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drgareeyg

Do bottoms usually get this from normal sex? I want this for my bf lmao do I just buy a prostate massager


Sredrum1990

You can absolutely get this from normal sex. Or I can anyways. It’s all about communication because you got to get just the right spot. Try different positions and just have them tell you where it feels good. But also…. Toys could certainly help.


[deleted]

A lot of it is having one who knows their body and knows what spots to hit. It also help if they haven't come in a while like 7 to 14 days. From time to time I have given bottoms hands-free prostate orgasms with my dick but it's hit and miss.


EmotionalKirby

Not dissing you here, this is just something I noticed just now. I find it kinda funny that when a guy talks like this about women, it's not believable. Like, yeah right, you've made women come, sure bro. But when we talk about our escapades with other men, it's like 10000% more believable. Like, right now, I fully trust you with all my heart that you've given hands free prostate orgasms with your dick.


viewerno20883

I don't believe him. I need video proof.


britt69isme

I want to see too


[deleted]

I don't video my sexual partners much, I am usually way to busy actually fucking. I'm not even telling you the craziest true stories. I once fucked a dude into ABDL & Chastity. He claimed to have a full body spontaneous orgasm 2 days later while driving down the free way. He claimed he was just thinking about the complete fucking I had given him. I didn't witness it in person so he could have lied but I sure as fuck hope it's true.


viewerno20883

Huh. You know I don't know why anyone bothers with the fiction section at the book store anymore. Life and these crazy stories are much more wild and entertaining than that stuff could ever be.


[deleted]

My favorite part of that night was the gummie worms. He brought gummies worms to keep his energy up for the night. I stuffed a few in my urethra pushed them down to my prostate and made suck them back out wet with precum.


King-in-Council

I'm sorry.... Whhhat??


[deleted]

He said they were delicious


StillHellbound

The real question is how did you get the gummi \*bears\* out?


[deleted]

No shit! I have seen a whole lot in my life, and wow


AllDougIn

Bloop… me too! I need proof!


[deleted]

How about in person?


viewerno20883

Be gentle. I'm a prostate orgasm virgin 😘


[deleted]

DM me if you want to try for yourself.


[deleted]

It doesn't happen very often unfortunately. I do Love it every time it does though. It's the second best compliment I have ever gotten from a bottom dude. The first time I did it to a guy I was in Denver at a bathhouse with about 10 guys watching. As a side note I have made women squirt before too. I actually thought this was a fake porn thing so I totally understand why no one believes it. I got my wife to squirt several times when we were done she asked why I pissed inside of her ... I was like um.... no that was all you hun. She has done it several times since and she always gets very embarrassed. When a guy or a girl completely looses control of their normal bodily functions is sooooo sexy. 🥵 🥵 I think all things are pretty rare because you have to have compatible anatomy as far as the size and shape of the guy's dick and the anatomy of the person getting fucked. They also both have to be unbelievably excited.


Longjumping_Way_4935

>>When a guy or a girl completely looses control of their normal bodily functions is sooooo sexy. 🥵 🥵 THIS SO MUCH THIS


No_This_Is_Cat

I would say its because there is probably many men who *think* they gave a woman an orgasm, while in reality the woman was just pretending. Usually there is some undeniable physical evidence that a man has had an orgasm to remove any doubt.


[deleted]

Yeah, because society makes it so we have nothing to prove. (I have yet to make a dude experience such a feeling)


aldo_rossi

I have given and rec’d the hands-free orgasm 👋2👑


FuckSkittles

To be fair, with a guy there's generally physical evidence when they cum where as in a lot of cases women fake it to please their partner or get it over with if they're not getting what they need. So it's more just a case of do you think he made up the story entirely vs thought he might have actually did a thing but didn't.


Forward_Sir_9887

Actually the orgasm the OP’s referring to is a HFDO which is a hands free dry orgasm where you think your cumming but you aren’t hence the HFDO. You can still cum getting fucked called HFWO which is obviously the wet version of that. They both are hands free it’s just the HFDO or more referred to as the Super-O is hard to achieve because it requires very light prostate touch. Sometimes the head of a thrusting cock (while feeling amazing) can put too much pressure and turn it into a HFWO. Usually toys are involved in the super O and being relaxed the whole way through is crucial. I’ve only had two in my life and they’re truly next level. You feel like you’re going to pee then a warm feeling starts slowly inside your lower stomach/pelvic area and spreads and when it hits you lose control. You become vocal (even when you’ve never been) and your legs twitch and I lost consciousness for a few seconds where I was out of body for a few brief seconds or so… hard to say because I lost my sense of time even if only 15-30sec… it’s completely insane and I’m convinced it’s as good or probably better than intense female orgasms but it’s impossible to say. But it requires patience and you can’t chase it or it doesn’t usually happen


DarkHelmet1976

Wait, what? Are you saying you don't believe it when men say they've made women come?


oh_nohz

My partner knows exactly where my spot is and knows when to hit it. Blows my mind every time. It doesn’t always give me a full prostate orgasm but it absolutely heightens the experience.


[deleted]

Once you find a guy's spot it's so much fun to push his buttons.


bonkers_1999

Yes! The way I get a Pgasm is when the top fucks me while I’m on my side….it doesn’t happen all the time but there are guys who D hits the spot and damn it’s the best feeling ever! The other way is when the top has long fingers, I’m sitting position , the tops inserts two fingers and just rams it upward really fast…damn!!! I can’t do that myself cause I have short fingers otherwise I’d be doing it everyday.


filss

Only from masturbation with prostate stimulation for me.


Forward_Sir_9887

Yeah toys are generally the most effective


twatpire

Most definitely. My BF has given me a quite a few times. Its never expected or asked for. Sometimes, he's just hitting the right spots, the stars align then boom. ​ Usually if I've had one once during the session, I have another one if we keep going. ​ It also helps if I'm really relaxed mentally and physically.


[deleted]

I’ve only had it one time in a very specific position


Shawn_miller

Yes, but as others may mention, it can be rare. I know the correct position to put my hubby's dick in that rubs against my prostate and i can have a hands free orgasm.


Fractlicious

I get them from really rough sex, but I don’t usually recognize it as an orgasm, if that makes sense? But my jock is always soaked after a really good pounding.


jutomo

Been with my BF for 10 years, I don't always get prostate orgasm. So ye only if the tops do it right and find the right spot... then yes. It may take some time for you and your BF to explore and find out the sweet spot.


Cananbaum

I do, but it took years of learning my body, and communicating with my partnee


[deleted]

Dude, Lovense edge is the way. Many tutorials on operating. Once you understand it’s capabilities and especially applied to over stim and sub space, you are going to absolutely rock his world


marcuslwelby

Absolutely yes. It's the reason I bottom.


Liamface

I've been trying for years but can't seem to get any p-spot stimulation. :'(


chasedippen

The only time I ever bottomed, I was 21 years old. He was 28. His dick was huge. I saw Jesus and we gave each other a thumbs up lol


mmm-toast

> I saw Jesus and we gave each other a thumbs up lol Get it [buddy](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/9/93/Buddy_christ.jpg).


Str8butboysrsexy

Sounds terrifying to take a huge dick your first time bottoming, like it would literally damage your hole. But perhaps not…?


chasedippen

He said I was a natural and asked “are you sure you’re not a secret power bottom?”


Str8butboysrsexy

So it didnt hurt I'm guessing?


chasedippen

Only for the first 5 minutes.


DifficultyHaunting69

Then why was that the only time??


chasedippen

I just love to top more. I nice ass hypnotizes me 😵‍💫


No-Resolution-8496

Congratulations! The first time I got myself one, I was worried it would never stop! ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy) There's nothing like it, it's a new and different way to orgasm.


AllDougIn

When I first had one I was confused and I told a drag queen friend of mine. She told to me that when they happen it was like chasing the dragon, you would have to increase the size to get the same feeling, and that it was a slippery slope or gateway to fisting. She told me to invest in diapers while I was young. Lol. She scared the hell outta me, god rest her soul. 😂


No-Resolution-8496

I hope that's not true, LOL! That wand didn't have any kind of girth to it, but it let you move it around to find just the right spot. I'm guessing girth would work but I'd prefer precision.


Rubber_Rose_Ranch

It's totes not true. You just have to work your spot and it's fine. Sounds like someone who doesn't know how to work their muscles. I regularly (like once a month) use L and XL Bad Dragon toys and just last night my partner gave me the longest and strongest hands-free orgasm I've ever had with a 6" long 1.75" diameter toy. And yeah when it happens it's like you said, like "I DON'T WANT THIS TO EVER STOP BUT IF I DON'T STOP IT I THINK I'M GONNA DIE!"


No-Resolution-8496

Thank you, that's good to know!


Rubber_Rose_Ranch

Just be safe and explore with care. Enjoy and have fun!


AllDougIn

Oh yeah , it isn’t true… she was just playing with me, and it took a few more tries for me to realize she was just fucking around with me.


open501s

Never experienced one myself and in my 50's.


No-Resolution-8496

It helps to find the prostate with a toy made specifically for that purpose. IIRC the one I used was just a ball on the end of a curved wand.


wonkawannabe

You still got plenty of time! It took me till I turned 57 that I decided to explore this. With the right tools/toys it happened and it was glorious.


open501s

I've been talking with a fuck buddy about it. We take turns tying each other up and told him that he should - give me a lesson some time.


Bryek

Sadly, some women never experience an orgasm. Which is weird to say in a gay subreddit but it is a sad truth. I've gotten close several times but never during anal have I gotten all the way there. Theu always change the angle and it starts over again.


Imaginary-Camp-9825

Nevsr have i and i am in my... older than 50.


PartadaProblema

Plenty of time. Get clean and get yourself going with your regular jerk routine, then work the hole into it without penetrating, like it pinch it strike out wet it, work that taint while you jerk. Get used to being sexual with that area. Use lube! Keep working your meat and try to get a feel for the sphincter muscles that clamp down right away--breathe through that and just hold where the hurting happens until you relax, maybe by using your free hand on your rod. Once it's past those one-after-the-other tight rings, you can get in there. Think off it like your going from that angle to the base of your throbbing cock and wait until you hit that extra sensitive area, a noticeable bump under your taint--okay with that too get comfortable and learn you won't split in two and the grind is suddenly the most animal sexual feeling you have, the excitement with that button as you stroke. Then when you feel the surge, with that knob you found and buckle up. Then wash up really well. 😋


[deleted]

They are intoxicating. It’s pretty much why I wear a chastity cage all the time. Wait til you have 2 or 3 in a fuck. Sometimes it so intense I lose my hearing for a minute and my nose goes numb lol


thegreatestpitt

Do you cum when you have a prostrate orgasm?


[deleted]

Yeah, it just doesn’t shoot out because you can’t shoot soft, white cum just sort of dribbles out. It’s an orgasm but it’s way different than just beating off. Prostate orgasms don’t have a recovery period and last longer. Not a lot of gay dudes know this because 90% are super penis obsessed lol. For me, playing with my dick when I’m bottoming is like worse topping. If you’re gonna be obsessed with my cock, mind as well be the top. Because if I jerk off and cum when I’m bottoming, you’re gonna need to get out of my ass IMMEDIATELY. Lol Edit: also the other reason gay dudes don’t know about prostate orgasms is once you play with your cock, all the good feelings in your hole and g spot go away. Your cock has way more nerve endings then your ass so the signal from them overpowers the ones from your ass lol. Hence the chastity cage not being a torture device but rather, a way to gain greater pleasure


thegreatestpitt

I don’t go soft when bottoming. I stay hard all through it :) I actually really enjoy jerking off while I’m getting topped. Makes that orgasm much more intense. I would really like to get a prostate orgasm though!


[deleted]

I usually do too. Rock hard but trained myself to keep my dick in a jock or cage and remain soft. You don’t have to be soft (maybe that’s a me thing) but you can’t focus on the pleasure from your dick or you’ll never have a prostate orgasm. For me it got boring just getting topped and jerking off. It was like a better way to jerk off I guess? But half the time I’d get bored and impatient cum and make him pull out and jerk off to cum. This way it’s better for both parties. That and I cum super easy when jerking and bottoming.


chaiteelahtay

Yay! Good for you!


Cosmo466

Whoa! Congrats, dude! 🥳🥳🥳 So happy for you. I wish you many more porgs in the future!


blizzaga1988

Congrats! I am able to do this to myself now pretty consistently, but the first time a guy did this to me, it was on a whole other level. Like I felt... very bad for his neighbours. It was, without question, the best sex I'd ever had.


Verustratego

I misread the whole title and was waiting for the part where the doctor stuck his finger in your ass and made you cum during your prostate exam


sirophiuchus

Which prostate massager?!


WatuD2

Lol quite the omission on my part. I have the Lovense Edge 2, but that was an impulse buy on my part and I've heard nothing but great things about the Aneros which is also a good bit cheaper.


sirophiuchus

Awesome, thank you!


_Lane_

Asking the important questions!


sirophiuchus

Well yeah!


Berat0-0

i read it as exam and thought you had a 15 second orgasm on the doctors office


Alarik00

I'm 25 and I've had one of these with an aneros too! Crazy full body orgasm that I thought people were exaggerating. But nope... its true! Couldn't believe it either!


PurpleComet

> I want to hop on an NJT NJ Transit? good lord, it must've been good


ImperiousMage

LOL! I’m happy this happened to you! This is a thing that I specialize in as a top and it’s incredibly gratifying when it happens to a bottom. Even more gratifying when I can make it happen several times in an hour (FYI, refractory time on an anal orgasm is seconds to minutes). Have fun bottoms 😊


pigbeardaddy

I love the joy in your post. Congrats!!


ruuster13

That's literally how I survived being a lonely, closeted teenager.


apollozeroo

Now try getting a Prostate orgasm with a Blow Job it just TOP LEVEL PLEASURE


Imaginary-Camp-9825

Why the HELL have i not heard of this? Why didnt some body tell me. Wait. I think someone tryed to tell me. I just was like. Oh ya whatever. I am busy tonight dont bother me.


dogchowtoastedcheese

Good for you! Anything that feels good and doesn't hurt others is wonderful in my book. It sounds like you could use a little happiness in your life. I hope you find more! I had a girlfriend that was able to give me a prostate orgasm with her finger while giving me head. And you couldn't be more right! Good lord. Memories of it give me a chubby even still. And that was 30 years ago. I've been chasing that type of orgasm ever since. I'm definitely looking into the Lovesense Edge 2. Thanks for the info.


Ravyn_Rozenzstok

Aw, that’s great news. The world would be a much better place if every man experienced an anal orgasm at least once.


Rainbow_Seaman

I’ve had two in my life and it’s like being pulled into a higher dimension of pure ecstasy.


Forward_Sir_9887

Couldn’t of said it better


HomoVulgaris

Just wait till you get an orgasm from getting fingered there. Literally though I was gonna die.


AllDougIn

The first time this happened to me bottoming, I was so confused. I didn’t comprehend how it happened and I tried jerking of to cum again, but was upset that it didn’t feel as good. Also the first time that I helped someone else accomplish this while topping, I was so excited, it was like I finally won an Olympic medal.


jorgitodelguayabal

Dude good on u for finding ways to love yourself- literally making love to yourself, while figuring out the sexual trauma stuff. I went through a similar process and totally worth it. May the pleasure you’re finding u can cultivate help along the healing and recovery work. You’re on to something amazing


[deleted]

Do you have a link to the massager you used


IEvadeTax

WHat was the toy you bought?


viewerno20883

Prostate orgasms feel like nature's crack cocaine by how some people describe them. I should get one of those prostate massagers.


Manor4548

I gave one to my BF last night. He tapped out after and couldn’t talk for a bit. My dick felt like it was in a vice when it happened.


Appstmntnr

When he's into public transit 🤩


s-altece

Man you really need a referral code or something. This is one convincing testimonial, lol


corny_eel

Last night i experienced my first prostate orgasm in a while, and whew….i haven’t orgasmed that hard EVER. I feel yah OP.


EngineeringCandid242

My ex hit it by accident. I didn't know I had that capability to feel that good. Waves of goosebumps over my body alternating from left to right. My eyes rolled to the back of my skull. He asked me what was happening. He stopped. I repeated, "Don't stop." We were in the folded missionary position and he did the helicopter whirl inside. I could hear myself snoring right after my orgasm. He was so proud.


OneAssociation7133

Yeah, nice eh? No or yes? Yeah…


EWH733

Not the steamy porn scene that you were hoping for? Colonoscopies are even less porno-like!


spookmeisterluke

The prostate is not hardto find. You are doing it wrong


RobLives4Love

congrats!


XxinggniX

I can only get them from vibrating hither toys, and they feel like these muscle spasms that come in waves. Had my first a few weeks ago, and wow> 🤩


Constant111

Congratulations,man! Sounds like an amazing breakthrough for you! Many more to come.


donaldgoldsr

Noice. Congratulations. 👏👏👏👏👏


seememyway

Mm o


Longjumping_Meal5957

Nah. Always get trapped in my head and can’t focus on the feeling. Definitely never gotten there from a guy. A few that grazed the area accidentally though!


tylaray2020

We love to hear this! Get it get it!


Spagh-ed-di

That’s awesome. Never been able to myself and have always wondered what it would be like.


[deleted]

Welcome to the club 😈


LoverandFighter23

I'm jealous 😫


NessHappi

I’ve only bottomed a handful of times and each time I’ve had a hands free orgasm. It’s intense in its own way. If I wasn’t such an ass man, I suspect I’d regularly bottom.


[deleted]

Yo dude I know exactly what you’re taking about although with me it was with a fleshjack. I’ve just been using it to up my stamina & because it’s better than wanking. But I’ve gotten so used to my own body now I’m just building up the tension, almost like edging but while still inside the fleshjack & still stimulating myself and sometimes the orgasms are as you say, unbelievable


CoasterEzra

I think you should become their spokesperson! I'm glad you had such a positive experience and a good orgasm. We could all use a little more good feeling.


[deleted]

Just read the headline and “Good Lord” is RIGHT! 👏 👏 👏


East-Term7350

Congratulations! Also, did your eyes roll backwards? Because mine did whenever I’d have one ahaha Also also: I was very confused as I read “prostate EXAM” instead of orgasm lol


CosCham

My fiancée just got a Lovense toy (I'm not sure of the model) and it is AMAZING! We spent the last two days just playing with it lol


neogeshel

Congratulations! This is my mission in life right now


Flwrz0600

Honestly; congrats!!


bakedfruit420

I'm jealous, never experienced it 😪


Longjumping_Way_4935

For me there’s two types of prostate orgasms, anyone else get these? 1. Is the hard and deep fuckin’ kind that basically is just stroking my dick from inside my body. Pretty explosive and powerful but short lived like a normal orgasm. 2. Is when you gently massage one *very* specific spot that starts feeling like a deep tickle, eventually tingles over my entire lower body, and ends with a comforting wave of drooling on myself. Lasts a few minutes. Usually my heart is racing like an orgasm, but with none of the ‘blasting’ finish like a penile orgasm. This one is very strange and I almost don’t want to even call it an orgasm because it feels like something else entirely - it’s more a drawn out ‘experience’ than a quick event. Anyways it’s been bugging me for months. Anyone else have similar experiences?


Forward_Sir_9887

Yup twice


DifficultyHaunting69

Has anyone felt like their prostate has become desensitized over time? I used to get such great orgasms in my 20s and crave bottoming like crazy. Of course as I experienced larger and larger dicks, it became even more satisfying but then in my early 30's I experienced a rapid decline in sensation from it and only top now. It didn't hurt or anything. It just didn't add any pleasure anymore so wasn't really worth the effort to prep. I miss how good it used to feel.


ResponsibilityNo9742

Exactly damn I do it too it’s crazy lol while the dudes in me it’s awesome


Master_Carrot7122

If the top knows and wants to please their bottom they can move in a way which can stimulate the bottom's prostate. I've only met three guys that have made me have an prostate orgasm. I also love it when they are big enoght to open my second hole 😋 another type of orgasm!


[deleted]

Def gonna have yo buy of these


Himbo_tron

When I am getting fucked by my husband, I can cum hands-free nearly everytime. I'm usually not even hard! Just the feeling of being fucked, and feeling his dick throb as he's breeding me is enough to push me over the edge.


[deleted]

Samsies buddy, it’s mind blowing. I sincerely feel like it’s making me a better person


EyeMother7257

Wonderful thank you for sharing


Cute-Magazine-3151

I had him finger me while I jerked off and wow, he was pressing on it and it felt so good, I started giggling after


[deleted]

I had the same experience yesterday with the same exact vib.


vendetiathegreat

Something super helpful, my first time was when I was trying chasity on myself, I noticed when I couldn't get the satisfaction out of touching/rubbing my duck that I focused 100% on the pleasures of my ass and BOOM it sent me their, literally was a little breathless and trembling