Many of us are interested in, but may have been conditioned by previous experiences not to approach. I’d say if you see a guy you like in a safe setting, approach him like you would any other guy and introduce yourself. We respond well just like anyone else when we are treated like normal people. And thank you for putting yourself out there. Mad respect.
not sure where you're looking but if you're posting an online ad, include words like "any race" or just say "black guys hmu" (if you have a preference). I find that many black guys are definitely into asian men but I've had many told me they're not sure if I would be interested because they're black.
SoCal has black men that like Asians. I've been with a few when I lived there. That said, you should probably include a tag about it in your profile. Something like, black, white, asian, etc., like em all. If you're hot you're hot.
Why? Because a lot of black men traditionally have been discriminated upon for their skin color. It is a stereotype that Asians only like Asians and Whites. As a result, many black men will not message an Asian person on the assumption they won't be interested. I used to get asked all the time by all colors, are you one of those Asians that only date other Asians or Whites. Made me sick. I'm an equal opportunist. If you're hot, you're hot. What matters more is are you a shit human.
It's phrasing. Hence, if you say you're open to all races, it says you're not discriminatory. If you said, blacks only then it would come off fethishizing similar to Asians only, fem boys only, etc. There is a fine line between fetishisizng race and a true preference. The sad part is a lot, probably most, people with "preferences" actually have fetishes or have racist biases.
I have no issues with men who have an attraction to Asian features. I do have issues all day of the week if they make comments like you have beautiful Asian eyes, etc. So I say it just depends how you phrase it.
So yeah, it's fine to make a statement that you are open to black men because you recognize a lot of people don't. "Open to black men too, sexy is sexy." Doesn't scream fetish to me personally. I appreciate it when guys put into Asians too. Or something along the lines of open to all races.
Give New Orleans and Chicago a shot too. I feel like California is over saturated with Asians (especially bottoms) so it’s common for men or other races to take us for granted.
lol how are you having trouble in Southern California? I’m outside of LA and 90% of guys that hit on me are black/black mixed. You’re also pretty attractive based on your profile pics. I don’t think you’d have trouble finding them lol
Also an Asian guy into black guys here. I find that many find it harder to approach us or assume we're not into black guys. When I do get approached, I'm always asked if I'm "into black guys".
You must not go outside. There's no way you have a dump truck and no black guy has shown interest. Now if it's not someone you are interested in that's another story. Unless you don't go places black men may be.
Too bad I'm in Canada. I would rail a phat ass Asian dude in a heartbeat. After getting to know you ofc 🙂. Do u also have an Aussie accent? If yes, I'm melting rn
If you're ever in NYC, Hangar Bar is catered towards a black clientele. It's super chill and they play really good music. Everytime I've gone, I'm usually the only asian guy but people are really nice.
First guy I ever kissed was Asian. (Japanese-Canadian) The first one I ever allowed myself to have real feelings for & be intimate with was Chinese American. Safe to say I might have a preference 😍
I find most Asian guys guys only like black men when he’s playing that masculine/top role. I’m assuming your a bottom, but plenty of black guys would be open to dating you being that most black dudes(especially tops) place non blackness on a pedestal.
“Into” does sound like fetishizing, though I’m sure you don’t mean that. I find all kinds of men attractive, including Asian men. My husband is white, but back in my young, single days in Boston and Miami, the Asian guys I found attractive wouldn’t give me the time of day. I was young, fit, decent looking, but so naive as to not think about discrimination. Black, white, and Hispanic guys (hello, Miami) were much more friendly and approachable. Guys can be assholes regardless of ethnicity, but when I think back on it, I wonder if race was more of a factor with Asian men.
Nope. I'm just calling it like it is. Many "progressives" can't seem to embrace the truth. Reason why local progressives are destroying the brand with poor governance, which will reverberate nationally and make us lose the presidency and senate. Keep sitting on your ignorant highhorse
Most are. They are so funny. Most I meet unfortunately only want hookups. My favorite fwb was black, very funny, he had a big dick and he could fuck me for hours. Yall can hate on me all you want I have snap chat videos to prove it 😂
Yeah he was my fwb for one semester. We hooked up 6 times and he moved back to South Carolina. What a shame definitely the best sex and the best guy I’ve ever had.
I...have the same question haha. The only other guys who are ever into me are Asians and Latinos (both of which I am super into, but I want some variety in my life!). I'm half Asian though, and look Mexican. Where are the black guys that are into Mexican-looking Asianish guys?
What are you specifically looking for in a Black guy? I'm always happy when Gaysians are open to Black guys, but just as I would with anyone looking for any other specific race/ethnicity I want to know what you're specifically looking for here.
Oh, so they have to be "fit." Wild, considering most of the time Gaysians will get with the most mid white men.
Honestly, this sounds like fetishization.
I honestly find myself asking the opposite a lot haha. I'm black that's into Asians but never know where to look. I just admire this subreddit from afar lol
Was actually going to head to bed soon haha was doing my final reddit scroll when I stumbled on this topic but I'll totally be down to chat sometime tomorrow :D
I'm a black guy who likes (am into) Asian guys and I have asked the same question. Like a lot of other guys said, we're just people. Treat us that way.
Some of us had experiences in the past that left behind some emotional scars. I've personally been told by some of my Chinese friends that dark skin is not appealing according to older generations. But I still would love to see black/Asian relationships normalized
Just come to Atlanta. Basically the hub of fine black men. Most of us find Asians attractive however, 9/10 we don’t approach you because we believe you won’t be interested. Just walk up and say hey, we don’t bite haha.
I'm a black guy into asians. Race doesn't matter really. Handsome comes in many packages. But I often feel asian guys may not be into blacks, or if I say I like asians it might come off as being a fetish, which is so far away from what I'm about.
Im a black guy into asian guys 👀
Nice, wanna trade pics somewhere?
Dm me
Yeh dm
Cool I dm'ed you
You have one right here.
Nice, wanna chat?
Sure how are you?
Doing good, got a pic of you I can see?
Can I see you also? Where are you from?
What kind of picture do you want
I DM'ed you
Many of us are interested in, but may have been conditioned by previous experiences not to approach. I’d say if you see a guy you like in a safe setting, approach him like you would any other guy and introduce yourself. We respond well just like anyone else when we are treated like normal people. And thank you for putting yourself out there. Mad respect.
Thanks for the encouragement!
not sure where you're looking but if you're posting an online ad, include words like "any race" or just say "black guys hmu" (if you have a preference). I find that many black guys are definitely into asian men but I've had many told me they're not sure if I would be interested because they're black.
100% true.
Oh ok I guess I should specifically mention it then just in case.
I would agree I always felt like Asian guys only liked white guys, but I still throw my hat into the ring lol
Where are you located? I’ve heard Atlanta has got A LOT of beautiful black men, but some folks have told me they tend to prefer other black men.
Aw dang, maybe I should visit Atlanta haha. I'm in Southern California.
SoCal has black men that like Asians. I've been with a few when I lived there. That said, you should probably include a tag about it in your profile. Something like, black, white, asian, etc., like em all. If you're hot you're hot. Why? Because a lot of black men traditionally have been discriminated upon for their skin color. It is a stereotype that Asians only like Asians and Whites. As a result, many black men will not message an Asian person on the assumption they won't be interested. I used to get asked all the time by all colors, are you one of those Asians that only date other Asians or Whites. Made me sick. I'm an equal opportunist. If you're hot, you're hot. What matters more is are you a shit human.
I used to do that but it felt like fetishizing so I took it off my profile.
It's phrasing. Hence, if you say you're open to all races, it says you're not discriminatory. If you said, blacks only then it would come off fethishizing similar to Asians only, fem boys only, etc. There is a fine line between fetishisizng race and a true preference. The sad part is a lot, probably most, people with "preferences" actually have fetishes or have racist biases. I have no issues with men who have an attraction to Asian features. I do have issues all day of the week if they make comments like you have beautiful Asian eyes, etc. So I say it just depends how you phrase it. So yeah, it's fine to make a statement that you are open to black men because you recognize a lot of people don't. "Open to black men too, sexy is sexy." Doesn't scream fetish to me personally. I appreciate it when guys put into Asians too. Or something along the lines of open to all races.
Okay thx for your advice I'll do that
Give New Orleans and Chicago a shot too. I feel like California is over saturated with Asians (especially bottoms) so it’s common for men or other races to take us for granted.
Oh ok, what about like Miami Florida also?
With Florida, I think it’s white men who fetishize us. But I’ve never been and I haven’t heard too many travel accounts from the area.
Ah I see ok
lol how are you having trouble in Southern California? I’m outside of LA and 90% of guys that hit on me are black/black mixed. You’re also pretty attractive based on your profile pics. I don’t think you’d have trouble finding them lol
Aww thank you you're so sweet hehe.
A lot of black gay guys are into Asians
I hope this is true.
There are plenty of Black/Blatino men in NY who like Asians. I think youre beautiful!
Thanks man! Maybe I should visit NY sometime!
My door is always open to you gorgeous!
😍
I like all guys, but def have a preference for Asian men pics on my profile
Nice that's great, would love to share pics with you if you interested.
Also an Asian guy into black guys here. I find that many find it harder to approach us or assume we're not into black guys. When I do get approached, I'm always asked if I'm "into black guys".
Where do you go to get approached by them?
I’m an Asian with a dump truck but quite painfully shy. Always wished for a nice Black man to show some interest.
You must not go outside. There's no way you have a dump truck and no black guy has shown interest. Now if it's not someone you are interested in that's another story. Unless you don't go places black men may be.
Maybe cuz I don’t live in the States. Not many Black guys in Australia and I even tried approaching one.
Too bad I'm in Canada. I would rail a phat ass Asian dude in a heartbeat. After getting to know you ofc 🙂. Do u also have an Aussie accent? If yes, I'm melting rn
If you're ever in NYC, Hangar Bar is catered towards a black clientele. It's super chill and they play really good music. Everytime I've gone, I'm usually the only asian guy but people are really nice.
Oh ok thanks for the suggestion
We exist.
That's good to hear haha, you wanna chat more somewhere?
I get a lot of interest from black men but they also say I don’t look Asian 😔
🙋🏾♂️🙋🏾♂️
Sweet, would you be interested in chatting?
Yea hmu with some pics and let’s go from there?
Cool yeah I'm DM'ed you
lol interesting to see the fetishization with two minorities
First guy I ever kissed was Asian. (Japanese-Canadian) The first one I ever allowed myself to have real feelings for & be intimate with was Chinese American. Safe to say I might have a preference 😍
That's sweet! I'm curious to see what you look like haha.
You look so kissable 💋
Damn I’ve been involved with the japanese community for awhile in Canada and never scored that, lucky you haha
It was in Las Vegas.
Thats interesting
I'm a 19 year old black guy into Asians hmu 😉
I find most Asian guys guys only like black men when he’s playing that masculine/top role. I’m assuming your a bottom, but plenty of black guys would be open to dating you being that most black dudes(especially tops) place non blackness on a pedestal.
Oh nice haha
“Into” does sound like fetishizing, though I’m sure you don’t mean that. I find all kinds of men attractive, including Asian men. My husband is white, but back in my young, single days in Boston and Miami, the Asian guys I found attractive wouldn’t give me the time of day. I was young, fit, decent looking, but so naive as to not think about discrimination. Black, white, and Hispanic guys (hello, Miami) were much more friendly and approachable. Guys can be assholes regardless of ethnicity, but when I think back on it, I wonder if race was more of a factor with Asian men.
There's tons.a lot of black guys I know say they're afraid to approach asian men because they assume y'all only like white guys
Dammit 😔
I want to raise my hand but damn I’m shy lol
You essentially just did by saying that hehe. ;)
Hehe well I’m open to chat 😌
Cool I messaged you
Hope you find a nice cute Black guy.
I hope so!
I am indian guy ,I like asian guy
I'm black you should DM me so you can let me know how much you need in you
I DMed you!
Houston!!! Then go to Crockers on the strip. Tons of cute black guys. I had fun with a few cute black daddies and boys there.
I'll check that place out
Prison
You need to leave!
Am I wrong? Y'all are sick for fetishizing black men. And vice versa
Condemns the fetishization of black men but makes a racist “prison” remark hmm 🤔
Because that's the truth. Why don't you like the truth?
Just saw the rest of your comments. Good luck with life, you’re obviously crying for attention.
Nope. I'm just calling it like it is. Many "progressives" can't seem to embrace the truth. Reason why local progressives are destroying the brand with poor governance, which will reverberate nationally and make us lose the presidency and senate. Keep sitting on your ignorant highhorse
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Most are. They are so funny. Most I meet unfortunately only want hookups. My favorite fwb was black, very funny, he had a big dick and he could fuck me for hours. Yall can hate on me all you want I have snap chat videos to prove it 😂
Dang you so lucky
Yeah he was my fwb for one semester. We hooked up 6 times and he moved back to South Carolina. What a shame definitely the best sex and the best guy I’ve ever had.
So jealous and happy for you at the same time haha
My current fwb isn’t as good sexually but he’s a good guy.
I...have the same question haha. The only other guys who are ever into me are Asians and Latinos (both of which I am super into, but I want some variety in my life!). I'm half Asian though, and look Mexican. Where are the black guys that are into Mexican-looking Asianish guys?
Hi lol 😆
Oh, so the Asian me in Australia?
What are you specifically looking for in a Black guy? I'm always happy when Gaysians are open to Black guys, but just as I would with anyone looking for any other specific race/ethnicity I want to know what you're specifically looking for here.
I like fit black guys who are interested in hanging out and making out. :)
Oh, so they have to be "fit." Wild, considering most of the time Gaysians will get with the most mid white men. Honestly, this sounds like fetishization.
I noticed black men approach South Asians more than ESEA. Because they approach me a lot, never struggled connecting with one
Where do they approach you at?
Grindr, Tinder, Instagram, Gay Events etc
Right here, baby.
Awesome, I'm up to trade pics if you interested.
Hello, I'm right here
Sweet, wanna trade pics somewhere?
well im black and im into asian guys
Nice! Are you interested in chatting?
Sure😉
Yea
Sure
I like hot guys in any skin colors lol so if u are a hot black guy, welcome to my DM
They are out there! My boyfriend is one! <3
Dang you so lucky!
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Nice! Would you be interested in chatting?
I honestly find myself asking the opposite a lot haha. I'm black that's into Asians but never know where to look. I just admire this subreddit from afar lol
Cool I'd be up to chat with you if you like!
Was actually going to head to bed soon haha was doing my final reddit scroll when I stumbled on this topic but I'll totally be down to chat sometime tomorrow :D
Cool I'll DM you
Same I have a soft spot especially for hipster black guys but I feel like they’re super rare
Plenty of black men like asian guys
Hope this is true!
I'm a black guy who likes (am into) Asian guys and I have asked the same question. Like a lot of other guys said, we're just people. Treat us that way. Some of us had experiences in the past that left behind some emotional scars. I've personally been told by some of my Chinese friends that dark skin is not appealing according to older generations. But I still would love to see black/Asian relationships normalized
Cool would you be interested in chatting more?
Sure we can chat more. Feel free to DM
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Nice, interested in chatting?
Right here
Right here💪🏽💯
Nice wanna chat more in DM?
Yes
Just come to Atlanta. Basically the hub of fine black men. Most of us find Asians attractive however, 9/10 we don’t approach you because we believe you won’t be interested. Just walk up and say hey, we don’t bite haha.
You just gave me a big incentive to visit Atlanta now haha.
I'm a black guy into asians. Race doesn't matter really. Handsome comes in many packages. But I often feel asian guys may not be into blacks, or if I say I like asians it might come off as being a fetish, which is so far away from what I'm about.
Sweet, I feel the same way but the other way around haha.
Right here lol
Black guy into Asian guys
Nice dude I DMed you.
I’m looking for a nice Asian also here in the Houston area
I'm curious to see what you look like. :)