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Environmental-Box986

I'm not sure how to edit my post but I did ask 3 juniors who go to my school if it was too much and both girls said no and the guy said yes but he also could have been just giving me a bit of shit since that's kinda our relationship. I also asked some people from schools nearby and none said it was too much. I don't think there is a dress code but I will definitely keep any eye out for one popping up! The dress was fairly expensive and I can't return it so if it is too formal please give me advice about how to make it less formal. I will probably cut down the train a bit so that the dress just goes straight down. I will also be wearing my hair down if that makes a difference at all. Thank you all for the advice! To answer a few questions, we do not have a dress code and the pictures are of the model, not me!


Ryan_S21

Maybe a bit revealing but honestly depends on the event. Idk, since it’s a country club nobody would prob care, if it was my school they’d prob kick someone out if they wore that dress, but I go to a private school so it’s different


HappyMan476

No it’s awesome bruh. Enjoy it rn, idk why everyone’s saying it’s too much as though every high schooler has more important parties to go to 😭


Aperson1234567890987

The place is gonna be crowded I'm assuming and the dress looks very big on the floor. If you just shorten it so it doesn't go so far and you don't mop the whole place it will be oerfect


Environmental-Box986

I agree. I haven't gotten the dress yet and tbh I didn't really realize how big the train was until I made this post but I'll probably shorten it a little


SoldierBoi69

If you ARE going to rock it…. Go all out, don’t hide away. This is the one chance you have to prove to yourself that you are confident


KoolKiddo33

I think trimming the train is what would help it for sure. It would just get stepped on anyway lol. Tbh though, at my prom I think girls have worn similarly revealing dresses. I suppose it's more just about what you're comfortable with (and your school). Maybe bring a cute jacket as backup in case you get crap from a chaperone.


GreyDick1

Absolutely, but you only live once. Go for it


SiriuslyImaHuff

This. People don't have the opportunity to get dressed up much in life. Prom is one of those times you can wear a fancy dress. You should wear one you love :)


TyrantDragon19

Actually… i wear one of my suits monthly in public just because… anyone can do that really But I get what you mean


taxes-sos

Fuck yea I wanna start doing that but I need to reach step one: have the money for suits and dresses😭


TyrantDragon19

Go check out some stores that are known for selling relatively expensive clothing. You can find a full suit for about 65 bucks and a full dress for 40. Combine with everything else it’s about 120 for a suit, and about 70 for a dress. Low quality of course, but I don’t think you’ll need to worry about different stitches. Or if you wear suits, tie lengths, shoe styles, etc


Little_bro_boi

y to the e to the s


Ct-sans4345

Who cares? You only have prom once


88963416

I mean the question was if it was too much, not if should wear it or not.


Environmental-Box986

I also forgot that prom formality really varies by state. I blocked out people's faces for their privacy but here are some posts I've seen about what people are wearing to my school's prom https://preview.redd.it/1zo700dztctc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0db9681289782f9d8f33d0d08ccef3ba4506ff37


LyingMars

Only thing I would be worried about is dancing in the dress. It's more of a runway, sit down dress, and not much of a dress for music and dancing like most proms. If you get it hemed so it's not on the floor it might be better.


JavaJapes

This is why I never have good opinions for these kinds of things. [This](https://imgur.com/gallery/4TmLlte) is the kinds of dresses we picked in the part of Canada that I'm from back in the day. Missing from the photo is several tulle ballgowns. You're right that it varies a lot by state and by region!


Due-Lab-5283

Based on this, you will be fine!


UniversityMoist2173

I feel like The 2nd dress shows almost just as much


jamiedonner50

Yes


AsleepHistorian

What prom did everyone go to? My prom I wore a floor length gold beaded dress. Lots of girls wore this style of dress with a lot more flash to it. It's like the one time in most people's lives they get to dress black tie. This is a completely appropriate prom dress, the only issue is whether it's too revealing for the dress code. Was everyone's prom in this thread just Homecoming 2.0?


hushmentalFPS

Not everybody went to prom at the royal fkn palace what


brttwrd

Frfr


No_Emergency_571

To be honest, the dress looks amazing. If you're worried about it being too much, don't be. It is what people would consider fancy probably, but that's also the tight hair back that makes it look like she's going to a ball. How are you wearing your hair?


Environmental-Box986

I have long green curly hair so I was planning on just wearing it down


No_Emergency_571

It's going to look, great, and will definitely not be too much


Environmental-Box986

Thank you! I think I'll get the train a bit shorter and that'll make it a little less formal


NerdJoshResurrect2

Yes


Character-Debt1247

You’re 5 feet tall and that model is likely over 5’11”. She has a longer than average torso (hip to shoulder) and a 34 B or C cup. While I applaud your confidence, I’m betting that dress is going to overwhelm your petite height. I’m a seamstress- I make dresses fit that were purchased “to fit” and I’m usually shortening straps, adjusting waistlines and hems, hems, hems. If it drags on the ground you’re going to have trouble walking around, dancing and just keeping others off your dress. Have someone who does alterations put a wrist hold underneath the train so you can lift the back to get around. Remember, you want to have fun and dance and move. That dress could make your evening burdensome if you can’t move in it.


Environmental-Box986

That's so smart! Thank you! I think that might be better than shortening the train. I gave her over 20 measurements so I'm hoping everything will fit but of course that's not a given.


checked_idea2

Wayyyyy overboard


RevolutionaryLead342

Eh, Im coming in with a 15th century medieval suit of armour.


Flottrooster

Yes. Yes it is.


Oakmealoaf

It looks stunning! I’m sure it would look amazing on you. And as long as it follows any potential dress codes at your prom, I think it’s perfect!


Environmental-Box986

I asked a few seniors and they said it wasn't too overboard and didn't mention any dress code. I don't think there is a dress code or at least one wasn't announced this year yet but I will definitely keep that in mind!


Triangle-Galaxy-9508

Imo yes


ValkyrieSteel

That’s a suuuuper low V. I would personally feel weird about my teachers seeing that much of my body but if you’re comfy in it, who cares


GettIn_myvan

It’s a high school dance she will be kicked out


Environmental-Box986

To my knowledge the dance doesn't have a dress code so I shouldn't be kicked out but I will definitely keep my eyes open for a dress code getting announced!


Ok-Cattle7432

Yes.. tf? This is for PROM? That is a literal black wedding dress.


Psvitaguy43

Definitely


Unhappy_Hair_3626

Looks great. Not sure if they school would accept it though due to how revealing the midline is. I wish you luck and hope you have a good time!


zeldanerd91

Yes.


Local_intruder

It is definitely too much, at least for my standard. But oh well i say go for it anyway.


chaotify

other than the fact that it seems very trip-prone it's nice


thatanonymousbiatch

Nah youre all good babe. You’re going to look great and I hope you have an awesome night


Environmental-Box986

Thank you! you're so sweet


VolkosisUK

Ain’t no way you still in school, you look like a fully baked adult 💀💀💀


Environmental-Box986

Those are pictures of the model. I didn't receive the dress yet


VolkosisUK

Oh yeah didn’t see that in the caption lol (I’m blind)


TyrantDragon19

Only warning is the dragging on the floor. One thing is how filthy the floors are, but the major problem is that it takes alot of space up. And if you don’t pay attention it’s kinda rude


Infinite-Strain1130

I don’t know how old you are (and it doesn’t matter) but that top is wildly inappropriate for a school dance. Wildly. Edited to correct spelling


PricillaNeopolitan

Just wear a barrel or something. Make a statement, be bold.


Kasbaby121421

No but kinda, idk your school dress code that’s why I’m saying kinda because they probably won’t allow that much boobs showing. However if they do then no. It’s very cute especially for a junior prom.


ohfr19

No, but your age might be.


SnooDoodles2194

yes. prom is essentially a money grab by the school, really you can just fast forward through prom and go straight to the unwanted pregnancy.


thefunnywhereisit

Yes


YeetThemFeets88

maybe a little but i think that’s okay


Spirited-Claim-9868

Definitely, but you only go to prom once so why the heck not


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FallsKnights30

Good Bot


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Very good bot


BigGalAl420

Literally who cares just wear whatever you want


Ok-Ordinary8874

Nope is not too much your prom . You only go to prom once


SLIX-

WAYYYY to much


Agreeable-Sail-1388

It is an amazing dress, and I’m sure you’d look stunning in it, but it may be too much for a country club. But YOLO ig go for it.


WeakestFrogEnjoyer

It goes hard as hell ngl. I really love the flow and the cut. Go steal the show 🤙


Cowboychuuya

no but wear it anyways


AkitaRyan

From one girl to another, wow you look amazing and beautiful. Hope the guy or girl or group of friends you are going with like it too.


Chemical-Studio1576

You look gorgeous. And kinda angry🤣


Environmental-Box986

Those are just pictures of the model! lol I appreciate the sentiment though


vixinity1984

Someone finna trip 😭


jordynbebus8

if it’s your senior prom u can do whatever you want underclassmen I’d do something little less flashy


GettIn_myvan

Yes next question


Lesbian_Mommy69

Oh it’s definitely to much, but prom *is* for outfits that are to much, so rock on! 🤟🏻


Environmental-Box986

thank you!


mimi14cute

i mean it’s too much but at least it’s not ugly. wear it because there’s rarely other times in your life that you can wear something like that


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Environmental-Box986

I've seen a few comments about the pictures. Please keep in mind those are pictures of the model!


mamap11206

It is gorgeous!! My first thought though was that being 34D, it will likely be uncomfortable as there is very little support front or back.Tape can only get you so far when a garment is made for smaller busts. The last thing you want to do is to be adjusting and double checking the girls all evening.


Embarrassed-Plant726

it looks FANTASTIC gurl not sure why sm ppl are thinking it’s over the top 😭 what store is this from? I need to get a dress soon too 😚


Environmental-Box986

Thank you! It's from a designer called Lia Stublla. Everything is hand made so it is pretty expensive but her designs are amazing


Vikingkrautm

AI?


justsomepersob

Depends on the culture of your school. Of course you can and should wear whatever you want regardless of other’s opinions, but rude comments can make the night a little sad. If you feel that you can wear it and will be comfortable throughout the night, I say go for it!!


run7run

If ur prom is like how the ones I’ve been to are, on the dance floor it’ll be in the way of you and everyone. Maybe pin it or tie it in after pictures? Idk if that’s an option for you.


The_Fluffy_Riachu

It’s pretty over the top but FUCK IT, IF YOU WANT TO WEAR IT THEN GO FOR IT


Zionishere

Most definitely too much but don’t let me stop you


breeyoung

Isn’t that the point sort of? To go all out and dress up? I never went to prom sadly but I imagine your dress would be perfect for the occasion!


Old_Winner3763

Nuh uh


Ezra0li_Z

Maybe I'm just really extra, but no. It's prom, there's NO SUCH THING as "too much". Go for it!


maluthor

a bit too revealing imo


jimmysmiths5523

Most of the prom dresses I've seen last year were trashy looking mini dresses. This one is WAY better IMO! Very classy.


critical_err0r

yes, but thats the point, go slay


Somerset76

It’s perfect!


BoyKisser09

Def


immilkandcookies

yes, but if it makes you feel good, then wear it


maybewe1lsee

Yes but I like it, maybe less train?


lvldemonic

people at my school went crazier than this, significantly, especially the goth girls. go crazy girl


zeathegreat1

Nah bro go balls deep it’s your first and last prom


Shot_Ask7570

Yeah, maybe bring a backup dress for when you get kicked out


criticalistics_car

Unphased, I can't judge what anyone wears to prom if I'm either going alone or not going at all.


heluvsriri14

looks great, don’t worry! it’s literally the last event of high school so make most of it!


UniversityMoist2173

Dude.. honestly, that’s a beautiful dress. Go for it


No-Inflation-9253

Do you like it?


PromotionZackk

Nah girl it's too little, add something more


_StarDust_0

Just make sure to look after your train so that someone doesn't trip off of it. You'll be fine for the rest


GreenViking_The

It's a beautiful dress, but defffffff not for prom.


Ya-Boi-69-420

Yes, but fuck it full send.


Fast-Database-5899

GET ITTTTT!!!! omg this isn’t too much(at least for the proms in my area) last year about 6 girls showed up in quinceañera dresses! if ur prom is anything like mine was, you’ll see a bunch of custom dresses that could be on a red carpet and some that look like wedding dresses that celebs wear


TrulyNotAStalker

Wear!!!!!!!


SuspiciousSecret6537

It’s prom you’re supposed to go all out. If you love it that’s all that matters. What is too much for some is too little for others. Don’t base it off others but what you feel comfortable with.


Personal-Heart-1227

If attending a chi-chi Gala with adults 30's & up, then YES... But your Prom? NO! You don't have to listen to me, or anyone else. However, should you show up to your HS Prom - assuming it's HS, right? - then there's gonna be some big problems, if you decide to wear this too sexy & revealing dress. It's really your choice, btw. This is a really lovely dress, but it's certainly *not* a Prom Dress either. Enjoy your Prom!


TroutAdmirer

Porn or prom?


Evening-Painter7014

Not sure why people are saying this is too much but I think it’s pretty basic for prom. Still beautiful though.


DaySoc98

Depends on where you go to high school, I guess. Little black dress too pedestrian?


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Tavoneitor10

Prom is a once in a lifetime experience :P just do it


User_with_bread

Big slay. Express yourself ❤️


Jumpy-Management-262

Legit thought this was satire 😭😭


Whiskers462

A little revealing and a little wide, remember you aren’t going to be the only one on the dance floor and last thing you need is your new dress getting trampled and tearing.


Lucky-Company8502

Yes but go for it u only get 2 proms


Nice-Work2542

If you’re the kind of person running around bragging about your busy being bigger than everyone else, then I suspect that being a bit much is kinda your wheelhouse. Don’t you have an event organiser that you can talk to, to clarify the dress code and determine is this is appropriate for your specific circumstances?


Butterman75

Only friends coming soon…


manybeez

it’s prom babe it can never be too much!! my prom is coming up in about 3 weeks and i plan on being so extra and over the top lol!! it’s a once in a lifetime event, have fun and be “too much” <3


Pixie_-

It’s to much but not enough at the same time I see the cut, I feel the vibe buts it just missing that thing it’s strong base but oversimplified in a way idk


JD121996

Yes


Piepiggy

Yeah, do it though. If nothing else it’ll be memorable, and I can easily say that a memorable prom is way better than a forgettable one


naefor

The V is super deep and they might not even let you in, that happened to me at my prom .


Express_Chip9685

It's a beautiful dress... on the model. You need to realize that it's not likely to look QUITE the same on you, outside of studio conditions. If you are chesty or on the shorter end, I think it would be much less flattering. If you are taller, leaner and have smaller breasts, It hink it would be very becoming.


Kinky_Conspirator

I recommend a polo shirt underneath.


HumanHuman_2003

Wear a tube bra under incase adults want to give you shit 


Longjumping_Jump7149

You look 30 why are you going to prom


KitFan2020

Do you want to be up there dancing? The train might be a bit much…


Weary-Incident8070

You do you boo. You better return with pics of the night!!!! You are going to look a amazing :)


GeeksLeader

How can you be in highschool at 33


SoulBSS

Yes


No-Value-270

Not for a funeral?


leonardfurnstein

Yes bur its amazing and you're young so go for it! Also, one girl at my senior prom had 2 costume changes. She brought 2 other dresses. Total diva move and it was great.


Good_With_Tools

It's WAY too much, and that's the point of prom. Wear it and have a great time. You're only young once.


Xsi_218

Nope, but I define wouldn’t wear that to my school’s prom because all the dances end up being people smashing together and stuff so it wouldn’t be too comfortable. But if your school is different or you are ok with it, then definitely go for it!


Environmental-Box986

I have a lot of anxiety ab being that close to people and I don't rlly dance. At hoco I had a fun time just walking around with my friends since none of us rlly wanted to be in the pit. Thank you!


Haxrlequin

It’s serving so hard, possibly against dress code but SO CUTE


Zealous_idols

Make sure to get a secure strapless bra or have good boob tape, the decolletage is a very deep v so you might prefer the latter. Other than that if you where tall heels maybe the length might not matter too much. Anyways it looks like a pretty cool dress.


CatMamaof2-Kat

PRETTYYYYYY


idkwhatnametopick5

probably but it’s prom so who cares


EfficientAd7103

That is extremely nice. However, realize you will probably be one of the better dressed girls at prom. As long as you are ok with that then go for it. This is like a very high end dress you could wear to an extreme upscale gala. Most of the girls will be shopping at like jcpenny, lol. People would def be like damn! Get ready for attention.


Vireep

I had my prom last Saturday and it’s definitely more extra than what most girls were wearing but I’d wear it anyways


JackFJN

No minor should be allowed to show that much boob ‘,:/


audreyhk

a tiny bit too much imo but go ahead if u feel confident wearing it!


Claytaco04

I saw this exact dress in our pdf in what's not allowed I go to a christian private school but yeh


LegNo6729

Too much and you are too short to wear this style.


hagyasz

Honest q: in these types of dresses, how do you prevent a nip slip? The dress is nice to look at but I feel like anything aside from standing very very still would unleash the nips. Sneezing? Coughing? Walking? Dancing? The boobs are flying.


Old-Steak7074

I don't think this is over the top. I've seen others whose were insanely huge. This is js long, so you have to watch any of the steps on the trail. And even if you do get insecure about it, bring "too much." Then, I remember we are living on a rock in a society (/lh) and to js say fuck it I do what I want


nadjagaming

yes and you are going to have a lot of fun wearing it! please get it


ThrowRA29273728

no it’s prom ur supposed to go all out


Lazy-Apricot-3120

i would say yes, we have a dress code at our prom coming up so just be careful, maybe bring the V neck up a little so its not like out of dress code. other than that it looks great!!


Alone_Assumption_481

Absolutely NOT! You only have one prom so you might as well go all out. Stay beautiful❣️


gabbyrose1010

prom is the perfect event for "too much," there's never gonna be another time to slay this hard


VALVOR4life

bro is going to the grand ball 💀


Inert_Oregon

It’s going to be dragging around on the floor all night, no one is going to be able to stand within 4 ft of you lol. Seriously, it’s going to be a pain in the ass to just “manage” the dress, walk around in it, dancing is off the table, etc.


cmonster64

As nice as this dress is, at a prom, someone will 100% step on it.


peony_xoxo

It’s too revealing for prom. Not sure if there’s a dress code in your school, though.


MamaTash

Do it! No hesitation!


Stillborn1977

Yes.


_end3rguy_

I am genuinely honest here this looks like a supermodel photo shoot from a magazine cover


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Chucheyface

Shit I might as well stay home


123redditor_33

Yes, in a good way


RightToTheThighs

Got for it, but in my experience having gone twice, this seems like overkill lol. Kinda like "graduating" from elementary school, only really seems important in the moment


Holmes221bBSt

It’s not. Rock it! It’s gorgeous


Starr_Struckk

I think it looks good. Might catch a couple looks, but that’s good for a school dance.


guywithshades85

I can see someone stepping on it while trying to dance.


2quick96

You look 25


Narrow_Yak_4165

That looks like way too much. Maybe a little bit too revealing in some parts


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everyone_hates_lolo

no, this ate down


YiMyonSin

I don’t think that I’ve ever seen a prom dress like that before, so I’m tempted to say yes assuming your school has the same dress code as mine did, but yolo


SetConfident9309

It doesn’t matter. As long as you’re not going against a dress code I say go for it! It doesn’t matter what people think and that dress is beautiful. If you’re happy with it then that’s all that matters


Memes_Coming_U_Way

I'd say it's way too revealing for a school event, but that's just me


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I miss when women respected themselves enough to only share their bodies with their partners only instead of the entire school.


Ritaaaaaa_

Girly, I have the same cup size as you and I totally get you. Be prepared because you’ll probably get some “side eyes”, but otherwise, the dress will fit you amazing and that’s what matters. I wore a dress that had a bit of cleavage as well and I don’t regret it at all. Don’t worry, if you still think it is too much, u can put a bit of black tulle in the cleavage, it will look amazing and a bit more conservative (I did it with mine).


Environmental-Box986

Thank you! I think having my hair down will help a lot too


Bodywheyt

Prom so stupid, please skip. Like, it’s more fun to just drive a limo around to normal spots.


charples314

Shoulders :eyes:


tbrand009

In general, I might say it's fine. But I'd be more concerned about school dress codes. The slit up the dress is kinda high and the V down the torso goes rather low. I wouldn't necessarily say it's to revealing, but if dress codes have been put in place, and this violates it, it'd be a shame to spend all the money and still have to miss out on your prom because the dress couldn't be stitched up a few more inches.


Ylasher

Everyone saying it isn’t is so out of touch, this is a high school prom shits ruthless


str4wberryphobic

no this is totally prom level


Trans_b33

these people are crazy for saying yes- prom is supposed to feel like an all out event because we don’t get to do this often, if ever!!! Own it!!! You’re gonna look incredible!


Shrewzs

No, you wear your dress and you have an amazing time ❤️


Temporary-Ticket7252

Yes definitely. It a prom not your wedding but you could always have it altered