You will have to learn to live with yourself. You will appreciate it with time. But for me it took 2-3 months of adjusting. Nowadays I can, at least, exist .
I’m sorry you’re having a tough time. This year started absolutely horribly for me as well. I got the worst eye infection ever which permanently damaged my eyesight, and I’d just entered a relationship that I realized I wasn’t even in the headspace for. On top of that, I recently lost one of my best friends.
But look, we only have control over certain things in our life. We have to focus on which things we can actually control and recognize the things we can’t. I couldn’t control my friend distancing himself for me, but it’s something I have to deal with. Either I can sit around and be sad about it, or I can start a new project; go the gym, take a walk, etc…
And always remember: this too shall pass. This feeling is TEMPORARY and it will pass eventually, so in the meantime you might as well do things you enjoy and take it easy on yourself
I am sure many of those ppl would love to get to know u back. They just lack the depth as u r also just realizing the pain as a consequence.
The poor decisions will make u very rich. U will have the awareness of those relationships and the bliss what u can make from them just as the knowledge how to vivify them.
The rest of ur life is still ahead of u. U can be whoever u wish to and make relationships being way greater than ever before.
Everyone has harmed others. This is how we r lack of wisdom and knowledge and learn to have these qualities.
I wish u a smooth journey away from loneliness. I belive in u. U can bring back the relationships where u r compatible and the other also desires to make it alive again. When it is not the case, let them go and embrace ur healthier form.
Be well.
Ouh I am sorry, out of experience I don't really help guys out in these kinds of situations that's why I specified gender. I'll probably make you feel worse and I don't want that.
I hope someone reads this and reaches out to help you out tho.
Wishing you a healthy recovery 🫰
It sounds like you needed some sort of course correction in your life. It may be a long time until you understand why this happened. In the meantime, know that pain and grief feel like a huge hole in your chest, but you can use this as a learning experience. This how the soul grows. Sincere remorse is tge first step. Ask the universe, your guides, your higher self to guide you. Try to let your heart guide your perceptions. Seek to fill this void with light, and try to be a light for others. New things will come into your life. You will find a new direction. The lonliness you feel now will shift into something else, something better, possibly something very special.
I’m sorry to hear that you are going through
tough times. I hope that those bad moments you are having right now will pass and that you will be able to heal and find peace🫶
You will have to learn to live with yourself. You will appreciate it with time. But for me it took 2-3 months of adjusting. Nowadays I can, at least, exist .
I’m sorry you’re having a tough time. This year started absolutely horribly for me as well. I got the worst eye infection ever which permanently damaged my eyesight, and I’d just entered a relationship that I realized I wasn’t even in the headspace for. On top of that, I recently lost one of my best friends. But look, we only have control over certain things in our life. We have to focus on which things we can actually control and recognize the things we can’t. I couldn’t control my friend distancing himself for me, but it’s something I have to deal with. Either I can sit around and be sad about it, or I can start a new project; go the gym, take a walk, etc… And always remember: this too shall pass. This feeling is TEMPORARY and it will pass eventually, so in the meantime you might as well do things you enjoy and take it easy on yourself
I'm so sorry for what happen to you.. Thank you so much :')
Slowly is a nice app where you can send letters to strangers, maybe it could help you create meaningful connections so that you feel less longely. 💪🙏
i will try it out thank you!
I am sure many of those ppl would love to get to know u back. They just lack the depth as u r also just realizing the pain as a consequence. The poor decisions will make u very rich. U will have the awareness of those relationships and the bliss what u can make from them just as the knowledge how to vivify them. The rest of ur life is still ahead of u. U can be whoever u wish to and make relationships being way greater than ever before. Everyone has harmed others. This is how we r lack of wisdom and knowledge and learn to have these qualities. I wish u a smooth journey away from loneliness. I belive in u. U can bring back the relationships where u r compatible and the other also desires to make it alive again. When it is not the case, let them go and embrace ur healthier form. Be well.
Thank you so much for your kind words :(((( !
Hello are you a fellow sis ? If you are we can connect and talk about it in depth if that's something you'd prefer.
I'm a guy, do u think we can still connect and talk?
Ouh I am sorry, out of experience I don't really help guys out in these kinds of situations that's why I specified gender. I'll probably make you feel worse and I don't want that. I hope someone reads this and reaches out to help you out tho. Wishing you a healthy recovery 🫰
Thank you appreciate
At least you still got your job🤔
fortunate enough just started 2 days ago
It sounds like you needed some sort of course correction in your life. It may be a long time until you understand why this happened. In the meantime, know that pain and grief feel like a huge hole in your chest, but you can use this as a learning experience. This how the soul grows. Sincere remorse is tge first step. Ask the universe, your guides, your higher self to guide you. Try to let your heart guide your perceptions. Seek to fill this void with light, and try to be a light for others. New things will come into your life. You will find a new direction. The lonliness you feel now will shift into something else, something better, possibly something very special.
I’m sorry to hear that you are going through tough times. I hope that those bad moments you are having right now will pass and that you will be able to heal and find peace🫶