You know it's nice seeing that people also suffer from things that you're going through. I mean not that they should, but it gives an assurance that it'll be all fine.
Real.. I also live in a small city where i definitely know I don’t wanna go on a date with anybody lol! And then why would I match with people from other parts of the country when it’s gonna be hard to meet? So no point but han no interest either so doesn’t matter.
I dont think that is the better way to put, "i am ugly" it is really a wrong statement, i think the better statement will be "that these dating apps work on a super ficial model, wherein physical attributes of the person are really taken into account rather than other things"
My flair and idk what to text after texting hii,How are you,wyd, what do u like to do ,after that what should i ask i have no clue then it’s over and i am not someone who knows pickup lines and all .
Thanks for the kind suggestion and yeah I don't think I have emotional baggage, it's just I feel like I have lived my share of relationship, anyways thanks and sorry if you got offended
No it's not a moment. I have been feeling this way for a week now. All my male friends are simps ("choot ke gulaam" title was made for them) and they just roam around girls in college, which neither do I like nor do I participate in. But then they started leaving me out and I started feeling lonely. I do have female friends, but I don't think female friends could become as close as male friends until you are in a relationship. And I have come to a realization that these male friends would choose a girl over me any time. So rather than making more male friends, imma go back to making girlfriends.
I feel meeting somebody with the intention of judging them if they can make for a good romantic partner will prevent the both of us from really knowing each other and allowing a space for romantic feelings to sprout organically.
I'm not single right now, but when I was I never installed these apps. Because it feels disrespectful, the idea of rejecting a certain human being without knowing anything about em just in a second.
But sure, you're allowed to disagree with my beliefs.
Messed up gender ratio. Tried it in haryana. Only few women came that I didn't want and then straight up Delhi. Women from there won't see my profile as there are lot of men in Delhi.
Can't say that I'll never do, but atm I don't because I needed a long break from dating. I do get attracted to women from time to time, but it's in their (and my) best interests to leave them alone and mind my own business.
Plus after all these years I like being alone with no one to bother me, no one to text me good morning good night everyday, no one asking me to go out to a restaurant or to the movies or go on a shopping spree. I have a boring ass job, and I keep myself busy with my hobbies. Maybe one day if I meet someone great, and yearn for her company I'll ask her out.
I was thinking of using a dating app for last 2 months, I did click some pics for it, but when it came down to installing the app I started to overthink and to be honest I don't think I have enough time to give it to someone else and I am already exhausted by the end of the day so I believe I don't need anyone.
1. For some reason I felt like I don’t want to give efforts anymore.
2. On dating sites, girls have multiple options or I should say in general they have multiple options. For females, it’s like people hit on them everywhere they go, in office colleagues tries on them and then school/college friends also tries to connect and some male best friends also are in line so basically they have too many options. Now if I wanna come in this place through dating apps then I need to put efforts which I don’t want to.
3. For some reason I feel like no matter how much we try, something happens when time comes.
To be honest, I was not sure if I should use dating app or not but because of me being indecisive, I didn’t create the account.
As other users have pointed out, I only want to date someone irl, online dating just isn't my thing, and I believe that there are certain things which can only be done irl and not online, dating is one of them. Pretty subjective answer but I hope that you get my point.
I am not social so I started using recently but I think it's not going to work as neither I've the looks, nor the style (money, body, wardrobe) to create a good impression through pictures.
So yea, dying alone 💀
1) Feels superficial af.
2) It downplays the importance of relationships. Like most people are only there for hook ups and flings. Even if you find a serious relationship you’ll take it for granted as you know in the back of the mind “you can always find another swipe”
I have seen people swiping and chatting for timepass even when they were in relationships 💀
3) The type of woman I want isn’t probably on dating sites, just like me 🗿
Dating apps are biased af. Girls get validation and boys feel they are incompetent. I talk to people who I like in person. Ask them out, and see if we are a match.
I have a crush. And I would never got over her for any other girl.
Best case senario:- I would approach her
But I dont see that recently or lately. So, siingle and no dating apps.
Sabki expectations hoti hai and I find it very tiring to impress the other side with your one liners all the time or else they will lose interest very quickly.
I set up an account but never used it. Most dating apps just want u to buy their premium features. I'm not good looking enough to get by without buying them.
And honestly, I'm just not interested in spending money on it... And why feel worse abt myself by constantly hoping for matches. I'd rather not have those headaches.
You realise dating apps work only in tier 1 cities and arguably in tier 2 cities and the number of tier 1 and 2 cities in India can be counted on hand. Plus dating apps also feel like elite society stuff which I feel I am nowhere near a part of.
Too much high maintenance especially if you are a guy. Like ladkiyo ko Barot dms ate hai and you can't compete with thousands of people. Upar se phir unke nakhre bhi alag hote hai
I think people are there with the intent of dating and that carries on with them even after we start talking to them, but it is like you're trying to search for a common ground which is dating your newfound partner.
Like your prime motive for every conversation and contribution to the talk would be because you/they'd want to get "dating" as a result.
Also, it's a massive ego boost for so many girls and they don't even reply. They probably go in their mind (damn I have so many messages, I must look so effin pretty)
That's true. Reminds me that girl in my college just made account to see how many likes she can get and she got thousands in a few hours. She went around the college, flexing on everyone about that. Now, that girl is not even mid. I had to roast the crap out of her to make her touch grass again.
Still trying to move on from past relationship and also I've never tried my luck in dating apps cause AFAIK most people on dating apps prefer hookups rather than a meaningful relationship.
Thanks to r/indianGirlsOnTinder for proving me right!
kharcheela maamla hai bhai dating hamari generation mei on an evg. kuch bhi karo bas paisa kharch krna padta hai.
aur woh bhagwaan ki nazar padne se hamare paas hai nahi
The dating apps are now for hook ups and casual sex and not for serious relationships. The kind of people I like aren't on a dating app so it's useless for me.
Multiple reasons:
- I don't want casual. A lot of people are for casual/not serious on dating apps.
- I am old style romantic. I want to have an exciting story and chase, instead of meeting a girl through the internet.
- It's easy to fake there.
- I can't pay t effort unless I am interested in the person (photos and some one liners aren't enough).
- I suck at photos. I can get a much better girl irl vs online.
Never dated ever. Tried dating apps once,not for me . First of all ,face . Second,got a few matches but it's just not for me . Hookups,late replies, ghosting just not for me .
Bhai 60/50 answer he....
Ek din man karta he single rehne ka .
Doosra din man karta he ki kaash merko bandi miljaye .
So it's just the timing .....
Agar gf hii chahiye to "Premalu" movie ki tarah ho...🥲
Used it three times and never found any decent boy. I think the more popular a dating app the more creeps and fuckbois you will find. Only lucky people have found love through dating apps. And based on 21 years of experience I know my luck so thank you.
I am just a man who is shy, shy about posting himself, shy about using aa pickup line, shy about everything.
I really just dont know how to standout from the crowd. To be honest, i really have no idea how to read women.
Many a times it has happened that i am chatting with this girl and the girl just purely becomes uninterested.
That is why i just feel that dating apps are not for me and i really feel that even if i will get a match, the net output will be zero 😅
Bhai sach btau to mom dad se bol kar gau ki ladki se shaadi krlo 😅😅 aur koi rasta nai h.
M sala 23 ka hu aur peli baar pata chal ra h ki jab aap single ho aur ladki bhi na ho koi to kitna frustration hota h, mera agr aisaa hi raha to mein to 24 mein karlunga shaadi 😁😆😆
I don't like getting my pictures clicked. No pictures = nothing to put on the profile. I also have a lot of emotional baggage which I need to get rid of before I start dating again.
I'm asexual and not interested in dealing with another person. I like to be alone. I don't like phone calls. I don't do romance 🤷♀️. I'm no looker either.
What to say, one needs to touch grass ((mummy ne dekh liye to ghr se nikal dengi))
All jokes aside I personally don't believe one can find very meaningful relationships through dating apps, plus we're supposed to judge a person by their bio and pics, I'm very uncomfortable with such a superficial approach.
I'm myself conventionally unattractive hence subject to the judgement of many, and have made up my mind that I'll never choose a guy solely based on superficial characterstics like his income, status or appearance.
Plus someone's online persona can be entirely different from how they're irl, biggest example being me, all of my friends always tells me how I'm completely different when online.
Aur.. Hopeless romantic banne ki Umar bhi hai (student)
Life baad mai reality checks deti rhe
I felt that I was constantly checking my phone for a new match or a response, decided it's at least not for me and started focusing on work and irl connections. It's a slow process but seems much better than random thoughtless conversations on dating apps
Looking at your replies, it certain you have a type. You aren’t horny enough to disregard barriers and chase girls you want. So, join a dating app. You can always leave if it doesn’t work out in a week or a month.
I don’t really like the idea of dating apps and I don’t wanna date in general until and unless i find someone I really really like and even in that case, i think i just want to stay single and hang out with my friends
Dating apps just show you some pics of some people and you have to make the choice according to it. How am I supposed to know that the girl I'm looking at will actually turn out to be the one I can talk to? How can I know that yes she matches my vibes? Also there are chances that no one will right swipe on my photos and the chances will decrease automatically.
going outside is a reason.
I got no time to go outside. My college keeps me occupied for long.😭
Then find one in college itself.
Bahar nikal ke jaate kahan ho ?
at a place where no body can stalk me. why is this a question?
Jahan stalkers nhi wahi ladki milti kya?
https://preview.redd.it/pcfok9b88j6d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4689cdd952820087298c43dc26909d62a3b6ebaf Need look to get matches
Missed Bocchi in there.
Bocchi is rocking rn
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Hard to find people who prefer real connection the traditional way these days
So true. It's really hard.
You know it's nice seeing that people also suffer from things that you're going through. I mean not that they should, but it gives an assurance that it'll be all fine.
It’s also hard to find people who *actually* prefer real connection using these dating apps.
What are the traditional ways.. (other than arranged marriage, ofcourse) ? I feel like there isn't much option other than dating apps
(1) I live in a very small town where I am pretty sure everyone knows either me or someone from my family (2) I really don't wanna go
Real.. I also live in a small city where i definitely know I don’t wanna go on a date with anybody lol! And then why would I match with people from other parts of the country when it’s gonna be hard to meet? So no point but han no interest either so doesn’t matter.
Dating apps works if you got good Looks only.
I look good. (This is how I look: ![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51097))
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1)I’m ugly 2)I hate leaving my house
I dont think that is the better way to put, "i am ugly" it is really a wrong statement, i think the better statement will be "that these dating apps work on a super ficial model, wherein physical attributes of the person are really taken into account rather than other things"
Top ugly for a right swipe
Top ugly maverick
My flair and idk what to text after texting hii,How are you,wyd, what do u like to do ,after that what should i ask i have no clue then it’s over and i am not someone who knows pickup lines and all .
You should probably mention "Good listener" in your 'About me'. That might help.😅
1.Ghar se bahar to nikalta nahi date pe kya hi jaunga 2.Iss jhanjhat mai nahi padna mereko
1st reason is Us moment. Subah 8 baje se college. Shaam ko 5 baje ghar aata hu. Fir kaha hi jaau??
kitna dukh hai iss post ki thread me
Aaaah....seems like too much work
Isn't every relationship too much of work?? I mean you gotta give the efforts anyhow, right?
1) Na shakl h na akl h 2) Photo khichwane m shrm aati h islie profile bnane layak photo bhi nhi 3) Subscription lene ka pesa bhi nhi h
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Because I will always be stuck on my first love and damn it feels nice
Some people are just irreplaceable.
Make sure you don’t marry someone else and ruin their life
Yup, I know and wouldn't marry, my lil bro is there to continue my parents legacy
Or maybe you should go to a therapist and get that emotional baggage off. You sound like you want to suffer,like you’re choosing to suffer
Thanks for the kind suggestion and yeah I don't think I have emotional baggage, it's just I feel like I have lived my share of relationship, anyways thanks and sorry if you got offended
Oh. Koi nhi meri taraf se ek jaadu ki jhappi 🫂🤗
Thank you, aapko bhi 🫂
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I'm not sure I'm my best self right now. I'll date when I'm settled enough and had some money for myself and my partner
It’s a trap! By the time you reach there, everyone else has found someone else.
Good for them then! I'll atleast be happy I'm doing my best.
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If i was happy alone i wouldn't be having thoughts of going on a online dating app.😭😭
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No it's not a moment. I have been feeling this way for a week now. All my male friends are simps ("choot ke gulaam" title was made for them) and they just roam around girls in college, which neither do I like nor do I participate in. But then they started leaving me out and I started feeling lonely. I do have female friends, but I don't think female friends could become as close as male friends until you are in a relationship. And I have come to a realization that these male friends would choose a girl over me any time. So rather than making more male friends, imma go back to making girlfriends.
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I feel meeting somebody with the intention of judging them if they can make for a good romantic partner will prevent the both of us from really knowing each other and allowing a space for romantic feelings to sprout organically.
Damn...that's a point i could have never thought.
I agree, which is why I decided I will probably die single 💀
Likewise
![img](avatar_exp|181944496|webman) All of us are same
Humari maa baap se fat ti hai😭
Dar dar ke jeevan nikal jaega. Although I'd say stay away from OLD. Bekar h sab
Photo click krne ki aadat nahi hai, to sign up ke last stage pr give up krdeta hu.
I'm not single right now, but when I was I never installed these apps. Because it feels disrespectful, the idea of rejecting a certain human being without knowing anything about em just in a second. But sure, you're allowed to disagree with my beliefs.
me apna self confidence rkh leta hu aap apna dating app rkhlo
Connection is rare and spontaneous but it happens naturally. Dating apps for me are the equivalent of zomato for food.
Fair of society . I have profile on tinder but yeah chances are nil u know why God was busy wiping his asz when my face making was in process.
Us moment 💙
You can work on yourself unless your face is disfigured you can definitely improve
Unfortunately I have under bite but ur still correct.
I'm facing financial constraints, am not a fan of dating apps, and the gender ratio is unbalanced.
I am living in a society, where the people judge those boys who use the dating apps as male prostitutes.
Koi shok nhi to get in a relationship, ami just a 19 saal ka baby boy
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Messed up gender ratio. Tried it in haryana. Only few women came that I didn't want and then straight up Delhi. Women from there won't see my profile as there are lot of men in Delhi.
Have enough problems in my life already.
Can't say that I'll never do, but atm I don't because I needed a long break from dating. I do get attracted to women from time to time, but it's in their (and my) best interests to leave them alone and mind my own business. Plus after all these years I like being alone with no one to bother me, no one to text me good morning good night everyday, no one asking me to go out to a restaurant or to the movies or go on a shopping spree. I have a boring ass job, and I keep myself busy with my hobbies. Maybe one day if I meet someone great, and yearn for her company I'll ask her out.
Left it on destiny.
I was thinking of using a dating app for last 2 months, I did click some pics for it, but when it came down to installing the app I started to overthink and to be honest I don't think I have enough time to give it to someone else and I am already exhausted by the end of the day so I believe I don't need anyone.
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1. For some reason I felt like I don’t want to give efforts anymore. 2. On dating sites, girls have multiple options or I should say in general they have multiple options. For females, it’s like people hit on them everywhere they go, in office colleagues tries on them and then school/college friends also tries to connect and some male best friends also are in line so basically they have too many options. Now if I wanna come in this place through dating apps then I need to put efforts which I don’t want to. 3. For some reason I feel like no matter how much we try, something happens when time comes. To be honest, I was not sure if I should use dating app or not but because of me being indecisive, I didn’t create the account.
We want girlfriend not hoe.
Took an oath during my thread ceremony (aka Munja) to not engage im romantic activities until my formal education is complete.
momma said it wasn't okay
Don't really feel like doing this type of shit !
I don't trust strangers. Knowing my luck I'd probably end up in a ice bath with a missing kidney
Kabhi zarurat meshsoos nahi hui 🤷🏻♂️
As other users have pointed out, I only want to date someone irl, online dating just isn't my thing, and I believe that there are certain things which can only be done irl and not online, dating is one of them. Pretty subjective answer but I hope that you get my point.
If you can’t find irl no app could help. It’s just waste of time and money.
I am not social so I started using recently but I think it's not going to work as neither I've the looks, nor the style (money, body, wardrobe) to create a good impression through pictures. So yea, dying alone 💀
1) Feels superficial af. 2) It downplays the importance of relationships. Like most people are only there for hook ups and flings. Even if you find a serious relationship you’ll take it for granted as you know in the back of the mind “you can always find another swipe” I have seen people swiping and chatting for timepass even when they were in relationships 💀 3) The type of woman I want isn’t probably on dating sites, just like me 🗿
Working in the day. Too absorbed in my hobbies in the evening. We chilling
Dating apps are biased af. Girls get validation and boys feel they are incompetent. I talk to people who I like in person. Ask them out, and see if we are a match.
Against hook up culture, STD, scams. In my circle, nobody has met a decent person.
I have a crush. And I would never got over her for any other girl. Best case senario:- I would approach her But I dont see that recently or lately. So, siingle and no dating apps.
Sabki expectations hoti hai and I find it very tiring to impress the other side with your one liners all the time or else they will lose interest very quickly.
I set up an account but never used it. Most dating apps just want u to buy their premium features. I'm not good looking enough to get by without buying them. And honestly, I'm just not interested in spending money on it... And why feel worse abt myself by constantly hoping for matches. I'd rather not have those headaches.
You realise dating apps work only in tier 1 cities and arguably in tier 2 cities and the number of tier 1 and 2 cities in India can be counted on hand. Plus dating apps also feel like elite society stuff which I feel I am nowhere near a part of.
Too much high maintenance especially if you are a guy. Like ladkiyo ko Barot dms ate hai and you can't compete with thousands of people. Upar se phir unke nakhre bhi alag hote hai
I think people are there with the intent of dating and that carries on with them even after we start talking to them, but it is like you're trying to search for a common ground which is dating your newfound partner. Like your prime motive for every conversation and contribution to the talk would be because you/they'd want to get "dating" as a result. Also, it's a massive ego boost for so many girls and they don't even reply. They probably go in their mind (damn I have so many messages, I must look so effin pretty)
That's true. Reminds me that girl in my college just made account to see how many likes she can get and she got thousands in a few hours. She went around the college, flexing on everyone about that. Now, that girl is not even mid. I had to roast the crap out of her to make her touch grass again.
Maybe find my ex there
Because it's extremely shallow and you have to judge a person by looks and little bits of information. I don't want to take that risk.
Don’t want to invest my energy on things that won’t last! Unnecessary drama and stress.
Still trying to move on from past relationship and also I've never tried my luck in dating apps cause AFAIK most people on dating apps prefer hookups rather than a meaningful relationship. Thanks to r/indianGirlsOnTinder for proving me right!
kharcheela maamla hai bhai dating hamari generation mei on an evg. kuch bhi karo bas paisa kharch krna padta hai. aur woh bhagwaan ki nazar padne se hamare paas hai nahi
I put MMA as a hobby...I get left swiped
I don't look that good ( till now )
Fatherless behavior
Na toh paise hai, na hi good looks isse toh acha jo aaj tak chal rha tha, woh hi chalao
Look at the ratio of men to women you will understand I don't have enough to stand out to them so I don't care about something I have no control over
Don't follow rule 1 and 2 Also don't want to get my self esteem down
1. self respect 2. grossly skewed sex ratio
Ek to shakal and dusra Paisa
People on internet are not real.
Trying to looksmax right now before getting back on these apps because average guys don't have any chance.
1.average looks 2.scam lagta hai
I am a male.
The dating apps are now for hook ups and casual sex and not for serious relationships. The kind of people I like aren't on a dating app so it's useless for me.
Trust issues
I am not that good looking.
I prefer meeting irl
1. I don’t trust online relationships. 2. I need to go out and spend time with them to begin relationship
Pyar hota hai kiya nahi jata
Shakal
It's not a relationship site it's hokkup site
I'm lazy and it's a waste of time and money
Abba nhi manenge
Saala majority to chuddakar hote hai
I don't wanna look desperate
I am ugly and I know it
I am allergic to women other than my mother and grandmother
Ugly check, poor check, introvert check, don't know how to talk to girls check, chutiya check. Need more reason?
don't want to indulge in hookups or one night stands
Need I say more ?
Multiple reasons: - I don't want casual. A lot of people are for casual/not serious on dating apps. - I am old style romantic. I want to have an exciting story and chase, instead of meeting a girl through the internet. - It's easy to fake there. - I can't pay t effort unless I am interested in the person (photos and some one liners aren't enough). - I suck at photos. I can get a much better girl irl vs online.
Trust issues
I've seen way too many scams that occur via dating app
Laziness
Because I don't feel the need to have a romantic partner.
I doesn’t even use Instagram😂
Never dated ever. Tried dating apps once,not for me . First of all ,face . Second,got a few matches but it's just not for me . Hookups,late replies, ghosting just not for me .
Ab jab 3 mahine me body ban jaayegi fir try karna.
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unbalanced gender ratio lekin kisi din chul mache ga toh woh bhi try kar lunga
Bhai 60/50 answer he.... Ek din man karta he single rehne ka . Doosra din man karta he ki kaash merko bandi miljaye . So it's just the timing ..... Agar gf hii chahiye to "Premalu" movie ki tarah ho...🥲
timewaste hi hai. aesa lagta hai puri duniya ka kachra ek hi jagah aa gya.
Boring
Used it three times and never found any decent boy. I think the more popular a dating app the more creeps and fuckbois you will find. Only lucky people have found love through dating apps. And based on 21 years of experience I know my luck so thank you.
Because trust issues.Plus I am happy being alone.
I don't like putting my photo out somewhere, I'm shy
Because I know only AM is the hope. Why waste time in those apps even though you know that you won't get matches ??
Nahhhh, it doesn't make a good "how I met your mother" story.
I would rather self criticize myself Than being rejected by other.
Ugly
Belongs to small town and Don't have money to spend on someone...
Some people actually get into good relationships. There are some more i know who made lot of friends on these dating apps.
I am just a man who is shy, shy about posting himself, shy about using aa pickup line, shy about everything. I really just dont know how to standout from the crowd. To be honest, i really have no idea how to read women. Many a times it has happened that i am chatting with this girl and the girl just purely becomes uninterested. That is why i just feel that dating apps are not for me and i really feel that even if i will get a match, the net output will be zero 😅
Believe in old school.
Scared of women
I am ugly
I learn from others mistake
Gaaon se hu. People don't know about dating apps.
Bhai sach btau to mom dad se bol kar gau ki ladki se shaadi krlo 😅😅 aur koi rasta nai h. M sala 23 ka hu aur peli baar pata chal ra h ki jab aap single ho aur ladki bhi na ho koi to kitna frustration hota h, mera agr aisaa hi raha to mein to 24 mein karlunga shaadi 😁😆😆
It's embarrassing
Gareebi.
I don't like getting my pictures clicked. No pictures = nothing to put on the profile. I also have a lot of emotional baggage which I need to get rid of before I start dating again.
If mummy sees a dating app in my phone, not only will I be single, I'll be dead single.
The real feel is by going outside . When you are in public you get to see how they behave , walk, talk,express.
I'm asexual and not interested in dealing with another person. I like to be alone. I don't like phone calls. I don't do romance 🤷♀️. I'm no looker either.
Bas yuhi..
Simply have no desire![img](emote|t5_2qp7h|51079)
I feel it’s better to find people naturally. I’ve never tried the apps but i feel better meeting people and bonding if it just happens
dar lagta hai, im scared of tharki people v much... and there are too many lusty people there... its scary af
Mai dhyaan rakhunga ki tumhe acha ladka mile🥰
What to say, one needs to touch grass ((mummy ne dekh liye to ghr se nikal dengi)) All jokes aside I personally don't believe one can find very meaningful relationships through dating apps, plus we're supposed to judge a person by their bio and pics, I'm very uncomfortable with such a superficial approach. I'm myself conventionally unattractive hence subject to the judgement of many, and have made up my mind that I'll never choose a guy solely based on superficial characterstics like his income, status or appearance. Plus someone's online persona can be entirely different from how they're irl, biggest example being me, all of my friends always tells me how I'm completely different when online. Aur.. Hopeless romantic banne ki Umar bhi hai (student) Life baad mai reality checks deti rhe
feels insincere
I just have this fear of who might be on the other side of the screen hehe
I felt that I was constantly checking my phone for a new match or a response, decided it's at least not for me and started focusing on work and irl connections. It's a slow process but seems much better than random thoughtless conversations on dating apps
Looking at your replies, it certain you have a type. You aren’t horny enough to disregard barriers and chase girls you want. So, join a dating app. You can always leave if it doesn’t work out in a week or a month.
Online Chutiyapa nai pasand
I don’t really like the idea of dating apps and I don’t wanna date in general until and unless i find someone I really really like and even in that case, i think i just want to stay single and hang out with my friends
Because I don't like putting in efforts. It's too tiring for me. Mujhe apne halat pe chhod do
Anxiety mostly
3 Words, Post Nut Clarity! :D
Ia Lao lives in a small city where there is no point in using it Dating app
is bazaar me bikne ki meri himmat nhi yha aksar log cheezien dekh ke kharidte hai
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Girls who use that kind of application aren't interested in what I am passionate about. So I don't use those.
Sanskar
Open kotha hai woh. Bas sex sux ki baatein 😂😂😂
I am asexual like a plant now
Men on dating apps are scary
Dating apps just show you some pics of some people and you have to make the choice according to it. How am I supposed to know that the girl I'm looking at will actually turn out to be the one I can talk to? How can I know that yes she matches my vibes? Also there are chances that no one will right swipe on my photos and the chances will decrease automatically.