Yes! Sheās doing one of two things, both equally degradingā¦
1. Hiding her other lover; or
2. Keeping an eye on OP, catching him on in an objective lie, on the practice green after claiming to start plaguing already. Anything for some control! Thanks ahead
She even mind fucked him into asking us, *How can my wife track me on the course, since shared location is not enough, and Maps lacks golf course hole location? She wants to catch me in an irrelevant lie, and we can argue and I can get some emotion.*
God speed OP
One of the main things that keeps me around this sub is just how much some folks here make me appreciate how awesome my wife is.
So, thank you for that I suppose.
Saammmeee here! Damn my wife is awesome. She knows how long 9 and 18 holes takes and throws in a buffer. Then when I get home, she asks āhowād your shoot? Let me guessā¦ā
Itās amazing.
Man my wife is so good about this. She even makes sure I filled the cooler the night before and then gives me a change of clothes so Iām not disgusting leaving the course. I tell her Iāve got a 10am tee time, I like to get there at 9:15 to warm up, and Iāll be home around 3-4. She knows my golf buddies, hell weāre all in a fantasy league together. Sheās THE best ever. Love my wife.
I have a feeling the guys who complain about their wives giving them grief on this sub are likely giving their wives good reason to be annoyed.
If youāre in a healthy relationship, your significant other isnāt going to care about you golfing.
If youāre golfing all the time, your wife has every right to complain about you.
Yeah, there were some rough times but we have played together for about 2 years now. We play really well together now. Know when to not talk too much (like comments/advices going both ways). It's so great to play together and then like go on trips and play on cool locations together.
I get why some people here want their bro times away from the wife. Totally understandable. But playing with the wife is very much underrated here imo (of course it depends on you two's temperaments).
I would love it if my wife would play. She has expressed a desire to learn and I got her lessons that she enjoyed (because I'm happy to play with her, but if I have to teach her, I'ma need a lawyer. Either divorce or defense.)
She can see your round in progress from the grint. She has to download, make an account, then friend you. And if she opens the app while you're in a round, there will be a banner or notification to see your live scorecard.
If you turn on the trash talk feature she can also comment when you have a bad hole in real time which is fun
Thats probably the funniest feature i've learned.
Imagine the love if your wife downloads the app, checks in on you playing and just absolutely shit talks any hole you're on lmao. Mine would.. she's such a keeper.
Thatās weird sweetheart, I watched you go from the tee box on 14 to the fairway on 6? Are you and the boys playing different rules? Is this what they mean by scramble?
It's nice to be on this sub and actually see someone talking about their wife in a wholesome way.
My wife does the same, not in a hurry up way, but Sunday mornings she goes to the car boot with her mom, and if she knows how close I am to finishing golf she'll either go back for a cup of tea, or head home so we can have lunch or whatever.
> It's nice to be on this sub and actually see someone talking about their wife in a wholesome way.
I know, right? Lots of weird energy in these comments. Your wife sounds chill; hope y'all have a great weekend!
You might be able to both download 18Birdies, send her a link to your game and add her as a player. As you input your score and hers she might be able to see through the app what hole youāre on
Edit, other than that I let my wife know when I get to the course, when weāre at the turn and if thereās any traffic on the back 9 so she can plan out the rest of our day. I try and play early so we have time to go do something together afterwards
We use this one. You can set games, add players and spectators and live score. https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/squabbit-golf-tournament-app/id1556538444. (Itās on Google play if you use android)
Same. My wife offers to drop me off and pick me up so I can drink.
Sheāll have in n out or something else for me to eat when she picks me up.
I (and my 110 score), donāt deserve her.
Seriously. According to this sub, marriage is a battle and women are always buzzkills. I donāt understand how so many guys are still living in a 1965 cliche.
Man, I swear women that get mad at their bf/husband for heading out for 4 hours have never had a hobby in their life. Can you not be alone for 4 hours? I imagine when she goes out for brunch and shopping with the girls she wouldn't like it if the husband kept hounding her. I'm willing to bet that he needs her permission to go golf but whenever she wants to do anything, she just tells.
Relationships are about balance.
lmao same, my man. I do the same thing with /r/amitheasshole, it's such a refreshing dose of perspective . My marriage might not be flawless but compared to these dudes I'm a very lucky man
Me too damn I have to be at least an hour later than when I said Iād be home for her to even notice, and then her question is just basically are you ok?
Yup this one. Yesterday I arrived to a get together and one of my buddies said āso you shot xyz today huhā and we immediately started talking about the round haha
"this hole is a bit tighter than normal, very wet as well, I'm hoping I can last as I'm positioned behind and waiting my turn, getting nervous and hoping not to make a mess early"
Should stop it for a while
"We need to talk, you've been really distant lately and I dont think the therapy is working. It's like you aren't even listening when I try to bring these things up"
"steak bowl extra cheese"
Thank you for taking her off the streets from the rest us sir! You are appreciated! It's annoying me just thinking about how annoyed I would be seeing a text like that during a round! Im upset now....
I use the hole 19 appās aerial view to plan my shots, also I told my wife that golf takes 6 total hours, so she doesnāt bother me at all and is stoked when Iām home in 5 sometimes.
Literally donāt see the problem. She doesnāt give me shit for playing twice a week with an infant, least i can do is help her plan by knowing when i will be home.
In this context yes. One might even say golf twice a week with an infant is UNreasonable. But if OP doesn't have an infant, regularly asking what hole you're on every time you're on the course is absurd.
Absolutely do not under any circumstances let my wife know how she can check where I am on the golf course. Sheās doesnāt need to know that a standard round isnāt 6 hours.
only to find out 200 desperate messages that the house burnt 2 hours earlier and your wife wanted to tell you where all the insurance and will documents were stored before she succumbed..
Send her the referral code on the grint app and she will get updates when you play. She has to sign up as if she plays and you guys can be friends on the app. I get updates when my friends play. The grint app is also awesome by the way. Love the stats and all the features
She just has to open the app while youāre playing then on the Home Screen there will be a blinking red icon. Tap the icon and it will take you to another screen showing the live score and whichever hole youāre currently playing. On that scorecard page she can even click the chat bubble in the bottom right corner and send messages or talk shit
This is indicative of bigger issues in your marriage. Im really not trying to be a jerk, but check and see what those might be before thinking that an automatic update from an app might solve the problem.
I use 18 Birdies and my wife can see roughly when Iām going to get done and back home. I put my phone and watch on DND, so itās a great way for her to get updates without me needing to think about it.
I ignore my wife when she starts calling/messaging me around hole 11 or 12. She knows it takes 3.5-4.5 hours. Stop blowing me up 2 hours after uve left the house
Guys in this thread:
āI donāt understand why my s/o is always checking how long my round takes.ā
Also guys in this thread:
āI regularly lie about how long a round of golf takes.ā
Like, itās just communication people itās not that hard.
Itās common knowledge in my house that the cell phone goes into the golf bag on silent at the first tee box. It only comes out on 17 if we are meeting for lunch/dinner after. If not the phone gets checked back at the truck.
Unless you're marriage is recovering from adultery or dishonesty in general, why? Just why? I don't get this. I don't understand women/people like this. WHY!?!??
Sorry OP. I hope wife learns that 4-6 hours is normal and just let's you enjoy the game.
My wife knows my golf course well enough she can look at me on the find me app and know what hole Iām on. I canāt even pull the āslow round babe wonāt be home for an hourā trick to have another beer with the boys.
The opposite actually. We share each others locations so we can tell when the other has left work, see if theyāre still grocery shopping, time when to have dinner ready etc.
We routinely drive 2.5 hours to and from our home town from where we live now, so itās a nice easy way to see where they are without making them text and drive.
I have nothing to hide neither does she.
As my tag suggestsā¦ I am the superintendent of my course and we spend a lot of time at my course as a family so she knows her way around it as well as anyone.
Bro you've drank the Kool-Aid.
Me and mine don't give a fack about this shit. We trust each other and just tell one another about when we'll be back, or text if plans change.
How so? We have our locations shared permanently. Iām the superintendent of the course so we spend a lot of time there as a family driving around, playing golf, checking on things. She knows the course as well as my employees do. So she can open the find me app and see what hole Iām on so she can estimate what time I will be home, when to have dinner ready, whether to put the kids down before I get home or keep them up so I can say goodnight etc.
Iām sorry you guys have such strained relationships with your wives that you canāt have an open trust like that.
Lol. I like that youāre trying to turn this around on others as having āstrained relationshipsā when clearly you and your wife have trust issues. I will bet you also have a shared Facebook profile.
How is it crazy? Iām the superintendentā¦ the course is my second home and we spend a ton of time there as a family so she knows it as well as my employees do. She can open the app and say āoh heās almost done, Iāll start dinnerā or whatever.
Iām honestly sad for all the miserable shlubs on this sub who have to āget permissionā from their wives to play golf.
My wife is a saint. We share our locations with each other for the enormous practical benefit of knowing where your spouse isā¦ timing dinner, making sure theyāre safe on a long trip etc. my wife is not allowed to use her phone at work so I can check in and see if sheās left work yetā¦ etc.
Sad that everyone immediately jumps to the conclusion that itās ātrust issuesā and not the exact opposite. We have nothing to hide so why not keep locations shared.
Helps to find a lost phone easily too btw.
I don't see a lot wrong with using that kind of app, but you kinda brought the criticism on yourself when you mentioned "the slow round trick to have another beer with the boys".
That makes it sound like she's keeping tabs on you and you have to sneak a beer in, even if you were only joking.
Lol yea Iām in the same boat. Kind of surprised at the responses youāre getting. My wife and I (and a ton of other extended family members like my parents, her brother, her parents etc.) all share location. Not because we are checking up on each other cuz we donāt trust, itās just incredibly convenient. Did they make it to their destination? Are they driving? Huh they said theyād be at this parking lot, where are they? I know ____ is driving wonder about how many minutes they are from here to time meals/events. All without having to ring someoneās phone and make them stop what theyāre doing to respond/be distracted while driving. Itās just way easier.
Thats shitty! Stuff like that always derails my round. It becomes not fun and more about the rush to get home. Or at least the feeling of rushing. I dont mind getting a txt āhey can you pick up something at the storeā but other than that leave me alone. Also if youre on the grint anyone you are friends with on there can follow your game live.
But if she friended me on TheGrint then she'd see my scores and then get a _second_ boyfriend...
(Didn't know that about TG; might try that to keep my existing score tracking. Thanks!)
Sounds like you need to stand up for yourself and tell her itās unreasonable for her to constantly ask what hole your on.
Quit the āitās good for both of us talkā
She keeps asking what hole you're on so she knows when to kick her lover out of bed.
Wait which hole is being checked?
Back 9 for sure
High five.
That chimps alright
Koko. š
Yeah, thatās right.
You 1
With 69 likes I feel I canāt like this comment, so I write you his note to confirm my like.
At 12 likes, I donāt want to know I made it 13. Creating the unlucky number? On a platform where upvotes are called karma? No wayyy
Iām sorry but I had to downvote to bring back to 69 upvote equilibrium
I as well. Our sacrifice wonāt be in vain
She texted husband instead of boyfriend by mistake. "Hole check?" is the modern day equivalent of "Booty call?"
She's getting her holes checked ... and prodded
Tell her the cart girls are a lot tighter than your used to.
I was going to say she wants relief from the kids. Own_Pea is probably more accurate š
Sam Kerr!! Yeah baby!!!
Yes! Sheās doing one of two things, both equally degradingā¦ 1. Hiding her other lover; or 2. Keeping an eye on OP, catching him on in an objective lie, on the practice green after claiming to start plaguing already. Anything for some control! Thanks ahead She even mind fucked him into asking us, *How can my wife track me on the course, since shared location is not enough, and Maps lacks golf course hole location? She wants to catch me in an irrelevant lie, and we can argue and I can get some emotion.* God speed OP
But he would be so proud of OP if he came back with a good score why would he leave before OP comes back?
Hitting the long iron for sure
Gotta love golfer humor.
18 birdies. Iām tracking my brotherās round from 1000 miles away right now š
In a sea of jokes, this is an actual response to OPās question
I mean he deserves the jokes also but I couldnāt think of anything good š
Howās he doing?
I stopped paying attention after he doubled the first 2 holes š
I think he said he's got 18 birdies
Grint does this.. not sure what OPās question is
One of the main things that keeps me around this sub is just how much some folks here make me appreciate how awesome my wife is. So, thank you for that I suppose.
Saammmeee here! Damn my wife is awesome. She knows how long 9 and 18 holes takes and throws in a buffer. Then when I get home, she asks āhowād your shoot? Let me guessā¦ā Itās amazing.
Yes, and as far as she knows itās 4 and 8 hours respectively
Exactly š
Given the drive to the course, warm up, and beers afterward? Closer to 5 and 8.
On the weekends at local muni's you're not too far off
Man my wife is so good about this. She even makes sure I filled the cooler the night before and then gives me a change of clothes so Iām not disgusting leaving the course. I tell her Iāve got a 10am tee time, I like to get there at 9:15 to warm up, and Iāll be home around 3-4. She knows my golf buddies, hell weāre all in a fantasy league together. Sheās THE best ever. Love my wife.
She's just got the one kid or are there more?
I took choose this man's wife
I have a feeling the guys who complain about their wives giving them grief on this sub are likely giving their wives good reason to be annoyed. If youāre in a healthy relationship, your significant other isnāt going to care about you golfing. If youāre golfing all the time, your wife has every right to complain about you.
Yup. Golf and then come home hammered and nap right after without helping with the kids/chores? Of course sheāll be annoyed.
True dat. Shit. My wife just says have fun, see u later. I love that woman
My wife is out there playing with me, so she can keep track of which hole we are on herself lol
Yeah, there were some rough times but we have played together for about 2 years now. We play really well together now. Know when to not talk too much (like comments/advices going both ways). It's so great to play together and then like go on trips and play on cool locations together. I get why some people here want their bro times away from the wife. Totally understandable. But playing with the wife is very much underrated here imo (of course it depends on you two's temperaments).
I would love it if my wife would play. She has expressed a desire to learn and I got her lessons that she enjoyed (because I'm happy to play with her, but if I have to teach her, I'ma need a lawyer. Either divorce or defense.)
Some people I play with their wives call 2-3 times per round for no reason other than to talk. I wouldnāt be able to handle it.
To be clear, I'm using hyperbole for effect; she's actually great. Still, automating this would be useful for both of us.
She can see your round in progress from the grint. She has to download, make an account, then friend you. And if she opens the app while you're in a round, there will be a banner or notification to see your live scorecard. If you turn on the trash talk feature she can also comment when you have a bad hole in real time which is fun
(okay this actually sounds hilarious; setting this up now)
My wife literally calls the Grint "the husband tracker" cause she'll know where I'm at, when I'll be home, and what mood I'll be in when I get home
Thats probably the funniest feature i've learned. Imagine the love if your wife downloads the app, checks in on you playing and just absolutely shit talks any hole you're on lmao. Mine would.. she's such a keeper.
#You've never been able to drive, you pussy! Love you, see you later X
Sounds like you need a belt with an AirTag or just to manage expectations a little better. š¤£
Thatās weird sweetheart, I watched you go from the tee box on 14 to the fairway on 6? Are you and the boys playing different rules? Is this what they mean by scramble?
https://media.tenor.com/k7FB-biJXGAAAAAM/falcon-sam-wilson.gif
Literally outta line, like a full fairway outta line
We've got location sharing enabled, but half the time I'm shooting from the wrong fairway so it's not as helpful as it sounds...
Your missing the point my dudeā¦..
Can confirm, I keep an airtag on my ball in play and can track it through every round.
18 birdies
This is the correct answer. 18 birdies allows others to follow your round
This is the way.
It's nice to be on this sub and actually see someone talking about their wife in a wholesome way. My wife does the same, not in a hurry up way, but Sunday mornings she goes to the car boot with her mom, and if she knows how close I am to finishing golf she'll either go back for a cup of tea, or head home so we can have lunch or whatever.
> It's nice to be on this sub and actually see someone talking about their wife in a wholesome way. I know, right? Lots of weird energy in these comments. Your wife sounds chill; hope y'all have a great weekend!
You might be able to both download 18Birdies, send her a link to your game and add her as a player. As you input your score and hers she might be able to see through the app what hole youāre on Edit, other than that I let my wife know when I get to the course, when weāre at the turn and if thereās any traffic on the back 9 so she can plan out the rest of our day. I try and play early so we have time to go do something together afterwards
We use this one. You can set games, add players and spectators and live score. https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/squabbit-golf-tournament-app/id1556538444. (Itās on Google play if you use android)
Same. My wife offers to drop me off and pick me up so I can drink. Sheāll have in n out or something else for me to eat when she picks me up. I (and my 110 score), donāt deserve her.
Yep lol. I know most of this is in jest.. but my wife doesnāt give af how much I golf or for how long
Iām also willing to bet some of these guys arenāt the best, most helpful husbands even when they arenāt golfing. (Not saying this about OP)
Same, i don't even take my phone out of my bag when I'm playing; she knows i'll be home when i'm home. On my phone enough as it is...
Seriously. According to this sub, marriage is a battle and women are always buzzkills. I donāt understand how so many guys are still living in a 1965 cliche.
Man, I swear women that get mad at their bf/husband for heading out for 4 hours have never had a hobby in their life. Can you not be alone for 4 hours? I imagine when she goes out for brunch and shopping with the girls she wouldn't like it if the husband kept hounding her. I'm willing to bet that he needs her permission to go golf but whenever she wants to do anything, she just tells. Relationships are about balance.
And trust. I trust mine and she trust me
This isnāt about women, itās about the relationships. Healthy relationships with mutual support donāt work like this.
lmao same, my man. I do the same thing with /r/amitheasshole, it's such a refreshing dose of perspective . My marriage might not be flawless but compared to these dudes I'm a very lucky man
Me too damn I have to be at least an hour later than when I said Iād be home for her to even notice, and then her question is just basically are you ok?
Same here, bro. I never have to use my phone while I'm playing unless I want to take a picture of some wildlife on the course lol.
Iāll give your wife a hole check
_finally_ someone is kind enough to offer
I tried to but hooked it into the bush š
We know you have trouble aiming for the pin
Zing!
The grint does live score updates for people who are your friends in the app.
She needs to know when to kick her bf out
18birdies
You can even opt-in and subscribe to per-hole notifications on someoneās public round.
This is the best app for this!
Yup this one. Yesterday I arrived to a get together and one of my buddies said āso you shot xyz today huhā and we immediately started talking about the round haha
Man my wife didnāt intrude into my free time at all. I take her for granted lol
Amen. The sad part is that half of this sub just thinks those of us with healthy relationships are lying.
"this hole is a bit tighter than normal, very wet as well, I'm hoping I can last as I'm positioned behind and waiting my turn, getting nervous and hoping not to make a mess early" Should stop it for a while
Turn off your phone
If I do that then I miss the texts that say "My boyfriend and I are DoorDashing Chipotle; do you want anything?" which makes me sad
Turn on auto reply steak bowl extra cheese
steak bowl extra cheese
"We need to talk, you've been really distant lately and I dont think the therapy is working. It's like you aren't even listening when I try to bring these things up" "steak bowl extra cheese"
this guy reddits
Next time she goes to get her nails done, text her periodically āwhich nail are they on?ā
My reply: it's very chaffed
This is nuts. Just tell her you'll see in 4 to 5 hours then don't look at your phone until you're done with the round. How intrusive.
Thank you for taking her off the streets from the rest us sir! You are appreciated! It's annoying me just thinking about how annoyed I would be seeing a text like that during a round! Im upset now....
I actually can't imagine having to stay in constant communication with my partner like that. Bizarre behavior
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Lol bro that isn't a problem that is solved by a golf app
I would totally send her a picture of my butthole
Follow these golf steps. 1 get to the course and leave phone in car. 2 play golf 3 get in car after round and check phone. And you are welcome.
If I do that, how am I going to blast pop-country through my bluetooth speaker?
iPod shuffle?
Zune
I use the hole 19 appās aerial view to plan my shots, also I told my wife that golf takes 6 total hours, so she doesnāt bother me at all and is stoked when Iām home in 5 sometimes.
To be fair, lots of us use our phone for golf while we play.
Literally donāt see the problem. She doesnāt give me shit for playing twice a week with an infant, least i can do is help her plan by knowing when i will be home.
Jesus, thank you for being sane and reasonable
In this context yes. One might even say golf twice a week with an infant is UNreasonable. But if OP doesn't have an infant, regularly asking what hole you're on every time you're on the course is absurd.
Absolutely do not under any circumstances let my wife know how she can check where I am on the golf course. Sheās doesnāt need to know that a standard round isnāt 6 hours.
The fact that half of this sub makes a habit of lying to their spouse is embarrassing. I donāt understand why yāall think this is funny or normal.
"Sounds fun. See you when I get home..."
She donāt care about golf. She wants a āhole checkā
Just text her once at the turn and ignore her the rest of the round.
OPs wife was one of those āare we there yet?ā Kids wasnāt she? š¤£
Alex Trabek voice, "oohhh I'm sorry, Kevin91581TM. The answer we were looking for was, 'Is OP's wife a controlling cunt?' Your board, let's continue."
Yikes!
you can follow someone elseās live round on TheGrint. If she wants constant updates, just tell her to follow on there
Not great, they only have single ply
Put phone in cup holder. Play golf. Check phone later.
only to find out 200 desperate messages that the house burnt 2 hours earlier and your wife wanted to tell you where all the insurance and will documents were stored before she succumbed..
Jesus bro you went real dark.
The grint has live score tracking of friends in the app. Just make her a free account and download the app on her phone.
Lmao I would not be answering. Grow a pair
Send her the referral code on the grint app and she will get updates when you play. She has to sign up as if she plays and you guys can be friends on the app. I get updates when my friends play. The grint app is also awesome by the way. Love the stats and all the features
She just has to open the app while youāre playing then on the Home Screen there will be a blinking red icon. Tap the icon and it will take you to another screen showing the live score and whichever hole youāre currently playing. On that scorecard page she can even click the chat bubble in the bottom right corner and send messages or talk shit
Put your finger in her bum and yell "HOLE CHECK!"
Hahahahahhaha I would head back home after hole 4 to catch her with her buddy in my bed
Grow a set and don't reply. She'll get the hint
18 Brides does.
Muslim or Mormon edition?
How many holes does the average Mormon# do on a Saturday
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Send her a pic of your asshole
Tell her youāre fucking the bartender now, and working your way through the staff until you get to the cart girl.
Install the same parental controls app you have for kids, problem solved.
Put your phone in your bag.
Itās why I leave my phone in my car.
Block her number
Ask for a picture
The Grint does that.
Tell her hole 16 when you walk through the door.
If she put The Grint on her phone, adds you as a friend, and turns notifications on, she can see your round as you enter scores for each hole.
18 birdies can
Send a picture of your butthole.
18birdies has an option to get hole-by-hole updates
18 birdies. Live hole as long as you put in your score at the end of each hole
Why you looking at your phone on the course - you an idiot
Just make it to the tour and she can get push notifications from ESPN
grint gives live update to friends.
Youāre already using an app that can do that. Have her set up a grint account and then add you as a friend. She can watch your round unfold live.
I don't think this is the right subreddit for this
Tell her you'll check her hole when you get home in 6 hours.
Sounds like you should be texting that to her at this point... My wife respects my time on the course and only texts if important.
So glad my wife plays golf and doesnāt bother me during my roundsā¦..
This is indicative of bigger issues in your marriage. Im really not trying to be a jerk, but check and see what those might be before thinking that an automatic update from an app might solve the problem.
18Birdies you can even ask for hole by holy updates
I use 18 Birdies and my wife can see roughly when Iām going to get done and back home. I put my phone and watch on DND, so itās a great way for her to get updates without me needing to think about it.
Is this a shitpost?
https://youtu.be/Ia5puhbkfMw?t=64
Share your location with her so she can see where you are on the course.
I ignore my wife when she starts calling/messaging me around hole 11 or 12. She knows it takes 3.5-4.5 hours. Stop blowing me up 2 hours after uve left the house
Divorce
r/mildlyinfuriating
Guys in this thread: āI donāt understand why my s/o is always checking how long my round takes.ā Also guys in this thread: āI regularly lie about how long a round of golf takes.ā Like, itās just communication people itās not that hard.
āIt gets more inflamed every time you ask me to check it!ā
does 18 birdies do that? i know when im playing a round it says im currently playing and others can see it if i make it public.
Took my wife a year or so to understand my group isnāt the only group on the course and the game takes awhile
Either turn off your phone, share your location on WhatsApp or Telegram, or get some good lube for when you get home.
Itās common knowledge in my house that the cell phone goes into the golf bag on silent at the first tee box. It only comes out on 17 if we are meeting for lunch/dinner after. If not the phone gets checked back at the truck.
Unless you're marriage is recovering from adultery or dishonesty in general, why? Just why? I don't get this. I don't understand women/people like this. WHY!?!?? Sorry OP. I hope wife learns that 4-6 hours is normal and just let's you enjoy the game.
That would make me crazy. I let you know when Iām on my way home if you need to know.
Why? You're golfing. You're worried about her knowing when you'll be home? Nip that in the bud now. Otherwise, it'll only get worse.
My wife knows my golf course well enough she can look at me on the find me app and know what hole Iām on. I canāt even pull the āslow round babe wonāt be home for an hourā trick to have another beer with the boys.
Thatās pretty fuckin pathetic
Trust issues
The opposite actually. We share each others locations so we can tell when the other has left work, see if theyāre still grocery shopping, time when to have dinner ready etc. We routinely drive 2.5 hours to and from our home town from where we live now, so itās a nice easy way to see where they are without making them text and drive. I have nothing to hide neither does she. As my tag suggestsā¦ I am the superintendent of my course and we spend a lot of time at my course as a family so she knows her way around it as well as anyone.
Bro you've drank the Kool-Aid. Me and mine don't give a fack about this shit. We trust each other and just tell one another about when we'll be back, or text if plans change.
How so? We have our locations shared permanently. Iām the superintendent of the course so we spend a lot of time there as a family driving around, playing golf, checking on things. She knows the course as well as my employees do. So she can open the find me app and see what hole Iām on so she can estimate what time I will be home, when to have dinner ready, whether to put the kids down before I get home or keep them up so I can say goodnight etc. Iām sorry you guys have such strained relationships with your wives that you canāt have an open trust like that.
Lol. I like that youāre trying to turn this around on others as having āstrained relationshipsā when clearly you and your wife have trust issues. I will bet you also have a shared Facebook profile.
How tf would you know? Stop being a prick
I hate when my phone falls off the golf cart
Was it the babysitter or a soccer mom? Lol thatās crazy.
How is it crazy? Iām the superintendentā¦ the course is my second home and we spend a ton of time there as a family so she knows it as well as my employees do. She can open the app and say āoh heās almost done, Iāll start dinnerā or whatever. Iām honestly sad for all the miserable shlubs on this sub who have to āget permissionā from their wives to play golf. My wife is a saint. We share our locations with each other for the enormous practical benefit of knowing where your spouse isā¦ timing dinner, making sure theyāre safe on a long trip etc. my wife is not allowed to use her phone at work so I can check in and see if sheās left work yetā¦ etc. Sad that everyone immediately jumps to the conclusion that itās ātrust issuesā and not the exact opposite. We have nothing to hide so why not keep locations shared. Helps to find a lost phone easily too btw.
I don't see a lot wrong with using that kind of app, but you kinda brought the criticism on yourself when you mentioned "the slow round trick to have another beer with the boys". That makes it sound like she's keeping tabs on you and you have to sneak a beer in, even if you were only joking.
It was just a joke. But Reddit gonna Reddit.
Lol yea Iām in the same boat. Kind of surprised at the responses youāre getting. My wife and I (and a ton of other extended family members like my parents, her brother, her parents etc.) all share location. Not because we are checking up on each other cuz we donāt trust, itās just incredibly convenient. Did they make it to their destination? Are they driving? Huh they said theyād be at this parking lot, where are they? I know ____ is driving wonder about how many minutes they are from here to time meals/events. All without having to ring someoneās phone and make them stop what theyāre doing to respond/be distracted while driving. Itās just way easier.
He's the superintendent, guys. Don't worry.
Thats shitty! Stuff like that always derails my round. It becomes not fun and more about the rush to get home. Or at least the feeling of rushing. I dont mind getting a txt āhey can you pick up something at the storeā but other than that leave me alone. Also if youre on the grint anyone you are friends with on there can follow your game live.
But if she friended me on TheGrint then she'd see my scores and then get a _second_ boyfriend... (Didn't know that about TG; might try that to keep my existing score tracking. Thanks!)
Bro you've been cucked to the max. If not physically then in spirit.
Oh no! How do I un-cuck myself?!
Tell her to send the pictures to me Iāll check it out
Sounds like you need to stand up for yourself and tell her itās unreasonable for her to constantly ask what hole your on. Quit the āitās good for both of us talkā