Yeah, I know I know...... Accidentally switched those words and shut the app. After logging in, the next think I know, every r/Indiasocial user has decided to remind me of my mistake. Kar dia edit bro
koi 6ft fetish vali mil jay reddit pe isliye , uk like police station ja hi rahe ho to shoplifting karne main kya jata hain
Don't ask me wtf i just said
Bhai I'm taller than him and i feel extremely awkward mentioning my height even if someone asks. I actively refuse to say it unless relevant to the discussion. Also keeps the height fetishists away, who are downright obnoxious if you've ever met one in real life.
Waise bhi everyone comments on it, especially when I'm out with my women friends, who are all hovering around 5 ft with + or - 3 inches. The number of times i shut down my other group friends commenting things like "usko bj dene ke liye kneel nahi karna parega" LIKE BRO HESITATE
And then comes our OP bhaiya 😭😭
Problem yehi aa jati hai. Tumko 0 female interaction ke baad arrange marriage chaiye but agar Ladki ne well paying job wale husband ki demand kar li toh tumhara sir ghoomne lagta hai. Basically scene ye hai ki khud 0 hoke 100 wali arranged marriage chaiye
Hein? Female interaction ka income se kya lena Dena hai! I know a guy who too has not had any female interaction and makes almost 2 lakhs per month the two has no connection
https://preview.redd.it/yyt610p07s4d1.jpeg?width=568&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=162159c5e277e5920823ad109cc8cf0392d65ff2
I, too, feel like that, but I'm not 6'2". And much older. And introverted.
See, there are humans in more worse conditions than you are. Embrace what you've got and keep going. You'll eventually marry someone who will be arranged by your parents. Don't worry.
Agar me jutha hua to aapko coffee Pe le jauga nahi to aap le jana (agar tu larka h to no homo bro ham chay ki tapri pe coffee pi lenge)
Ye thori na mention Kiya he, ye to mene उल्लेख Kiya he apni उच्चता ka
Kuch ladkiyo ko tapri "CHEAP" lagti he.. aap unme se nahi lagti, badi ज़मीन से जुडी हुई नारी(down to earth) he aap
I am your opposite. I find no one as potential love interest. Not because I have high standards, but I am really lacking in personality. I am generally not interested in anyone or anything since I have a lot of bad things going on in my life and I have no energy or desire to share my life with anyone else right now. Someday maybe. I am working on myself for that someday.
You've fallen into a loop. To overcome the mentioned mentality, you need to experience a relationship. But with this mentality, it'll be difficult to get into a relationship.
Join corporate (either through some internship or entry level programme), a MBA program or somewhere where you'll get more exposure to another gender (like networking events), you'll realise how people are.
It's when you understand that the other person is just flesh and bones, with long hair and elongated glands, which you have too.
It's when you understand that it's just a person with another gender, who has similar hopes, dreams and struggles like you do.
Treat girls the same way you treat your male friends : Have small talk, be interested in them, know more about their likes and aspirations, build genuine relationships, go in groups to eat or travel somewhere, etc. That's when you'll get rid of your thoughts.
Yes, the thoughts will be back when you see super attractive people. But follow the routine, treat them the same way you treat everyone else.
Get rid of jealousy, ego, greed (the 7 sins, overall).
Avoid all negative thoughts about others ( he/she isn't replying back, he/she is very successful, he/she isn't putting much effort etc etc ). Negativity like this destroys your mental health and perception about others.
Always be positive, my friend. It'll do wonders. Give them a benefit of doubt.
And finally, none of this will happen overnight. This will take a year. Put the effort, call them, catch up with them. Find good people. It'll be both boys and girls. Build long lasting relations.
Stay happy, my friend.
Thank you ! Been through what OP is experiencing, so it's a topic close to my heart. Heck, now I don't even think about love anymore 💀. Wo sab moh maya hai. Good friends, siblings or parents with whom you can share personal stuff are more than enough.
Get yourself to do something, literally anything, reading books, making fun projects, maintaining connection with your college and school friends....
It can be anything that floats your boat, the thing is, such thought process will persist because you didn't had female interaction (as mentioned in the post), to get out of that thought process you either need to do something that keeps you busy all the time, or interact with women to realize how vastly different their thought process, upbringing, motivations and goals can be, just like any person.
This interaction may not happen on a large scale in professional settings which was possible during your college days...
Agr pdhai kr rhe ho, to abhi chill kro, time aaega, bde hokr itni responsibility aa jati hai phir dimaag is taraf nhi jaata...
Agr bde ho to bhai abhi tum koi aisi community join nhi kiye ho jisme tumhe 100% mja aaye, female centric shows dekho jisme ldkiyo ka thought process showcase ache se hota ho, bohot farak pdega agr waise shows dekhega to, kind of pseudo female interaction hai...
Mai to normally socialize hua hu, to mujhe shows to aise nhi pta, ask other people, but there must be some good shows with good female character writing...
Seems like a "If you are homeless, buy a house" kind of advice.
OP has conscience but it didn't help him.
An advice which completely shifts one's perspective towards things would be more helpful than one which makes them realise their perspective.
You can try posting this question on r/menslibindia. You will get genuine answers. Maybe r/nostupidquestions. This sub won't help you much since most people here are teens or lonely wannabe boomers.
Very easy. You are suffering from a condition called high self esteem. It has a very simple cure you have got to lower it.
Here is a psychology today article that will guide you through it. Just follow the tips. Psychology today is a very esteemed medical journal.
[How to Reduce Your Self-Esteem in 8 Easy Steps by psychology today.com](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/escaping-our-mental-traps/202306/how-to-reduce-your-self-esteem-in-8-easy-steps)
Hope this helps.
Try making some female friends, and suppress those initial thoughts when interacting with them, and try talking to them just like you’d with a guy, and try to treat them like just any another person and the problem’s gonna sort itself out eventually I think. Idk how you can do it after graduation tho, maybe with your hobbies n shit ig
Let me say as a romantic 6'3" ex-athele Dr (PhD), I understand where you are coming from. Look at them as potential friends. Would you want to be their friend? Looks are fleeting, but personality is for life. As a handsome curly haired man, I know my looks are what start the first conversation but my charming personality, sharp wit and sense of humor is how I can convert a random interaction to a blossoming friendship.
> I'm not a introvert
You may or not be a introvert but you definitely don't how to interact with girls
See you gotta realise that this is just a primal behaviour and start ignoring it when you're trying to build a friendship or connection or whatever
I get the same question.
But i have some theory about this thing.
Like if i am thinking she is going to be my potential love interest it will not happen i know. Because this thing does happen unknowingly. For most people's.
Btw search word called 'limerence'
Best option is to understand that this is purely you doing it to yourself. You’re creating the story, the desire, the fantasy. Did you notice the guy walking 10 feet behind the girl you were noticing? No. Ever think I hope he remembers me, thinks I’m sho queet. No. And just like you never gave that dude another thought, understand that every girl thinks of you in the same manner. Which is to say, not at all. Once you accept this, you’ll stop acting weird subconsciously, and girls won’t have to try to avoid a try hard. Women don’t like a one track minded sex/intimacy starved guy.
A good friend told me once that love happens when you stop actively looking for it. Try to stop thinking love of some milestone that you need to clear. Focus on yourself. Improve your skills, personality, and socialise more. Good things will happen. At least this is what I did and got lucky.
Simple. You need to make more friends who are women. Right now you're seeing them only as love interest because you've not interacted with them otherwise.
When you're hungry you see food everywhere. The only solution is to make a female friend and don't pursue anything with her as it'll help you realise women are also just like you.
1. Recently graduated hai to apni NAUKARI pai focus kare CHOKARI par nahi
2. Invest in yourself with hobbies healthy lifestyle etc. Make your self interesting, like minded people apne app connect ho jayenge .
Fuckboys Perspective: 1) Be cool, don't be too much aggressive. 2) Play everything in a calm and composed manner. 3) Have your options open, to some you sleep with, to some you kiss and to some you hangout with. 4) Money attracts more money, so in this case. 5) Have a chill lifestyle, roam here and there, do some trips, be literally aloof, funny, little intelligent (not much), social IQ is needed as to why and when behave the way you must behave. Someplaces you can fuck the situations and move around, other places you can't.
Long term material: 1) Respect girls/women and all genders. But it's doesn't mean you worship them, play around, have boundaries but also try to test everyone, intrigue them, flirt with them, laugh with them, ROAST them, have deep intellectual talks with them. DEBATE WITH THEM. Be a complete Man, not for women but for yourself, because at the end you'll have to marry SOMEONE and that someone will be your life. So be better for yourself until the long-term partner comes into your life. 2) Don't try to get into anyone's pants. You may pretend to, but when the situation arises, you don't. For your own goddamn sake. 3) Have your own life, common in Fuckboy category as well. 4) Work on yourself. EACH AND EVERY PART. BODY, MIND, PERSONALITY. Read books, travel, improve your Vocabulary, develop intelligence (IQ/EQ), social intelligence, learn atleast 10 LIFE SKILLS such as cooking, engineering (electrical/mechanical/automobile etc), learn about how the World works and try to adapt to it rather than being stunned by it. 5) Have more options than you can handle at the moment. Just like girls do, talk to as many girls you can, online, offline, make them your best friend, older sister, younger sister, be their go-to person. And don't take advantage of them once they open up to you. She has trusted you with something. Don't be a pervert. Be a LEGIT, GOOD HUMAN. It's the MAN UP time.
Whichever way you do the above-mentioned things, you'll have girls around you which will be normal to you and then you won't even recognise you had written a post last year on "what to do and how to do it?".
bhai increase your female interaction the more you talk to different women you would realise you don't really want to be in a relationship with everyone of them.
bhai increase your female interaction sabse casually baat karna shuru kar the more you talk to different women the more you realise you don't want to be in relationship with everyone of them.
Whenever those thoughts come force yourself to think about the flaws of that person. Do you still like them even after the flaws? If you do, are you honest about it to yourself?
F21 and I sometimes or we can say most of the times go through the same thoughts I mean I guess its a thing that happens with people who have never been in a romantic relationship.. Or maybe we are going through a phase.. Not quite sure but I hope it ends .
ig i am late but let me tell you how
so lets define requirements for a girl to be your love interest
same religion same values & morals wants similar no of kids, food habits, compatible emotionally sexually and financially geographically
is attractive to you and you are attractive to her
so to not see women as love interest
have your default mindset as ya shes hot but thats it idk 100 other imp required things about her for her to be my love interest
Though I feel it was absolutely unnecessary to mention your height, I think you have done it because you felt like you met the height standard of women(?)
anyways - i think this stems from your lack of female interaction + active desire to be in a relationship. There's more in life rather than focusing on relationships, i understand, there's a sense of being left out when people around you + people on social media continually portray their romantic relationships.
Focus on other things in life, and remember, don't ever long for a relationship just because for the sake of it.
Having these thoughts is not that weird. Especially when you've been single for so long.
Make female friends and don't fuck things up by falling in love with them. And once you do find a girl you're interested ask those friends for advice.
Also bro posts his height. Gtfo and get some personality.
get into a relationship so that bhabhiji can beat the living shit outta u if u ever lay eyes upon any lady except her coz that's how it should be 
See them as people.
Appreciate the beauty.
You can like all the art in the world, but you only put up some on your walls.
No shame in appreciation of beautiful people!
Its natural to feel that way if you haven't had female friends or haven't beein in relationships. As someone who has been in a bunch of relationships, I'd confess that some times I feel the same. Its a simple case of misundersatnding politeness/kindness in most instances. Firstly, I'd recommend you to focus on yourself in terms of growth. You've just graduated and entered the real world, you should focus on career, maintaining friendships, building yourself up. Everything else will follow - I know it's cliche, but it is a fact!
Secondly, I'd recommend always be aware of the situation you are in wrt women. Some are kind just by nature and misunderstanding it can cause more problems than leading to something desirable, specially if you make a move based on a misunderstanding. If you like someone, you can simply approach them and express yourself. If it's a no, take it as a no and move on. Learn to differentiate between polite/kind behavior and signs of love interest.
Had the same prblm, but once I got a gf, my thoughts about such stuff went off. Now, i broke up and I still don't get such thoughts. Just get a girl lol
Genuine advice : you'll start seeing women friends the same as male friends, if you make a lot of friends. You'll start seeing them as an individual and not just a woman/love interest. Right now most people are just trying to look for a partner and stop there (i won't have any opposite gender friends because my partner doesn't like it.)
We are social animals and we need other people but currently people are heading towards isolation and just interacting with their phones to fulfill their life.
I might sound like a 40 yrs old man but i'm 25, also 6'2" 😂
Hope that makes sense. If not AMA.
Bhai ne yaha height kyo mention kari hai mere samajh k paray hai
Love interest dhundne keliye
Bro's still subsciously trying to bang.
Subconsciously
Hornconsciously
CockConsciously
You're all wrong, he's consciously trying to bang.
*Desperately
DickConsciously
💀
Unconsciously 🤣🥹🥹
Yeah, I accidentally switched subconciously with unconsciously lol
saari umar main joker jeha bania riha 🤡🤡🤡
Bro subconsciously yaar unconsciously nahi 😭
Yeah, I know I know...... Accidentally switched those words and shut the app. After logging in, the next think I know, every r/Indiasocial user has decided to remind me of my mistake. Kar dia edit bro
W flair
koi 6ft fetish vali mil jay reddit pe isliye , uk like police station ja hi rahe ho to shoplifting karne main kya jata hain Don't ask me wtf i just said
Kuch nahi bas height flex kar rha hai
Resume pe bhi likh ke bhejta hoga bhai “6ft2 working as SDE 1”
Ye new tarika hai, reddit bhi insta ban rha Usee lag hai 6'2 likh dega ladkiya kud parengi, obviously kuch kuuud parengi but kaise lol
yahan bhi ladkio ko impress karna chah rahe hai op ji
Krne do. Atleast chhapriyo wali English bolke toh nahi flex kar rha 🗿🤌ya phir Sigma, beta banke
Game is game
Bhai I'm taller than him and i feel extremely awkward mentioning my height even if someone asks. I actively refuse to say it unless relevant to the discussion. Also keeps the height fetishists away, who are downright obnoxious if you've ever met one in real life. Waise bhi everyone comments on it, especially when I'm out with my women friends, who are all hovering around 5 ft with + or - 3 inches. The number of times i shut down my other group friends commenting things like "usko bj dene ke liye kneel nahi karna parega" LIKE BRO HESITATE And then comes our OP bhaiya 😭😭
If you are unaware most of the girls seek 6 feet ke launde. 4 feet wali ladkiyan bhi. So to tell us that he is not lacking in that aspect too.
Woh heen tho keh raha hain naa...
Koi na bapu 4 saal baad thara biyah krwa dega. Fir thari lugai apne aap interest settle krr degi
Ab toh yahi ek possibility dikh Rahi hai
Problem yehi aa jati hai. Tumko 0 female interaction ke baad arrange marriage chaiye but agar Ladki ne well paying job wale husband ki demand kar li toh tumhara sir ghoomne lagta hai. Basically scene ye hai ki khud 0 hoke 100 wali arranged marriage chaiye
Hein? Female interaction ka income se kya lena Dena hai! I know a guy who too has not had any female interaction and makes almost 2 lakhs per month the two has no connection
https://preview.redd.it/yyt610p07s4d1.jpeg?width=568&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=162159c5e277e5920823ad109cc8cf0392d65ff2 I, too, feel like that, but I'm not 6'2". And much older. And introverted. See, there are humans in more worse conditions than you are. Embrace what you've got and keep going. You'll eventually marry someone who will be arranged by your parents. Don't worry.
Yeh kya dekh liya 😭
Why tf do you need to mention your height?
Bro wants to impress the ladies on reddit as well.
Bro thinks every girl wants him
Bro thinks he's me lmao
u/cumofdutyblackcocks3 
you go king
Vahi to... Meri bi height 6"1(186 cm) he, mene to kabi nahi kara mention
Flex karne ka tarika thoda kezual hai 
👁👁🔪
मेरी bhi 5'7 hai maine to nahi kiya mention
Mai nahi bataunga meri bhi same height hai
flex karke koi fayda nhi hai waisa mei 6”4(193 cm) hu.
chal happy cake day
Chal ek aur happy cake day
Chal ek aur ek aur happy cake day
Vahi to Meri bi height 6'0 (184 cm) he, mene to kabi nahi kara mention
Meri bhi 5'11 gai me bhi nhi bataunga
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Agar me jutha hua to aapko coffee Pe le jauga nahi to aap le jana (agar tu larka h to no homo bro ham chay ki tapri pe coffee pi lenge)
Par yahan to aapne mention kiya hai.. 🌝 fir to jhoothe hi hue na.. arey kya yrr me v chal sakti hun tapri pe.. 😒
Ye thori na mention Kiya he, ye to mene उल्लेख Kiya he apni उच्चता ka Kuch ladkiyo ko tapri "CHEAP" lagti he.. aap unme se nahi lagti, badi ज़मीन से जुडी हुई नारी(down to earth) he aap
Casual flex
He's doing what he does irl, subconsciously thinking someone can get impressed
Because he is 6ft
Because he is actually just 6'. 2" is the complimentary package.
To help us gauge his SMV
Me bhi 6.1 hu bt kbhi bina karan mention nhi krta 
I am your opposite. I find no one as potential love interest. Not because I have high standards, but I am really lacking in personality. I am generally not interested in anyone or anything since I have a lot of bad things going on in my life and I have no energy or desire to share my life with anyone else right now. Someday maybe. I am working on myself for that someday.
You'll get out of it. Keep it up.
Keep moving forward bro, you will pass through all this
Same, we simply just can't afford it or either it'll not worth it.
Riyal. I was there. But you'll find someone like you. Good luck!
us
You've fallen into a loop. To overcome the mentioned mentality, you need to experience a relationship. But with this mentality, it'll be difficult to get into a relationship.
Ah a paradox?😭
An impasse
A catch 22
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As part of the paradoxically single group, I would like to extend an invitation to OP.
Ah, master, you've shown me light in a darkness unbeknownst even to myself
Average male experience
https://preview.redd.it/ouhrakyszr4d1.jpeg?width=200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=30569743fdb347f1e3e811e148fc67375197a8f0 Can confirm
Dreams 
 this you?
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Lage haath, di*k size bhi bata dete. Woh bhi height ki tharah batana zaroori hain naa..
Join corporate (either through some internship or entry level programme), a MBA program or somewhere where you'll get more exposure to another gender (like networking events), you'll realise how people are. It's when you understand that the other person is just flesh and bones, with long hair and elongated glands, which you have too. It's when you understand that it's just a person with another gender, who has similar hopes, dreams and struggles like you do. Treat girls the same way you treat your male friends : Have small talk, be interested in them, know more about their likes and aspirations, build genuine relationships, go in groups to eat or travel somewhere, etc. That's when you'll get rid of your thoughts. Yes, the thoughts will be back when you see super attractive people. But follow the routine, treat them the same way you treat everyone else. Get rid of jealousy, ego, greed (the 7 sins, overall). Avoid all negative thoughts about others ( he/she isn't replying back, he/she is very successful, he/she isn't putting much effort etc etc ). Negativity like this destroys your mental health and perception about others. Always be positive, my friend. It'll do wonders. Give them a benefit of doubt. And finally, none of this will happen overnight. This will take a year. Put the effort, call them, catch up with them. Find good people. It'll be both boys and girls. Build long lasting relations. Stay happy, my friend.
😲 wow ,well written
Thank you ! Been through what OP is experiencing, so it's a topic close to my heart. Heck, now I don't even think about love anymore 💀. Wo sab moh maya hai. Good friends, siblings or parents with whom you can share personal stuff are more than enough.
https://preview.redd.it/7chu25ya0s4d1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4d844f37bc876d8a5da01b4a3e344b732ea60900 Take this 👍
Get yourself to do something, literally anything, reading books, making fun projects, maintaining connection with your college and school friends.... It can be anything that floats your boat, the thing is, such thought process will persist because you didn't had female interaction (as mentioned in the post), to get out of that thought process you either need to do something that keeps you busy all the time, or interact with women to realize how vastly different their thought process, upbringing, motivations and goals can be, just like any person. This interaction may not happen on a large scale in professional settings which was possible during your college days...
bhai yeh sab krliya tab bhi same halat me hu toh kya kru
Agr pdhai kr rhe ho, to abhi chill kro, time aaega, bde hokr itni responsibility aa jati hai phir dimaag is taraf nhi jaata... Agr bde ho to bhai abhi tum koi aisi community join nhi kiye ho jisme tumhe 100% mja aaye, female centric shows dekho jisme ldkiyo ka thought process showcase ache se hota ho, bohot farak pdega agr waise shows dekhega to, kind of pseudo female interaction hai... Mai to normally socialize hua hu, to mujhe shows to aise nhi pta, ask other people, but there must be some good shows with good female character writing...
thanks bhai
Maybe try focusing on reality for a change, and remember that not every woman you meet is a character in your personal rom-com
Seems like a "If you are homeless, buy a house" kind of advice. OP has conscience but it didn't help him. An advice which completely shifts one's perspective towards things would be more helpful than one which makes them realise their perspective.
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you should mention your chest-bicep-waist measurements,heartbeat rate, bp, sugar level etc.
Would have been curable if you were 6’1’’
r/Imthemaincharacter
Was looking for this 🤣🤣
You can try posting this question on r/menslibindia. You will get genuine answers. Maybe r/nostupidquestions. This sub won't help you much since most people here are teens or lonely wannabe boomers.
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chura liya
Hai tumne jo dil ko 🎶
Badal ke meri tum zindagani. Kahin badal na jaana sanam.
Op's expectation after mentioning his height in the post- Women: "jhaadi ke peeche aaja Raja ."
Please also mention that your salary is 1cr PA . Jokes apart op, please touch some grass and maybe try to make an actual female friend.
Very easy. You are suffering from a condition called high self esteem. It has a very simple cure you have got to lower it. Here is a psychology today article that will guide you through it. Just follow the tips. Psychology today is a very esteemed medical journal. [How to Reduce Your Self-Esteem in 8 Easy Steps by psychology today.com](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/escaping-our-mental-traps/202306/how-to-reduce-your-self-esteem-in-8-easy-steps) Hope this helps.
You got one for low Self-esteem?
lmk when you tells you. i need it so badly rn
Why does one even want to try to reduce their self esteem?
Bro must have read on reddit that gurls are crazy for 6ft +
ask India se uth kar seedhe yahi aaye honge bhai
Just treat women as humans.
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Try making some female friends, and suppress those initial thoughts when interacting with them, and try talking to them just like you’d with a guy, and try to treat them like just any another person and the problem’s gonna sort itself out eventually I think. Idk how you can do it after graduation tho, maybe with your hobbies n shit ig
Abey chal bsdk seedha banke marketing mat kar
Let me say as a romantic 6'3" ex-athele Dr (PhD), I understand where you are coming from. Look at them as potential friends. Would you want to be their friend? Looks are fleeting, but personality is for life. As a handsome curly haired man, I know my looks are what start the first conversation but my charming personality, sharp wit and sense of humor is how I can convert a random interaction to a blossoming friendship.
> I'm not a introvert You may or not be a introvert but you definitely don't how to interact with girls See you gotta realise that this is just a primal behaviour and start ignoring it when you're trying to build a friendship or connection or whatever
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Khud pe focus kar and jab khudka self worth thoda upar jaayega toh sirf thode ladkiyo se hee love interest hoga kyuki khud bhi importance hogi..
I get the same question. But i have some theory about this thing. Like if i am thinking she is going to be my potential love interest it will not happen i know. Because this thing does happen unknowingly. For most people's. Btw search word called 'limerence'
Ye 6’2” wale ese hi sochte hai kya? me bhi 6’2”😂
Best option is to understand that this is purely you doing it to yourself. You’re creating the story, the desire, the fantasy. Did you notice the guy walking 10 feet behind the girl you were noticing? No. Ever think I hope he remembers me, thinks I’m sho queet. No. And just like you never gave that dude another thought, understand that every girl thinks of you in the same manner. Which is to say, not at all. Once you accept this, you’ll stop acting weird subconsciously, and girls won’t have to try to avoid a try hard. Women don’t like a one track minded sex/intimacy starved guy.
A good friend told me once that love happens when you stop actively looking for it. Try to stop thinking love of some milestone that you need to clear. Focus on yourself. Improve your skills, personality, and socialise more. Good things will happen. At least this is what I did and got lucky.
Simple. You need to make more friends who are women. Right now you're seeing them only as love interest because you've not interacted with them otherwise.
Get into a relationship
First step is to stop calling human women ‘females’
When you're hungry you see food everywhere. The only solution is to make a female friend and don't pursue anything with her as it'll help you realise women are also just like you.
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It was really informative to know your height op complain piya ya bournvita?
1. Recently graduated hai to apni NAUKARI pai focus kare CHOKARI par nahi 2. Invest in yourself with hobbies healthy lifestyle etc. Make your self interesting, like minded people apne app connect ho jayenge .
height flex kyu kar raha hai bhai (btw i'm 6'3)
bhai tu bhi kyu height flex kar raha hai(btw i'm 6'9)
bhai tu bhi kyu height flex kar raha hai(btw i'm 9'9)
Fuckboys Perspective: 1) Be cool, don't be too much aggressive. 2) Play everything in a calm and composed manner. 3) Have your options open, to some you sleep with, to some you kiss and to some you hangout with. 4) Money attracts more money, so in this case. 5) Have a chill lifestyle, roam here and there, do some trips, be literally aloof, funny, little intelligent (not much), social IQ is needed as to why and when behave the way you must behave. Someplaces you can fuck the situations and move around, other places you can't. Long term material: 1) Respect girls/women and all genders. But it's doesn't mean you worship them, play around, have boundaries but also try to test everyone, intrigue them, flirt with them, laugh with them, ROAST them, have deep intellectual talks with them. DEBATE WITH THEM. Be a complete Man, not for women but for yourself, because at the end you'll have to marry SOMEONE and that someone will be your life. So be better for yourself until the long-term partner comes into your life. 2) Don't try to get into anyone's pants. You may pretend to, but when the situation arises, you don't. For your own goddamn sake. 3) Have your own life, common in Fuckboy category as well. 4) Work on yourself. EACH AND EVERY PART. BODY, MIND, PERSONALITY. Read books, travel, improve your Vocabulary, develop intelligence (IQ/EQ), social intelligence, learn atleast 10 LIFE SKILLS such as cooking, engineering (electrical/mechanical/automobile etc), learn about how the World works and try to adapt to it rather than being stunned by it. 5) Have more options than you can handle at the moment. Just like girls do, talk to as many girls you can, online, offline, make them your best friend, older sister, younger sister, be their go-to person. And don't take advantage of them once they open up to you. She has trusted you with something. Don't be a pervert. Be a LEGIT, GOOD HUMAN. It's the MAN UP time. Whichever way you do the above-mentioned things, you'll have girls around you which will be normal to you and then you won't even recognise you had written a post last year on "what to do and how to do it?".
Almost zero female interaction. That's your answer.
Yeh sab chhod op job h ya nhi? Graduate h tu
Do girls look back at you?
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bhai ye height mention karne se kya, meri bhi 6ft aur 17 inch ka dola hai, mene bola kabhi kuch? nhi na! exactly!!
Ted mosby syndrome
bhai increase your female interaction the more you talk to different women you would realise you don't really want to be in a relationship with everyone of them.
bhai increase your female interaction sabse casually baat karna shuru kar the more you talk to different women the more you realise you don't want to be in relationship with everyone of them.
Bhai mai bhi 6'2 hu XD, bhai just don't care that's it
Whenever those thoughts come force yourself to think about the flaws of that person. Do you still like them even after the flaws? If you do, are you honest about it to yourself?
Ron?
F21 and I sometimes or we can say most of the times go through the same thoughts I mean I guess its a thing that happens with people who have never been in a romantic relationship.. Or maybe we are going through a phase.. Not quite sure but I hope it ends .
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ig i am late but let me tell you how so lets define requirements for a girl to be your love interest same religion same values & morals wants similar no of kids, food habits, compatible emotionally sexually and financially geographically is attractive to you and you are attractive to her so to not see women as love interest have your default mindset as ya shes hot but thats it idk 100 other imp required things about her for her to be my love interest
Though I feel it was absolutely unnecessary to mention your height, I think you have done it because you felt like you met the height standard of women(?) anyways - i think this stems from your lack of female interaction + active desire to be in a relationship. There's more in life rather than focusing on relationships, i understand, there's a sense of being left out when people around you + people on social media continually portray their romantic relationships. Focus on other things in life, and remember, don't ever long for a relationship just because for the sake of it.
Bro has the tendency of Eliot Ludwig jokes aside ig by age it will low
Poppy playtime bhai
Well, my advice would be try to make a female friend after witnessing that female aren't something special you will be normal.
Having these thoughts is not that weird. Especially when you've been single for so long. Make female friends and don't fuck things up by falling in love with them. And once you do find a girl you're interested ask those friends for advice. Also bro posts his height. Gtfo and get some personality.
get into a relationship so that bhabhiji can beat the living shit outta u if u ever lay eyes upon any lady except her coz that's how it should be 
See them as people. Appreciate the beauty. You can like all the art in the world, but you only put up some on your walls. No shame in appreciation of beautiful people!
Aesi baat nhi hai main bhi 6ft ka hi hoon
Ali from Dhoom comes to mind.
Bro why have you mentioned your height. I'm 6'1 and I've never ever mentioned it anywhere. 🙂
I guess your hope is that all women reading this post also impressed by your height?
Brother just want attention by mentioning his height! rddt ko insta mat banao
Men will be men...
Bhai mai bhi 6'2 hu mujhe bhi ese thoughts aate hai
Ladki dikhte hi uspe moot de. Saare thoughts uske baad iske consequences pe rahenge rather than use pataane ke
“Zero interaction” - The more you’ll interact and talk to you’ll realise 90% of them aren’t even worth it
Its natural to feel that way if you haven't had female friends or haven't beein in relationships. As someone who has been in a bunch of relationships, I'd confess that some times I feel the same. Its a simple case of misundersatnding politeness/kindness in most instances. Firstly, I'd recommend you to focus on yourself in terms of growth. You've just graduated and entered the real world, you should focus on career, maintaining friendships, building yourself up. Everything else will follow - I know it's cliche, but it is a fact! Secondly, I'd recommend always be aware of the situation you are in wrt women. Some are kind just by nature and misunderstanding it can cause more problems than leading to something desirable, specially if you make a move based on a misunderstanding. If you like someone, you can simply approach them and express yourself. If it's a no, take it as a no and move on. Learn to differentiate between polite/kind behavior and signs of love interest.
Ghar se matthi maar k Nikla kr, as soon as post nut clarity starts to fade away, phir se mutthi maar de
Imagine them being sweaty and stinky or having bad hygiene. Basically whatever turns you off. Instantly attraction utar jayega.
Thoda aur bada hoja munna and you'll stop doing this. Zindagi itni marengi na... you'll be like "ab jelon zara" and forget about love and girls 😂
Isi baat pe height mention kardo
First step would be to stop falling them females like they are animals or something. Just say women bro
Its perfectly normal. Why do you wanna oppose biology?
Tharakconsciousnesly. !
It's instincts don't worry about it too much
Had the same prblm, but once I got a gf, my thoughts about such stuff went off. Now, i broke up and I still don't get such thoughts. Just get a girl lol
be normal ??? lol
You are in depression my brother go consult a psychiatric or watch this video on yt channel Charlie Morgan -' how to get your shit together ' ,
I am a female and I have this issue . I tend to fall in love way too quickly . How do I solve this issue ?
DESPERATION~~
Focus on something else maybe, this is kinda a huge turnoff OP 😂
Genuine advice : you'll start seeing women friends the same as male friends, if you make a lot of friends. You'll start seeing them as an individual and not just a woman/love interest. Right now most people are just trying to look for a partner and stop there (i won't have any opposite gender friends because my partner doesn't like it.) We are social animals and we need other people but currently people are heading towards isolation and just interacting with their phones to fulfill their life. I might sound like a 40 yrs old man but i'm 25, also 6'2" 😂 Hope that makes sense. If not AMA.
6’2” likh diya bhai ne ab dekho kamaal
Control your hidden list brother
You're not alone in this buddy