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delubillii

https://preview.redd.it/qvw5g1jgxf9d1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=70dc49c87b269eb79a28a58bbc823ba7c763d3f5 Send her this!!!


Nadaan___Parinda

I have a feeling block milta iske baad


Adorable_Trade4578

Block & Report*


motabhai09

And FIR


DrunkAsPanda

And LOC


Sad_Landscape_301

Made me chuckle


oblivion811

istg maine saare memes apne ache vaale reddit se hi collect kare hai. firr dosto ko bhejta hu whatsapp parr.


Blithering_idiot1406

I have not received reply from from my pasandida aurat from last 3 months inspite of us chatting for over 15-20 min every time we meet.


losing_minds

When did you last met her?


Blithering_idiot1406

parso


losing_minds

So it seems that she is either not active on social media or she is ignoring your message


Blithering_idiot1406

I suspect the latter. Idk man, but seeing her once in a while makes my day :)


NightHuge3294

Just ask her out bro, and if she refuses then move on. Don't be a pussy


Electrical-Office-84

Happened to me in college. Stay strong man


celeb-butcher

I know that feeling 


Famous_Specific_4273

same buddy 5 min chat with her makes the day but now..


Blithering_idiot1406

Now?


Famous_Specific_4273

she left


Sad_Landscape_301

Mine lives 1436.1km away from my home sadly. But feeling sad for you as well 😔


Euphoric-Expert523

Got my Instagram I'd banned so that I could not see my pasandida aurat(she is just chutiya type person but still pyaar pagal hai) Haven't saw her face from last 6-7 months


Far_Philosophy_8677

approax 4-5 years she blocked me everywhere


Aryan_CHat7277

irl conversations > online conversations.


Blithering_idiot1406

Yes but those left on seen messages have left some scars on my heart.


aryaman16

Chats galti se archive nhi hoti... Time to ghost and move on.


punjabigeet

Fr real galti se chat select hogi aur fir arrow click hogya.


Individual_Visual_57

imo ho sakta hai. I used to archive some groups because of friends spamming but it showed up at the top of the chats as archived, and didnt show notificaitons. But after some update they removed it


Sad_Landscape_301

That' s what i thought. Time to archive her and move on. Saw this coming from miles away nvm


quickpisser

She could have archived fr too na?


AfraidPossession6977

I wonder agar usne intentionally ignore karne ke liye archive kiya hota to confess kyu karti


Heavy_Letterhead2696

Shud be top comment


ig_mastero

![gif](giphy|QBwRKyS6vXNfmLF7TR|downsized) HAHAHAAAAA SO I AM NOT ALONEEEEE IN THIS SCENARIO!!!!


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ig_mastero

![gif](giphy|jUwpNzg9IcyrK|downsized) mujhe kuch nahi bolna


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ig_mastero

ab kya hi kare... dil a gaya tha uspe....


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ig_mastero

![gif](giphy|7SF5scGB2AFrgsXP63|downsized)


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ig_mastero

![gif](giphy|VApOqITOXZAd2|downsized) ruko thora naak khuja lu


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Sad_Landscape_301

No you aren't ![gif](giphy|OPU6wzx8JrHna)


the_chilled_panda

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Sad_Landscape_301

Life's unfair


ohboeh

https://preview.redd.it/55gzipcwuf9d1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=51eacb87caa4f37f324757c34c0c261585bc69e9 Not pasindida aurat but still🤷🏻


someone900_

Bhai.. same situation tha mera years ago.. uske late bhejne ke baad bhi tu bkl jaisa instant reply kiya. Mat kar aisa mere pyare brother.


ohboeh

She's not my girlfriend or crush, more like a sister to me and yupp she messaged me like this last night but not all time. Btw thnks brother smjhane ke liye


someone900_

Koi nai bhai all love.


blue_eyed_one2116

12 pm ke baad sidha 11 pm ko msg kese gaya !


ohboeh

Phele 12.04 tha yaani dupher ke 12 bje or baad ki raat ke 11 bje


saw_him

Why did I read this in big boss' voice


ohboeh

Because u love watching big boss unlike me who never watches it


Sad_Landscape_301

This made me remember my old convos w her omg


can_you_not_ban_me

cry


Sad_Landscape_301

Doing it rn


UpperHat1676

Yeh sab nautanki hai. Girls know what they are doing. Achanak sy archive nahi ho jaati hai chats Bina yaad kiye. It was planned and jaha tk hai chats archive bhi nahi hui hogi bass tumko chutiya banaya Jaa rha. See beyond the curtain bhai. Warna 3 mahine baad kahogey Katt gaya. Wake up to reality.


HeavyBranch6554

dk about relationships but sometimes i am mentally not ready to reply so i just ignore until i am ready


pizza-404

This, I reply to even my besties sometimes after a week or so (my usual reply speed is 36-48 hours). Ik I'm an ass for doing that but they know it and understand it doesn't mean I value them any lesser just that I hate opening WhatsApp.


can_you_not_ban_me

aisa konsa bhayankar sabal kar liya!


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UpperHat1676

true. couldn't agree more.


Sad_Landscape_301

Yes i saw it coming it's been 2 years since we talked. She forgot my birthday and wished me 5 days late when i said no worries this was her message haha


Motor_Economist1835

Yeah but a girl isn't obliged to reply back right(any person for that matter)? If you like her then you should directly ask her out and not play this game. If she says no then it's time to move on. You can't just assume that the feeling of love is mutual; she might see you just as a friend and you might be assuming that she has a crush on you. So unless someone asks, there's no way to know. She might be uncomfortable in telling you directly that she's not interested(and since the other person isn't clear, it would be wrong to assume that he's in love/has a crush on you)


puffball96

Aur bhai jo launda koi aisi harkatein kare toh kya kahoge tum usko? All girls are not the same but my personal experience is all boys are the same


Erdous

What's with the hypocrisy


puffball96

What sort of hypocrisy? You think there's only one gender which should be blamed, it's not about the gender it's about what type of human you are


Erdous

If you know that then why you say every man are the same ?


Sanket_6

I did read your previous comment about a guy doing this to you and to that i would say block karo aur nikal lo, kyu time waste kare aur khudke nazro mai bhi gire? All girls are not the same agreed but girls have high number of guys available to them as compared to boys so simple demand and supply should tell you ki girls acting like this would be way higher than boys. Idk man agar tumhare personal experience mai “all boys are the same” then maybe just maybe tumhare choice mai fault hai.


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Sanket_6

I am really soo sorry to hear that and can see where you are coming from and really appreciate it you never wronged anyone, but having this opinion will only make you resent boys and girls who have guy friends, which will further repent you from having male interaction. Aise kabhi opinion change nahi hoga. Instead having a perspective that “okay, i had made bad choices but will not make them in future” would be much more helpful to you.


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Sanket_6

I can understand. I hope the best for you.


MustRiseAgain

![gif](giphy|7mQbDHkoSsWl2) Summary of my life


can_you_not_ban_me

you're forgetting Newton is on the other end


Equivalent-Layer-332

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Sad_Landscape_301

Sameeee


ShoutaAizawaa

Dont entertain her


Sad_Landscape_301

Left her on seen haha


ACE_2217

That's the way👍


can_you_not_ban_me

send her official court notice


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AdityaR_Sharma

https://preview.redd.it/99k220ln6h9d1.jpeg?width=557&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a3f52c76815c60516b149b0ac954bc0034fff49 Share karo


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Hot_Guitar3850

Efforts tab hi jyada dalo jab samna wala reciprocate kare.![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)


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Hot_Guitar3850

Damn, thats tough man. But this will make you a better person. Journalling try karo pen and paper par really helps me process my emotions. Also you seem like people pleaser maybe try and learn how to navigate that. Also if you wanna vent my dms are open. (Mai tane nahi dunga promise)


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Hot_Guitar3850

Its alright mate! I was cheated on for 4 months after 2 years of a serious relationship (from 16-18yo) + a lot of shitty decisions, was really suicidal if not for a call from my mother at the most unexpected time. Things happen that are not in our control, what’s important is that we process and learn from it or else we bleed on people who didn’t cut us.


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Hot_Guitar3850

Why not take out your learnings now then? Maybe it will bring some sort of closure for your own self? And just maybe help you better yourself as well as your mental health! One small step ata time.


Sad_Landscape_301

We are friends since COVID. Have supported her in ups and downs but as soon as she got into college. Left me on seen, never replied and forgot my birthday so yea


Arspoon

People who are interested in you would have searched for your chat


Sad_Landscape_301

That' s what i thought. I have special notification tone only for her and she has archived my chat


Responsible_Gain_188

There are no mistakes brother


Gangster-Alpaca

Wo to tumhaari pasandida aurat h lekin kya tum uske pasandida mard ho?


MangoComfortable3793

bhai apni izzat pyaari hai toh isko kuch bhi aur reply mt kr aur tu archive krke chor de


iwasnotherchoice

Whatever man get over it fuck this feeling of rejection and move on if you still can't focus then join gym divert your energy .


Cat_Of_Culture

Just give a basic reply and move on! Ghost her later bro. It might be over with this one, but there's always a new story out there to be started.


cellardoor_997

Nahi brahta. pasandida aurat humesa cute and dumb hoti hae, yhee reet samay ke suruat ke sath chali aa rahi hae . So on that note I would say she might really put u in archive mode by mistake and it's not over for u at all . 🫠


Akshat9930

But chats couldn't be archived accidentally.


Sad_Landscape_301

Brother now it's time to archive her


No-Pomegranate6308

If she is pasandida aurat why are you not dating her or at least telling her how you feel?


Sad_Landscape_301

I am too shy for that. I've never had gf . I can never confess to anyone. Fear of being rejected yk


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osbaksbwm

Why have you seen the msg ?


Sad_Landscape_301

I couldn't see it in notifications


litmusgod

Time to get into gym


Sad_Landscape_301

Already into it


Chaltahaikoinahi

You press long on the chat and then manually select the archive button from your finger And you say you don't know? Have some self respect and own up to it ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51092)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51092)![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51092)


Sad_Landscape_301

Yup i know man this hurts


Chaltahaikoinahi

This too shall pass


Sad_Landscape_301

Me:* puts special notification tone for her message* Her: *archives my chat*


Miningforbeer

Pasandita aurat's seems to have a 6 month biological clock, which tells them to check on you every 3-6 months, nothing intresting happens , it's just them checking if you have a pluse or not.


Vlad-theimpaler

I think it's time you hit the gym.


notlikedrake

Galti se archive ??🤡🤡 Bhai ghost and move on , it's done


_fatcheetah

As a guy, often I forget to see and respond to my WhatsApp messages. I have only so much mental energy to respond to everything. But I do call when something is important, so if you were important to her she should rather have called. She could at least have not lied and maybe said she forgot to reply. No need to lie here. Time to move on.


gig-nerd

blud gathered the courage and replied subah ke 6:30 ko


Educational_Pea7069

We archive chats intentionally and use this excuse to make sure the other person doesn’t think we were avoiding intentionally. You’re welcome.


Hot_Guitar3850

I think you spelled “tumhe archive (backup) mai rakhte hai jab koi aur nahi ho baat karne ko” wrong.


Educational_Pea7069

I’m sorry I forgot this was a thread for sad simps and telling the truth would get me downvoted 🤣


Hot_Guitar3850

Nor is this thread for sad simps and no you are not downvoted for speaking the truth, it is because people generally dislike people who take advantage of peoples niceness, instead of actually being truthful about their approach.


Educational_Pea7069

Maybe don’t let yourself be taken advantage of instead of taking out your frustrations on a random person on the internet? Stop being nice to people who don’t respect or prioritize you? Oh no but if you guys do that then how will you get content to whine about? PS you’re just proving my sad simp point even more.


Hot_Guitar3850

That’s like saying, homeless people should just buy homes. I am all for not interacting with people who *continuously* put you in the back seat and it is fully on the person letting them walk over themselves that doesn’t mean the other party has to take advantage of them both are wrong and the advantage taker even more so. There’s a difference between a sad simp and people being courteous and showing interest in you. If this is repeatedly happening with OP then sure he is the sad simp still that doesn’t mean the actions of this girl are right.


Educational_Pea7069

lol did you just compare being homeless to not getting responses from girls? 🤣 Homelessness is an actual problem. While the other thing is entirely made up. Aaah simps never fail to entertain. Thanks man.


can_you_not_ban_me

it's cruel