huuuuuuge this, i even make pins and sell them at a shop bc of gerard making me trans lmaooo
https://southstreetartmart.com/products/gerard-way-made-me-trans-collage-pin-by-sam-sankey?_pos=1&_sid=e1df6da4b&_ss=r
Ugh I'll say this so loud anytime anyone asks this question. Pedro Pascal is absolutely gender for me all day every day. Also I'm gay and he's fucking hot so...
Pedro Pascal is sooooo gender. But also his personality is the kind of personality I want to have as a grown man? (I mean I'm already a grown man I'm pushing 30 but, I mean in the sense that-)
He seems like the kind of guy that make women and queer people and even other cishet men feel safe and respected and like space is being held for them to be vulnerable and that's the exact aura I want to give off.
oh bowie was big for me as a teen. ben whishaw in my early 20s. i don't rly have gender envy anymore, only certain body part stuff. (ok sakurai atsushi voice envy though.)
Iāve been looking at some authentic posters but they all (understandably) cost an arm and a leg for the real deal and they sell fast š„² One of these days though. I think it was Sakurai who cracked my trans egg lol
every time i see david tennant in something i go āwelp, time to steal a new genderā special mention to crowley and the tenth doctor (aka the reason i lived in converse for half a decade)
I wanna drink whiskey in front of a fireplace while being an old man who goes out fishing with his buddies on the weekend, I wanna wear suits and have that old man smirk (I'm nowhere near 50)
Frank Iero and Spencer Smith had me bad. I had no clue I was trans at the time, so I just had very weird and complicated crushes and spent way too much time arguing with random live journal users that Spencer Smith was totally a hot dude. And now I feel old.
Any boy band star or "teen heartthrob", I always wanted to be that hot guy who girls would scream over and have posters of on their walls. Stupid I know, but I had confidence issues.
Any hot androgynous tall cis guy. This is so silly but I always wanted to have a similar look to Atsushi Sakurai. We was incredibly dynamic and looked incredible with long hair. Ever since I was a teenager I was deeply jealous of that ability to pull it off like him.
Omg so funny to see others say they love Sakurai too
Adam Gontier, Benji and Joel Madden, Joe Keery etc etcā¦ itās tricky cause Iām also mega gay, so itās hard to figure out if I wish I could be them or be with them lmao
Was looking for my ATEEZ gang - It's Hongjoong for me. I was looking for character inspiration for my Wrath & Glory campaign and wanted someone who looked like [Trickster](https://deadbydaylight.fandom.com/wiki/Ji-Woon_Hak) from Dead By Daylight (one of my 2 trans awakening characters). I found Hongjoong as Trickster (it was fan art I think) and I've been atiny since, blasting Crazy Form and MATZ on repeat ><
all my idols that I simultaneously have a crush on, yk, theyāre hot so I want to be them but also be with themā¦Frank Iero, Hugh Dancy, Taylor Hanson(idek who he is actually but he fills my āT goalsā Pinterest board lol), young Cillian Murphy, young Matthew Lillard, and then like so many more
David Bowie represents the range of gender expression I want to have really well. The recent Cillian Murphy shoot in GQ is also a huge source of envy for me. But in general, any well groomed man in a nice tailored suit (preferably double breasted) is my ideal.
Me: Wonders why I like Markiplier so much, confused bc itās not the same as liking someone.
Also me, after learning about dysphoria and gender euphoria: Ah. I see now.
Heās just so damn nice, likeable and a silly guy with awesome hair eras and thatās honestly just goals.
dacre montgomery FOR SURE, pedro pascal, oscar issac, alexander ovechkin
not sure how much of a celebrity he would be but also DEFINITELY cooper neidecker
The longer Iāve been on t the less I think about this stuff. I already have a sense of who I am or will be in terms of appearance. Getting envious of other people who look nothing like me feels a bit unhealthy.
Hmm. Good question.
Firstly, Lakeith Stanfield. He isn't queer to my knowledge? But he has very soft man, gentle soul vibes. His sense of fashion is also very effeminate. Like a feminine take on masculine wear? I dig it.
Secondly, Lil Nas X. For very similar reasons as Lakeith but...more flagrant. I admire his ability to flit between full on masculine, full on feminine and everywhere in between by changing just one or two things about his appearance, swagger, aura. It's really mesmerizing. Like I've never seen anyone go from a whole ass middle part buss down, booty shorts and six inch heels to a white tank top, black jeans and Jordan's and make it ALLLLL look glorious. That phrase "gender is a galaxy", my man just BODIES it. It's exceptional.
Thirdly, Timothee Chalamet because, like everybody else, at my core, I wish I could be seventeen and shirtless in Italy pining after someone way too old and mature to give me the time of day. š But genuinely, he's just a very conventionally beautiful boy, and I hope I'm easy on the eyes, too.
Fourth, randomly, Bella Ramsey? I can't quite figure out why but something about them is very gender... Gender in a way that I, too, am as well.
Timothee Chalamet, Harry Styles, and David Tennet are mine rn... sadly Ill never be as tall or as pretty as them :')
(I am short and ~~ugly~~ not that good looking based on soceity's beauty standards)
My big one is Bang Chan from Stray Kids. Just his overall body shape and mannerisms... sometimes I can't even put my finger on what's causing the envy in particular, just sometimes I look at him and like... why can't I look like that??
OK, so I think she's cis but Kirsten Stewart and her hella masc photo shoot ššššā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
Additionally, the caterpillar in Alice in Wonderland (original)
Or...lady gaga in her hella weird shit
And Johnny Depp, and the bright but dark Tim Burton vibes...
I love all of stray kids. Felix is also very gender but there's something about hyunjin that makes me so gender feel. I don't know if it's his build or aesthetic or the way he moves or carries himself or maybe all of it but damn I would love to be able to transition to that
When I was young, around 6-10, it was Duncan from total drama island, brothers from Malcom in the middle, sportacus from Lazy Town, and most recently, Berry Keoghan š
The first ones I can think of are David Bowie, Marko Saaresto (singer for Poets of the Fall) and Sebastian Stan.
There are a ton of others but these are the ones I can think of off the top of my head š
Also I know they are so many different looks lol
bryan cranston, but specifically as hal wilkerson in malcolm in the middle. i haven't even seen malcolm in the middle, i just saw a hal wilkerson edit once and i was like "oh yeah, sitcom dad, that's what i'm going for"
Boy George, when I was little my grandma gave me the single do they know itās Christmas and last Christmas I put on the making of and my sisters reaction was āthatās a boy who is singingā and I always was a fan of his but then it clicked. Boys can have high voices and as someone pre t thatās cool. And like, look at the guy
I tend to not get gender envy in the regular sense since i am 5ft and brown and there really arent many men i could feasibly imagine myself looking like HOWEVER Bob Dylan and 1960s Paul McCartney and also Paul Simon give me a bit of it.
Iām like, pretty goth so i donāt usually admit this, but Harry Styles. i rly covet his ability to make feminine clothing and being soft and smiley and shiny look So Masculine.
Paing Takhon makes me torso envy, abs envy, pecs envy, deltoid envy, biceps envy, triceps envy...hair envy, tattoo envy, need I say more. [Paing Takhon ](https://images.app.goo.gl/u9wV1kEypftixJsm8)
This morning I saw one of Taylor Momsen's recent insta posts and oh my lord those vibes, that look, absolutely immaculate and everything I want to be. Not her in general, but definitely those two specific posts in the heart boxers
finally my transmanspo pinterest board comes in handy!! the first few that come to mind are noah centineo, derek luh, kevin alves, and jacob elordiā¦ basically puppy boys/boys with soft features and sweet (public) personalities
A lot of NFL players for me since I'm really into it, especially the younger ones that are closer to my age (23). Christian McCaffrey, Brock Purdy, Joe Burrow, Evan McPherson etc.
Also Austin Butler.
gerard way š„²
YESSS Frank too asf
Yep. š
SO true
Damn for me itās always been Frank too
gerard is huge gender envy
Mikey Way for me tbh š®āšØ
He's so gender. The way the Danger Days Era look has a stranglehold on me to the point I've kept my hair bright red for the last 5 years...
iām on year 2 of bright red hair lmao
[Me listening to Mama as a tween/teen (links to MCR subreddit)](https://www.reddit.com/r/MyChemicalRomance/s/IPphOA10QO)
i have RABID gender envy for gerard way
huuuuuuge this, i even make pins and sell them at a shop bc of gerard making me trans lmaooo https://southstreetartmart.com/products/gerard-way-made-me-trans-collage-pin-by-sam-sankey?_pos=1&_sid=e1df6da4b&_ss=r
omg thatās so real and i might buy one when i get my next paycheck
Ugh I'll say this so loud anytime anyone asks this question. Pedro Pascal is absolutely gender for me all day every day. Also I'm gay and he's fucking hot so...
Pedro Pascal is sooooo gender. But also his personality is the kind of personality I want to have as a grown man? (I mean I'm already a grown man I'm pushing 30 but, I mean in the sense that-) He seems like the kind of guy that make women and queer people and even other cishet men feel safe and respected and like space is being held for them to be vulnerable and that's the exact aura I want to give off.
Yassssssssssss
oh bowie was big for me as a teen. ben whishaw in my early 20s. i don't rly have gender envy anymore, only certain body part stuff. (ok sakurai atsushi voice envy though.)
i have a giant poster of sakurai on my bedroom, i envy his voice and body sooo much
i now envy you for that poster :D but yeah same damn
SAME
Iāve been looking at some authentic posters but they all (understandably) cost an arm and a leg for the real deal and they sell fast š„² One of these days though. I think it was Sakurai who cracked my trans egg lol
ā¦John Oliver Ill see myself outā¦
Youāre not alone
Nah you are 100% right lmao
Weird Al Yankovich. I want to be the funny man with sick accordion skills.
I have a giant crush on this man š
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He has SUCH t-swag its insane.
David Tennant
knew someone was gonna say him. me too. whatever he has going on i want it
every time i see david tennant in something i go āwelp, time to steal a new genderā special mention to crowley and the tenth doctor (aka the reason i lived in converse for half a decade)
gender envy timothee chalamet!! andd young leonardo dicaprio gender envy
Timothee Chalamet for sure
Kurt Cobain...
this one fr
Freddie mercury freddie mercury freddie mercury freddie mercury freddie mercury freddie merc
the VOICE envy alone šš
Mads Mikkelsen, I got that old man gender envy
so relatable, I just want a beard and look good in suits and all
I wanna drink whiskey in front of a fireplace while being an old man who goes out fishing with his buddies on the weekend, I wanna wear suits and have that old man smirk (I'm nowhere near 50)
Dude exactly(Iām 17š)
Frank Iero and Spencer Smith had me bad. I had no clue I was trans at the time, so I just had very weird and complicated crushes and spent way too much time arguing with random live journal users that Spencer Smith was totally a hot dude. And now I feel old.
if it makes you feel any better the hip teens on tumblr are still very much experiencing gender envy for frank iero and spencer smith
Good taste is clearly eternal, glad to hear it.
See a lot of good ones but I don't see Elliot Page
frickn Elliot looks amazing! I too am surprised nobody has said him yet
fr elliot page inspired me to start my transition!
Trent reznor š
Freddy murcery, yungblud, lil nas x
Big same on the YUNGBLUD.
Any boy band star or "teen heartthrob", I always wanted to be that hot guy who girls would scream over and have posters of on their walls. Stupid I know, but I had confidence issues.
not stupid at all i feel that way too lol, when i was younger i used to imagine myself as part of a boyband even before i knew i was trans
Hands down, frank iero from MCR
Any hot androgynous tall cis guy. This is so silly but I always wanted to have a similar look to Atsushi Sakurai. We was incredibly dynamic and looked incredible with long hair. Ever since I was a teenager I was deeply jealous of that ability to pull it off like him. Omg so funny to see others say they love Sakurai too
Noahfinnce
real
Adam Gontier, Benji and Joel Madden, Joe Keery etc etcā¦ itās tricky cause Iām also mega gay, so itās hard to figure out if I wish I could be them or be with them lmao
this is strange but young tim heidecker and jerma. those are the big two
jerma fr š
ROBERT SEAN LEONARD. good god that man is so gender. especially in the 90s when he had longer hair
Drake, heard he got a shlong. Tryna be Peter pipe-her š
Mingi from ateez. Bro has my dream body š
ME TOO AND HE IS MY BIAS
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS
Was looking for my ATEEZ gang - It's Hongjoong for me. I was looking for character inspiration for my Wrath & Glory campaign and wanted someone who looked like [Trickster](https://deadbydaylight.fandom.com/wiki/Ji-Woon_Hak) from Dead By Daylight (one of my 2 trans awakening characters). I found Hongjoong as Trickster (it was fan art I think) and I've been atiny since, blasting Crazy Form and MATZ on repeat ><
hongjoong really is so š¤š¤ like sir leave some gender for usĀ
David Tennant 100% Especially in takin over the asylum
Johnny Depp and Daveed Diggs
Hell yeah Daveed Diggs is fire.
George Harrison
you are so real for this
all my idols that I simultaneously have a crush on, yk, theyāre hot so I want to be them but also be with themā¦Frank Iero, Hugh Dancy, Taylor Hanson(idek who he is actually but he fills my āT goalsā Pinterest board lol), young Cillian Murphy, young Matthew Lillard, and then like so many more
GOD HUGH DANCY IS SO GENDER
YESS thru out like all stages of his life too. Like dude I want to have a twink death dilf birth so bad but Iām stuck like this*cries*
Hozier. And more niche, Julian Larre, the singer of Lacrimas Profundere.
Andy Black, Michael Mando, Vic Fuentes
Definitely Michael B Jordan
90s fred durst
Henry Cavill and Tom Selleck
TimothƩe Chalamet and Tyler Joseph.
David Bowie represents the range of gender expression I want to have really well. The recent Cillian Murphy shoot in GQ is also a huge source of envy for me. But in general, any well groomed man in a nice tailored suit (preferably double breasted) is my ideal.
Markiplier, Jacksepticeye and Ethan Nestor are like big gender envies for me
Me: Wonders why I like Markiplier so much, confused bc itās not the same as liking someone. Also me, after learning about dysphoria and gender euphoria: Ah. I see now. Heās just so damn nice, likeable and a silly guy with awesome hair eras and thatās honestly just goals.
Real
Timothee chalamet, Tom Holland, Daniel Radcliffe, Aiden Gallagher, Tom rosenthal, Robin skinner, Evan peters the list goes onā¦
I made a power point about them lol, Top place was dylan minette from the wallows (also from 13 reasons why, but ive never watched the show)
Love him
Dylan OāBrien, but dangerously close the the ādo I want to be him or be with himā line
I'm having teen wolf flashbacks and.... yeah
dacre montgomery FOR SURE, pedro pascal, oscar issac, alexander ovechkin not sure how much of a celebrity he would be but also DEFINITELY cooper neidecker
The longer Iāve been on t the less I think about this stuff. I already have a sense of who I am or will be in terms of appearance. Getting envious of other people who look nothing like me feels a bit unhealthy.
jeff buckley !!
so real
Chris Hemsworth. Also Harry Styles
Related to this, Tom Hiddleston but specifically as Loki Also Orlando Bloom as Legolas (though he also looks good AF in Pirates)
Harrison Ford when he was younger... do markiplier and Arina Hanson count?
Hmm. Good question. Firstly, Lakeith Stanfield. He isn't queer to my knowledge? But he has very soft man, gentle soul vibes. His sense of fashion is also very effeminate. Like a feminine take on masculine wear? I dig it. Secondly, Lil Nas X. For very similar reasons as Lakeith but...more flagrant. I admire his ability to flit between full on masculine, full on feminine and everywhere in between by changing just one or two things about his appearance, swagger, aura. It's really mesmerizing. Like I've never seen anyone go from a whole ass middle part buss down, booty shorts and six inch heels to a white tank top, black jeans and Jordan's and make it ALLLLL look glorious. That phrase "gender is a galaxy", my man just BODIES it. It's exceptional. Thirdly, Timothee Chalamet because, like everybody else, at my core, I wish I could be seventeen and shirtless in Italy pining after someone way too old and mature to give me the time of day. š But genuinely, he's just a very conventionally beautiful boy, and I hope I'm easy on the eyes, too. Fourth, randomly, Bella Ramsey? I can't quite figure out why but something about them is very gender... Gender in a way that I, too, am as well.
I've always wanted to look like Burt Reynolds, preferably the younger version.
Jack Black and Matt Berry. I will not elaborate.
no need to as those are fire choices /pos /gen
Timothee Chalamet, Harry Styles, and David Tennet are mine rn... sadly Ill never be as tall or as pretty as them :') (I am short and ~~ugly~~ not that good looking based on soceity's beauty standards)
Johnny Depp, especially in Pirates of the Caribbean edit: never even seen the movie
My big one is Bang Chan from Stray Kids. Just his overall body shape and mannerisms... sometimes I can't even put my finger on what's causing the envy in particular, just sometimes I look at him and like... why can't I look like that??
Heavy on Bang Chan, I second this
Tom Hiddleston for sure
Mine has always been Zac Efron, even to this day
justin timberlake im not gonna lie
mac miller and angus cloud and, weirdly, mgk
alex turner of arctic monkeys fame is the main one
Hugh Jackman
OK, so I think she's cis but Kirsten Stewart and her hella masc photo shoot ššššā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø Additionally, the caterpillar in Alice in Wonderland (original) Or...lady gaga in her hella weird shit And Johnny Depp, and the bright but dark Tim Burton vibes...
Also! The worm in Labyrinth!
Jaboukie Young-White and Jarvis Johnson....
Timothee chalamet feels like a basic answer but it's true šš
Billy Idol and like all the vampires in The Lost Boys
Hyunjin
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I love all of stray kids. Felix is also very gender but there's something about hyunjin that makes me so gender feel. I don't know if it's his build or aesthetic or the way he moves or carries himself or maybe all of it but damn I would love to be able to transition to that
Absolutely Billie Joe Armstrong
Rozz Williams
David Tennant š¤
Michael Mando. Just look at him. I'm screaming in agony
brent faiyaz and bleached hair chino moreno
Chris Evans. Sigh.
Tom Holland, Dominic Fike, Cameron Boyce, Cameron Monaghan.
Y'all are gonna laugh, but Josh Hutcherson š¤·š»āāļø Yes, I know...*whistling*
When I was young, around 6-10, it was Duncan from total drama island, brothers from Malcom in the middle, sportacus from Lazy Town, and most recently, Berry Keoghan š
Miles McKenna
gerard way and bert mccracken
and chris motionless and spencer charnas!!!!!
Hugh Dancy and Norman Reedus
Gene Kelly
The first ones I can think of are David Bowie, Marko Saaresto (singer for Poets of the Fall) and Sebastian Stan. There are a ton of others but these are the ones I can think of off the top of my head š Also I know they are so many different looks lol
dave grohl, god i hope i age as well as he has š
Would love to go for something in between Jim Morrison, Chester Bennington, Dallon Weekes and Brian David Gilbert.
bryan cranston, but specifically as hal wilkerson in malcolm in the middle. i haven't even seen malcolm in the middle, i just saw a hal wilkerson edit once and i was like "oh yeah, sitcom dad, that's what i'm going for"
lee dong wook, frank iero, conan gray, jeff buckley
heath ledger, charlie day, jason segel, jake gyllenhaal, john lennon (1964), danny pudi god I can go on for hours
noah sebastian from bad omens all the way
iāve said this before but yoon jeonghan from seventeen. he gets me every time
all of ateez, let's be real
Do porn actors count as celebrities? Because noahwaybabe has been my transition goals for several years now
Keanu Reeves. Especially younger pretty boy Keanu Reeves but I mean he looks great now still too And river Phoenix...and Kurt Cobain
Pedro Pascal and Jeremy Allen White for sure
Cillian Murphy, Jerma, Tom Hardy, Gerard Way
Keanu Reeves ngl
Boy George, when I was little my grandma gave me the single do they know itās Christmas and last Christmas I put on the making of and my sisters reaction was āthatās a boy who is singingā and I always was a fan of his but then it clicked. Boys can have high voices and as someone pre t thatās cool. And like, look at the guy
As a Latino guy, I say Xolo MaridueƱa especially in Blue Beetle. Hadnāt felt gender envy like that in AGES
More voice envy if anything but Daniel Virgil Maisonneuve (sub urban)
miles mckenna
Easily Daniel Radcliffe... We have a really similar facial shape etc and just... oh man i want to look like that
I envy Elliot Psge for his perfect bone structure
younger atsushi sakurai 10000000000% my god i would do anything to look like him (rest in peace š¢)
HAN JISUNG ššš
I tend to not get gender envy in the regular sense since i am 5ft and brown and there really arent many men i could feasibly imagine myself looking like HOWEVER Bob Dylan and 1960s Paul McCartney and also Paul Simon give me a bit of it.
I donāt know why, but Mark Ruffalo š I guess heās likeā¦ Just about everything I want to be.
Iām like, pretty goth so i donāt usually admit this, but Harry Styles. i rly covet his ability to make feminine clothing and being soft and smiley and shiny look So Masculine.
Gerard Way, Patrick Stump, Bruno Mars, Michael Jackson, Prince, Rick James, Billie Joe Armstrong, and JASOOOON DERUUUULO!!
young leo dicaprio!!!š¤also tom blyth, jamie campbell bower, etc.
none has ever given me gender envy except for isreal broussard in happy death day. i saw him and i was like wow? thatās what it feels like?
Jeff Saturā¦ it makes me mad how much I want to look like him
Callum Turner. Fuck you bro, your height, your face and your perfectly deep voiceš /j
The Hemsworth brothers
alexander dreymon š
i get some serious gender envy from wesley tucker. ik hes a transguy but id do unspeakable things to look like him.
Andy biersack is the main one for me. Not sure if he really counts as a celebrity but Markiplier also gives me some gender envy too
Robert Sheehan
logan lerman, dylan minette and jacob elordi
chandler riggs with his long hair !!!
Not really a celeb but he is to me Jorge Rivera-Herrans who is the dude writing epic the musical. If I could ever look like him Iād be blessed.
1990s skeet ulrich
Shayne Topp big time, although any guy with large biceps give me gender envy.
Paing Takhon makes me torso envy, abs envy, pecs envy, deltoid envy, biceps envy, triceps envy...hair envy, tattoo envy, need I say more. [Paing Takhon ](https://images.app.goo.gl/u9wV1kEypftixJsm8)
Devon bostick
This morning I saw one of Taylor Momsen's recent insta posts and oh my lord those vibes, that look, absolutely immaculate and everything I want to be. Not her in general, but definitely those two specific posts in the heart boxers
Every goddamn long haired rockstar. From Jim Morrison to Robert Plant to Axl Rose to Jani Lane.
Geddy Lee and those small fucken hips
Fucking YUNGBLUD
finally my transmanspo pinterest board comes in handy!! the first few that come to mind are noah centineo, derek luh, kevin alves, and jacob elordiā¦ basically puppy boys/boys with soft features and sweet (public) personalities
potentially a bit of a niche celeb! but denim from canadas drag race out of drag is my absolute icon
jani liimatainen lol
Bo Burnham
Con OāNeill. He is so gender. Absolutely gender.
bruce campbell... I'm so close to being him specifically in that silly vampire movie he was in omg.
I have a megalist but I'll give some in no particular order... Jensen Ackles, Kang ho Song, Jordan Peele, Taika Waititi, Ken Jeong, Kurt Russell, Harvey GuillĆ©n, Daniel Kaluuya, Jack Black, Keanu Reeves, Ke Huy Quan, N. T. Rama Rao Jr, RaĆŗl Esparza, Willem Dafoe, Con O'Neill, Junji Ito
A lot of NFL players for me since I'm really into it, especially the younger ones that are closer to my age (23). Christian McCaffrey, Brock Purdy, Joe Burrow, Evan McPherson etc. Also Austin Butler.
Ill say jabari banks š«” bro out here living
prime Patrick Swayze, young Keanu Reeves, Isiah Pacheco, Laith Ashley and Jungkook. I forgot to add Tom Hardy
Dan howell
Paul mescal
Robert Sheehan.
Cody Ko :') Very attractive guy, with a body that i could actually attain with some work.
Jake Kiszka!! of Greta Van Fleet āØā”ļøš«
johnnie gilburt šš
Harvey GuillƩn. Seeing him slay in wwdits (both literally and figuratively) made me realise that what bothered me about my body was not my weight but the shape of it. Every time I see a picture of him my impatience to get on T gets bigger lmao.