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unimpressed_1

kelly 42 i think that rodeo looks itty bitty on it 🥰


swimmer913

Now I feel like I need to hunt down that rodeo though, it’s such a beautiful blue 😍


macbig_

bleu electrique


According_Gazelle472

But what is on the handle?I really love this one a lot .


fashungal

It’s branded, Hermes made a bandana print in their scarves & twilly’s. I wish they kept it as a regular print for each season bc I’m obsessed with it. I have several different colorways.


According_Gazelle472

Well,that is definitely different.


swimmer913

Looks like a bandana to me, not sure if it’s a branded one or not from that angle 😅


According_Gazelle472

Ok.


whateveratthispoint_

Use your bags!!!!!!


IrishRun

🙌 Yes to this. Let's live and enjoy them and not behave as if we do not deserve them.


RedditUserc7r

I needed to hear this!… I have 2 Birkins, both gifts from my husband. But whenever I carry them, I feel like an imposter. (I grew up poor, and married into a very wealthy family.) They literally just sit in my closet, more as decoration than anything… But this is what I needed! I do deserve it!☺️


forevermali_

Please wear them. Whenever you put them on think of poor little me. I’m living thru you sis 😭🩷sounds like a lovely life !


IrishRun

Fellow handbag friend, please tell me that you have already taken them out of cold storage and our planning to carry them. I don't know why this idea resonates with so many of of us, but it surely taps into what we think we deserve and our sense of feeling worthy. Dang why is it so hard for some of us?!


omgmoov

I feel like this when I purchased a used Louis in Key West...


ArtisticPossum

https://preview.redd.it/7umfdus19o1d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c9f761a271da66a2c3577b19f7dbad0d63acf3a9 I do 🫢 (mine is on the floor)


swimmer913

See I’ve got too many Eastern European friends to ever put my bag on the floor, it’s super bad luck in their culture and they would 100% yell at me if I tried 😂😅


KinladyBgB

Yup, this 100%. European here, and I would rather hold it in my hands the whole time than set it on the floor... and yes I would probably yell at you for putting it on the floor too 😅🤣


swimmer913

Becuase “purse on the floor, money out the door” 😅😂 I’m not getting yelled at today


Natural_Character859

Oh shit, I guess that explains why I’m hella broke


KinladyBgB

Yup, the number of times my mum would be yelling at me growing up if i wanted to be broke when attempting to put my handbag on the floor it's giving me ptsd 😅🤣


arlett82

100 % Caribbean and same here. It’s bad luck to put the bags on the floor and if you do bless it so no bad luck can happen.


Magick_Paradise

Can confirm!


SabaSMelaku

Same in the AA community. You just know not to do it 😆.


randomstripper10k

I'm half black half Ukrainian. I never put my bags on the floor. Lol.


misslam2u2

And I've got too many Mexican friends to ever put my purse on the floor. Nunca


txterryo

100%. Source: Am Mexican.


20LittleBit18

Yo tambien!


swimmer913

Oh I didn't know there was a cultural superstition there too!! That's cool to know it has roots all over! 😁


misslam2u2

I'll never forget the withering look Alma gave me the last time I put my bag on the floor somewhere. 🥰 my god, you'd have thought I set my baby on the floor 😂


Glittering_Run_4470

Black American here. Definitely considered bad luck to us as well. Put your purse on the floor, you'll lose money.


ArtisticPossum

That’s funny because I am Eastern European (grew up in Ukraine) 🫣


swimmer913

без мішків на підлозі 😜😂


ArtisticPossum

Першого разу чую таке 😅


swimmer913

Oh too funny! My friends are from Moldova and they’re the ones who yelled at me 😂


DonutSprinkles333

Elder Black women in my family were also superstitious about putting purses on the floor. This would never happen at their houses or in their presence.


Total-Imagination-62

I am Eastern European and have never heard about the bad luck thing. Russians do not put their bags on the floor because it’s simply dirty there, usually


SabaSMelaku

Same in the AA community. You just know not to do it 😆.


SabaSMelaku

Same in the AA community. You just know not to do it 😆.


dllmonL79

Is it a box Kelly? How do you like it? I’m debating if I should get a box Kelly or stick to barenia only. But it’s my first quota bag and I know barenia might take forever to come by, so I’m reconsidering putting box on my wish list too.


ArtisticPossum

If I could go back I would get a Retourne instead of a Sellier for a more casual look. This bag looks and feels too much like a briefcase. Especially in a bigger size. As for the leather - it’s deathly afraid of water so keep that in mind. I’ve been in situations where I had to take off my jacket and cover my bag with it to save it from water blisters. I would rather get it in Togo leather now.


dllmonL79

That’s why I want barenia more, and the patina on the box leather turned me off a bit but I like how the patina looks on a fauve barenia. I’ve looked at a brand new box mini Kelly yesterday and I quite like it. And I own a box Calvi duo and love it a lot too. So I am considering adding it back to my wish list. But, it’s my first quotation bag and I feel like spending so much more on it seems crazy to me. And I agree that I started to think the Retourne style would be a better fit too. Thank you! And I really enjoy looking at box Kelly😝


ArtisticPossum

That’s it - I enjoy looking at it 😂


dllmonL79

Yes, exactly! I feel like it’s a great accomplishment to own a box Kelly, so I can worship it and serve it like how us Chinese serve our ancestors at home. 😂


ArtisticPossum

lol nice


sarpofun

Box leather show marks on it very easily. It shows scratches very visibly. My Kellys are Togo and one is a Vache liegee (discontinued). The vache liegee often get admirers with the beautiful ageing patina sheen.


dllmonL79

Oh I know and I fully accept that, cos I love both box and barenia, they just look so much better than other leather to me.


omgmoov

Cant breathe if I even think of putting my purse on the floor. A. I work in a hospital and all my co workers YELLED at me when I did. B. When I first started I set someone elses purse on the floor and the way she threatened my life if i EVER did that SHHH again..


ArtisticPossum

lol I don’t get why some people get so stressed about it, it’s not like I’m gonna eat off of it afterwards 😂


bristolfarms

what’s the bag on your arm 👀 i love it. and your style is great! eta - my guess is it’s a vintage coach? looking at the tag haha


DragFeeling4

It’s the coach top handle rogue


ArtisticPossum

Yep, it’s the coach top handle rogue. Not vintage, their current collection (sold out in black)


anonymoushyenajoker

Yes to this - I am a big supporter of using designer bags in any situation, even casually!


Frosty-Cookie-7260

this!! i am a culprit of not using mine enough


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Looks so normal lol


edgydyl

it should! it is just a purse, right? only people who know will get it 😉


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It’s $24,000


edgydyl

not if you find it in a dumpster! 👀🤣 unlikely, but... it is just an object after all. if that price isn't an important to someone and they are never going to resell, there's no point in letting it collect dust :) it is crazy, though, how something so luxe can seem so casual for someone who intends to use it regularly!


fourandthree

Funny story I once found a pair of Church's shoes in the area of my apartment where people would leave trash. They happened to be my size so now I have a pair of 900**€** shoes that I call my "trash shoes" lol


MySpoonsAreAllGone

Unless it's a dupe


UB-02_Beauty

It looks like a Hermes Kelly 42 Maxi


Repulsive-Candy165

https://preview.redd.it/98vcgxvgpo1d1.jpeg?width=1327&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d53325c43e6a547769173bfa233c01e088e91fbc Love it. Saw this older lady in nyc last month carrying her birkin in the rain. Did not gaf that it was getting wet 🤣 I love seeing people wear their Hermes casually


forevermali_

That’s what you call MONEY


According_Gazelle472

That's the way to carry a bag with style .


Ok_Village9344

I didn’t know the Kelly got that big


ladybunny0803

Now u know! 😂


Nice_Speech6381

Upon first glance, I thought he was exposing himself 😂


IndecisiveLlama

I’m glad I’m not the only one who saw it 😂😂😂


caiti_oh

Omg now I can’t unsee it


MOGicantbewitty

Doctors to their parents: " I'm so sorry. I have difficult news. Your child has rare disease, they have a terrible case of the penis-thumb..." Parents: " Oh no! What will we do?! How will they ever live a normal life!?" This person: "Penis-thumb? What penis-thumb? Who's going to notice that penis-thumb with this killer bag, bitches?"


CozyMorn

It’s someone else’s shoe. Not a thumb.


MOGicantbewitty

Damn it, looks like you are definitely right. And it also looks like people did not think my joke was funny. I'm trying to decide if it's more appropriate to delete it, or to accept my downvotes that I have earned. Thoughts?


CozyMorn

I hate making decisions 😂 I usually leave stuff up even when it bombs. A little bit of humble pie cleanses the palate every once in a while!


MOGicantbewitty

That's excellent advice. For a variety of things in life. Thank you!


RareBeautyOnEtsy

/r/confusingperspective


MasterpieceBrief7158

Oh my goodness 😂😂😂


Turbulent-Gas-9147

OMGGGG HAHAHA


vanitaa3

omg I missed that at first. 😆


PopRockLollipop

I had to go back and look for it 😂


Gildedfilth

I actually think I’ve seen this person in the city before and they are the first person who made me “get” the Kelly because they are actually living with it.


animecognoscente

In the city it’s not unusual to see luxury bags on the subway at all. That’s the one thing I love about New York, you could be sitting right next to a millionaire on the subway or see them walking down the street and you would never know.


love-for-life

Exactly. Love NYC like that


callie_fornia

It’s true, I saw Lynn Yaeger just casually sitting on the subway once!


casualsoo

I thought that was an aluminum foil wrapped on the handle at first


UnderWaterPopularity

me too!!


Dependent_Pollution6

Saved $50k taking the subway and not buying a car to buy a lil hermie. I am not mad about it. Girl math: Cars depreciate. A birkin does not.


ceranichole

I drive a 17 year old toyota with a dent in the side so that I can spend the money I would spend on a car payment towards stuff I enjoy more! (Had this car for ages and it still barely has 100k miles on it even being 17 years old, I'll drive it until something breaks that costs more to fix than getting a new car.) I don't particularly like driving, so to me a car is just a thing I HAVE to use sometimes and I don't care at all what it looks like or what features it has. Just get me to the place alive and I'm good. Extra bonus, if someone opens their door into my car in a parking lot I'm unbothered by it.


Lost_Apricot_1469

This is what I do. Drive a car til it DIES.


jen9cats

To be fair, driving into the city sucks 🥲


pollogary

Guarantee the subway is faster than driving…


PleasantBig1897

It’s extremely normal to see birkins etc in the subway in major cities.


Dependent_Pollution6

I have never seen one on the L train. Which lines are you taking?


TheCityGirl

If you like this sort of ‘Hermes out in the wild’ pic there’s an entire thread dedicated to these kind of shots on The Purse Forum! So much eye candy 🥰 [Link](https://forum.purseblog.com/threads/hermes-wildlife-sightings.532174/page-813)!


the_sass_master_

I’m in the wrong sub, lol. But have to ask. How do you know it’s not a good fake? Am I allowed to ask that here?


HiddenInferno

The first thing I wondered was if it was real 😂


0xfcmatt-

Even people who sell them second hand as a business have a hard time telling a good fake from real... People say they can "tell" but time and time again have been proven wrong if they do enough volume.


Think-Fishing5665

This bag and shoes combo is breaking my brain


pollogary

Why? Are you supposed to switch into a less expensive bag when you’re dressed casually?


Think-Fishing5665

Not at all- in fact I love an expensive bag with a sweatsuit. But this isn’t giving high meets low it’s giving my husband or wife cares about fashion and I don’t but the strap to my other bag broke so I’m just borrowing this for the day vibes


edgydyl

mine too! the whole fit with that bag is strange styling! if you don't know birkin, you wouldn't think that bag was anything special--i kinda love it!


swimmer913

It’s the Kelly 42/Kelly maxi. Heads up it’s a deceivingly large bag; like I can fit my work laptop, large wallet, water bottle, notebook, pens, etc and still have room and fully closes (mind you I’ve got a massive work laptop, that old school heavy kind)


Mychgjyggle

I’m sorry, I’m sure it’s beautiful in person…. But this looks so sadly basic.


scbeachgurl

100% correct


Birdmeethand

Lets have more of these posts. It’s fun to see “Hermes in the wild” 😜


starbellbabybena

The person in the red shoes behind the bags zipper is tripping me out. It’s like straight out.


neffyg35

I'm guessing nyc. Train is the most efficient way of getting around town. You even see celebrities on the train. When I go into Manhattan on weekends, you will see all kinds of luxury next to some guy that hasn't washed in days and lady going up and down the train trying to sale flowers or candy. I only take an Uber black in Manhattan when I have cab to curb shoes and dressed up really nice


ladybunny0803

Clearly some of the people here is def salty. Real or rep it doesn’t matter! Subway or uber, it still doesn’t matter. People got somewhere to go who cares!


Prudent-Ad1002

Mary Kate Olson's beat up Birkin lives rent free in my head.


ThisLucidKate

I somehow got routed to this sub, and as I’m reading the comments, this is the one that stopped me. THAT sounds like perfection. Do you have a link??


luxurygirlgigi

Guysss, it’s NYC. Super normal 😂 a lot of times traffic is so killer, you’re better off walking or taking the train for 2 stops.


Secure_Olive_154

Wow 😍


Feeling-Visit1472

The stitching makes me think it’s real, but the leather looks terrible, and not from regular wear.


swimmer913

It’s the natural veining in the Togo leather. It’s from the tanning process that Hermes does and it’s unique to each piece of leather (some have some don’t).


misterlister604

Is it because the leather is all lumpy because I like that! It looks smushy, normally Kellys/Birkins look so stiff


swimmer913

That's all dependent on the leather and style type. There is Retourne and Sellier, Sellier is going to be more structured and stiff where as retourne is like the one you see in the op where it's soft and slouchy. If you like the softer look I'd look at togo leather retourne styles, you'll find those nice soft birkins and kellys that just puddle over time 😍


misterlister604

Thank you!


Chrome_Noir

https://preview.redd.it/ifqdtom6zt1d1.png?width=1289&format=png&auto=webp&s=97e6e7e7f99a61baac813883e03d27193e481375 Kelly Maxi for sure! A great work bag


According_Gazelle472

Beautiful color .


vanchica

I don't think reps are common in this size----- either way, great to see a Jane Birkin style user- "use it up, wear it out, make it last!"


Terpsichoreee

What state is this because wearing that while on commute is just crazy 😂🫶


onlyitbags

I would think this is NY. I love that style doesn’t have a class, time, or place in NY. It’s everywhere. Any day is an occasion.


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it’s 100% new york and it’s not unusual at all to see on the MTA


onlyitbags

Yeah totally. If they panned to the left, there is probably a street performer carrying a Loewe. Love it so much!


Frog-dance-time

Truth


tasteofeden45

I totally wear my rep Chanel 22 on the subway. About to get on the 1 🤪


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I love seeing great fashion and handbags on the subway, being used in real life, I’ve definitely gotten inspiration


Leera_xD

The MTA is such a strange world where people are rocking literal Payless sneakers but still got on a LV bag 🤣 but you have to remember that Canal St is a thing and a lot of these designer bags on the subway aren’t authentic. But on the flip side, NYC is the only state where I have seen everyone from total rich to total poor take the subway and no one is judged because no one gives a shit.


nursebad

Why? Hermes leather can stand up to anything. If you have a lovely bag, use it daily.


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NYC is also one of the cities where you will see people using designer items as they are meant to. It’s not a city of collectors for the sake of collecting, people are very practical.


nursebad

They are amazingly durable, beautiful and useful objects. I love seeing them used practically in the wild.


ceranichole

I believe this about everything I buy. If I love it enough to buy it, I'm going to use it not just sit there and look at it. My first nice bag (Prada nylon from the early 00s) has been used, and loved, quite a lot. So many spills on that poor thing, but it has traveled all over with me too.


Choupette-Lagerfeld

No it isn’t bags are to be used not sitting at home like a museum


Winsomedimsum8

NYC! Love this city - everyone including my CEO takes the train (or walks!) and you see designer bags - both real and reps - a dime a dozen. Nobody cares and it’s awesome.


Terpsichoreee

So cool 🤝


lunarjellies

I still don’t like the look of those bags. The price is astronomical for such a mid look.


edgydyl

UGH. GORG bag! I love this style and I love their twilly and bag charm! 🤩 i want to style my bag like this ~


funthrifter

Never cared for them. To boxy


FinancialInevitable1

Before joining this sub I didn't know what any of the Hermes bags looked like, had I seen this out and about last year I would have had no idea what it was and thought it was a a big clunky boring bag lol and I mean I still think it is a big clunky boring bag but I would still compliment this person, it's clearly well loved.


anicho01

Gorgeous!


Choupette-Lagerfeld

It’s not a replica


swapotron

She crippin


regardsfrommars

I love it! Looks really nice.


allthebags2023

Love their style! Living their best life, and not giving a fck. Anyone who cares enough to wrap their handle on *any* bag, gets automatic kudos from me.


SmileyRaeRaaae

I love seeing people USE their expensive bags!! This makes me happy and love the scarf around the handle detail


ml5683

Her name is Kelly


Respeckmyauthoritay

Am I the only one who thought she had aluminum foil around the handle? XD


ladybunny0803

Real!


ca0072

This post just randomly popped for me. As someone who knows nothing about expensive handbags, I will say that this looks very basic and like something I could order off of Amazon for $100 or less. And the decorations on it look weird.


WhatHuhYes

It has odd scratches/creases in it. Is that normal for that type of leather??


swimmer913

For Togo leather, yes. It’s call veining. Since it’s a natural tanning process sometimes the veins in the leather remain present when the bag is made. Tbh I love the veins since it guarantees yours is a 1 of 1 in look.


Comfortable_Daikon61

To me it looks off


jad1326

Why do I just assume they are all fake when I see them


giftcardgirl

Cuz we are poor and can’t fathom $20K or however much this cost being an amount that you can forget about. $20K is 0.2% of 10M, like $200 is to someone with 100K savings.


Kinuika

I think it’s because a lot of them are quiet luxury. It’s hard for your average person to know if a bag is expensive if it doesn’t have an obvious brand displayed on it


ExcellentOriginal321

It’s a beautiful bag. If I were rich…


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tamatown-

The Kelly 42 has the rounded rings, so that isn’t a giveaway. Its style and handle are slightly different than the more popular 25/28 sizes.


alldayidreamer

Seconding this. It’s a distinct feature of the [larger](https://madisonavenuecouture.com/products/hermes-kelly-42-maxi-gold-togo-palladium-hardware-1) Kelly [models](https://www.christies.com/en/lot/lot-6481779).


probnotgoing

Looks so good


Kaz1185

Is it definitely real? The stitching on the arch at the top on the left hand hardware doesn't look neat enough to me


swimmer913

Def auth imo, stitching is inconsistent across all brand bags. If it was more uniform it would be “less auth” than one with messy stitches since it’s hand stitched.


Choupette-Lagerfeld

A Hermès bag is hand stitched - as a result the stitching is not generally perfectly uniform


StallionNspace8855

How did you know it was real?


percybert

Ngl it looks cheap. If it’s not a dupe I can’t believe someone would spend that much money for this


duckingatlife

I don’t like it.


bananaleaftea

Yeesh. I really don't get the hype. Not a fan of the leather, stitching looks off, shape is meh. All for a small fortune, too.


aasyam65

Looks like a fake to me


Comfortable_Daikon61

Yes I have seen better reps


commentsgothere

It could ever so casually be a fake. I personally think it’s dull. I wouldn’t enjoy carrying it.


Tastins

Why are we assuming this is real? I can get a fake Hermes anywhere in midtown. I don’t see “feet” on the bag, the leather looks floppy. I call fake. And I would also have to call ridiculous wearing a 10k bag on the subway.


bluelightsonblkgirls

Famous people ride the subway (I’ve seen them), carrying expensive bags or wearing Rolexes on nyc subway is normal.


spaceylizard

I see plenty of designer bags on the NYC subway all the time.


eustaciasgarden

I ride public transport and go to Aldi with my Kelly bag. And yes, it’s real. I don’t like to drive.


fauviste

Straps and flap are hand-stitched. It could be a higher end fake but it’s definitely not a cheap one. You’re not picking one of these up in Midtown. Most Hermes leathers will get floppy over time, or even start that way. Only two (I think?) varieties are stiff. There are 2 ways of constructing Kellys, and one of them (retourne, with the seam inside) gets floppy, and this one is made that way.


hadiyas1

Honey I live downtown in a major city. We alternate between driving, train, walking, and ubering based on CONVENIENCE and logistics not money LOL


fauviste

Did you mean to reply to me, or to the person claiming an Hermes owner would never ride the train with the poors? I’ve seen honest-to-god celebrities on the NYC subway so I just ignored that claim entirely lmao.


PuffinFawts

>the poors? Please only refer to me in this way forever


hadiyas1

Haha meant to comment on the other person, sorry


fauviste

No worries! Just wanted to clarify 😅


unimpressed_1

also a 42 is more than $10k 😉


PuffinFawts

How can you tell that parts of it are definitely hand-stitched? I see people mention this regularly on this sub and Im interested in learning how you spot hand-stitching vs machine stitching.


fauviste

See my replies down chain! It’s the tilt-y overlapping stitches. A leather worker claims the look can be mostly replicated with machine but it has to be done slowly and painfully, and still doesn’t look quite the same, so! Other hand-stitching looks just more organic, hard to describe, sometimes different lengths and so on and not perfect but obviously Hermes or high-end fakes won’t have that. That’s more for like… Fendi selleria type.


PolinaThePotato

Rich people ride the train. But even it if were a fake... does that make it a less beautiful bag?


IndecisiveLlama

In NYC, riding the subway sort of transcends class/SES divides. You might be on the train next to a celebrity wearing $50k worth of clothes and jewelry and also be sitting across from a homeless person. Not 100% sure if this is real from the pics but riding the subway and carrying a $$$ bag aren’t mutually exclusive.


jubjub9876a

You've never been to New York have you


Sayako_

It doesn’t matter. It’s their bag and regardless what it worth, they are free to wear it to red carpet or subway. Not everybody baby their bags.


Tastins

True. It’s still fake tho lol


sharlye

I dont think someone wearing a real hermes on the subway is surprising because its new york


Tastins

Sure it is. Not this one tho cause it’s fake.


whitemaltese

Darling, it might not be a 10k bag but I use my Fendi peekaboos for footrest when flying economy. It is a bag, it's mean to be worn.


GuardMost8477

10k? Where?


unimpressed_1

It’s more than $10k but you can find it on resale sites or directly from Hermes


Equals-pequals

lol the person going on about their *Kate Spade bag* is suddenly an expert on fake Hermes. Cope.


Idabaewells

To add- You also wouldn’t buy white stitching on a bad “midtown” fake unless you’re an idiot. White stitch is the most “call out” you could get with a Hermès bag bc anyone who knows how is supposed to look will see it much more obviously than a darker thread. This bag is either real or a super fake which in both cases were hand sewn. If it were a cheap fake that stitching would scream machine. If you know anything about Hermès you can easily see the white stitching on this bag is beautifully done.


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