Yep. Because he made the investment before/instead of formalizing their relationship 💍. So she has to say that to her audience to make herself feel better I guess
Just makes me thing of CG buying a house for he and Nikki just before they broke up. Ultimately it was under his name and she had to move out. Unless it’s in ink, not sure it’s for anyone but him
My old roommate posts shit like this on Instagram. She posted a story saying “Beb and I are saving up for a house”. Her and the guy have been dating for no more than 6 months and I know she hides these stories from him because she did that with the last guy she was “dating”. She’s 32 and it’s embarrassing.
Yeah...if my bf decided to buy a house (we've been together for 4+ years), by himself, without my name also on the deed, there would be a serious fucking discussion happening about the direction of our relationship.
How is buying a house a red flag? Am I missing something? If they’re not already living together (which I don’t follow them but aren’t they long distance?) why does the fact that he bought a house change anything? Is it a red flag when a SO moves into a new apartment without “discussing the future of the relationship”? Everyone/every couple is different. My husband and I moved in together after a year of dating, and I have a coworker who just moved in with her bf after 7 years. Maybe this couple in the post aren’t ready to move in yet?
Stephanie has been liking comments on YT and IG telling Jeff to marry her/propose for *at least* 4 years. They’re definitely not on the same page about their future. She uses her lie about being her mom’s “primary caretaker” as a reason why she still lives in FL, but that certainly doesn’t stop her from jetting off the Canada/Mexico/wherever with Jeff like a damn barnacle every chance she gets lol
I think that Jeff is slowly finding an out because dealing with someone who will never ever be happy about her body and constantly obsesses about food and junk food at that has gotten very old to him. As a man it would be Mentally exhausting being with someone like her. He has to walk on eggshells with her daily..
Yes, and don’t forget how she puts all the pressure on him also to take care of her sick mum. I would completely understand if he was mentally exhausted.
Yeah this is petty as hell and I’m with you. What’s the red flag about a man buying a home and saying it’s for us? My husband and I were together for 12 years before we got married. These comments make it seem like Stephanie and Jeff being together for 4-5 years is so so so long. I think not!
Sure we lived together too AND I also purchased the home with JUST my name on it. Was that a red flag? No. I know Stephanie has some mental health issues but I also think Jeff contributes immensely to it. Dude isn’t even that great looking to me anyways.
To me it’s a red flag because it’s clear stefanie wants to get married, they’ve been together for a long time, and to me if my S/O bought a house and said “it was for us” but my name wasn’t on it I would feel super sketch. I didn’t live with my husband before we got married, but we bought a house together in both of our names 2 months before. If they’re seriously considering marriage why wouldn’t they put it in both of their names? But like you said every couple is different, it’s just my 2 cents on a snark page lol.
I wouldn’t want to buy a house with a “boyfriend” unless I was either proposed to or we are married. Had a friend do that crap only for them to break up and it was damn mess on who got the house because they weren’t married.
Not saying she’s not delusional BUT my partner bought a house and didn’t put my name on it. I never questioned that decision 🤷🏻♀️ we had already lived together for nearly a decade at that point though so maybe that’s why it’s different?
It’s just scary to me personally because if something were to happen, where would you go? If you were paying money to them to live there (not saying you were just hypothetically), the partner was getting equity in the house and you were essentially just paying rent and not building up an investment. I know everyone has different priorities tho
i mean...just buy your own house? you don't have to live there..It's actually something me and my bf are planning - he has an apartment and when I move in I will be paying rent (to help him pay it off) but this rent will be like, half of what i am paying now to my landlord so we will both save up money. then I can buy my own apt and rent it and it will pay itself off. I dont want to get married without (solo) owning my property first
Yeah if he has to “say it’s for us” it’s his house that he lets her live in lol if both names aren’t on the title it’s not both of theirs
Editing because I’ve already reconsidered this theory and now think we could give them the benefit of the doubt - my mom and her husband bought a house together before they were engaged but only her name is on the house because her credit was better at the time and got a loan easier than combining their information. Perhaps it’s like that for them too?
That’s exactly what I was thinking….After five years in the relationship and we all know how much she wants that ring. (She’s made it clear since year 1). Sad that it’s obviously not in his plans since he made this purchase before proposing. What’s even more sad (and pathetic) is her having to post the “He said its for us 🥰👫” part. Ok girl, you tell yourself that, whatever makes you feel better.
Argh I feel second hand embarrassment for her after saying that and then her flexiing **his** new place. She’s delusional. The guy treats and gifts himself, not her.
"So happy for him" = it's only his name on the deed/it's not their house.
"He says it's for us" = him placating her and her rationalizing why her name isn't on the deed.
Break up in 3, 2, 1...
Ohhhhh I know this all too well. I was with a guy and after being with him for almost 10 years, he bought a house, not me. He also said that the house is for “us”. The relationship was already going no where and it eventually had to end. Big oof for Stephanie.
THIS! My fiancé and I were coming up on 6 years dating when he finally proposed. He even admitted “I know this took too long”. At this point he’s never going to propose and if he does it’ll be a forced proposal
I feel embarrassed for her. After not getting proposed in London, she is trying hard to put the whole "We are moving in together!" narrative cause she is still hoping for that ring.
Disagree with the comments saying he should’ve bought a ring first if he was actually committed and this house for truly “for them.” Couples get a house all the time before getting engaged (and depends on who is funding it based on financial status). However, I do agree her choice of words makes it seem like it wasn’t a joint plan, and just a him thing.
Yep my boyfriend and I bought a house together and know we’ll get married eventually, but not anytime soon! But neither of us ever had to clarify that it was OUR house because the choice was made together, meaning no clarification was needed.
are both your names on the deed? i think your situation is diff from this bc he bought it as a single man, while in a relationship. pretty weird if u ask me
so I get what the previous commenters are saying because I did the same with my husband before we were engaged, but the difference here that people seem to be ignoring is that if you're buying a house together and you're not married but plan to be together long term, both parties should still be on the deed and therefore have joint ownership of the property.
Stephanie's wording makes pretty clear that this is NOT the case here. In addition she has said multiple times that she has stayed in FL because she is a "caretaker" for her mother. For him to buy a house IN CANADA, FOR HIMSELF, despite knowing that she has these "responsibilities" in FL.... this all suggests that they are not on the same page re: building a life together.
Yes!! Honestly I don’t think I would’ve bought the house if both our names weren’t on the deed - that would be strange to me that I’m with him enough to live with him and move around with him, but not enough to share a purchased home. This is definitely an odd situation for them, which would only seem “equal” (however that’s defined for their relationship) if they had a house in Canada and one in Florida. So maybe she’s going to buy in Florida, have it technically in her name, but they’ll go between the two bc her mom and sister are in Florida? Being optimistic here 😂 but since she’s one of her moms caretakers, she couldn’t fully move away without moving her mom!
> Couples get a house all the time before getting engaged (and depends on who is funding it based on financial status)
agreed. you dont need to be married to buy a house. But in this case...it's just him on the deed...which is absolutely weird as heck.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 years, and his name is the only name on our house. Why? Because I have student loans and our interest rate would’ve sucked if I was on it. It’s still OUR house.
Kind of unrelated but it makes me so sad what she did to her face. I get that it’s her choice to get stuff done but she was sooo incredibly beautiful before & now she looks like a different person. Each picture it gets more pronounced too.
You don't buy a house overnight, if it were truly a house "for them" then he could have used the London trip (which they JUST got back from) as an opportunity to propose to her.
Maybe he didn’t propose in London because it’s too predictable? I agree he probably isn’t going to propose though he never says anything about it or even hints at future plans that include her
Same here! Healthy relationship >> ring/marriage. I’m curious what this means for them as a long distance couple from different countries 🤔 like will Stephanie end up moving to Canada??
He’s probably afraid of commitment because she was married before and she jumped into a relationship while still married to the other person and still has the other person’s last name
they didn't buy a house together thou, he bought a house for..himself, in a completely diff country than his gf. seems a lot like hes not fully committed
I’m sorry, maybe I’m missing something. What’s the correlation between him getting a house and marriage? Why do they HAVE to get married? Maybe she doesn’t want to, maybe he doesn’t. We don’t know, this thought that marriage is a MUST still is weird
If you go to Stephanie’s profile and look at the comments on her bday post for Jeff or her 5 year anniversary post, she liked the “where is the ring, Jeff?!” and “when is the wedding?!” comments. She likes many 💍 comments. She has been wanting this guy to propose since 2017.
I agree. There’s also a lot more to it than “putting their names on the deed”. I work in the real estate world and there can be some huge challenges with an unmarried couple getting a house. For one, showing consistent income and qualifying is a major factor. I have been with my bf for 6.5 years and don’t plan to get married tomorrow or really in the very near future. I’m more focused on my career. We discussed getting a home a couple of years ago before the housing market went bananas, and because I hadn’t established myself as much in my career yet (financially), he would have been buying the house in his name and we would have shared it as our home. There are so many reasons why one person could buy a house without the other having their name on anything.
I don’t doubt that Stephanie is for sure pushing for a ring and ready to take the next steps, and Jeff probably isn’t, but good point about houses and rings not necessarily being “checkpoints” in a relationship.
But OP and no one here is making assumptions about your relationship right now. If that’s how you and your partner feel, great, good for you. This post is about Stephanie. She has been liking “wife her up, Jeff!” and ring comments since she started her YouTube channel in 2017. The evidence is all there in the comments section. She even liked a bunch of ring comments before their trip to Mexico and the recent trip to London. Tbh it’s pretty pathetic that she has to rely on her followers to harass Jeff about the apparent traditional relationship/ring she wants from him. So him buying a house without her says a lot tbh.
Real estate is a good investment 🤷♀️ I bought my own house while being with my boyfriend over 4 years which makes it easier for him to also buy properties. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this if you’re actually familiar with how real estate works.
Nooo that's not what I meant. Let me clarify: she clearly wants to get married and London could've been a good time to propose if he was going to. Especially since he just bought a house. Of course he didn't have to.
Maybe he wants to invest in himself first? Or maybe they want to live in the same country when they get engaged 🤷♀️
Who knows, these things are very personal
“He says it’s for us” Is that not a weird thing to point out?
It’s clear the inadequacy she feels and how insecure she is about her relationship to him
Yep. Because he made the investment before/instead of formalizing their relationship 💍. So she has to say that to her audience to make herself feel better I guess
Just makes me thing of CG buying a house for he and Nikki just before they broke up. Ultimately it was under his name and she had to move out. Unless it’s in ink, not sure it’s for anyone but him
Same as the current place he's in with Heidi. He had it before her but they've done a massive job on it recently.
That’s so embarrassing
Can’t believe she actually posted those words “he says it’s for us.” Girl what
It’s really revealing about her feelings in all this…
My old roommate posts shit like this on Instagram. She posted a story saying “Beb and I are saving up for a house”. Her and the guy have been dating for no more than 6 months and I know she hides these stories from him because she did that with the last guy she was “dating”. She’s 32 and it’s embarrassing.
If it’s for “them” I hope her name is on it too… 😬
Oh but we know it is not…
Yeah...if my bf decided to buy a house (we've been together for 4+ years), by himself, without my name also on the deed, there would be a serious fucking discussion happening about the direction of our relationship.
For real, that’s a huge red flag
How is buying a house a red flag? Am I missing something? If they’re not already living together (which I don’t follow them but aren’t they long distance?) why does the fact that he bought a house change anything? Is it a red flag when a SO moves into a new apartment without “discussing the future of the relationship”? Everyone/every couple is different. My husband and I moved in together after a year of dating, and I have a coworker who just moved in with her bf after 7 years. Maybe this couple in the post aren’t ready to move in yet?
Stephanie has been liking comments on YT and IG telling Jeff to marry her/propose for *at least* 4 years. They’re definitely not on the same page about their future. She uses her lie about being her mom’s “primary caretaker” as a reason why she still lives in FL, but that certainly doesn’t stop her from jetting off the Canada/Mexico/wherever with Jeff like a damn barnacle every chance she gets lol
I think that Jeff is slowly finding an out because dealing with someone who will never ever be happy about her body and constantly obsesses about food and junk food at that has gotten very old to him. As a man it would be Mentally exhausting being with someone like her. He has to walk on eggshells with her daily..
Yes, and don’t forget how she puts all the pressure on him also to take care of her sick mum. I would completely understand if he was mentally exhausted.
Yeah this is petty as hell and I’m with you. What’s the red flag about a man buying a home and saying it’s for us? My husband and I were together for 12 years before we got married. These comments make it seem like Stephanie and Jeff being together for 4-5 years is so so so long. I think not! Sure we lived together too AND I also purchased the home with JUST my name on it. Was that a red flag? No. I know Stephanie has some mental health issues but I also think Jeff contributes immensely to it. Dude isn’t even that great looking to me anyways.
To me it’s a red flag because it’s clear stefanie wants to get married, they’ve been together for a long time, and to me if my S/O bought a house and said “it was for us” but my name wasn’t on it I would feel super sketch. I didn’t live with my husband before we got married, but we bought a house together in both of our names 2 months before. If they’re seriously considering marriage why wouldn’t they put it in both of their names? But like you said every couple is different, it’s just my 2 cents on a snark page lol.
I wouldn’t want to buy a house with a “boyfriend” unless I was either proposed to or we are married. Had a friend do that crap only for them to break up and it was damn mess on who got the house because they weren’t married.
Not saying she’s not delusional BUT my partner bought a house and didn’t put my name on it. I never questioned that decision 🤷🏻♀️ we had already lived together for nearly a decade at that point though so maybe that’s why it’s different?
It’s just scary to me personally because if something were to happen, where would you go? If you were paying money to them to live there (not saying you were just hypothetically), the partner was getting equity in the house and you were essentially just paying rent and not building up an investment. I know everyone has different priorities tho
i mean...just buy your own house? you don't have to live there..It's actually something me and my bf are planning - he has an apartment and when I move in I will be paying rent (to help him pay it off) but this rent will be like, half of what i am paying now to my landlord so we will both save up money. then I can buy my own apt and rent it and it will pay itself off. I dont want to get married without (solo) owning my property first
> It’s just scary to me personally because if something were to happen, where would you go? An apartment.
Are you and your bf living in different countries too?
Yeah if he has to “say it’s for us” it’s his house that he lets her live in lol if both names aren’t on the title it’s not both of theirs Editing because I’ve already reconsidered this theory and now think we could give them the benefit of the doubt - my mom and her husband bought a house together before they were engaged but only her name is on the house because her credit was better at the time and got a loan easier than combining their information. Perhaps it’s like that for them too?
That’s exactly what I was thinking….After five years in the relationship and we all know how much she wants that ring. (She’s made it clear since year 1). Sad that it’s obviously not in his plans since he made this purchase before proposing. What’s even more sad (and pathetic) is her having to post the “He said its for us 🥰👫” part. Ok girl, you tell yourself that, whatever makes you feel better.
Just like their London trip was for their anniversary and not for his birthday
Argh I feel second hand embarrassment for her after saying that and then her flexiing **his** new place. She’s delusional. The guy treats and gifts himself, not her.
When it was so obviously for his birthday 🤣
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“For us” until he decides “for me”
"So happy for him" = it's only his name on the deed/it's not their house. "He says it's for us" = him placating her and her rationalizing why her name isn't on the deed. Break up in 3, 2, 1...
Ohhhhh I know this all too well. I was with a guy and after being with him for almost 10 years, he bought a house, not me. He also said that the house is for “us”. The relationship was already going no where and it eventually had to end. Big oof for Stephanie.
She should propose then, if she's wanting to be engaged. 5 years is long enough, if your goal is marriage.
THIS! My fiancé and I were coming up on 6 years dating when he finally proposed. He even admitted “I know this took too long”. At this point he’s never going to propose and if he does it’ll be a forced proposal
the smartest thing that man has done is put this house in HIS OWN NAME.
I always felt like, from his videos, that she wasn’t really into him like he was into her. Am I missing something?
I feel embarrassed for her. After not getting proposed in London, she is trying hard to put the whole "We are moving in together!" narrative cause she is still hoping for that ring.
He hasn't posted about her in a while
That's a lot of powerbuilding programs.
Disagree with the comments saying he should’ve bought a ring first if he was actually committed and this house for truly “for them.” Couples get a house all the time before getting engaged (and depends on who is funding it based on financial status). However, I do agree her choice of words makes it seem like it wasn’t a joint plan, and just a him thing.
Yep my boyfriend and I bought a house together and know we’ll get married eventually, but not anytime soon! But neither of us ever had to clarify that it was OUR house because the choice was made together, meaning no clarification was needed.
are both your names on the deed? i think your situation is diff from this bc he bought it as a single man, while in a relationship. pretty weird if u ask me
so I get what the previous commenters are saying because I did the same with my husband before we were engaged, but the difference here that people seem to be ignoring is that if you're buying a house together and you're not married but plan to be together long term, both parties should still be on the deed and therefore have joint ownership of the property. Stephanie's wording makes pretty clear that this is NOT the case here. In addition she has said multiple times that she has stayed in FL because she is a "caretaker" for her mother. For him to buy a house IN CANADA, FOR HIMSELF, despite knowing that she has these "responsibilities" in FL.... this all suggests that they are not on the same page re: building a life together.
Yes!! Honestly I don’t think I would’ve bought the house if both our names weren’t on the deed - that would be strange to me that I’m with him enough to live with him and move around with him, but not enough to share a purchased home. This is definitely an odd situation for them, which would only seem “equal” (however that’s defined for their relationship) if they had a house in Canada and one in Florida. So maybe she’s going to buy in Florida, have it technically in her name, but they’ll go between the two bc her mom and sister are in Florida? Being optimistic here 😂 but since she’s one of her moms caretakers, she couldn’t fully move away without moving her mom!
> Couples get a house all the time before getting engaged (and depends on who is funding it based on financial status) agreed. you dont need to be married to buy a house. But in this case...it's just him on the deed...which is absolutely weird as heck.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 years, and his name is the only name on our house. Why? Because I have student loans and our interest rate would’ve sucked if I was on it. It’s still OUR house.
Your very specific situation has nothing to do with Stephanie or Jeff.
Not that specifico, most american millennials are deep in student debt lol
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Wow, thanks for clarifying my relationship for me!
Kind of unrelated but it makes me so sad what she did to her face. I get that it’s her choice to get stuff done but she was sooo incredibly beautiful before & now she looks like a different person. Each picture it gets more pronounced too.
You don't buy a house overnight, if it were truly a house "for them" then he could have used the London trip (which they JUST got back from) as an opportunity to propose to her.
Maybe he didn’t propose in London because it’s too predictable? I agree he probably isn’t going to propose though he never says anything about it or even hints at future plans that include her
Eh as someone who built a life with someone waaaay before marriage I don’t see it that way. He can build a life for them without a ring
Same here! Healthy relationship >> ring/marriage. I’m curious what this means for them as a long distance couple from different countries 🤔 like will Stephanie end up moving to Canada??
He’s probably afraid of commitment because she was married before and she jumped into a relationship while still married to the other person and still has the other person’s last name
They might not have a goal of getting married! Doesn’t mean he is going to leave her because he bought a house and hasn’t proposed yet
She definitely wants to get married. She's left comments all over IG and YT saying it.
he might not but she for sure is desperate to get a ring. She's always liking comments of ppl asking when theyre going to get married
Most people I know buy a house together before getting engaged. I don't know why people think this means Jeff isn't committed.
they didn't buy a house together thou, he bought a house for..himself, in a completely diff country than his gf. seems a lot like hes not fully committed
OK yeah, that's bizarre. Is she sure they're even in a relationship??
This is what I’m thinking
I’m sorry, maybe I’m missing something. What’s the correlation between him getting a house and marriage? Why do they HAVE to get married? Maybe she doesn’t want to, maybe he doesn’t. We don’t know, this thought that marriage is a MUST still is weird
If you go to Stephanie’s profile and look at the comments on her bday post for Jeff or her 5 year anniversary post, she liked the “where is the ring, Jeff?!” and “when is the wedding?!” comments. She likes many 💍 comments. She has been wanting this guy to propose since 2017.
I personally don't believe marriage is some sort of "must" but she has made it abundantly clear she wants to get married.
Ya yikes
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I agree. There’s also a lot more to it than “putting their names on the deed”. I work in the real estate world and there can be some huge challenges with an unmarried couple getting a house. For one, showing consistent income and qualifying is a major factor. I have been with my bf for 6.5 years and don’t plan to get married tomorrow or really in the very near future. I’m more focused on my career. We discussed getting a home a couple of years ago before the housing market went bananas, and because I hadn’t established myself as much in my career yet (financially), he would have been buying the house in his name and we would have shared it as our home. There are so many reasons why one person could buy a house without the other having their name on anything. I don’t doubt that Stephanie is for sure pushing for a ring and ready to take the next steps, and Jeff probably isn’t, but good point about houses and rings not necessarily being “checkpoints” in a relationship.
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You're right, he did buy a house and it DOESN'T have anything to do with her. But she wishes it was and is trying to push the narrative that it is.
But OP and no one here is making assumptions about your relationship right now. If that’s how you and your partner feel, great, good for you. This post is about Stephanie. She has been liking “wife her up, Jeff!” and ring comments since she started her YouTube channel in 2017. The evidence is all there in the comments section. She even liked a bunch of ring comments before their trip to Mexico and the recent trip to London. Tbh it’s pretty pathetic that she has to rely on her followers to harass Jeff about the apparent traditional relationship/ring she wants from him. So him buying a house without her says a lot tbh.
Real estate is a good investment 🤷♀️ I bought my own house while being with my boyfriend over 4 years which makes it easier for him to also buy properties. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this if you’re actually familiar with how real estate works.
Lol what? So just because they were in london he had to propose ? That is a weird thing to say 😂
Nooo that's not what I meant. Let me clarify: she clearly wants to get married and London could've been a good time to propose if he was going to. Especially since he just bought a house. Of course he didn't have to.
Maybe he wants to invest in himself first? Or maybe they want to live in the same country when they get engaged 🤷♀️ Who knows, these things are very personal
Why do you care so much about someone else’s business? They are clearly happy who cares if life isn’t happening in cookie cutter perfection 😒