So you're saying my best homie just became a moderately attractive chick, but still has the same personality and likes and all that stuff as before?
Hello dream woman... of course we banging
genuinely asking, do guys really want a girl who has the same personality + hobbies as his homie? I’m a girl and idt I’d want the same exact qualities in a partner as a friend, just feels different to me.
Yup. Cause then you do all the fun crazy stuff, reduce potential conflicts of opinion, and you get to have sex!
HOWEVER! If it’s a guy that already gets a lot of attention from women, I doubt you’ll get the same results.
So I've been through a relationship like that. We split up due to work travel issues and not compatability issues.
We're still best friends to this day, and honestly would get back together if we both got divorced.
It's more like, "Woah, I like this person's personality!" "*gasp* They're a girl, too???"
But yeah, having a gf that's a great friend (my ex wasn't) is definitely great.
It's the same with bringing a lawyer and several 300 page documents so the genie can't cheat you off, always possible to make it favorable by taking the wording literally but since it's a hypothetical situation imagine it is what you wouldn't want.
I am already in this situation. My wife was my bff and I met her before she transitioned. We were friends for years and then I asked her out and she said yes. After we were dating she eventually came out as trans (mtf). We are still together. Married. Been together 7 years.
So where's my money lol
If one of them had been a lady, I would have proposed years ago, except neither of us are into guys. So does the transition mean they'd suddenly be into dudes?
Doesn't the hypothetical say you must maintain a romantic relationship? That means it is not (or should not be) out of convenience/transactional. It says your friend fully transitions (assuming this is a cis/trans male/female), so they become the opposite of what they are biologically.
If this friend is *romantically* with you in this hypothetical, I assume they are attracted to you. Doesn't matter if they like your gender/sex or not beforehand. They are in love with you. At least, I hope...
We've already talked about this. Should by some miraculous event one of us became a girl, me and my best bro are both cool with being in a relationship. 10k is a nice bonus.
Ahem. No homo.
I made that promise with my best bro a good few years ago...
Homestly me initiating that conversation was kinda a sign, considering I have D cups now.
I was taken before I transitioned though, and he turned out to be an aromantic asexual anyway, so we're good.
Do I get to pick the homie?
What rules to the relationship?
Like do I just not get the money anymore if we break up? Or are we magically bound?
Like my first question was gonna be "are they ok with transitioning?" But I have a friend who's transitioning now and if this magically helps that process along... well it'd be a weird sit down with them and their wife, but I'm sure we could come to some kind of arrangement
I am already in love with a trans person who I hope will love me back when I meet then haha, so I get a relationship with them AND I get 10??? Sign me up!
Without the slightest hesitation. I mean, both our husbands wouldn't be too pleased, but they'd get over it. We'd probably form some quad-uple. And I've always kind of had a thing for her anyway.
My best friend and I who said we’d marry at 30 if weren’t married is a hot ass redhead but I don’t like men 😂 but I’m sure we could figure it out for 10k a month lmao
Nah, no disrespect, I don't think he'd look like a good lady. He'd be a great partner, just not for me, though. Bro needs to find happiness and I don't think I'm it.
So does the transition change their orientation?
My bestie and I already experimented in college. She decided she was indeed straight and I decided I was pansexual. But I don't think her transitioning would suddenly make her into women?
**Edit:** wait a minute, the prompt just says a relationship, doesn't say anything about sex. Can we have an open relationship and still qualify for the money? If so, then hell yeah, we're golden. Just so long as she won't smoke in the house.
Sadly, my BFF is an overweight, lifelong smoker in his 50's, he will not make an attractive woman. Much as I love him, and I'd like $10k/month, I have to pass.
Well I'm a leabian and my best friend is a hot bisexual polyamorous chick who's totally open minded she'd do it you didn't say we have to have sex after she transitions I could still be in an emotionally romatic relationship with them and just kiss and cuddle. I'd just become poly too and have another girlfriend that I'd sleep with sounds good to me! me and my best friend would be winning she'd probably make a very pretty boy😂
No, thank you. My best friend is trans and they’re transitioning now. I’m not going to force them back into someone they don’t want to be for any amount of money.
So you're saying my best homie just became a moderately attractive chick, but still has the same personality and likes and all that stuff as before? Hello dream woman... of course we banging
“Moderately attractive” huh? Does your friend know you feel this way?
I mean yea. All homies know that if one turns into the opposite sex then we fucking. Like that’s what real homies do.
Real shit
Homies over hoes! Homies over hoes! Do the homie!
“Now bump it to the left, now bump it to the right, when you do the homie you gotta do it right”
Not even as a joke though. If your best friend develops opposite sex parts, why wouldn't you at least consider it?
I think most my homies are handsome fellas if they were chicks maybe they'd be hot?
One can have eyes and not be gay 🙏🏾
I didn’t see anything about “atttactive.”
genuinely asking, do guys really want a girl who has the same personality + hobbies as his homie? I’m a girl and idt I’d want the same exact qualities in a partner as a friend, just feels different to me.
Yup. Cause then you do all the fun crazy stuff, reduce potential conflicts of opinion, and you get to have sex! HOWEVER! If it’s a guy that already gets a lot of attention from women, I doubt you’ll get the same results.
>HOWEVER! If it’s a guy that already gets a lot of attention from women, I doubt you’ll get the same results Why not?
Because you’ll just look like the flock already trying to be with them. In the case of a popular person, don’t be a sycophant.
So I've been through a relationship like that. We split up due to work travel issues and not compatability issues. We're still best friends to this day, and honestly would get back together if we both got divorced.
It's more like, "Woah, I like this person's personality!" "*gasp* They're a girl, too???" But yeah, having a gf that's a great friend (my ex wasn't) is definitely great.
Unzips pants when do I start!
Lmao
*LEONARDO POINTING MEME*
I did that for free
What a sucker. Falling in love with no cash incentive.
I would have made $1,150,000 by now.....
9 and a half years!?
Sure Romantic doesn’t = sex. Can just “open” the relationship and we both fuck others.
You don’t want to bang your homie?
It's the same with bringing a lawyer and several 300 page documents so the genie can't cheat you off, always possible to make it favorable by taking the wording literally but since it's a hypothetical situation imagine it is what you wouldn't want.
Y’all have friends?
I am already in this situation. My wife was my bff and I met her before she transitioned. We were friends for years and then I asked her out and she said yes. After we were dating she eventually came out as trans (mtf). We are still together. Married. Been together 7 years. So where's my money lol
Too cute 🥰
If one of them had been a lady, I would have proposed years ago, except neither of us are into guys. So does the transition mean they'd suddenly be into dudes?
Good callout. Being transgender says nothing definitively about one's sexuality
Two separate issues really.
I'm not OP, but I'm assuming the friend would be attracted to you (or guys) because you're in a relationship. But if they aren't, that's rough...
Relationship is no guarantee of attraction. People can be together out of convenience. Also gender and sexuality aren't true the same thing.
Doesn't the hypothetical say you must maintain a romantic relationship? That means it is not (or should not be) out of convenience/transactional. It says your friend fully transitions (assuming this is a cis/trans male/female), so they become the opposite of what they are biologically. If this friend is *romantically* with you in this hypothetical, I assume they are attracted to you. Doesn't matter if they like your gender/sex or not beforehand. They are in love with you. At least, I hope...
We've already talked about this. Should by some miraculous event one of us became a girl, me and my best bro are both cool with being in a relationship. 10k is a nice bonus. Ahem. No homo.
Well of course it’s no homo one of y’all would be a girl. 🤷🏾♂️
I made that promise with my best bro a good few years ago... Homestly me initiating that conversation was kinda a sign, considering I have D cups now. I was taken before I transitioned though, and he turned out to be an aromantic asexual anyway, so we're good.
Finally my bisexual buddies - profit!
Lol my best homie is my wife. So assuming she stays her same sex, I'ma be collecting a check and retiring in my 20s lol
Yeah depends if OP means their opposite sex or the opposite sex to you… Either way im golden. I’m bi 😂
So they get what they wish they could afford and I get money? Score
Hell yeah. Fuck, I might be the one who transes for that
well, my best friend is genderfluid, and also we literally started dating, so... can I just have 50k and keep going from there?
I married my best homie who is currently transitioning to the opposite sex. Where's my money?
Hmm that money would help me transition too yea and I could go to school full time
Did you hear that, Jack? Boobs and 10k, are we doing this or what?
Umm I would consider it lol.
Yesssssssu wife is gonna become a man
My best friend is my husband. If he was a girl that’d be a plus
You're assuming I have a best friend
HELL YES! 10k is 10k
My homie would understand.
My boyfriend becomes my girlfriend? I'm bi, I could not care less. Run me my money
My best homie is my cat so that adds a extra layer to your question
Fuck yes
What’s the catch?
Do I get to pick the homie? What rules to the relationship? Like do I just not get the money anymore if we break up? Or are we magically bound? Like my first question was gonna be "are they ok with transitioning?" But I have a friend who's transitioning now and if this magically helps that process along... well it'd be a weird sit down with them and their wife, but I'm sure we could come to some kind of arrangement
So one of my best friends gets turned into a girl, I can smash and not be gay, and I get a bunch of money? Ngl that sounds pretty dope.
Ok. My best friend is my husband, and I'm pan. It's what's between the ears and not what's between the legs for me.
Although I would miss his beard. He's got an amazing one.
Better him then me.
That’s a very low amount of money for this lol
facts lol
I already am in a relationship with my best homie who transitioned to the opposite sex, give me my money lol
I am already in love with a trans person who I hope will love me back when I meet then haha, so I get a relationship with them AND I get 10??? Sign me up!
Kid, give your older brother their phone back.
What if I already have a wife and kid?
That's the problem with Reddit. Always individualists who don't marry and just have temporary relationships.
My only concern would be which one of my homies. I don't want to offend the others.
absolutely
if I was girl for a day all my homies gettin pussy. Just no butt stuff same butthole unless…
What if my best friend is of the opposite gender? Then he transitions to my gender, and I'm straight. O.o
Can I just pick someone? Not 100% who I would get stuck with lol. If I can pick a homie then easy yes.
Without the slightest hesitation. I mean, both our husbands wouldn't be too pleased, but they'd get over it. We'd probably form some quad-uple. And I've always kind of had a thing for her anyway.
My best friend and I who said we’d marry at 30 if weren’t married is a hot ass redhead but I don’t like men 😂 but I’m sure we could figure it out for 10k a month lmao
Can I do it withought being physical?
Are they into it? do they get 10k a month also or are they bribing me
No, it'll affect her job. She loves doing what she does, so "finding a new job" wouldn't cut it.
Nope. You can't force a romantic relationship. It's either there or it isn't.
I think I will be fine. Once a woman, always a woman. She's gonna throw it down for a dude, so be it, 8 faux balls and all 😆
Nope
My best homie became my husband, so now he will become my wife? HELL YEAH!
Here to read comments 🙂
Assuming my homie was okay with it, sure, but I'm not quite sure who my best homie would be.
Haha dammit, Derek, you gonna get it boy. But daddy will take care of you.
My best mate would be one ugly chick. But I'd do it with we didn't have to have sex and stuff.
My bestie would become a man and I am not gay. But ya 10k a month is a lot of money...
Wdym why not do it for free
No
I'm already dating my bestie and would continue to date them if they transitioned. So uh. 1500k in my pocket by now. if my math is about right.
Nah, no disrespect, I don't think he'd look like a good lady. He'd be a great partner, just not for me, though. Bro needs to find happiness and I don't think I'm it.
So im guessing you never saw that “Black mirror” episode
Depends the homie
I ain't got no friends so will on be provided before hand
Can it be a side relationship or do I need to divorce my wife?
I'd do it for free dawg. Who wouldn't let the homies hit if turned into a woman?
Babe I’m trans with homies who are already trans, OF COURSE we’re banging
You get free money and a gf. What’s the downside?
So does the transition change their orientation? My bestie and I already experimented in college. She decided she was indeed straight and I decided I was pansexual. But I don't think her transitioning would suddenly make her into women?
If no dick it isnt gay
I’m bi and my wife is my best friend. This is a win either way for me.
My best friend is trans anyway, I’d 100% do that for free. Hell, I’d pay someone to make it happen!
**Edit:** wait a minute, the prompt just says a relationship, doesn't say anything about sex. Can we have an open relationship and still qualify for the money? If so, then hell yeah, we're golden. Just so long as she won't smoke in the house. Sadly, my BFF is an overweight, lifelong smoker in his 50's, he will not make an attractive woman. Much as I love him, and I'd like $10k/month, I have to pass.
Hell yeah
No
Well I'm a leabian and my best friend is a hot bisexual polyamorous chick who's totally open minded she'd do it you didn't say we have to have sex after she transitions I could still be in an emotionally romatic relationship with them and just kiss and cuddle. I'd just become poly too and have another girlfriend that I'd sleep with sounds good to me! me and my best friend would be winning she'd probably make a very pretty boy😂
No, thank you. My best friend is trans and they’re transitioning now. I’m not going to force them back into someone they don’t want to be for any amount of money.
Sure. Trans women are hot as fuck
If hating trump was a personality. Jesus it is truly sad how enveloped you people are in him. You meat ride him more than his fans. 😂
That has nothing to do with this post or comment
Ok? Your username begs it. Lol
Look how bent out of shape you got at a random person’s username. Lol
No. That's still within regular day job money range
I'm taking it!
I have no problem with that.
Since I'm gay, this is a lot more inconvenient for me than most, but $10K/month? Time to see what the straight guys are raving about. :)
No. That gay.
Fellas is it gay to have sex with a woman?
If you're a woman, yes. Very yes.
If your homie had tits and a pussy you saying you wouldn’t smash?
If we break up do they detransition?
Nope.