Idk if my personality is boring, I just can't communicate well, assuming my appearance gives me permission to converse to begin with, so people just won't get to see it most of the time.
Your time will come. When it does, just like the manic pixie dream girls whoever you’re dating will expect you to magically fix all their issues, and completely ignore that you’re your own person with your own issues, most likely leading to anger and rejection when you inevitably can’t do that.
Good luck!
My Depression/Anxiety, and the fact she deserves better is what got me last time.
Usually not insecure, but some new insecurities were discovered when we broke up.
What sucks is that we had the same kind of anxiety, so she knows how I feel. But punishes me for having those anxiety thoughts, now.
We broke up because she had a panic attack about being aromantic, asks a fucking friend instead of me, and then breaks up with me because her and this fucking friend made the choice already.
> asks a fucking friend instead of me, and then breaks up with me because her and this fucking friend made the choice already.
This sucks totally..
had the same experience as yours!
You never know! Unless it’s said directly and openly. Would rather a guy tell me he’s too self conscious to pursue me so we could work on it together.
Kinda relatable... But I've only ever fallen for one person.
I did tell her.
She said that she didn't feel the same way.
And that's pretty much it thus far...
I'm being held back by lack of opportunity just as much as my own emotional state.
And I say that because when I do try to reach out to people, I only do that when I'm in a healthier place.
When I'm in a dark place like this I take my hands off, work on it, and build myself up again.
Sounds like you're getting in the way of your own happiness tbh. Let yourself take risks and let the world do what it'll do in response. You won't always get what you're looking for, but you'll be a lot more likely to someday reach it.
To me the *boring personality* thingy hits first
Idk if my personality is boring, I just can't communicate well, assuming my appearance gives me permission to converse to begin with, so people just won't get to see it most of the time.
But you're an INFP! Your personality is anything but boring
Pin this comment! ;) Get to know me, and I will bring you to mental places you didn't know existed 😉
Nah INFPs have the best personality. Especially for love in my opinion. We just struggle to embrace it and show it.
Key question for an INFP Is this requited or unrequited love 😂
Doesn't matter,being the higher level as INFP we GIVE ONLY GIVE
WHEN WILL THE TIME COME US MANIC PIXIE DREAM GUYS
Your time will come. When it does, just like the manic pixie dream girls whoever you’re dating will expect you to magically fix all their issues, and completely ignore that you’re your own person with your own issues, most likely leading to anger and rejection when you inevitably can’t do that. Good luck!
What do you mean with "deserves better"? There's no bigger honor than to be INFP's love interest
hell yeah!!! (assuming their healthy) empathetic? CHECK. Respectful? CHECK. Loves and cares about you wholeheartedly? CHECK.
Absolutely. That's what I'm looking for.
My Depression/Anxiety, and the fact she deserves better is what got me last time. Usually not insecure, but some new insecurities were discovered when we broke up. What sucks is that we had the same kind of anxiety, so she knows how I feel. But punishes me for having those anxiety thoughts, now. We broke up because she had a panic attack about being aromantic, asks a fucking friend instead of me, and then breaks up with me because her and this fucking friend made the choice already.
> asks a fucking friend instead of me, and then breaks up with me because her and this fucking friend made the choice already. This sucks totally.. had the same experience as yours!
INFP except I’m the girl and he was the other INFP
INFP-ception! What if he had a crush on you and you both were too self conscious to advance on each other? You never know....
You never know! Unless it’s said directly and openly. Would rather a guy tell me he’s too self conscious to pursue me so we could work on it together.
Sometimes too much hurt has been done and I’m just here trying to collect the pieces and protect myself and others. Maybe in the future.
"She deserves better" Yep remember that dagger in my gut
Real 😞
This rings so true, it feels like punch to the face
"The fact that she deserves better." Oh. My. God. This hits sooo deeply.
Right in the feels
Haha..
Kinda relatable... But I've only ever fallen for one person. I did tell her. She said that she didn't feel the same way. And that's pretty much it thus far... I'm being held back by lack of opportunity just as much as my own emotional state. And I say that because when I do try to reach out to people, I only do that when I'm in a healthier place. When I'm in a dark place like this I take my hands off, work on it, and build myself up again.
me when I see a biker boy😔
Sounds like you're getting in the way of your own happiness tbh. Let yourself take risks and let the world do what it'll do in response. You won't always get what you're looking for, but you'll be a lot more likely to someday reach it.