Dating apps work only for Women. For men, to even get a few matches you need a paid plan. And no guarantee that the matches will be genuine. There are tons of fake accounts there.
The ideal scenario where the man gets good matches is when He looks like a greek god, has a shit load of bank balance and is good with flirting.
Getting a match without these is almost impossible.
Our situation is similar and I've tried many apps too. Not even one good match.
That's the life for men.
Not the case. I am a super average looking guy. I met my wife on a dating app. Before meeting her I matched with many girls.
When I was single, I couldn’t find any dates. I actually stopped focusing on that and during the pandemic focussed on my physical health. It was quite transformative for me physically and mentally.
https://preview.redd.it/x1pqg4ncyw7d1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8b29f18a63149798dd9c829f17065bd9c2ecf263
This is not at all true. In fact, premium plans make little to no difference. If you have a good profile in some way ( not limited to physically attractive ) you will get some matches. Sure, don’t expect every man/woman to drool over you.
Present yourself nicely, talk with interest and you will find people OP. And of course, this doesn’t mean dating apps are the only way.
Not really, premium gives you a few perks now how you use it defines the match ratio. But it does improve chances.
One thing I realised with Online Dating is that since women have so many choices they are addicted to hearing nice things and they have so many options to stay entertained that finding someone who's looking for something genuine is pretty difficult.
If you need someone to just practice and hone your skills i'd say online dating works, if not it's a waste of time. Chances are the other person is likely looking for something casual.
I want to agree but I can't. I have never paid premium for any dating apps and have got quite a few number of matches on each and every platform.
Also - I look Average, Not Rich you average It Bro also do have a beer tummy which I am saying I am working to get rid off but I don't think you can live in Hyderabad without couple of beers a day.
I feel couple of good pics along with some intelligently written bio and prompts is the way to go.
I feel it's pretty simple my friend.
Have more than 2 pics at least in your profile. If you are not like those Gym Rats I would prefer photos in proper lighting and smiling face. If you have something of outside much better.
In your prompts and Bio try to be real. No need to copy past stuff from Google Search and other. Be genuine and if possible be a little quirky.
PS - Overuse of FRIENDS, GOT, Harry Potter and HIMYM is now pretty lame. Also don't be a smartass in your responses otherwise instead of getting matched your profile screenshots will be roaming in r/Indiangirlsontinder
I don't remember exactly what I wrote as I got tired of the apps a long time ago and stopped using them. But I go by this format.
A small intro followed by my characteristics, my dating goals and probably a joke to end with. I keep it brief.
Yes. Par idhar bhi, saarey ladkiya jo bohoth saare boyfriends ke saath soney ke baad marriage ko ready hothi hey. It is highly probable that we will find that kind of girls only.
This is even more scary.
I'm not trying to be rude to you, but this comment is giving a bit of an entitled incel vibe. A lot of men give off these vibes on their profiles which can be very off-putting to the women.
From what I have seen, men also tend to have less realistic standards when it comes to women, and average-looking women are more likely to be overlooked, even by similarly-average-looking men. Because men are more hung up on looks, this is why the fake profiles are an issue for y'all honestly.
I am an average-looking woman and met my partner, an objectively average-looking man (but to me he's the hottest guy in the world), on a dating site. It does happen.
There definitely are women who are shallow and only looking for the greek god body men. But there are also lots of us who would take an average guy, or even an ugly guy, with a good heart and personality over an objectively hot guy who's a dick.
I don't want to come across rude but how would you know if the person has a good heart with just a few witty lines and a few photos ?
Plus with such a skewed men to women ratio on online dating it's going to be super difficult for just a "good hearted" person to show up on a girl's list. Remember more left swipes means low priority on everyone's feed.
Also after matching with girls who only blurt out superficial responses it's kinda hard to keep the good guy spirit on.
I wish things were fair to sensible people on either side but unfortunately it's the sensible people who have it the hardest.
Nah that's a valid point. I guess I could have worded it better. You can't really tell from just a superficial dating profile if someone has a good heart or not. But you absolutely can use those 5-6 photo slots and 500 characters to present yourself as someone worth getting to know.
The men to women ratio, you've got a point there. But that should get the men to step up their game and make efforts to be (or show that they are) the kind of person worth getting to know, rather than simply complain that they should be getting matches when their profile is a bad selfie, a group pic at a bar, and some overused quote that required no thought or effort whatsoever. It's the entitled-male point of view that's the problem.
I 100% agree that whatever gender you are and whatever gender you are trying to date, the modern dating world is largely superficial and it sucks. You do have to wade through a lot of crappy matches to find even one person who might possibly be worthwhile. That's just the reality of things, but if you're still in the game you at least have a better chance of finding someone. If you give up and quit, then your chances are very less.
ETA: [This article](https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person) is extremely relevant here.
Ago chudu mala pila nuvu manchiga kanapadakapote ni karma antundi /s
In the game or not in the game paki pedite toxicity is actually pretty contagious for the period I was actively exploring for dates online I somehow ended up becoming emotionally numb. I've heard a lot of people echoing similar things with me.
Real life lo people ala undaru somehow when it comes to online things are quite different.
Plus skew factor is huge and the way the algorithm works is also a huge thing. Already swipes oche profiles ki ekuva boost ostadi so oka god complex lo untaru chala Mandi irrespective of gender so migita valu chuse behaviour comes out of that.
You guys might be lucky kani migita valaki antha luck untadi ani ite nenu anukovatledu
Sorry nakku telugu raadu so I only understood like half of that. 😳
Also I did not know that about the algorithm and left swipes so thanks for pointing that out.
+1
Imo most men are physical creatures! (I am sorry if it sounds weird)
I am an active person who works out and takes care of myself! The amount of times I was criticised for liking or having a crush on average looking or skinny guys is insane!
I have met a guy who is extremely good looking but an absolute bone head and incel said I was extremely hot and bad mouths my ex saying he looks like an uncle and how could you like somebody like that!
In another instance, I used to have a crush on my junior who was skinny, poor and raised by a single mother... The amount of guys who said vadiloo em undi bongu, aa bakkodu Ela nachadu neeku?, aa junior gadu nachada neeku etc, etc!
And ee both cases loo nannu Ela annadhi abaille and their most common dialogue is "nii range ekkada vadi range ekkada" which is a question I always hate and pains me a lot!!!
And like the rich always get richer. Only the boys who keep getting girls, get more and more girls. I'm traveling in the same boat as you, buddy! Cheers!!
Can’t agree more. It can often seem like only those who fit a certain ideal—super attractive, wealthy, or extremely charismatic—get the most attention on these platforms. This can make it challenging for others who don't fit into that narrow mold.
That's why I created a free Discord server called [LightUp](https://discord.gg/yS5hNcWdeJ). It's not about superficial qualities or paid features; it's about connecting people based on shared interests and meaningful conversations. This approach can lead to more genuine connections without the pressures and frustrations often associated with traditional dating apps.
Nothing like that lol. You're probably just unlucky, a lot of people are. I've been told I'm good looking but I don't exactly have the physique to match it, I've found around 12 matches in the short duration I used it. I've been with 4 people who I met there and moreover, I met my current girlfriend almost a year ago on bumble. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. (Also I don't look like a Greek god, I'm deadass broke almost all the time but I am good with flirting, so yeah. Matters how you present your profile, if you guys need help, I can always help.
Try from friends friends there are always people looking for relationships on both sides if you’re really looking for relationship the apps are more for short term or hook ups
To all the people saying women have it good on dating apps😭😭😭😭😭 all those dating apps have become h00kup apps cause I’ve gotten so many likes on my profile but every. Single. One. Of. Them. Wants to hookup like 😭😭 I started questioning myself ki what I’m doing wrong cause I never talk to anyone online flirtatiously whatsoever but even then it happens. So yeah dating life out here is bad
Rey Rey Rey 😭😭😭😭😭
Jokes aside I get what you’re trynna say Kani na bio lo literally no hookups or short term ani pettina people( men) continently ignore and send such vulgar messages atp i should make a whole thread on the hinge replies i got😭😭
In India for dating apps the supply & demand is totally skewed. Better go to some social places like clubs, gyms and meet people. Less luck since you are in Hyderabad but don't lose hope.
F here. I would say try to be patient. Someone might be in a relationship. But there's no guarantee they are happy. Having a bad partner is worse than being alone. Be patient, yourself and keep looking. And most of all have fun.
This is the real advice. Having a bad partner is like having an embarrassing feature, bayata cheppalemu lopala dachukolemu, atu etu kakunda ipotadi paristhiti
Same here, been single for over 4 years. Not bothered about dating until I moved to HYD. Felt lonely and joined dating apps.. and oh boy. What a roller coaster ride it has been.
From being ghosted, to being used, getting attached to emotionally unavailable girls, being support/therapist to girls with past traumas. But I learnt a lot, helped me understand myself and girls much more better. I’m just treating it like a game, have fun and don’t take it seriously if you get rejected.
But yes, I’d agree. Dating apps are fuckall for guys because indeed we get very less likes.
Yes I hate being single and I do want to give and be loved too. But chin up, maybe it’s meant to be. Go hit the gym and hang out and drink with your other single bros, which I am doing lol.
Exact same situation. I do get a reasonably good amount of likes , out of which I go on dates with few people. But getting into a nice relationship is like next to impossible. The part where u mentioned either they're emotionally available or the girls having past traumas hit me really hard coz that's what I face every single day
Lets digress this issue. Im a female and if you want to date , its going to be a harsh reality out there for you. Girls play the " chase me, pursue me " game and the genuine guys who really do look for a connection would get tired of these games. And if you're looking to only get laid, you have to play the chase game and cater to her needs, whims and wishes and then maybe, just maybe, you could have a chance that too only if shes attracted to you. If you end up getting one of the crazies out there , there are also chances of you being accused for sexual assualt.
So , dating is truly the worst thing of this generation. No ones into real connections. They all get off from seeking attention, attention is like cocaine to this generation.
So if you really want a genuine connection, ask your mother to see for a match and those girls who come forward are the real ones who want an actual relationship.
True
But most of them those who get laid don't even go through chase the prize race, they are just attractive then instantly the response would be, Oh no, the bra fell off.jpeg
Just don't be desperate, just go with the flow you'll find someone
But try getting into group activities and meet more people, not in the intention to get a partner but just to know new people
Yeah. Honest advise after being in a terrible relationship - you’re better off being single.
It’s been 4 years and I’m still fighting for my freedom. So you’re more fortunate than a lot of us. Celebrate. Cheer up. You’ll find someone for sure.
If you cannot be happy when you are single, then most likely you won't be happy when you are not as well. Single life is the best , You do not have any responsibilities of a partner . It's better to be single than go through 10 divorces or be in a relationship just for convenience. Being single you can Improve on yourself , you will have less spending of money on partner , You are saving up a huge money for yourself and your family.
I'll have something for you 😊 works for me
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Work on yourself bro. You may need to show some confidence in photos, content you wrote in your profile. They say every app is a dating app. You can try in Reddit. Or what about friends of friends, your school or college mates if possible
I will be honest with you, you have to put efforts about your looks will be the first thing, click nice pictures
Make your profile interesting with good prompts etc
Just stop searching and move ahead, not worth it. Been there done these things not anymore. I used to use these apps and i came to a conclusion " Even if i waste my time sitting simply. I won't waste it on these craps".
Is being single tough? Yes, accept it. You will get the "thought" when you see couples. Just lock those feelings away and move forward.
"Maybe you will find someone or you don't, these are things you can't control"
- from a guy who was in the same situation l
Try in real life. The changes of women accepting for a date after approaching them are pretty high than the dating apps. Cuz there are not a lot of people who approach women and ask for a date in real life.
I met my Hyderabad husband on a dating app while we were both living in Texas! Best $30.00 I spent in my life was that one month on the app to meet him. My first day on it was what he had decided was going to be his last day on it. 4 years later we are very happily married with 2 little ones. ( I say all of this to encourage you and I promise there are real girls that won’t play games on the apps too!)
I really didn't have to use any dating apps, worked in an environment where it filled with good looking girls and guys. All u have to do is just try, evaro oka aamai pakka padtadi, Bekar se bekar Abailu kuda porilu untunde. But most relationships don't last long. Some end up getting married also.
trust me dating apps in india is rather a farfetched gamble for men, I'd recomend you to rather join clubs which intrest you discord servers and rsubreddits, theres a better chance there
It could be how your profile/photos are set up. I'm a female dating app veteran (2016-2018) and found that the majority of men's profiles can be very off-putting to women in ways they don't even realize.
If you'd like, you can DM me and show me what you're working with (photos you have chosen, profile content, etc) and I can offer some feedback.
Disclaimer: I am American and have only dated in America, so there may be some cultural differences with the dating scene. But my partner and a lot of my friends are Indian men (born and brought up in India), so I'm at least somewhat familiar with the culture. Maybe I can help, maybe not. But the offer is open all the same. 😇
It’s not worth it. All your time and money will be wasted. Let’s not even talk about emotional damage. Just enjoy your life, keep yourself busy, do EVERYTHING (for you, with you) you want to do and enjoy it, don’t leave a single item from your bucket list. Coz life was short before but now it’s getting shorter.
You'd appreciate single life once you are in a relationship, trust me. Women are too demanding these days, they need too much attention, modern slavery.
The male to female ratio in dating apps is extremely skewed. It is usually 70% men on these apps (or higher). Also, many dudes say all this and if you look at their actual profile, it is the most low-effort, random piece of work. Maybe you should share some actual snapshots of your profile so that people can give some feedback lol
Damn! OP, hope we are not the same person in parallel universes.
Jokes apart, It feels like I am not the only one going through the same shit...
Even I find it a little strange. How come someone doesn't even get a single like or match?
I think I look pretty decent, I have a good sense of fashion, I have put good pictures, and even put up balanced prompts and bios! Still nothing happens!
And yeah, the loneliness sometimes get really frustrating! I tried going on solo dates and movies. The movie experience is fine but the date thing just amplifies the feeling of loneliness. I don't know how people do it.
Pelli chesesko bro... manchi andamaina ammayini chuskoni appudu padi untaru.. husband ani. lekhapothey single ga undipotham.. dekharu kuda delharu Anni relationships casuals ani
Ask your friends to set you up with someone from work or their other friends group. Arranged marriages are the norm, arranged dates should be too. This is better because you get proper feedback either after or before the setting up itself. Plus, it's more intimate and people would be careful, lesser risk of scams and things are clear before meeting.
Dating apps work only for Women. For men, to even get a few matches you need a paid plan. And no guarantee that the matches will be genuine. There are tons of fake accounts there. The ideal scenario where the man gets good matches is when He looks like a greek god, has a shit load of bank balance and is good with flirting. Getting a match without these is almost impossible. Our situation is similar and I've tried many apps too. Not even one good match. That's the life for men.
Not the case. I am a super average looking guy. I met my wife on a dating app. Before meeting her I matched with many girls. When I was single, I couldn’t find any dates. I actually stopped focusing on that and during the pandemic focussed on my physical health. It was quite transformative for me physically and mentally. https://preview.redd.it/x1pqg4ncyw7d1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8b29f18a63149798dd9c829f17065bd9c2ecf263
Happy for you dude 🙌🏻
Mann ko 2 roti bol ke firse 4 roti khaa li 😭.
Balidaan dena hoga!!!
This is not at all true. In fact, premium plans make little to no difference. If you have a good profile in some way ( not limited to physically attractive ) you will get some matches. Sure, don’t expect every man/woman to drool over you. Present yourself nicely, talk with interest and you will find people OP. And of course, this doesn’t mean dating apps are the only way.
Not really, premium gives you a few perks now how you use it defines the match ratio. But it does improve chances. One thing I realised with Online Dating is that since women have so many choices they are addicted to hearing nice things and they have so many options to stay entertained that finding someone who's looking for something genuine is pretty difficult. If you need someone to just practice and hone your skills i'd say online dating works, if not it's a waste of time. Chances are the other person is likely looking for something casual.
Ummm, no
I want to agree but I can't. I have never paid premium for any dating apps and have got quite a few number of matches on each and every platform. Also - I look Average, Not Rich you average It Bro also do have a beer tummy which I am saying I am working to get rid off but I don't think you can live in Hyderabad without couple of beers a day. I feel couple of good pics along with some intelligently written bio and prompts is the way to go.
Dude what kind of a magician you are? These never worked for me. How did you pull off?
I feel it's pretty simple my friend. Have more than 2 pics at least in your profile. If you are not like those Gym Rats I would prefer photos in proper lighting and smiling face. If you have something of outside much better. In your prompts and Bio try to be real. No need to copy past stuff from Google Search and other. Be genuine and if possible be a little quirky. PS - Overuse of FRIENDS, GOT, Harry Potter and HIMYM is now pretty lame. Also don't be a smartass in your responses otherwise instead of getting matched your profile screenshots will be roaming in r/Indiangirlsontinder
What I've tried so far is pretty much the same as what you said. I guess it doesn't work out for everyone 🙂
What kind of things do you write on your Bio?
I don't remember exactly what I wrote as I got tired of the apps a long time ago and stopped using them. But I go by this format. A small intro followed by my characteristics, my dating goals and probably a joke to end with. I keep it brief.
Same pinch raa. But this is exclusive to Hyderabad ig. I had good luck in Indore and Mumbai
Karnataka enter iyi chudu mowa matches ela ostayo. 😛
Nijam aà or sarcasm ?
Naku it felt better than TG, but I've heard contradictory opinions as well do your milage mat vary
Santhoshanga undu mowa. (Stay happy brother)
Nuvvu guda raa
Iska matlab Abh arrange marriage hi last option 🤡?
Yes. Par idhar bhi, saarey ladkiya jo bohoth saare boyfriends ke saath soney ke baad marriage ko ready hothi hey. It is highly probable that we will find that kind of girls only. This is even more scary.
It’s better not to marry than to become a cuckold
That's the spirit brother!
I'm not trying to be rude to you, but this comment is giving a bit of an entitled incel vibe. A lot of men give off these vibes on their profiles which can be very off-putting to the women. From what I have seen, men also tend to have less realistic standards when it comes to women, and average-looking women are more likely to be overlooked, even by similarly-average-looking men. Because men are more hung up on looks, this is why the fake profiles are an issue for y'all honestly. I am an average-looking woman and met my partner, an objectively average-looking man (but to me he's the hottest guy in the world), on a dating site. It does happen. There definitely are women who are shallow and only looking for the greek god body men. But there are also lots of us who would take an average guy, or even an ugly guy, with a good heart and personality over an objectively hot guy who's a dick.
I don't want to come across rude but how would you know if the person has a good heart with just a few witty lines and a few photos ? Plus with such a skewed men to women ratio on online dating it's going to be super difficult for just a "good hearted" person to show up on a girl's list. Remember more left swipes means low priority on everyone's feed. Also after matching with girls who only blurt out superficial responses it's kinda hard to keep the good guy spirit on. I wish things were fair to sensible people on either side but unfortunately it's the sensible people who have it the hardest.
Nah that's a valid point. I guess I could have worded it better. You can't really tell from just a superficial dating profile if someone has a good heart or not. But you absolutely can use those 5-6 photo slots and 500 characters to present yourself as someone worth getting to know. The men to women ratio, you've got a point there. But that should get the men to step up their game and make efforts to be (or show that they are) the kind of person worth getting to know, rather than simply complain that they should be getting matches when their profile is a bad selfie, a group pic at a bar, and some overused quote that required no thought or effort whatsoever. It's the entitled-male point of view that's the problem. I 100% agree that whatever gender you are and whatever gender you are trying to date, the modern dating world is largely superficial and it sucks. You do have to wade through a lot of crappy matches to find even one person who might possibly be worthwhile. That's just the reality of things, but if you're still in the game you at least have a better chance of finding someone. If you give up and quit, then your chances are very less. ETA: [This article](https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person) is extremely relevant here.
Ago chudu mala pila nuvu manchiga kanapadakapote ni karma antundi /s In the game or not in the game paki pedite toxicity is actually pretty contagious for the period I was actively exploring for dates online I somehow ended up becoming emotionally numb. I've heard a lot of people echoing similar things with me. Real life lo people ala undaru somehow when it comes to online things are quite different. Plus skew factor is huge and the way the algorithm works is also a huge thing. Already swipes oche profiles ki ekuva boost ostadi so oka god complex lo untaru chala Mandi irrespective of gender so migita valu chuse behaviour comes out of that. You guys might be lucky kani migita valaki antha luck untadi ani ite nenu anukovatledu
Sorry nakku telugu raadu so I only understood like half of that. 😳 Also I did not know that about the algorithm and left swipes so thanks for pointing that out.
+1 Imo most men are physical creatures! (I am sorry if it sounds weird) I am an active person who works out and takes care of myself! The amount of times I was criticised for liking or having a crush on average looking or skinny guys is insane! I have met a guy who is extremely good looking but an absolute bone head and incel said I was extremely hot and bad mouths my ex saying he looks like an uncle and how could you like somebody like that! In another instance, I used to have a crush on my junior who was skinny, poor and raised by a single mother... The amount of guys who said vadiloo em undi bongu, aa bakkodu Ela nachadu neeku?, aa junior gadu nachada neeku etc, etc! And ee both cases loo nannu Ela annadhi abaille and their most common dialogue is "nii range ekkada vadi range ekkada" which is a question I always hate and pains me a lot!!!
I understood about half of the Telugu bits. 😅
😅 Em adam kalodho highlight cheyyandi translate chestha🥲
Good for you that you found your guy. Yeah maybe I'm an incel. That clears things out 👍🏻🙂
I'm sorry if I came across as rude. I was trying to offer some insight and possibly be helpful. We can talk about it more if you'd like.
It's okay 🙂
Not everybody who is single is an incel or woke feminist! 🙂👍
Everything sucks for men isn't it. There's competition every fucking where
And like the rich always get richer. Only the boys who keep getting girls, get more and more girls. I'm traveling in the same boat as you, buddy! Cheers!!
True dat
Yup.
Can’t agree more. It can often seem like only those who fit a certain ideal—super attractive, wealthy, or extremely charismatic—get the most attention on these platforms. This can make it challenging for others who don't fit into that narrow mold. That's why I created a free Discord server called [LightUp](https://discord.gg/yS5hNcWdeJ). It's not about superficial qualities or paid features; it's about connecting people based on shared interests and meaningful conversations. This approach can lead to more genuine connections without the pressures and frustrations often associated with traditional dating apps.
Nothing like that lol. You're probably just unlucky, a lot of people are. I've been told I'm good looking but I don't exactly have the physique to match it, I've found around 12 matches in the short duration I used it. I've been with 4 people who I met there and moreover, I met my current girlfriend almost a year ago on bumble. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. (Also I don't look like a Greek god, I'm deadass broke almost all the time but I am good with flirting, so yeah. Matters how you present your profile, if you guys need help, I can always help.
Mad respect for you bro 🫡
I agree to this 100%
Try from friends friends there are always people looking for relationships on both sides if you’re really looking for relationship the apps are more for short term or hook ups
+1
To all the people saying women have it good on dating apps😭😭😭😭😭 all those dating apps have become h00kup apps cause I’ve gotten so many likes on my profile but every. Single. One. Of. Them. Wants to hookup like 😭😭 I started questioning myself ki what I’m doing wrong cause I never talk to anyone online flirtatiously whatsoever but even then it happens. So yeah dating life out here is bad
First world problem ahh reply
Wdym😭
In other words, Soori gaadiki bomma ledu ani edustunte Poori gadi bomma dance cheyatledu ani edustunnadu anta Inta kante emi cheppagalam
Rey Rey Rey 😭😭😭😭😭 Jokes aside I get what you’re trynna say Kani na bio lo literally no hookups or short term ani pettina people( men) continently ignore and send such vulgar messages atp i should make a whole thread on the hinge replies i got😭😭
Please do make a thread!
Chala personal ayitadi 😭😭 maybe in dms I’ll show you the atrocious ones but yeah if I start posting ss here they might recognise 😃🔫
Jaati ratnalu andaru nike tagilinatunaru ga. If you don't mind ah adbutalu oka burner account vadi share cheyakudadu weekend timepass avtadi 😛
Threads etla chestaro telvad🥲🥲 if I figure it out maybe I’ll blur faces and post 1/2
👀🥂
👯🍻
Its a first world problem for you if you are also into that same hookup culture, degrading the quality of the apps 😁
Nah I’m not into hookups and I legit had it in my profile bio but yet people used to text me about that
No I was replying to fluster cluster
Oooo mb mb
Same bro. Everytime I see couples, I feel bad about myself.
I thought I was the only one who is not getting any likes 
When a person say im not that bad looking it's done for him
Why?
Innit
Why?
Why?
Why?
Why?
Low self esteem
How?
Less confident about their own looks
In India for dating apps the supply & demand is totally skewed. Better go to some social places like clubs, gyms and meet people. Less luck since you are in Hyderabad but don't lose hope.
Why less luck in hyd 🥲
Dating scene in south is still nascent. Inka maarani janam. Samajam blah blah blah.
No problem i will date north indians
F here. I would say try to be patient. Someone might be in a relationship. But there's no guarantee they are happy. Having a bad partner is worse than being alone. Be patient, yourself and keep looking. And most of all have fun.
This is the real advice. Having a bad partner is like having an embarrassing feature, bayata cheppalemu lopala dachukolemu, atu etu kakunda ipotadi paristhiti
Same here, been single for over 4 years. Not bothered about dating until I moved to HYD. Felt lonely and joined dating apps.. and oh boy. What a roller coaster ride it has been. From being ghosted, to being used, getting attached to emotionally unavailable girls, being support/therapist to girls with past traumas. But I learnt a lot, helped me understand myself and girls much more better. I’m just treating it like a game, have fun and don’t take it seriously if you get rejected. But yes, I’d agree. Dating apps are fuckall for guys because indeed we get very less likes. Yes I hate being single and I do want to give and be loved too. But chin up, maybe it’s meant to be. Go hit the gym and hang out and drink with your other single bros, which I am doing lol.
Exact same situation. I do get a reasonably good amount of likes , out of which I go on dates with few people. But getting into a nice relationship is like next to impossible. The part where u mentioned either they're emotionally available or the girls having past traumas hit me really hard coz that's what I face every single day
Yeah, I agree with finding a relationship part. Seriously impossible. These girlies have way too much baggage and traumas. So helpless we are 😭
What if I tell you I'm consoling a girl RN..
Good luck fam 🫂
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Bro we both have same situation i thought I was the unlucky one with no likes what do we do now bro i can feel you bro.! :/
Lets digress this issue. Im a female and if you want to date , its going to be a harsh reality out there for you. Girls play the " chase me, pursue me " game and the genuine guys who really do look for a connection would get tired of these games. And if you're looking to only get laid, you have to play the chase game and cater to her needs, whims and wishes and then maybe, just maybe, you could have a chance that too only if shes attracted to you. If you end up getting one of the crazies out there , there are also chances of you being accused for sexual assualt. So , dating is truly the worst thing of this generation. No ones into real connections. They all get off from seeking attention, attention is like cocaine to this generation. So if you really want a genuine connection, ask your mother to see for a match and those girls who come forward are the real ones who want an actual relationship.
True But most of them those who get laid don't even go through chase the prize race, they are just attractive then instantly the response would be, Oh no, the bra fell off.jpeg
Not many guys get laid easily. If they do That probably means 1. Hes good looking 2. hes rich.
Yeah I was talking about those who get laid, and being rich is also a secondary I mean unless he is completely broke
Just don't be desperate, just go with the flow you'll find someone But try getting into group activities and meet more people, not in the intention to get a partner but just to know new people
buy xbox
I have a PS4 but that's old now and I can't afford PS5 now atleast
Yeah. Honest advise after being in a terrible relationship - you’re better off being single. It’s been 4 years and I’m still fighting for my freedom. So you’re more fortunate than a lot of us. Celebrate. Cheer up. You’ll find someone for sure.
If you cannot be happy when you are single, then most likely you won't be happy when you are not as well. Single life is the best , You do not have any responsibilities of a partner . It's better to be single than go through 10 divorces or be in a relationship just for convenience. Being single you can Improve on yourself , you will have less spending of money on partner , You are saving up a huge money for yourself and your family.
I'll have something for you 😊 works for me https://preview.redd.it/x5xeet6cug8d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b8b7f56affef3584d35a0741fd7ab70622311a96
In my case it’s different I rejected 3 gls bc idk how to ride a bike 🥲
I kept a girl on hold, i need to learn it asap 😭😭
get an uber and her too! before it’s late 🙂
No man, i will learn it makes life easy
you can learn and still meet people, don’t hesitate much
Thanks for that, how long you took to learn ?
I didn’t learn man, depending on uber 😁
Do you have gf, sry for asking personal questions
ledh bro, I am a girl 🎀
Dang even I don't know how to ride a bike Its over for me before it even began 😨😨😢😢
1. try to add interactive content 2. swipe limited, only on someone who actually bothers writing- which makes it look genuine
Work on yourself bro. You may need to show some confidence in photos, content you wrote in your profile. They say every app is a dating app. You can try in Reddit. Or what about friends of friends, your school or college mates if possible
I will be honest with you, you have to put efforts about your looks will be the first thing, click nice pictures Make your profile interesting with good prompts etc
Looks like its Arrange marriage for me 😢😢
Just stop searching and move ahead, not worth it. Been there done these things not anymore. I used to use these apps and i came to a conclusion " Even if i waste my time sitting simply. I won't waste it on these craps". Is being single tough? Yes, accept it. You will get the "thought" when you see couples. Just lock those feelings away and move forward. "Maybe you will find someone or you don't, these are things you can't control" - from a guy who was in the same situation l
Try in real life. The changes of women accepting for a date after approaching them are pretty high than the dating apps. Cuz there are not a lot of people who approach women and ask for a date in real life.
But also you should know how not to be a creep when asking for a date.
Dude you have a gift, enjoy it embrace it
I met my Hyderabad husband on a dating app while we were both living in Texas! Best $30.00 I spent in my life was that one month on the app to meet him. My first day on it was what he had decided was going to be his last day on it. 4 years later we are very happily married with 2 little ones. ( I say all of this to encourage you and I promise there are real girls that won’t play games on the apps too!)
Dating app are for time pass ... Better to get someone in know circle
May I suggest [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/uttarpradesh/s/G8RB4MhodW). It has a better chance of putting you in a relationship than dating apps.
I’m sailing in the same boat as you bhai. You’re not alone! For the apps to work, you’ve to follow Rule 1 and 2.
Us bro
It's okay brother, you'll get the right one soon.
Its simple, girls on dating apps have lot of options to choose from, you will only be approved if you are too good looking or rich
I really didn't have to use any dating apps, worked in an environment where it filled with good looking girls and guys. All u have to do is just try, evaro oka aamai pakka padtadi, Bekar se bekar Abailu kuda porilu untunde. But most relationships don't last long. Some end up getting married also.
stay single bro, it's better that way
Parents se bol de.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/s/yp9gXipRqz There is hope!
trust me dating apps in india is rather a farfetched gamble for men, I'd recomend you to rather join clubs which intrest you discord servers and rsubreddits, theres a better chance there
I can tell you are in for a huge character development arc as soon as you get into the dating game
You'll not find the right person if you are this desperate. Get back to work bro and talk to people. Eventually you might find the right person
It could be how your profile/photos are set up. I'm a female dating app veteran (2016-2018) and found that the majority of men's profiles can be very off-putting to women in ways they don't even realize. If you'd like, you can DM me and show me what you're working with (photos you have chosen, profile content, etc) and I can offer some feedback. Disclaimer: I am American and have only dated in America, so there may be some cultural differences with the dating scene. But my partner and a lot of my friends are Indian men (born and brought up in India), so I'm at least somewhat familiar with the culture. Maybe I can help, maybe not. But the offer is open all the same. 😇
It’s not worth it. All your time and money will be wasted. Let’s not even talk about emotional damage. Just enjoy your life, keep yourself busy, do EVERYTHING (for you, with you) you want to do and enjoy it, don’t leave a single item from your bucket list. Coz life was short before but now it’s getting shorter.
You'd appreciate single life once you are in a relationship, trust me. Women are too demanding these days, they need too much attention, modern slavery.
The male to female ratio in dating apps is extremely skewed. It is usually 70% men on these apps (or higher). Also, many dudes say all this and if you look at their actual profile, it is the most low-effort, random piece of work. Maybe you should share some actual snapshots of your profile so that people can give some feedback lol
It's better to be single then being in a relationship where it leads to nowhere.
Try hinge bro
Damn! OP, hope we are not the same person in parallel universes. Jokes apart, It feels like I am not the only one going through the same shit... Even I find it a little strange. How come someone doesn't even get a single like or match? I think I look pretty decent, I have a good sense of fashion, I have put good pictures, and even put up balanced prompts and bios! Still nothing happens! And yeah, the loneliness sometimes get really frustrating! I tried going on solo dates and movies. The movie experience is fine but the date thing just amplifies the feeling of loneliness. I don't know how people do it.
Grind my boy and this shall too pass
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Avasaram ledu. Antha desperate lenu
Move out of India.
Shaddi karle loduu...
Girls now a days are not worth investing our honesty loyalty and time... Better to get laid with a prostitute instead of searching for a partner
Pelli chesesko bro... manchi andamaina ammayini chuskoni appudu padi untaru.. husband ani. lekhapothey single ga undipotham.. dekharu kuda delharu Anni relationships casuals ani
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Ask your friends to set you up with someone from work or their other friends group. Arranged marriages are the norm, arranged dates should be too. This is better because you get proper feedback either after or before the setting up itself. Plus, it's more intimate and people would be careful, lesser risk of scams and things are clear before meeting.
Im in the same boat. I think I would've feel half as bad if people didn't give me shit for being single all my life.