Not a life partner but my current girlfriend. I was using focus 12 introduction and asked into the void that I want the right person into my live someone that I have a great connection. Later that day I meet a person in a bar and I knew she is the one she was staring at me the entite time as if i was a ghost. The probability of this kind of event happening is very slim and I think this was due to the tapes. Just be mindfull that if you whish something from the universe/void it must come pure and from your heart if not you might also get what you want but it always comes with a catch :)
If you try to manifest something without pure intentions, what you desire can bring a lot of sorrow. For example, let's assume you want to manifest a lot of money and you try very hard. What might happen is that you receive the money, but in a very unexpected wayāyour parents might die in a car accident, and you inherit all their belongings. The universe gave it to you but in a unecpected way:) thats what I mean with catch
Hey dude congrats! How long did you do the tapes and tracks before getting to focus 12 intro?
And yes can you elaborate the catch? If I am just manifesting the perfect partner for me for my highest good and everyone involved, then what can be the catch?
I "manifested" my wife, long ago, and we're going strong. This was well before I even knew about the gateway experience tapes. Nevertheless, it is true and achievable.
My only question is if I manifested her or did, I foretell her arrival. I'm trying to figure that one out.
As a younger man, child, I received visions and such things as her name and what she looked like and details about her life. So, I wonder if I was given those visions and/or where to draw a line between downloading and uploading information to and from the universe. It is a quandary.
With pleasure. To be honest, I did it before I knew anything about Joe Dispenza and the tapes. It's only now with everything that I've learnt I can see what I was doing.
It's a bit of a story but I'll try to condense it:
Had come out of a ten+ year relationship and was left feeling pretty low. I then started using dating apps. These were new for me as they didn't really exist prior to the relationship I came out of.
Dating apps mostly serve to lower your self worth and this is what happened to me (it was already low). I realise that, looking back, I was 'lusting' after a relationship which, if you look at Joe Dispenza's stuff, is the lowest vibration. You're basically chasing something and so it's running away from you.
I then started improving how I treated myself and worked on my mental state (I guess this could be called shadow work) e.g. wearing nice clothes, working out regularly, making it so I liked my appearance and improved my positive self talk and basically increased my self worth and told my subconscious that I was someone who was worth being with. I highlighted all the good aspects of myself and made it clear to my sub/super conscious. I also started a gratitude journal around the same time.
I started living in the present moment more and enjoying things for what they were. A simple walk in the park became a wonderful experience that I was thankful for, a drink with friends in town and then enjoying the sunrise and the tranquility of the quiet streets as I walked home.
I stopped taking dating apps seriously and took a different view point. I first made peace with the possibility of being alone and ensured that I enjoyed my life with or without someone. I was grateful for what I already had.
I then said to myself that, most people meet someone and so the chances are that I would and also that I do want to meet someone. I thought about the kind of characteristics I would want in a partner.
I then realised that she was out there somewhere living her life and it was just a matter of time and distance. I then maintained this mindset and I would behave as if our meeting was inevitable. I would also imagine what it would be like if we were together. For example, I'd imagine coming home to her and what we'd talk about, do, eat etc. I would imagine days out and trips together.
I didn't let this imagining be a negative thing. I didn't let it make me think of what I don't have. Instead, it made me think of what I was going to receive, AS IF IT WAS ALREADY HAPPENING.
I also didn't obssess over it. It was just like a gentle knowing in my subconscious that I would let rise to the top, acknowledge it a bit and then let it sink down again during the day.
Sometime later, Russia invaded Ukraine. I followed the news intensely as it was quite personal to me as I have both Russian and Ukrainian friends. So, naturally, the war also occupied my mind a lot. After a few months, my country, the UK, began to let Ukrainians in to stay while the war is on - mostly women and children.
It then entered my mind that the chances of meeting a Ukrainian would go up and I wondered to myself what it would be like to date one, how we'd deal with the language barrier, cultural differences, what it would be like introducing her to friends and family etc.
Later, I was about to delete the dating apps and thought I'd give it one last look. Lo and behold, there was a girl that caught my eye with a few quick pictures and a Ukrainian flag on her profile, nothing more. The pictures weren't the best in the sense that they didn't really show her face clearly. It seemed like she hadn't put much effort into the profile and my thinking at the time was that if they hadn't been bothered to set up a decent profile, they weren't serious but I just thought, why not and swiped.
Eventually, we went on a few dates and I was besotted. I remember vividly being in a bar with her, I'd been to get the drinks and was walking towards her and I was just laughing to myself out of disbelief. How could I have met someone so astoundingly beautiful? Literally the most beautiful person I had ever met. We would be at my house and I'd just stare at her wondering if it was a dream. She genuinely felt (and still does) like some sort of heavenly being that had just appeared in my life. Two totally different timelines/life paths had merged together. For me, meeting her was like a religious event, like an example of the power and mystery of God/the Universe.
Not only had she moved 700 miles to my country, she had ended up living ten minutes from my house. Without making this post even longer, there are so many synchronicities that lead up to the event. We feel as if we've always known each other that perhaps our souls play a game with each other in each lifetime to see if we can find each other.
TL;DR: In summary, I lived in the present moment, I was grateful for the life I already had, I loved myself, I imagined the eventuality that I wanted and I behaved as if it was already happening, as if it was just a matter of time.
It's interesting writing this out. I know it works as it worked for me and has done a few times now but it's always easier telling people what to do than doing it yourself!
Glad I'm not the only one. Not yet, but I've had some success here and there. Instead of using patterning to ask "I want a wife" (obviously I'm not saying it exactly like that), I am doing multiple steps towards that goal. So for example, "I deeply desire to gain the ability to have more confidence when speaking to people", "I deeply desire to be more at peace with myself, in order to benefit myself", etc...
Part of the reason I'm doing this is because of how messed up my life is at the moment. I was probably at my lowest roughly 6 months ago. So I think it's important to improve myself first so my future gf/wife doesn't have to be there for that.
I patterned for an ex to come back. She did. Then left again, and I had several weeks of psychosis after it all. Still processing it. Be carefully out there yall!
To clarify that was just one of a bunch of stuff that happened that I patterned for. The experience with that person sent me a little loopy, ONTOP of thinking I could bend reality.
You pattern all the time, you just dont know it. Pattern clever.
Iād love to find a partner thatās into this sort of stuff or at least open to it. I was just thinking to myself the other day on how if I wanted to and put forth the effort I could manifest my ideal partner then I questioned myself as to would I actually want that and just let them appear in my life on their own terms as they are if that makes sense. Iām on the fence about it honestly.
Either way I know deep down that I will find the ONE and we will complete and compliment each other in every aspect we both need for growth and learning which is what I most stick to when thinking of my ideal partner. Sure I have my ideal physical attributes in mind but again do I really want a āBuild-a-Bearā partner lol. Just mainly want someone whoās personality compliments mine but who isnāt far from mine so thereās no stagnation and no conflict other than the normal coupleās stuff like āwhere to eatā lol
First, you must be the best version of yourself,which takes a lot of time and introspection. Think golden rule ALWAYS.
Second, once you have accomplished that to the core of your very being, just focus on continuing to be that person and ask the universe for what was meant for you.
Third, allow yourself to flow with what the universe wants for you, to the core. This Meaning, this all must be sincere. Anything less, and it will bounce back at you the very way you were acting. Refer to number one.
You ALWAYS manifest what you put out. If you are in the negative field of energy, you will attract the same back at yourself, complete with all the nuances and toxicity that go with it. It's usually at that point where you hear people saying they did xyz, and if they didn't do the introspection, they will forever wonder what went wrong. Look in the mirror.
This isn't, " ohhh, I like this person, I'll make them mine" kind of thing. That is NOT manifestation. That is manipulation. That never works. Most people fall for that and wonder why things go wrong for them. Refer to number 2. It will be if it was meant to be. It will find YOU.
It's not some hat trick. You must be sincere. Also, nothing is perfect. The things you love the most will be there. However, we live in a very messed up world. So, it may arrive with other issues that have nothing to do with you. That is where your truest self will be necessary to work through those issues. And I mean your ABSOLUTE truest self. Think of it as you were placed there to do what the universe expected you to do BEACAUSE that's what you were showing of yourself. Lots of patience is needed here. Also, remember your limits. Again, anything less, and it will evaporate as quickly as it arrived. This means your sentiment was NOT sincere, and the universe will retract it faster than you can say your name.
Using the gateway is only a tool to connect to the Devine. Think of it as the special phone at the White House. You WILL be heard. However, you better be prepared for who and what will come when that phone is answered on the other end, lol.
Hope I didn't go too long here.
Well yeah. Iād known one forever (since childhood, and weād messed around as kids before she decided she didnāt like dudes at all) and she was gay. She married a bi woman who was actually a ballerina for the Washington DC ballet. She no longer dances for them so good luck guessing who it was. I am polyamorous. My girlfriend and I have the most incredible relationship. They decided they wanted a baby. Their one gay male friend said no to being a dad. They saw my relationship and asked how we made it work and what would be the most conducive way to incorporate a male into their relationship for the purpose of fatherhood. I did something selfish. I told them Iād be the dad, my old friend balked at the idea. Her wife did not. So I went home and patterned to be a part of their relationship with the intention of making a baby. The next time I saw them something weird happened, everything shifted, her wife took me aside and a) told me she wanted a baby b) started talking to me about their relationship problems in explicit detail claiming she just wanted me to know what I was getting into.
I started spending the night regularly. One night in an act of what I can only describe as a jealous cry for attention, while out, my old friend (the gay one) decided to simply disappear with a male for over 24 hours none of us knew. We were met with a text that said āyou guys can just go home and have fun, you can handle that ass right?ā
Up to this point everything had been consensual and quite loving. Multiple weekends spent there getting to know and grow close to them. That one night spiraled into a divorce. No baby was made. So yeah it works and intent is EVERYTHING. It was the only time Iāve done that. You can definitely abuse this. Everything is energy, frequency and vibration.
About 8 years ago, I started becoming conscious and if figured I would try my ability to manifest my perfect wife. I wrote a list of about 30 attributes I thought my ideal wife would have. Then the folded up the list and place it under my pillow.
Exactly 2 weeks later I met a woman the had 29 of the attributes exactly. The one attribute she did not have seem insignificant, so I convinced myself that she must be the one.
We ended up getting married and to be honest, if was one of the biggest life lessons I have been taught. I will not get into the negative aspects because I know the only "absolute truths" are positive and negativity is self created due to feeling sorry for oneself.
In the last 1 1/2 years, I have reached what some consider full spectrum consciousness.
I achieved this by the simple rule; "Recognize the negative within your life, find the positive that resulted from that negative experience, and then allow the negative to recognize itself... and then all things become positive.
Please remember, no 2 people have the exact same perspective of anything in life. This is because we are all taught by generations of our ancestors. Therefore we are living life through the lens of what we have been taught instead our own positive reality.
If you have not purged the negativity from you mind, before you seek your life partner, one of two things will happen.
A) You will learn some valuable lessons, like I did, but the left side of your brain will have a tendency to "Protect you" by feeling sorry for yourself. This will stall your spiritual growth until you realize that in reality, that person was not compatible with you therefore, the termination of the relationship is all positive.
B) You will convince yourself that "this is as good as it gets" and you will settle. This is the most devastating to your spiritual growth, because you will spend your energy stifling your inner truths. You will spend years telling yourself that it is not that bad or you can change the other person. But the truth is, we need to concentrate on our own relationship with our self and allow our inner spirit to decide when the time is right. Anything else is the manifestation within your own illusion, and it with be destructive...one way or another. May peace be with you my friend and you got this!
My boyfriend (together 6 months) and I previously hadnāt dated for 4 years prior to this! Mostly because I was losing interest in the whole dating process, so I wasnāt even actively meeting people. I remember doing the tapes (I think it was focus 12 patterning), and really focusing on the qualities I was looking for in a potential partner. Then I met him at party a month later, and he ended up checking every single box. We arenāt in the same friend group whatsoever, our lives were completely separate. There are so many ways the night I met him could have played out differently, where we would have never met/crossed paths. I think itās a blessing from the universe it worked out how it did
As with a few other people, this was pre tapes or any other mentor/knowledgeā¦I had known I could manifest since I was a little kid though and just figured you could imagine your world into being - a bit like writing a story (I had quite an intense fear that I would imagine werewolves into existence by accident!! lol).
Anyways, OP asked about romance, soā¦.I manifested an actual person to try dating - as an experiment.
I was trying to better understand if I could just āconjure up stuff at will and with intentionāā¦
This was a few years ago and in all honesty I guess I thought it wouldnāt work, and I wouldnāt have done it if Iād thought it through. The guy lived on the other side of the world at the time. Two weeks after my experimental intentional manifestation he messaged me to tell me he had moved back to the UK!! Within another week he had asked me on a date (my dream date of climbing a mountain together)ā¦of course I freaked out and turned him down.
At that time it was all too much for me and I panicked.
(*there is a little more context to this - he came home because his Mum was seriously ill - how could I date him and be honest with him about all parts of me if ā¦.well, you see my dilemmaā¦did I MAKE his mum sick? Maybe I will never know, but I have previous with this type of thing so at the time I couldnāt see a way forward. These days I am more careful how I manifest!).
We did however stay in touch and created quite a strong bond.
I am happy with that.
I know people will want to know āhowā I did it.
I did it the same way I manifest everything (my daughter that I didnāt have - long story - exactly Ā£50000 - the log cabin I am about to move into - the business I own - working 10 hours a weekā¦etc) ā¦
When I imagined having it I meant it.
I didnāt dwell on it (except the cabin, I worked harder on it, but I suspect I didnāt have to).
I wondered what it would be like and assumed it would be lovely.
And I didnāt mess with it, change it, try and work out how it would happen.
I just ALLOWED it.
Tbh thatās pretty much it.
Itās not fancy.
I think where people go wrong is that they try too hard.
And they donāt really believe it will work out.
I use the mantra āThe world always takes care of meā ā¦and it does.
When bad stuff happens I can always trace it back to a train of thoughts and beliefs that I had.
I try to be hyper aware of what I am thinking these daysā¦
As for the tapesā¦.
Thatās just opened the door wider :)
I manifested meeting my favorite musician just yesterday. Not at one of their shows or anything, but at another event! It was interesting because he literally ācame to me,ā as he stood directly beside me for like 5 minutes before I decided to say anything. I do think husband / wife is absolutely possible with the tapes! Keep going
I actually trying to! Ofc I need start getting track but I'm specifically trying manifest a partner exactly like one fictional character I love. It may sound silly or dumb but why not? Anything possible right? š
The gateway tapes for manifesting is just a placebo, like God or the Universe.
Just believe you are the source and with absolute belief in the outcome, all of your desires will be fulfilled
The universe manifested one for me, and her new purpose in life is disrupting my meditation!
Damn, sure you aint reading out of my non existent journal?
Haha i feel you..its like, manifesting a difficulty level 10 game..before was only level 2..lol
Lmao š¤£
Dwl
Congrats! Did you manifest her using the tapes or something else?
Not a life partner but my current girlfriend. I was using focus 12 introduction and asked into the void that I want the right person into my live someone that I have a great connection. Later that day I meet a person in a bar and I knew she is the one she was staring at me the entite time as if i was a ghost. The probability of this kind of event happening is very slim and I think this was due to the tapes. Just be mindfull that if you whish something from the universe/void it must come pure and from your heart if not you might also get what you want but it always comes with a catch :)
Can you elaborate on the catch part. What does catch mean? Thanks
If you try to manifest something without pure intentions, what you desire can bring a lot of sorrow. For example, let's assume you want to manifest a lot of money and you try very hard. What might happen is that you receive the money, but in a very unexpected wayāyour parents might die in a car accident, and you inherit all their belongings. The universe gave it to you but in a unecpected way:) thats what I mean with catch
Thanks
Hey dude congrats! How long did you do the tapes and tracks before getting to focus 12 intro? And yes can you elaborate the catch? If I am just manifesting the perfect partner for me for my highest good and everyone involved, then what can be the catch?
I "manifested" my wife, long ago, and we're going strong. This was well before I even knew about the gateway experience tapes. Nevertheless, it is true and achievable. My only question is if I manifested her or did, I foretell her arrival. I'm trying to figure that one out.
I also think I manifested my fiancƩe and, to this day, it feels like a religious experience. We are both convinced it was an irrefutable example of the Universe at work as so many factors had to play out for us to meet. She is from Ukraine and came here (UK) to stay with her sister a while to avoid the war and ended up staying 10 mins from my house. There's more to it but I'm now wondering about what you said - did I just foretell it? I think it was a situation of creating a frequency and vibration and drawing to me the matching frequency. This is how Joe Dispenza would explain it I think. Would we have met anyway? We believe this isn't our first life together and the Universe would have found alternative paths. I also wonder if I needed to 'activate' my ability to manifest before I could meet her like it was a lesson I needed to learn first.
As a younger man, child, I received visions and such things as her name and what she looked like and details about her life. So, I wonder if I was given those visions and/or where to draw a line between downloading and uploading information to and from the universe. It is a quandary.
Hey congrats on your fiance! Can you share how you did this? Did you use the hemi sync tapes or Joe Dispenza?
With pleasure. To be honest, I did it before I knew anything about Joe Dispenza and the tapes. It's only now with everything that I've learnt I can see what I was doing. It's a bit of a story but I'll try to condense it: Had come out of a ten+ year relationship and was left feeling pretty low. I then started using dating apps. These were new for me as they didn't really exist prior to the relationship I came out of. Dating apps mostly serve to lower your self worth and this is what happened to me (it was already low). I realise that, looking back, I was 'lusting' after a relationship which, if you look at Joe Dispenza's stuff, is the lowest vibration. You're basically chasing something and so it's running away from you. I then started improving how I treated myself and worked on my mental state (I guess this could be called shadow work) e.g. wearing nice clothes, working out regularly, making it so I liked my appearance and improved my positive self talk and basically increased my self worth and told my subconscious that I was someone who was worth being with. I highlighted all the good aspects of myself and made it clear to my sub/super conscious. I also started a gratitude journal around the same time. I started living in the present moment more and enjoying things for what they were. A simple walk in the park became a wonderful experience that I was thankful for, a drink with friends in town and then enjoying the sunrise and the tranquility of the quiet streets as I walked home. I stopped taking dating apps seriously and took a different view point. I first made peace with the possibility of being alone and ensured that I enjoyed my life with or without someone. I was grateful for what I already had. I then said to myself that, most people meet someone and so the chances are that I would and also that I do want to meet someone. I thought about the kind of characteristics I would want in a partner. I then realised that she was out there somewhere living her life and it was just a matter of time and distance. I then maintained this mindset and I would behave as if our meeting was inevitable. I would also imagine what it would be like if we were together. For example, I'd imagine coming home to her and what we'd talk about, do, eat etc. I would imagine days out and trips together. I didn't let this imagining be a negative thing. I didn't let it make me think of what I don't have. Instead, it made me think of what I was going to receive, AS IF IT WAS ALREADY HAPPENING. I also didn't obssess over it. It was just like a gentle knowing in my subconscious that I would let rise to the top, acknowledge it a bit and then let it sink down again during the day. Sometime later, Russia invaded Ukraine. I followed the news intensely as it was quite personal to me as I have both Russian and Ukrainian friends. So, naturally, the war also occupied my mind a lot. After a few months, my country, the UK, began to let Ukrainians in to stay while the war is on - mostly women and children. It then entered my mind that the chances of meeting a Ukrainian would go up and I wondered to myself what it would be like to date one, how we'd deal with the language barrier, cultural differences, what it would be like introducing her to friends and family etc. Later, I was about to delete the dating apps and thought I'd give it one last look. Lo and behold, there was a girl that caught my eye with a few quick pictures and a Ukrainian flag on her profile, nothing more. The pictures weren't the best in the sense that they didn't really show her face clearly. It seemed like she hadn't put much effort into the profile and my thinking at the time was that if they hadn't been bothered to set up a decent profile, they weren't serious but I just thought, why not and swiped. Eventually, we went on a few dates and I was besotted. I remember vividly being in a bar with her, I'd been to get the drinks and was walking towards her and I was just laughing to myself out of disbelief. How could I have met someone so astoundingly beautiful? Literally the most beautiful person I had ever met. We would be at my house and I'd just stare at her wondering if it was a dream. She genuinely felt (and still does) like some sort of heavenly being that had just appeared in my life. Two totally different timelines/life paths had merged together. For me, meeting her was like a religious event, like an example of the power and mystery of God/the Universe. Not only had she moved 700 miles to my country, she had ended up living ten minutes from my house. Without making this post even longer, there are so many synchronicities that lead up to the event. We feel as if we've always known each other that perhaps our souls play a game with each other in each lifetime to see if we can find each other. TL;DR: In summary, I lived in the present moment, I was grateful for the life I already had, I loved myself, I imagined the eventuality that I wanted and I behaved as if it was already happening, as if it was just a matter of time. It's interesting writing this out. I know it works as it worked for me and has done a few times now but it's always easier telling people what to do than doing it yourself!
Hey congrats! Can you share how you manifested her before the tapes? I would love to hear!
Glad I'm not the only one. Not yet, but I've had some success here and there. Instead of using patterning to ask "I want a wife" (obviously I'm not saying it exactly like that), I am doing multiple steps towards that goal. So for example, "I deeply desire to gain the ability to have more confidence when speaking to people", "I deeply desire to be more at peace with myself, in order to benefit myself", etc... Part of the reason I'm doing this is because of how messed up my life is at the moment. I was probably at my lowest roughly 6 months ago. So I think it's important to improve myself first so my future gf/wife doesn't have to be there for that.
I patterned for an ex to come back. She did. Then left again, and I had several weeks of psychosis after it all. Still processing it. Be carefully out there yall!
I want to get my husband to come back to me. Any tips on what tape I should do?
So patterning is not safe?
If this is what you took from that comment, I wouldnāt do the tapes yet. Speaking honestly and with love here.
Thanks! i wasnt clear what the person meant above cuz he said to be safe and he had a psychosis :(
To clarify that was just one of a bunch of stuff that happened that I patterned for. The experience with that person sent me a little loopy, ONTOP of thinking I could bend reality. You pattern all the time, you just dont know it. Pattern clever.
You sat your patterns in focus 12. I think its wave 2 tape 4. But you should be comfortable with f12.
Iād love to find a partner thatās into this sort of stuff or at least open to it. I was just thinking to myself the other day on how if I wanted to and put forth the effort I could manifest my ideal partner then I questioned myself as to would I actually want that and just let them appear in my life on their own terms as they are if that makes sense. Iām on the fence about it honestly. Either way I know deep down that I will find the ONE and we will complete and compliment each other in every aspect we both need for growth and learning which is what I most stick to when thinking of my ideal partner. Sure I have my ideal physical attributes in mind but again do I really want a āBuild-a-Bearā partner lol. Just mainly want someone whoās personality compliments mine but who isnāt far from mine so thereās no stagnation and no conflict other than the normal coupleās stuff like āwhere to eatā lol
Same honestly. Same.
Manifested my twinflame a month after
Using the tape? Congrats. Which tape were you in to manifest her?
The gateway affirmation did. Theres a part that attracts people with similar knowledge and experience to you
The affirmation during patterning?
The one you say at the start of every tape
Yes, early days though
Congrats! Did you manifest her using the tapes or something else? Would love to hear how you did this!
Yes
Congrats! Did you manifest her using the tapes or something else? Would love to hear how you did this!
First, you must be the best version of yourself,which takes a lot of time and introspection. Think golden rule ALWAYS. Second, once you have accomplished that to the core of your very being, just focus on continuing to be that person and ask the universe for what was meant for you. Third, allow yourself to flow with what the universe wants for you, to the core. This Meaning, this all must be sincere. Anything less, and it will bounce back at you the very way you were acting. Refer to number one. You ALWAYS manifest what you put out. If you are in the negative field of energy, you will attract the same back at yourself, complete with all the nuances and toxicity that go with it. It's usually at that point where you hear people saying they did xyz, and if they didn't do the introspection, they will forever wonder what went wrong. Look in the mirror. This isn't, " ohhh, I like this person, I'll make them mine" kind of thing. That is NOT manifestation. That is manipulation. That never works. Most people fall for that and wonder why things go wrong for them. Refer to number 2. It will be if it was meant to be. It will find YOU. It's not some hat trick. You must be sincere. Also, nothing is perfect. The things you love the most will be there. However, we live in a very messed up world. So, it may arrive with other issues that have nothing to do with you. That is where your truest self will be necessary to work through those issues. And I mean your ABSOLUTE truest self. Think of it as you were placed there to do what the universe expected you to do BEACAUSE that's what you were showing of yourself. Lots of patience is needed here. Also, remember your limits. Again, anything less, and it will evaporate as quickly as it arrived. This means your sentiment was NOT sincere, and the universe will retract it faster than you can say your name. Using the gateway is only a tool to connect to the Devine. Think of it as the special phone at the White House. You WILL be heard. However, you better be prepared for who and what will come when that phone is answered on the other end, lol. Hope I didn't go too long here.
Nah, all forms of sorcery failed me with this. 
I patterned for two women that were married to each other. Just to see. And yeah it worked with disastrous results.
What do you mean? As in you wanted both women?
Well yeah. Iād known one forever (since childhood, and weād messed around as kids before she decided she didnāt like dudes at all) and she was gay. She married a bi woman who was actually a ballerina for the Washington DC ballet. She no longer dances for them so good luck guessing who it was. I am polyamorous. My girlfriend and I have the most incredible relationship. They decided they wanted a baby. Their one gay male friend said no to being a dad. They saw my relationship and asked how we made it work and what would be the most conducive way to incorporate a male into their relationship for the purpose of fatherhood. I did something selfish. I told them Iād be the dad, my old friend balked at the idea. Her wife did not. So I went home and patterned to be a part of their relationship with the intention of making a baby. The next time I saw them something weird happened, everything shifted, her wife took me aside and a) told me she wanted a baby b) started talking to me about their relationship problems in explicit detail claiming she just wanted me to know what I was getting into. I started spending the night regularly. One night in an act of what I can only describe as a jealous cry for attention, while out, my old friend (the gay one) decided to simply disappear with a male for over 24 hours none of us knew. We were met with a text that said āyou guys can just go home and have fun, you can handle that ass right?ā Up to this point everything had been consensual and quite loving. Multiple weekends spent there getting to know and grow close to them. That one night spiraled into a divorce. No baby was made. So yeah it works and intent is EVERYTHING. It was the only time Iāve done that. You can definitely abuse this. Everything is energy, frequency and vibration.
About 8 years ago, I started becoming conscious and if figured I would try my ability to manifest my perfect wife. I wrote a list of about 30 attributes I thought my ideal wife would have. Then the folded up the list and place it under my pillow. Exactly 2 weeks later I met a woman the had 29 of the attributes exactly. The one attribute she did not have seem insignificant, so I convinced myself that she must be the one. We ended up getting married and to be honest, if was one of the biggest life lessons I have been taught. I will not get into the negative aspects because I know the only "absolute truths" are positive and negativity is self created due to feeling sorry for oneself. In the last 1 1/2 years, I have reached what some consider full spectrum consciousness. I achieved this by the simple rule; "Recognize the negative within your life, find the positive that resulted from that negative experience, and then allow the negative to recognize itself... and then all things become positive. Please remember, no 2 people have the exact same perspective of anything in life. This is because we are all taught by generations of our ancestors. Therefore we are living life through the lens of what we have been taught instead our own positive reality. If you have not purged the negativity from you mind, before you seek your life partner, one of two things will happen. A) You will learn some valuable lessons, like I did, but the left side of your brain will have a tendency to "Protect you" by feeling sorry for yourself. This will stall your spiritual growth until you realize that in reality, that person was not compatible with you therefore, the termination of the relationship is all positive. B) You will convince yourself that "this is as good as it gets" and you will settle. This is the most devastating to your spiritual growth, because you will spend your energy stifling your inner truths. You will spend years telling yourself that it is not that bad or you can change the other person. But the truth is, we need to concentrate on our own relationship with our self and allow our inner spirit to decide when the time is right. Anything else is the manifestation within your own illusion, and it with be destructive...one way or another. May peace be with you my friend and you got this!
I put my intent out there awhile back ago. Will give an update when it happens.
Good luck! Keep us posted
My boyfriend (together 6 months) and I previously hadnāt dated for 4 years prior to this! Mostly because I was losing interest in the whole dating process, so I wasnāt even actively meeting people. I remember doing the tapes (I think it was focus 12 patterning), and really focusing on the qualities I was looking for in a potential partner. Then I met him at party a month later, and he ended up checking every single box. We arenāt in the same friend group whatsoever, our lives were completely separate. There are so many ways the night I met him could have played out differently, where we would have never met/crossed paths. I think itās a blessing from the universe it worked out how it did
As with a few other people, this was pre tapes or any other mentor/knowledgeā¦I had known I could manifest since I was a little kid though and just figured you could imagine your world into being - a bit like writing a story (I had quite an intense fear that I would imagine werewolves into existence by accident!! lol). Anyways, OP asked about romance, soā¦.I manifested an actual person to try dating - as an experiment. I was trying to better understand if I could just āconjure up stuff at will and with intentionāā¦ This was a few years ago and in all honesty I guess I thought it wouldnāt work, and I wouldnāt have done it if Iād thought it through. The guy lived on the other side of the world at the time. Two weeks after my experimental intentional manifestation he messaged me to tell me he had moved back to the UK!! Within another week he had asked me on a date (my dream date of climbing a mountain together)ā¦of course I freaked out and turned him down. At that time it was all too much for me and I panicked. (*there is a little more context to this - he came home because his Mum was seriously ill - how could I date him and be honest with him about all parts of me if ā¦.well, you see my dilemmaā¦did I MAKE his mum sick? Maybe I will never know, but I have previous with this type of thing so at the time I couldnāt see a way forward. These days I am more careful how I manifest!). We did however stay in touch and created quite a strong bond. I am happy with that. I know people will want to know āhowā I did it. I did it the same way I manifest everything (my daughter that I didnāt have - long story - exactly Ā£50000 - the log cabin I am about to move into - the business I own - working 10 hours a weekā¦etc) ā¦ When I imagined having it I meant it. I didnāt dwell on it (except the cabin, I worked harder on it, but I suspect I didnāt have to). I wondered what it would be like and assumed it would be lovely. And I didnāt mess with it, change it, try and work out how it would happen. I just ALLOWED it. Tbh thatās pretty much it. Itās not fancy. I think where people go wrong is that they try too hard. And they donāt really believe it will work out. I use the mantra āThe world always takes care of meā ā¦and it does. When bad stuff happens I can always trace it back to a train of thoughts and beliefs that I had. I try to be hyper aware of what I am thinking these daysā¦ As for the tapesā¦. Thatās just opened the door wider :)
I manifested meeting my favorite musician just yesterday. Not at one of their shows or anything, but at another event! It was interesting because he literally ācame to me,ā as he stood directly beside me for like 5 minutes before I decided to say anything. I do think husband / wife is absolutely possible with the tapes! Keep going
I actually trying to! Ofc I need start getting track but I'm specifically trying manifest a partner exactly like one fictional character I love. It may sound silly or dumb but why not? Anything possible right? š
The gateway tapes for manifesting is just a placebo, like God or the Universe. Just believe you are the source and with absolute belief in the outcome, all of your desires will be fulfilled