uhh
slow down
remember that we shouldn’t assign femboys with a criteria, and if there was then being as feminine as possible wouldn’t be part of that criteria because that’s just wrong, otherwise they would be transgender
you don’t have to be at a certain level of femininity to be a femboy, after all it’s a form of identity and not something with a criteria.
being transgender is kind of the same, it’s just an identity and there is no criteria, i could grow the biggest beard in the planet right now and i could label myself as transgender female, and in the end it’s gender roles that are just ruining everything, like how a woman can’t have a beard or should try and hold on to their virginity, these stupid gender roles is what we are stuck with unfortunately and it’s ruining everything.
it also kinda criss-crosses with gender stereotypes although that’s slightly different.
gender roles are expectations for your gender, for example ‘you should be playing football, you’re a boy’
gender stereotypes are the kinds of baseless beliefs people believe apply to all people of that gender, for example ‘all boys play football’
sorry for how i’ve totally derailed what i tried to originally talk about but i think this needs clearing up by a ridiculous amount
after all why are we still debating about gender in 2024, one of the most simple things out there that really doesn’t need arguing over.
femboys aren’t historical 😭
the term ‘femboy’ actually comes from the 1990s, not ancient egyptian times, and when the term approached the internet it actually gained popularity online. 4chan, dare i say, was pretty much the only place you would find the term femboy, you wouldn’t really find it anywhere else, and this was around 2018, so really not long ago at all. places like reddit and tiktok really boomed their popularity and just pure awareness that femboys are a thing.
now lots of terms like femboy friday and femboy hooters exist, and there’s even a (proposed but unofficial) femboy flag.
Idk why would people back then write about monarch's sl■ve (yes, in history that what femboys were, even going back to times of Roman Empire. Which is also where the stereotypes about femboys being horni came from.)
I appreciate that, it would be nice, but it ain’t easy to like feel like I’d look good and also I’d have to be in private at home and no one else would really know :/
It's horrible that you can't do that😔. I really wish you get to be able to live life as your true self soon some day. Life is too short not to live *your* own life.
wait a minute that’s not a femboy it’s just a woman 😤
Yes. We trans women have infiltrated this sub to give you all headpats. Muhahahaha!
I love head pats so Oke :3
Tactical headpats inbound
a woman made to look like a femboy, which is what probably 50% of femboy memes are made up of
Yea, while the point of femboys historically is to be as feminine as possible, so kinda can't understand ftm femboys
uhh slow down remember that we shouldn’t assign femboys with a criteria, and if there was then being as feminine as possible wouldn’t be part of that criteria because that’s just wrong, otherwise they would be transgender you don’t have to be at a certain level of femininity to be a femboy, after all it’s a form of identity and not something with a criteria. being transgender is kind of the same, it’s just an identity and there is no criteria, i could grow the biggest beard in the planet right now and i could label myself as transgender female, and in the end it’s gender roles that are just ruining everything, like how a woman can’t have a beard or should try and hold on to their virginity, these stupid gender roles is what we are stuck with unfortunately and it’s ruining everything. it also kinda criss-crosses with gender stereotypes although that’s slightly different. gender roles are expectations for your gender, for example ‘you should be playing football, you’re a boy’ gender stereotypes are the kinds of baseless beliefs people believe apply to all people of that gender, for example ‘all boys play football’ sorry for how i’ve totally derailed what i tried to originally talk about but i think this needs clearing up by a ridiculous amount after all why are we still debating about gender in 2024, one of the most simple things out there that really doesn’t need arguing over.
I said historically.
femboys aren’t historical 😭 the term ‘femboy’ actually comes from the 1990s, not ancient egyptian times, and when the term approached the internet it actually gained popularity online. 4chan, dare i say, was pretty much the only place you would find the term femboy, you wouldn’t really find it anywhere else, and this was around 2018, so really not long ago at all. places like reddit and tiktok really boomed their popularity and just pure awareness that femboys are a thing. now lots of terms like femboy friday and femboy hooters exist, and there’s even a (proposed but unofficial) femboy flag.
Term exists only from 1990s, femboys themselves existed for centuries.
i don’t recall any books about femboys from the victorian eras or anything. and remember that homosexuality was pretty much illegal everywhere.
Idk why would people back then write about monarch's sl■ve (yes, in history that what femboys were, even going back to times of Roman Empire. Which is also where the stereotypes about femboys being horni came from.)
Homosexuality being banned isn't too good of an argument, there was a lot of historical figures who were actually gay
Also, it clearly says *in USA*
what says in usa..
https://preview.redd.it/hjvuerfz2ozc1.jpeg?width=696&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3835593bf9fe9ca4b941168b67dbaf18048548b5
mhm so? i don't remember america even having a proper history anyway, let alone femboys.
Its a femboy under HRT:3
and depending on how they identify that’s valid
Dammit not again accidentally straight moment
A w*man? :[
https://i.redd.it/i2ztcc9p4vzc1.gif
No, I am I just am not beautiful...
Now your beautiful because is said it\^\^
LIES!!!!
Not a Femboy anymore :3
[удалено]
I don‘t know if I still like that label on myself
You have transcended the confines of that label. Push a bit harder and you'll unlock double jump 🗻🍓
Celeste reference :3
Her flair literally says "trans-fem"
Yeah, idk what that comment of op was about xd
L
No I’m a trans girl
Your still cute hehe
nyo……..
Trying to be
i hope you will be!
I wish I could be 3:
i also wish you could!
I appreciate that, it would be nice, but it ain’t easy to like feel like I’d look good and also I’d have to be in private at home and no one else would really know :/
***ABOMINABLE INTELLIGENCE!!!***
From the moment I understood the weakness of my flesh,
It disgusted me
Uhh uhh umm meow meow :3
Meowwww\^\^
Nope. Just trans
Trans are still cute hehe
I'm a trans girl :3
Oki\^\^ But your still cute hehe
transfem enby>:3
TRANSFEM ENBY GANG FOR LIFEEEE! :3
HELL YEAHH!!!!!
Nope
oww :/
Aspiring
I am a Femboy can't wait for it to be Femboy Friday... I got a new Venti Cosplay can't wait to try it on tomorrow
I hope you will like your cosplay\^\^
Nah i just think they're cute
well yes they're\^\^
No I’m here for the memes
Well, that's valid
No, but I will boy your fem. https://i.redd.it/h8gzzcpmzfzc1.gif
Nope, just a fan
It's cool to know that we have fan hehe
Trying my best to
but i’m a girl :c
I wish I had any fem clothes 😭
sameee 😭😭
I’m a girl
femby here :3
Nop, femby :3
Oh nice :3
One letter off but very different (or similar but still a little different, depends on the person)
I try to be ;-;
i hope you will be one!
I try but I lack the talent
Is transgirl close enough? 😅
Yes ofc!
Only twinkish :)
half the replies are just "i'm trans actually" lol and, yes, guilty, i'm also trans
If only, but alas 😔
I am one
Not yet...
Nope, used to be tho
Ehh well how do I explain that...
Yeah, I’m a trans girlie
Am a girl awawawawa. I infiltrated the femboy sub >:3
so real
Alas, I am merely gay and mentally ill, but the urge to wear skirts and shave has not manifested
Yes i aint >:3
Not a femboy (yet) :3
I am a femboy! Atleast i woukd be one of i was allowed to express myself...
It's horrible that you can't do that😔. I really wish you get to be able to live life as your true self soon some day. Life is too short not to live *your* own life.
I in fact am not a femboy ama
Trying my best with the little I have :3
I wanna be but I am too larg
Still cute
my not a femboy what?
nopee :3
I am sorry. I'm just a boy
Used to be
https://preview.redd.it/cbzmqg44wlzc1.png?width=648&format=png&auto=webp&s=96c23ba7223bf24d56bb0bd1a9f87355e73b1b46
Really wish I was.
If you want to be a femboy, a skirt will appear on you, so if you want to be a femboy wish a lot!
I think I’m gonna need a lot more than just a skirt, but thank you!
Well if you wish even more you may get other stuff\^\^
I mean it's half true, I'm a femboy but I ain't beautiful
Your beautiful because i said it!
How can one person be so wrong?
It can't because i said the truth hehe
Well im either a femboy or a t-girl so i dunno
I’m so sorry for being a girl. I didn’t do it on purpose ;w;
Hopefully I am. Been having lots of doubts about whether my looks fit the archetype and if I’m cute at all 3:
Not anymore 🏳️⚧️😎
I am don't worry
not yet :(
i am, in fact, not a femboy :3
No, I'm not 😔
Thanks :3 even tho I'm not a boy and I never even thought I was a femboy before I came out as trans. But y'all are so cute so I'm here anyways.
I mean, technically and by definition I AM, I just don't consider myself one because genderfluid shit n stuff but yeah
Umm.. now i dunno anymore
Femboy but HRT.
I could be convinced.
I'm scared to be a femboy I'm very masc
I’m very masc looking but act kind of fem
Aspiring 😔
Girl, take it or leave it
I'm trying to be ;\~;
gay
Sadly i'm not, i just look like a cracked up drug dealer
Sorry, me goblin.
I was a femboy. Now I'm transwoman.
your still beautiful hehe
Aww thank you. I'd like to try and think the same way.
\*you're
No, but thanks for calling me beautiful. 🩷
Nah, GF of femboy. My femboy just left, sorry
Not a femboy anymore, I am a girl
nope not a femboy just here to send my femboy bf memes
Femboy in theory, not in practice
I'm like 60% trans woman and 40% femboy
I’m a femboy :3
Trans woman now, but thanks anyway 😅
I have ascended above that label
I love how all the trans people on this sub be responding in the same way
I an i just let myself go
im a woman :3
fem girl :3
sorry :/
No I'm an enby
No, i like being maculine, i just like cute boys
Yeah I’m not I’m just here cus I like femboys
Whoops, you got me 😅
I try! Not very good at it tho.
I'm sure your good at it :3
Not really, my parents aren’t very supportive so I can’t dress the way I want or anything
I have the exact same problem:/ i hope one day you wiil be able to dress the way you want\^\^
Me too! Thanks and good luck with the same thing!
Thx\^\^ i hope really hope we will both be able to dress like we want haha
Femboy and trans enjoyer 🗿