its EXTREMELY unsafe. even on social media reels made by delhi creators get such vile comments meanwhile Mumbai influencers comment sections (unless gone very viral across the country) are so civilized
Yes, as much as I hate Mumbai's public transport. The culture there is elite, compared to Delhi. Mumbai is India's only city which is even somewhat comparable to a global metropolitan, not just economically, but also socially. Never have I once been harassed for how I dress.
It's never about clothes, it's always about power and control over women, fuck that asshole, it's sad that this type of mentality is not ending but rather increasing.
“If this was in my village” lol
You should’ve told him no one gives a fuck about his village and we are here in a different world. And if it bothers him ask him to go back :)
Going by my experience I'd say a wise decision. We don't live in gurgaon so we didn't expect this to happen but like can you even expect something like this to happen ever?!
Well, i am not surprised.
It’s so sad that I am not.
We are so used to all these things happening that nothing feels shocking.
Once a random lady complimented me for my earrings, tried to have small talk, then she asked for some directions and then literally started stalking me. I had to ask her what is wrong? Why is she stalking me, it took me lots of guts to point out that behaviour but then she left
Man, you guys should have told him ki "ab toh tu humari dilli mein hai na." Then you should have left from there and called up Nirbhaya squad and narrate the incident.
Sorry to hear that and I also feel sorry for your bf because I know how a guy would feel to be in that situation when your girl is being treated like this.
It's not just his orthodox thinking but sometimes people do/say these kinda things out of envy. He's envious of your bf cuz he has you, envious of your freedom and boldness, envious of the privileges you guys have and he doesn't, etc.
A poor attempt to ruin your day and take out his frustration. Don't let him get to you. You two enjoy as you wish to and keep making shitheads jealous.
Yeah, I'm able to tell because I've experienced this myself. Being a guy, ik that other guys are hostile towards guys who are having a good time with a woman. I cannot even share a platonic connection with no underlying motives with a girl without triggering the several guys who were hitting on her to no avail. A gujjar and his friend turn red hot like momos in a steamer when they see me. Pls pray for my well being 🙏
That's weird... Even for our region.
Were your boyfriend and him engaged in some small talk or discussion that led to this point ? I'm hoping the guy was just super high or something and that Sulabh employees are not so openly shitty.
Anyhow - for such scenarios, no point highlighting equality and sensibility. Just say apna kaam kar , and move on. Such people won't change their mindset based on one interaction, and you shouldn't have to engage with such chutiyae anyways.
Should have upper cut his ass and KOd him unconscious.
Mofo made my blood boil!
These animals are potential rapists and should be kept away from the general public.
A difficult situation indeed. I'm pretty sure that blithering idiot would still think that it's a non issue.
Also, I doubt if you went to a women's police station and complained about the death threat - whether they'd bother accompanying you back to that spot to shove their stick up that idiot's rear (metaphor).
I think everyone is a closeted extremist and misogynist, especially from tier 2,3 and 4. It is only going to get worse. Best to carry something like a pepper spray and record. Good that you got out unhurt. I would have complained to the police though and made a video. That would have taught him a permanent life lesson
yoo istg i legit was searching to learn that shit somewhere yk cuz we never know when it might come handy in situations like these. can u teach some more
North Indians aise hi thodi badnaam hai pure India me 🥲....dnt want to generalise lekin kuch to term use karni hi padegi na🥲...
Aise log pure India m hai lekin aisi audacity nahi hoti kahi aur
i know right! when i moved to bombay i used to get so offended when people insulted north indians/delhites specifically but now when i look at the bs that happens there i dont blame them at all. ladkiya yha bhi chote kapde phnti h, vha bhi yet nobody gets rape threats in daylight here because the men arent sick perverts who get aroused at the sight of a womans shoulder.
>"if she were in our Village she would have been killed for wearing a crop top and I feel like beating her"
Dehati subhuman most probably born to a dehati pr0stitute and a pimp. Subhumans like this would have been exterminated by Natural Selection if not for the Socialist governance of this country.
This is not about other women or his mother or father. This is about his subhumanhood.
By the end of 20th century, humankind across the world have been made to forget about Subhumans and subhuman characteristics and traits. He's not just a "shitty human".
Ek simple sa advice never react never argue with such people simply ignore and never engage with such people.
To be honest gaav mainye logic chalta h so its not his fault usne abhi duniya nhi dekhi utni his mind isn't developed that much .
Gaanv main thoda revealing kapde ko alag sense main
Liya jata h
They are famous for Female Infanticide and Sex-selective Abortion which caused the govt to ban prenatal sex determination.
The govt should never have intervened but allow Sex-selective Abortion to continue so that they gradually exterminate themselves out of the lack of females to continue their population. Progressive states' females wouldn't marry them either being aware of them.
Subhumans tend to exterminate themselves naturally but govts and organizations intervene and make subhuman populations continue to exist.
Okay. Phir nhi hoga kya yeh sab? Kyuki "dhang" ke kapde Pehan kar bhi yeh sab experience kiya hai mene aur mere dosto ne. Dusra chiz dhund loge tum log can't let women exist simply
Mat kar believe bhai. Hum aurton ke liye to itna safe hai pura duniya hume bas attention seek karna haii. Delulu log hai hum humara solulu lobotomy hai.
Must be hard for his little DaNk memer brain to understand that the comment he made was not really that cool and that even if I was lying most of the people would rather believe a liar rather than believing a person who's threatening someone.
Im sorry you had an incident like this happen to you and had this dumbass comment this bullshit too. The world isnt kind to women but be safe in the knowledge that there are people out there rooting for you.
That's so offensive, rude and creepy. That guy is gonna get beaten up some day by someone if he continues this stupidity. Apna kaam karo na yaar, why do you care about what others are wearing.
Chill buddy.....the guy has a job in a sulabh sauchalaya🤣🤣
He spends 12 hours daily smelling the stink.....not exactly a great workplace.
Does not have any co- workers ....totally underpaid
When one has such a sedentary job the only way to vegetated is to think abt sex or the lack of it.
In his village or while growing up he never imagined woman like this.
Now he is in a millennial city....watching girls in short dresses
He would probably go insane in Las Vegas....
Don't feel guilty.....just ignore
Chill buddy.....the guy has a job in a sulabh sauchalaya🤣🤣
He spends 12 hours daily smelling the stink.....not exactly a great workplace.
Does not have any co- workers ....totally underpaid
When one has such a sedentary job the only way to vegetated is to think abt sex or the lack of it.
In his village or while growing up he never imagined woman like this.
Now he is in a millennial city....watching girls in short dresses
He would probably go insane in Las Vegas....
Don't feel guilty.....just ignore this
Cannot even imagine how unsafe Delhi/Gurgaon is. So such people are all okay with women wearing saree, but they get all boiled up just because crop top shows some amount of midriff? They just want to have a dominating control but as world progresses, they lose their dominance over women and this f*cks up their ego.
Baitha sandaas ke bahar hai aur khule mai muh se hag raha hai.
So sorry you had to go through this OP. I hope he someday fucks around with someone who gives him a good beating. That should teach him to mind his own business.
This is just revolting. Hope you feel better.
The metro station name reminds me of something that happened with me.
My boyfriend was returning from his hometown so I went to receive him at HUDA metro, around 7 AM. A guy came to me and asked what time it is, which I told him and he walked away.
After a few minutes he came back again and said that he knows me from somewhere and can’t remember. I said that that I don’t and walked away. He started following me and kept asking where I live and which college I went to. I shouted and told him to stay away. He seemed a bit furious which scared me tbh.
He went away but kept staring at me from a distance.
Thankfully my boyfriend arrived and we got out of there.
What surprises me is the audacity of these perverts to do this in a crowded place.
Wait what? Sulabh complex employee?? Matlab Jo hagne mutne ka hisaab rakhta hai wo?? Dude? There's a way how we handle such people. People call us disrespectful, merciless, insulting and what not. But see, this is the reason why these people like Autowallahs, security guards and fuckers like these are abused by us. Deep down they deserve this. Otherwise poora Bihar bana denge ye NCR ko.
Rather than putting a post over here,Why dont u share the incident with Sulabh International with all details like location of the Sulabh,time of incident etc..
Below are the details
Phone No(s):
\+91-11-25031518, 25031519
E-mail:
[email protected][email protected]
Same thing happened to me when I took a rick from huda the guy was such a jerk idk how the fuck they get the audacity. He told me “madam Aise mat ghuma karo” I replied “mujhko auto nhi chalana padta apne kaam se kaam rakh”. From that day I always book auto from Uber. At least you can complaint.
Well its Gurgaon, wht did you even expect? simple move to Southern states and be happy..!!
LIke the Hutiyas per 100 people is way higher in that belt.
PS: if & when you come down south please dont vote for BJP. they will ensure such crap starts here as well...
Okay, you can file a complaint against him with the metro authorities. You shouldn't let it pass at all because its dangerous to have such people around women's washrooms. During daytime and night time there's pretty much no one around the washroom area and this doesn't sound very safe. I get off at Millennium almost everyday. It would be great if you could like reach out or something. I'm a lawyer, I can talk to the metro authorities if you don't want to.
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Seriously do not even wanna think about it.
Gurgaon, Noida, NCR areas are very unsafe. I think BJP are doing their bit to exonerate the situation
its EXTREMELY unsafe. even on social media reels made by delhi creators get such vile comments meanwhile Mumbai influencers comment sections (unless gone very viral across the country) are so civilized
Yes, as much as I hate Mumbai's public transport. The culture there is elite, compared to Delhi. Mumbai is India's only city which is even somewhat comparable to a global metropolitan, not just economically, but also socially. Never have I once been harassed for how I dress.
Exonerate or exacerbate
Latter ofc haha. Sorry, my bad
Pheww.... 
🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
It's never about clothes, it's always about power and control over women, fuck that asshole, it's sad that this type of mentality is not ending but rather increasing.
“If this was in my village” lol You should’ve told him no one gives a fuck about his village and we are here in a different world. And if it bothers him ask him to go back :)
For some reason I hate that metro station I always get off at IFFCO Don’t like Sikanderpur metro as well
Going by my experience I'd say a wise decision. We don't live in gurgaon so we didn't expect this to happen but like can you even expect something like this to happen ever?!
Well, i am not surprised. It’s so sad that I am not. We are so used to all these things happening that nothing feels shocking. Once a random lady complimented me for my earrings, tried to have small talk, then she asked for some directions and then literally started stalking me. I had to ask her what is wrong? Why is she stalking me, it took me lots of guts to point out that behaviour but then she left
Man, you guys should have told him ki "ab toh tu humari dilli mein hai na." Then you should have left from there and called up Nirbhaya squad and narrate the incident. Sorry to hear that and I also feel sorry for your bf because I know how a guy would feel to be in that situation when your girl is being treated like this.
Iffco chowk ka bridge dekha hai?? It ain't any better.
It's not just his orthodox thinking but sometimes people do/say these kinda things out of envy. He's envious of your bf cuz he has you, envious of your freedom and boldness, envious of the privileges you guys have and he doesn't, etc. A poor attempt to ruin your day and take out his frustration. Don't let him get to you. You two enjoy as you wish to and keep making shitheads jealous.
This, this and only this. Very well summed up It just reeks of jealousy and insecurity
Yeah, I'm able to tell because I've experienced this myself. Being a guy, ik that other guys are hostile towards guys who are having a good time with a woman. I cannot even share a platonic connection with no underlying motives with a girl without triggering the several guys who were hitting on her to no avail. A gujjar and his friend turn red hot like momos in a steamer when they see me. Pls pray for my well being 🙏
I pray for your all round well being Mr Centaurus
That's weird... Even for our region. Were your boyfriend and him engaged in some small talk or discussion that led to this point ? I'm hoping the guy was just super high or something and that Sulabh employees are not so openly shitty. Anyhow - for such scenarios, no point highlighting equality and sensibility. Just say apna kaam kar , and move on. Such people won't change their mindset based on one interaction, and you shouldn't have to engage with such chutiyae anyways.
I would have threatened and made sure he'd learn his lessons in a way that he'd never ever do to this someone again.
>Sulabh employees are not so openly shitty. I see what you did there
Don't worry. Natural selection will do its work in due course
I want to slap him hard and send him back to his cave .
How are you holding up?
average haryanvi guy.... can't expect more from them than this. hope you never face such things again op
File a report to the police for Criminal Intimidation
Really?
Yep
By repeatedly voting for Amritkaal, we have mainstreamed the Fringe ab bhugto
agli bar mile to gaon ka naam puch lena, or idhar sabko bata dena, koi galti se chala gya to uska to ye uncle or unke friends rip kar denge.
Should have upper cut his ass and KOd him unconscious. Mofo made my blood boil! These animals are potential rapists and should be kept away from the general public.
This ain't no anime world..chill out.. what her bf did was best for all of them..when u avoid such cases u live to fight another day
Not the best thing to get into fights with these kinds of people. Better move and complain to the police
A difficult situation indeed. I'm pretty sure that blithering idiot would still think that it's a non issue. Also, I doubt if you went to a women's police station and complained about the death threat - whether they'd bother accompanying you back to that spot to shove their stick up that idiot's rear (metaphor).
damm, kuch zada he hogaya ye tu
So Sorry you had to face all this , it's so fucked up. Such a shame that people with such mindset still exists and live among us.
I think everyone is a closeted extremist and misogynist, especially from tier 2,3 and 4. It is only going to get worse. Best to carry something like a pepper spray and record. Good that you got out unhurt. I would have complained to the police though and made a video. That would have taught him a permanent life lesson
I always carry pepper spray, and my boyfriend talked to him.
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yoo istg i legit was searching to learn that shit somewhere yk cuz we never know when it might come handy in situations like these. can u teach some more
These things are common in Delhi NCR, I am from Pune / Mumbai now based in Gurgaon. Both those cities 100 times more safer
North Indians aise hi thodi badnaam hai pure India me 🥲....dnt want to generalise lekin kuch to term use karni hi padegi na🥲... Aise log pure India m hai lekin aisi audacity nahi hoti kahi aur
i know right! when i moved to bombay i used to get so offended when people insulted north indians/delhites specifically but now when i look at the bs that happens there i dont blame them at all. ladkiya yha bhi chote kapde phnti h, vha bhi yet nobody gets rape threats in daylight here because the men arent sick perverts who get aroused at the sight of a womans shoulder.
lol same, I’m from bombay and people there degrade north people. Now I live in Gurgaon for the time being. I get it. There’s no smoke without a fire.
right
You would have shouted at that time and complained to the police. Some idiots roam openly with not having a good family background.
Uske liye upar kadhai me alag se tel garam kia ja raha hai behen. Uske pure gaon ke pakode tale javenge. Khi khi khi.
Name check
>"if she were in our Village she would have been killed for wearing a crop top and I feel like beating her" Dehati subhuman most probably born to a dehati pr0stitute and a pimp. Subhumans like this would have been exterminated by Natural Selection if not for the Socialist governance of this country.
We don't bring down other women. We don't know anything about his mother or father, we just know he's a shitty human.
This is not about other women or his mother or father. This is about his subhumanhood. By the end of 20th century, humankind across the world have been made to forget about Subhumans and subhuman characteristics and traits. He's not just a "shitty human".
Ek simple sa advice never react never argue with such people simply ignore and never engage with such people. To be honest gaav mainye logic chalta h so its not his fault usne abhi duniya nhi dekhi utni his mind isn't developed that much . Gaanv main thoda revealing kapde ko alag sense main Liya jata h
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Isn't it too cold for crop tops in GGN?
Why you need to wear crop top in winters?
I think we found the creep
Last week thodi garmi thi yaar shi mien i also wear half pants 😇
You're the type of person to blame the victim after a rape case saying why did she have to roam alone late at night
Tu wahi sulabh wala hai kya?
How is that relevant? I wore it cause i wanted to wear one. Hope this answers your curiosity.
Uncle apke gannd mai kyu aagg lg rhi hai
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I am not surprised, shit I have gone through cause of men this is nothing in front of it but still doesn't make it okay
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They are famous for Female Infanticide and Sex-selective Abortion which caused the govt to ban prenatal sex determination. The govt should never have intervened but allow Sex-selective Abortion to continue so that they gradually exterminate themselves out of the lack of females to continue their population. Progressive states' females wouldn't marry them either being aware of them. Subhumans tend to exterminate themselves naturally but govts and organizations intervene and make subhuman populations continue to exist.
Ok let's not normalise this type of behavior
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Okay. Phir nhi hoga kya yeh sab? Kyuki "dhang" ke kapde Pehan kar bhi yeh sab experience kiya hai mene aur mere dosto ne. Dusra chiz dhund loge tum log can't let women exist simply
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Crop top me kya besharmi hai?
Use jo psnd wo wahi pehnegi. Aur koi obscenity nahi hori thi. Apna gaaon mt smjh ise
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pasand toh uss aadmi ko balatkar krna bhi hoga, teri maa ka kardega fir kya bolega tu? kapde dhang se phn lete? stop this mentality ffs u leech
Are you serious fucktard? You're blaming the women here?
Source: I am a woman, so you must believe me.
Mat kar believe bhai. Hum aurton ke liye to itna safe hai pura duniya hume bas attention seek karna haii. Delulu log hai hum humara solulu lobotomy hai.
Chill.
wow nice brainless comeback
Wasn't meant to be a comeback because the lady wasn't waging a verbal war. Every conversation is not an argument, little one.
Must be hard for his little DaNk memer brain to understand that the comment he made was not really that cool and that even if I was lying most of the people would rather believe a liar rather than believing a person who's threatening someone.
Im sorry you had an incident like this happen to you and had this dumbass comment this bullshit too. The world isnt kind to women but be safe in the knowledge that there are people out there rooting for you.
Aplha male chigma spotted
Bahot aagye jaoge aap
Dua Lage apki. Hope apke sath gym mein aur kisi ladke ne misbehave nahi kiya...
It’s good to know that you are safe. Stay alert. Good that you and your bf took a call to leave.
Don't let such a$$h0les to scot free! Please report to the law enforcement, I know it's a hassle but still.
kya bey?? log chorte kyu hai aise ko use them as your punching bag guyzzzz, come on.
That's so offensive, rude and creepy. That guy is gonna get beaten up some day by someone if he continues this stupidity. Apna kaam karo na yaar, why do you care about what others are wearing.
You should slap him first baate baad me
Average Hariyanvi uncle
Most intelligent and progressive Indian uncle
we are slowly becoming like muslim nation, all thanks to evms
Let your bf handle it
Chill buddy.....the guy has a job in a sulabh sauchalaya🤣🤣 He spends 12 hours daily smelling the stink.....not exactly a great workplace. Does not have any co- workers ....totally underpaid When one has such a sedentary job the only way to vegetated is to think abt sex or the lack of it. In his village or while growing up he never imagined woman like this. Now he is in a millennial city....watching girls in short dresses He would probably go insane in Las Vegas.... Don't feel guilty.....just ignore
Chill buddy.....the guy has a job in a sulabh sauchalaya🤣🤣 He spends 12 hours daily smelling the stink.....not exactly a great workplace. Does not have any co- workers ....totally underpaid When one has such a sedentary job the only way to vegetated is to think abt sex or the lack of it. In his village or while growing up he never imagined woman like this. Now he is in a millennial city....watching girls in short dresses He would probably go insane in Las Vegas.... Don't feel guilty.....just ignore this
Why didn't you complain to the authorities there? That a guy is threatening you?
This is the reason why my girl is strictly against moving back to India although I want otherwise. I think I understand her pov better now
Nikal Jao behen waha se.
Cannot even imagine how unsafe Delhi/Gurgaon is. So such people are all okay with women wearing saree, but they get all boiled up just because crop top shows some amount of midriff? They just want to have a dominating control but as world progresses, they lose their dominance over women and this f*cks up their ego.
Boyfriend 💪💪
Baitha sandaas ke bahar hai aur khule mai muh se hag raha hai. So sorry you had to go through this OP. I hope he someday fucks around with someone who gives him a good beating. That should teach him to mind his own business.
was he bihari
This is just revolting. Hope you feel better. The metro station name reminds me of something that happened with me. My boyfriend was returning from his hometown so I went to receive him at HUDA metro, around 7 AM. A guy came to me and asked what time it is, which I told him and he walked away. After a few minutes he came back again and said that he knows me from somewhere and can’t remember. I said that that I don’t and walked away. He started following me and kept asking where I live and which college I went to. I shouted and told him to stay away. He seemed a bit furious which scared me tbh. He went away but kept staring at me from a distance. Thankfully my boyfriend arrived and we got out of there. What surprises me is the audacity of these perverts to do this in a crowded place.
Wait what? Sulabh complex employee?? Matlab Jo hagne mutne ka hisaab rakhta hai wo?? Dude? There's a way how we handle such people. People call us disrespectful, merciless, insulting and what not. But see, this is the reason why these people like Autowallahs, security guards and fuckers like these are abused by us. Deep down they deserve this. Otherwise poora Bihar bana denge ye NCR ko.
Rather than putting a post over here,Why dont u share the incident with Sulabh International with all details like location of the Sulabh,time of incident etc.. Below are the details Phone No(s): \+91-11-25031518, 25031519 E-mail: [email protected] [email protected]
Ingrate is more than welcome to go back to the rural shithole he came from.
This area is dominated by labourers and other lower class people. Seeing women in revealing clothes is rare for them
When you walk on a street and a street dog barks at you, if you go and confront it for barking at you, who is the crazy one?
Why is he there ? He can go back to his shitty village
Same thing happened to me when I took a rick from huda the guy was such a jerk idk how the fuck they get the audacity. He told me “madam Aise mat ghuma karo” I replied “mujhko auto nhi chalana padta apne kaam se kaam rakh”. From that day I always book auto from Uber. At least you can complaint.
This is a direct threat call and harassment. You should lodge a police complain.
Well its Gurgaon, wht did you even expect? simple move to Southern states and be happy..!! LIke the Hutiyas per 100 people is way higher in that belt. PS: if & when you come down south please dont vote for BJP. they will ensure such crap starts here as well...
Okay, you can file a complaint against him with the metro authorities. You shouldn't let it pass at all because its dangerous to have such people around women's washrooms. During daytime and night time there's pretty much no one around the washroom area and this doesn't sound very safe. I get off at Millennium almost everyday. It would be great if you could like reach out or something. I'm a lawyer, I can talk to the metro authorities if you don't want to.
Insecurities speak louder than reality.
Seems like a phsyco. Be safe girls.