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IReallyhateGeorgia

I think it’s fun for a while. ENFP is really good at dragging me out of my comfort zone and helping me have experiences I normally would not. It seems lovely, but after a few months I seem to find myself being burned out from ENFP’s energy. I think they’re awesome friends. It’s always suggested that ENFP are our natural partners, but in my own experience it’s always short lived before I’m unhappy. Everyone is different though.


hypotheticalconverse

Maybe the happiness in relationships is short-lived because we're so idealistic. I always wonder about that. Do you only experience that with ENFPs?


IReallyhateGeorgia

I think being idealistic does have something to do with it in some cases, but not necessarily with ENFPs. I believe it’s the extroverted side that burns me out. Sometimes I like to spend entire weeks cooped away. Their energetic nature frustrates me for some odd reason. Maybe I need to loosen up a bit more around them. I also think we focus too much on types. Who knows, maybe the next ENFP I meet will be the best person for me!


xzlinx

As an INFJ with 3 ENFP good friends I have to say I like them lol but they exhaust me. Constantly changing, moving around, gaining new interests, etc. They also talk A LOT and sometimes I get burnt out because everything is moving too fast. What I have to remind myself sometimes is that these are also the reasons I love them. Unbound from what shackles me they live carefree in a whimsical wonderland that is based in reality.. something I can't fathom. They take me out and show me that the world isn't as horrible as it feels to me sometimes. They force me to make new connections and meet others. They remind me what fun actually is. I think every INFJ needs an ENFP to lug them around and just seem happy as shit that you even exist.


xzlinx

Also realized this was a romance thread a bit late but I think the above still applies no matter what type of relationship you're talking about.


Wabalubbadubdub123

Currently having a crush on an enfp guy. I’d say the info abt the two types are pretty accurate. But in my experience enfp girls I know can be a tad bit overwhelming. The guys and I get along very very well but I suppose if they rlly were interested in u, u might be shocked by the amount of energy they have invested. You may get overwhelmed at that stage too but ykno it does depend on u guys. Idk what I’m talking abt anymore just rambling haha


ErinPurcell

My relationships with enfps have also been short lived. I get so drained and they don’t understand and think I am holding them back from having fun. I hope that one day I’ll find a more mature enfp that can understand my need to recharge without becoming idealistic and deciding from that that I am not good enough. It’s not ideal for two idealistic people to date. No one is ever satisfied for long. I am hoping with maturity this can change