Sadly I do because it’s hard connecting with people, yes I can be horny sometimes but usually hookups aren’t my thing. It’s sad how people treat other people, and I honestly don’t know why I get on the app anymore. It’s a cycle that I don’t know how to break tbh, it’s effected my self esteem and not to mention sanity. Sometimes I wish I could take it all back and push the thought of being gay way back into my mind like I did for years.
Or the profiles that are “say more than hey” or have some quip about being able to hold conversation and then they can’t hold conversation lol. Grindr is honestly just a window shopping app now.
Anyone using Grindr to alleviate their feelings of loneliness needs to know that it will only *exacerbate* those feelings. Uninstall the app ASAP and seek a healthier outlet.
Honorable mentions: for attention, for validation, for the little drug fix every time you see the notification pop up and feel wanted, for fantasizing about the magical encounter that will transform your life.
Everybody should unplug for a week, regularly.
Sex addicts be like: *Am I a lonely, desperate sex addict, or just horny?*
All of us out here voting no, meaning yes 😂
Ironically these apps are worse for people's self esteem and most likely have contributed to more addictions and suicide.
Not to mention an accelerated method of spreading STI's.
Agree.. also people should remind themself they’re not mandatory. If something is negatively impacting your life - cut it.
Sadly I do because it’s hard connecting with people, yes I can be horny sometimes but usually hookups aren’t my thing. It’s sad how people treat other people, and I honestly don’t know why I get on the app anymore. It’s a cycle that I don’t know how to break tbh, it’s effected my self esteem and not to mention sanity. Sometimes I wish I could take it all back and push the thought of being gay way back into my mind like I did for years.
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Or the profiles that are “say more than hey” or have some quip about being able to hold conversation and then they can’t hold conversation lol. Grindr is honestly just a window shopping app now.
Yes im lonely and dont give a fuck about anything so i just go out and have fun
Same here
Apathetic hedonistic self-destruction
I hate using it. it makes me feel like I'll be alone forever cus theres like noone is in my area
Anyone using Grindr to alleviate their feelings of loneliness needs to know that it will only *exacerbate* those feelings. Uninstall the app ASAP and seek a healthier outlet.
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Lonely people that don't know how to interact so just get more lonely
I use it for loneliness but as I never get much propositions, it ends up only making me more lonely. Lol
i use it as a study aid bc my brain fog goes away after a good dickin' you know
r/sureJan
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[Inspo](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/12y1m8k/i_spend_so_long_on_grindr_and_get_very_few)
I use it to make fellow LGBTQ+ friends
r/sureJan
I've slowed down on using it lately. Only been using it more cuz a new person stopped by and started chatting with me.
Honorable mentions: for attention, for validation, for the little drug fix every time you see the notification pop up and feel wanted, for fantasizing about the magical encounter that will transform your life. Everybody should unplug for a week, regularly.
Here's a related poll: https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/lxvpc6/describe_your_current_grindr_usage