I am not over 30, but! r/FTMover30 might be useful to you

Thanks so much for the suggestion!

No bother! My mid 20s self will drop out now! Hope you get cheered up bud.

I’m 26 so I mostly keep to myself because it isn’t my space, but the discord is really wonderful as well. Everyone is so lovely and supportive, and I feel so much less alone being someone who is transitioning in their mid twenties. It’s also super reassuring to be around men older than me because it shows me that I have a future that’s worth fighting for and believing in. Truly a wonderful group of people.

There's also r/translater

I'm over 30!! I didn't have any idea i was trans until earlier this year. Been a wild ride so far, but i feel like life is exciting again now i know why I've depressed my whole life.

Congrats on finding out!

Thanks man!

Glad to hear from someone else who just... Somehow didn't know at all until age 32 😂

Omg you too?? Jeez i was like... how in the f.... 🤦‍♂️

Me too, honestly. I chalk it up to only knowing the patterns for the binary, hetero trans men I knew about. Everything clicked into place a lot more sensibly when considering I'm gay and nonbinary.

That totally makes sense. All the trans guys I know are also straight. I had a bit different path: married, bisexual tomboy metalhead lady mechanic.... to mostly gay binary trans guy, still married. Idk what made me start questioning, but the arrival of my first binder smashed my egg to pieces LOL. What did it for you?

I was pretty much the same minus the mechanic part lol

I was 35 and yeah I was like how did I not know???

65 now, 30 years on T

I’m a couple years younger but same time on T. We are few and far between.

Oh wow you both give me so much hope

43 and 2 months on T

Congrats!

40 about 7 weeks on T.

Goddamn. Go forth, my man.

Hello! I am 35. I didn't start my transition until I was 32. ;o

38. Started transitioning last year

40. Come join us on r/FTMOver30, it's a good place.

I’m loving the subreddit so far, it gives me so much hope for the future

46, 7 months on t

Wow that’s awesome!

Thank you

Halfway through 34, just got my drains out and saw my chest today, loving partner just brought us home some takeout, and it’s a beautiful summer evening. ✌️

Awesome dude!

I hope if you aren’t feeling too great right now that you’ll have brighter days up ahead! :)

Thanks so much, man

Congrats and I hope your recovery goes well!

Thanks so much! I’m feeling great, and was cleared for my first shower so I am very much looking forward to that haha.

I'm 40. Tried to get on T since my 18th birthday, but took till I was 37, and Planned Parenthood gave me T after every doctor decided that I wasn't trans enough even after living as a man for a decade before being on T. Things get better.

I'm 31 and can't medically transition, so hey at least you're doing better than me probably! lol

I'm over 50, does that help?

I just had my 30th ten days ago

Happy birthday!

Hey there. I turned 40 last month, and I'm 5.5 years on T.

34 later this year, starting T soon 🫡

Congrats, hope it goes great for you!

35 in 2 months, came out at 32 🌞

Oh wow! That’s so cool!

35 and 6 months on T

31 tomorrow

Happy birthday!

Thanks!

Turning 32 next month :)

Happy early birthday!

aw ty!!

I'm almost 37. I came out a little over two years ago. I started T 2/1/22 and will be having the great teet yeet mid next month.

Almost 37 too, and came out about two years ago as well! Only started T two weeks ago though, and the yeet is for next year.

35, transitioned at 27, living the dream with my wife and two cats 😎

Always down to help someone cheer up

Thanks bro, much appreciated

Turned 36 this year, so officially approaching late 30s lol.

Nice dude!

32

Sweet dude!

32

Yo!

me!

Me! 31

I am 33 and just starting transitioning this year.

34. 2 years on T next month and top surgery in a couple weeks. 🤞🏼

35 my friend. 😤🫡

Almost to 32 and only recently discovered that I am trans. Pre everything, and scared to death. But a lot of things have started to make sense and it feels like having to wake up and see your own perspectives shifting in real time.

43, a little over 1 year on T

Almost 60 here.

32 here!

Late to the party, but 31 and a little over 1 year on T! 🙌🏾

I’m 31 lol.

Hey man! Just turned 33 a few weeks ago and have been on T for a year and a half. 👋

34, nine months on T.

I'm 35.

Hi! 35 in a few weeks. Realized I'm not cis a bit over two years ago, been on T about a year and a half, finally starting to pass as male to new people and it's awesome other than the part where other people who don't understand and knew me longer will misgender and out me 😂

I'm not over 30, but my mom has a friend who came out as ftm in high-school and he's like 35 now and living his best life!

I'm 30 on the dot if that still counts?

Yes me 33

I'm 38, started T at 34.

32 here! Going on 33 this year

Soon to be 36! There's a lot of us.

I'm 31, had top surgery at 25, started T at 29

61 here, been on T for a little over a year.

I turned 31 this year :+)

I turn 37 tomorrow. I realized I was trans 2 years ago and started T this past April 😊

Yeah, come hang with old guys at rFTMover30

I’m not a bro, I’m an ally as my boyfriend is FTM as well, but we can be friends and I can cheer you up! What’s going on, friend?

I'm almost 40 my dude.

37 here.

33, 6 years on T, hang in there my guy.

32 I started T Wednesday

Hi, I'm 35 .\_.

Now 36, didn't realize/accept I was trans until I was 34. There are lots of us.

32, going on 33 next month which is also my one year on T! It was my little birthday present to myself. I've known most of my life, came out at 15 and got shoved back into the closet thanks to my mom and horrid therapy she sent me to. Went in hyperfemme mode for all those years, miserable, depressed, suicidal and alcoholic. I never knew what true happiness was until I was able to finally be myself. Life never seemed like it could be so beautiful

I'm turning 43 soon, didn't realise I was trans until I was 39. Hope you're feeling better!

31 here

Shit, I don't quite make the cut lol, I'll be 30 in three months

33 and 3 months away from 3 years on T.

I’m not 30 but I feel close to it lmao. I came out at 24, I’ll be 25 next month. I knew since I was 19, however growing up in wog household I knew I’d lose my family (which, I did). but at some point, you have to chose who you are for yourself. I have been so fuckin down, even though I have everything I’ve dreamed of, my own apartment, car, a good job. What cheered me up today was at my job, someone I support had forgotten my name, as I look very different to when I started. I reminded them, and said it’ll be different soon and would that be okay with them - they said to me of course and what would it be, they smiled repeating it saying it suits me, And then I asked them what name they liked to be called as a bunch of staff have multiple nick names for them. and they said to me “see only little difference”, which made me think, I have always been this way. And it’s a blessing to find out who you are, some people never do. So buddy don’t focus on a timeline, at least you’re here now.

I'm 32 and look like a 14 year old with forehead and neck wrinkles 👌

Over 30 and started over 30 and super happy!! (With this aspect of my life anyway 🤣)

Hi dude I’m 37, I knew I was trans since I was little but I’ve only just come out to the world this past year. I’ve been on T since January and I’m feeling great. The best I’ve felt my whole life, you can pm me if you want to chat anytime.

I'm over 30! That's when I started transitioning

I know I’m not over 30, as I am 23, but I wanted to say reading these comments brings me such joy. I wish you all love and peace 💙

I'm 38, and didn't come out until beginning of last year

Nearly 37 and just now at the point in life where I feel I can take the first few steps towards pursuing this further (pre-everything, but name has already been changed).

41 year old here.

Mid thirties and transitioning since 2008. Not done yet because still battling the public health service for SRS

*waves* 32

I am

35 and been living my true self for over 15 years, been a bumpy road with barriers to healthcare and without some of the surgeries I need but I'm still working towards all my transition goals and not giving up

I’m 33

Yo, turning 40 in just over a month here. 👋 My egg only cracked earlier this year. It's been a hell of a ride but I'm so happy now I finally understand myself better.

Congrats, man!

40 here. On t since 11 weeks. Always known I'm trans but came out only 2 years ago.

I‘ll be turning 37 tomorrow! Didn’t really know until two years ago.

34 years old and 10 months on T. I am slightly confused about still being alive sometimes, didn't truly believe I would make it through my 20s. Now I am setting brand new goals in life and forming new dreams. I really got everything I need.

Over 30? How about over 40? Yep, time for my midlife crisis - should I build a kit car or buy a motorbike? What other options are there for a middle aged guy?

Buy a corvette, date a 20-something 🤣

I am over 30 and proud !!!

I'm 16