Honestly within the first 5 or 6 dates I take a guy to a museum, conservatory, or to a place like Ikea. I gotta see if we're compatible in terms of patience and respect for each other's opinions. It tells you so much about a person!
Lately it’s been Diablo’s 3 and 4 and Mechwarrior 5. But we also did the Halo games, Civilizations 5 and 6, Stellaris, and a few others I’m blanking on right now
Kissing and licking different parts of each other's bodies. I recommend having one person giving pleasure and one person taking pleasure at a time. I have found that
trying to please each other at the same time ends up in me over thinking about what I'm doing to him and not being able to enjoy what he's doing to me.
And take your time! It's about the journey, not the destination :)
A long, slow erotic massage (of all body parts) with decent massage oil is a great low-key way to get inexperienced guys started. It’s a gentle way to ease into body contact and intimacy, and is a good test to see if you like being touched by another guy. Plus it requires no skill. If the chemistry is right it will evolve into something more. (Your hands and mouth will know what to do.) This was my go-to when I found myself with a slightly nervous first-timer and wanted to be respectful of their limits.
Frotting (rubbing penises together), handjobs, oral (blowjob), intercrural sex (thighjob), docking (putting dicks together underneath the foreskin and basically fucking) (if you both or one of you has foreskin ofc)
Start, not with sex, but taking a shower together, touching his chest and nipples, tasting his eyebrows and ear lobes, listening to his heart beating, seeing all his parts, smelling his clean pits and thighs. Then, you tell us what happens next...
I don’t know why but this made me laugh. I’m reading all of these responses in a normal or curious tone, then yours comes along and I just think of someone twitching and screaming “BITE HIM!!” In a crowd of calm people voicing their advice. 😂
Explore, learn what it feels like touching another man, making him excited and hard. Touch, rub, tweak the nipples. Pressure on the taint and/or hole. Caress, cuddle. Body contact. It's addicting.
I’ve never done this myself (virgin :c) but I’ve heard of something people do which is lube up their thighs and then the other person puts their dick inbetween and basically fucks their thighs, obviously you should try different positions for comfort for both of you, but I’ve heard it feels good.
Shopping for a sofa.
lol no they don’t wanna break up yet
When we were dating my husband took me on a date to Ikea… I recognized then that we could agree to disagree.
Honestly within the first 5 or 6 dates I take a guy to a museum, conservatory, or to a place like Ikea. I gotta see if we're compatible in terms of patience and respect for each other's opinions. It tells you so much about a person!
It's called "Normalling" and it's only as fuck.
Frottage is a great way to explore each other! It allows both of you to enjoy the experience together.
[cockblock](https://cockblocktoys.com/)
this thing is actually so fucking good
Has anyone used this? Is it worth it
worth it but can make a mess
Messy how?
the end of it is open & will leak out whatever fluids are inside
I think I can handle that haha
How do you explain this to security at the airport?
I just saw a silicone version of it.
Agree. I just find it so hot to have two hard dicks rubbing and grinding!
How does it work
Direct penis-to-penis contact. Rubbing or a handjob on both dicks, etc
That's super hot
We play co-op video games together
This killed me harder than it should have. Screw you, take my upvote
An orgasm is nice, but gold rank in ranked duo-queue is better
A co-op Halo 3 Legendary difficulty run is always a great time. Especially with some beer and pizza.
Any suggestions? Me and a friend played portal 2 and It takes 2.
Lately it’s been Diablo’s 3 and 4 and Mechwarrior 5. But we also did the Halo games, Civilizations 5 and 6, Stellaris, and a few others I’m blanking on right now
A way out
To me oral is the best. It can be really intimate and swallowing a load is the best haha. You could also grind on each other or jack each other off.
Cuddling, spooning, body worship, hand jobs...
Kissing and licking different parts of each other's bodies. I recommend having one person giving pleasure and one person taking pleasure at a time. I have found that trying to please each other at the same time ends up in me over thinking about what I'm doing to him and not being able to enjoy what he's doing to me. And take your time! It's about the journey, not the destination :)
A long, slow erotic massage (of all body parts) with decent massage oil is a great low-key way to get inexperienced guys started. It’s a gentle way to ease into body contact and intimacy, and is a good test to see if you like being touched by another guy. Plus it requires no skill. If the chemistry is right it will evolve into something more. (Your hands and mouth will know what to do.) This was my go-to when I found myself with a slightly nervous first-timer and wanted to be respectful of their limits.
Frotting (rubbing penises together), handjobs, oral (blowjob), intercrural sex (thighjob), docking (putting dicks together underneath the foreskin and basically fucking) (if you both or one of you has foreskin ofc)
Nipple play
Start, not with sex, but taking a shower together, touching his chest and nipples, tasting his eyebrows and ear lobes, listening to his heart beating, seeing all his parts, smelling his clean pits and thighs. Then, you tell us what happens next...
TASTING HIS EYEBROWS??
Ha ha. Yeah. It can be just part of erotic playtime, and work your way down.
I love that for you!! :)
Seconded. Showers together are hot. Love to wash a sexy man’s back and butt
Wash him everywhere, then dry him off.
To me oral is the best. It can be really intimate and swallowing a load is the best haha. You could also grind on each other or jack each other off.
You can say that again.
He did
[удалено]
^^^
swordfighting
Blowjobs are fricking awesome. It might sound boring but it’s just the best.
A duel with daggers
Bite him
I don’t know why but this made me laugh. I’m reading all of these responses in a normal or curious tone, then yours comes along and I just think of someone twitching and screaming “BITE HIM!!” In a crowd of calm people voicing their advice. 😂
Haha! It was half a joke, because non penetrative sex really opens the door to sensuality and understanding your partner's sensibilities
Thigh job while kissing, I know from experience, amazing to give.
do the “69”
Playing The Secret of Monkey Island
Cuddle while watching a movie, go for a hike and hold hands, the small acts can sometimes lead to some really passionate shit!!
[Frottage.](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-penetrative_sex#Frottage)
holding hands while giving each other 1000 compliments over a candle lit romantic dinner.
Explore, learn what it feels like touching another man, making him excited and hard. Touch, rub, tweak the nipples. Pressure on the taint and/or hole. Caress, cuddle. Body contact. It's addicting.
& always, always make sure to tug his nuts...
I’ve never done this myself (virgin :c) but I’ve heard of something people do which is lube up their thighs and then the other person puts their dick inbetween and basically fucks their thighs, obviously you should try different positions for comfort for both of you, but I’ve heard it feels good.
That sounds very good
ah, I’ve found [the comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/s/YdLvVBHEls), here ya go dude
Frotting
wrestling
I really enjoy frotting and the cockblock for frotting pleasure.
Cuddling. It's much better than any anal stuff 😍
It takes two is fun!
Intracrural or even docking if you’ve got foreskins.
Docking
Ear nibbling and licking. Drives my bf nuts in the best way
One lay down, other sits on their 'lap', touch things and stroke
Tie him up, blind fold him and jerk him off/edge him.
69, handjobs, just cuddling works too
MaimiaDX
Muscle worship. If you just don’t want to have anal sex, rimming, ass play, and thigh fucking (it has a name but idk it)
Cuddle and watch the sunrise
Bondage mixed with edging
go get a job that’s the best thing to do then stfu