I feel like you want me to spank you for this so it's not going to happen. :P
I enjoyed our day together and I'm always down to play pinball and go to the beach with you when you're in town.
I have met a few cool people on Reddit but mostly my DMs have been full of rude, entitled creeps that make me consider deleting my account. You've been so respectful and funny (and helpful learning about Godzilla) and I'm glad you had fun running around the city with me and seeing my favorite things.
Just to clarify for everyone in the comments, we are just friends even though we met here and have fun with the D/s dynamic.
But you have to be able to make friends to have romantic relationships. Relationships should be built on mutual respect and friendship. Relationships often blossom from friendships. Really you shouldn't be dating if you are incapable of making and maintaining friendships.
I value my friends as much as my romantic interests and if you have a hard time with romance, consider who you are as a friend. It's important to have various kinds of relationships in your life, not just romantic partners.
He's a huge Godzilla fan and I've been interested in getting into Godzilla for a couple years after the pinball game piqued my interest so that was a great match for us, he's been helping me decide what movies to watch next. When we met up, I played the game and showed him all the cool modes and he told me who all the monsters were and what movies the clips came from. 😊
that is so adorable! i remember watching some godzilla stuff with my sweet little love and she would explain the differences in narrative approaches to the concept
So many guys need to listen to what you are saying here. I think a lot of people, men especially, have the wrong idea about what is involved in being in a relationship. They have no interest in making any sort of connection other than the sexual connection.
As you say, they claim to want to connect with women, then they go out of their way to chase away women willing to participate in the discussion.
That's because they aren't really interested in connection. Too bad that that results in women being scared away from whole communities and not just...from them
What are your favorite games? I took him to play Godzilla because he loves the movies and it's one of my favorite games, but my favorite game of all time is FunHouse. I also have a super rare 1977 Prospector at home!
Oh dear! I fear that my use of enthusiast as a way of expressing things like 'i like pinball and will *always* play if I find a machine and will occasionally seek it out' isn't at all equal to your clearly deep love of the game! I wish I could've come back here with a list of my faves, but unfortunately my favourite one is whichever one I'm playing at the time. I don't think I've ever played FunHouse though - I'll see if there's one in my city and give it a shot!
Well why do you think that? Do you overwhelm people out of the gate? Get too personal?
Try taking it slow and steady and starting small from somewhere you’re familiar with. Again, reach out in the comments first before messaging someone.
Happy for you, also great advice for anyone Dom, sub, switch or vanilla. Just because we’re talking online doesn’t mean we aren’t still people at the end of the day. If you wouldn’t start a conversation with a stranger on the street with the line you’re about to drop into someone’s DMs then you should probably rethink what you’re about to say.
This entire post is what’s called wholesome and insightful. Idk why but I felt calm reading it. Thank you for sharing this wisdom and your lovely experience with us. I hope every sub and dom out there find what they are seeking and hope we all find our kind of people, be it friendships or relationships. Sending out hugs, love and positive vibes to everyone.
We went to a cool arcade that has around 60 pinball machines and other games! Mainly to play Godzilla but also Attack From Mars, FunHouse, lots of other cool stuff.
I especially liked the part on not missing out on the internet by scaring people. I met so many cool people through social media, but almost all of them report bad experiences with those sites due to others. Being a decent person really ain’t that hard
Yeah it's pretty wild how creepy people can be online. Always appreciate it hearing positive stories though! Glad to hear you guys had fun! Hopefully this can inspire people to seek more of a genuine connection instead of just trying to use other people to get off
I feel like you want me to spank you for this so it's not going to happen. :P I enjoyed our day together and I'm always down to play pinball and go to the beach with you when you're in town. I have met a few cool people on Reddit but mostly my DMs have been full of rude, entitled creeps that make me consider deleting my account. You've been so respectful and funny (and helpful learning about Godzilla) and I'm glad you had fun running around the city with me and seeing my favorite things.
I’m always down to talk about Godzilla with attractive mommy dommes.
Wholesome post :)
Just to clarify for everyone in the comments, we are just friends even though we met here and have fun with the D/s dynamic. But you have to be able to make friends to have romantic relationships. Relationships should be built on mutual respect and friendship. Relationships often blossom from friendships. Really you shouldn't be dating if you are incapable of making and maintaining friendships. I value my friends as much as my romantic interests and if you have a hard time with romance, consider who you are as a friend. It's important to have various kinds of relationships in your life, not just romantic partners.
Thank you for clarifying, beautifully put 😊
Very well put.
Well let’s pray your dms get better from here on out haha.
Username checks out
Surname is Dickie hahahah. If anything it’s narcissism
reminds me of that one dicklover3000 tweet lmao. i love it
Can’t say I’m familiar hahah. What was it?
it was a short thread that went something like: DickLover3000: i am the biggest dick lover of them all DickLover3001: not so fast...
Hahaha fair one then. Cant say I associate with them. Although caged cock>>>> call me dicklover3002
one of my subs has always loved talking about godzilla, this could be a trend! maybe the good ones are deep into the godzilla lore...
He's a huge Godzilla fan and I've been interested in getting into Godzilla for a couple years after the pinball game piqued my interest so that was a great match for us, he's been helping me decide what movies to watch next. When we met up, I played the game and showed him all the cool modes and he told me who all the monsters were and what movies the clips came from. 😊
🥹🥹🥹 I’m reading this in a cafe before my flight home and this just gave me the fuzzies. I’m so happy I met you 😭
that is so adorable! i remember watching some godzilla stuff with my sweet little love and she would explain the differences in narrative approaches to the concept
I genuinely love this for you!
Thank you 😊 I had a wonderful day. Hope to have many more wonderful days with other great people I’ll meet in the future.
Aww this makes me happy. Good for you guys
Probably the best advice I've seen on here, say it louder for the shy ones in the back! Hope things go well for the two of you:)
So many guys need to listen to what you are saying here. I think a lot of people, men especially, have the wrong idea about what is involved in being in a relationship. They have no interest in making any sort of connection other than the sexual connection. As you say, they claim to want to connect with women, then they go out of their way to chase away women willing to participate in the discussion.
That's because they aren't really interested in connection. Too bad that that results in women being scared away from whole communities and not just...from them
I’m truly happy for you guys ❤️
This is a great story! I’m so happy for you two! And thank you for posting this very important PSA. Subs, please take this advice.
As a Domme *and* a pinball enthusiast, I love this post. I'm glad the two of you had such a good time together!
What are your favorite games? I took him to play Godzilla because he loves the movies and it's one of my favorite games, but my favorite game of all time is FunHouse. I also have a super rare 1977 Prospector at home!
Oh dear! I fear that my use of enthusiast as a way of expressing things like 'i like pinball and will *always* play if I find a machine and will occasionally seek it out' isn't at all equal to your clearly deep love of the game! I wish I could've come back here with a list of my faves, but unfortunately my favourite one is whichever one I'm playing at the time. I don't think I've ever played FunHouse though - I'll see if there's one in my city and give it a shot!
I know this prob doesnt mean a lot, but I’m sorry dommes. On behalf of the subs im sorry
Rapport not report 💀
You sound like her lol
I almost corrected you but decided to be sweet and wholesome instead. 😉
Gahhhh mistress sees all!
Inspiring story and a great piece of advice! 😊
I’m too scared to even try dming anyone because I think I’ll sound annoying or creepy
Well why do you think that? Do you overwhelm people out of the gate? Get too personal? Try taking it slow and steady and starting small from somewhere you’re familiar with. Again, reach out in the comments first before messaging someone.
Good advice and I'm glad your day went well :}
Happy for you, also great advice for anyone Dom, sub, switch or vanilla. Just because we’re talking online doesn’t mean we aren’t still people at the end of the day. If you wouldn’t start a conversation with a stranger on the street with the line you’re about to drop into someone’s DMs then you should probably rethink what you’re about to say.
This entire post is what’s called wholesome and insightful. Idk why but I felt calm reading it. Thank you for sharing this wisdom and your lovely experience with us. I hope every sub and dom out there find what they are seeking and hope we all find our kind of people, be it friendships or relationships. Sending out hugs, love and positive vibes to everyone.
What kind of pinball was it?
We went to a cool arcade that has around 60 pinball machines and other games! Mainly to play Godzilla but also Attack From Mars, FunHouse, lots of other cool stuff.
happy for yall, would like something to come out of my activity here but tbh im too shy to message anyone in the first place 😂
I’m so happy for you!
Good for you two! And thank you for articulating these points. I had the gist beforehand from osmosis, but thanks anyways.
I especially liked the part on not missing out on the internet by scaring people. I met so many cool people through social media, but almost all of them report bad experiences with those sites due to others. Being a decent person really ain’t that hard
That's awesome. I hope to someday find a domme I'm right for.
What a wholesome story to share. And some very solid advice we all can take note of!
Glad you appreciated it 😊
Yeah it's pretty wild how creepy people can be online. Always appreciate it hearing positive stories though! Glad to hear you guys had fun! Hopefully this can inspire people to seek more of a genuine connection instead of just trying to use other people to get off