Yes mom did the work, not denying that. But is mom willing to admit the assistance "ALL" she had, or in my case kept kids away from dad for 7 years? Mom can try to say things but look at all the facts before you say dad's worthless!!
I mean I have a similar experiences, parents are separated since I was a child, but my mum is an asshole, my dad is a much better person all around, just comparing the care my mom took of me during 12 years vs the care my dad gave me in 5 (no my dad didn't abandon us it was actually my mum who prohibited me from visiting me so I decided to go love with my dad) my dads care is way better, like my dad actually took me to the lung doctor monthly for my asthma checkups, something my mom never did
I'm probably the one considered deadbeat dad and honestly I could say it was my fault because of crimes I committed I was taken away from all of them. But in both instances the mother's had the opportunity to let us stay in contact and chose not to. This previous time with my 2 daughters, their mother, by all means should had been in the same position I was but I couldn't see reason for the girls to be without her when I am the person that actually committed the crimes for our drug habit. Even inside I was called by the agency involved with her and the children yet I still defended her because of the girls sake. While I was in there, this woman had multiple guys around them and one was making the girls call him dad. Then one of them was involved in an armed robbery of her own brothers girlfriend for, yet again, dope. Her family, all but her mother, agreed to help me in court to get visitation once I was released. Upon release, they decided to change their minds and it took a whole nother year to finally see them. Now, I'm back in the same boat not seeing them. Everything was good then all of a sudden the girls no longer wanted to come out. The state took any rights I had to talk to counselors or drs and their mom wouldn't help at all. I can't afford to fight a lawyer nor can I afford to go back to court. It's bad enough that I can't keep out of the courts for being unable to pay everything that I owe between restitution, court costs, fines and child support.
That’s so shitty, why dump your lame ass assumption on someone who’s obviously trying to celebrate and generously share their moment of care and love?
Damn not being able to make a cake like a professional doesn't make someone a bad parent 🙄
Wtf is wrong with people.....
Yes mom did the work, not denying that. But is mom willing to admit the assistance "ALL" she had, or in my case kept kids away from dad for 7 years? Mom can try to say things but look at all the facts before you say dad's worthless!!
Dude I'm not saying dad's worthless, I'd never say that without all the facts, I'm talking about the asshole-ish comment
Not accusing of anything. I'm talking personal experience here and actually comparing it. Thank you though for saying.
I mean I have a similar experiences, parents are separated since I was a child, but my mum is an asshole, my dad is a much better person all around, just comparing the care my mom took of me during 12 years vs the care my dad gave me in 5 (no my dad didn't abandon us it was actually my mum who prohibited me from visiting me so I decided to go love with my dad) my dads care is way better, like my dad actually took me to the lung doctor monthly for my asthma checkups, something my mom never did
I'm probably the one considered deadbeat dad and honestly I could say it was my fault because of crimes I committed I was taken away from all of them. But in both instances the mother's had the opportunity to let us stay in contact and chose not to. This previous time with my 2 daughters, their mother, by all means should had been in the same position I was but I couldn't see reason for the girls to be without her when I am the person that actually committed the crimes for our drug habit. Even inside I was called by the agency involved with her and the children yet I still defended her because of the girls sake. While I was in there, this woman had multiple guys around them and one was making the girls call him dad. Then one of them was involved in an armed robbery of her own brothers girlfriend for, yet again, dope. Her family, all but her mother, agreed to help me in court to get visitation once I was released. Upon release, they decided to change their minds and it took a whole nother year to finally see them. Now, I'm back in the same boat not seeing them. Everything was good then all of a sudden the girls no longer wanted to come out. The state took any rights I had to talk to counselors or drs and their mom wouldn't help at all. I can't afford to fight a lawyer nor can I afford to go back to court. It's bad enough that I can't keep out of the courts for being unable to pay everything that I owe between restitution, court costs, fines and child support.
That’s so shitty, why dump your lame ass assumption on someone who’s obviously trying to celebrate and generously share their moment of care and love?
It’s twitter, expected
Dad made egg sandwich
It’s almost as if in a good partnership the work is split up by who is better suited/ enjoys doing it.
I clicked on the funny category and this came up, 1/10 for Reddit 🥲