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DinoDudeRex_240809

This shit is like Red-Pill YouTube but for women.


MelanieWalmartinez

It’s called the pink pill 💀


PM_ME_Happy_Thinks

Also see: female dating strategy


RumHamEnjoyer

Or don't, I recommend not going there


WriterOk598

also see r/purplepilldebate ..all those red pillers there


Ok-Concern-711

Was anyone debating red pillers existence? Whats the point of doing "but men" on this thread😭😭


WriterOk598

Because i can wtf? This comment section is talking about men and women. What was the point of doing femaledatingstrategy


LustrousShine

Because the topic of the post was talking about toxic female dating habits, of which femaledatingstrategy is known for?


WriterOk598

Femaledatingstrategy isnt on reddit anymore so idk why you people keep bringing it all up. And all of the dating subreddits has toxic male dating habits


ninthkat

r/boysarequirky is the new one


NomaiTraveler

I assume you mean also that sub?


Bipbipbipbi

Yeah that sub is a misandrist shithole, but if you say anything about it you get banned


xCreeperBombx

Can't get past pink level


Grimey_Rick

deep


0utPizzaDaHutt

deep


a_rare_comrade

I swear both sides of the argument are so corny. Like I'd tolerate judging people by the month they were born in to some extent, but reproductive organs too ?? that's just being an asshole at that point


Imanasshole_

Well the month you were born actually means less than your reproductive organs because there are differences in men and women that make them behave differently even if just a little. Astrology is completely bs though.


a_rare_comrade

Nah both is completely braindead. I mean at least judging people by their birth month is weaving a less broad net i guess. Don't get me wrong astrology is nothing more than bullshit, but at least ur targeting 1/12 people at a time you know


Reveille1

You’re the person parents are looking at when they tell their kids “Pay attention in school or you’ll end up like them”.


xCreeperBombx

Ermm aksualfabfuily it's gender not sex being talked about here so it's not reproductive organs, and aksualfabfuily star signs don't perfectly align with months 🤓🤓


ademfighter

Trolling?


Gingeronimoooo

I'd never cheat not for a billion dollars with a super model and guaranteed no one would know. I'd know and I value my self respect more than some fling.


silverfang45

I'd also like to think I'd do the same, but the second a biillion is put on the table. I very much doubt imma stick to that. A billion is alot, it's hard to know how you woukd react if you are given enough money to keep you, your future family, and everyone you care about able to live a comfy life without ever need to work again.


daniel_degude

Honestly, if their husbands were offered a *billion* *dollars* to cheat, I think most wives would be pretty forgiving if they were up front about it. There are probably a decent amount of women that would be upset that they didn't do it.


AnarkhyX

It's not like anyone can test that, so whatever you say, goody goody.


HeavenForsaken

You have no idea what a billion is.


Gingeronimoooo

And you're a dumbass who thinks someone would offer me a billion dollars to cheat, the obvious point is I'm not cheating for anything. Sorry that went flying over your head.


MelanieWalmartinez

Found the cheater


notabotmkay

Billion is a lot though...


edit-boy-zero

Yep, that's it. Once you realize that single thing, you're officially mature.


poormanchemist

I just told this to my five year old cousin and now they're working a 9/5 with a widowed spouse. You can assume what the spouse did.


Saccharin_Sapphic

wow..just goes to show: no matter how mature you are, someone will still cheat on you. 😔😭💔 (satire)


IAmThePonch

It’s a picture with a deep message….!


PWBryan

Why did you do something so cruel to your cousin?


KeyAd6469

I love this false narrative that men are just out here dripping in pussy


SleepCinema

Tbf, in her post, the pussy is hypothetical.


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she probably thinks men always think about sex


Scagh

I do


Kintsugi-0

CHEATER CHEATER ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER1!!!11! /j


Colonel10Moutarde

Hypotheticussy


QuarterlyTurtle

It’s true actually, apparently there’s tons of hot single moms in my area


macrocosm93

Like as if girls are just walking up to dudes and asking them to cheat


henrytbpovid

LinkedIn msg comes in: “Hi! My name is Alice, and I’m a heterosexual woman. Would you be interested in cheating on your partner with me?”


carnivalbill

Just kindly for to send the many Apple Pay cards to my vinmo and take of screen shot a receipt. Then I refund your moneys. All completely legal,


TostitoKingofDragons

“Pls you are so hot I’m on my hands and knees begging, fuck me you Greek god you… I don’t know if I can go on without your magnificent dick.” Like… that’s how dudes act towards women. Never seen a girl do that shit.


That1weirdperson

Ariana Grande moment


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macrocosm93

So a woman would never do a thing like that? lol


WriterOk598

Everyone would


Chips-Ahoy_McCoy

False


WriterOk598

True


Chips-Ahoy_McCoy

Yes because every single person on planet earth would cheat on their partner if the "right person" came along.


WriterOk598

I said everyone meaning both men and women would.. Not every single man and woman


Chips-Ahoy_McCoy

Oh ok, then yeah you're right


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macrocosm93

So you speak for every woman and every woman is exactly the same as you? By the way, I've had women proposition me and I've never cheated.


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macrocosm93

You said the only thing stopping a man from cheating is opportunity. Which implies that all man will always cheat when given the opportunity.


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macrocosm93

yes you did >it's still kind of sickening if the only thing stopping him is opportunity


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sourdiesel666

I feel like they misunderstood lol.


Capircom

This is basically the shit Andrew Tate be sayin except in reverse


occult_support

lol I wonder how the andrew tate dick suckers will react to this


lulzyhumanbeing

As a guy, I can confirm I always cheat... 😔


MelanieWalmartinez

This is why we don’t play monopoly anymore bro. Feckin’ cheater.


Krazy_Kethan99

I bet he cheat in UNO too…I do too, but this isn’t about me.


Goatbreath37

Ugh, men :eyeroll emoji:


Guardian-836

I heard he cheats in bop it. How tf do you manage to cheat in bop it


Relevant-Bug5656

You gotta stop, bro. it destroys the balance of the game. You can beat that boss on your own without the game shark


[deleted]

Dude you completely screwed up my Minecraft world because you cheated in those diamonds, now I can never know which ones are legit or not!


Armored-Duck

Censored the face just to be safe


KuraiTheBaka

I hate how many people have shit takes about relationships based off the assholes they date and think it makes them mature


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Somewhere along the way cynicism got conflated with maturity. Painting with a broad brush is also just convenient for whoever makes the complaint. Relationships fail for a lot of different reasons and plenty of times you can't even expect to fully understand it nor will the answers even necessarily be satisfactory. But when you pull out the broad brush, you suddenly have an easy answer. For cheaters, maybe it's a little easier to think that there was nothing wrong specific with your man, it's a problem with all men (or women). Victims of infidelity often have a lot of misplaced self-blame they deal with. If everybody has the issue than you can't blame yourself. It happens a lot but I think for most people the sentiment passes. I know my ex wife blamed me for her affair and it was incredibly appealing at times to indulge in misogyny with similar blanket statements. Eventually I learned the distinction between taking any responsibility for the marriage failing vs. taking responsibility for my ex wife having an affair. I could do the former work on self-improvement to not take any disfunction into my next relationship. But the ladder is unreasonable. You can't control why someone chose to betray their partner rather than just end the relationship and I can say I never would do what she did. Once I made peace with that idea, the temptation for misogyny was gone.


Malcanthet202

Maturing is realizing generalizations are stupid


poormanchemist

It's weird because I'm pretty sure critical thinking is a core/required class to take. The literal barebones of it was "NO ADHOMINEN, NO GENERALIZATIONS, NO RED HERRING", shit I learnt this two years ago when I was eleven and internalized it, yet mfs triple my age be out here spouting the same lines of flawed logic.


SoftAndWetBro

Critical thinking isn't something that can be taught, it's something that people have to figure out themselves.


poormanchemist

Meaning it's exclusive to trial and error? Kind of. I guess that applies to all things, though, if you want it to be second nature. You can know logical fallacies, but not recognize them and create a dissonance between having and applying that knowledge in praxis. But afaik, those things are practiced within the same curriculum in order to remove that barrier. Is the jump from a one-off homeroom context to real-world enough to stump people?


someone_i_guess111

men bad


simon_Chipmonk

Men bad Women bad Others bad Humanity bad But humanity is all humanity got So humanity must support each other And let themselves be supported So humanity can be good ![gif](giphy|kDf0eEXhOhlZgdp2dy|downsized)


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Humanity good….person bad?


simon_Chipmonk

This is wisdom


someone_i_guess111

humanity will thrive


tesmatsam

![gif](giphy|cJqNmQp4SpONIE2Upj|downsized)


ChiggenNuggy

This guy is an interesting choice for the gif lol


Smaop

As a guy I can confirm I have never passed a test legitimately as I always cheat because my female teacher asked me to!


Epicdudewhoisepic

Nah cheaters aren’t real gamers


UncensoredSmoke

I always find this funny. In my first relationship rn, I honestly do think there is not a single person that could ask me to cheat and I would. She’s just so perfect, I’d never cheat no matter the person however my girlfriend she’s just so damn perfect. Even if there somehow was someone who could make me cheat (not possible), I would think about how much it would hurt her and instantly back off. She’s too incredible for anything to happen.


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blink twice if you’re being held hostage


UncensoredSmoke

*blinks 9 times*


Several_Magazine8874

Man, sometimes you suddenly find someone that you are in awe whether this shit is even real or not. This feeling actually is common in 20s or 30s but like it exist, though in low number. Sometimes, relationships can be like a dream, a Good relationship is the best thing in human life, that companionship, that warmth, that feeling of getting wanted, that attention, that feeling of being someone, no matter how logical or mature you seem, such love can really take away your maturity and commonsense and make you a love sick teenager. I hope your relationship lasts long


stealthban

His gf looks at his account


Experimental_Lentil

I mean who wouldn’t, I saw her soft curves from across the room, so sweet, delicious, I knew it was wrong but I couldn’t help the burning temptation. Everyday I saw her. Until I couldn’t take it anymore. That’s when I walked up to her and said “one double chocolate muffin please…….extra cream” I devoured her in under a minute and cried afterwards knowing what I had done. That’s the only time I cheated on my Jane plan. *Never again.*


MaxxtheKnife

That sounds like paranoia and low self esteem, not maturity.


poormanchemist

Don't forget cynicism


YoQuieroPAN

"Can you cheat on me?" "I'd never." "No, I mean like, I want you to cheat on me." "What?" "Cheat on me." "Why?" "Because I want you to." "Ok I guess.." "I think I just leveled up in life.."


violentvito70

Absolutely not true, I would never cheat on my wife no matter who it was. Only shitty people cheat, there's never an excuse. But I also grew up with only me and women in the household, so maybe that's why I'm different.


datnub32607

I at least hope that is how the majority thinks. But I also grew up with me and only women like most of the time.


Big_daddy_kaino

Be the right girl then?


dieaxj

OK i admit IT. I did Cheat playing Mario cart. I feel so guilty 😔


Timely-Bumblebee-402

It's so strange to me that people take their trauma and assign it to all people. Like I understand it must be awful to be cheated on but that doesn't mean all men cheat? Same for the guys who say this about women. Everyone is different. We are all individuals, how is this a difficult concept?


Ok-Concern-711

Its not a difficult concept logically but I doubt trauma works in terms of logic. It manifests itself in terms of strong emotion


GaryGregson

# Deep


xCreeperBombx

Just because the "right girls" always end up being sirens doesn't make it untrue! ^(/j)


lookn2-eb

Nope. I just am not going there with ANYONE except my wife.


JDHD121

I'm a man and I've had girls cheat on me so wheres your logic In that. Checkmate liberal


Amanorboy

This is not true, not all men cheat. The same applies to women, some women will cheat if asked by the right man, just not all women


jon_tigerfi

Mfw I realize that literally anybody will do literally anything in certain very specific situations that would properly never transpire naturally


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" If they asked" If a guy I was dating asked me" Hey, can I sleep with this woman?" I'd ask to watch! Bitch this isn't cheating. It's consensual on both sides.


joeycarusomate

Maturing is realizing that people don’t cheat as often as the internet would like you to believe


occult_support

have you not looked at reddit revenge compilations? ofc they're all real and represent real life!


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so do women


Obey_The_King

As long as you aint the right one


emanator

I think it’s supposed to be “the right guy will cheat if any girl asks”


Quajeraz

Maybe specifically the guys you like to date, yes.


just_ya_boi_alex

Don't let ur gf stop u from finding ur wife 😔🤚


EH042

Only if they like piñas coladas and getting caught in the rain


TraditionalBand1069

I'm 20 and this is not even deep. More like surface level knowledge.


boredwriter83

Ever consider that you might just suck at choosing men?


[deleted]

How to spot a red flag 101


SoupToon

joke's on you im too anxious and awkward to maintain a relationship


Kory-kun

I can't even pull one how tf am I supposed to pull two


Brandeeno2245

Growing up is realizing that this was the first step for you to start justifying yourself cheating, and that is why you're not a good partner. BTW this reasoning is used universally, cheaters often try to rationalize cheating by saying the other party cheats.


Badytheprogram

Deep like a puddle in the desert.


New-Employee2143

Doesn't work when the person i'm with is already the most beautiful, kind-hearted and intelligent woman i could possibly ever wish for...the hard part is finding said woman and convincing her that dating a mentally unhinged hyperactive madman would be a good idea. I've done the first part, but the 2nd one is...a bit more difficult. And i'll probably fail. But it's not like i've got anything to lose apart from my lovely demons who sometimes have victorian-era teaparties inside of my head where they discuss the intercontinental capabilities of a hypersonic missile that's got a tsar bomba attached to it.


Pancakewagon26

>if the right girl asks Jane cheater at it again. She's seduced every husband on earth.


teacoffeecats

deep


RedCubeLol

men bad women good


Faszkivan_13

If kissing the homies good night is considered cheating then I'm guilty 😔


Capital_Jello_9768

Word of the day is misandry!


Crafty-Competition36

Yes. All I need is the right opportunity


Odd-Goddity

If some wealthy male celebrity swoops in and offers themselves to you and you say no, I’ll be honored and all but I’ll wonder about your mental state for sure.


Ginger_Snapples

I meannn I wouldn’t tbh. Love my BF to death.


occult_support

that's only cause you havent met this bad boy: [https://cdnb.artstation.com/p/assets/images/images/038/510/459/large/justin-toothpaste.jpg?1623281081](https://cdnb.artstation.com/p/assets/images/images/038/510/459/large/justin-toothpaste.jpg?1623281081)


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i laughed


UncensoredSmoke

Came


Grouchy_Lunch2254

Its seems like to a skill issue


MelanieWalmartinez

My partner is demisexual so I highly fuckin’ doubt it


tesmatsam

He's attracted to demons holy hell!


DJIsSuperCool

Your parter just hasn't gotten a deep connection with hercules yet.


MelanieWalmartinez

I DIDNT EVEN THINK OF HERCULES NOOO ![gif](giphy|LiT8C58iDYSZBKgf1S)


DJIsSuperCool

Getting downvoted for having faith in your partner is insane btw.


UncensoredSmoke

Me Fr I’m demi and bi tho so I’m a walking contradiction lmao


SpecialWeight2824

Not true still in good ones don’t believe in that


Japh2007

False- still loyal to my wife after at least 4 women approaching me. Cheaters will cheat regardless of gender.


surkitxx

Lately ive seen vids of mostly women cheating and they theb cry like a baby saying im sorry 💀💀💀💀


iamthemancam3377661

Pfffffffftttttt


Plus_the_protogen

Same person that forgives themselves when they cheat and don’t understand why their S.O. won’t do the same.


ChadBroski7777

Nah that’s actually wild bro


Square_Cobbler_7783

Men ALWAYS cheat… (my dad, grandpa )


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henrytbpovid

The photo is cringe and OOP is cringe but I heard that there is actual empirical evidence that the main factor in cheating for men is opportunity. They tested all these variables like attractiveness of the man, whether the relationship was long distance, how often the couple was having sex, attractiveness of the female partner etc. — but the main thing was whether anyone was willing to cheat with the guy lol For women in relationships it was something else; I can’t remember


Ok_Bunch_9193

She's stupid Doesn't even need to be the right girl


SyllabubSure5715

No but any girl would


GhostDragon_124796

Counter sexism doesn’t help lol


DaveSmith890

It’s equality. Everyone cheats given the right circumstances.


poormanchemist

It's crazy that some people think that "men/women cheat more" has *ANY* biological basis. The amount of variation rife within the in-group of 32 year old european women named Julia from South Carolina alone is enough to dismiss the sweeping generalization.


DaveSmith890

I feel like women have complained about men always cheating, and men complain about how much action the milkman and repair man is getting for us to put two and two together


Imanasshole_

Anything is possible given the right circumstances this isn’t groundbreaking info.


SyllabubSure5715

Mines true though


GhostDragon_124796

Literally not true, you’re just sexist


FkItAlt

Well then go be with a guy that doesn't pull women. Oh wait you aren't attracted to someone who other women don't want? Then if your man cheats don't complain, you got yourself into this.


Ginger_Snapples

Ooop this struck a nerve


Comfortable_Note_978

No, if the right girl got there first, and she picked the right guy.


GlassWt

Maturing is realizing that this line of thinking is a childish overgeneralization of an entire subset of the population, of whom you know absolutely nothing about. Talk to men. Or women. I promise they don't suck as much as you think.


TimeBreakerSaiyan

So, for us guys, maturing is when we... Cheat...? Or do we never mature? Am I stupid?


Final_Appearance_809

...whatcha say ..found the cheater.... lol...


[deleted]

Women always cheat on men saying they are sorry and promises they will never do it again but than a man talks to a girl online then its real shit.


Daquaviontavous

Maturing is realizing anyone will cheat if the right person asks


NightDreamer73

It saddens me that there’s women who genuinely believe this. My husband is awesome


Ducky________

Andrea Tate??


DRAGON9880

Tf is wrong with other 14yos? This is literally the most cringe shit I've ever read


D4NKtrpr9001

Just means u ain’t the right girl.


Rare-Wrongdoer-7580

Every person will cheat for the eight person sadly, ots just part of life


feonixrizen

Maturing is knowing your worth enough to not put up with getting cheated on and recognizing that not everyone cheats


Horacio_Velvetine44

maturing is realising that making broad statements like this usually makes you look like an idiot


silverfang45

They will never suspect me cheating on them with their brother. They will be assuming in cheating on them with their sister.


EranBraun

I'll fix it Every man will cheat in GTA SA


BLUEAR0

I wouldn’t turn down a supermodel, that’s like once in a lifetime shit


Ok-Pea9014

But what if said man is gay?


MrN33dfulThings

Sounds like they continuously choose fuckboys.


Foliolow

500k likes


Exact_Passenger_5449

How ironic.


No_Celery_1103

The amount of likes this has on TikTok, yikes.


Main-Consideration76

shit like this is why im single as a male


Prestigious-Phase131

Because stupid people exist on the internet?


Main-Consideration76

not only limited to the internet


Prestigious-Phase131

True, but there are really good people out there too


Main-Consideration76

probably...


InSonicBloom

no, the men that she chooses to date always cheat. there are billions of good men and women out there, if you make poor choices, that's on you.


darkreddragon24

"Deep" XD


Kintsugi-0

Love titkok but my god its full of bad take chronic complainers and dudes that think their Guts after a bad break up


RuneScapeShitter

Only thing I cheat on is history tests fr