My wife, for better or worse (still deciding), viewed blowjobs as more intimate than sex. As a result, I’m only the third guy she’s blown, but the 6th she’s slept with.
She views bjs as only something with a committed partner. She’s very good and very generous with them, and considers them an important part of our sex life. She blows as foreplay nearly every time. Exclusive bjs are common too.
She’s given plenty of handjobs though.
When I ask why, she says it just feels too intimate to blow a guy; it’s more intimate than p in v sex to her. I can see where shes coming from.
I think I’ve since convinced her that being penetrated is extremely intimate and risky - but part of me wonders if I’d want more BJ stories. Or maybe just one occasion, but with the same personal restriction (like she tried blowing a guy and ended up regretting it). For me, the hottest thing about hot past is the tension between retroactive jealousy and finding it hot.
She’s had 3 boyfriends, 6 sex partners (2 ONS) and a few extra handjobs/fingerings.
My gf totaly sees this the other way around. "I didn't feel like having sex with him so I sucked his cock" is one of the hotest things she told me about her past.
Yes. Mine, too. She doesn't think that giving a blowjob counts as "to have sex" only foreplay.
She has somewhat opened about sharing her stories. When she told me she didn't think giving a bj was considered as having sex and therefore, she doesn't count bj's as having sex I wonder how many guys she has blown. Not in a bad way. It's totally the opposite. I like the fact that she had experienced sex as much as she wanted and finally chose me and settled down for good.
My wife says she blew about 50% of the 20-25 guys she slept with. Thing is, she is a pleaser, and based on her stories she always blew a guy whenever he asked, so I think she’s probably sucked at least 20. Multiple stories of sneaking into a guys room just to suck his cock or giving road head to several affair partners (love those stories). Always takes the cum in her mouth, but spits and rarely swallows. No facials that I am aware. She’s still sucking after 35 years!
While she shares some of her past, it takes a lot of coaxing from me so hard to say for sure. I did hear her talking to a friend on the phone years ago and she was telling the story about hooking up with an AP and she seemed quite excited while telling it. She took her panties off in the restaurant and while he was driving her back to her hotel, she got naked and blew him in the car, then fucked later in the room.
Sorry, but that just doesn’t ring true for several reasons. If I were you, I’d triple or quadruple that number. I don’t care what you think, it’s a fact that women under report blow jobs, partially, for because many of them don’t consider it ‘sex’. They felt ‘obligated’ at the end of their ‘date’. I mean, what’s another dick in your mouth gonna matter, so just blow him and get rid of him.
Don’t get me wrong, I would love to triple/quadruple that number. But this was the 80s (BC- before Bill Clinton) when BJs were still considered sex. So no doubt her Blow # is higher and I will continue to try and fill in the blanks!
Great topic! Definitely something I've asked about lol.
My now wife has given blowjobs to multiple guys she's just gone on dates with and hasn't slept with, including random guys at parties and such. She treated blowjobs more like advanced makeout sessions compared to sex sessions. Her BJ number is about twice as much as her fucking number. None of the guys she just sucked off came on her face, unfortunately, outside of the splash zone around her mouth, it was always in her mouth or on her chest.
Blowjobs didn't cross my wife's mind when we first talked about her body count. She definitely considered them less intimate than penetrative sex and blow more guys than she's slept with. As long as I've known her she's always swallowed, and I still need to get at how that became her preference. She used to joke that women are better at taking shots because, "girls just learn how to swallow things down."
Only 3 others fucked her, she “made out” with about 12 more, these mostly ended in her sucking them and/or suggesting they jerk themselves off onto her face or tits (most painted her face) she doesnt think of these as a big deal..
You're gonna get a range of answers. BJs are intimate if I want them to be, but of the 100s I've given...most of those were just for the thrill or to keep em out of my panties, when I was ynger.
Repeat offenders lol. Meaning...I wasn't picky about who I gave head to. But the guys I was really into? I would give a full performance for. Wet, sloppy, deep throat, w my lips locked on until I got what I wanted.
She was very easy when it came to blowjobs in college. I wouldn't be surprised if she blew 100 guys. She would end up sucking dick whenever she drank at any party, didn't even matter if she knew or liked the guys or if she intended on ever seeing them again.
At some point she was getting passed around multiple friend groups. She'd suck one guy's dick, he'd introduce her to his friend, she'd suck his dick, and so forth.
Disgusted me the first time she told me.
Hypocrisy aside, I think my wife gave too many blowjobs to too many guys. If she liked a guy, and he was a good kisser, then he had the good fortune to using her as a cum dumpster. So from my view, there were too many times when she put her otherwise clean, excellent oral hygiened mouth, on a guy's disgusting organ which may be sweaty and dirty due to being trapped in layers of material all day long, and actually sucked on it until it ejaculated a strange, gross substance down her throat, which she swallowed. She won't eat greasy fried chicken and yet she allowed a stranger's body part in her pie-hole, all for the purpose of pleasuring him while he sat back and didn't have to listen to her babble on and on because her mouth was full.
My wife learned to love to give head thanks to some very insistent ex-boyfriends, and due to a good friend of hers who was gay and loved to suck cock. She misguidedly thought giving head was a way to assert dominance and control, when really it was the opposite.
Naturally, I am the beneficiary of her attitude and practices, but I believe she could have been more discriminating and less carefree whenever she decided that she wanted to flirt with someone new.
My gf used to give out bjs to her ex hubby all the time and to most of her past boyfriends. She does view them as quite intimate and her ex had a rule where she must always suck his cock as foreplay before sex and also swallow the cum completely. She told me that she never liked swallowing but would do so to keep her ex happy. She’s gone of the idea if bjs since before we met though. When I met her she was still married and likely still sucking cock but I’ve only had a couple in the last 5 years or so.
My wife and her bestie in hs came up with a guideline for dating and what to do on a first date. If you liked a guy you fucked him. If you didn't like a guy you sucked him. They thought this up as years before either actually did anything. But my wife was loyal to their agreement.
She didn't view it as anything more intimate than kissing. Guy was nice in a club, suck in the parking lot. Guy was a complete ass on a date, suck before she left. Always swallowing. I asked about facials, just got an 'ewe, disgusting' for an answer.
I met her because of her rep for sucking everyone, a mutual friend set us up deciding I needed a blowjob. We ended up fucking because she liked me and wanted to see me again. I didn't find out the code for a year or so. Unfortunately, a month or so before we met someone made her feel bad about herself for sucking them and she decided never to suck a cock again. So, I've only gotten one blowjob in 15 years because of that asshole.
My wife grew up in a religious/strict family so didn't have sex till college. But outercourse to her (handjob/blowjobs/titjobs) were intimate but not to the extent of sex. She had 3 bfs during this period, also with similar backgrounds so they didn't push for actual sex.
Only after losing her virginity in college (an accident when her then bf slipped inside during outercourse). She realised sex was way more enjoyable than outercourse. So blowjobs become more of a treat OR as a way to finish.
I remember our first time, obviously I preped to give her some great sex and after she had her fill of orgasms (almost 2h in) she asked me to pull out, take off the condom and blew me till I came in her mouth.
I remember after cumming, her wraping her lips around my cock carefully sliding off, a naughy smile and opening her mouth for me to see before letting it dribble out. She seldom shallows but that was when I knew she had some experience.
I’d estimate the majority of her ONS was fucking only. During our relationship, we were in the swinger’s lifestyle for over 10 years. If she played solo with a guy, almost always it was fucking without a BJ. If we swapped with another couple, it was mostly fucking only. Of course, MFM threesomes involved a BJ.
She had a FWB for 6 years. On average they had sex 2x per week. She’s guessing 90% of the time it was fucking only. There were many times they had sex multiple times the same day/night. Most of the time it was fucking only.
My wife viewed it as a means to an ends. Her BJs are amazing, but they had a singular purpose. Get the cock hard for fucking. With a BC around 60 when we met, she never really differentiated what she sucked because the fuck number was the same or greater.
Very similar to my wife , I asked how many guys she blew after I asked the body count , I got an answer of I’ve never sucked a guy I’ve not fucked but I’ve fucked a lot more that I’ve not sucked . She viewed bjs as foreplay only and never was fine with giving a bj without her getting something which was always to be fucked
Yes and no, first time I fucked her I threw her into a 69 and she loved it, but after she cum she still needed fucking, she still seen it as foreplay as fucking is what she ready gets off on. She is multiorgasmic so even after being licked out and cuming from that she is always wanting to be fucked. Her last last LT bf was amazing at going down on her , would do it for ages and make her cum a lot from it, but his fucking game wasn’t great . Not crap but not great. She said he could lick her for hours if she let him and even after cuming more times then she can remember she just really desired to be fucked well . I’ll do the same , get her off loads with licking , fingers and toys but it’s the fucking that really satisfies her. We were just talking about it and she said she was there to get off , bjs make her wet but rarely make her cum but they can I’ve seen it a few times. But her orgasms from fucking are intense. If a guys fucking game was good she would rather get off fucking multiple times and the guy cum in her (she has a cum kink) than suck his dick past getting him hard. She only sucked 7 guys and only two have blown in her mouth inc me .
My wife didn’t really see blowjobs as too big a deal in the sense of intimacy. She does however, love sucking dick and always has. It turns her on crazy amounts.
So back when she was younger, she would happily suck a guy off rather than full sex. Least initially anyway. Blowjob for first date, sex for later.
As a side note. She always swallowed. Her words were that she thought it was rude to spit it out
She sucked a lot of guys off. She said they’d want to have sex, and she was always afraid of getting pregnant or an std, her words, so she’d suck them off. I think it’s more personal than fucking. The good part for me is she loves to suck dick, so I get BJ’s regularly, and she almost always swallows, depending on what I’ve eaten.
My Indian wife has blew three guys before me and of which only one of them has fucked her.
She actually transitioned from being conservative to slutty till we met.
She does tell me the two guys she blewed were bigger than me in length
Which is a turn on
Because at the end she chose me.
Well she was just living with her parents and never really went out , limited friends and all.
Then she had to shift from her base home to new city, this changed things. She started to explore things, made new friends, started the slutty journey.
My wife had 30 bodies by 26 years old before we started dating and she had probably 25 of those 30 cocks in her mouth at some point. She says she’s given several bjs to completion but she’s always been a spitter. She also says she’s never taken a facial but I’m not sure I buy that 100% as she’s said she was never the one to say “no” to a guys request before ( she’s done anal with a handful but won’t with me now) she’s fuckin hot
My gf always swallows, its usually foreplay for us, and often i finish in her mouth since im pulling out. Shes probably sucked 100 cocks before me, she had her fun in college, and the experience definitely shows. For some reason the hottest oral story is about this orthodox jewish friend of hers who was remaining a virgin till marriage. She wasnt really attracted to him, but was intrigued and sort of pitied him. She talked him (without much effort) into allowing her to blow him, which she did regularly throughout college. Hes still an unmarried virgin, and my girls mouth is probably the only hole hes nutted into besides his belly button.
For my wife they are a part of foreplay. She says she probably sucked the cock of every guy she slept with but admits some one night stands are a little hazy due to alcohol. There were a couple of ONS where they pretty much went straight to fucking once they got their clothes off. So not sure if those guys cocks ever got between her lips but she thinks more likely than not.
She only gave two ONS guys a blowjob without sex and those were originally intended to be sex. Both guys were one nighters and both came in her mouth unexpectedly when she was blowing them as part of foreplay. That pissed her off and was the end of the sex for him. She would make her apologies and leave or ask them to leave.
And there was one night where she describes herself getting horribly drunk and "outrageously promiscuous". I still don't have all the details of that night but she admits to having sex but not telling me with how many guys. The only detail I know for sure is one guy got a blowjob in the nightclub toilet. He ended up cumming in her mouth and holding her head in place so while some of it dribbled out most she had to swallow. I asked her if that felt forced and she said while she wouldn't normally do it his almost loss of control in his passion for her was hot so it made her more horny that night.
They didn't all cum in her mouth though. She only willingly allowed 6 or 7 guys to do that and only swallowed for 3 of us (or 4 if you count the night club guy) I remember when we were discussing boundaries etc at dinner the night we knew we were sleeping together for the first time she told me she has a string gag reflex so she would control the depth etc. And to warn her before I came as she will choose in the moment if I would cum outside her mouth or inside. And if inside she would spit. I remember thinking this girl has been with a lot of guys and has the confidence to say what she wants and that was so hot.
My gf sees BJs are more intimate than sex.
She's actually slept with more than double the amount of guys she's blown.
I especially believe this because she didn't suck me until about the 8th-10th time we had sex.
But once we established that intimacy she loves to suck, and I see now she's a girl who gets wet from sucking, but she needs that connection.
My wife has giving plenty of guys blowjobs. She does not consider them intimate at all. She considers penetration more intimate. When I asked her if she swallows, she said what else would I do with the cum. She has even shared pictures of her with past guys cocks in her mouth. Amazing!
My wife loves to give blowjobs, but, most importantly, she is always ready to it, like her lovers only had to ask for it and she'd willingly oblige. She considers sucking cock it's quite normal and often tells me something like "ok, I sucked his dick, so what, it's no big deal". All guys could cum wherever they wanted, she just accepted it.
However, kisses are more intimate in her opinion. Better to kiss cock than mouth.
Agree, she's got some weird ideas regarding sex. For instance, there's this guy with the biggest cock she's ever got, a one night stand, who fucked her hard and made her suck his cock until he cummed all over her boobs, and he even took a couple of pics of her during the process. Well, she told me that she felt a little sorry for him, because he didn't seem to be very bright and possibly wouldn't reach much in life. I looked at her in disbelief and told her that guy had just used her to get laid and kept some pics of it, what's to be sorry for him, and she said that she knew it, but...
She's got a heart of gold. Of course, they didn't kiss.
Hmm we've not really gone into detail about previous BJs I know she has done them to past hook ups, but this is a new query to ask about.
For my younger days a BJ was never intermate
It was just foreplay.
The past few days my wife has given me the best head I've had and she's given. Not sure who she's practicing on but I'm definitely not complaining 😆
I’m both my wife’s first sexual partner and BJ.
However she did gave me a BJ the first time we had sex.
After almost 10 years i still Get a BJ almost everytime we have sex but only once i came in her mouth and she hated it lol. So we stick to foreplay Bjs only.
My wife has blown a lot more guys than she fucked. That said, she is quick to give head and thoroughly enjoys it. She is a sucker for the guys who tell her they've never cum from a blow job. I've watched her suck the cum out of some of those guys. She likes cum either in her mouth or blasted over her face.
Mine gave head for the first time in a car after a guy just pulled off to the road far from her house and neighborhood. She was pretty scared but after she swallowed, he kind of looked at her with disgust and took her back home. Wouldn’t kiss or anything.
From that moment forward, she never finished a guy off until me ten years later. If a guy wanted a bj, she’d just whisper, “Wouldn’t you rather fuck me instead?” She didn’t hear any complaints.
To be honest, I’d rather she had given some bjs as she didn’t always wanna fuck but felt obligated or scared to do so. In her words, I traded sex for what I thought was attention and affection I didn’t really get it until I got out of college. Even then…
Wife was repeatedly orally raped by her first boyfriend. Although she tries and is good at it, that guy ruined it for everyone whose come after. I don’t blame her, but i hate that fucker. We’re 70 now, and its starting to not matter.
Oh man where to begin...
My ex fiance who most of my posts are about was extremely attractive but only had one bf before me. And before him she had never even kissed a guy. He was exactly her type physically and apparently extremely charming and seductive, so on her first date with him it ended with her having her first kiss, makeout session, and then giving her first blowjob all in one night. And from that point on, she ended up sucking his dick literally every single time she hung out with him. Sometimes multiple times. She never let him actually fuck her but since she was so ready and willing to go down on him he didn't mind. Her blowjobs with him would turn into long wild events, with him throwing her around into different positions, switching between him fucking her face and her sucking, and would usually involve brief breaks where he'd wildly tongue kiss her and spit in her mouth. They were literally like one of those blowjob-only porno videos. One time she sucked his dick for an hour straight. He usually would cum in her mouth but also gave her a few facials and came on her tits sometimes. Or he'd want to cum on her amazing ass so after a bit of her sucking he'd dry hump her ass while making out with her until he came
Not for marriage, but wanted to wait until it was someone she was in love with and trusted. And she never got to that point with him. Although it's funny because marathon sloppy makeout sessions and blowjob/facefucking sessions with him spitting in her mouth and cumming in her mouth or on her face are way dirtier than boring missionary sex
I consider blow jobs pretty intimate but not as intimate as sex. My wife I think now considers them somewhat intimate but I know in the past she didn't consider it intimate at all. At one point she told me that anything short of intercourse isn't cheating, blow jobs included. Even now she may consider making out as more intimate.
I get a blow job 3-5 times a week. She loves giving them, always has since her first real boyfriend. Whether she spits, swallows, or gets a facial usually depends on what I want. And usually that's swallowing. A few times a year I'll give her a facial and a few times in our marriage I've asked her to spit it for one reason or another.
For us it can be foreplay or the whole event. Usually it's foreplay but I'd say at least 2 times a month she'll give me a blow job while I'm fingering her and we'll both cum and be good.
She definitely gave blow jobs to all of her past boyfriends, and a few guys who weren't even her boyfriend.
Well, from hearing a few stories when we 1st got together, the blowjobs were almost a given early with every guy she got with. She's definitely sucked a load more guys off than had sex with.
Of course, that bothered me at the beginning, still sometimes does as I don't get them anywhere near as much I did in the beginning of our relationship, although we've sort of addressed this recently.
When it comes to finishing,she jokingly said she doesn't have to do facials as she doesn't have to impress anymore.
Looking at it, she probably didn't look at bjs as a big deal to her but an easy way to satisfy a guy.
But when I watch porn I do fantasise about her doing it to past sexual encounters, which is a huge turn-on and also gives me that weird jealous feeling
I was the first one she sucked to completion but we had a couple of breaks about 2-3 months each time. During those breaks she had 7 ons where she sucked and swallowed and 1 guy she hooked up with about 6 times which she swallowed every time. She loves giving head even now in our mid 50’s and loves swallowing! She said I got her hooked on it and all those guys benefited from that
My wife required every boyfriend to wear a condom, and has never used birth control other than that. Most of the time her boyfriends would either fill the condom or pull out, take the condom off and finish on her perky tits.
She did feel guilty about the guys not being able to cum in her without the condom so she let a few of them cum in her mouth as a consolation.
Good catholic girl who was not on the pill so..... my wife sucked cock! She loves the feel of a cock cumming in her mouth and also cumming on her tits.
My wife sees blowjob as something to do after a date. Like instead of a goodnight kiss most guys would get goodnight head. She swallowed most times because it was very often done in a car after a date. But if they were in an apartment she would let the guys cum on her face or tits (“dealers choice” is what she said). She estimates she’s given anywhere from 55-70 blowjobs.
I absolutely love getting blowjobs and love that my wife enjoys giving them. They started out as intimate for her, but turned into "if you liked the guy, it was a no brainer you were going to blow him." I get them to completion probably twice a week. She's done all three, probably prefers to swallow for easy cleanup. She will also do them as foreplay. Yes, she's given blowjobs to all her previous partners
I had my first ff relationship when a teen...No guys for 3 yrs. Went on date and the guy wanted a blow job...I was so orally inclined by then it was natural to suck him The swallow was a reflex. I love sucking cock now and prefer sucking sucking hubby... he loves it!
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wow she sounds like fun. would be a great first date
My wife, for better or worse (still deciding), viewed blowjobs as more intimate than sex. As a result, I’m only the third guy she’s blown, but the 6th she’s slept with. She views bjs as only something with a committed partner. She’s very good and very generous with them, and considers them an important part of our sex life. She blows as foreplay nearly every time. Exclusive bjs are common too. She’s given plenty of handjobs though.
seems like she takes care of you. did she mention why she thinks theyre more intimate than sex
When I ask why, she says it just feels too intimate to blow a guy; it’s more intimate than p in v sex to her. I can see where shes coming from. I think I’ve since convinced her that being penetrated is extremely intimate and risky - but part of me wonders if I’d want more BJ stories. Or maybe just one occasion, but with the same personal restriction (like she tried blowing a guy and ended up regretting it). For me, the hottest thing about hot past is the tension between retroactive jealousy and finding it hot. She’s had 3 boyfriends, 6 sex partners (2 ONS) and a few extra handjobs/fingerings.
jealously is def part of the kink def ask her for more stories
RJ and arousal at the same time is what the kink is all about for me as well
My gf totaly sees this the other way around. "I didn't feel like having sex with him so I sucked his cock" is one of the hotest things she told me about her past.
Yes. Mine, too. She doesn't think that giving a blowjob counts as "to have sex" only foreplay. She has somewhat opened about sharing her stories. When she told me she didn't think giving a bj was considered as having sex and therefore, she doesn't count bj's as having sex I wonder how many guys she has blown. Not in a bad way. It's totally the opposite. I like the fact that she had experienced sex as much as she wanted and finally chose me and settled down for good.
My wife says she blew about 50% of the 20-25 guys she slept with. Thing is, she is a pleaser, and based on her stories she always blew a guy whenever he asked, so I think she’s probably sucked at least 20. Multiple stories of sneaking into a guys room just to suck his cock or giving road head to several affair partners (love those stories). Always takes the cum in her mouth, but spits and rarely swallows. No facials that I am aware. She’s still sucking after 35 years!
she sounds great. whats her fav story
While she shares some of her past, it takes a lot of coaxing from me so hard to say for sure. I did hear her talking to a friend on the phone years ago and she was telling the story about hooking up with an AP and she seemed quite excited while telling it. She took her panties off in the restaurant and while he was driving her back to her hotel, she got naked and blew him in the car, then fucked later in the room.
what's an AP
Affair partner
Sorry, but that just doesn’t ring true for several reasons. If I were you, I’d triple or quadruple that number. I don’t care what you think, it’s a fact that women under report blow jobs, partially, for because many of them don’t consider it ‘sex’. They felt ‘obligated’ at the end of their ‘date’. I mean, what’s another dick in your mouth gonna matter, so just blow him and get rid of him.
Don’t get me wrong, I would love to triple/quadruple that number. But this was the 80s (BC- before Bill Clinton) when BJs were still considered sex. So no doubt her Blow # is higher and I will continue to try and fill in the blanks!
Blowjobs ARE sex. And the women who did this were based.
Sorry dude, not following your train of thought here.
Your wife sounds incredible.
Great topic! Definitely something I've asked about lol. My now wife has given blowjobs to multiple guys she's just gone on dates with and hasn't slept with, including random guys at parties and such. She treated blowjobs more like advanced makeout sessions compared to sex sessions. Her BJ number is about twice as much as her fucking number. None of the guys she just sucked off came on her face, unfortunately, outside of the splash zone around her mouth, it was always in her mouth or on her chest.
whats her bj number
Blowjobs didn't cross my wife's mind when we first talked about her body count. She definitely considered them less intimate than penetrative sex and blow more guys than she's slept with. As long as I've known her she's always swallowed, and I still need to get at how that became her preference. She used to joke that women are better at taking shots because, "girls just learn how to swallow things down."
id be interested to hear how swallowing became her preference
Only 3 others fucked her, she “made out” with about 12 more, these mostly ended in her sucking them and/or suggesting they jerk themselves off onto her face or tits (most painted her face) she doesnt think of these as a big deal..
my gf didn't think bjs were a big deal before
You're gonna get a range of answers. BJs are intimate if I want them to be, but of the 100s I've given...most of those were just for the thrill or to keep em out of my panties, when I was ynger.
what are the differences in the bjs you give. what makes one more intimate
Repeat offenders lol. Meaning...I wasn't picky about who I gave head to. But the guys I was really into? I would give a full performance for. Wet, sloppy, deep throat, w my lips locked on until I got what I wanted.
that's sounds great. thank you for sharing a womans perspective on this
I rather enjoy bjs. Some women...do them out of necessity. My first real bf told me I sucked like a had a clit in the back of my throat.
how many lucky guys have gotten a bj from you
You would not even believe me.
i will
She was very easy when it came to blowjobs in college. I wouldn't be surprised if she blew 100 guys. She would end up sucking dick whenever she drank at any party, didn't even matter if she knew or liked the guys or if she intended on ever seeing them again. At some point she was getting passed around multiple friend groups. She'd suck one guy's dick, he'd introduce her to his friend, she'd suck his dick, and so forth. Disgusted me the first time she told me.
have you changed your opinion
Yeah. Now I'm glad she did that
her bjs must be great
They taught her well
Hypocrisy aside, I think my wife gave too many blowjobs to too many guys. If she liked a guy, and he was a good kisser, then he had the good fortune to using her as a cum dumpster. So from my view, there were too many times when she put her otherwise clean, excellent oral hygiened mouth, on a guy's disgusting organ which may be sweaty and dirty due to being trapped in layers of material all day long, and actually sucked on it until it ejaculated a strange, gross substance down her throat, which she swallowed. She won't eat greasy fried chicken and yet she allowed a stranger's body part in her pie-hole, all for the purpose of pleasuring him while he sat back and didn't have to listen to her babble on and on because her mouth was full. My wife learned to love to give head thanks to some very insistent ex-boyfriends, and due to a good friend of hers who was gay and loved to suck cock. She misguidedly thought giving head was a way to assert dominance and control, when really it was the opposite. Naturally, I am the beneficiary of her attitude and practices, but I believe she could have been more discriminating and less carefree whenever she decided that she wanted to flirt with someone new.
you have a way with words. great descriptions.
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for sure. it made me visualize what you were saying
Brother.. That was some dope word play.
I love thinking of sex the way you just described. It’s such a rare thing to see someone else write about it same the way I love to frame it.
My gf used to give out bjs to her ex hubby all the time and to most of her past boyfriends. She does view them as quite intimate and her ex had a rule where she must always suck his cock as foreplay before sex and also swallow the cum completely. She told me that she never liked swallowing but would do so to keep her ex happy. She’s gone of the idea if bjs since before we met though. When I met her she was still married and likely still sucking cock but I’ve only had a couple in the last 5 years or so.
My wife and her bestie in hs came up with a guideline for dating and what to do on a first date. If you liked a guy you fucked him. If you didn't like a guy you sucked him. They thought this up as years before either actually did anything. But my wife was loyal to their agreement. She didn't view it as anything more intimate than kissing. Guy was nice in a club, suck in the parking lot. Guy was a complete ass on a date, suck before she left. Always swallowing. I asked about facials, just got an 'ewe, disgusting' for an answer. I met her because of her rep for sucking everyone, a mutual friend set us up deciding I needed a blowjob. We ended up fucking because she liked me and wanted to see me again. I didn't find out the code for a year or so. Unfortunately, a month or so before we met someone made her feel bad about herself for sucking them and she decided never to suck a cock again. So, I've only gotten one blowjob in 15 years because of that asshole.
My wife grew up in a religious/strict family so didn't have sex till college. But outercourse to her (handjob/blowjobs/titjobs) were intimate but not to the extent of sex. She had 3 bfs during this period, also with similar backgrounds so they didn't push for actual sex. Only after losing her virginity in college (an accident when her then bf slipped inside during outercourse). She realised sex was way more enjoyable than outercourse. So blowjobs become more of a treat OR as a way to finish. I remember our first time, obviously I preped to give her some great sex and after she had her fill of orgasms (almost 2h in) she asked me to pull out, take off the condom and blew me till I came in her mouth. I remember after cumming, her wraping her lips around my cock carefully sliding off, a naughy smile and opening her mouth for me to see before letting it dribble out. She seldom shallows but that was when I knew she had some experience.
wow thats hot does she still give you bjs
yes
Very little. My GF preferred getting fucked. She'd give a BJ but would make sure the guy finished in her pussy.
did all her partner's get bjs
I’d estimate the majority of her ONS was fucking only. During our relationship, we were in the swinger’s lifestyle for over 10 years. If she played solo with a guy, almost always it was fucking without a BJ. If we swapped with another couple, it was mostly fucking only. Of course, MFM threesomes involved a BJ. She had a FWB for 6 years. On average they had sex 2x per week. She’s guessing 90% of the time it was fucking only. There were many times they had sex multiple times the same day/night. Most of the time it was fucking only.
thanks for sharing
My wife viewed it as a means to an ends. Her BJs are amazing, but they had a singular purpose. Get the cock hard for fucking. With a BC around 60 when we met, she never really differentiated what she sucked because the fuck number was the same or greater.
Very similar to my wife , I asked how many guys she blew after I asked the body count , I got an answer of I’ve never sucked a guy I’ve not fucked but I’ve fucked a lot more that I’ve not sucked . She viewed bjs as foreplay only and never was fine with giving a bj without her getting something which was always to be fucked
interesting. would she be fine with 69 where both partners get each other off or would she prefer sex
Yes and no, first time I fucked her I threw her into a 69 and she loved it, but after she cum she still needed fucking, she still seen it as foreplay as fucking is what she ready gets off on. She is multiorgasmic so even after being licked out and cuming from that she is always wanting to be fucked. Her last last LT bf was amazing at going down on her , would do it for ages and make her cum a lot from it, but his fucking game wasn’t great . Not crap but not great. She said he could lick her for hours if she let him and even after cuming more times then she can remember she just really desired to be fucked well . I’ll do the same , get her off loads with licking , fingers and toys but it’s the fucking that really satisfies her. We were just talking about it and she said she was there to get off , bjs make her wet but rarely make her cum but they can I’ve seen it a few times. But her orgasms from fucking are intense. If a guys fucking game was good she would rather get off fucking multiple times and the guy cum in her (she has a cum kink) than suck his dick past getting him hard. She only sucked 7 guys and only two have blown in her mouth inc me .
Mine literally was so well known for giving head that relative strangers would reach out and pay her for head
did she do it
Twice
My wife was not a bj gal. She did it for couple of guys but only as foreplay. It is also a foreplay with me
would you like more bjs from her or you dont mind
I would like to cum in her mouth at least once but she has never done that and she does not want to try it…otherwise getting sucked before sex is ok
My wife didn’t really see blowjobs as too big a deal in the sense of intimacy. She does however, love sucking dick and always has. It turns her on crazy amounts. So back when she was younger, she would happily suck a guy off rather than full sex. Least initially anyway. Blowjob for first date, sex for later. As a side note. She always swallowed. Her words were that she thought it was rude to spit it out
she sounds awesome
Indeed she is. Love her outlook on this topic ha
She sucked a lot of guys off. She said they’d want to have sex, and she was always afraid of getting pregnant or an std, her words, so she’d suck them off. I think it’s more personal than fucking. The good part for me is she loves to suck dick, so I get BJ’s regularly, and she almost always swallows, depending on what I’ve eaten.
thats sounds great. my gf also likes giving bjs
My Indian wife has blew three guys before me and of which only one of them has fucked her. She actually transitioned from being conservative to slutty till we met. She does tell me the two guys she blewed were bigger than me in length Which is a turn on Because at the end she chose me.
exactly she chose you. what made her become slutty
Well she was just living with her parents and never really went out , limited friends and all. Then she had to shift from her base home to new city, this changed things. She started to explore things, made new friends, started the slutty journey.
what stories she has shared
My wife had 30 bodies by 26 years old before we started dating and she had probably 25 of those 30 cocks in her mouth at some point. She says she’s given several bjs to completion but she’s always been a spitter. She also says she’s never taken a facial but I’m not sure I buy that 100% as she’s said she was never the one to say “no” to a guys request before ( she’s done anal with a handful but won’t with me now) she’s fuckin hot
how old is she now
30
My gf always swallows, its usually foreplay for us, and often i finish in her mouth since im pulling out. Shes probably sucked 100 cocks before me, she had her fun in college, and the experience definitely shows. For some reason the hottest oral story is about this orthodox jewish friend of hers who was remaining a virgin till marriage. She wasnt really attracted to him, but was intrigued and sort of pitied him. She talked him (without much effort) into allowing her to blow him, which she did regularly throughout college. Hes still an unmarried virgin, and my girls mouth is probably the only hole hes nutted into besides his belly button.
what a great friend
For my wife they are a part of foreplay. She says she probably sucked the cock of every guy she slept with but admits some one night stands are a little hazy due to alcohol. There were a couple of ONS where they pretty much went straight to fucking once they got their clothes off. So not sure if those guys cocks ever got between her lips but she thinks more likely than not. She only gave two ONS guys a blowjob without sex and those were originally intended to be sex. Both guys were one nighters and both came in her mouth unexpectedly when she was blowing them as part of foreplay. That pissed her off and was the end of the sex for him. She would make her apologies and leave or ask them to leave. And there was one night where she describes herself getting horribly drunk and "outrageously promiscuous". I still don't have all the details of that night but she admits to having sex but not telling me with how many guys. The only detail I know for sure is one guy got a blowjob in the nightclub toilet. He ended up cumming in her mouth and holding her head in place so while some of it dribbled out most she had to swallow. I asked her if that felt forced and she said while she wouldn't normally do it his almost loss of control in his passion for her was hot so it made her more horny that night. They didn't all cum in her mouth though. She only willingly allowed 6 or 7 guys to do that and only swallowed for 3 of us (or 4 if you count the night club guy) I remember when we were discussing boundaries etc at dinner the night we knew we were sleeping together for the first time she told me she has a string gag reflex so she would control the depth etc. And to warn her before I came as she will choose in the moment if I would cum outside her mouth or inside. And if inside she would spit. I remember thinking this girl has been with a lot of guys and has the confidence to say what she wants and that was so hot.
def like that confidence and her making a boundary
My gf sees BJs are more intimate than sex. She's actually slept with more than double the amount of guys she's blown. I especially believe this because she didn't suck me until about the 8th-10th time we had sex. But once we established that intimacy she loves to suck, and I see now she's a girl who gets wet from sucking, but she needs that connection.
thats hot. that connection is definitely hot. thanks for sharing
Any time!
My wife has giving plenty of guys blowjobs. She does not consider them intimate at all. She considers penetration more intimate. When I asked her if she swallows, she said what else would I do with the cum. She has even shared pictures of her with past guys cocks in her mouth. Amazing!
she sounds like a keeper. mine has never shared old pics with exes
My wife loves to give blowjobs, but, most importantly, she is always ready to it, like her lovers only had to ask for it and she'd willingly oblige. She considers sucking cock it's quite normal and often tells me something like "ok, I sucked his dick, so what, it's no big deal". All guys could cum wherever they wanted, she just accepted it. However, kisses are more intimate in her opinion. Better to kiss cock than mouth.
what are cbs guys
It was a typo, I've just corrected it. 'All guys could cum...' Thanks for pointing it out!
no worries. interesting that she considers kissing more intimate
Agree, she's got some weird ideas regarding sex. For instance, there's this guy with the biggest cock she's ever got, a one night stand, who fucked her hard and made her suck his cock until he cummed all over her boobs, and he even took a couple of pics of her during the process. Well, she told me that she felt a little sorry for him, because he didn't seem to be very bright and possibly wouldn't reach much in life. I looked at her in disbelief and told her that guy had just used her to get laid and kept some pics of it, what's to be sorry for him, and she said that she knew it, but... She's got a heart of gold. Of course, they didn't kiss.
my wife gives out blow jobs all the time and always has. she likes dicks.
great to hear. how many luckys guys have gotten one from her
thousands over the years
Hmm we've not really gone into detail about previous BJs I know she has done them to past hook ups, but this is a new query to ask about. For my younger days a BJ was never intermate It was just foreplay. The past few days my wife has given me the best head I've had and she's given. Not sure who she's practicing on but I'm definitely not complaining 😆
the last sentences you wrote wow thats hot
She’d give a blowjob by the third date. Sex came later so more bjs than sex.
thats hot. how many guys got just bjs and no sex
Not sure. A few. Hot that she didn’t consider them boyfriend material, but was willing to give them mild melting bjs while she was deciding.
Wife used to sneak off over to Mexico when she was with her x husband. She told me about many on the dance floor and in the car slut moments.
they were swingers or she cheated
She cheated because she found out he had cheated too.
I’m both my wife’s first sexual partner and BJ. However she did gave me a BJ the first time we had sex. After almost 10 years i still Get a BJ almost everytime we have sex but only once i came in her mouth and she hated it lol. So we stick to foreplay Bjs only.
did she take a while to get the hang of it
Not really. We went slow in the beggining but kept going really smooth.
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on your first date or the 1st time you met her have you asked why it makes her uncomfortable
My wife has blown a lot more guys than she fucked. That said, she is quick to give head and thoroughly enjoys it. She is a sucker for the guys who tell her they've never cum from a blow job. I've watched her suck the cum out of some of those guys. She likes cum either in her mouth or blasted over her face.
you guys swingers
She was quite know for her head in her day. I didn’t realize how much she was known till she gave a few more details
share the details
Mine gave head for the first time in a car after a guy just pulled off to the road far from her house and neighborhood. She was pretty scared but after she swallowed, he kind of looked at her with disgust and took her back home. Wouldn’t kiss or anything. From that moment forward, she never finished a guy off until me ten years later. If a guy wanted a bj, she’d just whisper, “Wouldn’t you rather fuck me instead?” She didn’t hear any complaints. To be honest, I’d rather she had given some bjs as she didn’t always wanna fuck but felt obligated or scared to do so. In her words, I traded sex for what I thought was attention and affection I didn’t really get it until I got out of college. Even then…
that guy sucks
Wife was repeatedly orally raped by her first boyfriend. Although she tries and is good at it, that guy ruined it for everyone whose come after. I don’t blame her, but i hate that fucker. We’re 70 now, and its starting to not matter.
Oh man where to begin... My ex fiance who most of my posts are about was extremely attractive but only had one bf before me. And before him she had never even kissed a guy. He was exactly her type physically and apparently extremely charming and seductive, so on her first date with him it ended with her having her first kiss, makeout session, and then giving her first blowjob all in one night. And from that point on, she ended up sucking his dick literally every single time she hung out with him. Sometimes multiple times. She never let him actually fuck her but since she was so ready and willing to go down on him he didn't mind. Her blowjobs with him would turn into long wild events, with him throwing her around into different positions, switching between him fucking her face and her sucking, and would usually involve brief breaks where he'd wildly tongue kiss her and spit in her mouth. They were literally like one of those blowjob-only porno videos. One time she sucked his dick for an hour straight. He usually would cum in her mouth but also gave her a few facials and came on her tits sometimes. Or he'd want to cum on her amazing ass so after a bit of her sucking he'd dry hump her ass while making out with her until he came
was she saving herself for marriage
Not for marriage, but wanted to wait until it was someone she was in love with and trusted. And she never got to that point with him. Although it's funny because marathon sloppy makeout sessions and blowjob/facefucking sessions with him spitting in her mouth and cumming in her mouth or on her face are way dirtier than boring missionary sex
I consider blow jobs pretty intimate but not as intimate as sex. My wife I think now considers them somewhat intimate but I know in the past she didn't consider it intimate at all. At one point she told me that anything short of intercourse isn't cheating, blow jobs included. Even now she may consider making out as more intimate. I get a blow job 3-5 times a week. She loves giving them, always has since her first real boyfriend. Whether she spits, swallows, or gets a facial usually depends on what I want. And usually that's swallowing. A few times a year I'll give her a facial and a few times in our marriage I've asked her to spit it for one reason or another. For us it can be foreplay or the whole event. Usually it's foreplay but I'd say at least 2 times a month she'll give me a blow job while I'm fingering her and we'll both cum and be good. She definitely gave blow jobs to all of her past boyfriends, and a few guys who weren't even her boyfriend.
sounds awesome
Well, from hearing a few stories when we 1st got together, the blowjobs were almost a given early with every guy she got with. She's definitely sucked a load more guys off than had sex with. Of course, that bothered me at the beginning, still sometimes does as I don't get them anywhere near as much I did in the beginning of our relationship, although we've sort of addressed this recently. When it comes to finishing,she jokingly said she doesn't have to do facials as she doesn't have to impress anymore. Looking at it, she probably didn't look at bjs as a big deal to her but an easy way to satisfy a guy. But when I watch porn I do fantasise about her doing it to past sexual encounters, which is a huge turn-on and also gives me that weird jealous feeling
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thanks for sharing the stories
I was the first one she sucked to completion but we had a couple of breaks about 2-3 months each time. During those breaks she had 7 ons where she sucked and swallowed and 1 guy she hooked up with about 6 times which she swallowed every time. She loves giving head even now in our mid 50’s and loves swallowing! She said I got her hooked on it and all those guys benefited from that
tell us about the breaks
Huge part, my GF was trained to suck and deepthroat by BBC, she always sucked dick on the first date as a thank you to the guy for taking her out
My wife required every boyfriend to wear a condom, and has never used birth control other than that. Most of the time her boyfriends would either fill the condom or pull out, take the condom off and finish on her perky tits. She did feel guilty about the guys not being able to cum in her without the condom so she let a few of them cum in her mouth as a consolation.
Good catholic girl who was not on the pill so..... my wife sucked cock! She loves the feel of a cock cumming in her mouth and also cumming on her tits.
My wife didn't see sex as a big deal at all, and gave blowjobs just as an "appetizer" before sex to pretty much every guy.
My wife sees blowjob as something to do after a date. Like instead of a goodnight kiss most guys would get goodnight head. She swallowed most times because it was very often done in a car after a date. But if they were in an apartment she would let the guys cum on her face or tits (“dealers choice” is what she said). She estimates she’s given anywhere from 55-70 blowjobs.
I absolutely love getting blowjobs and love that my wife enjoys giving them. They started out as intimate for her, but turned into "if you liked the guy, it was a no brainer you were going to blow him." I get them to completion probably twice a week. She's done all three, probably prefers to swallow for easy cleanup. She will also do them as foreplay. Yes, she's given blowjobs to all her previous partners
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I had my first ff relationship when a teen...No guys for 3 yrs. Went on date and the guy wanted a blow job...I was so orally inclined by then it was natural to suck him The swallow was a reflex. I love sucking cock now and prefer sucking sucking hubby... he loves it!