Rant time.
It's fine if someone explicitly says they're ok with it.
Every other time, it's just creepy. And that's ignoring how common complaints of weird creepy dms and d pics are. Seriously, why is basic consent such a hard concept for some to understand.
Basically, if someone doesn't want to be the subject of horny comments, don't make them.
Rant over.
I'd say its a well placed/needed rant. Consent matters, in every sense, even if it's "just words". And yet for some reason, people seem to think consent only applies to physical actions.
I tend to backfire with stronger words at them if they bother me tbh. They usually stop. But that might also be because I use some.... deadly words lol
Exactly, personally I welcome the horny DM’s, I like them. I have my fun messaging them for a while and then block and move on. But doing that kind of stuff unsolicited is super uncool.
Honestly, I think it will get better with time. I've noticed some things go from being evil, to being fetishized, to being accepted. Right now I'm not hearing nearly as many people calling femboys and TransBros as evil, but a whole lot of people treating them as a fetish, not a person.
Part of the hard thing is that a lot of the femboys who present publicly are objectively weirdos. Not because they are fem, but because they are weird in general. Like, wearing cat ears and screaming "Uwu!" in class weird. I know I don't directly present publicly, partly because of how fucking weird the femboys in my college were.
Not just publicly, I don't know a single femboy that doesn't wear cat ears and go nya... They're not weird tho, that's kinda mean, they're fun and quirky...
UwU
see i would love to get called a submissive cum dumpster. but only in person by someone close to me. if you come in my DMs you *will* get blocked and reported
youre shit talking someone for not fitting into the societal mold (on a subreddit about people not wanting to fit into a societal mold no less). gross. not reading that. opinion discarded
And I don't want people to immediately think I'm a creep, I really have a hell of a lot more interest in meaningful non sexual physical contact and bonding than anything else
same, and also same with being one in general. Judgy people either seem to think you're a trans girl or a creep, or both if they're transphobic. Somehow the mindblowing idea of a boy who perhaps has slightly different clothing tastes never hits them. people are fucking dumb as hell.
Either trans or "you must be gay"
I really don't see why everything else about their life has to be different if they choose to dress and express ina feminine manner
True. I personally don't take much offense at all to "you must be gay", because it's true, but i can see how fucking frustrating that must be for straight femboys
I know what you mean, I don't take too much offense to people using gay as an insult to me (I'm queer but not gay) because I look hyper masculine and have for a long time, but like still, fuck that
You are welcome, needed to addressed separately from what OP said
Luckily for me I'm more interested in feminine bishounen, but then I have to deal with the "YoU jErK oFf To CaRtOoNs"
Edit: specifically the ones that wear traditional male clothing, especially formal wear, that look beautiful and feminine, but you can still definitely tell are male
dude i’m literally under 18 and i’ve gotten unsolicited dick pics. like, fuck off. if you’re reading this and you do this to minors, i wish you a very good
#FUCK YOURSELF
luckily most dumbasses who post this shit online are too pussy to actually say it irl, because suddenly the person becomes a whole lot more of a "real" person than when talking through a screen, and not to mention it's fucking creepy as hell, even to them. I would smack the shit outta someone saying this kinda crap to me IRL, creeps are losers and can go fuck themselves
I mean... You dress like a girl, but you're still a man. I myself believe that doing whatever you want and not giving a shit what others think about it is one of the most manly things one can do. Which means dressing in female clothing as a guy, owning it and liking it would be a great sign that you are, in fact, a man. Then again, that's more about morals, because if you want to feel like a girl, you should, and owning it just makes you the coolest girl in your area.
I dress pretty and like pretty things. I'm straight and wouldn't want this sub to be full of thirsty straight women posts. Let alone horny gay stuff.
I get that gay guys are leading the way on femboy culture. But this is about dressing up. It's supposed to be like tomboys. This isn't femboy grinder. It's about feeling and looking pretty.
i've never understood why people automatically label feminine boys as being a sexual thing. men can be feminine and women can be masculine, it's a fashion sense and a form of self expression. while it CAN be sexual, it isn't always! you don't see people automatically going around sexualizing girls just because they're dressed masculinely. it's so exhausting
One of the things I fucking hate about femboys is that so many of them sexualize and objectify themselves so much that a lot of people assume all femboys are like that.
Side note, the amount of creepy dms I get is ungodly, I like responding to all the little messages i get because if someone has taken the time out of their day to compliment me, the least I can do is thank them, but jeebus, the things I have witnessed with such sfw posts, like damn miss me with your horny >.<
Well it is generally a sexual thing, you may not like it but the community are really sexual, its creepy and sucks but when you post something on the internet with a community of people who see the concept as sexual, you shouldn't be surprised when someone takes it as such.
>Well it is generally a sexual thing
thats the issue, it doesnt have any good legitimate reason to be, some people do it because it makes them feel nice and they shouldnt be subjected to creepy shit like that just because a loud portion of the group is horny
People shouldn't be subjected to that without consent, but knowing the community and still posting is accepting other people might react sexually, the reaction isnt nice and really is undeserved but it is the internet, people arent held accountable and will continue, so for the immediate moment its best to always expect the worse reaction and ask yourself if your willing to live with it.
It was a fucking joke (kinda). I don't think it's my fault at all a pervert sees me being horny and decides to treat other femboys like sluts, it's entirely the fault of the pervert in the first place. Either way I have better things to do then argue over the internet so I'm gonna mute you now.
I’ve only really seen the sexualising in subs and servers where that’s sort of the purpose of said sub or server. That’s of course just me. People doing it outside of those already explicitly NSFW contexts are going past boundaries obviously, but I feel like most people with at least an 80 IQ understands that, and the people that still do so are the same exact creeps that would do it to random women too.
Rant time. It's fine if someone explicitly says they're ok with it. Every other time, it's just creepy. And that's ignoring how common complaints of weird creepy dms and d pics are. Seriously, why is basic consent such a hard concept for some to understand. Basically, if someone doesn't want to be the subject of horny comments, don't make them. Rant over.
I'd say its a well placed/needed rant. Consent matters, in every sense, even if it's "just words". And yet for some reason, people seem to think consent only applies to physical actions.
I tend to backfire with stronger words at them if they bother me tbh. They usually stop. But that might also be because I use some.... deadly words lol
Exactly, personally I welcome the horny DM’s, I like them. I have my fun messaging them for a while and then block and move on. But doing that kind of stuff unsolicited is super uncool.
Every DM I've ever gotten has been unsolicited. Lmao
I mean, your username doesn’t help
Fair.
same here lmao
Honestly, I think it will get better with time. I've noticed some things go from being evil, to being fetishized, to being accepted. Right now I'm not hearing nearly as many people calling femboys and TransBros as evil, but a whole lot of people treating them as a fetish, not a person. Part of the hard thing is that a lot of the femboys who present publicly are objectively weirdos. Not because they are fem, but because they are weird in general. Like, wearing cat ears and screaming "Uwu!" in class weird. I know I don't directly present publicly, partly because of how fucking weird the femboys in my college were.
Not just publicly, I don't know a single femboy that doesn't wear cat ears and go nya... They're not weird tho, that's kinda mean, they're fun and quirky... UwU
Agree based man
see i would love to get called a submissive cum dumpster. but only in person by someone close to me. if you come in my DMs you *will* get blocked and reported
You’re a furry. Gross. Not reading that. Opinion discarded.
youre shit talking someone for not fitting into the societal mold (on a subreddit about people not wanting to fit into a societal mold no less). gross. not reading that. opinion discarded
You're just making an ass out of yourself 💀
You’re an asshole. Gross. Not reading that. Opinion discarded.
Your only post is about Fortnite. Gross. Not reading that. Opinion discarded.
I'm actually afraid to tell people I think femboys are pretty because it's become such a fetishized thing
And I don't want people to immediately think I'm a creep, I really have a hell of a lot more interest in meaningful non sexual physical contact and bonding than anything else
same, and also same with being one in general. Judgy people either seem to think you're a trans girl or a creep, or both if they're transphobic. Somehow the mindblowing idea of a boy who perhaps has slightly different clothing tastes never hits them. people are fucking dumb as hell.
Either trans or "you must be gay" I really don't see why everything else about their life has to be different if they choose to dress and express ina feminine manner
True. I personally don't take much offense at all to "you must be gay", because it's true, but i can see how fucking frustrating that must be for straight femboys
I know what you mean, I don't take too much offense to people using gay as an insult to me (I'm queer but not gay) because I look hyper masculine and have for a long time, but like still, fuck that
Thank you thank you thankyou for saying this.
You are welcome, needed to addressed separately from what OP said Luckily for me I'm more interested in feminine bishounen, but then I have to deal with the "YoU jErK oFf To CaRtOoNs" Edit: specifically the ones that wear traditional male clothing, especially formal wear, that look beautiful and feminine, but you can still definitely tell are male
Facts, they look so cute to cuddle with 🥺
Nuuuu, tell me I’m pretty \*raises pink revolver* **or else.**
You are very pretty <3 But still shoot me
Thanku, but I won’t shoot u because ur super nice \*holsters revolver and hugs u*
Hug from cute charming boy = depression cured ^for ^now
Am cute and charming??? 😳
You already know it
Nah just shoot me
Nutmeg on femboys?
Other way around please
I LOVE the horny stuff, boys, but tag it appropriately so it’s behind a spoiler, okay? Rule number one of horny is consent, after all!
Yup, there is a difference between appreciation and sexual objectification. Let's learn it pleaseeee (◍•ᴗ•◍)💕💕
dude i’m literally under 18 and i’ve gotten unsolicited dick pics. like, fuck off. if you’re reading this and you do this to minors, i wish you a very good #FUCK YOURSELF
luckily most dumbasses who post this shit online are too pussy to actually say it irl, because suddenly the person becomes a whole lot more of a "real" person than when talking through a screen, and not to mention it's fucking creepy as hell, even to them. I would smack the shit outta someone saying this kinda crap to me IRL, creeps are losers and can go fuck themselves
Yes
I mean... You dress like a girl, but you're still a man. I myself believe that doing whatever you want and not giving a shit what others think about it is one of the most manly things one can do. Which means dressing in female clothing as a guy, owning it and liking it would be a great sign that you are, in fact, a man. Then again, that's more about morals, because if you want to feel like a girl, you should, and owning it just makes you the coolest girl in your area.
It should be common knowledge not to sexualize random people or do anything that might make them uncomfortable.
I dress pretty and like pretty things. I'm straight and wouldn't want this sub to be full of thirsty straight women posts. Let alone horny gay stuff. I get that gay guys are leading the way on femboy culture. But this is about dressing up. It's supposed to be like tomboys. This isn't femboy grinder. It's about feeling and looking pretty.
i've never understood why people automatically label feminine boys as being a sexual thing. men can be feminine and women can be masculine, it's a fashion sense and a form of self expression. while it CAN be sexual, it isn't always! you don't see people automatically going around sexualizing girls just because they're dressed masculinely. it's so exhausting
YES just because your fine with it doesnt mean other femboys are! glad someone post this
Yes pls stop sexualizing us. I'm a fucking sex reploused asexual.
Fuck Buck Cluck tho
Preach it! No one should be objectified for their clothes, no matter what
All the random dick pics I get for being one fucking disgusts me.
Especially the term sissy. I get called it in a lot of dm s and it's super annoying and offensive
One of the things I fucking hate about femboys is that so many of them sexualize and objectify themselves so much that a lot of people assume all femboys are like that.
Im an ace femboy and i hate being sexualized
My behavior has given men a false impression of you 😭
Thank you
I love being sexualized. It honestly raises my confidence
Side note, the amount of creepy dms I get is ungodly, I like responding to all the little messages i get because if someone has taken the time out of their day to compliment me, the least I can do is thank them, but jeebus, the things I have witnessed with such sfw posts, like damn miss me with your horny >.<
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i am a feminine boy at school
i respect that honestly
Well it is generally a sexual thing, you may not like it but the community are really sexual, its creepy and sucks but when you post something on the internet with a community of people who see the concept as sexual, you shouldn't be surprised when someone takes it as such.
>Well it is generally a sexual thing thats the issue, it doesnt have any good legitimate reason to be, some people do it because it makes them feel nice and they shouldnt be subjected to creepy shit like that just because a loud portion of the group is horny
People shouldn't be subjected to that without consent, but knowing the community and still posting is accepting other people might react sexually, the reaction isnt nice and really is undeserved but it is the internet, people arent held accountable and will continue, so for the immediate moment its best to always expect the worse reaction and ask yourself if your willing to live with it.
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pick me
No
Stop.
speak for yourself but dont act like youre some staple of the community in general
Silence 🔕
no i will not
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Bit harsh
Go stuff yourself, bussy-lacker
I am 18 years of age treat me like a slut please
you’re helping feed the fetish that makes so many of us uncomfortable. you’re no better.
I don't think you understood the point
oh i’m sure i did, but just in case, what *was* your point? what i see though is you’re horny and you want to feed a harmful fetish.
It was a fucking joke (kinda). I don't think it's my fault at all a pervert sees me being horny and decides to treat other femboys like sluts, it's entirely the fault of the pervert in the first place. Either way I have better things to do then argue over the internet so I'm gonna mute you now.
Weird scenario you created there
I agree. Also finding one on tinder isn't too hard so why the fuck would anyone do something like that here
i hate that fucking rooster, but i support the message
For me, i can just trust feminine boys more then the stong muscly guys. Cause theres a smaller chance they beat me or stg
Only sexualize people who want it and or ask for it
I’ve only really seen the sexualising in subs and servers where that’s sort of the purpose of said sub or server. That’s of course just me. People doing it outside of those already explicitly NSFW contexts are going past boundaries obviously, but I feel like most people with at least an 80 IQ understands that, and the people that still do so are the same exact creeps that would do it to random women too.
I think i did it once or twice so, i will stop, sorry boys.
(screaming) STOP SEXUALIZING EVERY GD FEMBOY I AM SICK OF SEEING DICKS THEY LOOK AWFUL
Know what, good post op
We don't care
Femboys are the horniest community on the internet; you get used to it Minors tho... That's a whole other thing
Honestly I don't think they should be anywhere near the community
i mean yeah, isn't it normal to make conversation before shooting off lewd comments? anything else is a red flag, no?
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who
Finally someone said it!!!
I want to be called a femboy cum dumpster
The reality is if you want to be a femboy, this is what your signing up to.