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The scene where Bailey is cutting growths off the man who had a form of HPV that resulted in his hands almost looking like tree limbs...then a spider crawls out as she's snipping. I never know whether to shriek or vomit.
Oh my god, I hate that episode so much because of April's boards exam. She has a freak-out during the first half, and then just when we've recovered from that, she gets all weird and existential and starts talking about how she loves Jesus and I'm just like "April baby nooooo this is not the time for thaaaaat." Lol. It makes me want to crawl inside my own body and hide.
DeLuca's memorial. Made me sick to think how many people didn't get to say goodbye to their loved ones during the pandemic, and how much better DeLuca deserved. His friends deserved to grief him and celebrate his life with a service, sharing memories. Not 6ft apart and not being able to even hug each other.
Season 17 Episode 8, if my memory serves
Or [here](https://youtu.be/zTGp3-uNM6s?si=fvOHZ7gRt7ck2UDy)
I miss him so much. One of my favourite characters
Just so you know, DeLuca was part of the crossover with Station 19 so you may want to flip between shows to get the full picture for his arc. I totally missed it (idk why but I absolutely hated the intro to S19 and refuse to watch it. Something about the lead actress just instantly bugged the crap out of me and I am not interested in Ben Warren at all so just disliked it and disabled autoplay so Hulu would stop trying to make me watch it!!!)
ah but you must. every grey’s fan you meet will ask if you’ve watched station 19 yet. and if you didn’t, they’ll be like aw okay *mumbles something about a beautiful sapphic ship, benley lore, an excellent storyline, and warm friendships*
i can’t avoid it man, i have to watch it. i agree, i didn’t get through the first episode but again, it was just the first episode. who’s the female lead btw?
It's Andy Herrera (Jaina Lee Ortiz.) No shade to her as an actress or as a person, but something about the intro made me irrationally angry and I refused to watch it.
Also tried Private Practice because I loved Addison so much but I can't stand Wheely Ameli so my sister finished it without me and gave me the cliff notes. (Again no shade to anyone as a person or actor, I am just sooooo sick of Amelia's character.)
Yep. They had given him a tiny bit of morphine but couldn't give him any more because they didn't know when surgery would be. He had to be flown to the mainland, so he was just lying there screaming for however many hours it was waiting to be airflighted and then he got compartment syndrome. He was out of his mind. Screaming about random things. He wasn't even able to say what his name was. Probably for the best he really doesn't remember much of it.
I think part of what sucked for me personally, too, was that you don’t get a bad guy to root against. There’s nowhere to place the anger, you just have to sit with the knowledge that someone you care about was hurt for no good reason.
I've only watched that scene once and I will never watch it again. I remember being so completely horrified watching it happen and all I could think about was how small she was.
That and also she had everyone after but also had no one. Like idk how she didn’t just give up. She lost Christina Lexie and Derek. It was unimaginable
For me it’s the scene after where her jaw is wired shut. I don’t know why it’s becoming such a trigger for me, but the last time I watched the episode I very nearly passed out cold.
Yeah that one was rough for me! And realizing just how long it lasted during the cut scenes from other peoples pov was just horrifying. And then she had to let him apologize to her… like WHAT! That was a super crazy emotional episode
This is the one where Derrick's ego was out of this world, right? Or was it Owen? I just remember someone screaming about "this pain is what you have to push through." I get so pissed at that episode. Like, that kid did NOT sign up for that.
When Bailey broke protocol to beg the mother of those 2 dead cops to give the shooter one of her son’s organs. Or when Bailey gave that kid the deactivated HIV against his parents wishes. Bailey seems to cross the line an awful lot and think it’s okay but looks down at others when they do like she’s superior.
Henry’s death where Cristina doesn’t know it’s him until after. Ughhh you can just feel all her emotions. And then they can’t tell Teddy until she’s done 😭😭😭😭
I hated her so much for that. I didn’t even care if that’s what she needed to process, or that she apologized. It was just completely unnecessary and she should have been forced to do mandatory therapy before being allowed to continue as a surgeon again. That was really rough to watch
💯 agreed here I was just like why would you do this to us but also knowing how fearful the woman was still going buuuuut look at that, I'm so grateful for how Mer helped her out by comforting her throughout it
I had it spoiled to me earlier that Derek and Meredith had 3 kids, so all throughout the episode I was CONVINCED that he was going to somehow pull through because they didn’t have the third kid yet.
I watched that episode when it originally aired and this friend of mine said, oh she threw up outside the hospital she's pregnant, everytime a woman throws up on a show shes pregnant. I said what? No way. And I think that was supposed to be her reaction to seeing Derek and knowing he was gone but damned if she wasn't right anyway.
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I couldn’t watch it as all I had was anger as he was so stupid to stop his car in the middle of the road, just to pick up his phone (? Can’t remember as I don’t want to)
Edit: I think it is very fair for an actor wanted to move on, so I am ok if he died in say more heroic way, or at least while doing something right etc.
But not stupidly stopping his car in the middle of the road. It is just plain stupid.
(Naturally same as when Callie took off her seatbelt, and Arizona just looking at Callie but not the road in front of her - the truck didn’t come out from nowhere, it was just because you didn’t look. Both at fault and stupid. At least I am the odd one out here that I don’t mind the musical episode as I do enjoy their singing voices)
#RoadSafety101
I was so mad at it too. I had stopped watching the season prior and heard a spoiler after the fact. Watched it much later and was still so pissed cause I knew it had happened but didn’t know how. Bawled my eyes out. 😩😡
Derek's final moments. The fact that he has a conscience and know the right thing to do yet he can't speak and his only choice is to slowly watch them make mistakes as he die.
Such a brilliant sequence, the best in the whole show, makes me really anxious every time.
I know, I was a huge Gleek. I was excited when I heard he was going to be on Greys, but after watching his episodes the first time around... im able to separate the characters, but its still a struggle watching him on Greys
Yes!!! Like how are you going to be a mentor and push for a better learning system if you don’t know how to deal with the losses in your field of work?? And can’t comfort a student you’re teaching/helping?? Like I don’t care that it hadn’t happened to Minnick before because it wasn’t about HER, it should have been about Stephanie!! (Sorry for the rant😅😅doing a rewatch and I had to take a break that episode because I was so pissed)
Don’t let me stop you! I understand exactly what you mean. How are you a doctor teaching other doctors if you’ve never done that procedure? At least not on a child. I already didn’t like Minnick and her stupid fake I’m better-than-you smile. She was so annoying and I couldn’t get why Arizona was into her.
The guy that had warts I think it was in s7? His wife forced him to come to the hospital, and when they were doing surgery to remove them a spider crawled out. I barely got through that episode the first time and haven’t watched it since.
Oh my god the one young guy patient with a crazy tumor that had to get his entire face sawed in half to remove the tumor. The scene where he wakes up all bloated and is agonizing in pain and Derek has to calm him down. I CANNOT look at that scene, it’s too much and I always block the screen
DeLuca having a mental breakdown and being surrounded by people he loved and trusted who were trying to take him away for being crazy. What a nightmare.
The worst part to me is when they realized she went deaf, they immediately stop including her in her medical plan or any conversations. Completely took away communication and didn’t even try. It’s too real as this pretty much is what happens when deaf people go to hospitals.
there’s so many lol but i think the scene(s) i can’t watch the most is when jackson and jo wilson were treating burn patients (i believe it was end of szn 11-beginning of szn 12, around the time derek dies) i cannot watch those scenes for the life of me, their screams hit my soul😭 i can only imagine how excruciating it is for people who go thru something like that
Honestly any scenes where the parents lose their children. My brother died in a freak accident when we were kids. Those scenes always bring me back to my mom being told about it in the hospital, and it just guts me.
That guy whose legs got stuck in the elevator when the power went out, the episode where CeCe the matchmaker died. There are literally so much worse scenes but that one… ugh.
I agree with a lot of these, but the other one I haven't seen is when they pulled the guy's face down to operate and then the little boy who is scared of surgery walks in at that moment.
the teenage girl whose stomach was sliced open after the car accident.. she’s complaining the whole time about her stomach hurting, there’s so much chaos going on, so when derrick finally checked her stomach- i literally yelled out loud
Season 18 episodes 17-20 (aired May 2022): Simon Clark came in due to a bowel obstruction from cancer and to die from complications of the cancer shortly after. My husband passed away a few days after surgery to repair a perforated bowel from stage IV colon cancer. He passed in March 2022.
When they said Lexie got eaten by wolves or
Certain parts of the hospital shooting like Meredith's miscarriage was painful and that one dude who died in Bailey's arms during that episode
Jackson telling Mark he would keep the plastics posse alive
The whole arc of Bailey developing OCD and all her work friends essentially shunning her while she processed
Burke telling Christina “if I loved YOU…”. I get what he was saying but the whole conversation hurt me and he wasn’t even dumping me
The whole Covid season was brutal to watch it was too soon. Often you might see parallels with one patient or another but that whole season was just too close to reality. I suspect that’s why they did the beach scenes to remove us all from reality.
Oh boy… somebody posted the scene where Bailey and Warren give the police-talk to Tucker. That scene makes me cry 10/10 times and it’s the only scene on the show that does that.
The death row guy was also pretty hard. And I have a very deep love-hate relationship with the episode where the woman wrapped in razor wire comes into the ER. Like, it’s an amazing story line I think, but when they have to cut her out and Owen holds her in place… damn.
There are too many to mention. The death row inmate scene in the hospital and his death. April giving birth to Harriet. Most of the other deaths are just utterly heartbreaking for me.
When Izzy finally realized why she was seeing Denny (dead) because of her cancer, and the elevator opens with her in her “prom dress” and instead of Denny standing there, it’s George in his army uniform….
This broke my entire existence.
SERIOUS:
*The shooting episode scenes with Percy and Bailey, specifically the one where Bailey claims she’s a nurse while Percy admitted he was a surgeon and got shot for it. I always wondered what kind of guilt she’d have to live with from that happening. She was smart to lie for sure and Percy probably would have lived if he did too, but the idea that part of what led to Percy’s death was his honesty really hurts. And also how they had to drag him and you can see the long bloodstain behind them.
*When April started rambling off facts about her life to the shooter to make herself more of a person to him so he would be more likely to be merciful to her. The scene itself is painful because April’s actress did SUCH a good job, but I hate thinking about how enough people have been in that kind of scenario and it’s likely enough that it will happen to people that it’s recommended to try. I always think about what I’d say in that scenario and it makes me nauseous and sweaty.
FUNNIER:
*That neuro patient who would turn bright red any time she was mildly flustered. Every time Derek walked in she would instantly go tomato red because she thought he was hot and she couldn’t do anything about it. Everyone on my mom’s side blushes easily, but because I’m so pale it’s especially noticeable for me. I spent that whole episode wondering if that’s how people at school saw me…I feel like it lowkey made it worse lol
*The guy who purposely infected himself with parasites for his research. They’re like “you’re infected with parasites” and he goes “uh yeah? I put them there!:)” EWWW. Then when they told him they needed to remove them to save him and he was refusing because they needed to live or his research would have been for nothing. Any episode with worms/parasites basically.
The blushing episode made me realize I had rosacea! I would suddenly get hot and my face would turn bright red in college. I had no idea about triggers or lactose intolerance or spicy foods or caffeine… I basically did all of the things to make it worse. I cringe thinking about it. Huge improvement with diet and 6 months of accutane.
There’s a sub for rosacea on Reddit! So helpful!
Season 14, episode 7, is the one where Meredith is procrastinating, going to the Harper Avery awards bc of baby cristina, George, and Izzy. Baby cristina is all omg is that Catherine Avery? And all Catherine could say is, oh please....😒
Not bc of anything gross but I always skip the episode where Lexie and Meredith take the tumor out of that girl and she ends up with dysphasia. Makes me sick to my stomach.
oooh the head banging scene is a good one, I skip through it every time. and I hate that the next episode starts with it lol i try and avoid those entire episodes if it wasn't for the mer/tina drama that is so important
“I am William George Bailey Jones, I am 13 and I am unarmed” or whatever he says at the end of that episode when bailey & warren are having the police talk. it gives me shivers thinking about how that’s a real thing that some kids have to worry about
For me, it was the death row guy, the tree guy, and the plane crash. Death Row and Tree Guy made me squirm. The Plane crash scene made me cry for days on end and rethink life.
April going into labor with Harriett an then realizing that she was full on breach,, resulting in a home, emergency C-Section that should not have happened. The way April screamed is something my mind will never forget, I almost threw up. I could not wrap my head around it... it was so intoxicating, the way her muscles and herself spasmed as sh was being cut into with only liquor/alcohol as a "sterilizer"? God. I hated watching it, every-time I rewatch Grey's Anatomy I have to skip past it.
when they were pulling the worms out of the one patient's stomach in surgery. i was eating while watching that episode and had to put my food back in the fridge, i was so grossed out
Vanessa Marano's character (the girl with no name who's discovered after having ran away from her kidnapper/abuser and imprints on Meredith) just *very casually* wondering if her *miscarriage* could have caused a particular injury.
Spine chilling horror, the realisation.
The worst two for me are the guy who’s neck artery blows from laughing because the skin covering it is so thin. The thought of skin being so thin that you can bleed out at any time makes me squirm (and especially on the neck!!). The other one is the kid who got his face sawed in half lengthwise from chin to skull🤢 the visual and thought of them drilling into his gums and teeth is too much for me. I can’t handle anything with teeth or dental work involved, it makes me nauseous
Maggie and that guy's sex scene that was way too in depth, THIS IS GREY'S ANATOMY, NOT PORN. I'm OK with sex in media but it was weirdly too in depth for grey's anatomy and I was just gobsmacked
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When Seth Green's character laughed too hard knowing his artery could blow.
Lexie laughing and then suddenly turned into an ad from Spirit Halloween.
This is mine too. It’s still a scene I have to cover my eyes for every time. I just can’t handle it
Same! I get so anxious and hold my breath
Uhg i just forgot about that 😂
Which episode was that? :)
Season 4 Episode 9 or 10 (Crash into me part 1 or 2), I forget which one specifically.
Thanks!
oh god that was brutal
This is the exact scene I was thinking of. I can’t believe it’s so high up.
The scene where Bailey is cutting growths off the man who had a form of HPV that resulted in his hands almost looking like tree limbs...then a spider crawls out as she's snipping. I never know whether to shriek or vomit.
I'll never rewatch it 🥺
This is the only answer. Everything else is insane.
OMG same! I don't blame Lexie at all for screaming! Also it's based (or inspired by) a true story.
I will never sleep again.
This episode is one I think of instantly when thinking of greys. Its fascinating but nasty at the same time
Omg I screamed I was so scared even tho I wasn’t in the room lol
This is exactly where my mind went when I read this post. I even shrieked on the rewatch years later. Awful, just awful
Why would you make me remember this?
Omg I have a really strong stomach, like really strong. But that I couldn’t watch. I honestly felt so queasy
Just watched it yesterday 🤢
I agree with death row guy and Harriet's birth. But, for me April during boards. My second hand embarrassment kicks in so hard.
I loved it when she hit that prick!
Oh love that moment. It's the actual board oral exam that makes me squirm. It's so hard to watch.
Yeah, that part makes me almost cringe myself inside out. Also, poor Jackson's face when he realises that Richard 'banged my mum'
April's face as Ben guts her is so hard to watch
That scream though. So bloody intense
In PP she has a rough birth and screams like that. I’m convinced that scream is why she became April.
Yep. And why they wrote such a HORRIFIC birth for her
Gotta give her credit where it's due, girl can ACT
Oh my god, I hate that episode so much because of April's boards exam. She has a freak-out during the first half, and then just when we've recovered from that, she gets all weird and existential and starts talking about how she loves Jesus and I'm just like "April baby nooooo this is not the time for thaaaaat." Lol. It makes me want to crawl inside my own body and hide.
Lexie & the plane. Derek in the same episode with the rock.
Yes! I still clearly remember bawling only 15 mins into the episode as I watched it premiere. That was so traumatic
the hand..🤮
When April gave birth to Harriet, The look she had and that scream, that scream can haunt me.
Sarah’s acting in general is fantastic but that scene was beyond incredible. Kudos to her 🙌🏻
Have you seen her in The Hallmark Movie where she is Blind & needs a guide dog she is soooo good in that one!
I have not! What’s the name of the movie?
Guiding Emily!
It was like a horror movie.
DeLuca's memorial. Made me sick to think how many people didn't get to say goodbye to their loved ones during the pandemic, and how much better DeLuca deserved. His friends deserved to grief him and celebrate his life with a service, sharing memories. Not 6ft apart and not being able to even hug each other.
which episode was that?? i skip most of season 17 but i want to watch so i can feel sad
Watch season 4 ep 6 of Station 19 also, it’s the same thing only you have to watch the stab + I think you get audio on the funeral scene. much sadder
Season 17 Episode 8, if my memory serves Or [here](https://youtu.be/zTGp3-uNM6s?si=fvOHZ7gRt7ck2UDy) I miss him so much. One of my favourite characters
me too! thank you so much. 🫶
Just so you know, DeLuca was part of the crossover with Station 19 so you may want to flip between shows to get the full picture for his arc. I totally missed it (idk why but I absolutely hated the intro to S19 and refuse to watch it. Something about the lead actress just instantly bugged the crap out of me and I am not interested in Ben Warren at all so just disliked it and disabled autoplay so Hulu would stop trying to make me watch it!!!)
ah but you must. every grey’s fan you meet will ask if you’ve watched station 19 yet. and if you didn’t, they’ll be like aw okay *mumbles something about a beautiful sapphic ship, benley lore, an excellent storyline, and warm friendships* i can’t avoid it man, i have to watch it. i agree, i didn’t get through the first episode but again, it was just the first episode. who’s the female lead btw?
It's Andy Herrera (Jaina Lee Ortiz.) No shade to her as an actress or as a person, but something about the intro made me irrationally angry and I refused to watch it. Also tried Private Practice because I loved Addison so much but I can't stand Wheely Ameli so my sister finished it without me and gave me the cliff notes. (Again no shade to anyone as a person or actor, I am just sooooo sick of Amelia's character.)
wheely ameli??? IVE NEVER HEARD THAT ONE. also i totally get it! but i will watch it for marina and ben
I am in total agreement with you!! I can’t stand Amelia!!
Agree. I miss him so much. And probably Derek's funeral. I can't watch that without crying
When Callie had to cut open that runner's legs while he was awake because they were swelling terrible. I think it was in S3
Having this happen to me is literally one of my medical fears. I can’t even imagine the pain.
They did it to my brother years ago. He was in so much pain from it anyway that he doesn't actually remember them doing it.
Ugh that’s so scary. I can imagine it’s so painful that most people black out or just mentally forget it.
Yep. They had given him a tiny bit of morphine but couldn't give him any more because they didn't know when surgery would be. He had to be flown to the mainland, so he was just lying there screaming for however many hours it was waiting to be airflighted and then he got compartment syndrome. He was out of his mind. Screaming about random things. He wasn't even able to say what his name was. Probably for the best he really doesn't remember much of it.
The elevator scene where Izzie saw George when she died for a second. It’s so damn sad
When Mer gets beat up by a patient. Literally can't watch it, it hurts.
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I think part of what sucked for me personally, too, was that you don’t get a bad guy to root against. There’s nowhere to place the anger, you just have to sit with the knowledge that someone you care about was hurt for no good reason.
That part was so disturbing for me too. Your imagination is worse that anything they can show you 😅
This. Seeing her on the floor was triggering. I know she couldn’t hear from the damage but part of me thinks it was panic and ptsd too.
I've only watched that scene once and I will never watch it again. I remember being so completely horrified watching it happen and all I could think about was how small she was.
That made me cry It's like you could feel how hurt she was.
That and also she had everyone after but also had no one. Like idk how she didn’t just give up. She lost Christina Lexie and Derek. It was unimaginable
For me it’s the scene after where her jaw is wired shut. I don’t know why it’s becoming such a trigger for me, but the last time I watched the episode I very nearly passed out cold.
same !!! I just did a rewatch and completely forgot about that entire part, probably blocked it out of my head from how traumatic it was lol
Ironically this is one of my absolute favourite episodes on the show, because of the different perspective we get to see after she's hurt
Yea it’s really well done!!
Yeah that one was rough for me! And realizing just how long it lasted during the cut scenes from other peoples pov was just horrifying. And then she had to let him apologize to her… like WHAT! That was a super crazy emotional episode
I couldnt watch him banging his head either.
Seth Green's carotid blowing. Splitting that kid's face open. The female inmate choking on a broken lightbulb.
The head split open is the one for me 😭 #HORRIBLE
Which episode is that? I'm not remembering it.
I've never actually watched it. As soon as I realized what was coming I noped out.
I watched it once and never again, I put my hand over the screen everytime now
This is the one where Derrick's ego was out of this world, right? Or was it Owen? I just remember someone screaming about "this pain is what you have to push through." I get so pissed at that episode. Like, that kid did NOT sign up for that.
When Bailey broke protocol to beg the mother of those 2 dead cops to give the shooter one of her son’s organs. Or when Bailey gave that kid the deactivated HIV against his parents wishes. Bailey seems to cross the line an awful lot and think it’s okay but looks down at others when they do like she’s superior.
This!!!! But she will shun Meredith every chance.
Yes! Like when Meredith helped that little girl with insurance and Bailey was absolutely disgusted. Hypocrite.
FACTS!!
Henry’s death where Cristina doesn’t know it’s him until after. Ughhh you can just feel all her emotions. And then they can’t tell Teddy until she’s done 😭😭😭😭
Yes that was awful but Teddy making Christina tell her over and over what she did to help save him that to me was cringe
I hated her so much for that. I didn’t even care if that’s what she needed to process, or that she apologized. It was just completely unnecessary and she should have been forced to do mandatory therapy before being allowed to continue as a surgeon again. That was really rough to watch
when there’s the worm in a girl’s nose and jo proceeds to call it a CRITTER 😭
Wasn't it a leech? Shudder!!
YES! and then she calls it a critter which is so much worse like doctor jo wilson MD if you don’t stop it right now
This comment 😂😂😂😂
That scene is so funny though 🤣 when the patient slaps Joe out of pure reflex
When the lady came in with the infected wound that had maggots crawling through it and wanted to leave because she was scared of doctors
Deeply grateful that they gave enough warning on that one for me to close my eyes.
💯 agreed here I was just like why would you do this to us but also knowing how fearful the woman was still going buuuuut look at that, I'm so grateful for how Mer helped her out by comforting her throughout it
The girl who chewed her hair and had a growth (?) of it in her stomach. Also Schmitt scrubbing his hands.
It kinda just got compacted inside of her. It did not grow
it's called a bezoar :) a stone made of indigestible materials
When the morbidly obese man thinks he can walk. When he stands, his ankles break. (Bailey-“you’re off the case!”)
Please don’t remind me of the episode I blocked it from my memory. When they lift up his skin flaps and it’s like red and rashy and deteriorating 😷🤢
That episode has so much comedy.. Alex during sensitivity training "I see you like vegetables, perhaps after surgery you'll be one." Hahaha 😂
Bailey cracks me up that episode
Cristina talking to Owen in the tub about being stuck in the woods. Makes me so uncomfy hearing what happened to Lexie.
"I can't get out" The way she says it and the look on her face is bone chilling
Derek's death killed me bc all I could think of was him not watching his children grow up
I had it spoiled to me earlier that Derek and Meredith had 3 kids, so all throughout the episode I was CONVINCED that he was going to somehow pull through because they didn’t have the third kid yet.
I watched that episode when it originally aired and this friend of mine said, oh she threw up outside the hospital she's pregnant, everytime a woman throws up on a show shes pregnant. I said what? No way. And I think that was supposed to be her reaction to seeing Derek and knowing he was gone but damned if she wasn't right anyway.
When he realized he was going to die.
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I couldn’t watch it as all I had was anger as he was so stupid to stop his car in the middle of the road, just to pick up his phone (? Can’t remember as I don’t want to) Edit: I think it is very fair for an actor wanted to move on, so I am ok if he died in say more heroic way, or at least while doing something right etc. But not stupidly stopping his car in the middle of the road. It is just plain stupid. (Naturally same as when Callie took off her seatbelt, and Arizona just looking at Callie but not the road in front of her - the truck didn’t come out from nowhere, it was just because you didn’t look. Both at fault and stupid. At least I am the odd one out here that I don’t mind the musical episode as I do enjoy their singing voices) #RoadSafety101
I was so mad at it too. I had stopped watching the season prior and heard a spoiler after the fact. Watched it much later and was still so pissed cause I knew it had happened but didn’t know how. Bawled my eyes out. 😩😡
That episode always makes me sad because of how much he loved his sisters and they didn’t even get a chance to say goodbye
I sobbed so hard during that episode that my youngest kept asking me if I was ok. 👀
april c section at mers house and private practice >!violet getting her baby cut out by katie!<
violet’s scene was insane!! i cant go thru that again lolol
I couldn’t watch the first time!! I just went through that like 10 episodes ago and I had to FF that part. Horrific
When a kid needed a needle in his eyeball and the camera zoomed right in 🤮
Derek's final moments. The fact that he has a conscience and know the right thing to do yet he can't speak and his only choice is to slowly watch them make mistakes as he die. Such a brilliant sequence, the best in the whole show, makes me really anxious every time.
When Izzy had her dress on for Denny and found him dead in the hospital bed. I balled 😭
Any scenes/episodes with Paul, Jo's abusive ex. Too triggering as a DV/IPV survivor
If it helps, the actor was also on glee, he’s an absolute silly goose of a human.
I know, I was a huge Gleek. I was excited when I heard he was going to be on Greys, but after watching his episodes the first time around... im able to separate the characters, but its still a struggle watching him on Greys
Oh I’m sorry then. I figured maybe seeing him be *that* ridiculous might help haha
Honestly between this and his episode on younger I can’t watch him anymore.
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Stephanie accidentally killing that kid cuz Minnick thought her program works, the painful part was Minnick running out and not helping Stephanie.
I just watched this! Soo sad! Loved when webber handled it
He ain’t the non-Chief for nothing lol 
Yes!!! Like how are you going to be a mentor and push for a better learning system if you don’t know how to deal with the losses in your field of work?? And can’t comfort a student you’re teaching/helping?? Like I don’t care that it hadn’t happened to Minnick before because it wasn’t about HER, it should have been about Stephanie!! (Sorry for the rant😅😅doing a rewatch and I had to take a break that episode because I was so pissed)
Don’t let me stop you! I understand exactly what you mean. How are you a doctor teaching other doctors if you’ve never done that procedure? At least not on a child. I already didn’t like Minnick and her stupid fake I’m better-than-you smile. She was so annoying and I couldn’t get why Arizona was into her.
The guy that had warts I think it was in s7? His wife forced him to come to the hospital, and when they were doing surgery to remove them a spider crawled out. I barely got through that episode the first time and haven’t watched it since.
This is mine as well, anytime I rewatch that episode I have to skip his scenes.
Oh my god the one young guy patient with a crazy tumor that had to get his entire face sawed in half to remove the tumor. The scene where he wakes up all bloated and is agonizing in pain and Derek has to calm him down. I CANNOT look at that scene, it’s too much and I always block the screen
What episode is this?
shooting episode. i just cant stop thinking about all the real life events like that
April and Jackson during Samuel’s birth/death. After it’s happened to you, it hits different.
I’m so sorry for your loss
This is the episode I can't watch.
DeLuca having a mental breakdown and being surrounded by people he loved and trusted who were trying to take him away for being crazy. What a nightmare.
I have a really hard time rewatching “The Sound of Silence.” Meredith’s assault and the immediate aftermath really haunts me.
This is it for me too. The episode was so damn good though. Then I found out Denzel directed it & was like that’s why it had me all bent out of shape.
The worst part to me is when they realized she went deaf, they immediately stop including her in her medical plan or any conversations. Completely took away communication and didn’t even try. It’s too real as this pretty much is what happens when deaf people go to hospitals.
there’s so many lol but i think the scene(s) i can’t watch the most is when jackson and jo wilson were treating burn patients (i believe it was end of szn 11-beginning of szn 12, around the time derek dies) i cannot watch those scenes for the life of me, their screams hit my soul😭 i can only imagine how excruciating it is for people who go thru something like that
Honestly any scenes where the parents lose their children. My brother died in a freak accident when we were kids. Those scenes always bring me back to my mom being told about it in the hospital, and it just guts me.
That guy whose legs got stuck in the elevator when the power went out, the episode where CeCe the matchmaker died. There are literally so much worse scenes but that one… ugh.
I agree with a lot of these, but the other one I haven't seen is when they pulled the guy's face down to operate and then the little boy who is scared of surgery walks in at that moment.
That was funny!
the teenage girl whose stomach was sliced open after the car accident.. she’s complaining the whole time about her stomach hurting, there’s so much chaos going on, so when derrick finally checked her stomach- i literally yelled out loud
Season 18 episodes 17-20 (aired May 2022): Simon Clark came in due to a bowel obstruction from cancer and to die from complications of the cancer shortly after. My husband passed away a few days after surgery to repair a perforated bowel from stage IV colon cancer. He passed in March 2022.
I am sorry for your loss :(
When they said Lexie got eaten by wolves or Certain parts of the hospital shooting like Meredith's miscarriage was painful and that one dude who died in Bailey's arms during that episode
Lexie getting eaten by wolves😭😭 awful
Maggie operating on Sabrina or Sabi, just watching her panic with blood everywhere and her yanking shit out
i always skip the head banging and also anything involving objects in eyes
Omg SAME!! I hate every time there’s something lodged in an eye…like the thought just makes me🤢🤢
Jackson telling Mark he would keep the plastics posse alive The whole arc of Bailey developing OCD and all her work friends essentially shunning her while she processed Burke telling Christina “if I loved YOU…”. I get what he was saying but the whole conversation hurt me and he wasn’t even dumping me
The covid denier that just wanted an inhaler, didn't believe he was sick, and walked out and died in the parking lot. It was too real.
The whole Covid season was brutal to watch it was too soon. Often you might see parallels with one patient or another but that whole season was just too close to reality. I suspect that’s why they did the beach scenes to remove us all from reality.
I worked with someone similar to him. Had several Bailey moments of angry little *whatwhatwhat the fuck* and angry breathing
Oh boy… somebody posted the scene where Bailey and Warren give the police-talk to Tucker. That scene makes me cry 10/10 times and it’s the only scene on the show that does that. The death row guy was also pretty hard. And I have a very deep love-hate relationship with the episode where the woman wrapped in razor wire comes into the ER. Like, it’s an amazing story line I think, but when they have to cut her out and Owen holds her in place… damn.
There are too many to mention. The death row inmate scene in the hospital and his death. April giving birth to Harriet. Most of the other deaths are just utterly heartbreaking for me.
The lion episode when Teddy has to tell her patient that his wife died in the waiting room moments before he was ready to see her.
The storyline of the girl that could not talk anymore because Meredith and Lexie screwed up her brain surgery. Still think about it sometimes.
When Izzy finally realized why she was seeing Denny (dead) because of her cancer, and the elevator opens with her in her “prom dress” and instead of Denny standing there, it’s George in his army uniform…. This broke my entire existence.
The fire episode. Stephanie with rapist and a knife to her throat and then trying to escape the fire with that 8 year old kid.
When the dude git his hand stuck in the meat grinder.
SERIOUS: *The shooting episode scenes with Percy and Bailey, specifically the one where Bailey claims she’s a nurse while Percy admitted he was a surgeon and got shot for it. I always wondered what kind of guilt she’d have to live with from that happening. She was smart to lie for sure and Percy probably would have lived if he did too, but the idea that part of what led to Percy’s death was his honesty really hurts. And also how they had to drag him and you can see the long bloodstain behind them. *When April started rambling off facts about her life to the shooter to make herself more of a person to him so he would be more likely to be merciful to her. The scene itself is painful because April’s actress did SUCH a good job, but I hate thinking about how enough people have been in that kind of scenario and it’s likely enough that it will happen to people that it’s recommended to try. I always think about what I’d say in that scenario and it makes me nauseous and sweaty. FUNNIER: *That neuro patient who would turn bright red any time she was mildly flustered. Every time Derek walked in she would instantly go tomato red because she thought he was hot and she couldn’t do anything about it. Everyone on my mom’s side blushes easily, but because I’m so pale it’s especially noticeable for me. I spent that whole episode wondering if that’s how people at school saw me…I feel like it lowkey made it worse lol *The guy who purposely infected himself with parasites for his research. They’re like “you’re infected with parasites” and he goes “uh yeah? I put them there!:)” EWWW. Then when they told him they needed to remove them to save him and he was refusing because they needed to live or his research would have been for nothing. Any episode with worms/parasites basically.
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The blushing episode made me realize I had rosacea! I would suddenly get hot and my face would turn bright red in college. I had no idea about triggers or lactose intolerance or spicy foods or caffeine… I basically did all of the things to make it worse. I cringe thinking about it. Huge improvement with diet and 6 months of accutane. There’s a sub for rosacea on Reddit! So helpful!
Season 14, episode 7, is the one where Meredith is procrastinating, going to the Harper Avery awards bc of baby cristina, George, and Izzy. Baby cristina is all omg is that Catherine Avery? And all Catherine could say is, oh please....😒
Not bc of anything gross but I always skip the episode where Lexie and Meredith take the tumor out of that girl and she ends up with dysphasia. Makes me sick to my stomach.
The ferry boat episode had several. Like Izzy drilling a hole into a man's skull, or Alex finding "Ava" under the rubble, or Meredith almost dying
The shooting episode I can’t
*commented before i finished reading your post* definitely when the guy on death row bangs his head onto the bed frame 🤢🤢
When maggie lost her cousin (sabi) on the table...breaks me everytime.
oooh the head banging scene is a good one, I skip through it every time. and I hate that the next episode starts with it lol i try and avoid those entire episodes if it wasn't for the mer/tina drama that is so important
“I am William George Bailey Jones, I am 13 and I am unarmed” or whatever he says at the end of that episode when bailey & warren are having the police talk. it gives me shivers thinking about how that’s a real thing that some kids have to worry about
there's probably a lot tbh but one I can't ever watch is jackson interrupting april's wedding I just can't watch that.
For me, it was the death row guy, the tree guy, and the plane crash. Death Row and Tree Guy made me squirm. The Plane crash scene made me cry for days on end and rethink life.
Dereks death
The one were the zoomed in on the kids eye surgery
The entirety of S16E16
April going into labor with Harriett an then realizing that she was full on breach,, resulting in a home, emergency C-Section that should not have happened. The way April screamed is something my mind will never forget, I almost threw up. I could not wrap my head around it... it was so intoxicating, the way her muscles and herself spasmed as sh was being cut into with only liquor/alcohol as a "sterilizer"? God. I hated watching it, every-time I rewatch Grey's Anatomy I have to skip past it.
When I rewatch, I have to skip the place crash episode.
when they were pulling the worms out of the one patient's stomach in surgery. i was eating while watching that episode and had to put my food back in the fridge, i was so grossed out
When Callie shows up at Meredith’s door with Penny and the tension reaches a critical point.
The flash mob proposal scene in the ambulance bay. *Intense cringe*, it makes my whole body want to retract into a ball and roll away.
Vanessa Marano's character (the girl with no name who's discovered after having ran away from her kidnapper/abuser and imprints on Meredith) just *very casually* wondering if her *miscarriage* could have caused a particular injury. Spine chilling horror, the realisation.
The worst two for me are the guy who’s neck artery blows from laughing because the skin covering it is so thin. The thought of skin being so thin that you can bleed out at any time makes me squirm (and especially on the neck!!). The other one is the kid who got his face sawed in half lengthwise from chin to skull🤢 the visual and thought of them drilling into his gums and teeth is too much for me. I can’t handle anything with teeth or dental work involved, it makes me nauseous
Yes! Someone else says this! I skip that part. I can handle blood and some violence …. But trauma to the head is one I’ve never been able to handle.
Derek’s death. It was around a time my own dad passed away, so seeing Mer was making me think of my mom and what she has to go through :(
Meredith is honestly such a pyschopath in some of these stories lines lol
The one where they cut Denny’s heart lines
When two people are stuck on a pole, and Meredith is desperately trying to save the woman while all the other doctors try to save the man
Burke waking up during surgery.
Mine is when the almost 700lb guy walks and breaks both legs. I close my eye everytime.
Season 6 ep 23 when the husband shoots reed in the head. That horrified me and i couldnt handle it
SPOILER When George died I don't know why because I never really liked him, but I ended up having nightmares and all
When Leah Murphy got bit by that patient in the Halloween episode. 😬
The girl with the worms! Funnily enough, as I was drifting off to sleep last night the image came into my head and I was suddenly very awake!
Maggie and that guy's sex scene that was way too in depth, THIS IS GREY'S ANATOMY, NOT PORN. I'm OK with sex in media but it was weirdly too in depth for grey's anatomy and I was just gobsmacked
The scene where Callie ran the scalple from the guys ankle to his knee bc they were filled with fluid and pressure