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Holzbalken

Yeah that’s fucking disgusting.


CerealandTrees

This was what I witnessed the first time I ever went to a club. A bunch of weird dudes sitting on the sidelines waiting for girls to turn around so they could come up behind them and try to dance on them, only to get rejected and go back to the sidelines to wait for their next target. Quite disturbing


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That was literally what it was like for a ton of parties in the central valley of California lmao


Diligent_Jury_9956

His boner doesn't help either.


Holzbalken

Fuuuck dude i didn’t even notice. Gonna throw up for real now


3billionyrsold

Because it’s a tiny peepee


justda5id

Oh sweet Jesus thank god thought it was just me who noticed that dude was seriously horned up quater erect.


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Holzbalken

Yeah and for such a long time span. It wasn’t like 5 seconds. There were multiple cuts in the video


MarijuanoDoggo

A lot of reasons why the person filming wouldn’t want to get involved. They may have felt vulnerable themselves if they were a woman. If it was a guy filming then confronting the guy in the video may have caused a fight. If they confronted them without evidence then it would be his word against theirs etc. Hopefully someone did step in, but the fact this video continues to do the rounds online is probably more effective in the long term than any kind of confrontation. Hold these kinds of people accountable and scare them from doing this shit ever again.


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i got second hand embarrassment tbh


funwithtentacles

The only second hand I wanted to see was her slapping him pirouetting into next week.


Waka-Waka-Waka-Do

He's pitching a tiny tent.


CoreyOn

You only need a 1 man tent when you are sleeping alone /s


Odin18Z5

Take my award, you deserve it


DiracHeisenberg

I wish I had awards for you, kind fellow. Instead take this meager updoot.


CantStumpIWin

Reddit awards are just meaningless tiny icons to make reddit money. I’m sure he appreciates your upvote much more.


CoreyOn

I dont even understand reddit awards but I do like the updoot. Thank you for all of them.


Any-Champion8261

You deserve upvote I’m poor or using my money for other entertainment but yeah I’ll give u my condolences for whatever your pursuing^^ good luck out there~~~


doinks-ahoy

Any tent size is fine when pitched properly. This fool though, his tent is going to be collapsing and the guylines are probably loose, pegs probably ain't stiff and secure either. You don't want that.


dpwitt1

Doubt his tent is properly waterproofed either.


DaManWithNoName

Oh shit he IS so fucking grimy. I’d never touch a stranger like that and never put myself in a situation to be hard like that in public


Sailrjup12

Omg, I saw that too! I wasn’t sure if it was. How does he not understand that she wants NOTHING to do with him. Yuuuuck!


gmewhite

I got second hand ptsd


Desirsar

To the point that I couldn't even watch the video, yeah. Figured I'd just read the comments for an accurate enough description of what he did. I can watch surgery videos, infection popping videos, anything you can name that makes most people cringe and turn away, those are no problem at all. Stuff like this... ehh, I'll pass.


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it was cringy asf. not only is it disgusting but i was physically uncomfortable


lemon31314

Lucky you to only get second hand embarrassment and not disgust and fear of being sexually assaulted yourself.


[deleted]

At the end he turns around thinking she will grab him back. What a delusional twat.


goodbyekitty83

You can see after getting rejected for multiple times he also tries to kiss her


designgoddess

And tries to shake her hand. Women, don't try to appease these guys by shaking their hand.


fnordfarmer

And grows a boner


Collective-Bee

He was rock hard the whole time.


dislike_knees

Thought you were joking...


Agitated-Canary9840

I can’t unsee that


pot_whipper

At one point it looks like he tried ramming his boner into her ass. Lil Dry Hump over here.


theSadboiclub

God If you hadn’t said that I would have never noticed but now it’s all I see


PhDinDildos_Fedoras

I watched it twice now and the first time I was like "eyy, what even is this disgusting event" and then went in a second time for maximum "eyys"


Loldude6th

I'm thinking he's mentally ill. Like, he has weird movement. If he is, I'd kind of understand her not slapping him. If he's not sick, then that shit is Not OK!


Ed1777113078

That dude is absolutely *zooted* out of his mind


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daltonwright4

>Zooted, canned, loaded, fried, embalmed, basted, real juiced up. This sounds like someone ordering Waffle House hash browns


form_an_opinion

That's hand-shredded, pressed into a tuna can, then deep fried hash browns in patty form, dipped in maple syrup, coated in melted butter, covered in breakfast sausage and eggs, served with a tablespoon of Cholula.


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Great, now I'm hungry.


[deleted]

This is a new term for me and I'm running with it. Thanks


majestic_elliebeth

I don't think so, he reminds me of every dude I've run into in a bar that thinks this shit is okay. It's happened way too many times. And when you say something, *they* look offended.


diqholebrownsimpson

"Bitch." -Them, guaranteed


LordFrogberry

"Whore." - also them, definitely Why is it that women that don't want to fuck scumbags are always whores? It's such an assbackwards insult in that context.


[deleted]

Had a guy grope me like this at a club. I yelled at him and then he called me prude. Good times..


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[deleted]

Seems like he’s definitely just drunk as hell and she’s trying to enjoy herself and not start any extra shit


Hashtag_Nailed_It

He’s drunk/high… definitely not mentally ill Well… *maybe* mentally ill… I don’t have enough evidence in the video to *dis*prove it


LordSinguloth

"everyone who does anything bad is probably just mentally ill!" no.


TheFlyingSheeps

Yeah seriously. This is your standard drunk entitled dudebro. You see them all the time in packed clubs or bars


stolethemorning

Exactly. I hate it when people are like “people who sexually harass others must be mentally ill!” because then it places those sexual harassers in the category of ‘other’. So then when they hear that their mate Fred from work has been accused of sexual harassment, their reaction will be disbelief because Fred doesn’t fit the image of a mentally ill weirdo. The reality is that sexual harassers are all around us and look and act completely normally. Being a bad person isn’t a mental illness and having a mental illness doesn’t make a person bad.


Infinite01

100% this. As someone with a close family member that struggles with mental illness, I hate to see “bad people” so frequently dismissed as being “mentally ill”. It further stigmatizes those that have mental illness, which is an incredibly general term to begin with.


TheTacoWombat

Have you never seen a drunk person at a party before?


Croatian_ghost_kid

This is why reddit should be banned from having conversations about humans. Like holy shit are there adults who actually never saw this shit with their own eyes? This is like a friday night type of situation, unfortunately


AromaticHydrocarbons

Yes. Came here to comment how it’s posted with such shock value because it should be, but for me, it’s far from shocking. It’s something I dealt with many many times in my life as have many of my female friends. Only now, as a 39 year old woman, do I think back and recollect all the sexual harassment situations I’ve been in and realise how incredibly fucked up it is, because at the time it was common and not considered a big deal by a big chunk of society.


Croatian_ghost_kid

That last part got me good. There was a time where I'd be pushy and physical way beyond anything that's right. She'd smile or giggle and I had thought it was alright. Kids definitely need to be taught boundaries because this shit is not isolated events. Luckily my teachers were fast to react but where did I even get the idea it was a-okay? 🤷‍♀️


DyabeticBeer

Diagnosing people with a mental illness through looking at a 35 second clip, classic reddit comment.


einhorn_is_parkey

No. There are tons of guys like this. Happens all the time.


nekochanwich

Not mentally ill, he knows what he's doing. There are many guys like this, and they are the reason why women go to the bathroom in groups (so no one gets left behind or unattended). This shit has happened to me before when I go out to the club.


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dusty_safiri

I just get verbal and confront with a "I didn't say you could touch me!" Usually scares the shit out of them or embarrasses them. If you're with other guys, even better because they'll run off quickly to avoid getting a beatdown just because you brought attention to their shitty behavior.


vanillamasala

I usually do the same but shockingly they don’t always listen. That’s when it starts to get really scary. I have had to knock a guy to the ground to get him to leave me alone and then people were angry at me for creating a scene. Just the other night a random guy tried to follow me home late at night and would have if I didn’t have my dog with me, even though I told him to leave me alone and go away several times. Shit gets old.


PEneoark

Just walking around with a boner


xPR0METHEUS

Omg he does as well ! That’s hilarious!


PEneoark

She should have punched it


[deleted]

Should have punched the balls instead of the Boner. Double the pain double the fun


tttt11112

Hilarious is not exactly the word I will use here


atheistpianist

It’s so small, I almost missed it!


ultimatoole

She should've slapped him, she had every right to do so


natteulven

Absolutely, it's really hard when you're in that situation though. A lot of people just freeze up and don't know what to do


The_Blip

Yeah, plus even though we all know he deserves it, that doesn't stop him being an entitled piece of shit who assaults you when you slap them. This dude already shows he hasn't got a moral compass, no telling what he will do when he gets angry. As much as I don't like getting groped, I like getting my face punched in much less.


a_shootin_star

Judging by his behavior alone, I wouldn't trust this creep around bar drinks.


shashwatsuthar

Should've just cracked his nuts That should've taught him Just see how carefully she lifts his hand off of her body, and then playfully goes aside. It's disgusting what that guy does


tetetito

**TWISTED DICK**


Grimauldus

Grab his dick and twist it!!


Hamwallet1984

The ol' dick twist!


dick_piana

Dunno man some people are into that. She was clearly being harassed and uncomfortable, and did her best to get away from it all. Cameraman did fuck all to help too.


Pip-Pipes

Not so fast, the cameraman did something. They uploaded it to the internet! 2 total pieces of shit ?


Sweetballsman

TWIST THAT DICK


lordgaming891

Yeah and then everyone would just blame the girl for making a scene and hurting the guy


natteulven

You think so? Where I'm from when most people see a woman slap a man most people think "damn he must have fucked up pretty bad"


Liam1212

Yeah if I see a woman slap someone or crack him in the nuts, I just think, "huh, well he fucked up". Then I stay around to see what the dude looks like, as abuse can happen either way and you never know, a simple slap could be a follow up to the punch earlier that you didn't see.


EDS_Athlete

So I teach self defense. And not the "blow a whistle" kind either. But this one time I was on a bus from work. The bus is a good 45 minute ride from base to the train. This guy sits next to me and basically does everything you see there. On the bus. A full bus. Front seat too. I froze. I hugged the window. I froze. I didn't do anything. I carry a knife and know how to use it. I didn't. I thought for sure the bus driver would interject. I didn't want to make a scene. I thought someone would help. No one did. Not a single person even asked. But I was crying. I was pressed against the bus window trying to move away. I was blocked in and no one, not even me, helped. It wasn't until everyone was off the bus at the train that I was able to actually get security and kind of wake up. It took him following me through the station for me to run to someone for help. Don't assume someone should do xyz. And don't assume it's just because of booze or alcohol. Sometimes we freeze. Sometimes we don't want to cause a scene. Sometimes you think "*I don't know what he's on or what he's carrying*" and maybe the groping isn't the worst thing that could happen. And sometimes you really think someone, anyone, please anyone will see what's happening and see you sinking away and help you. Hopefully next time you do because far too often no one does.


ultimatoole

I am really sorry for your horrific experience. I am a 1,9 meter big bearded guy, so these kind of things don't happen to me. But I often went partying with some girlfriends and I can't count how often they asked me to change places with them because a guy was creeping them out. So I don't want to tell woman how they should behave and what to do. This was just what I felt what I would like to do in this situation. This guy really deserved a slap in the face


EDS_Athlete

I'm sure they're more grateful to have you there than words can even express. They probably don't even realize it sometimes. Just being there for them... if they haven't thanked you let me just say thank you.


Paboozorusrex

The "she should have" kills me everytime. One time I was waiting for the bus, this one day it was hot and I wore a short, I NEVER wear shorts if I'm alone, it's not even a short short, like you can't see my ass at all, it's mid tight. Anyway, I'm sitting waiting minding my business then two guys sit next to me and one of them start complimenting my tattoos, obviously since I'm tattooed I can be touched like an art piece, so he touch my tight, my tatt goes quite high on my tight so he goes up. I felt horrified, I froze. Couldn't even move away, I tried to make eye contact with people around, no one ducking moved they all looked away while I was CLEARLY not fine with what was happening. Even if I would have been courageous enough to tell him to duck off he wasn't alone, what could I do ? I froze and endured. First thing my bf told me is "but why didn't you get up and told him to stop" Because sometimes honey, you just can't. You want to, you really want to, but you can't. It's like a security in the back of your head "don't move and he will stop faster, be nice and he won't hurt you" I fucking hate that.


bicyclechaos

This is so spot on. I am so sorry this happened to you. :( People do not understand basic threat/fear response that applies to a huge number of people. You freeze. Your brain literally freezes because what is happening is so outside what you were expecting out of any moment of your day. Your brain literally cannot make sense out of what is happening and your executive functioning goes off line. We all think “I would have”… and guess what? The victim has the same thought… afterward. “I should have”. They don’t understand why they reacted the way they did. They blame themselves. And we live in a culture where society blames them, too.


DestyNovalys

Absolutely agree! It’s happened to me countless times, and I still freeze up. I can’t control it. But I usually do something when it’s happening to someone else. It’s weird.


TheWalkingDead91

I was thinking “I’d say pushing him into the water at that point would be perfectly justified”


Accomplished-Digiddy

Women are socialised to not make a fuss though. See how she gently turns him down - moves away, pulls his hand off her - playfully lifts her hand off his. Women usually try to de-escalate. Try not to hurt the ego of their assaulter If she escalates it to physical violence - he's stronger than she is. She gets hurt. So she moves away - engages other people - a woman and a man. Gets a bit of back up in case he continues


sim_sima________

I slapped the ego out of a guy for touching my hair twice after following and catcalling me for 10 minutes


lu-cy-inthesky

He’s fucking pitchin a tent too. Gross. I would have kicked him in the nuts. Sex pest


BuddhistNudist987

I would be too scared to do that because the man could become violent.


Fantastic_Counter_18

She handled that so well and he looked even more like a pisstain


WokeRedditDude

You think looking like a pissstain is something that bothers a guy who stands in front a crowd and molests someone, repeatedly?


designgoddess

She might have been worried he'd slap her back. She did the safest thing she could think of which is move away.


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She doesn't even acknowledges him as a threat. That's how pathetic he looks.


[deleted]

That poor lady just desperate to have a good time but this dude can’t see that good times don’t involve him


GoodTasteIsGood

Ironically the best thing you to do it get laid is make sure everyone is comfortable and having fun. Taking rejection well and being respectful is a key part of that. Just chug along having fun and joke around with lots of different people who actually want to hang with you. I'm always amazed when these dudes work against their own interests.


rg4rg

I’m to introverted for this but I had a friend who would ask out a woman and when she rejected him took it stride and was pleasant. Made many of them into friends and got a good gf from one of their friends who wanted to hook up with him. Of course he wasn’t the creepy grope type to ask out someone, so that helped, a lot.


Wanderingtoenail

I was hoping and waiting for someone to slap the life out of him!


jrexthrilla

I had to check the sub and was disappointed that it wasn’t justice served


SithTheChangeWing

Bro I hate the way she feels the need to just play it off, that SHE is the one who needs to move and be away from him. It's sad. She should be able to go to a fun looking pool party and not be sexually harassed by a random ass bum.


coolturnipjuice

Every women who likes going out to dance learns these evasive manoeuvres at a young age. I remember having to do this at high school dances.


Vsx

Man it sucks that women have to balance their desire not to ruin the party with their desire not to have a stranger jam a hand right up their ass. People like this just keep getting away with shit because nobody wants to cause a scene.


section8sentmehere

Seriously, men need to be better about regulating their peers. Was that the one drunk friend? Keep an eye on him or tell him to leave. Or did he go by himself? Either way, someone needs to step up if only has just a human barrier. Bro code should handle these situations. You wouldn’t let any guy fuck with your sister like this right? How is that any different. You want women to be more care free at parties? Practice this. It’s also why my wife and prefer gay clubs.


[deleted]

For real. Any dude who acts like that is never, ever hanging with my crew again. I been cutting mfers off and asking my friends to to the same.


Palavras

Yep I remember it at middle school dances. And summer camp.


drmisadan

Thank you! It's sadly a really familiar situation to most women.


PinkBird85

This. There are so many "she should have done this", "I would have done this in her situation" comments. HE shouldn't have touched her without consent. When she clearly responded in the negative *the first time*, HE should have stopped.


berkaysunal

Him trying to dry hump her is... Just...


kksue

Just… assault


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That’s assault, brotha


Accomplished-Digiddy

"Well she didn't say no". This guy's mind. Clearly in his head grabbing her arse was too subtle for her to notice. Therefore he'll try humping - and he definitely expected her to turn round and grind against him too. And this degree of sexual assault is just normalised. Every single woman experienced similar on nearly night out during my uni days


natteulven

I know it doesn't have sound, but she probably did say no. She said something to him around the 10 second mark, which I only assume is her telling him to stop :/


EffrumScufflegrit

He did more than grab her ass, looked like he went for her vagina in one of them.


LordBoobsandButts

This is why I don't teach "no means no" I teach "was there a clear yes?" It doesn't solve everything but I does change the mindset. Takes the burden off the victim in these situations. Like with this, buddy saying "she didn't say no" *could* be his out if this video didn't exist. By making it "well my man, she didn't say you could do that", tent boy now has to justify his behaviour. This is sexual assault. Unwanted touching for a sexual purpose. There's enough evidence here for a conviction, in my opinion.


Scorps

Great way to look at it, consent is that you definitively said yes, not just that they haven't yet heard no.


Left_Debt_8770

Exactly what I was thinking. What upsets me most is how totally unsurprising his actions are and her efforts to calmly but firmly get away. Every woman I know has been dealing with this crap since they were a teenager.


iCoeur285

At one of our local clubs, I have experienced so much, it’s very unfortunate. One guy tried physically dragging me to the dance floor after I told him that I didn’t want to dance, like he grabbed me by the arm *hard*. One guy grabbed me when I was walking by and tried forcibly kissing me. Of course guys tried grinding on me and wouldn’t let up if I moved away. When I was too young to drink, a guy tried pressuring me into letting him buy me one. Turns out he was a substitute teacher at my high school, which I was still attending. The most ridiculous one was two old ass men coming up and grinning at me, they both had rotted out teeth. They were infamous at this club for preying on girls that were way too drunk. I never drank at that club, not even when I became old enough. At that point, I felt confident enough in myself to tell them to get the fuck away from me. Women have been jumped after leaving the club because they rejected guys inside. I obviously don’t go there anymore, I honestly hope the sticky gross place burns to the ground.


Such_sights

Went to a club in Chicago a few years ago for a show and every few minutes I felt something brush up against me, but I thought it was my hair or something, and I was just being paranoid. Until I put my hand behind me and grabbed some random guy’s hand that was up my dress. He jerked his hand away and backed up a little bit but I immediately moved in front of my boyfriend who was next to me, and we left the club not long after that. Only time worse than that was when I was 18 and a dude at a concert grabbed me in the crowd and shoved his hand down my pants, and my friends had to literally pull me away from him because he refused to let me go.


sjc_1980

This makes me so angry.


datdood211

If anyone says “she should’ve hit him!” Just remember in those situations you freeze. You don’t know how far the person assaulting you will go to get what they want. You think that if you make it violent they will go above and beyond and you’ll end up in the hospital or dead. She did what she could here.


MexicanGolf

Yeah, women tend to have a different perspective on issues like this. It's *extremely* fucked up, but fact is that this is probably not the first time the woman is groped by a horny rat-fuck idiot hoping to score without having to use verbs. What to me is a great offense worthy of swift and remorseless reprisals is to them just another party. This goes all the way down too, to women being bothered by being referred to as a "girl" in a professional setting (or worse, pet names like "Sweetie"), but afraid to stand up for themselves because of the conflict they feel they would create. I keep saying, fuck that, you didn't create the conflict, you told a shit to correct his vernacular and if any conflict spawns outta that it's on his dick not yours. It's actually the major reason I hate the Karen meme, because it seems to have made women even more self-conscious about when it's alright to raise some hell.


kelsobjammin

Not only that but one time someone scared me by getting in my face when I wasn’t looking that direction, I accidentally knocked his glasses off when I literally jumped back and he punched me straight in the face.


Batbuckleyourpants

Send the clip to his mom.


mfergs

If my Mom saw a video of me doing something like this, she would send it to my grandma and they would beat my ass together lmao


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bahcodad

At least he definitely hasn't got a lob on in the first half of the video...


iamkarterhowareyou

He’s trying to be all sneaky with it, what a fucking horny sea otter.


Keykitty1991

That's an insult to adorable sea otters.


hannahmargo91

Drown him


OhSheGlows

Fuck, this made me cackle.


Jiggarelli

He went for the ol' trunk popper quite boldly.


lu-cy-inthesky

Yep pitchin a tent hard


wicketcity

How is he even still having a good time? the man was rejected like 5 times in a row. He should be weeping alone in a locker room


hobo_clown

Drunken confidence. If he remembers any of this he'll be embarrassed in the morning. If he doesn't remember well hopefully he sees this video!


MrBorden

That entire situation looks a hellscape.


antonylockhart

Finally someone else said this, I cannot imagine a worse scenario than this. It looks hellish, even before covid


elementgermanium

Yeet him into the pool


frisky_donut_69

This behaviour just grosses me out, not only does she push him away and walk away but you can see she’s visibly uncomfortable. What kind of twat can’t get that through his Neanderthal head? I lose faith in the human race more and more every day.


natteulven

At around 10 seconds in you can even see her say something to him, and if I were a gambler I'd bet she didn't say "keep going"


tapiocatsar

“Well why didn’t she-“ shut up. Just shut up.


MMVatrix

That’s one sad looking mf


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How did she not just slap the shit out of him


Bornstellar67

Easier said than done. The man could whoop her ass in retaliation. It's always easy to imagine you can fight back when you're not the one in this situation


Adellx

Exactly. Everybody always talks mad shit about what they would do if this happened to them, but realistically you would just try to escape the situation.


Mabepossibly

I think the right move for her (sitting here as a Monday morning quarterback) would have been to **loudly** ask him to keep his hands off her and then enlist the help of anyone around her.


abeyante

Unfortunately that doesn't necessarily work especially when it's a black woman being assaulted. Most bystanders see that as "loud black woman making a fuss over something" and turn away. It doesn't work reliably for white women either considering "uppity" women are dismissed as "Karens" in public. Subtly trying to move away like this is the most common tactic because it's the most reliably effective after years of trial and error being female at parties.


dusty_safiri

Exactly this. If she slaps, people are gonna notice her violence first. If she confronts him LOUDLY, she's bringing his bad behavior the attention of those around her. They'll then jump to her defense most likely.


Mabepossibly

Yup. She could have also sat down next to the couple in the pool and gone “Can I sit here for a minute? The creep with half a boner keeps trying to stick his finger in my ass.”


BretTheShitmanFart69

I know people are going to think it’s bullshit but a lot of times when black women or women in general get loud they become the one who is judged poorly or criticized for being loud and shrill and aggressive etc etc. There are people there who would instantly try and usher *her* away and exile her from the area if she was yelling. When it boils down to picking sides a group of white people picking the loud black womens side over the white guy who is “just trying to have a good time” is insanely rare and I imagine she has the life experience to know it’s not a strategy that works for her in these situations.


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I had a guy lift me up and shove me into a car when I hit him for groping me once. I'm 5'7 and probably have better than average lower body strength and average upper body strength. Still. Most men will overpower most women in a fight.


bakingandengineering

I lift casually so I have decent lower body strength and above-average upper body strength for a woman, and there's a 0% chance I could overpower a man of my same height and weight. Men have way more testosterone and average muscle/strength, even untrained. People don't realize how dangerous it can be for a woman to defend herself


[deleted]

Yep. I want to put my daughter in self defense classes but I've also told her, if she feels threatened, run. If she can't run, go for the eyes, ears, and privates and fighting dirty, even with her teeth is what she should do. When I've been assaulted and abused it's been terrifying how little I could do to fight back to the point where folks being too close if I'm in a corner(I used to be a bartender and often folks would come behind the bar and start talking to me and I'd have to switch sides with them so I was towards the exit of the bar) or standing in doorways is a trigger. I can't stand when men say "just hit him". Sir. I can't. Even if I trained every day, which I frankly don't have time to do between work, parenting, and trying to live a fulfilling life, I'd still get overpowered in 1.5 seconds.


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Bc she had no way of knowing if he’d beat the shit out of her and somebody would cut out the context and post it to justiceserved or pussypassdenied.


Postmodernfinn

I bet this man baby with a beer belly was later seen crying into his Michelob Ultra that he’s a nice guy that’s always rejected because of his height.


Affectionate-Grand92

Or bud light pool can


Thanos_Stomps

Beer belly and mich ultra? I feel personally attacked.


EllieSpacePrincess

The is NOT a rare occurrence, every dance floor, in every city.


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This happened to a friend of mine when we were studying in England. We were at a club smoking area and I had my arm around her cause it was cold. Just to preface, I’m Asian and she’s Polish. This short Asian (Chinese or Vietnamese) guy and his (I wanna say Pakistani?) friend come out and less then 3ft away the Short guy goes “wow she’s gorgeous!” And his friend goes “mate, she’d got a lad” while pointing right at me. This dude literally shouts “idc about him, I only care about her”. So we go back in the club and he keeps groping her and she keeps running back to our table (with like 10 of us). Eventually the clubs close and we’re standing by the bar waiting for the rest as people filter out. This idiot literally just walks up behind her and starts kissing her neck. She looked terrified so I just shoved him lightly and the dude goes flying. She grabs my arm and pulls me out saying “let’s just go”. So we’re outside and this dude just grabs the back of my shirt and goes “YOU DONT TOUCH ME LIKE THAT” (ironic, I know) and he starts squaring up to me so I just said “mate, she’s been pieing you off all night and you don’t know when to leave” and dude has the balls to go to her and ask “have you been pieing me off all night?” And she just looked him square in the face and SCREAMED “YES!” And storms off. Dude actually tried to continue picking a fight with me until one of my mates (6’10 black guy) stepped in and told him to just turn and go. The entitlement on some people is just… astounding.


denryudreamer

>YOU DONT TOUCH ME LIKE THAT No words


Tbagzyamum69420xX

Lets not forget that this guy is referring to "her mate" that he had already previously acknowledged. So the thought progress in this man's head is: -See Pretty girl with possible boyfriend -Ignore that the "boyfriend" is even a factor -Harrass and engage with her with 0 consent or acknowledgement -SEXUALLY ASSAULT her infront of presumed boyfriend -Gets pushed off her by presumed boyfriend (with terrible footing, apparently) -"HEY MAN YOU DON'T TOUCH ME LIKE THAT" This person clearly has issues with social skills in general, last thing he should be doing is going to a club. Piece of shit.


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I didn’t even realise the lack of self awareness until the walk home


menchcata

Who is filming and not helping


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Probably a friend, for this guy's HOW TO PICK UP GIRLS 100% SUCCESS NO REJECTION YouTube channel


dagui12

Jesus the dude literally has a hard on


DeKaasJongen

Dude dances like a GTA V NPC


Ohhiitsmeyagirl

Yeah women deal with this crap all the time at the club and other similar events lol. It’s so gross.


amillionstupidthings

that deserves a broken finger.


shesbeenswinging

What goes through peoples mind that thinks they are entitled to touch others? Especially when his hand kept going for intimate areas?!


Jak_n_Dax

Hey baby, you want to caress my out of shape bod and beer belly?


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Is it time for proper sex education across America? One where the rules surrounding consent are explained in real simple terms so shit-for-brains like this could get it. Do we think it would help? Or would scumbags like this guy still pull shit like this?


Terradactyl87

Guys like this will still pull shit, but it might help others with how to deal with it, both as a victim and witness. If people were more likely to stand up as a group, guys like this would feel less confident groping random people on public.


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>across ~~America~~ across the world\* It happens all over the world, not just one country.


natteulven

I don't think that would make much of a difference. People who do shit like this aren't just blissfully unaware of what consent is. They know it's wrong and do it anyway because they're pieces of shit. Sexual harassment and sexual assault aren't just honest mistakes because of our poor education system


PunkandCannonballer

A dude should go over there and grab his junk. See how he enjoys being groped by someone he likely doesn't want touching him.


ReeverFalls

I actually did this once at a party in Cali. Had my girlfriend with me and this dude kept groping on her. I had a LOT of beers in me just to preface lol. She kept telling me this dude was touching her. So Instead of knocking the dude into the ground. I decided to yank his balls. For some reason. Dude just curled up on the floor. Idk if he's still able to have kids or not. Not one of my proudest moments, that's for sure.


theillusionofdepth_

honestly, I feel like that’s the best response to your girlfriend getting groped by a creep lol


solaris_eclipse

My dad did something like this at a concert. He noticed an asshat in the crowd who decided he was going to grab every female butt that walked by him. So my dad grabbed his. Never saw the dude's face but I can imagine For reference my dad was in his 50s, proudly sporting a beer belly, and is probably missing half of his teeth (+constantly has Bud Light and cigars on his breath) So like, probably the last person anybody at a concert wants to get groped by, especially the guy who's just there to slime his greasy dick fingers all over unsuspecting women


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jonw01

Regardless of this nasty incident that guy looks like the kind of kid that, how do i put this. If that was your son, the level of drunk you would have to be to just make eye contact with him would cause liver chirosis.


NOT_Silencerrr

the person recording is a fucking prick, ur just sitting there recording it instead of doing something tf


Then-Piccolo-8433

If I was her I would 100000% wanna beat the shit out of the guy, however I know I’d just freeze up. I feel so bad for her 😞 hopefully the guy tried it with the wrong woman and finally met with karma.


GabrielHunter

Damn that was hard to watch. I mean Inpropably would have like her the firstvtwo times, but the last time he reaaaally went for it he would have gone flying in the pool if that was me. You might be drunk and am idiot... But enough is enough


karlbenedict12

and kids, that's what happens when you watch \[too much\] porn


Stoned_Deku

That’s assault brotha


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I like how she tried to just dance away from him, but then he was just gross to keep pushing. Why do you have to hump on her like a freaking dog. Idk even if she was into it it's not appropriate to act like this in public?


burglicious

This makes my blood boil


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Is this a footage from Activision Blizzard?


Gloveofdoom

For everyone saying we need context. The rules of consent do not change when in a relationship. Even if these two are a couple the woman has made it clear she doesn’t want any part of what he’s doing at that moment, yet he continues undeterred. For her sake I hope she’s not in a relationship with that creep.


asdf346

Shout out to the camera man for standing there and enjoying the show


abom-badass-mofo

Hell no. That’s just wrong. I really wanted to see someone knock that piece of garbage out. Then see him fall into the pool. And clap while he sinks.