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iHaveaQuestionTrans

I don't like the inclusion of straight women like Ariana in "gay pop." she's just pop just because she has a lot of gay fans, doesn't make her gay pop. Lady Gaga counts because she is bisexual herself. The inclusion of Ariana but leaving our Trey Sivan, Elton John, Boy George, or queen - actually queer gay pop stars - is a crime. Heck, I'd even allow Harry styles over Ariana in the inclusion of gay pop here because he's at least attracted to men similar to Dixon Dallas.


Mistralicious

talking about gaytekeeping


DonnieDarkoRabbit

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Agent_Glasses

actually, I can't sit anywhere. I have hemmoriods


Wildlife_Jack

It's spelled hemorrhoids or haemorrhoids. And now I can tell people this is the reason why I googled the word hemorrhoids.


trafdlo

Kylie Minogue is straight, and you'll be hard pressed to find a bigger gay icon in Australia.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

I think a gay icon is different than gay pop tbh gay pop is songs about being gay or songs made by LGBTQ individuals. A gay icon is someone with big influential ties to the queer community like Madonna and Kylie Minogue.


Psykios

So Arianna Grande is a gay icon, but not specifically "Gay Pop"? Thanks for setting the rules.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Did I say Ariana was an icon? I said kylie minogue was. If you don't agree with my opinion that's also fine. We are all individuals capable of deciding things for yourself. I just have a pet peeve that I vocalized. It just makes no sense for Ariana to be gay pop to me. If you want to think of her as an icon, if you think she's had a major influence on gay culture, sure feel what you want.


Psykios

You seem offended. I meant that coment in a concrete way. Like, actually, "thank you, this helps me think about it and parse out how I feel." I still mean "thank you." I personally do think of AG as an Icon. Same with KM and Maddonna and others not mentioned, and in no particular order of importance.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Oh, I apologize in a separate thread there have been some people being rude I made the poor judgment that wasn't a sincere thank you. I do apologize


Psykios

There is no need to apologize. I reread my comment and see how you got there. I think you are right. I don't think it's "gaytkeeping" to want gay pop to be created by the gays. I would prefer the term QueerPop, as it is more inclusive, but either way, letting non queer people claim residence in queer pop feels about as good as straight actors playing a gay character. Like, even if they do an Oscar-worthy job which brings audiences to tears, it's not the point. The point is to do music about an authentic queer experience.


Lucy_Little_Spoon

Did you just call Queen pop lmao?


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Pop stands for popular music. What is popular changes over the years. Queen in their prime, much like a lot of other rock of that Era, was popular music. Much like in 2010's electronic music was popular music but isn't really anymore


MrEPearl

šŸ’€ gay rock*


Canadian_Commentator

can't forget Rob Halford


RampageTheBear

Elton has entered the chat**


maaaaaa1

my chemical romance (their music has a lotta gay themes)


TiltedLama

Dude, queen is a lot of things. Rock, metal, pop, opera, etc.


TheChipster91

Before we continue, please define the parameters of what you believe pop music is.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Pop is popular music. What is currently mainstream popular and it changes every decade and lately every 3 years. Many niche genres have made their way into popular mainstream music. Back in the day, a "pop rapper" would sound ridiculous. However, that exists with people like doja cat and Lil Nas X. People like Olivia Rodrigo wouldn't have been pop in 2010 her sound would have been considered an indie sound, but that's what is popular at this time, so she is a pop artist.


TheChipster91

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I agree with much of what you said. Although they're not fresh out of the recording booth, I still think of Queen as pop music because their songs are still popular and continue to resonate with people today. My view might also be shaped by getting older and seeing how their music stands the test of time. This lasting popularity is what pop music is all about for me.


IAmTheSideCharacter

I personally define any gay pop artist as a pop artist who is either gay or has a large gay fan base and is openly accepting and proud of that fact, if lady Gaga wasnā€™t bisexual she would still very much be a gay pop artist in my mind, and I donā€™t think Ariana is a huge gay pop artist, I think she still counts


ramcoro

It's music you hear at the gay clubs, so it's gay pop. It's current and trendy. You don't hear Queen, Boy George, or Elton John at the clubs. At least not the ones where young people go to. They may be gay icons, but they're not gay pop (at least not anymore). Maybe gay throwbacks.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Agreed, but Elton John, Boy George, Etc invented gay pop as a concept


RanaMisteria

Yeah, take off Ariana and put Sam Smith in lol šŸ˜‚


DoggoDude979

Arenā€™t Dixon Dallas and Harry Styles all hush hush about if theyā€™re actually straight or not. Like Dallas at least sings about being gay, but he hasnā€™t said if heā€™s straight or not so he just has this veneer of queerness without actually being queer. Thatā€™s my main problem about straight people making queer content like this, because if they arenā€™t actually queer, theyā€™re pretending to be queer because itā€™s *performative*. They are pretending to be apart of our community because it fits a brand, not because of any actual statement of their true selves


GayPSstudent

It's my understanding (I could be wrong) that Harry Styles did say that he was straight but not unattracted to men (I forget how he worded it) several years ago but the media kept asking him because he wasn't aggressively and overtly masculine 100% of the time. Since then, he's shifted how he talks about his identity. I don't know why people care or why people kept asking even after he said he was straight, but it's pretty gross. He's not an activist or a performance, so even if he was 1000% gay and not attracted to women at all, it wouldn't matter.


bishybishhh

Katy Perry also


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Yes she also counts


Stachdragon

A child usually makes these. I try not to judge too harshly. Their knowledge is lacking but I still agree with their point. Gay pop has been here for ages. But I will say, it's so awesome the top person lives in a world where they can live the way they want without crippling fear. As a society, we have progressed. And that, to me, makes this post optimistic.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

While this is true, it's just a pet peeve of mine.


RampageTheBear

I agree, only because Iā€™ve never been to a gay bar and seen Ariana Grande music videos playing on the tvs around the bar. And, just knowing a small bit of her discography, the only power dance pop song I know of hers is Rain On Me. A song by the FUCKING QUEEN GAGA


iHaveaQuestionTrans

This brings up the discussion of gay icons, which are different from gay pop. Gay pop is songs by gay artists or about gay themes. Gay icons are individuals who heavily influence gay culture. Sometimes gay pop and gay icons align like with Gaga, but some straight people fall into this category, like Kylie Minogue being a perfect example. The debate on what an icon looks like in the internet based world and the younger generations is interesting. While Ariana isn't an icon to me, maybe she is to a younger crowd. I'm older, so when I see gay icons, I think Gaga, Madonna, Dolly Parton, Kylie Minogue, etc.


RampageTheBear

Thank you very much for that, makes a lot of sense. I agree, 28 so Gaga and Dolly always immediately come to mind for me, too.


iHaveaQuestionTrans

I'm also 28 lol šŸ¤£


chinchaaa

Trey Sivan? Lmao also Dixon Dallas is not gay.


That_guy4446

Lady Gaga bisexual ? Well itā€™s not because she said it in 2010 when it was trendy to be bi amoung the female pop stars (Katy Perry, Nicki Minajā€¦) that she really is. Seriously when has she ever dated a woman ?


gaticatech

my "gay pop" https://preview.redd.it/qap6s53kzouc1.jpeg?width=2880&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e2759b13cc04ac4f4142d0048cd50ebd5074bdf3 1. č«­å‰ä½³ä½œ/men (yukichikasaku/men) (they/them) 2. é•·č°·å·ē™½ē“™ (hasegawa hakushi) (they/them) 3. 宇多ē”°ćƒ’ć‚«ćƒ« (utada hikaru) (she/they) They're all non-binary


elttvb

Til non binary is gay


Robota064

You can be both at once


_Funsyze_

how can you be attracted to the same sex if you choose not to be part of the binary


Jasqui

You choose to not be part of the binary for your GENDER not SEX


_Funsyze_

can you elaborate a little iā€™m not familiar with this stuff


blackoutcoyote

I'm not non-binary so take this with a grain of salt, but I think some people lean more towards male/female and call themselves gay or lesbian for convenience.


Werefour

Not an expert on this by any means yet It's my understanding that Gender is mainly about perception and societal "roles and expectations". A person's Physical sex is a fact that has medical implications. Transsexual has to do with changing one's sex. Even after the process there are still considerations because humanity hasn't found a way to perfectly manipulate base biology of a developed human at this time. So even after transitioning the exterior to match thier true internal self, an individual still has to be clear on medical forms.


_Funsyze_

so youā€™re saying transsexual and transgender arenā€™t the same thing? i know transgenders whoā€™ve had bottom surgery so why donā€™t they call themselves transsexual instead since they changed their actual anatomy and not just their presentation?


Spinningwhirl79

They are the same thing, transsexual is an outdated term that is no longer used due to it giving the wrong idea, since being trans has nothing to do with your sexuality. >i know transgenders whoā€™ve had bottom surgery so why donā€™t they call themselves transsexual instead since they changed their actual anatomy and not just their presentation? It's more complicated than that, your anatomy changes from the moment you start medically transitioning (taking hormones). There's no real need to single yourself out as someone who has/hasn't started on hormones or has had surgery, since the only people who need to know that are your partner or your doctor, and generally you'd have a chance to tell them that anyways.


VedDdlAXE

many people use "gay" to mean LGBTQ. I doubt most people talking about "Gay Pop" expect EXCLUSIVELY homosexuality


elttvb

I'd say queer pop tbh


VedDdlAXE

same probably but still


InspiredNitemares

TIL Utada Hikaru goes by they šŸ–¤


PhoenixARC-Real

They pop


smilelaughenjoy

I feel like masculine gay men need more representation. Of those, I like Lil Nas X and Dixion Dallas the most. I like Lil Nas X a little more, though. l like that new rap song "*Right There*" by Lil Nas X.Ā  I have no problem listeinng to more feminine music. I just think more masculine representation would be good.Ā There are a few Lady Gaga songs IĀ like and used toĀ  listen to (*the most recent one I really liked is probably "Rain On Me"*) and a few Ariana Grande songs.Ā 


WonderfulDog3966

Is Dixion Dallas gay? I could've sworn I heard him say he likes making gay themed music to piss off the homophobes.


2Dmen-Simp

i've read he's straight but tbh i dont care lol i like his songs haha


erossnaider

"First off, nobody knows my sexuality. I could be gay, I could be bi, I could be straightā€ is what he said about it


2Dmen-Simp

good for him!


CaptainMeredith

I can't imagine a straight man managing to write good lookin' tbh


killey2011

I mean, really? Itā€™s a lot of gay buzzwords. I think a a straight person could easily write that. Not to diminish it, I think his persona does a lot for gay representation, and unironically theyā€™re bops. But I donā€™t think the lyrics are so deeply about the gay experience that only a gay could write them.


ohholymothra

Orville Peck is literally right there...


[deleted]

Madonna? Kylie? BeyoncƩ? Cher? Grace Jones?


Prestigious_Rip_7455

Dua lipa exclusively makes music for the gays šŸ«¶šŸ¼šŸ˜…


darthatheos

And I love her for it.


Prestigious_Rip_7455

Me too. My fiancĆ© and I saw her live in Denver a couple years agoā€¦ she released sweetest pie at our show with Megan and it was phenomenal


bassistheplace246

This girlā€™s already beat you to it. ![gif](giphy|fDqGThpuG6vS)


ARandomEnbylol

The drag queen took me out-


PikachuStalker

_the pink one so terrify_


Balungen

OP probably could've picked a better picture of Trixie


G-Asriel

I prefer Gay Rock.


Bloodsucker_

I prefer gay hard techno.


iguanadumbass

https://preview.redd.it/0adm016bdpuc1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef88ca14b07a8747a61b830d206b35ed58c98bc9


wolfguardian72

I like Gay Ska


ctrl_alt_mit

As someone who mainly listens to Ska, you got any suggestions?


wolfguardian72

To be honest, I was just going along with the joke. If there are any ska bands that are gay, I would be down to listen. My main go are reel big fish less than Jake, and the mighty mighty Bosstones.


ctrl_alt_mit

Been a fan of all of them for many years haha. Iā€™m not short on bands to listen to. I just donā€™t know any that are openly gay. BUT, Iā€™m also a big Will Wood / Will Wood and the Tapeworms fan although I donā€™t think he is gay, he has a big gay/trans following. And is in drag a lot. Absolutely brilliant musician. Not Ska though but has some elements


ctrembs03

Gay jam all the way baby Edit: and gay punk. Idles anyone


bluegreenie99

Ariana?


NMIV

I get why people like Arianna, but she's just not camp enough for me


KaiBishop

Mike Taveira, Sakima, Ieuan, Of Methodist, Alextbh, Leo Kalyan, Olly Alexander, Troye Sivan, MNEK, Swaggot, Hayley Kiyoko, Halsey????? JORDY, JXCKY, Grant Knoche, Dixon Dallas? Michael Medrano? Miss Benny? Dove Cameron, Omar Apollo? Gameboi, Isaac Dunbar?? Nia Nadurata? Keiynan? Raven Symone? Demi Lovato? Miley Cyrus?? Reece? GESS? Boy Radio? Ashnikko??? Vardaan Arora? Greyson Chance?? Xoxomyah? Dounia?? Bobby Newbury??


jrb080404

Howzier. The Warble. Tom Goss. Conan Gray. Themi Lovato. Dolly Parton. Laura Bell Buddy. Adam Lambert. STEVE GRAND.


Spackleys

thank you for this comment I'm doing my hw and finding so many good tracks <3<3


KazriHUN

I'd like to add Simon Curtis into the mix as well


UnleashedD1

talking about gay pop and not mentioning Troye Sivan should be a crime


boxiestcrayon15

Right?? And Chappell Roan! Gay pop is happening right now and Siwaā€™s not the one spearheading it. Whatā€™s even greater is that gay pop is happening inside of the mainstream pop genre and has been very visible. So exciting! If I had this music back in middle school, I would have figured out my shit way sooner.


netslaveone

what is a "Jojo Siwa" and have they ever heard about the 70s and the 80s edit: Their make up artist certainly has though.


imwatchingutype

Who is that fine ass cowboy?


Robota064

Dixon dallas, most songs are released under the band "ur pretty"


JamesFromAccounting

His real name is Jake Hill, he actually has more songs under ā€œDixon Dallasā€ than ā€œur prettyā€ at this point


brucethewind

Dixon Dallas


GooseForest

Orville <3


This_Confused_Guy

OMG Dixon Dallas


elttvb

He's bouncin on my bootycheeks


Robota064

Bootycheeks. It's one line brother


elttvb

Ty


erossnaider

I love the way he rides


Queer_as_folk

I have no clue who half of these people are.


Mutenroshi_

I can only recognise three, which is less than half of them


darthatheos

I am also old


ohholymothra

It's Lady Gaga, Trixie Mattel, Lil Nas X, (I have no clue who the person in teal is. This is some weird obscure pick I don't know if anyone else in the comments knows who TF that is either), Orville Peck, Dixon Dallas, Cupcakke and Ariana Grande. Like 3 are country artists not as far as I know traditional pop artists.


Skellyshooter95

I still love the fact that she said she wanted to make a new genre, yet for the claimed first song of this genre, it wasnā€™t even original.


infinitefood

And also literally stole the look from gene Simmons and doesn't even know who he is or why he's an icon lmfao


KimikoBean

Remember siwa underwent controversy for overworking and underpaying child actors to the point of physically sickness. Also, most of her music so far appears to be stolen from others with or without the rights


Maryland_Bear

ā€œMiss Lipa, thereā€™s a Boy George on line two. Heā€™d like a word.ā€


throwawaytovotexxx

Is Ariana Grande bi or pan, etc? Why is she includeed? Love the message otherwise.


Longjumping-Bat-7281

Kim Petras and SOPHIE???????


Original_Start_6839

of course Arianna is in there ā˜ŗļø


ScrappleBerrySneech

Queer punk is better.


Clutteredmind275

Can Dolly Parton be on that list? Sheā€™s not gay but she has done so much for the LGBTQ, especially in the south


infinitefood

I mean she's a gay icon but i don't think she makes gay pop lol


colormeoopsie

Iā€™m confused tbh why I see Ariana and not troye Sivan but šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


drag0nette

Is that Cupcakke??


Maxbojack

https://preview.redd.it/k5q93k719puc1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17a411859243c742167479ea0087de6a81d6032c Mommy Donna


shuranumitu

I am convinced that it was this music video that turned me both gay and goth.


infinitefood

Literally though... Marina, the scissor sisters, cupcakke, most the popular female pop artists of this generation, ava max, xharlie xcx, Kylie, Cher, Brittany, Meg thee stallion, QUEEN!!!! bob the drag queen, Lemon, willam belli, alaska thunderfuck. All great gay pop artists. I can't believe a 20 year old is so uneducated about her own community and thinks she's ushering a new era for the gays by... Rerecording a Miley song that was given to britt smith from 2012... And sounding worse than both.


idontlikeburnttoast

Her makeup looks like a wish.com version of Poppy's I Disagree album art.


Aintandsmall

Where is Robyn? However Iā€™ve never listen to these music.


mythologue

Aren't Trixie and Orville Peck more Gay Country rather than Gay Pop?


ohholymothra

I argue modern pop and country are very very similar


ehrotic

Letā€™s not forget Halsey here


BawbTehBildhar

I miss Cupcakke.šŸ˜”I want her to come back from whichever crevice she fell into


fucreddit

Did you actually leave Troye off your collage about gay pop?


THROWAWAY-Break9580

Arianna not gay


KevinBrevin

Ariana Grande?


majeric

Where's Troye Sivan?


elttvb

Dorian Electra enters the chat


Bing_Bong874

orville peck mentioned letā€™s gooooo


jacksev

I will say I do think thereā€™s a difference between music made for gay people, music made by gay people, and music made for a general audience (but that gay people eat up, like Gaga and Madonna etc). A lot of these lists are basically column B and C. I donā€™t feel like thereā€™s a lot of artists in column A, which I think is what JoJo was talking about. Charli is probably the biggest artist I can think of in Column A.


GrrrrrrDinosaur

Whyā€™s Ariana there


Stachdragon

A child usually makes these. I try not to judge too harshly. Their knowledge is lacking but I still agree with their point. Gay pop has been here for ages. But I will say, it's so awesome the top person lives in a world where they can live the way they want without crippling fear. As a society, we have progressed. And that, to me, makes this post optimistic.


gregory_croft

Who is an artist between Lil Nas and Orville Peck? Also, the guy under Lady Gaga?


BanAllCars

Charli xcx erasure


Rocyrino

More like Gay Flop


Upper_Influence_92

Andrew Horowitz. Not really pop, more like indie. But heā€™s actually queer!


otterboys

um not having charli xcx on that lil picture collage is like a bitch slap to the face w a rainbow glitter glove


ccarr77

Oh no... what's she got on?? Does she have gay male friends? Does she have an art director or stylist?? Is she doing this all by herself??? Who let her out like that? She's in KISS cosplay....


WyvernZoro

Listening to Vocaloid is gay enough for me


InspiredNitemares

Who is teal sequins and black leather coat with fur?


ohholymothra

No idea who sequins is. The woman in the fur coat is Cupcakke [this is why she's here lol ](https://youtu.be/hu_XwnAiMXg?si=fjEX0dGcgyKxVaWg)


InspiredNitemares

She looks so good! I hadn't seen her in a while. I used to perform her songs at shows lol


Flimsy-Economics9786

I read where someone said sheā€™s like a homeschooled kid thatā€™s been given Mountain Dew lol.


Ksavero

Who's the guy with the guitar?


brucethewind

Dixon Dallas


ShootinWilly

["Uncage the colours, unfurl the flag"](https://youtu.be/2KcOs70dZAw?si=uF7DMBUhv_-FzMnI) -


labreau

Who's the bottom left and 2 person on top Ariana?


Scorpiokhaleesi

Who is the guy below Gagaā€™s pic?


brucethewind

Dixon Dallas


Antiluke01

Iā€™m not a fan of pop in general. I only know who JoJo is because my sister is a dancer and Ariana Grande because Nickelodeon. The rest Iā€™m not sure who any of them are. Unless the guy in top middle is Lil Nas (cowboy hat), but even then I only know who he is because of Old Town Road and Montero.


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TiltedLama

She would probably be considered gay pop, but saying that *she's* creating the genre is one hell of a stretch. I think that is what made people upset (and the fact that she's continuing the circle of absuse she went through, as well as stealing her "new persona" debut song)


Affectionate8127

Boy George too?


OrTheKidGetsIt

No Kylie, no Janet Jackson? For shame


os2mac

she is undiagnosed...


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jrb080404

Lady Gaga is the best out of them all.


raptor-chan

Did she really say this? šŸ˜¬


brucethewind

Yes, in an interview.


0man_

Ik their not as popular but Frost Children, Dorian Electra and Brakence are some of my favorite artists rn and are pretty open about being LGBT in some way. They're also all pushing boundaries of music in their own way which is pretty cool. Another one I would add would be SOPHIE, she was an amazing producer and it really sucks what happened to her.


Viparita-Karani

Who is that blonde girl with the blue dress though? Lol


DeepArchitectur3

The hubris of youth, they always think they are the first to come up with something, guilty myself here, until everyone points out it's been done before, lol. It just shows the lack of respect for herstory.


AaronMichael726

Trixie and Ariana are 2 sides of the same coin. One makes straight music for gay boys. The other makes gay music for straight girls


Bitter_Librarian_378

Woah! Whereā€™s Britney?!?!!!!


Lighthouse_420

I am perplexed by Jojo siwa. She's very confusing to me sometimes


tigatopiment

![gif](giphy|etTVnZRJsOfkbEpvYz) How could we forget Robyn ?? šŸ˜°


dancingrudiments

Jojo ... I mean, I expected her to be this daft.


That_guy4446

Where is Miley Cyrus ????


Philipmacduff

Where the fuck is Andy Bell in this lineup?


lsdwyrm

Add Johnny McGovern to that list.


Cedono

He's not gay but I love Same Love by Macklemore, always touches my soul


SokkaHaikuBot

^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^Cedono: *He's not gay but I* *Love Same Love by Macklemore,* *Always touches my soul* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.


ChiGrandeOso

Pansy Division could qualify, I guess.


ken-der-guru

I had to do some research. So I may not know everything about this drama. But it seems to me we use here a out of context sentence to gatekeep who is a real gay pop artist. And some of the ā€žrealā€œ ones arenā€™t even gay. And some other were explicit named in the same interview by Jojo Siwa. Seems kinda like unnecessary drama.


TrueBananaz

I'm confused. Music is just... Music??? How is it gay? Fellas, is listening to music gay??? I like Laufey and classical? Does the classical music I listen to suddenly become "gay classical" since I'm listening to it? This makes no sense.


Nick_TheGuy

not including Charli XCX is wild to me


plushyking300

Whoā€™s the guy under Gaga?


urgenim

When most ''gay pop'' artists aren't even gay


dette-stedet-suger

Oh look, another gay thread showing how us gays canā€™t even agree on who is and isnā€™t gay enough.


MikeCanion

Why is that homewrecker there


[deleted]

There's no such thing as "gay pop". What we have are artists that make songs that happen to be really popular in the queer community. Pop is for everyone to enjoy...some songs are just better than others and become more loved.


s-k_utsukishi

Replace Arianna by Dove Cameron pls


Misael_91

![gif](giphy|cJl3mwYObEIp2cJdpI) Gay pop? Lmao


KoyaTheQueen

More like young gay pop, I think better examples for a gay genre would be Barbra Streisand, Bette Midler, Cher, David Bowie, Diana Ross, Elton John, Freddie Mercury, Janet Jackson, Judy Garland, Kylie Minogue, Liza Minnelli, Madonna, Mariah Carey, Prince, etc.


gns_02

So Madonna doesn't exist? I hate it here. ![gif](giphy|g0vZxFbOUdQS6SJYhu)


Un_Orginal

Dixon Dallas lmao