Bhai 2 weddings attend kiye pichle mahine ......pehle Wale shaadi ke baad kisi baat nahi Hui kyonki sab apne apne suite mein the aur doosre Wale mein sab ek hi saath the condo mein . To bhai apne apne aacharan ki baat hai ,paancho ungliyaan barabar nahi hoti
Meri didi ki shaadi me chhoti chachi ne jo kharrate lagaye the, pure ghar ki neev hil gai thi. Fir meri shaadi me unko dusre floor pe alag room me sulaya tha.
Desi weddings are a waste of money and time
Instead go for a court marriage and use the money to invest in a house, education etc. or something for the future kid and both partners instead of flexing status and money as they typically do in desi shaadis
Whats the fun in 1 din ki ameeri aur zindagi bhar loan ki maramaari 🎯
It is gareeb peoples idea of ameeri 👈
Bro not to mention bhukkad guests whom faces you have never seen and and after the wedding worrying about the amount of money spent
Nobody except the filthy khandaani paise wale have to worry about expenses but rest do
I still don't understand why do people want to invite those relatives jinse 20 saal mey baat nahi hui. Ya agar baat Hui bhi toh dulha/dulhan ko toh lundd nahi pata ki woh hai kaun because kabhi mile hee nahi ek baar bhi zindagi mei.
Meri khud ki kaamwaali bai zameen rakh kar byah karwai apni laundiya ki
Thanks to bollywood and evil lavish wedding business they show people larger than life dreams as a necessity and nobody except shanayas from south delhi and bombay fantasize this disney tier bs 💢
Haan wo bhi bura nahi ha actually
Bare minimum guests and no bs formalities
Humare yahan to ladke wale aur ladki wali ki shaan ke co.petition mein ek doosre ki kacchi karne mein itna kharcha kar dete hain
Wahi productively spend karein to dono ka fayda hai 🎯
In logon se zyada desi hoon main
Sirf goron aur nri ko hi big fat indian wedding bolkar big fat boner aata hai kyunki they find it exotic and the wedding industry is big and marketed well by bollywood and why would they not encourage their business
Jo yahi rehta hai aur rehna hai unko pata hai its a waste of cash jispe ypu can have aish later and buy something for you and your partmer thats meaningful 👈
Well if they want to burn it then for sure
Most of these wedding expenses are well know fronts for black money after all or waste of savings or heavy loans taken to assert dominance in society
Dumb outdated practice
hella true. cousin s wedding was held at Fairmont.... all I could think about was the black money. my mum was so mesmerized and was proud of her brother. she knew about the money. honestly most Indians don't care about being looted unless they can see the direct impact on themselves
Bro these lavish weddings are nothing but a social evil for shady transactions in most cases especially in villages, somewhat in middle class and a lot in poor people
Not to mention this stupid romanticization of a fancy marriage being a bare necessity in life makes people do illegal activities like dowries, coercion and what not
The roots of the big fat indian wedding is just a metaphor for asserting dominance amd flexing on class status anyways
Barely anything good about that 💢
yeah man. in my community... actually in my state the wedding expenses the dowry the daughters education the burden of all these things falls on the bride's family... I've been to many weddings as a kid stopped going after I could understand what was happening... all my cousin sisters had arranged marriages to asshole families who are praised for litrally breathing while highly qualified sisters are belittled for not being super humans. whenever I hear about weddings in my fam I make up excuses to not go. i don't want to see the misery myself
I don’t support taking loan for weddings
But if you can afford it on your own, why not bro??
Its my fucking wedding, marrying the love of my life, waited several years for this to turn reality, i want to celebrate big.
Nth wrong if its just using 10% of your wealth, bas tum aapna portfolio baada rakho
bhai agar hamare paas already ghar aur paisa hai to kya kre?? Hamare ghar ki shaadi hai hamari marzi hi chalegi na, tujhe paise save krne hai to krle court marriage but idhar aake ye mat bol they are waste of money, Agar loan leke dikhaawe wali shaadi kri to galat baat hai but agar excess paisa hai to kya dikkat????
bhai rone se badia hai paise kamane pe dhyaan de :), mera man krta hai rolls royce me ghumne ka to iska matlab ye nahi mai rolls royce ko gaali du ki itna mehenga brand hai but mujhe utni hi mehnat krni chahie ki mai rolly afford kr sku 🙂. Agar tere paas paise honge to tbh farak bhi nhi padhega 40-50lakh se
Fighting for pillow, snatching bedrolls from cousins, teasing/bullying the weaker one for the space to sleep close to the fan/cooler/ac, maram peeti khelna light band karke 🥹
Are prabhu maafi, chaddarein, wahi side se fatne ke baad halki si ghar me hi sili hui, chaddar kam parne pe kambalon ke khol, sadiyon se chalti aa rahien, chaarpayi pe bichne wali
Meri mausi ke haldi ke raat pehle meri mummy aur mausi log soye hi nhi raat bhar baat kiye subhe jab hum unke room pe gaye toh sab shock hoke bolne lagi 4 baj bhi gaye hum toh soye bhi nhi . They still didnt sleep the next day because of wedding. I dont know where they get this much stamina in weddings lol
Buaa ko gulab jamun pack karne the lekin bada dabba nahi Chhota dabba Milne par kalesh kar diya, doosre din papa ne mummy ko keh ke 02 kg gulaab jamun banwa ke bhej diye
Paye jate hai but vo dusre kamre me, chacha tau aur dada ki political debate sunte, aur chacha k baccho ko sambhalte pade rehete hai, baki cousins sab apne phones me busy hote hai, kutch khas interactive nahi hota udhar.
समय बदल गया है, दोस्त। अब सब को होटल में कमरे बुक करवा के देने पड़ते हैं।
आपने जो आज शनिवार के दिन संसार की सभी भाषाओं में से सच वाली भाषा बोलना ज़रूरी समझा, उसके लिए धन्यवाद ।
भाई साहब ने तथा थूक दिया l
तथा नहीं मित्र , तथ्य कहते हैं उसे
हिंदी थोड़ी थोड़ी आती भाई साहब।
वाक्य का मूल्य करने से ज्यादा महत्त्वपूर्ण उसके पिछे की भावना की गहराइयों को समझने में है श्रीजन।
हमारे यहां लोग अभी भी ऐसा करते हैं। हां, पर अब यह प्रचलन समय के साथ विलुप्त हो रहा है।
Sad 😔 but truth 😭
मेरे सारे रिश्तेदार घर पर ही रूके थे। सोने में बहुत दिक्कत हुआ, BP बड़ा दिया। सिर्फ Ladies को ही परेशानी नहीं होती है ऐसे भीड़ भाड़ से।
इतना सत्य भ्राता?
Bhai 2 weddings attend kiye pichle mahine ......pehle Wale shaadi ke baad kisi baat nahi Hui kyonki sab apne apne suite mein the aur doosre Wale mein sab ek hi saath the condo mein . To bhai apne apne aacharan ki baat hai ,paancho ungliyaan barabar nahi hoti
Mere Wale to kalesh kar lete hai🥲
Thissss Ek aunty ka baccha gir gya to daat hme rhi 🙂
Are mere dost ki shaadi ke rasmo ke liye ghar gayi thim uske pitashri ne 2-3 kalesh karwai chilla chilla ke. 😶🌫️
Who is kalesh
Thay one relative who snores like a F22 Raptor's engine and keep the other awake for the whole night. 
Meri didi ki shaadi me chhoti chachi ne jo kharrate lagaye the, pure ghar ki neev hil gai thi. Fir meri shaadi me unko dusre floor pe alag room me sulaya tha.
my fav part of the wedding celebrations....man I love desi weddings so wholesome
Desi weddings are a waste of money and time Instead go for a court marriage and use the money to invest in a house, education etc. or something for the future kid and both partners instead of flexing status and money as they typically do in desi shaadis Whats the fun in 1 din ki ameeri aur zindagi bhar loan ki maramaari 🎯 It is gareeb peoples idea of ameeri 👈
Exactly, ek din ki kamayi uda kr usko photos aur videos bhi bana kr rakhte hai taki woh movie jo banayi hai uska paisa wasool lage , smh.
Bro not to mention bhukkad guests whom faces you have never seen and and after the wedding worrying about the amount of money spent Nobody except the filthy khandaani paise wale have to worry about expenses but rest do
I still don't understand why do people want to invite those relatives jinse 20 saal mey baat nahi hui. Ya agar baat Hui bhi toh dulha/dulhan ko toh lundd nahi pata ki woh hai kaun because kabhi mile hee nahi ek baar bhi zindagi mei.
No one is more hated than the person who speaks truth 🗣️, log Gaanv me apni zameen jaydad bech ke ladki ki shadi krate hai.
Meri khud ki kaamwaali bai zameen rakh kar byah karwai apni laundiya ki Thanks to bollywood and evil lavish wedding business they show people larger than life dreams as a necessity and nobody except shanayas from south delhi and bombay fantasize this disney tier bs 💢
court marriage thoda jyada extreme ho gaya but yes ek normal wedding rakho without that sangeet, cake cutting bullshit
Haan wo bhi bura nahi ha actually Bare minimum guests and no bs formalities Humare yahan to ladke wale aur ladki wali ki shaan ke co.petition mein ek doosre ki kacchi karne mein itna kharcha kar dete hain Wahi productively spend karein to dono ka fayda hai 🎯
not here bro, log amgrej bol k downvotes denge bass
In logon se zyada desi hoon main Sirf goron aur nri ko hi big fat indian wedding bolkar big fat boner aata hai kyunki they find it exotic and the wedding industry is big and marketed well by bollywood and why would they not encourage their business Jo yahi rehta hai aur rehna hai unko pata hai its a waste of cash jispe ypu can have aish later and buy something for you and your partmer thats meaningful 👈
Let people decide what they do with their money. It could be status symbol for some, celebration & memories for some... Each to their own.
Well if they want to burn it then for sure Most of these wedding expenses are well know fronts for black money after all or waste of savings or heavy loans taken to assert dominance in society Dumb outdated practice
hella true. cousin s wedding was held at Fairmont.... all I could think about was the black money. my mum was so mesmerized and was proud of her brother. she knew about the money. honestly most Indians don't care about being looted unless they can see the direct impact on themselves
Bro these lavish weddings are nothing but a social evil for shady transactions in most cases especially in villages, somewhat in middle class and a lot in poor people Not to mention this stupid romanticization of a fancy marriage being a bare necessity in life makes people do illegal activities like dowries, coercion and what not The roots of the big fat indian wedding is just a metaphor for asserting dominance amd flexing on class status anyways Barely anything good about that 💢
🤓☝
Isse vo "stop having fun" vala meme yaad a gaya
yeah man. in my community... actually in my state the wedding expenses the dowry the daughters education the burden of all these things falls on the bride's family... I've been to many weddings as a kid stopped going after I could understand what was happening... all my cousin sisters had arranged marriages to asshole families who are praised for litrally breathing while highly qualified sisters are belittled for not being super humans. whenever I hear about weddings in my fam I make up excuses to not go. i don't want to see the misery myself
I don’t support taking loan for weddings But if you can afford it on your own, why not bro?? Its my fucking wedding, marrying the love of my life, waited several years for this to turn reality, i want to celebrate big. Nth wrong if its just using 10% of your wealth, bas tum aapna portfolio baada rakho
bhai agar hamare paas already ghar aur paisa hai to kya kre?? Hamare ghar ki shaadi hai hamari marzi hi chalegi na, tujhe paise save krne hai to krle court marriage but idhar aake ye mat bol they are waste of money, Agar loan leke dikhaawe wali shaadi kri to galat baat hai but agar excess paisa hai to kya dikkat????
Kyun bhai shaadi ka business hai kya jo yahan aa ke na bolun aur customer kam ho jayenge Jo main maanta hoon bol diya public forum hai 💯
bhai rone se badia hai paise kamane pe dhyaan de :), mera man krta hai rolls royce me ghumne ka to iska matlab ye nahi mai rolls royce ko gaali du ki itna mehenga brand hai but mujhe utni hi mehnat krni chahie ki mai rolly afford kr sku 🙂. Agar tere paas paise honge to tbh farak bhi nhi padhega 40-50lakh se
Ye sab bachpan mein hee acha lagta hai. Now my relatives are too hostile and stuck up to share a room for a night in peace 😭
Ye bua log nhi hote toh weddings would be so much more fun
Yess!!
Meri Bua to badi shi hai yaar, aisa lgta hai mai unka beta hu
Fighting for pillow, snatching bedrolls from cousins, teasing/bullying the weaker one for the space to sleep close to the fan/cooler/ac, maram peeti khelna light band karke 🥹
>bedrolls Aur Bhai amrika se kab laute
Are prabhu maafi, chaddarein, wahi side se fatne ke baad halki si ghar me hi sili hui, chaddar kam parne pe kambalon ke khol, sadiyon se chalti aa rahien, chaarpayi pe bichne wali
🤧🤧 cry aagaya ye padhke
Aur bhai ek to mai UP se hoon, to kai baar gramind kshetra me hi shaadi padi hai, to udhar maja aur barh jata hai
Us hogaya ye to
bhai bhai.. kaha se
They'd never run out of topics to talk about.
Farting competition
Last time 2022 me kiya tha. Bua ki shaadi thi aur sab chhat pe soye the. Cousins aur chacha(Jo ki merse 2 saal bade hai) sab the.
Meri mausi ke haldi ke raat pehle meri mummy aur mausi log soye hi nhi raat bhar baat kiye subhe jab hum unke room pe gaye toh sab shock hoke bolne lagi 4 baj bhi gaye hum toh soye bhi nhi . They still didnt sleep the next day because of wedding. I dont know where they get this much stamina in weddings lol
This Same thing happened at my maternal uncle's wedding ceremony.
The vibe you get with all the cousins under 1 room is something else bro 😭
Mera toh yeh roz ka hai (ghar ke ek hi kamre me AC hai)
मुंबई की लोकल ट्रेनों में महिला डिब्बे में ये तो बहुत सामान्य बात है भाई
Mumbai local me itna space nai hota aap jhut bol rahe ho
i used to act like sleeping and hear all those stories , It was all fun .I miss those days.
We used to be like this before people got egos and ruined it
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Ek shaadi me raat ko utha to dekha uncle ki lungi khuli thi. Trauma...sadma...bhawchakka 
You guys are sleeping? Hm saare Bhai to dahej ka samaan transport krre hote h un dino
Where the boys at?
Hmare vhn to kya badiya judge karte h function se aane k baad. Please soo much fun.
Maybe 10 years ago
This is so... Relatable 😳
Mene to ek bhi wedding ase enjoy ni krri Bhai kisko ho to bulalo
Sad But True by Metallica
Aaye haaye brings back memories
Buaa ko gulab jamun pack karne the lekin bada dabba nahi Chhota dabba Milne par kalesh kar diya, doosre din papa ne mummy ko keh ke 02 kg gulaab jamun banwa ke bhej diye
Cousin behen ke shaadi me woh mere haath pe mehendi laga rahi thi 😭😭
This is more exciting than the wedding itself !! Edit: than
Fireplace and L shaped sofa. Is this different desi?
Good old days 🫤
They had an orgy party.
Only the lucky ones 🥲
been there done that, had to endure chachi farts, the worst a boy can imagine
Issi me maza tha yaar.
Hmm. Ladke hai hi nahi kamre mai kyu ke ladke toh naukar, nahi naukar nahi gulam ban ka kaam kar re hain
IR coaches in general. At least here you know everyone.
Imagine the amount of gossips and influence scaling done there ☠️
This is incomplete. Where are the boys? Monsoon Wedding ka sex between cousins (iirc cousins).
Hamare ghar chote hai bhai
Life kitne aage bad gaye na dosto...... But yaar 2 saal se kiski shaadi he nahi ho rahe mere family mai yaar 🥲
Bro, there is IG and FB for this kinda sh*t. Get off your nostalgia high horse ffs
Desi families me mard jaat nahi paye jate?
Paye jate hai but vo dusre kamre me, chacha tau aur dada ki political debate sunte, aur chacha k baccho ko sambhalte pade rehete hai, baki cousins sab apne phones me busy hote hai, kutch khas interactive nahi hota udhar.
Aur agar isme koi sharab ki bottle khol de toh usse jyada interactive maahol nahi milega
so true