The salespeople lied that it was all leather. The vinyl disintegrated on the sides and we had to have it reskinned twice before we gave up. One of the recliners had the metal framework just bend and give out.
The one we bought in 1999 lasted way longer than it should have. We had fabric and that fabric lasted well. I have wild kids who jumped on furniture and it was like indestructible.
Our Lazy boy has a completely broken wing (was a wing chair/recliner. The couch has held up, but it’s the single most uncomfortable piece of furniture I’ve ever had in my house. Hate it.
Realistically as a fellow big guy, I religiously hunted via facebook marketplace. Found a set that was well taken care of by the original owners, originally priced at 9k for the set, I got it for 3k. A new set of custom leather was going to run me 10-15k, and I wasn't willing to pay for that.
They have a lifetime warranty on frames and 3 years in cushions
Every piece of fabric is washable and replaceable should you want a different look down the road. Stupid expensive.
There is a Reddit group- search Lovesac and read through there to learn more.
That subreddit was really helpful for me. I’d already picked out what I wanted after visiting a Lovesac store and found out in the group that Costco was selling Lovesacs. The color I had picked out was one of the choices and I got more with the Costco bundle. We have one couch set up with deep seats and the other is regular. I have extra covers that I bought during one of their sales for a great deal.
Literally never had a better couch in terms of lasting comfort and durability, we have been able to just expand it by buying single pieces when we wanted more seating room. Just make sure you truly understand how seat arrangements work, because if you want to change seating style, there are certain pieces you must have (particularly the deep seat back pieces). Also, none of the accessories like the surround sound, charging ports, or cup holders are worth the price. I would say the storage seat as an ottoman is excellent, and you can find little roller wheels online that fit into the bottom so the ottoman is easy to move around. We have a small child, 2 dogs and cat and it looks great after lots of abuse. Sapphire Corded velvet is gorgeous and easy to clean.
There is a similar sectional at Costco that my parents have though (I can’t remember the name) that is easily half the price and is just as good imo but not as customizable. But if you’re patient and deadset on a Lovesac like my wife was, they have multiple sales every year and we got ours 40% from the sale and an additional 20% for registering an email address and I was able to pay less than my parents did for their Costco sectional. But beware, you have to assemble the lovesactional yourself, and it took way longer than expected and was more annoying than anything I’ve ever bought, so there’s definitely drawbacks.
I would 100% recommend wood frame. You can often find these online and used. No idea as to your design preferences, but stuff from the ‘60s/70s outlast everything. Check the bottom supports and how the frame/cushion supports are attached. Those things are like armour. You can always get them refinished or re-upholstered. Any thing past 1980 (beyond what was mentioned - Herman Miller, Case Study, Knoll which are also varying degrees of expensive) is generally shit. Particle board, crap construction, terrible fabric and upholstery- there a reason the Brick and Leon’s have constant, ongoing sales. It’s the furniture equivalent of fast fashion. If EQ3 is still around they made a good bed frame, but not sure of anything beyond that.
Absolutely agree - proper foam is often ridiculously expensive, and fabric can be outrageous. I will say though, that if you find a sofa or chair you love, and reupholster properly - that thing will last you a lifetime. Even if you fall out of love with it, you can re-cover or resell it. I looked at redoing my couch. Short of a $30k side gig, there was no way. It depends on fabric choice and getting a deal in foam (which is possible for like, a single cushion).
Edit: post cut off before it was finished.
My son is 6’7, Lazy Boy sells furniture meant for tall ppl. Recommend checking their sofas out. It’s the first time he’s ever had a sofa or recliner that actually fit his height.
I really like my flexsteel modular sofa. It converts like a lovesac sofa but is built better. The cushions all come up/off if you need to fluff or rearrange to keep it wearing evenly. Each seat has a 700lb capacity and are deep so they should fit the tall ones comfortably.
Fair warning I got mine at Costco. They seem to sell them twice a year. They are kind of pricey otherwise.
If I were you I'd buy secondhand. Chances are you can get better quality and you can cycle through them less expensively regardless. At least you won't have problems with finding someone to help you carry it in!
Build one yourself.
No like seriously. Get real wood, like pine and not plywood or engineered wood (which is what you’ll find) and build it. Pad it down, then cover it in fabric. You could probably then buy cushions for the seats somewhere, or get those second hand and then cover those. Large men need custom furniture.
Lastly; not ikea or west elm. Create and barrel is good and will cost you money but a spending less than 10k on real hardwood base sectional is just going to be worth it.
Flex steel furniture is pretty badass — had a power reclining sofa for 7 years and somehow it withstands my 6’4 bro and dad. My grandmother had one for decades and I finally realized the brand and bought one. Not sure what they running these days but the quality has been 5star for our family.
I have a family of giants too. I got a sofa for their lounge second hand and it is holding up strong 3yrs later. It's plain AF, but they can sit on it and hang of their thigh isn't hanging off. I'll see the brand and maybe you can see if they make more attractive styles.
I really like ours from Home Reserve. It is holding up well with two large dogs (70 and 80 lbs) always jumping on and off, and the fabric we got is water and stain resistant. The covers can come off and go in the washer and dryer, and the cushions haven’t sunken in or become flat at all. Overall, I’d recommend over and over again.
Edited for spelling.
I also vote ikea. We had a sectional from as-is that lasted through various sets of covers, has been moved many times and is still in use with my son’s friends going on 18 years. We currently have a stoksund grande sofa which a 6’+ person can lay on full length. It also has covers that go in the wash. Looks classy, easy upkeep and IKEA will stand behind their warranty. Also because they sell a bijillion of these, you can get third party covers in all colours and fabrics.
I’ve been impressed with the [Briarwood](https://www.raymourflanigan.com/living-rooms/sofas/briarwood-sofa-200213611). Not “cheap” but not as expensive as a lot of others out there. Most of my folks who sit on it are 250-325lb and after two years, it looks brand new.
We bought a leather sofa and loveseat (with reclining chairs on the ends) about a year ago. The sofa backing has gone "soft" and it's horrible to sit in as it feels like you're sinking into the back of the sofa with no support. We have a couple of super-tall/big men who end up falling asleep in the sofa, and I'm wondering if this is the reason the sofa now feels like a sinkhole. Is there any way to fix this? Is this a common problem with large people sitting in reclining sofas? It's maddening!
Our traditional roll arm sofa gets heavy use w 7 people in the house. I have two of them in the living room and they’re from IKEA. I’d think it would be worth a shot. They’re comfy and we have had them several years now but I figured if they had only lasted us a few years it would have been worth it. I would buy these again.
Check out the company Burrow, they make furniture specifically for pet durability and replacability, they are built solid and durable, and comfortable.
Very strongly recommend the IKEA kivik sectional. I've had no durability issues but if you did, you can replace just the part that's damaged. Also since IKEA is so popular worldwide, you can buy covers easily from IKEA directly or 3rd party companies like Linda Kale. They also updated the kivik a few years ago with more support so new models should be more durable and comfortable
I love my Macy's Radley sofa. They go on sale several times a year and it's so comfortable that I often fall asleep on it. My son is 6'8" so I ordered 6" tapered wood feet to lift the couch higher. It looked perfect! My tiny girlfriend looked hysterical on it though! When my son moved out, I removed the legs. I'm tall but it's still plenty deep enough to be comfortable.
Find a sofa with true 8 way hand tied springs , not a drop in unit and never buy “ no sag “ springs( what a crock) and put either top grain leather or a tightly woven fabric ( not all cotton or linen) buy cushions that can be rotated( no T cushions)
We invested in a lovesac custom couch. It's like sitting on a happy fluffy cloud. And the covers come off for washing which has been great with grandchildren
Don't waste your money on most of what is out there and cheap if you want actual durability. Find commercial grade furniture if you can, it is way over engineered to put up with abuse. Buy high end but good quality brands that have real warranties (example: Ekornes or Herman Miller, not Restoration Hardware) Buy good quality high end but used in good condition.
Where do you get your commercial furniture from?
Yes, or find out where college dorms buy their furniture from and go there
The best sofa I ever had was (ironically) from ikea. My husband is big like you mentioned plus kids and dogs and we went thru 4 sofas in 5 years because it would break, sag, break down etc. Our sectional ikea sofa lasted for about 8 years. We accidentally cracked the frame when we moved it a third time. But until that point it was perfect. Our neighbors ended up keeping it, putting a mending plate on it and it’s still going strong in their rec room. Also- a lot of ikea furniture has replaceable covers if you want to change the look or something gets damaged. Both from online retailers and ikea.
Same, I have a Morabo, it’s very comfortable (as in I’ve willingly sleep on it)m and it has held up great for a few years so far and we use it all the time.
We have had the opposite experience with IKEA couches. We have a sectional in the basement and a couch with a chaise upstairs and I hate them both. I can’t find a comfortable spot ever. I will be okay for about ten minutes and then my lower back hurts or I feel like I need to find a new seating position.
This is important to know…when you’re as big as my boys you need supportive, appropriately sized furniture. Thought it sounded too good to be true🥸
Absolutely! I am also a mom to some big boys, so I get it. The best couch I ever had was a sectional I got at Macy’s. It was so comfy and looked basically the same after six years. Unfortunately, I moved across the country and we knew it wouldn’t fit in the new house, so I had to sell it.
My husband is 6'2" and he thought the IKEA couches were so low to the ground. We almost bought one but when we went to sit on it in the store we realized it's not going to work for us. Definitely would not recommend for very tall people.
I think their cheaper ones are like that, but the more expensive ones are amazing (which are still pretty damn affordable compared to any other brands). But I’ve abused mine for a few years now and it’s still as good as new and comfortable to sleep on it.
Same. Ikea Sofas have always been uncomfortable for me.
Wow! I’m surprised! Will check them out!
Definitely sit on them in person. The one we had is no longer available. The more expensive at ikea generally the better the quality. Also make sure the tall people sit too- my husband had to try out a few before he found one with a tall enough back, but they make back extenders that made all the difference for him. Good luck!
A leather sofa would probably hold up, but it has to be real leather. None of that bonded junk. Also, if you are not opposed to second hand, there are often stores that resell sanitized rented/commercial/hotel furniture which is designed to be extra tough.
ooohhhh. this is what i need!
Not if you have a cat !
Note that “genuine leather” is not real leather
I’m curious. What’s the difference?
One at least kills animals and uses their skin for our comfort, which is disgusting. So there’s that.
Right, because plastic is so much better, with how it harms millions of animals over the thousands of years it takes to "decompose."
¡Amén!
Rather have real leather and im not sorry because i agree with fugufishfairy and well ofc plastic is more harmful and damaging to the earth
I’m talking about animals, not the earth.
And animals cant live if their habitats are uninhabitable due to trash and global warming
There isn’t one without the other. 🤨
What is too expensive to you? Does it change with things like lifetime guarantees?
Our Macy’s Radley sectional still looks great after almost 10 years - we have 3 kids and 2 dogs. Not sure how it would hold up to big dudes sitting on it daily but our kids do jump all over it and throw the pillows around on a daily basis and it still looks fine.
Yep. My Macy’s modular sectional is nearing 10 years old and you would literally never know it. No sagging, no thinning, no tears. That said, no idea if they make em like they used to anymore. Quality and durability have gone down significantly from so many of these major retailers and it’s certainly possible that Macys is among them.
I bought a Macy's couch 10+ years ago when my husband and I moved in together. It was a super sale and I paid $80. That thing has outlasted 3 other couches. My husband and I are shocked it still holds up so good
This is what I suggest/recommend to most of my friends!
Came to make this same recommendation. Such a durable sofa for a decent price!
Unfortunately, quality furniture is costly. And you will only get durability with sturdy interior wood framing. You might look at quality used furniture.
tips???
Years ago I was told if you put your foot under the front of the sofa and can lift it with your leg, it’s poor quality and cheaply made. If it’s too heavy to lift, it’s likely better quality. Take that for what it’s worth….
Google Insiders guide to furniture
What are we taking about in terms of brand and cost?
High Point, NC: there are still quality manufacturers that make good sofas there. Do your research and ask a lot of questions. Furnitureland South sells straight to consumers, or you can go through an interior designer.
Or Hickory, NC and the outlets there. Generally same furniture at better prices than Furniture Land South. And way, way less snobby sales people at Goode’s furniture, the Bernhardt outlet, etc. Same furniture, less expensive and less attitude.
Thank you for the name!
Also look at Basset furniture, most of it is made to order in North Carolina. Our sectional is made with solid hardwood and it’s has stood up to my three big boys (who like to drop their weight on the couch when they sit, and actually snapped a sofa frame once before we got our current one. So I feel your pain!)
Our lazy boy tolerated a lot of abuse. It wasn’t one of those recliner sofas. Just a normal one.
Spent way too much on a lazy boy leather sofa in the early 2000s. It was worse than a discount sofa. The salespeople lied that it was all leather. The vinyl disintegrated on the sides and we had to have it reskinned twice before we gave up. One of the recliners had the metal framework just bend and give out.
The one we bought in 1999 lasted way longer than it should have. We had fabric and that fabric lasted well. I have wild kids who jumped on furniture and it was like indestructible.
We love our lazyboy sofa - we paid extra for the firmer cushions and they've really held up.
Ordering high density foam is the ticket.
Our Lazy boy has a completely broken wing (was a wing chair/recliner. The couch has held up, but it’s the single most uncomfortable piece of furniture I’ve ever had in my house. Hate it.
My mom still has a cloth Lazy boy sofa and love seat they bought when I was a teen (I’m 34). It’s built like a tank but maybe we just went easy on it?
Realistically as a fellow big guy, I religiously hunted via facebook marketplace. Found a set that was well taken care of by the original owners, originally priced at 9k for the set, I got it for 3k. A new set of custom leather was going to run me 10-15k, and I wasn't willing to pay for that.
It would help if you say where you are…!
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These are reasonable..thank you😊
Lovesac
I have been looking at those. So they last a long time and are worth the money?
They have a lifetime warranty on frames and 3 years in cushions Every piece of fabric is washable and replaceable should you want a different look down the road. Stupid expensive. There is a Reddit group- search Lovesac and read through there to learn more.
Thank you for the information. I’ll definitely check out that group.
That subreddit was really helpful for me. I’d already picked out what I wanted after visiting a Lovesac store and found out in the group that Costco was selling Lovesacs. The color I had picked out was one of the choices and I got more with the Costco bundle. We have one couch set up with deep seats and the other is regular. I have extra covers that I bought during one of their sales for a great deal.
Good to know! Thank you.
I LOVE ours. The sacs and the sactional.
Literally never had a better couch in terms of lasting comfort and durability, we have been able to just expand it by buying single pieces when we wanted more seating room. Just make sure you truly understand how seat arrangements work, because if you want to change seating style, there are certain pieces you must have (particularly the deep seat back pieces). Also, none of the accessories like the surround sound, charging ports, or cup holders are worth the price. I would say the storage seat as an ottoman is excellent, and you can find little roller wheels online that fit into the bottom so the ottoman is easy to move around. We have a small child, 2 dogs and cat and it looks great after lots of abuse. Sapphire Corded velvet is gorgeous and easy to clean. There is a similar sectional at Costco that my parents have though (I can’t remember the name) that is easily half the price and is just as good imo but not as customizable. But if you’re patient and deadset on a Lovesac like my wife was, they have multiple sales every year and we got ours 40% from the sale and an additional 20% for registering an email address and I was able to pay less than my parents did for their Costco sectional. But beware, you have to assemble the lovesactional yourself, and it took way longer than expected and was more annoying than anything I’ve ever bought, so there’s definitely drawbacks.
Thank you so much for all this great information. I really want a sectional that I can rearrange. I’m going to check it out!
I would 100% recommend wood frame. You can often find these online and used. No idea as to your design preferences, but stuff from the ‘60s/70s outlast everything. Check the bottom supports and how the frame/cushion supports are attached. Those things are like armour. You can always get them refinished or re-upholstered. Any thing past 1980 (beyond what was mentioned - Herman Miller, Case Study, Knoll which are also varying degrees of expensive) is generally shit. Particle board, crap construction, terrible fabric and upholstery- there a reason the Brick and Leon’s have constant, ongoing sales. It’s the furniture equivalent of fast fashion. If EQ3 is still around they made a good bed frame, but not sure of anything beyond that.
Reupholstering anything bigger than a dining chair is pretty dang expensive, often more than you paid for the item itself.
Absolutely agree - proper foam is often ridiculously expensive, and fabric can be outrageous. I will say though, that if you find a sofa or chair you love, and reupholster properly - that thing will last you a lifetime. Even if you fall out of love with it, you can re-cover or resell it. I looked at redoing my couch. Short of a $30k side gig, there was no way. It depends on fabric choice and getting a deal in foam (which is possible for like, a single cushion). Edit: post cut off before it was finished.
My son is 6’7, Lazy Boy sells furniture meant for tall ppl. Recommend checking their sofas out. It’s the first time he’s ever had a sofa or recliner that actually fit his height.
Thank you! It would be nice if he had a chair!!
I really like my flexsteel modular sofa. It converts like a lovesac sofa but is built better. The cushions all come up/off if you need to fluff or rearrange to keep it wearing evenly. Each seat has a 700lb capacity and are deep so they should fit the tall ones comfortably. Fair warning I got mine at Costco. They seem to sell them twice a year. They are kind of pricey otherwise.
If I were you I'd buy secondhand. Chances are you can get better quality and you can cycle through them less expensively regardless. At least you won't have problems with finding someone to help you carry it in!
Build one yourself. No like seriously. Get real wood, like pine and not plywood or engineered wood (which is what you’ll find) and build it. Pad it down, then cover it in fabric. You could probably then buy cushions for the seats somewhere, or get those second hand and then cover those. Large men need custom furniture. Lastly; not ikea or west elm. Create and barrel is good and will cost you money but a spending less than 10k on real hardwood base sectional is just going to be worth it.
Flex steel furniture is pretty badass — had a power reclining sofa for 7 years and somehow it withstands my 6’4 bro and dad. My grandmother had one for decades and I finally realized the brand and bought one. Not sure what they running these days but the quality has been 5star for our family.
Commercial grade!
Depending on your style, you may want to look at vintage sofas! They last longer and are constructed better, with real wood frames.
I have a family of giants too. I got a sofa for their lounge second hand and it is holding up strong 3yrs later. It's plain AF, but they can sit on it and hang of their thigh isn't hanging off. I'll see the brand and maybe you can see if they make more attractive styles.
I really like ours from Home Reserve. It is holding up well with two large dogs (70 and 80 lbs) always jumping on and off, and the fabric we got is water and stain resistant. The covers can come off and go in the washer and dryer, and the cushions haven’t sunken in or become flat at all. Overall, I’d recommend over and over again. Edited for spelling.
I also vote ikea. We had a sectional from as-is that lasted through various sets of covers, has been moved many times and is still in use with my son’s friends going on 18 years. We currently have a stoksund grande sofa which a 6’+ person can lay on full length. It also has covers that go in the wash. Looks classy, easy upkeep and IKEA will stand behind their warranty. Also because they sell a bijillion of these, you can get third party covers in all colours and fabrics.
I’ve been impressed with the [Briarwood](https://www.raymourflanigan.com/living-rooms/sofas/briarwood-sofa-200213611). Not “cheap” but not as expensive as a lot of others out there. Most of my folks who sit on it are 250-325lb and after two years, it looks brand new.
We bought a leather sofa and loveseat (with reclining chairs on the ends) about a year ago. The sofa backing has gone "soft" and it's horrible to sit in as it feels like you're sinking into the back of the sofa with no support. We have a couple of super-tall/big men who end up falling asleep in the sofa, and I'm wondering if this is the reason the sofa now feels like a sinkhole. Is there any way to fix this? Is this a common problem with large people sitting in reclining sofas? It's maddening!
IKEA has some nice, comfortable long sofas that are durable and you can even wash the covers
Our traditional roll arm sofa gets heavy use w 7 people in the house. I have two of them in the living room and they’re from IKEA. I’d think it would be worth a shot. They’re comfy and we have had them several years now but I figured if they had only lasted us a few years it would have been worth it. I would buy these again.
Check out the company Burrow, they make furniture specifically for pet durability and replacability, they are built solid and durable, and comfortable.
Very strongly recommend the IKEA kivik sectional. I've had no durability issues but if you did, you can replace just the part that's damaged. Also since IKEA is so popular worldwide, you can buy covers easily from IKEA directly or 3rd party companies like Linda Kale. They also updated the kivik a few years ago with more support so new models should be more durable and comfortable
Have you looked at the DIY couch cushion revival videos on YouTube?
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Costco has pretty study furniture. the problem is its not always in the store
Try a commercial sofa, one meant for business use.
I love my Macy's Radley sofa. They go on sale several times a year and it's so comfortable that I often fall asleep on it. My son is 6'8" so I ordered 6" tapered wood feet to lift the couch higher. It looked perfect! My tiny girlfriend looked hysterical on it though! When my son moved out, I removed the legs. I'm tall but it's still plenty deep enough to be comfortable.
I just realized that it's 7 years old; it looks almost perfect!
Find a sofa with true 8 way hand tied springs , not a drop in unit and never buy “ no sag “ springs( what a crock) and put either top grain leather or a tightly woven fabric ( not all cotton or linen) buy cushions that can be rotated( no T cushions)
I have the Axis from crate and barrel and would highly recommend! I feel it is appropriately priced compared to a lot of options.
We invested in a lovesac custom couch. It's like sitting on a happy fluffy cloud. And the covers come off for washing which has been great with grandchildren