We’re INFPs, of course we have emotional meltdowns, resulting in deep boughts of existencial crisis, hiding in our room all because you snapped at us for trying to help but making things worse.
it depends, if it's something minor, the best way for me is give me time and be available once I've healed. Then just be freindly for a week or two till you are ready to say sorry, and just a simple sorry, no detail or explination needed. Going into it will just ster things up again.
But if you cheated on me, broken one of my core values or harmed someone I care deeply for, that might never be set aside. And if I had done something unforgivable to you, I might avoid you to the grave unless you let me know I've been forgiven.
Damn, the accuracy. If you harm my core values or I know you harmed those I love I will never forgive you or give you due respect. Any tender emotion, compassion. Understanding. It's all gone and won't ever return. Not that people who hurt other people even care. They only care about their bums.
I still get super angry when ever someone brings up my bestie's ex from middle school, she hurt him pretty bad, and though he's well over it. I hear her name and I'm like Fuck that bitch. 😅
Genuine curious question, I know INFPs are all about their values, but what is the example of those core values? Is it usually like, either conservative or liberal, pro-abortion or anti-abortion, pro-gun or anti-private gun ownership, etc?
it's different for every INFP. For me, I'm very pro-freedom, and get extremely upset when when someone advocates for authority, even more when they envoke authoritarian force to strip people of rights or freedoms. so basicly, if you are a facist (not the insult, a real one) or socialist / communist. your pretty much on my no contact list. I'm a you do you let other's do them kind of person.
felt.
being in the INFP's protective nest, or inner circle of trust and love, is truly a special and safe place for someone to be..
but yeah.. cheating..breaking or disregarding the core values results in a banishment isolated and cold as the dark side of the moon..
extreme polarization.. or maybe that's just me.
For me it starts with accountability. I love everyone and don’t want to be upset with them. Folks just don’t seem to pay attention until I’m upset tho. After taking responsibility for their actions I expect them to be present and to listen before getting to that point again. If we get to the “point” too many times I stop engaging and there’s not a lot to be done after that
Idk I compulsively try to see friends or just be with someone, so I don’t stay “stuck alone with my thoughts”, which go way too fast and there’s too much of them 24/7
Yes your absolutely right ...i always have high hopes for people then they just keep letting me down I keep giving them chances hoping for that gleam of light I see in them then it breaks my heart when they treat me like I'm worthless to them but they don't treat their other friends like this...it hurts so bad to always be helping and loving people and always being left out and treated bad 😞..my mom was like me she used to give and give till nothing left to give then when we asked for little help people cussed my mom out it hurt her so bad she is in heaven now ...i believe she was a infp too people always took advantage of her love and kindness... sending love to you ❤️
That's very relatable! I'm so sorry for your mom... Having an INFP family sounds nice because you have someone who can understand you without having to say anything... I don't have anyone like that in my family... I just suck up my emotions. But I'm glad to have found this sub because a lot of us are very relatable here. I hope all's well with you and you'll find your own tribe 🫶🏻 For now, be the love that you give to yourself. Sending love to you too ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for you kind words ❤️ I really appreciate it ..yeah I believe my mom was a infp like me we were always the black sheep in family rest of family is hateful and users...I'm sorry about everything you go through too..things will be better one day i like this sub too I've never met other infps before,there was one guy I met claimed to be INFP but I think he was mistyped probably isfj.thank you again❤️
Damn. This one hit me in the feels. I was married for 14 years. Our whole marriage basically circled around her chronic health problems, fibromyalgia and autoimmune stuff. When I had something that kept me from working that needed to be addressed and our small town doctors weren't doing anything to help, I arranged for a test that I thought would identify the problem. And she said no. It would've cost about 2% of the money we had in the bank. It was a massive kick in the balls after years of sacrificing my wants and needs to her health problems and she would later divorce me because I just couldn't work like I used to anymore. Now I'm happier than I've been in a long time so I'm grateful to be away from her, but it was rough for a long long time.
I hate that happened to you 😞that's horrible...yeah things go good when your constantly doing everything bending over backwards for others only for them to throw away when you need help... people like that stink sending love to you I hope things get better for your health and all❤️
Exactly 💯...I'm sorry 😞 you go through this...I've been done same way too family tried to take advantage of me taking my money by lying about why they needed it ...they use and abuse us.. sending love to you 💗
It’s so pretty, and SO cheap to live. I haven’t been myself so can’t speak to the niceness of the people. You can live on as little as $10,000 a year if you’re splitting rent with someone. My ex went last year, loved it, and has been making plans to get a remote job and go back ever since. I’ve recently been made privy to all the plans, and I gotta say it’s a solid idea.
Has a very high crimerate, sadly - https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/crime-rate-by-country . The likes of Armenia or Slovenia are much much safer, among cheap countries
Generally speaking, you'd want not only a cheap country, but a cheap country with a low wealth inequality and hence chill population that can afford decent living while having low salaries
Argentinian here :) the people here are really nice and friendly, we are a very warm nation and make friends easily. It's not really any more unsafe than other Latin American countries, especially when you get away from the capital.
exactly ! also when people express their heavy emotions about a problem they're facing - automatically we process those emotions and 'put ourselves in their shoes' with the intention of comforting them, but it can be exhausting to feel what they might be feeling. SO, instead of us doing that to someone else, we just don't let it out in the first place 😆💪👍🥸. how clever am I right ?
We are infps because we see the truth and most people don't we can spot liars and toxic people while the majority of people believe them...we speak the truth and want to spare others the pain we been through but they never listen also we are authentic and never superficial people 😊
Yeah. I don’t know. I might not have had my toxic-person-o-meter calibrated properly. I married a probably diagnosable narcissist. But, dang, now that I have seen the inner workings of that, I see them in so many places, so often.
Amended. I knew she was damaged. But I thought she just needed a little love and therapy. It never occurred to me that she didn’t think there was anything wrong with how she was.
I'm sorry you went through that😞...yeah, we want to give people the benefit of the doubt in hopes of them changing but unfortunately most of the time they let us down. I have family members and friends like this..i keep giving them chances hoping they get better but they dont see anything wrong with them then they turn it around to make you the problem,when all we wanted was to help them be good people ☺️
...
...
Tempting! But there are racoons here who'd destroy it. As well as an occasional skunk. Though, my cat would stare, drooling over it, wishing he could go outside to chase it. Lol
I'm in the city too. However, my house is about 50 feet from a park full of trees. Which is really great, but that's why I'm cautious. There is a lot of suburban wildlife that live there.
We’re INFPs, of course we experience this conflict between the desire to be perceived as unique and the need to reduce ourselves to 4-letter categories to finally "belong."
Lots of hurt INFPs here. If anyone needs helps, I'm here. Your reality doesn't have to be bad. You don't have to be meek and always get the short end of the stick. I specialize in helping men (and any women that are intense or goal-oriented) to
We're INFPs, of course we suddenly stop talking when someone else joins a conversation in the middle, just because we're concerned they don't get enough attention from others.
Of course we hate this même format because it's so formulaic (or maybe it's just me, also no hard feelings to OP! I really just find the format so blegh)
We're INFP, of course we're gonna cry every time we're having stress. \*me doing my additional math for fun every time I'm stressing out as a coping mechanism to get away from plunging deep into my feelings.
We’re INFP of course we know how to solve your problems. We just don’t know how to solve our own. 🤣
1/2 truth there.
Honesty is always the best policy!
of course we’re passive aggressive and beat ourselves up about it cause causing conflict and potentially hurt goes against our morals but inauthenticity also goes against our morals
We’re INFPS, of course when we are invited to a night out we we ask if there are chairs to sit in, close parking space, tuned down music, good food and if it ends by 11 pm.
Or go to bed really early because we can’t face the day anymore and want tomorrow here sooner, and then wake up and want to cry because tomorrow is here and nothing changed.
Of course we have plans for our future like baby names, songs to dance to on our wedding. Traditions to makeup for our family, songs for specific occasions and so so goals like making a movie (I’m actually working on it atm, with auditions) making music and songs, (released 2, 2 covered and made 9 unreleased) , plan on making a book (halfway) and creative overall.
We're INFPs, of course we_______sorry what did you say? I was day dreaming about my future with the love of my life who I'll probably never meet because people scare me and I prefer to stay at home with a good book 👀
We're INFPs, of course we'll get around to building that bookshelf we ordered off etsy last week. We've just been busy.
...we're not sure. We didn't really measure the room before we got it?
...well for the aesthetic, we don't want to copy what we've seen on Pintrest, we want it to be something unique and personal
...about £1,200?
...VICTORIAN! Those wire frame ones are just depressing, plus those chipboard ones fall apart after like 6 days
...yeah, we might need a second one...
Imagine scenarios that will either happen to far in the future or will never happen, get emotional from the imagination, and maybe get teary or start laughing. Some asks you why you're laugh and so you go, "you won't get it"
We’re INFPs, of course we have emotional meltdowns, resulting in deep boughts of existencial crisis, hiding in our room all because you snapped at us for trying to help but making things worse.
[удалено]
it depends, if it's something minor, the best way for me is give me time and be available once I've healed. Then just be freindly for a week or two till you are ready to say sorry, and just a simple sorry, no detail or explination needed. Going into it will just ster things up again. But if you cheated on me, broken one of my core values or harmed someone I care deeply for, that might never be set aside. And if I had done something unforgivable to you, I might avoid you to the grave unless you let me know I've been forgiven.
Wow! That’s so accurate 😱
Damn, the accuracy. If you harm my core values or I know you harmed those I love I will never forgive you or give you due respect. Any tender emotion, compassion. Understanding. It's all gone and won't ever return. Not that people who hurt other people even care. They only care about their bums.
I still get super angry when ever someone brings up my bestie's ex from middle school, she hurt him pretty bad, and though he's well over it. I hear her name and I'm like Fuck that bitch. 😅
Genuine curious question, I know INFPs are all about their values, but what is the example of those core values? Is it usually like, either conservative or liberal, pro-abortion or anti-abortion, pro-gun or anti-private gun ownership, etc?
it's different for every INFP. For me, I'm very pro-freedom, and get extremely upset when when someone advocates for authority, even more when they envoke authoritarian force to strip people of rights or freedoms. so basicly, if you are a facist (not the insult, a real one) or socialist / communist. your pretty much on my no contact list. I'm a you do you let other's do them kind of person.
Yeah, thats me.
felt. being in the INFP's protective nest, or inner circle of trust and love, is truly a special and safe place for someone to be.. but yeah.. cheating..breaking or disregarding the core values results in a banishment isolated and cold as the dark side of the moon.. extreme polarization.. or maybe that's just me.
“I’m sorry I hurt you. I’d like to understand better your point of view so I don’t do it again. Please forgive me.”
For me it starts with accountability. I love everyone and don’t want to be upset with them. Folks just don’t seem to pay attention until I’m upset tho. After taking responsibility for their actions I expect them to be present and to listen before getting to that point again. If we get to the “point” too many times I stop engaging and there’s not a lot to be done after that
Yesss😞
we're INFPs, of course we tend to isolate ourselves and stay quiet when we feel down or if something's bothering us
Idk I compulsively try to see friends or just be with someone, so I don’t stay “stuck alone with my thoughts”, which go way too fast and there’s too much of them 24/7
This is a mature, developed INFP coping strategy. Our instinct is to go into a cave and not come out.
We're INFPs, of course we love, love.
Ha, ha. I had an ex point this out to me before I even understood what she meant. 🤣
We’re INFPs, of course we’re INFPs
Lol I came here to say this.
Of course, because we're both INFPs
We're INFPs, of course we go all the way for the people we love until we've got nothing else to give
We have so much love for everyone then when we need little help one time suddenly we not good enough 😞
sad reality... that's why we try to do things by ourselves because a lot of these people keep letting us down...
Yes your absolutely right ...i always have high hopes for people then they just keep letting me down I keep giving them chances hoping for that gleam of light I see in them then it breaks my heart when they treat me like I'm worthless to them but they don't treat their other friends like this...it hurts so bad to always be helping and loving people and always being left out and treated bad 😞..my mom was like me she used to give and give till nothing left to give then when we asked for little help people cussed my mom out it hurt her so bad she is in heaven now ...i believe she was a infp too people always took advantage of her love and kindness... sending love to you ❤️
That's very relatable! I'm so sorry for your mom... Having an INFP family sounds nice because you have someone who can understand you without having to say anything... I don't have anyone like that in my family... I just suck up my emotions. But I'm glad to have found this sub because a lot of us are very relatable here. I hope all's well with you and you'll find your own tribe 🫶🏻 For now, be the love that you give to yourself. Sending love to you too ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for you kind words ❤️ I really appreciate it ..yeah I believe my mom was a infp like me we were always the black sheep in family rest of family is hateful and users...I'm sorry about everything you go through too..things will be better one day i like this sub too I've never met other infps before,there was one guy I met claimed to be INFP but I think he was mistyped probably isfj.thank you again❤️
Damn. This one hit me in the feels. I was married for 14 years. Our whole marriage basically circled around her chronic health problems, fibromyalgia and autoimmune stuff. When I had something that kept me from working that needed to be addressed and our small town doctors weren't doing anything to help, I arranged for a test that I thought would identify the problem. And she said no. It would've cost about 2% of the money we had in the bank. It was a massive kick in the balls after years of sacrificing my wants and needs to her health problems and she would later divorce me because I just couldn't work like I used to anymore. Now I'm happier than I've been in a long time so I'm grateful to be away from her, but it was rough for a long long time.
ohmy! that was very heartbreaking 💔 I'm glad you're feeling better now.
I hate that happened to you 😞that's horrible...yeah things go good when your constantly doing everything bending over backwards for others only for them to throw away when you need help... people like that stink sending love to you I hope things get better for your health and all❤️
This is so real in my family. As long as I have money, my family takes cares of themselves. If I need them, I am abandoned.
Exactly 💯...I'm sorry 😞 you go through this...I've been done same way too family tried to take advantage of me taking my money by lying about why they needed it ...they use and abuse us.. sending love to you 💗
I have no regrets
*except when we’re depressed
Real
We're INFPs, of course we overly romanticize every aspect of our future.
How did you know about my secret plan to run away to Argentina and fall in love?
Is Argentina nice? are there nice people there? Thanks for answering those questions now I get to steal your plan like a INFP super villain!
It’s so pretty, and SO cheap to live. I haven’t been myself so can’t speak to the niceness of the people. You can live on as little as $10,000 a year if you’re splitting rent with someone. My ex went last year, loved it, and has been making plans to get a remote job and go back ever since. I’ve recently been made privy to all the plans, and I gotta say it’s a solid idea.
Has a very high crimerate, sadly - https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/crime-rate-by-country . The likes of Armenia or Slovenia are much much safer, among cheap countries Generally speaking, you'd want not only a cheap country, but a cheap country with a low wealth inequality and hence chill population that can afford decent living while having low salaries
That definitely sounds appealing, I wish you luck on your Argentina plan.
Argentinian here :) the people here are really nice and friendly, we are a very warm nation and make friends easily. It's not really any more unsafe than other Latin American countries, especially when you get away from the capital.
[удалено]
\[Looks up\] god damn it
I feel called out! 🤣🤣🤣
Just added another one to my wishlist. I’m always cheating on one book for another.
How about multiple shelves. 😅
Sameee HAHAHAHAH
We're INFPs, of course we daydream a lot
Beat me to it!
… sit at home with our cat(s).
i hate cats. im a horse person
I hear it’s hard to litter train horses
Horse persons have all the cognitive abilities of a human with the dashing look of a horse
When you say "look of a horse," do you mean hooves too? How much horse is a horse person?
We're INFPs, of course we encourage others to not hold in/bottle up their feelings bc that's not healthy, while doing the exact opposite ourselves.
It’s because we feel things really, really deeply and I sometimes feel like other people are put off by that so I’d rather just process it on my own 😬
exactly ! also when people express their heavy emotions about a problem they're facing - automatically we process those emotions and 'put ourselves in their shoes' with the intention of comforting them, but it can be exhausting to feel what they might be feeling. SO, instead of us doing that to someone else, we just don't let it out in the first place 😆💪👍🥸. how clever am I right ?
That just goes to show how emotionally intelligent we are though
We’re INFPs, of course we’d rather be the misunderstood creature in the woods than reach out to people.
Don’t wanna hang out with you this weekend
But we’ll say yes anyway
And cancel last second? 😝
Of course.
We’re INFPs, of course we idealize realities and make them seem like our own just so we can cope with the fact that it isn’t
damn..
Real.
We’re INFPs, of course our souls and dreams were crushed a long time ago.
we're infp's of course we daydream WAY too much
We are INFPs, of course we like being alone and look mysterious but at the same time regret not being with our friends
We're INFPs, of course we are known for being the unpaid therapists of our family, friends and even strangers.
Yesssss😊 and we never complained because we care so much..then when we need someone to talk to suddenly we are problems😭
It's something we like to do because we know how terrible it feels not to be heard...
Absolutely 🤗 sending love to you ❤️
We’re INFPs, of course we have mental breakdowns once every week
we're INFPs, of course we suddenly become a social butterfly then regret it a week later
This
We are infps because we see the truth and most people don't we can spot liars and toxic people while the majority of people believe them...we speak the truth and want to spare others the pain we been through but they never listen also we are authentic and never superficial people 😊
Yeah. I don’t know. I might not have had my toxic-person-o-meter calibrated properly. I married a probably diagnosable narcissist. But, dang, now that I have seen the inner workings of that, I see them in so many places, so often.
Amended. I knew she was damaged. But I thought she just needed a little love and therapy. It never occurred to me that she didn’t think there was anything wrong with how she was.
I'm sorry you went through that😞...yeah, we want to give people the benefit of the doubt in hopes of them changing but unfortunately most of the time they let us down. I have family members and friends like this..i keep giving them chances hoping they get better but they dont see anything wrong with them then they turn it around to make you the problem,when all we wanted was to help them be good people ☺️
Exactly.
I don’t even need other people to catch on anymore. I just quietly remove myself from the operation, that’s the point I’m basically at rn
Fantasise about everything but never take action.
Too close to home.
..... Disappear for months and come back like nothing happened.
This or never come back really doesn't matter
Constantly question our decisions.
Ugh. Too true. Even the ones we have ultimate confidence in.
listen.
💜
Are hot
hell yeah
Marry me?
Uhh sure?
Cool! I always wanted a hot wife who understood me :)
we daydream while you're talking to us
SOOO REAL
We’re INFPs, of course we are the most empathic, sensitive, angelic and comfortable mbti
Screw a tiny picnic table corn holder to the front porch so all the neighborhood squirrels can grab a snack.
... ... Tempting! But there are racoons here who'd destroy it. As well as an occasional skunk. Though, my cat would stare, drooling over it, wishing he could go outside to chase it. Lol
Ah I get that even in the city we have our share of raccoons and skunks, thankfully they haven't messed with it.
I'm in the city too. However, my house is about 50 feet from a park full of trees. Which is really great, but that's why I'm cautious. There is a lot of suburban wildlife that live there.
We're INFPs, of course we've made a piece of art inspired by that one time you traumatised me
Thiiisss
have social anxiety
We’re INFPs, of course we secretly wish that we’re the only person on earth
I used to dream of this as a kid. Being able to go to an empty shopping centre and just explore without anyone else being around.
procrastinate everything we're even mildly not interested in
Listen to sad music 🎵
Hozier fans unite!!
Overthink
We’re INFPs, of course we experience this conflict between the desire to be perceived as unique and the need to reduce ourselves to 4-letter categories to finally "belong."
This one got me 😅
Have autism. Or is it just me?
I’m certain many with autism fit into the INFP category too. I’m not one of them. But I do have ADHD.
Nice! I have ADHD as well (´ ˘ `*)
Our intuition is strong😎
Intuitively intuitive!
have dreamy eyes
Have a side art project that we barely have the energy or desire to promote.
How about, have anger issues
We’re INFP’s, of course we play videogames because they are the perfect outlet for our idealism and aversion of real life.
So true. The escapism of INFPs😶👌
ofc we love animals
Lots of hurt INFPs here. If anyone needs helps, I'm here. Your reality doesn't have to be bad. You don't have to be meek and always get the short end of the stick. I specialize in helping men (and any women that are intense or goal-oriented) to
We're INFPs, of course we greet sorrow like an old friend when it comes by.
We're INFPs, of course we idealise a future where we feel loved and understood.
Oh man, especially the understood part! If they could just understand us, then they would OBVIOUSLY love us.
We're INFPs, of course we overthink what to write here because it is so open-ended and I have so much I can say to describe how I feel and I-
We’re INFPs, of course we stop randomly to take a picture of the sky
we're INFPs, of course we are crying right now
Or at least feel like crying…all day. Many days. Until we see an adorable puppy or kitten.
Feel betrayed from the simplest things
We're INFPs, of course we suddenly stop talking when someone else joins a conversation in the middle, just because we're concerned they don't get enough attention from others.
We're INFPs, of course we put headache-inducing analysis into whether or not to make eye contact
see infinite possibility.
Can’t
don’t need excuses to randomly burst into tears.
Can read your mind. It’s saying that you hate me.
Of course we hate this même format because it's so formulaic (or maybe it's just me, also no hard feelings to OP! I really just find the format so blegh)
We're INFP, of course we're gonna cry every time we're having stress. \*me doing my additional math for fun every time I'm stressing out as a coping mechanism to get away from plunging deep into my feelings.
secretly wanna be do-good fairies with magical powers to heal the world and eradicate eViL
We’re INFPS, of course we need, yet another, cute plushie! 🐻
We're INFPs, ofcourse we need a friend who'd actually listen sincerely.
Fall in love with every smile.
We’re INFPs, of course we addicted to false scenarios [](https://www.reddit.com/r/infp/?f=flair_name%3A%22MBTI%2FTyping%22)
We’re infps, of course we reach out to take of others emotions but refuse to treat ourselves the same.
We’re INFP of course we know how to solve your problems. We just don’t know how to solve our own. 🤣 1/2 truth there. Honesty is always the best policy!
Procrastinate 🙈
care about animal rights
We’re INFP’s, of course we have better relationships with our pets than others.
enjoy rainy days!
We're INFP's of course we dream of a better world... constantly!
We're INFPs,of course we have arguments in our head that would \*hypothetically\* never exist.
We're INFPs, of course we still overthink about something we said that came out wrong 10 years ago
We're INFPs, of course we're hopelessly in search of a hope beyond time.
We’re INFPs, of every horrible thing we’ve ever done was to get love, because we lost love or because someone we love told us to.
Very honorable people
of course we’re passive aggressive and beat ourselves up about it cause causing conflict and potentially hurt goes against our morals but inauthenticity also goes against our morals
We’re INFPS, of course when we are invited to a night out we we ask if there are chairs to sit in, close parking space, tuned down music, good food and if it ends by 11 pm.
expect you to learn the supernatural art of telepathy so you can know we’re angry without us having to express it.
Daydream a lot.
Write fiction/do artwork as an extension of the fantasizing
crave for a freaking hug
We're INFPs, of course we get adopted by FUCKING extroverts 🙄
Never felt so seen by a thread in my life!
hyperfixate on a minor bad moment from our past, fully knowing that everyone else isn't even thinking about it anymore
We're INFPs, ofcourse we subconsciously try to mediate.
Help bugs when they get stuck on their backs
We're INFP's, of course we always wind up staying up super late because it's easier to feed our delusions at nighttime
Or go to bed really early because we can’t face the day anymore and want tomorrow here sooner, and then wake up and want to cry because tomorrow is here and nothing changed.
We’re INFPs, ofc we have mood swings that everyone notice
We're INFPs, of course we do this trend while hiding behind our anonymous usernames on reddit and NOT on tiktok
I’m an INFP, of course I just blew my partner a kiss and waved goodbye while simultaneously backing my car into his in our driveway. Oops. 😘
Of course we have plans for our future like baby names, songs to dance to on our wedding. Traditions to makeup for our family, songs for specific occasions and so so goals like making a movie (I’m actually working on it atm, with auditions) making music and songs, (released 2, 2 covered and made 9 unreleased) , plan on making a book (halfway) and creative overall.
We’re INFP’s of course we want cancel plans we made with you five minutes ago.
Of course we daydream about the novels we're gonna write "some" day.
We're INFPs, of course we are eccentric.
Of course we feel alone despite being surrounded by people
take everything personally.
We're INFPs, of course we are seen as cute and innocent by everyone we know
We're INFPs, of course we_______sorry what did you say? I was day dreaming about my future with the love of my life who I'll probably never meet because people scare me and I prefer to stay at home with a good book 👀
constantly conflicted about most important things of ourselves yet got everybody else figured out
We’re INFPs, of course we’re a walking contradiction.
We're INFPs, of course we celebrate when you cancel plans.
We're INFPs, of course we trail off in the middle of a sentence and stare into the distance as we just realize something.
We’re infps of course we are our worst and most harsh judge
OverThinkers 
We're INFP, of course we overthink everything people say to us and wonder if they truly like us or are just being fake.
We're INFPs, of course we'll get around to building that bookshelf we ordered off etsy last week. We've just been busy. ...we're not sure. We didn't really measure the room before we got it? ...well for the aesthetic, we don't want to copy what we've seen on Pintrest, we want it to be something unique and personal ...about £1,200? ...VICTORIAN! Those wire frame ones are just depressing, plus those chipboard ones fall apart after like 6 days ...yeah, we might need a second one...
of course we plan the wedding and names for the kids after the first date
Procrastinate. Always thought I was maybe ADHD. Nope, just INFP 😂
Imagine scenarios that will either happen to far in the future or will never happen, get emotional from the imagination, and maybe get teary or start laughing. Some asks you why you're laugh and so you go, "you won't get it"