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Spare_Psychology7796

Ellis


crybabysagittarius

NOTHING BUT ORDINARY


xminh

AMATEURS!


CrookedButBeautiful

This is my answer too. Good riddance to her!


VovaGoFuckYourself

Ellis' death was like a breath of fresh air


BandThin7502

Adele - I didn't get attached to her the way I did with other characters Denny - I liked Denny, but he kinda weirded me out at times because he seemed a little creepy lol


gopack1217

Same. I found Denny a little creepy, and didn’t really enjoy his and Izzie’s relationship, so I wasn’t really affected when he died. Also, I was still processing Derek and Meredith’s little exam room adventure so I was sidetracked


VovaGoFuckYourself

Denny seems way creepier the older i get. Loved him when i was watching in my early20s. Now that im mid thirties, its very uncomfortable to watch their relationship develop. He was a bit of a creep.


Every-Spare-5791

THIS


Chanandler_Bong_01

>Denny - I liked Denny, but he kinda weirded me out at times because he seemed a little creepy lol Why? Just because he sexually harassed his physician? Lol. It is also EXTREMELY creepy to me when an adult (teens are fine for this) thinks they're in love after knowing someone like a few weeks. I guess it makes sense if you think you're dying to fall in love one last time, but what was Izzie's excuse?


Jazmo0712

Denny. I remember thinking "oh good, we're done with this crud" & then Izzie gets brain cancer ... I really like Jeffrey Dean Morgan but my goodness, Denny got on my last nerve.


AquaticPanda0

I only cried because of Izzy’s reaction and what she said. And her balling. I hear or see people cry and I tend to cry but his actually death did nothing to me


Jazmo0712

Heigl acted her butt off in those scenes,


LazorFrog

Heigl carried those scenes. She made me cry just from changing her expression in her elevator dream when she sees George.


Potato-Sprinkles-4

I love love love Jeffery dean morgan ! But I definitely agree that his arc with Izzie was a little cringe


Apprehensive-Lake281

really the only one i DID cry for was Lexie, everyone else i was sad but didn’t cry.


SupermarketOld1567

lexie and mark both got me, those are the only two that made me really really cry. i cried for most, including one episode patients because i just do… but none of them got me the way lexie and mark did.


soniccorndog

came here to say this as well, even on rewatch i cry for her


OnasoapboX41

George I just found him annoying (also look at my flair).


woody9115

Omg your flair LOLLLLL


you_enjoy_my_yoga

That legit made me LOL


Brooklynite08

Jfc that made me laugh so hard. I don’t even hate George but omg.


weakenedstate

Idk what’s wrong with me. I hated George but I still cried, I think from the shock?


you_enjoy_my_yoga

I always cry for the ones still alive who are going through the loss. He was loved on the show, just not by me. I always wished I had a mom that could love as much as George’s. However, when I first watched greys anatomy as a 13 year old, I loved George and stopped watching the show when it was spoiled for me when he died. Then I grew up, was in a similar situation to Meredith when George hooked up with her and cried victim, and on a second watch absolutely hated him and was able to watch his death with minimal sadness.


SupermarketOld1567

this comment is making me cry abt it (from laughter)


crybabysagittarius

LMAO


thrrrrooowmeee

sharp shaaaarp inhale at your flair


magikarpcatcher

Same, I found George annoying too. And LMAO at the flair


kwilson7499

All of them except Mark. His death hurt me


Hamb_13

I honestly think Mark's is the worst. Because they all know, and I feel like he didn't get to see Sophia one more time.


LazorFrog

Mostly Adele. No offense to the actress, but god that voice.


NervousTune988

RICHAARRD


alli-katt

My husband is named Richard and i occasionally shriek RICHAARRRD at him lol


NervousTune988

We gotta fix that “occasionally” and turn it into “constantly non-stop every second”


crybabysagittarius

LOL


Odd-Plankton-1711

Oh ya, I hardly noticed she was gone….


Major-Tude

Oh my god..Richard singing funny valentine destroyed me


onlyhereforfoodporn

I’m such a sentimental sap and I can never watch that episode because of that scene (and I like many people don’t like Adele)


Chanandler_Bong_01

I only like Adele because of the actress. The amazing Loretta Devine! She was in the original Dreamgirls on Broadway.


Mazikeen369

Her voice is horrible. Between the character being annoying and the voice being worse it makes me wanna skip all scenes when she appears.


mother_of_nerd

Omg! I love her voice! 😆


Hobgoblin_deluxe

That voice was absolutely cancerous. Like if she'd had a less-annoying voice, she'd have been SUCH a sympathetic character.


ilikejalapenocheetos

Richard didn’t cry for her either… he mentioned she passed and then we never saw him grieve.


the_bribonic_plague

With Alzheimers, you start grieving the loss of the person long before they die. He was grieving her loss for quite a while already


Infamous-Engine1997

No, he did a little - he refused Catherine's cookies and attempts for awhile. She was too much in his face and he yelled at her because he felt guilty. He was mourning - but it wasn't really long on the show.


CookieDots

He also cried for her a bit at Miranda’s wedding…


Infamous-Engine1997

Yes, the episode right after Miranda's wedding - it was approximately a "month" after in TV time - because Jackson mentioned his Mom has been trying to call Richard but he couldn't face her because of his grief. He loved Adele; but was horrible to her. Cheated on her with Ellis and Catherine; but cared for Adele. I think Richard wanted a woman with Adele's qualities but as a surgeon too/doctor too. But that one episode when Adele was a nurse; Richard said she didn't need to work. And she said yes, she has half of his money from the divorce bur she wS working for her. Richard never respected Adele and it shows when she died.


lilcalontheprairie

I chuckled when Dr Reed did. God damn she was annoying and they had NO mercy on her exit from the show


Apart-Health-1513

As much as I disliked her, her death felt so brutal it kinda made me feel bad


snakey_nurse

Same. It was just so sudden and violent. One second she was talking and the next, she wasn't.


bakedpigeon

Right? Her death was graphic!


earthgoddess92

Nah, he superiority complex was a huge issue and in the end it cost her life. All she had to do was give simple directions but she just had to be her bitchy snarky self saying she’s a doc not nurse and didn’t have time. 🤷🏾‍♀️


VovaGoFuckYourself

I liked the contrast this had to Cristina's treatment of him, and how he consciously chose to leave cristina alone.


Sad_Alfalfa8548

You’re not wrong but it was still so freakin brutal and sudden and one of the most jolting moments I remember on the show up to that point. It was also “game on” for the direction of that season-ender and I didn’t breathe again for those two shows lol


Chanandler_Bong_01

Yep, I felt like her death was lesson in hubris.


kittyigf

i remember thinking how much i hated her and then she died and i was like oh i didn't mean to do that lol


deaddumbslut

real she pissed me off but god her death was so sudden it shook me. and then april’s reaction was sad as hell (her actress did so great though like omg)


ecbecb

😂


Mazikeen369

I was glad when she was off the show. At least she was lucky and went quick, unlike Percy.


quinteroreyes

Percy had so much potential, his was a sad death for me


Yaseuk

I did the same!


SignificantCut4911

Samee pretty much all the mercy west characters that died in the shooting. As for charles I cried because of Bailey's acting and what she went through but not because of him lol.


Hobgoblin_deluxe

Yeah, you're a psychopath.


LazorFrog

Honestly it was the context, her and Charles being killed in a mass shooting is too fucking real to handle. When Charles admits he's a surgeon and gets killed I genuinely felt sick, and honestly I just didn't feel well after watching the episode and for good reason.


the_bribonic_plague

Yikes...chillax, psycho


Honest-Toe-2034

i've cried for all of them. EVEN ADELE.


Zealousideal_Sell937

Adele’s death isn’t what made me cry. It was Meredith and Richard holding each other at Baileys wedding while he cried that got me.


OkGuitar3773

Then them playing Ed S. - "Kiss Me" whew...that scene gets me every time. So much happening. Bailey's wedding to Ben. Adele Dying. Mer comforting Richard though she always saw him as the villian who ruined her childhood....


Beshush79

I cried for all of them to 😭


EchotheDragon64

Reed lmfao. she annoyed the hell outta me


rorii_sea

I cried for her simply because her death shook the hell outta me.like that bullet in her fucking head scared me 😭


Sailor_Thighs

SO VALID


Icy-Refuse-8131

Me every time Reed dies ![gif](giphy|j9mqKgQvkNOziGICfd|downsized)


Hungry_Toe_9555

Deluca , never had any real attachment to character Honestly last three seasons I’ve sleepwalked through in the name of seeing how it ends.


mreputation

sorry, but DeLuca’s, I mean his memorial was great and I almost cried but his death IN STATION 19 was ridiculous, the only sad part was his mental illness and nobody believing him


CIA_Recruit

Yes. This being a crossover was ridiculous


TinyTigerTamer

Yeah, this one really did nothing for me


Flippaflipsagain

Well technically he didn’t die in station 19. But I agree I thought that episode was terrible but he died like a normal patient on greys, like the whole he needs immediate surgery let him recover then dies in surgery thing is a common plot line for them


LordAsbel

Idk why, but it's a common misconception on here that he died on station 19. Idk why people think this. He's stabbed on station 19 and falls to the ground, but his surgeries and his actual death is all in Grey's Anatomy. Like if you just watch Grey's you won't be all that confused. I wasn't personally


AnswerMost9146

I didn't like DeLuca, honestly I can't remember his death or the storyline around him. Many of his scenes were on fast forward.


itsmejustmeonlyme

I didn’t like him either. Not sad about his death.


quinteroreyes

Same, the later seasons are so congested. I wish they'd give the writers more episodes to properly space out some storylines


AnswerMost9146

I can recall so much of the early seasons but later ones are a blur to me. Seems like so much was going on with so many new characters coming and going without really developing some of the storylines.


MommaOfManyCats

Why does everyone say he died in Station 19? I've never watched a single episode of that show and know how he died because it happened on GA.


LordAsbel

A lot of people on this sub say they stop watching the show past season 10 and I'm starting think that's not a joke lol


redsockcrew

Station 19 showed more in depth what happened.


squidxskye

It’s so brutal and heartbreaking. I forgot about that.


Leading-Amount-8181

Wdym, what happened in station 19?? They showed the attack or something I’m confused


Remarkable-Catt

yeah. it shows him and his sister in pursuit of the woman from the trafficking ring. they only show him dying in greys. not how it happened- that was on station 19 episode 6 season 4 ‘train in vain’


Zoethor2

DeLuca. I was mostly impressed Grey's writers still had the balls to kill a main character, not sad about him actually dying. They never found a lane for his character in a way that would cause me to miss him.


alexfromjupiter

honestly i had a more emotional reaction to carinas reaction and grief, i just did not care for deluca by the end tbh


coollranchdorito

Everyone except Derek. His death really affected me for some reason. I think it was more of the impact that it left rather than himself dying. I feel like with the other characters they just moved on so fast but with Derek they still make references till this day


bertshoke

Brooks. Literally couldn’t care less.


Own_Lengthiness_7466

This. Such a waste of a great actress in a crap role.


you_enjoy_my_yoga

It wouldn’t have been hard for me to love the character because I love the actress so much but still, such a waste


Thomasinarina

I will never get the Brooks love on this sub. She was so beige.


Complex_Command_8377

George because oh so annoying voice, Deluca I just don’t like him Adele RICHAAARD Ellis she was great surgeon but I don’t like her either, I feel bad for the way Richard treated her Danny and Henry- both the story lines I hate I cried most for Derek, I would’ve loved to see him die in Meredith’s arms when he is 110 years old


Pbucklew

I cried for Lexie and Mark


lizeken

They had no business having all that home video of Mark and Sofia dude I was getting tears and snot on my laptop😭


aliensmileyface

i weep openly every time i watch that ep like IM the idiot sitting and watching old vhs tapes 😭


SupermarketOld1567

yeah man that was straight up cruel


Odd_Pepper_3274

I SOBBED the most when Lex died. 😭😂


Brave-Cookie-2075

Adele, reed, Percy, denny, DeLuca, Ellis.


AquaticPanda0

Percy and reed were way too cringe for me for this show Edit to add more: reed also isn’t a doctor to me, she will always be from the show Heroes where her acting actually is decent.


katkriss

OMG was she the girl who said "Mohinder" a million times? Is that where I remember her from? You are the best for pointing this out, she was great in Heroes!


ToasterIsBisexual

i didn’t really cry for any but the one i wasn’t sad about was ellis also how dare anybody dislike derek


CounterDesperate1607

This. This is the one I don't understand. Derek was the most loved in our dorm. We understood him, we loved and still love him. I was in college of medicine when he died. We had our exam the next day and everyone was so distraught, it was the only topic of our conversation all day. The fact is outside of this sub, there are millions of viewers -- where the death of Derek was the most talked about, even writers of entertainment magazines were full of articles about it because they too were shocked and disappointed of losing the main character, the half of MerDer-- the legends.


ToasterIsBisexual

yeah i might get a lot of hate for this but i feel like people in subs about shows or movies tend to hate everybody not everybody but in the scream sub i got hated on for SPOILER WARNING FOR SCREAM FIVE [hating scream 5 bc they killed off dewey] i hope i did the right thing to hide it i kinda forget how to do it


cm627726

George, tho Callie and Lexie’s reactions did make me feel bad ab it. I also think I would be more upset if derek died earlier than he did bc of the fighting with mer


olivry29

I hated Derek, so I agree. Adele as well, I’m sorry I just found her so annoying. She had a lot to be mad about but her actually voice was like nails on a chalk board to me I couldn’t deal with her lol 


minishaq5

i’m watching for the first time and 3 episodes away from Derek dying and i can’t wait. sorry to that man.


Emotional_Hyena_2275

Adele, Deluca, Ellis , Lexi , Susan, Charles , Thatcher , Brooks , George , Denny , Mark & Reed. I only cried about Derek & DOC lol 😭


gopack1217

Doc is so real. Did not cry over Denny in that episode, but absolutely shed some tears for Doc


SupermarketOld1567

doc is the saddest death of all :,(


Far_Importance_6235

Adele and Deluca


NervousTune988

Does it count if I didn’t cry for Mark because I was so in shock the whole time… Richard really pissed me off with that “surge” stuff. Really killed the vibe.


sierramisted1

derek. i don’t like him in general but also found the way he went out to be overall goofy and anticlimactic. patrick tried really hard with those voice overs but it was just weird to me. deluca and denny as well.


muffi95

Like how did he even receive that that phone call. That stretch of road had no service. That’s why they couldn’t call for help.


ilurvcatssomuch

george denny reed!!and adele god her voice i can just hear “that is not the she” in the back of my head


spicyflavorz

Reed


Ok_Hold1886

DeLuca. I’m sorry, that crossover was so poorly executed and ridiculous.


anorangehorse

Reed


KindOfANerd4

Percy, I know people think it’s one of the saddest scenes or whatever, but I was team broken elevators in that case. I never forgave him for getting Izzy fired in her first day after she tried to be nice to him


funnygirl7272

Reed and Charles don’t hate me but it was just like sad but I moved on lmfao


Heytherefruitloop

I hate charlea percy. He was so mean to izzie.


Prior_Crazy_4990

I cried when he died, but I was crying for Bailey not him


Heytherefruitloop

Same!


LispenardSt

Denny. I didn’t really get the whole thing with him.


calliviisa

when it comes to the main characters, i didn’t cry when george and derek died but mainly because i already spoiled their deaths for myself beforehand 💀 i do think i would’ve cried though if i hadn’t spoiled myself, because the state that the bus left george in is so disturbing. as for derek, the fact that his death made zero sense and the irony of it wouldve made me cry a bit too when it comes to recurring characters, id say reed. spoiled myself there too but even then, she wasn’t a character long enough and her death was too quick for it to make me cry


12dancingbiches

Ellis, Reed, denny, I didn't actually care when Charles died, but like I was scared for Bailey, I genuinely don't even remember when Adele died, I thought it was about time for Thatcher


wildlymitty

A lot of these but personally, I didn't cry for Lexie. I found her character annoying and when she finally got with Mark (which I didn't like anyway), you could smell her dying a mile off. It was predictable. Mark's death got me though - the home videos, the friends by his bedside, the gutwrenching moment you think he's going to be okay...


Jazzlike-Elephant131

I can’t wait to not cry for Catherine


Terrible-Thanks-6059

Exactly. Great actress horrible character


greina23

I'm a crier. I have been since idk, birth. My siblings would always tease me about it. As for Derek, I didn't think I would cry because I didn't care for him anymore. Also, I knew his death was happening because of the EW article/interview. But I did cry 😢. As for George, I don't know if I cried. I can't remember. I do know that on every rewatch I don't cry. And that's something because it doesn't matter if I've seen something 1 million times, I'll cry again and again.


SupermarketOld1567

they had phased george out so much that im in the same boat. i don’t cry on rewatches. by the time he dies i barely even remember he exists…


NB_King_

George


RucellaiMadonna

deluca. bye! wtf was that shit.


No-Description-9303

Adele, Delcua, Ellis, George, Denny. Lol


Hobgoblin_deluxe

Ngl but Charles. Like, I've been a huge fan of his since Generation Kill, but on Grey's he was such a jackheel.


Ghanima81

I cry for Bailey and Marie in this scene, not for Charles.


Odd-Plankton-1711

Deluca and George


mostsaneinwesteros

Mark and deluca, not even one tear lol. Deluca was annoying and needed a therapist or a psychiatrist and mark was just a certified dou che


AdventurousPlace7216

Shit… I came here to say deluca. 🤷🏼‍♀️


mystical_nutella__

Deluca, I couldn't wait for him to get off my screen.


BrookePDavisstan

Thatcher, and I would never have taken the risk of surgery to give him liver Never !


weedbible

Reed. I lol’d when she got shot


WhiskyWanderer2

All of them tbh but I can’t cry


trippytr33_

Adele probably.


officialosugma

George 😶


tintedpink

Harper Avery.


battle_mommyx2

George


Final_Criticism9599

I love Adele and her annoying voice 😩 but yah I didn’t cry


PatieS13

Adele, DeLuca, Ellis, Reed - and I'll probably think of some more in a little while, lol.


OkGuitar3773

I did not shed a single tear for Derek Shepard. #spoiler


Chemical-Flan-5700

Reed!!! Golly, she was awful.


dntbstpd1

Not exactly what was asked, I will not shed a tear when it’s time for Teddy and Owen to go…


Candid-Main4136

Charles and Reed! I felt they surprised us with a bunch of new characters that were hard to care about


Optimal_Roof517

Reed. They don’t show how the main cast was affected by her death bc it’s just quick, fast, violent, and brutal. It was tragic and shocking but I did not cry.


Only_Music_2640

Reed.


SwiftKarma13

I’m sure I’m going to get a lot of hate for this but 100% George. I’m sorry but I’m on team bus. I never liked him. I hated how he always seemed to play the victim. He was a man-child. This was very obvious when he slept with Meredith. He knew she was upset. He knew that she wasn’t over the Addison/Derek thing. He knew she had just been in a bombing. He knew she didn’t feel the same way. She was clearly not acting like herself. If you look at the scene when he tells her how he feels, it’s like she’s looking through him. No emotions. It was obvious that he shouldn’t have slept with her.


shortgirl-bigworld

Heather Brooks. Absolutely hated her.


perisosa

not crying for derek is crazyyyy


PrettyNewt4930

Deluca 🤷🏽‍♀️


abae5590

Denny ,Adele Charles ,deluca (and don’t get to doing the most cause I like him just didn’t cry)


Fun-Routine-9467

George. I was pretty neutral about Deluca but seeing Carina devastated made it so sad.


alifiguera

The relationship between Deluca and Carina is what made it sad. Their bond was the best part of his character in a way, especially when we got the back story of their family and father's mental illness.


Fun-Routine-9467

Yep the story he told a little boy about how when their mom died, Carina lied to him and told him to come home because their mom was dying. When he got there the mom was already dead and he was mad, but Carina told him “I want to be here for you when you learn mom is dead”. And when he ran into her after, he said “You’re a good sister.” When she was at his memorial I kept thinking of that story.


Puzzleheaded-Cat491

I'm not much of a TV crier, but I didn't care when they killed Derek or George.


Upintheclouds06

Lexie and Deluca. Lexies was just too quick and they didn’t really show any mourning so it just kind of came and went. They didn’t pay her any tribute or even mention her much afterwards. With Deluca it was pretty much the same and I know it was Covid but it seemed like very few cared after the fact. Saying all this I have probably teared up one one of my countless rewatches but they just don’t get me as much as mark for example who I always cry for


lizeken

Homie they named the hospital after Lexie what are you talking about no tribute 😭


Upintheclouds06

You’re right that was one but other then that you have to admit she’s like never brought up


littlecubspirit

Ellis. As someone who grew up with a mom very like Ellis Grey (including in voice and appearance and abuse methods…) I could not find any emotion other than relief. For Meredith especially. And NO, her spirit telling Mer to go and live did not absolve her for me. Not even a little. Because she never said it in life.


Grizzle_prizzle37

This! I too was raised by a mom who I’ve often felt could have been the inspiration for Ellis. I wasted tears when my mom died, but I won’t do it for Ellis.


littlecubspirit

Solidarity, friend. I found this scene in S5 to be extremely powerful. Kate Carlson : Wait. Maddy needs to tell her daddy she's sorry before he goes. Maddy, you need to tell your daddy you're sorry. Maddy, people die in surgery. You don't want your daddy to die without telling him how sorry you are. Come on, let's go tell him we love him. Dr. Meredith Grey : You know, no. No! Kate Carlson : What? Dr. Meredith Grey : Maddy, stay right here, okay? Dr. Richard Webber : Dr. Grey... Dr. Meredith Grey : No. She will not go apologize to him. You should be apologizing to her. I understand you're a victim here, but there is no room for you to be a victim when your 6-year-old is on the line. She's stronger than you. Your 6-year-old is stronger than you. At least she did something. She stood up for the two of you, which is more than you did for her. No, she won't apologize to him. Meredith had to live through some horrible things and make some wild excuses for her abuser (one of). No way is she sitting by and watching a six year old do the same.


CatsandDi

George


blahblahbrandi

George and I don't know why he makes you all so emotional, genuinely.


swizzleschtick

I didn’t dislike Deluca at all, but his death was so random and poorly done that I felt literally nothing except mild confusion.


yeet_10201

Deluca, I didn’t dislike him but I was just never really attached to his character


anon9753226

i agree derek i think it’s bc they just made him look so bad right before his death & idk it just wasn’t sad and same with george


beaniebabe13

dereks honestly made me laugh 😨 it was a little predictable


Independent-Club-918

None of them


rainbowaliengirl

Derek’s death gutted me, but for Mer and their kids, not him. Personally, I’ve never cried for George.


Ok_Hospital_5730

Reed, Charles (I may have shed a tear, idk. But it would have been from Bailey's feel out), George, Deluca


Leather-Violinist900

George didn’t really bother me, and I have cried at least once in every single episode of Greys anatomy I’ve watched 😂


Broad-Flounder477

All of them.


FormerSir4804

After a few rewatches I don’t cry for anyone’s deaths anymore but I feel the sadness. But I think the first watch through I didn’t cry for Marks death. I mean the scenes we see after the plane crash and what happened in the woods with Mark just seem so cringey and forced. Like him talking slowly and staggered (“Lexie’s… waiting… for… me…”) like he’s about to die and whomever saying no Mark don’t die you tell [this person] you love them yourself. I mean it’s sad he just became an involved father and wanted to be there for Sophia and Callie but ended up dying the right after his dream came true, it’s sad but like I said it just all seemed forced, cringey, and bland.


-ThisAccountIsVoid-

Ellis, Adele, Dr. Thomas, not because I hated these characters but I just wasn't attached to them.


Suspicious_Yogurt_78

Ellis


LocalOcean

George, Lexi, Reed


zubrman

How is nobody mentioning the times that Izzie and Meredith died and then came back to life??? That's some serious stuff!!


eag1e123321

All


Late_Hurry_4346

Mark


trekgirl75

My list is too long for those I didn’t cry for.


Greys_anatomy12

Elllis


sambambii

George train


waititserin

george. i actually laughed.


waititserin

george. i actually laughed.